What Actually Happens When You Ignore A Woman (YOU DISGUST HER) 

You ignore her she ignores you and life goes on.

Yup. If a woman ain't choosing you, walk away.

The worst simp ever is the person that wastes massive amount of time to find the perfect strategy to catch the woman's interest and the more he fails the more he tries.

A woman who has genuine desire will try to shit test you in many ways, she wants to make sure that you are a strong man and won’t be phased by her bs. That’s why you’re supposed to ignore her. And it does get her more turned on. But you don’t ignore her to specifically get her turned on, you do it to show her you’re a man of self respect and you won’t give in to her BS, which is the type of man she wants anyway. Ignoring her is a response to her behavior, you don’t just randomly ignore her for no reason

I've gotten pretty good at vetting woman who are interested in me. Any woman who doesn't look my way, and at least try to create connection doesn't get a single second of my time. No desire, then I'm not moving forward. Thanks for the content lfa

Pretty simple actually. If she's into you, you're golden. If she's not, you'll waste your time trying to get her attention

We're not here to play games. We are in charge in creating the dynamic of the relationship.

I ignore UNINTENTIONALLY. But, this really attracts Narcissist. Beware!

A woman of value (intelligent, kind, loyal, authentic, loving, solid...inner and outer beauty) wants authenticity without games. Reciprocity. A man who is solid in himself and demonstrates integrity in words and actions....you want a good woman, be a good man....treat her as you'd like to be treated. Its not that hard gentlemen.

I had a phase in my life that i actually did ignore woman. i was frustrated and pissed of at that time because of all the nasty games women put on me... man, woman hitting on me while they have boyfriends, giving me their facebook and such but then ghosting me. In that period i wasn't aware of many things in the dating world. I was just winging it with the things i got (which was not much as a mater of fact ) Anyways, i got into that MGTOW stuff and i actually practiced ignoring people in general. You know, i was a person that walked on the streets wondering what people where thinking about me and i got all up in my head all the time making myself anxious. So ignoring helped me to stay present and focused on Me instead of other people. It's hard to explain but it helped me with my anxiety a lot... i just cared less and less about what others thought of me and it gave me a lot of relief. Of course... Lots of the MGTOW and red pill stuff is putting blame onto woman, which i can definitely understand. But it can become a toxic habit if you expose yourself to it to much. I don't ignore woman anymore. some people will like me some don't and that's just fine.

If she has no genuine desire for you. Dont waste your time.

She wants you ? She behaves accordingly. She doesn't want you enough and genuinely? She plays games. So simple. DONT WASTE TIME. I MADE THIS MISTAKE.

“You disgust me.” -girl at that gym a few years ago.

"A woman has already made up her mind weather or not to have sex with you within the first 15 seconds of checking you out. So if you are over a minute into the conversation and it feels like you are not getting anywhere, you're not!" Paul Elam

Ignoring only works after you tried your shot or had some repoire before hand . Ignoring a perfect stranger wont work !

I ignore her because she got disrespectful. She started showing choosing signals out of nowhere so I approached her and introduced myself. On our 4th meeting, she just got disrespectful and dismissive so I decided I wouldn't give her any of my attention anymore.

Unless you're an attractive dude ignoring is complete loss of time, in an incel, trust me, ignoring has worked 0 times for me lol

If your nothing to her, then she couldn't care less if you ignore her. it's really the attention she wants, she wants to be liked, even feel wanted, that's what the attention is really about, you have to mean something to her to begin with.

There are times when you have to ignore a woman, even if she's into you. Like in situations where she wants too much of your time, or you are determining her self-worth, or when you simply don't feel like giving her attention. We all know women will go overboard and destroy a relationship, especially if you give them everything they think they want. I agree with a lot of the premise in this video, but let's not forget that ignoring a woman serves many purposes....and can also save you from bad circumstances.

Exactly. If she doesn't make it blatantly obvious that she wants to be with me I will not waste my time. She needs to put in effort as well.

Social anxiety get the best of me when I'm around my crush. Other people , no problem.

