What I Taught My Daughters: Diving Into Dating || STEVE HARVEY 

Please do a show like this where you are surrounded by men and you teach men how to act with women it is so needed

Ladies: if a guy is keeping you in the dark & keeping you confused of what you are to him. 1. Never have sex. He wants to be friends be platonic nothing else. Give him what he offers nothing more. 2. Date other men & start dissing his invites to go out. Make sure he knows you are going out on a date with someone else. 3. Never limit your dating to one Man. The only time you take yourself out of the market is if he clearly tells you he is going to first. A man who is serious about you will tell you exactly what he wants. If a man is treating you like a friend be like just a brother & never grow your feelings for him. Be distant & decrease your time with him. Spend your time with a man who wants you. If a man wants you he will make plans with you & will include you in his future. It's easy to know this if you don't live in denial. As long as you open your eyes & mind of knowing you deserve better. These players will never get a chance to play at all. You are not a playground. Don't let anyone play on your turf for free.

My husband waited more than a year before he got the cookie😊27 years later he still has the cookie 😋

Card, chocolates, and flowers gets old after awhile it all depends on if he's willing to go beyond that and be the man you need in your life. Jordana hurt my heart when she asked "what did she do for him not to commit'. NEVER blame yourself because a guy doesn't want to commit to you. It's their loss and there is someone out there that is willing to commit to you. Unless said otherwise it will never be your fault why a guy won't commit.

There's nothing as more beautiful and wonderful than waiting for marriage and exploring each other together! Dating is a period "to gather data" not "body exploring" of the other person

"What did i do wrong?" Don't blame yourself, dude :/

I'd watch a whole hour of real world advice from Steve. But not just for young women. It seems that dating is nothing like it used to be 20-30 years ago.

I always said that. I will never tell a man what I want because they will do just that to get me .

1st off don't EVER give him your cookies while dating if your goal is marriage. Dating is just a trial stage to see if he's the one. You'll usually find out in the first couple of weeks when you find out what he values and how he speaks & treats you. The cookies is for the husband who value you as a wife in marriage.

I want to see more videos of this segment!

You did absolutely nothing wrong with you sweetie. Not many young men are committing between ages 19-25

More shows like this please uncle Steve..ur the manx

You got Ladies out here who dont wait for 90 days either....just saying🤷‍♀️

I love Steve Harvey and his style of advice, he's like the uncle/father I never had. Say what you want but I love a man who's made mistakes in the past but has grown/learned from his mistakes and evolved into an honorable man. In my opinion, Steve is that man. I'm so over people talking about what happened with him and his second wife, Mary. In reality, the only people who truly know what really happened are Steve and Mary. I've been married before and I can say from experience, in most cases, it takes two people to destroy a marriage. Steve's show willl be missed

Really good advice for women who never had father figures in their lives.❤️ Thanks Steve!

*I want a man who is considerate, chivalrous, timely, a gentleman, looking to put his woman 1st* Love you Steve! Thank you for the life saving advice 🙏🏼😌

Steve Harvey is what happens to a player after he has daughters, falls in love with them and is consumed by the need to protect and guide them.

Women spend so much time worrying about men. Women spend your time making the best you. Men get realistic and get some sense so we don’t have to play these games.

As ladies, we're blessed to have Uncle Steve advising us!

Wait till you are married. That's the problem, sometimes us women perform wife duties and the men will never marry us.

For the young girl that’s 19 and never been in a relationship, my advice would be to give it a shot if she finds a nice man that treats her well and that she likes. She’ll learn a lot just from experience. For the second girl. I agree with Steve. Can’t force them to commit but you let them know what you need. If they can’t meet those expectations they aren’t the one for you. Don’t give up anything until they’ve met your standards.

"I've never been in a relationship before" and then the age flashes 19 I'm like GTFOH u are still a baby relax

God I would be listening to Steve for hours!!! ☺️☺️☺️

Wait until marriage.... 90 day nothing. Steve, have these woman get to know themselves first and be okay with being alone & then tell them to wait till marriage for sex... that’s the RIGHT way.

If I saw all these golden advices 6 years ago, my life would be in a different track!!

Young ladies!! Listen to Steve's advice. xo

How sad this girl thinks she did something wrong. Well, she didn't demand enough of him. Men don't commit to easy.

