Woman Slowly Realizes That It's HER Fault 

Typically when women discuss men/women relationships there is A LOT of lying by omission.

its much better to educate young women while they are little.... Who should explain them how man view woman... father... oh.. I see

Women don lie , well so they say 😉

Sex and the city

@@cv6176 It will happen

It's more like, good man asks her out and she rejects, she then finds a player, gets mad. Another good man asks her out, she rejects. She then finds another player, gets mad. Now the good men stopped asking her because this has happened long enough to know her type in society. She then finds another player, gets mad. She then complains where are all the good men gone? Meanwhile, the 5% or so female population that actually has a brain/and moral compass are looking at the dating pool train wreck and thinking the same thing as the good men so even the good women suffer because of this cultural rot.

Many women don't necessarily set a goal of "finding a player". They are just usually too inexperienced, and fall for the players' games. That's one of the reason why men with the Tate mindset look for younger women, too. It may take some time for some women to catch on to all the tricks, figure out that players are full of it and should be avoided on the dating scene. If a woman cheats on a good man, though, the blame's entirely on her, I agree here.

​@@Bella.ParabellumWrong. Women intentionally seek out players. Get a grip on reality.

​@Bella.Parabellum complete ignorance. Women know the game by middle school if not younger. Women are more social and that's why we always hear that women mature faster than men, but that ceiling of maturity is far lower for women and they let it go to their head and seek the best mate, problem is they don't know what the best mate is, overlook the average hard working guy and go for the one who seems to provide the most (the players) thinking they can change him despite all of society telling them and showing them what a dumb idea that is. Despite all the warnings, women still throw themselves into hypergamy and idolize the player lifestyle thinking they are the exception while rejecting the overt and obvious objective reality that such a world view leads to only one place. Misery.

@@Okunniger_Volker "Women know the game by middle school if not younger". Haha, yes, the famous five-year-old women who know the game and sexual dynamics 😂😂 Nice one, mate, I can tell you've been around human beings a lot 😂 "We always hear that women mature faster than men, but that ceiling of maturity is far lower for women" - Are you sure about that? 😂 Kind of ironic to read a comment like this from someone who sounds like he reached his own maturity ceiling at about 15. Or are you also a woman, perhaps? 😂 The good news for men is that not all men or women are like that, the eternally adolescent mindset seems to be a modern Western culture thing rather than a gender thing.

They would not have been any better off though by entering into a lifelong marriage with someone they weren't attracted to. They may be badly off now, but they'd ALSO be badly off by doing that. It makes zero sense to spend your life romantically with someone you aren't attracted to.

I don't think he meant those girls who weren't interested in him in the first place. I think he meant those who were interested but then thought they could do better and went to the next guy, not even considering a LTR @@gavinjenkins899

@@gavinjenkins899 Attraction is so subjective though, especially for women. How many stories I've heard of a woman 'becoming' attracted to a guy because of something he did or said, instead of pure physical lust. One single psychological syndrome disproves what you said. Stockholm syndrome. People can become attached to someone that's literally destroyed their life and taken their freedom from them. Only one thing can determine whether attraction is possible, and that's spending time with someone. As spending enough time with someone that's actively hurting you to an extreme degree can result in attraction / dependence. I don't know about other men, but I'll say that hardly any women in my life would even give me the time to see if attraction could be found. The only kind of attraction that can be had without spending any time together is physical lust. Part of why so many relationships end in break-ups / divorce is because they were founded solely on physical attraction. There's so, so, so, so much more to it than that. I'm not saying you're likely to be happy with someone you find completely physically repulsive, but you also shouldn't narrow your options and time down to people that turn you on just by looking at them. That's called being shallow.

@@gavinjenkins899 they could have found him attractive but the problem is they know they can get something "more attractive" and that could be at the cost of whoever they chase not wanting to settle down. So in the end they could have been more then great but they wanted to chase what they think is perfect instead of "settle" which the person they think of perfect does the same thing and doesnt want to "settle" either which keeps the cycle going.

@@MatthiasAI That is a logically plausible universe that could exist, but it doesn't appear to be this one, based on the data from OLD sites and surveys of perceived attractiveness. Most women only rate the top 5-10% of men as even being a 6 or better on a 10 point scale. It's not just "attractive versus super attractive", most men are not seen as attractive AT ALL. Thus, settling is not really reasonable, as it would be miserable to settle for someone you think is ugly (even if they are statistically top 30% or something). There really just is not solution. Humans are screwed by their genetics and biology doomed to be sad, basically.

And odds are you could still easily produce a child. 40 year old women are barren. Even if you were bald (hypothetically), being barren is a million times worse

Even more irony is that even she herself probably hooked up with 40 year old men when she was in her 20s. But now she wants someone her own age.

I'm 38 and single, my hair is fine, people think I'm in my mid to late 20s still. And I'm actually in the best shape I've been since I was 19 or 20. I regularly have women in their early 20s hit on me at work.

@@MrKevin486 I’m in a similar position. The issue isn’t attracting women, it’s attracting ones (or even running into ones) that meet the very basic requirements in what most men want in a serious gf/wife: fit, feminine, cooperative, childless, 20’s (fertility), not a leftist feminist lunatic, no promiscuous past, no wild tattoos/piercings, not in tons of debt/bad with money. Unfortunately if you apply those very basic standards, you’re down to 1-2% of modern women. Slim pickings.

