Thank you. My husband left me after 19 yrs of marriage bc he started cheating on me. For the past few months I have been trying to figure out what I did wrong. You saying this gives me peace and reaffirmation to just let go of the “why”.
What if your Ex is in a rebound (1 week after break-up) , is clearly miserable in her new relationship and keeps coming back despite wanting to stay friends? Keeps coming back as in sharing intimate info of her life , asking some of mine and texting me thing that are innapropriate? I legit try to be indifferent and in no-contact but this has been going on for MONTHS.
What if you found out 4.5 months later they jumped into a relationship 2-3 weeks after a breakup after them thinking that you were with someone else (she thought I had a gf after the breakup) when I never did. When I broke no contact she was like “good” when I told her I’m not dating anyone and said we could be friends. Crazy/funny situation lol
But what if they actually seem to be happy with her? He’s been with 3 Girls in a year or has some sort of relatonship with 3 girls in a year including me and I’m scared he’ll move on really fast once we split. Does it ever catch up to him? Or is it just continuous girl after girl? And someone new makes him happy or happier. Does this behavior have consequences? Bc then why don’t I do it too?
Why would an ex get so angry at you and act like a child when you finally had enough and left? After 4 years of trying to be with them and wanting them to try? He’s gotten into a rebound relationship probably cuz he’s hurt but he knows all I wanted was for us to be together and for him to try but is acting so mad that I left? It makes no sense
Thank you for sharing your thoughts on that. It also could be that they already were conditioning the new supplier while still in a relationship with me and once he decided to discard me the new supplier for the narcissistic ex-boyfriend moved right in so they were already romantically involved.
Thanks for sharing your perspective. It's possible that while you were still in a relationship, they were already building a connection with the new supplier. When they decided to end things with you, it might have been a smooth transition for them to move on to the new person, especially if they were already romantically involved.
Or they just continue with their lifes and are really good at forgetting or It could mean that they are not in pain (or at least no more in pain) and then one can start a relationship again *quick. There are no rules for how long should a person wait to get in another relationship after a breakup!