TIP: If anyone is confused I can give you a little insight on what Steve meant by '90 days' and it's not only about sex it's actually figuring out is this the man for you or not. Some women go out on many dates with a man for 90 days and live in the honey moon phase, give it up to him, then he leaves. Ask the right questions and see if he's consistent because an actor can play the same character for only so long and eventually they'll get tired and break out of it. From my experience, there was a guy who claimed he wanted to get to know me as more than friends work, towards a relationship but within those 2 weeks and me asking a lot of questions... by the first week he was already canceled but I kept questioning my intuition. Ask important questions besides favorite color, dinner spot, and materialistic topics and get to the point. He's not going to bring up any topics around that category unless you bring it up first especially if his motive while pursuing you is just for the sex and then leave. Don't spend more than 2 weeks sitting down waiting on a man to tell what his intentions are for you. It doesn't take long for these guys out here to know their plans that are laid out for the both of you whether it's good or bad. Know what you want or he'll figure it out for you.

Thanks you Steve for talking to these young ladies, wish I had this talk when I was younger

Steve almost slipped and said "wtf is boo?" LOL

Man: What do you like? Steve: They looking for a key, road map to your heart Me: Careful, they might use whatever you desire to manipulate you.

We are the most valuable thing in the relationship. We have to demand the best, nothing less! Don't settle.

What's good for the goose is good for the gander. So when a woman asks a man similar questions he should give short evasive answers. That's a great way for women and men to not get to know each other.

I'm 18 and never been in a relationship and I feel like at this age I should be , I guess it's something to do with peer pressure

Forget the 90 day” rule, tell him straight up day one, you date to marry. If he feel the same he should ask you in two months for your hand. I know 20 years now happy

I love you Steve Harvey ! You're the best ! Thats the best advice a father can give his daughter.

Thankyou Uncle Steve! Wish I had this advice when I was their age!

yes he is so right.

Flipped the switch from dr phil and now steve

A gentleman, chivalry, timely, and considerate, should be something all men do already. Unfortunately at some point fathers stopped teaching these lessons to their sons.

Wait till marriage not no 90 days he need to give better advice waiting till marriage is the best advice n way to go! They are still young they need to focus on their careers. The right guy will come In DUE time God knows best

I'm glad there's steve harvey in this world, I sincerely thank God.

Steve is a real man. A lot of these “men”today were just not taught how to be a man. So sadly this advice is lost on them.

Are they seriously ending this show....God ,no!!!where are we gonna get this wisdom,right here...Steve is an international father...I'm from Africa and I can relate to these ladies ,man😢😢😢..

Steve is the sweetest guy

Love how Steve Harvey keeps it 100.😍

They are too young for a relationship. Focus on your career and education, and wait until later when you're older. Most men are not worth your time vice versa. And yes, I'm speaking from experience.

Hey y'all women better be listening Steve dropping jewels

Good job uncle Steve have learned alot from u now i found the perfect man because of u.

I want to watch full episod , pls someone send me a link

I remember when I told an old flame who wanted to see if there was a spark what I needed that I needed clarity .. that I needed to know where this is headed .. I guess we were headed in different directions .. and I’m more than happy

Steve Stttttttteeeeeeeeeeevvvvvveeeeeee, my GodFather lord thank you for this man! 🤗😍😘🇯🇲 Steve this platform needs you. I NEED IT

Now this is the age where asking these questions matter. This young lady will be fine. She is young and wants to know. I see people saying she is too young but your youth is where you are more apt to learn and be receptive. This conversation is much more meaningful with a 19 year old than a 40 year old

Love this 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Good morning to you sir. Am James by name from Nigeria I love watching ur show boss and you're really really making me happy may God continue to bless you and ur family 🙏🙏

To be completely honest... I have never had a dad... but here is the difference between me not having a dad and someone else not having a dad. My dad is physically here but not mentally and physically I just mean at home. Not at my school not any social events nothing. He doesn’t care... I have my mother she is the best women in the world in my heart, but sometimes I feel like I am missing a piece. But my point is Steve Harvey is the only “father figure” I have and whenever I need some fatherly advice, Steve has a video somewhere on RU-vid. I really do appreciate him. I wish one day I can meet him and talk one on one with him. Biggest dream coming true

This sounds like a good topic for a show. These young women need to learn to take control of relationships and get men to commit.