@@Joe-hz1nw Yes same. My criteria isn't that extreme but 99% of women don't even meet that simple criteria anymore. That being said I would never get married anyways, even if I found said woman. The laws are too skewed against men. It's too risky.

That is very immature and childish behavior on her part.

@@stevec3526 It is worldwide, consistent behavior that you can bet your house on: itsjustnotherfault!

Pretzel logic to elude accountability.

If only they used all that 'thinking-power' in a logical manner..... this world would be better place for all of us.

"it's not what you said, but the way you said it!" (only told when caught but not before). this is very close to bully-talk "you should have known I was only joking!" (when I messed up your life). both are top womanese responses when she is faced with responsibility.

Movie lines and philosophy are two different things

​@@whynot1548It's a book quote

@@whynot1548you serious 😂

​@@kapitan19969838 Lmao

Great book. One of the best novels I ever read. I've read a lot of novels.

Humans are not particularly better off if women go back to locking themselves into sexless, unattracted relationships instead of hanging out with cats.

Yea, I was thinking the same thing. He keeps acting like he's messing up the game for men, but all the women 30+ trying to find the "good ones" are like empty houses that's changed hands frequently and now on the market for a long time. Now that I think about it, we ask the same questions too. "Why has it been empty for so long?" If every woman found a man there would be less single men, and (sticking with the metaphor) if every home had family there would be less homeless.

Once Artificial Intelligence sex robots come into the picture, it is all over for the human race.

Do you think it's reasonable though to expect women who aren't Christian to follow the modesty and chastity standards of the church?

​@@technoloverishyes because it works, even the majority in the church don't follow but there are plenty of good examples of women who did and their lives are full of goodness. It dosent take a genius to take a look and realize what works and what doesn't.

@@Okunniger_Volker So are you of the view that women should forced by the government to be modest and all that?

@technoloverish not necessarily but I think modesty laws in regards to media and entertainment that we already had in place should be brought back. The primary reason women are the way they are is because it is promoted by entertainment and made to be popular, that's why we had those laws in the first place.

what laws were in place that dont exist anymore@@Okunniger_Volker

Facts… they’re children.. that’s why modern agendas do everything to give them power for doing anything… because it’s like chaos if they aren’t satisfied. I’m Marriage back then women were like dogs… husbands took care of them. Now it doesn’t make sense… it’s just stupid for a men to get married. But they don’t tell us that!!!! They’re letting men destroy themselves and it’s premeditated. We’re going back time but now they want to switch genders. I don’t think it’s a plan to get revenge on men but society is destroying men… even if it’s not on purpose at least people should discuss it, instead they even bash men more for their misery..!!! Wtf is going on!!!! Now normal men lives is to get through the pain of being lonely and single!!! That’s not a living.. that’s surviving while women are having fun. It’s a matriarchy lol. At least the patriarchy used to make some progress. From now on we will be stuck in a post post modern era… while our brain are getting dumber. It’s so sad

I had roughly the same experience...you are bang on !

You learned the hard way, but atleast you learned, sorry for what you went through, though. I've learned a long time from other men and their circumstances that marriage is not for me, so I'll avoid it like the plague. My girlfriend of 1 year, (since July 30th) brought this up a few months ago, and we had the discussion, and she want to eventually get married, I don't want to. And I don't mind staying with her long term, and taking care of her, because I really do love her, but ever since we had that conversation, this same conviction you got post marriage, keeps coming to me telling me that it's a raw deal and you can't get married, you'll just be shafting yourself, and I just keep playing so many scenarios over in my head, like "what if she leaves because I won't marry her?" Or "what will her and her parents think?" "What if I've wasted her time?" And these thoughts bother me, because she is a lovely girl, but what I've learned is, no matter how lovely a woman is, don't ever hand over all of your power to her, because women are emotionally volatile creatures, and they change, as every man who got married then divorced once believed they found a unicorn, but look at them now. I'll figure it out, I'll get her to understand.

Yep as my ex wife was having a literal tantrum like a child I was thinking "ya know single is starting to sound pretty good" . My mistake is I treated a woman as a rational responsible person with regards to money. They arent. I would never give a woman access to my money again. She expected me to earn as much as she wanted to spend

Brothers, I can relate to all of these anecdotes here. First of all I am really sorry for ya. I KNOW the suffering that men like us all downplay. Secondly, I understand the frustration and difficulties of the behavior we have to endure and it’s gotten to a point where now men really have to be careful because the laws are incredibly one-sided and not in our favor. It doesn’t take much to watch a w h a m e n destroy your life anymore. -Best wishes

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Not only did he put her in her place, but he also got himself a cat. The act of a true ultra gigachad =)))

I totally agree. Also, I think a lot of the sorts of guys that want to settle down spend most of their twenties single (I know I did) and get either get used to it or become bitter and jaded.

@@thomasdee1980 At this point being single in your 20s and 30s while saving up money to go abroad and find yourself a wife 20 years younger is a better choice than trying to fix western society.