I remember this girl I was talking to, she had genuine interest in me, and I did what these red pill dating coaches said. That cost me the opportunity of perhaps a genuine relationship.

As long as she’s showing emotions ; the good, bad and ugly. You are golden.

The thing is that giving too much attention indefinitely turn her off even if she had genuine desire.😊

Long distance is a myth so if she isnt closing the gap, pay her no attention.

Yes this doesn't really work, only if the girl already like a guy who ignores her. But speaking of ignoring, what if a girl has continued to disrespect you, use you for free attention, friend zone you, and lie to you? Then the only option i can see is to ignore her. If you don't she will think you are weak and continue the behavior. If you do, the relationship will probably be over but you don't waste any more of your time and energy interacting with the leech. And that is with the added bonus of her realizing you weren't that weak little nice simp she thought you were

If we were all living in a honest world where people knew what they want, i would agree with the content of this video. Unfortunately people are lost, anxious, insecure,deceptive, narcissistic and greedy. This is why you have to protect yourself and ignore many people, especially women. If a woman is attracted by you she's not going to ask if you're engaged in a relationship. They dont give a damn about your partner.

Im ignoring someone now because im DONE with them.. I'm now talking to someone who i like because its reciprocated and we're having a great time doing so! No need to overthink and put on a false front...

Likewise, when women play these same tactics with men (decent men that is, not low value, unprincipled men), she is damaging her chances and relationship with that man.

Agree 100%. If mutual attraction isn't there, why waste time?

Seriously, I've never seen a man who understands women better than you do. When you ignore women, just know gents its giving heavy baddie energy. If you’re going for sassy cross-dresser vibes, just do this & she'll quickly become disenchanted. There's nothing more attractive in a man than a man who doesn't talk a lot, but wants to talk. Having worked in hospitality, I came across men who are technically considered "socially awkward", but could talk. I still found them very pleasant to interact with & attractive over extroverted men. Whats ironic is, extroverted men are the ones who push this narrative. It's like telling a baby who is crawling not to try to walk. EVIL. Also these mansophere dudes tell guys to interact with every woman they come across instead of identifying what type of women they're socially compatible with. So they're trying to achieve something logistically impossible. So no wonder they remain awkward & become a nuisance.

hey king, 42 yrs old single guy from turkey here. just discovered your content and I'd like to say that your words are gold. this is the exact same mind-set that I have been trying to excel for the last 10 years. thank you so much for spreading the wisdom, keep it up.

You’re the only manosphere channel I watch. I literally don’t watch anybody else on this topic. I’m done with “game.” It doesn’t work. If it worked, we wouldn’t even need these channels

"Red Pill isn't a dating strategy, but a marketplace of ideas" That's the best description of Red Pill out there. The only positive is that RP gave me an awareness of female nature, nothing more than that.

If the girl I desire friend-zones me. I got to ignore her... there's no other way

You can’t totally ignore them. But you can’t act totally interested either. There’s a line in the middle.

Ignoring works with some women. I know this because I have Avoidant Personality Disorder (an extreme version of social anxiety). It might be because of the emotional low he described, but it makes some women obsessive and aggressive for you. I didn't do this as a strategy, I do it because I am uncomfortable with closeness.

I agree You ignore a women who respects herself she will ignore you

Don’t ignore your prey. Play with it.

Honestly, ignoring women has worked great for me it seems the less attention I give, the more they give. That being said, I really only ignore/ give less attention to the women that I'm not genuinely interested in or if something happens where I feel the need to pull back for my own sake

I'll ignore a woman if I find there is no connection

Absence diminishes minor passions and enflames great ones. If there is a genuine spark, connection, chemistry between you and a woman and she genuinely likes you and you are for whatever reason pulling back then her desire will only grow. If a woman wants you she will find a way to get you. However, if a woman is anything less than interested then at best she’ll see your withdrawal as potentially intriguing and curious and at worst she’ll simply forget about you and move on (solipsism) this only works if she knows what you will and won’t tolerate. They aren’t mind readers. Meaning if you want this ignoring tactic to potentially work she will need to be aware of her transgressions or at the very least your boundaries and wants. Doing so will show her that you are non needy, have other options, are out come independent, and are not living in a sacristy mindset.

