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I'd usually say yes but Sarah has a significant issue that needs to addressed and only she can address it. If she's not willing to then it's not safe for her to go. Hopefully maybe it would be a come to Jesus moment for her to get the help she needs.
The first girls are in denial about their role in Sarah's behavior, of course we are all responsible for ourselves but sounds to me like everyone watched how drunk she was getting and decided to leave her alone with more alcohol to facetime their boyfriends. She apologized, but did they? Did they offer up any sympathy at all that she was so blacked out they were considering taking her to the hospital? I know it's hard, especially the older we get, to have to be on alert but truthfully your friend could have died maybe step outside of yourselves for a sec. Also is it possible she's crying and telling you about her mental health for help or some support. Have you talked to her parents? Maybe a sibling? Expressed your concern for her stability? I think the bigger issue is here is that y'all just don't want to be friends with her anymore maybe you have drifted to different paths and maybe her personality is starting to change maybe y'all have changed. If this were my friend, especially one of years, that I wanted to continue being friends with I would not be so callous about her binge drinking lmao. It's okay to not be her friend maybe that is the right answer for you. Drifting from her slowly to punish her and dangling your friendship like a carrot in front of her face is silly and frankly just mean.
Please can we recognise when someone has problems with alcohol, ur friend does not deserve to be judged, she needs help.. wish people would stop normalising this paralytic drinking culture and calling it a limit.. she has a problem and her friends must be there for you
If the girls from the first story read this…first off, if you are ready to lose Sarah as a friend, go ahead and uninvite her. If you truly value her in your life, none of yall would let this happen. She probably feels bad as is for everything that went on in this trip, there’s no need to punish her for it. This is a time where you should uplift her, support and understand where she’s coming from. Also, summer is quite a bit a way, I’m sure she’ll have more than enough time to reel it in a bit with the freshly single situation. She might even have someone by that point anyway. It really just sounds like yall don’t like her and want nothing to do with her. Imagine her sitting back at home clicking through stories watching her friends have the time of their lives on HER birthday trip??? VILE!!
Why are they not speaking to her about it! This is so so nasty and sending a picture of her with a red circle? Nasty girls. And you two should know better than to laugh at that.
Okay I'm listening now. Sarah definitely has a drinking problem. In many situations it doesn't become clear until everyone else has calmed down and quit partying and the other person hasn't stopped because their brain doesn't work that way. Unfortunately if this isn't rock bottom for her then I don't think she's going to be hitting rock bottom any time soon. I personally would rearrange the trip to be somewhere more docile and maybe closer to home. Then rebook Ibiza at a later date at a time she's unable to go.
The first girls dilemma seem like a group of judgy high school girls !! Ur friend obviously needs someone to talk to, she’s NEWLY single she’s obviously going through it talk to her !! Be her friend !! Don’t distance urself from her , LISTEN , she’s clearly hurting poor girl 😢
To the second dilemma (the girl who’s stuck in her situation as her friend is being cheated on and she knows) I know it’s hard but I would do something about it and force the boyfriend into saying something. It’s better you go about it this way and have a more controlled outcome rather than it coming out down the line and you have no control over the fallout and losing people in your life. The energy you put out is the energy you get back - good luck girl 🫶🏻
Loving the new background guys but I am curious as to why you gals are looking for a new podcast room when you guys just did this one ☺️ isn’t that expensive 🥺
Second girl - maybe say to Sarah, look Jill is my close friend now, it’s making me feel sick I’m doing this to her, so I’m giving you some time to sort your shit out or I’m going to have to say something. Also pull Brian aside and make him aware that you know what’s going on, you haven’t told Jill yet because you’re giving him chance to come clean but if he doesn’t do it in like a week or something you’ll tell her yourself. That way you haven’t gone against Sarah by saying anything but you also have given them both the option to sort this out and let him know it’s wrong. If they still don’t do anything then tell Jill. You gave them a warning and they didn’t listen. Hope this helps and so sorry you’re in the middle of this 💔
For the Sarah, Susan, Jill situation I think Susan should definitely talk to her boyfriend and get his perspective since Brian is his best friend. Then I would probably confront Brian either with or without Mike and say hey this is fucked up what you're doing to my two best friends you need to cut and run from both or choose or whatever needs to be done but you're not gonna fuck them both over at the same time, then I would confront Sarah because I've known her longer and be like you know this is wrong, so why are you continuing with the shitty behavior and then if Sarah were to say that she's not gonna talk to her that seems like a Sarah problem not a Susan problem. Because I would think my friends would want me to be honest with them when they're acting stupid. Then I would let Jill know. I was in the middle of this and I apologize for not letting you know sooner, but this was the situation that I was confronted with and I felt it most appropriate to do whatever Susan does and go from there I think as long as you try to mediate and mitigate then you can't really do any wrong whether the situation goes to shit or not because at least you tried, and you weren't just sat there with the knowledge, and were essentially a bystander. I know my punctuation wasn't the best lol but this is how I would handle the situation
Please do not create a shrine for your crush. It is easy to make jokes about, but the spiritual realm is very much real and you can introduce yourself to a lot of dark spirits and energy. Be cautious when making light of stuff like this bc people will take it seriously and act on it.
I love this show but sometimes you guys sound very very congested. Love this show a lot but sometimes I get little grossed out by the image of y’all being congested 🙈😂💀 I don’t know if it’s the accent or the congestion