100% right! The dating pool is even larger when factoring in men-like me- who are older and got to the age when we don't want children anymore so these older women would still make for a good option as a childless couple-depending on their personality, attitude and ideas. Totally agree that even with their reduced value, they still think the 6ft+, 6-packed ab guy with the 6+figure salary will drop everything for them in a heartbeat. With age, comes wisdom, but not for them.

​@@thomasdee1980yep. Same here. Now I'm in my early 40s. Never married. No kids. I'm still healthy, tall, got my hair, athletically fit, own properties, secure and so on... I'm still invisible to women but I'm ok with it now because they seem to be damaged single mothers anyway. I wanted to meet, fall in love and marry a woman in my 20s but I just wasn't good enough for these girls. So here we all are...

How do you know that they're just going after men? Might some of them also be bi?

Thumbed up, though there are also women who have experienced the bad end of relationships, too, or even being widowed, etc... I've been with a few decent ones as well as some whom I wouldn't personally say were. :D And regarding some situations in which I experienced rejection, I've later come back to reflect on it and have to admit feeling a bit glad that those potential relationships didn't pan out. :)

For real I know the feeling. The grass is always greener on the other side right?

Folks need to discuss the second part of the problem. Are the women going to commit to their husband?

@@eddarby469 no, not really, maybe a minority of them

@@cv6176that’s sooo true , I think about that all the time … I feel like some click on it and watch it , but most don’t when most women need to hear this

But were the men a woman in her 20s could sleep with EVER men she “could have married”, had she only “tried harder” to get a commitment? Doubtful. Very doubtful. So which men do you think women SHOULD be dating? (Men like you guys, right?) Or do you think women should be dating the same men but doing something differently to get a commitment from them? Do you think women should use games and tricks to get a commitment?

What are you saying is a woman's most valuable gift to give?

I second this. Worked security a few years back, and let us tell you: women are more predatory than men, AND their overall behavior is far more dangerous - just more discreet and manipulative. My top 3 advice for men: - Trust your instincts - Learn to stay your ground and say no - YOU decide for yourself what a man is, thinks and does - no-one else

How many girls did you sleep with from bartending

@@bpric13, back in my nightclub days I would get a dozen or so numbers each weekend, but I only had a relationship with two of them at different times. They were both top tier women.

@@citadel9611 working as a bartender or at fast food usually have its benefits of beautiful women to pick from

Expecting women to learn is like expecting pigs to fly.

China has a word for that. 剩女 "Shèngnǚ" it means leftover woman.

Women live in a feminist bubble… they are sociopaths… they have no social awareness… but we believe they have cause they move in female groups where whatever they do is validated by the group. It’s very dangerous but it’s reality. Women leave their whole lives now, with feminine agendas only… then they go out to the real world and they just complain. It kills brain cells to try to talk to them and explain them what feminism has done.. they still think they’re changing the world and they’re like the best possible mindset in all history 😅😅😅.

She herself probably said "yes" many times when she was younger. She's a hag now, so obviously she's looking for a s*cker, and not actual sexual experience.

You are correct my bio have my ducks size and have gotten more matches then if I have a normal bio

​@@kinetics1045lmao

When did Tinder NOT become a hook up app. Older women on their think they'll find a long term relationship there, talk about delusional.

Best Life Lived Experience My Truth These terms should be banned from polite society

Amen brother We age like wine

It just shows that she is very immature for her age which is sad to see but not our responsibility to help her.

I'm a 65 year old male. I became wary of women who are approaching, or who have reached, the age of 30 - about 35 years ago. Everything that I have seen since tells me that you are right.

You’re right on the money. Her committing to you during her prime years when she has the most options is more meaningful than when she’s past her prime and her options have dwindled.

No lies here. Just facts.

Your logic is flawed, just because she will marry young means nothing concerning her faithfulness. My first wife was the preachers daughter and we married when she was 18. Six months after we were married she cheated on me with a guy who was supposed to be my best friend. Her actions of marrying me when she was young said nothing. It was her actions afterwards that proved her loyalty and faithfulness. Deuteronomy:24:1 When a man hath taken a wife, and married her, and it come to pass that she find no favor in his eyes, because he hath found some uncleanness in her: then let him write her a bill of divorcement, and give it in her hand, and send her out of his house. I wasted 18 years of my life because of the lies concerning God and divorce. If God was going to judge and condemn me for divorcing an unfaithful woman and hates divorce as we been taught, why would he instruct a man to kick her unclean ass to the curb? And besides that, In the case of adultery a writing of divorce is not required by God. Unfaithfulness is just one form of uncleanness in God's eyes and the only one that doesn't require a writing of divorce to end the marriage.

@@grounded7362 that’s why I’m not dating someone that is 18, ideally at 24-25 a woman having saved sex for marriage (like I am), has shown she can reject the sexual desires of the flesh (despite the many opportunities as an adult). At 30+ I’d need to know why she waited so long (to get married or want kids) and what her motivations for marriage and kids are, more so than a younger woman. The Bible says “you’ll notice them by their fruits” aside from false/true prophets, this can also apply to Christians. so given the past and present behaviours you can identify how someone would likely behaviour in a future scenario.