Their should be a balance... make her chase you, but at the same time it's ok to talk or text her first especially if she's into you

I'll tell this as an experience relationship dating man. My woman calls me numerous times. When I'm busy. It happens to me. She asks me to marry her and yet she wants kids out of me. Here's the secret don't chase a woman simple.

I just like ignoring highly attractive women that give signals that they are into me. Just to be spiteful because of how many times i got rejected or used before.. now its my turn

I ignore them and i dont care how it makes them feel. I DONT OWE THEM ONE CENT OF ANYTHING.

Some guys will text a girl they like 10 times a day, and they haven't even had sex yet. Then after 2 weeks of this they are surprised why the mystery/spark is gone. I've met guys like this, and they end up ruining genuine desire real fast. And they keep repeating this mistake. It's easy to forget how bad some guys are with girls. So there is some nuance to this advice I think. Great vid anyway and a good reminder, keep it up LFA.

all women I treated well and gave attention to disrespected me. all women I ignored chased me like a housefly.

I dated a girl long term, the more i spoke to her the more she pulled backed and was rude when I gave her space she was nice and sweet. I never ignored her if she messaged me but i kept conversations short to avoid overtexting. She broke up with me because we ended spending too much time together the last week and over text so she startred to fight over everything.

I disagree here. I didn't realize I was ignoring a woman that liked me, unintentionally, which lead her to develop high interest in me. There were no games and it appeared desire was genuine with us both. All the clues were there as well from the constant physical contact that she initiated constantly from hugs to poking when she was behind me or I wasn't looking her way. Moreover, we were giving each other quite a bit of attention...constanst smiling at each other, lustful smiles. This went on for a while and the attraction was obvious. The minute I showed intent and casually and stress casually let her know that we should get together to hang out (invited her to a nice breakfast spot) she suddenly got nervous while repeating 'yes' to my ask and later that day acted distant almost to the point of ghosting me...or so it seemed. She flaked on the breakfast as things between us were suddenly weird. Keep in mind she initiated contact with me always...showed initial interest...etc... I never asked her why or asked how she was doing as her actions were enough for me. It felt like I had wasted my time so I pulled away and the minute i did her interest resumed as she tried to keep my interest. This was an epiphany for me as I'd suddenly realized all the relationships that didn't work out in my life for the ones where I gave them interest, attention, pursued, tried to do the right thing, be there for them. And the relationships where they would cling to me were the ones where I was reluctant to stay...cared less...didn't give the attention and was less focused on them. i do agree that ignoring as a manipulation tactic is a waste of time, but when your time is wasted and you essentally ignore them when pulling away...it seems to have a profound effect on them with regard to them suddenly reinvesting their interest in you.

Bro I see where you're coming from. But the problem with your theory is that for most men there is no such thing as "real genuine desire, organic love or lust". So you're besically giving advice for the top percentages of men which don't have a problem with women in the first place. Most need to fake it till they make it and are reliant on these strategies.

I ignore women because I am not ready yet for a relationship. I had no clue that this became a "thing" to get women. One of my friend's that is a woman actually really wanted me. I got a text from her; "hey (my name) I was really thinking of you and I really miss you." After like 3 weeks to a month of not texting her or doing things with her... So it was like weird because I had no clue... 🤷🏽‍♂️

You can't ignore someone who doesn't talk to you to begin with

The best advice here is this (11:25): "Don´t move foward unless she has made blatanly obvious that she is into you".

Wow from a woman’s perspective this is a real Man speaking…he’s 💯 speaking facts! I had genuine desire for this guy and he would just ignore me but speak to other women in front of me (who were less attractive) it was a huge turn off, made him seem like a immature kid…what a shame.

no woman has ever desired me

Finally a voice of reason. Well said. Well defined. Well put. Men, listen.