Yes 👏 👏 👏, Steve this was amazing.

I'd advise these women to stop worrying and just have fun. I think a lot of women are so wrapped up in having the title of "girlfriend" or "Mrs", they miss out on enjoying the moment. If a man is kind, considerate, and being good company on the date, I'd just sit back and enjoy.

Hes good🤣🤣🤣...man ur brraking our code bro

In other words, tell them how you WANT to be treated, but have them figure out HOW! Bam 👏🏽

Ladies : we got a loose grumpy cookie 😏😏 Le Guys : then we got a freaking large baguette 🥖😏😏😏😏 , Play with that smashed cookie whole life 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I love his segment Steve!! Keep it coming pls !!

We need to stop asking ourselves why he is not doing this or that, if he is not doing it cause he does not want to!

Do you include Lori in these talks? Because, she's living her best life.

0:33 her hair is gorgeous

Where is this fault coming from that most Relationship hardly work this days. A lot of Breakup divorces everyday. I love video like this. Steve is really doing a great job.

Uncle Steve u give best advices ever

Steve is just Outhere ruinin'Our Games!! Steve Once again ladies don't need to know all that smmh.

every woman sitting up there with Steve is so beautiful

The girl behind Steve in the dark jeans and the pink jacket is absolutely beautiful

What we like is easy, how about what we don't like? 🤔

Steve is the dad i never had lmao

She too young to be trying be serious lol at 19 I was too busy living life I wasn’t on that relationship stuff lol

Trainable 🙄 I ain't no dam dog 🐕

‘Is this a relationship? Are we committed?’ If he doesn’t give you the title you want, you stop giving me what he wants.

Can RU-vid just create a feature with auto like for certain channels because there's never been more attention worthy interactions and great advice anywhere else I'd seen before. Man ima miss this show if it ever goes out

The woman in the green and yellow stands out in a group filled with beautiful women. I would like to have heard why she was a part of the panel.

90 days isn't long to me. I could go on a character for 3 months, and I think many guys can too

I half way agree about the don't tell them what you like and I half way disagree. I think certain questions can help determine the sincerity of a guy fairly quickly. That will help determine how straight forward you can be with a guy because some don't have time for games, while some are all about games. My disagreement comes in because there are 5 different love languages in which a person views as something heartwarming to them. A guy could be going all out for you, but it'd be missed or be considered as not enough because what he's doing doesn't appeal to you not because you're shallow or unappreciative, but you may not even recognize it because he's doing things for you out his love language, and not yours, so you don't see the signs, while he would consider it top notch if he were on the receiving end.

Oooh ! Never heard that. Get em Steve !

Can anyone point me to the full version of this video..this is interesting

Look no further... I am here😄

You know what really surprises me? That till now no wamen has come up unhappy with the term "cookie" 😂 Stay blessed Mr Hightower 🙏

Trained him, he's not a child, if he doesn't know this stuff by now he won't.

Great advice

Nowadays women aren’t the prize no more the man is the prize brings so much more to the relationship than women do, money, protection and so much more

You can require a commitment love that

Steve Harvey giving women advice on how to train men. Real smooth.

Are men ready to love their wives and women respectful to their husbands.

man i be watching steve's videos so much, now most of his answers are well known to me to the point its predictable xD

Very good advice to young women Steve!

You got the cookies 😂😂

Ya gonna choke on chocolates😂😂😂😂😂😂

He should do a segment with just Gen z adult women

What is Steve teaching these young girls? Wait for 90 days and give it up? And should that fail then another one comes for another 90 days? You don’t have to give it up! Period! Dating is getting to know someone on a very intellectual level, not necessarily on emotional level. Unless you are engaged and seriously committed to marriage I say no! Don’t give it up!

Steve out here give our secrets 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

Some comments here are patronizing...too young? I'm 31 now and memories I hold dearest are when I was 18 and she was 19...the best love I've ever had.

I have several relatives and friends who waited to have sex until they got married. The guys always knew that it was what the ladies wanted, they all got married and have been married for over 10 years. Most of the engagements lasted a year. Men will definitely wait more than 90 days! 90 days os the value that you give yourself? You’re worth a lot more than that. Find a guy that shares similar values.

I'm not requiring nothing, if after 90 days of getting to know each other he doesn't step up. Sis I'm gone, it's been a great trip but now it's over.