Simply as that.. although it’s a gigantic not simple lifetime chaotic problem. 😅

We should go back to fathers having control over their daughters' sexuality, especially if they're already hard wired that way

I think she's biologically wired to think she controls sex. But she's culturally wired by feminism to think men control

I have control over the sexuality of women. Women subconsciously submit to men, and men decide if they want to take them. Sex is a man's will.

@@shadowpathfinder7723 no, you educate your daughter but once she is an adult she is free to eff up her life. We don't live in a society where you can ride herd on someone's decision making process. Women have all the rights we men have, they just continually think they don't and don't have to live by the consequences of their actions. We educate women we raise and hope like hell it sticks. My daughter doesn't do any of this crap. ..she learned about consequences of one's actions ....

​@@Mikael-jt1hk In this case, not so much. She was a nun. She's not anymore. The only man in her life before me was this Jesus guy. She still talks about him and it's not easy being measured against him, but she assures me I do okay. (I understand why you made the assumption you made, so no harm done.) But the reality is that most women of that age are in pretty tough condition, and leftovers is a charitable way of putting it. And it's not the physical part that makes it troubling, although that is tough to take.. It's the propensity for seeing men in her life as disposable or temporary. Women who spend their youth bouncing from relationship to relationship have trouble ever really seeing something with any sense of permanence. Men are better equipped to settle down after playing the field, and whether that's fair or not is irrelevant. It is the way it is, and it needs to be better understood by young women making choices about their futures so they can actually have a happy long term relationship.

Ain't nobody going to measure up to that Jesus guy. At least you came in 2nd and still have her.

30 is almost geriatric pregnancy for today’s world. Fertility clinics are loaded with 27 and older barren women with doctors saying “no idea why…”

That "greater than 50%" chance is only an unconditional probability. Also having children isn't just some random event that happens to a woman like the weather happens to us. A woman, even at 30, has significant agency over whether she gets to have a child or not.

@bpj1805 You've completely missed the point. After 30, nearly 50% of a woman's eggs are gone, by one means or another. The chances of pregnancy taking is already diminished. Around 40, the chances of getting pregnant are extremely small, comparatively, and the chances of complications skyrockets. I think I saw a statistic that, after 40, it's like a 90% chance or something for a complication. The best chance for women to have kids is in their 20s. Statistically speaking. Yes, there are methods to do it now that can somewhat bypass the issues, but that doesn't change facts. A woman's most fertile years are their teens and 20s.

@@dragonmaster1360 What "point" have I "missed"? The fact that after 30 "nearly 50%" of a woman's eggs are gone is irrelevant. What's relevant is the likelihood of her body finding an egg to send off onto the genetic roulette wheel *and* for that egg to successfully fuse with a sperm *and* for that zygote to them implant into the womb wall successfully. It's not a direct causal line from "50% eggs are gone" -> "50% chance of ever having children after 30". No, instead it is you that has "missed the point" that unconditional probabilities don't tell you as much about a particular woman's chances of having a child as conditional probabilities do. I have no idea what you imagine me to have claimed, but it's almost certainly not what I actually did.

​@@bpj1805 Birth later on poses a significant rist not only for the mom but possibly a Life of suffering for the kids + insane tax payer waste in healthcare to provide for a life long handicapped kid. You may call me an ass, but I'm not the monster who ignored those risks.

Same here, I always hated the hook up culture. Good men out there ready for a happy life for a marriage will take a hit, as well as future kids with dysfunctional fathers who are into hook up cultures that can lead to unwanted pregnancy plans that they are willing to abandon their own kids by blood. These kids feeling the abandonment by their own parents are the true victims.

Having kids is corny and pointless though. Why force someone to exist in this messed up world. Life is hard why force someone to exist in this world just so you can have something to distract you for 20+ years?

Welcome to the post marriage world. Modernity has demolished female chastity.

@@YungPhilosopher. Imagine your shock that the ancient world was trillions of times harder to live than in modernity (us). Not that modernity is also not very difficult to live with, but still the ancestors wanted to keep creating new generations in the hope of surviving longer as a species. We cannot go with this view that everyone should stop reproducing because the world is hard. If not, there would be no humanity. There would also be no advancement in any area without suffering and hardship, ironic as that sounds, in a "perfect" and easy world as you want it to be. We must be strong and deal with the problems - even if literally no one asked to be born into this unfair world - as best we can and come together to make it better enough. Don't let this world's injustice, suffering and conflict destroy your soul/mental health. Be strong, resilient and happy.

It is unbelievably prevalent here in NZ. While I am single myself, many Kiwi men look elsewhere.

@@YungPhilosopher Life is a gift. Intercourse does not always result in pregnancy. There are some people that try to force it through IVF but that is contrary to the dignity of the human person. A child isn't for the entertainment of the parents. A child is a gift unto themself and it is a grave responsibility of the parents to raise that child with love. Indeed this world is quite messed up. You can either let it overwhelm you, or you can be a model of love to/for others. The choice in this adventure is yours and it's a daily choice.