Very true and well said. Appreciate the fantastic video as I used to think wrong as well and turned out wrong in the end. My wife already liked me when we first dated and it gave me the green light to take charge. Genuine connection is better than forced game or toxic connections. God first as well. Time is also like money. Except you can't get it back. That should be a reminder to all men. She finds you unattractive, don't wanna give you the time of day, move on. Life isn't only about dating women. Keep yourself busy on making yourself the man of success and women comes to you. You than decide to see who is truly worthy of being wife material if they bring it into the relationship.

"If a woman doesn't make it blatantly obvious that she wants to be with me, I don't see a reason to move forward." Correct. You express interest, she expresses interest, you have a connection, go forward. She stops, adjust what you expect, do something else.

ATTENTION = AMPLIFIER 💯

Big facts bro , not sure why people think trauma bonding is something to play with , these women will cheat on you , unalive you take you through the courts . It’s a freakin nightmare . Been there only have to hurt me once

This is really accurate but if a woman has genuine desire for you you can do almost anything and she will stick around if you are giving her attention. If you have genuine desire for her you can’t ignore her if you want to get her. If she’s not into you though you must walk away. I’d love you to do a video on how this plays once a relationship goes bad because she loses her desire for you. Do you walk away and never speak to her again? Does this change if you were married or have kids? Once I realized my wife no longer liked me or probably never did, I divorced her and never spoke to her again despite having young kids with her. Very tough to do with someone I liked but no longer could be with. Ultimately we learn that as we age many relationships are transactional and no amount of game can do anything to fix it after it runs it’s course. I would never talk to a woman who does not desire me. If she does though, your advice here is spot on. Well done

I think there is a balance. You definitely don’t wanna be a dick and totally ignore her but u don’t wanna be an open book either. You don’t wanna be there too much for her. There has to be an element of mystery. If u put yourself out there too much she gets bored quickly

Yes ignoring a girl who doesn’t know you exist will not work but if there’s a girl you’ve been dealing with and she’s giving you mixed hot and cold signals then you pull back and ignore her she might come running to you…I’ve had this happen to me in the past, so it’s a contextual thing

I ignore women and it pissed them off. But the reason I ignore them is because of my social anxiety disorder. I eventually come around and tell them that I have this problem but they are never understanding or empathetic, just mean and nasty.

If she want to be with you, she'll show that, she'll never play games, but if she ignores you, you have to ignore her as well. And move on, never chase women , NEVER!!!!!!

If it's not there then you can't make a person desire you. In other words don't waste time, time is to precious.

I don't want to be "good" with a woman who is not good with me. I'm not investing in something that is not mutual.

This is deep. I like how you explain genuine desire. How that energy is like state-transference fuel that gives the woman an emotional high.

The man that tells the truth…

Just.Don't.Bother. They arent worth the investment.

There's no genuine desire in women. I haven't seen it yet. They all seem to have multiple guys on the go. It just seems to be the standard for women.

Too many toxic women nowadays, more toxic women=more toxic men... Ask a feminist what she´s fighting for...

I can confirm. I get a lot of looks from ladies and have ignored a bunch in places I don't really want to mingle, and their body language gets snappy or they dip after they put themselves in front of me once or twice. If you really want them to want you more, you should chat up whoever is infront of you and she will ease drop and notice your presence next time you're around

Just say be a simp 😂😅

I disgust her. Nothing new.

this POV (of the content) is subjective, it depends on everybody's experience (this what i've been through), and yes, when you totally ignore a woman whom has desire to be with you (to have you), she might be walking away and ignore you back. However, when you respond in subtle way to a woman who likes you, such as give her lil smile in any occasions or lil chat (not texting) but you keeping to set boundaries until certain phase, that's what makes you "a challenge" to her,.

i am too old to ignore people, i just say is like it is. most of the time she will understand and move on. ignoring people is childish.

