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I’d wear the necklace on holiday and wait for it to turn my skin green and then say “oh no babe this shouldn’t be happening with a 50quid necklace where did you get it they must have ripped you off well have to go back to them” and watch him sweat 😭😂
@@sophiarohttrohttsophia5239 at the start when Cinzia talks about the rough night she had the day before - not sure how long it lasts tho but skip a bit
to the girl who is going through a lot of " what ifs ", I was there girlll. I left my three year relationship last October, I really felt like I needed to be alone, travel, meet new people and new things on my own. im just entering my 20s and im so happy I did it when I did. its OK to want to leave a relationship regardless its healthy or not. at the end of the day, life is short & no one deserves to feel how u feel. ive been there, and now im SO happy. I know this is only my situation im talking about but I can empathise with you and understand exactly how you are feeling. it took me a good 6 months to make the decision of leaving him but my heart is happy now and it was needed for the both of us. im sending u love and courage to do what you know is right in your heart. relationships are so hard, and deciding to leave one might even be harder.. its OK to feel lost and confused, day by day and step by step you will always arrive where u need to at the right time
For the gift one I think I'd probably ask him where he got it and tell him that I saw it on tiktok shop for only 4.50, so he got scammed. It would put him in the hard situation of coming up with a place to say he bought from and also show him that he can't just lie about things, because he could get caught!
#1- I wouldn’t say anything either, but if it comes up I’d pull the, “my friend got one just like this on TT shop” 😅 #2- if he goes, end the relationship. It’s respect, nothing to do with money…you’re not ok or comfortable with it, even he knows it looks weird but will still choose to go? No.
The girl bestie situation is so weird, because he admitted that he used to have a crush on her! I think if he wanted to go, just to be supportive, he could've considered his girlfriend's feelings by asking her first, before deciding to actually go (seems like he made the decision, before discussing). Also he could've tried to turn around the situation by asking his girlfriend to go with him to the trip, if possible. I'm assuming she wouldn't be able to go to the ball without an invite(?), but they'd still get to spend time together right after the ball (maybe with the bestie as well, since they know eachother) and the rest of the days there. That would also make it clear to the bestie that he is all in with his girlfriend and not looking for anything else.
i think the quote at the end is from the book "the four agreements" by don miguel ruiz! I think everyone should read it, some great wisdom in there that applies to so many of the situations discussed on the pod :)
the way it’s so obvious that you girls have never had a straight boy best friend is so funny 😭 male and female relationships can be just as important and fulfilling as female ones I promise! and they can be just as important to you :,) I would fly out to see my boy best friend in a heartbeat if he was in another country !! edit : I commented this before I heard the whole dilemma ! but what I said still stands in general hehe 🫶
Absolutely! However the dilemma mentioned that he would not use ever spend money on her to go traveling together. The problem wasn’t him going, but him going when there was a prior history and not an effort to ever treat his gf the same
@@hm-hl8gp yes this is so true !! thanks for commenting! I commented a little prematurely into the dilemma I think, it’s just something I always am probably too eager to point out bc my male best friend and male friends in general mean so much to me :,)
If a straight male and a straight female are best friends then they can’t be sexually attracted to each other at all. If there is the lightest sexual tension or attraction then it won’t work. My boyfriend has a girl best friend and I am okay with it because they have been friend for a long time, they are definitely not attracted to each other and she gives me good vibes. I’ve tried to be friends with straight guys and it never ever works out for me.
I was listening to another pod with submissions and the host was sooo boring!! she read them all monotone lol I couldn’t even follow. made me realize how good of storytellers you guys are, I always get invested in the dilemmas