I know this is a bit off-topic, but if you don't mind saying, as a Christian person, do you agree with the idea that it's good for men to bed lots of women who he isn't married to? Alexander, in other videos, has said that guys should do that, or at least that it's not a particularly bad thing

@@technoloverish I'll be honest with you and say that I haven't read the whole Bible to have a more educated answer on this, but from what I know, the Bible usually reserves sex for marriage. So, I guess it's not a good idea for a guy to be sleeping around just as much as it's not a good idea for women to be sleeping around.

@@technoloverish As also a Christian - no, it's not good for guys to have sex with as many women as possible. By being a promiscous man, you will become a slave to your lust, to your natural drives, to your sin, and no one can be both a servant to God and to a sin. "No one can serve two masters. Either you will hate the one and love the other, or you will be devoted to the one and despise the other" - Matthew 6:24 It also destroys the way how you are starting to looking at women - as a sexual object, not a real people. Of course that being said, you should still learn about how woman's mind works from channel like Alexander's and you don't have to like all women or force yourself to enter into a marriage with them - just don't hate them and have some basic respect because - after all - they are also a God's children, just like us, men. Some people just aren't made for marriage and it's normal. "The disciples said to him, “If this is the situation between a husband and wife, it is better not to marry.” Jesus replied, “Not everyone can accept this word, but only those to whom it has been given. For there are eunuchs who were born that way, and there are eunuchs who have been made eunuchs by others-and there are those who choose to live like eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. The one who can accept this should accept it.”" - Matthew 19:10-12

The Bible is contradictory on the topic (as it is with most topics). On one hand, it says to go forth and multiply. On others, it says it's better to be and stay chaste. Take your pick.

@LiberPater777 it's not that black and white though. If I'm not mistaken, either Paul or Peter wrote about staying chastised. It was under the condition that if you couldn't meet the conditions of finding a partner, or that if you'd perceive a partner as a distraction in your grind (doing the Lord's work), then stay single. But sex was always reserved for marriage. That's why Paul/Peter advises chastity when single. You can go forth and multiply so long as it's within the confines of marriage. It's even easier to multiply if you have more than one wife...

Granted: I don’t always agree with everything and am not “trad” by any means, there is still a lot more that I think humanity can learn from being willing to accept and acknowledge the mindset of others and respect or disdain those differences. At very least gaining understanding and choosing your path deliberately with knowledge of the consequences is something I wish more people had the courage to face. (And a lesson I learned luckily with some help at a younger age)

​@@morcantstephens7862So are you modern woman?

@@SNT412 Not really. I am technically pagan (which often excludes you from trad status) and don’t know for sure if I want my own kids. But I know I do want to foster. 😊

​@@morcantstephens7862Oh, this is new for me. What is the difference between You (Pagan), modern women, and traditional woman? Thank you for your answer

@@SNT412 it depends from person to person I guess? I would suppose a big thing that stems from my pagan faith is a bit less of the same expectations of gender roles but also a deep respect for the roles of different gender roles in society and in nature. I also tend to treat relationships and the like as having an inherent spiritual depth to them that intertwines in a very primal level. So I don’t see sexual relationships that others have as bad persay, but still something that has magnitude and weight. Like personally: I never have intimate relationships with someone I couldn’t see myself raising a child with. Edit: I would say it differs from traditional in less emphasis on childrearing and Abrahamic roles and more on mutual respect and the mutual dynamic of individuals in society at the whole. (Which includes things like couples which help the community vs kids, priests, etc;) And from “modern women” in seeing a deeper meaning in sexual dynamics.

You think she is going to treat you better than she treats her family?

@@Kyle-sr6jm did you even read my post

It’s true both ways because women will put up more defenses the more they are damaged and likely the good guy will get that resistance. But you are right, the men she wanted back in her prime don’t want her leftover azz.

Alex may have felt sorry for her but I bloody well didnt. Had a good laugh at the old bag. She should have taken up the offer because they'll be running out fast. In fact I dont feel sorry for any of these women, they made hay when it was good now they want a shoulder to cry on because the make-up dont cut it no more. HA HA HA!

Understand that they want Chad's genetics and you won't get upset about it. Just woman nature at turbo mode with ideology and technology but that's just their nature really.

30 is too late to suddenly realise 'you are my only one' - maybe 22 is the age for that.

Good man. Desperate, these women may say anything to get a man given all their girlfriends bailed on them after securing one to take to the cleaners.

Looks like women ARE usually able to find another man easily, then. “Even” after (the “ripe old age” of) 30! (Which some men around here seem to be confusing with 40, or pretending to.)

Oh absolutely. And they hate the men they get. That is why 80-90% of women are the ones filing. It must be a bitter pill to "settle"@@terry9238

@@terry9238 Well what happens is they run down the list of "prospects" in their phone that they have history with and can convince to settle down with them faster. Then depending on how far down the list they went is how little they respect the actual relationship or whether the end game is to wait for the guy to have significant financial assets before divorcing them and repeating the game. Some women legitimately fall in love with their "prospect" over time realizing they made a mistake when they were young and having someone whos responsible and financially stable is objectively more "attractive" than having six pack abs and syphilis. Problem is most men with history with a particular woman know why the relationship didnt work and cant be tricked into making the same mistake again so the really toxic women end up getting older and more bitter until they become some radical feminist cat lady/man hater. I have some personal experience with this that I wont get into but in general its the younger women come to this "realization" the more likely they are to find an actual relationship and have a family.