I absolutely agree to the fact that if a woman likes you she will like you more when you pay her attention and if she does not like you you will basically be shunned by her even in a subconscious way it amplifies her feelings for you you are absolutely correct sir I don't think I have heard that narrowed down in such a good way to explain that to men because when you don't pay her no mindand she has made it very obvious and she has tried to express her feelings to you to the point of you getting so upset and she figures out you're playing mind games that is going to be a repellent and she'll never try to go there again because it was so devastating for her

Hey I really love how you bring a new way of thinking in this toxic red pill community. I’ve been watching your videos for some time now and I grew up as a man and have been doing a lot better in relationships. Just be yourself and don’t be toxic you will have more success. God bless man.

He’s right my girlfriend left her husband basically because he was never home and he d always ignore her take days to reply or come back home . she would always talk about how this bothered her and it’s being one of the reasons why she left him

This is the truth. Find the right person for you. Don't try to manipulate the wrong person with games.

I did, at some point in my life, ignore a girl and she ended up chasing me and everything. So it did work but brother, this girl had some serious issues in her head

Never trust a man who speaks to you with sunglasses on.

Best thing I ever did was get baptized and practice semen retention, game changer

The influencers say this because it does work. But not usually on a bit*h or 304, but on a woman who likes you. It is a dark art of manipulation. She cant understand why it's happening and women love to chase a man they have set their sights on, and feel entitled to get him. I didn't use to understand "Aint too proud to beg" by TLC. But I know what you're saying. This is VERY UNLIKELY to work on a woman that was showing no interest, unless youve made her dependent on services you provide, such as money or emotional support. And even then she may simply not care.

No one appreciates to be ignored. We can see it working on Customer Service. Be you, no need to ignore, if that person ignores you, move on. But don't show to the world that you are ignoring what you are looking in live. Not all men and women are playing that game of ignoring others. Educated serious people know their places.

You make more sense than anyone I can remember I've heard with dating advice.

I’m 46 and I quit women 2.5 years ago. Starting at age 15 I never had to approach a girl or woman ever. They always applied themselves to me. But I have been with so many women. It’s just there’s no enjoyment to it anymore. And I know marriage is a horrible idea. But there are far far bigger things to worry about them dating.

15:01 Best part. Attention is an amplifier, it's either they like you or not. Thought I wasn't getting anything, but this bit marks the spot, well said.

Action and reaction. If you ignore someone, that is a non-action and will result in no reaction. When PUAs say that, you know right then that they're clueless. I only ignore when I don't want their attention, such as from married women. It feels cruel, but the possible consequences demand it.

Finally! You totally get it! Someone had to say it. You're a smart man with emotional intelligence. Rare these days.❤

People can say or teach you whatever they like. But everyone is in a different situation. Until you reach that point in your life when women are no longer such a priority or they do not interest you like they used to then you will understand lads

Very good video. All these tricks and tactics of getting a woman into bed, they can work - i had that experience - but its usually not worth it. You get something you dont really want and you stress yourself out doing it.

EPIC time you take to bring absolute profoundness. You make real men, realize the path they were on, was a correct path. Your a champion in your viewpoints. This video was a beauty. Thank You

I was in this situation i dated this girl for a month we went on 2 dates but over that month she was hot and cold basically shit testing me there was a time she didn’t message me for a week but i kept my cool. After the 2nd date she was very cold and awkward she exuded energy that she didn’t want to be there but she had nothing better lined up. So I talked to her the next day but didn’t text her that evening while i was considering how to confront her about her hot and cold behaviour the next morning she messages me and says you dont want to talk to me no more? Needless to say i could of saved her concerns with some bullshit excuse but i just snapped at her and wrote a long ass paragraph telling her i felt used emotionally and not desired etc we stopped talking after that. Some people tell me she was using me for attention others tell me she knew i was genuine and wanted to take her time with me but she was very flirty and promiscious with other men that i knew that was another reason i felt used as an emotional toy.

You are 100% correct. A lot of these Manosphere advisors are only giving advise to create "relationships" destined to fail.

Thank you for the video LFA 🔥🔥❤️❤️👍🏿👍🏿

but how to have genuine desires when they don't acknowledge u in the first place .

You don’t ignore you maintain the fine balance of just enough attention, interest but enough space to give her time to think, a void so she can convince herself you’re the right guy. The opposite shows desperation and kills the mystery/curiosity.