Well, most factional facts I’ve heard this year. 🤷‍♂️

Sounds good. How about 2 colonies on mars. One operated by men, one for femalez. Lol.

Women eat propaganda up like hotcakes, we just need to change the subject matter to change the way they feel. How is that for logic?

@@tommiller7177 That female colony will last less than a week and we all know it!

They don’t want them either

indeed, i used to be like, _"BOOOBAAA, SEEEEEEEEEEGGGGH-"_ and here I am with my flat GF. Eventhough she is flat, I like her so much, idk why. _Eventhough she is flat!_

@@linnen_elm what the hell does that have to do with what I said?

@@kristoferpearson1537 Ya, I agree with you. Some women are beautiful despite everything, whether it's old age or boobs, as long as they have a good morality and act with proper respect to everyone I think they are beautiful just like what you said no matter what comes to their life.

You're getting carried away - beauty for women is linked to their youth and fecundity, the word you're looking for is attractive. Some old women can be attractive for their sharp mind and other stuff, but never beauty!

Live with your delusions...

I admit I'm indeed very insecure when it comes to insufferable women... I never know if I should take her serious or not, if I should help her or not or if I should respect her or not. Best to allow her her peace and not annoy her with my existence.

@@ibubezi7685 hahaha.....the dilemma!

​​@@ibubezi7685@racecruiser both sounds like a melody! 😂

@@ahnla38 Haha, yes! Just needs a tune 😅

She apparently thinks that it's a relationship app, not a dating app.

I refuse to believe that women think the men on dating apps want anything more than sex. This is a broad and well known fact, it's the issue all dating apps have and each dating app as a expiration date. Maybe when they first became a thing that date was longer, but now a new app comes out and everyone flocks to it from the old one looking for new, fertile grounds. Many of these people are on multiple dating apps and are localized to some degree. So what's the point? You have better luck irl. So then they took to home depot and got a small dose of reality. Then back to the bars and it still didn't work. It's almost as if the men you want to be with aren't throwing themselves into the proverbial gutters of society. They will never learn.

I read a comment once that kind of made sense as to why some men open up a message like that or send a dick pick as the first message. The reason was: "if you don't like getting a dick pick then you're not the right audience, so there's no point in him wasting weeks on messaging her just to end up nowhere". Which makes sense. That particular guy is looking for sex fast, short term relationship. At least he stated his intentions clearly right from the start :P

He obviously does not want to 'just go for a coffee'.

Right? Imagine voluntarily going to a meat market and being upset that you're at a meat market.

Sounds like she's in big time denial. Terrified of the reality that she's not 25 anymore

MEEOW...

She did him a favour.

Her Oxytocin is diminished and she can no longer form bonds, trust or love. She thinks there's a man that she will one day love, trust and bond with, but what she can't accept (even if she's beaten over the head with the data) is the fact that, now that she's screwed away her value as a woman and completely ruined her ability to pair bond, no matter how good a man is, she will never be happy with him and will blame him for her unhappiness. Sad to say, but not even Jesus would be good enough for a woman with no Oxytocin and she'd still feel justified blaming him.

Why would you setup your college friend with such a woman?

As an alternative perspective, I'm married, 53 and have 4 kids. My experience is that married life isn't that great. It's pretty much a heavy slog, but then again my wife is a lazy bum. There is a reason why not many married men recommend marriage.

@@neohermitist I feel for you. =/

I may be separated, but we are coparents and are great friends and work together so our daughter can have a family. It is a great feeling.

Because they got blown out by 50 to 100 gross men who defiled them in the most foul inhumane torturous ways.

@@GT6SuzukaTimeTrials at their own demands.

Busted...

I've been noticing it too a lot, there's the wanna be boss babe who didn't make the cut. She's still working. Hard. There's a look. Or the chicks on OF, you can spot them when they're out and about. For one thing they look like skanks. Or maybe it's my imagination working overtime, but, I don't think so. I used to just breeze through, is this woman attractive? Is this man dangerous? I take in more info now.

women generally age way more rapidly than men. Especially if they have lighter skin. Its just an unfair game for women with it comes to looking youthful. Alot probably has to do what their bodies go thru every month hormonally. The last time I went on a date with a girl my age, I kept getting stares all night. I think most people thought that she was a cougar or I was dating somone 15 years older lol

Bet you've got a TON of trust issues.

@@williamclayton9566 I've been divorced since 2007. I several have women in my life and still other interested in getting involved with me but putting a ring on any of them isn't in my plans.

​@@treygleason657Hook up culture damaged you as much as the females.

HI Can you give a few advices how to be more chad?

@@immortal_i Part of it is genetics. The rest of us have to (or at least should) work on bettering ourselves, having a purpose and working on it and other goals we may set, and being open to possibilities that may come. IMO work on yourself -- make priorities out of working on your future, your health, (for me hobbies is also important) and being economically stable in addition to treating others around you the same way you would wish to be treated. If you do those things, even if you end up without a partner, you will likely be happy. If you don't do those things, you may end up with a partner but won't be very fulfilled IMO.

90 percent of men are invisible to them until the wall and 50 percent after that

So true. I think that 95% of men go to the grave not understanding women. Boys should be taught how to study girls as if studying zoology.

Finding one is easy; keeping one is rare. Pre nups and Blind trust are necessary for men

@@phoenixrisin2269 Rare, but still easy. It's not hard for a woman to please her husband. She just chooses not to.

Finding a man is easy, finding a good man not that much

@@AnnaAnna2549 Finding a good man that is tall, handsome, muscular and wealthy is hard. Finding a good man is even harder: You have to dump the 300 items on your wishlist and 'settle' for a good man, and most women don't even want to think about that

@@sjonnieplayfull5859 the question is what is your definition of “good”. I find it not easy to find a guy that I will feel attracted to and who is a man of God with good morals. My experience is that the moment I tell a guy that I’m a catholic and I want to live accordingly to the rules - guy disappears. To me it’s ok, because it is a natural way of getting rid of men who are not for me, but naturally it can be a bit frustrating after some time. So yes, it is difficult 🤷🏼‍♀️ and regarding settling for less - I can’t imagine being with someone that I’m not attracted to, or with someone that I don’t find intelligent or who has totally different values than I have.. I prefer to stay single than be with incorrect person. It is not easy as I want to have a husband and family, but I think being with wrong person is worse than being alone. I’m from Poland and theoretically there are more traditional and catholic people than for example in US but realistically - young people in big cities mostly are not like that anymore unfortunately

That is a great way of putting it. To me, I turn my head at a pretty girl, but the one I felt real attraction towards? Had a good bubbly friendly personality. They are the ones I'd connect with. Once they score up loads of negative energy (which I have also accrued over the years, I just repress them now.) And openly show it. It turns men away usually for good. Noone cares what you look like after you dated for a while: the wrapper of the chocolate is discarded. Its whats inside the sweet treat that is their personality and compatability is what your after.

Very profound. Nice comment. Thanks for sharing. :)

Yeah really well written and thoughtful... Thanks

They don’t care

43 and my daughters 2.5 years old. Traveled for work over 10 years and love watching my daughter grow, my wife just turned 40 and also had had a 9 year old, I wanted more kids but she said no lol

I did it young. Engaged at 19, married at 20. I’m a woman and then had my /our children at 25 and 27. Divorced at 41. There are no guarantees. If you don’t marry the right one and then work like hell at it, it won’t matter. True that it’s not good as a woman to run through a bunch of men and end up with a high body count but marrying the wrong one and staying married for over 20 years isn’t the answer either. I’m now 65 and I’ve stayed single since my divorce at 41. The simple fact is that yes I’ve aged out but it’s much more peaceful and way easier to live alone. My children are grown of course and I have 4 grandchildren.

@@dream_on_sammi You never explained the reason for the divorce??

How could you even afford to raise kids that young? It's not possible today. Jobs suck, wages suck, college is a trap.

@@normalguycap anything is possible if you are a doer . Kids don't actually cost that much.

Should be read by all young men before marriage and having children

Those aren't average women. These are women with high body counts. All that self induced trauma makes them start to despise men, so they know the only genuine love they can get is from a child that has no choice but to depend on and love them

@@camelio10 I never really thought about it that way. I do have to say you nailed it. Instead of reflecting on their life (high body count), they simply hate men. They are there to be taken advantage of. Curious what happens to their boys, who become men. Do these women then hate them, inflicting more damage.

After the children are born, the man loves his children, and then when she dumps him, he faces the trauma of hardly or never seeing his children again. Very common.

I think this is what my mom did to my dad, which resulted in him cheating on her, which then resulted in him leaving and making two more kids with the woman he'd cheated on her with. Dad and his sub-5 woman are still together 38 years later, though never married, and my mom is still single, angry, bitter, and have turned quite neurotic.

They know they dont… they don’t want average guys

​@MrTchupam I mean guys period.

@@MrTchupamThey don't even register average guys, so they believe the 9s they see are average.

Average, in the sense, is not in reference to physical appearance, but behavior. Just because a man has an average appearance, doesn't mean his behaviors and activities are also average.@@TonyRule

Me too, but reversed. We married when I was 19.

The thing is they actually believe that looool… then you ask them why they di it and they answer: cause men are pigs (like they can do what men’s do as well) and they’re empowered. Then they feel sad and used… but they don’t stop doing it cause they make themselves believe men are the problem… simple🤷‍♂️. Doesn’t make any sense but it’s the logic they follow. They’re slaves of their hedonism… they’re aware that they’re sad but instead of stop and change, nope, they fck more guys cause it gives them more days of joy to forget the sadness of what they’re doing. Then they just continue the cycle 🤷‍♂️. Attention and sex are keeping them active in this. They’re sex slaves basically.

It only benefits the top 5-10% of men and even among those men - it truly only benefits men who don't even want a committed relationship. Because if a top 5% man enters a relationship with a high notch count woman, she'll never remain faithful as her pair bonding ability is busted.

That still wouldn't change things because they are having too much fun doing it. BTW, that would just make them want to hook up even more, for they would then pretend to be involved in the hook-up culture so that they could eventually change men by taking control.

Hook up culture does only benefit men. But not all men! Just the top 10% most desired by women. Everyone else is harmed. Overall, the entire sexual revolution has been a disaster for everyone and all of society.

Obviously not the men would have to 'mansplain' it to them, as they don't listen to us 😅

Yeah 30 is old for a woman because she has less fertile years remaining than she had, and the quality of those remaining fertile years are much lower. If you're a guy that's become established its an absolute waste to select an older woman because she's going to give you a lower ROI with beauty and fertility.

I thought anything over 30 was considered a geriatric pregnancy

The real drop off begins at 32. Then plummets at 37.

Yes, women need to stop listening to women born after 1945 and instead listen to women born in all earlier generations who warned women about being left on the shelf if not married by their late 20's

Too true! The odds of a child being born with down syndrome increases from 1 in 1300 in the early 20s to 1 in 200 @ 30+. Chance of becoming pregnant during any given fertile period drops to 10% after 30. The divorce/asset argument is a moot point. Either get a prenup or have a common law marriage where the government has no say. Simples.

Doubt it

@@bobleglob162 Depends on the pics

@@bobleglob162Why? Coz you've never gotten a single match on Tinder? 😂

I don't see any wrongs with the video. You simply state that you date older women than you (and it's OK) and you're not interested in starting a family with them, neither are they so to speak. Thus, you end up hanging around and having sex.

Yeah i can relate to what you said, the part with bitterness too...

Yeah I also seem to be maturing backwards. As a fresh-faced teenager just out of school I just wanted a wife, 2.4 children and a picket fence. I reckon by the time I'm 60 I'll just want meaningless one-night stands and nothing else.

@@bpj1805 Yes, interesting isn't it - most young men actually want the marriage and women don't (not while they can have fun). And for a long time we were told it was the other way around, whereas really the male stereotype Chad is just based on a minority psychotic men.

I remember shortly after being out of high school, staying a month or so with my older brother and seeing him be able to effortlessly hook up with a different girl, often very pretty, nearly every night. I had never even hooked up with anyone until years later, and that bothered me some at the time and even experienced some intermittent depression for a while. However, I really don't think at this point after the years gone by that all those hookups he was able to experience mean a single thing to him now, and I don't think the lack of hookups for myself mean anything to me, either, other than I was able to avoid various possible compilcations. If I have any advice it would be that a man working on himself, his own purpose, and learning to be happy without relying on someone else is a far better goal to set and begin working on at a young age (though better late than never, as well).

They are nothing like they were. Different species

Prenup and/or common law marriage. It's really simple. It's also not difficult to appraise what a good woman is. Chaste, submissive, supportive, nurturing, creative and kind. If she doesn't have those qualities, she belongs to the streets.

its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back

@@DavidVelasquez9 Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

@@DailamiPuang Her name is *Victoria Lee hess*, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

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Don't do that. Seriously. I know it hurts, but she doesn't respect you. As long as she doesn't respect you, she won't ever treat you with anything but contempt. Even if you got her back, it will end in heartbreak for you. Get back on your game and work on building yourself up. Stop focusing on something that won't work out for you and start putting your energy into making you something. Set goals and work relentlessly on achieving them. Put in Kobe Bryant level of effort and you will get something far better.

28 is fine honestly, it's like 35 where you really need to worry.

I married at that age, had our first kid when she was 35, Second at 38. It works but is high risk, we had two emergency C-sections, second child nearly died but is healthy. Some friends don’t even get that far, give up after countless still births and unsuccessful fertility treatments. If you want to have kids start early, underestimated that for sure.

@@KidArkxThen you marry a post 28 y/o … 🤔

Based on this dim comment it would be Better for the world if you made no kids with anyone at all.

@@maxwellanderson007 Does the Quran teach that it's haram for men to marry women how are older than 25? Is it somehow a sin?

lol!....."invisible to you". This is some real manosphere cope.

Why, does getting older make you more attractive?

@@channel1_channel Exactly!

​@@mfb4552 no you got it all wrong, after 35 you just become indifference to women, its true, woman become invisible to you, this how this matrix works, not all woman just the old ones 30 years old's and up, the younger versions will be all ways visible to us, this is nature😉

@@channel1_channel Not really. I might quibble about the age but we do gradually gain freedom from the lash of testosterone as we age and at the same time we have, if we have worked on it, started to acquire more resources. So life can become quite comfortable in middle age once you have paid the price for entry. Sadly, with how women have in general become in the past two generations, they have definitely become less attractive on the inside even as, through the rise of the cosmetics industry and fashion, they have become more beautiful on the outside. So I might not say they become invisible to men but certainly 'getting some' is not the judgement-quelling drive it once was. I was lucky in that I seem to have been one of the very fortunate men who married a woman who truly loved me and not herself or my wallet. But cancer came for her relatively young and she had me promise I would find someone else and not spend the rest of my life alone. I have but it has to be said the 'market' full of feminist Career Women and Multiple-Event Divorcees is not a pleasant one and, having settled down again, I can safely say I will never look again no matter what.