What is a TRADWIFE? 

You are a truly special person. As a man, I have nothing but deep seated respect for you. I am literally shocked. I cannot tell you one woman that comes to my mind in the last 5-10 years that I can say shows such introspection and self evaluation. I have been saying this for years, but the only type of woman that men will respect, are women who are good to their husbands and respectful of themselves and their families. If a man disrespects a good wife, other men will still respect her and want to protect her. There is something ingrained in men to respect such women even if they have no direct relationship with them. But what is better is that you actually did do self reflection and actual healing, you didn't leave your husband, went and hooked up to "find yourself" which is garbage as we all know. You saved your marriage by acknowledging your own flaws and I can see that you are now genuinely happy. Deep down, I am happy for you. I literally got joy from watching this. A kind of joy you get from seeing other people's successful relationships. I haven't felt that in a long time. I can tell that your husband loves you and wants only good things for you and your happiness. It's heart warming to see that you gave him a chance to actually give that to you and that you accepted that from him. Very intimate, very beautiful. The truth is that, you guys have something many people will never have. You have someone in your corner who actually loves you. Continue to nurture your marriage and appreciate each other. Best Wishes!!!! - Some young man you'd think would never write this.

You truly have to applaud and appreciate this woman’s openness about her humbling experience 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

I totally understand Karyn’s tears because I had the paradigm shift after 8 years of marriage to my amazing husband of 14 years. I didn’t realize that I was part of the problems we were having in our marriage until I started reading the Bible, listening to podcasts, and reading more books about being a better woman of God,wife and mother. Now, that my husband and I are in great space ( PRAISE GOD), I’m still doing the work to keep myself from ever going back to that place of disconnect within my marriage again. Thank you Karyn for these wonderful gifts(videos).

I’m so grateful for this vulnerability. Your strength is so impressive.

Wow. Blown away. I’ve never seen a woman being this transparent. Ever. My wife of 25 years is never wrong. No genuine humility. Any issues in our marriage is my fault. I’m the only one who ever needs to change. I hate to dump this here, but I pray my bride will someday be the woman I first met pre- marriage. Sex and affection are conditional rewards and rare. Hinting that I have needs disrupts any peace in the house. I will just continue to suffer in silence.

You speak for thousands out there. I'm proud of you and inspired by you.

I'm a husband in a happy marriage and I find your openness/vulnerability/courage to share your weaknesses refreshing and incredible. I am cheering for you! Self analysis and self reflection can be one of the most difficult yet rewarding parts in ones life.

This channel will grow because its a much needed conversation👌🏿. Well done 👏🏿

I've deleted this like 5 times because it feels silly expressing it, but... your message helps me keep the hope alive that I might have a healthy relationship with my wife someday.

Protect and celebrate this woman and her message!

I am soooo incredibly grateful to have found your channel. I NEED this wake up call. This slap in the face so to speak. You are an incredible woman for being so raw and open about your experience. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, thank you!! My husband deserves the best parts of me and he deserves all the happiness in the world for what I have put him through. I needed this wake up call, so much. Thank you! 🙌❤️

This is just beautiful. What a humble, good hearted and mature woman. I can feel myself relaxing in the presence of such humility and empathy and vulnerability. Thank you so much for being brave enough to put this out there.

Wow, this is the true definition of stunning and brave.

My ex wife lacked self awareness. She took no responsibility. I loved her, but she divorced me after 32 years. Hopefully this will prevent this for others.

Fantastic video! Thank you for your vulnerability. I know exactly how you feel, and I want to change and become a better wife, too. It can be so hard because of all the bad behaviors encouraged on us by society. Sitcoms are among the worst because the wife is alsways depicted disrespecting her husband and being so much smarter and better than them. It's easy to accidentally embody this, but I don't want to be like this anymore.

Happy for the husband. Your finally reaching your awakening. Stay positive. Very happy for you both. -man.

I can relate 💯 I’ll be married 15 years next month. But truly believe marriage can be and should be great. “Let’sMakeMarriageGreatAgain.

You are absolutely next level. You are going to help millions of women and men.

Wow as men we rarely if ever see a woman truly open up and humbly give her honest experience, thank you, you are helping many people.

I am going to study everything you say, you must be one of the most amazing woman I have ever heard speaking.

Although, I can't personally benefit too much from this information; I will offer some words of encouragement. This information is much needed channel in the modern era of degenerate behavior. Due to censorship, any attempt to address the lack of traditional woman will be considered 'hate speech' coming from a male. But, the message will be more positively received coming from a female. Femineity is so important to men, that there are men literally flying overseas to find more traditional woman. Obviously, we can all improve ourselves; but this sentiment is reflected in passport bros movement which addresses this as well as the imbalance in the family court system. I think traditional families is likely to be stronger for the next generation if homeschooling is an option, Reason: More control in avoiding woke culture. The last I need my children reading 'My two dads' in elementary school. This should be more of a parent-child discussion. Gone are the days were home economics were practiced; it's really is a lost art. Also, in a microwave society no one knows how to cook from scratch like Estee Williams. (opinion) (Not sure if this is true) "Happy wife, happy life" (This seems more accurate from what I have seen)" A happy man is a happy relationship and a happy woman is miserable man" Patrice O'Neal. This sounds strange, but men are giving by nature and will sacrifice to protect and care for his wife; he is a giver while she is a receiver. Whatever you give a woman, she will make it greater. If you give her sperm, she'll give you a baby.. If you give her a house, she'll give you a home. If you give her groceries, she'll give you a meal. If you give her a smile, she'll give you her heart. If you give her frasturation, she will multiply it (you get the point) lol. If you don't like the output, change in the input. From the men I have spoken to, respect from his woman is far from important than being loved. If he feels like a king in his home, it's only natural for her to be treated like a queen. This could be as simple as always giving two cups of coffee in front others, even though he is only going drink one of them to show that he has a degree of respect in his own home. This may seem bit wasteful, but a great impression the eyes of men. Unfortunately today, too many females want to be treated like queen, but are wearing the crown of a peasant. Judging from the engagement in the comment section. I see you have fans, not viewers. Difference being that viewers are based on the algorithm, but fans come looking for your content. So far, you are doing well. Keep it Up!!! 👍👍💫

I miss being married. Although I did everything to please her, it was never good enough.

All of us guys love what you are doing. Many of us have had wives who became real witches no matter what tough sacrifices we made for them. I finally took a job in another state and moved out.. She cared so little about me all she could see was she was entitled to everything I might ever have. She was able to hate and destroy anything considered good in me. Like I have said before she finally found someone "better" and ran off. In time I recovered quite well with a wonderful loving wife now. In the end, the only person really hurt by her outrageous behavior was my first wife!

Your message is nothing less than beautiful. A video of yours popped up in my feed this morning and your channel name seemed right up my alley so I took a look. So happy to subscribe Ty for sharing this ❤

IF ONLY my ex had the capability to hear this message. You described my last relationship to-the-letter, minus the happy ending. Instead, she took both of my children to Chicago under false pretenses with intention to keep them there, and I had to fight in the courts for 50/50 custody. I could send her your channel, but I know with absolute certainty she would NEVER click on it.

wow you are very mature and candid. I'm in my 40s and I never got married, because I could see this emasculating tendency in women, and knew I could never make a woman happy, which would make me unhappy/miserable/distant. I hope you can focus on teaching these beautiful realizations and transformations to the younger generation of women. Thank you.

Been a tough life, with unrelenting criticism, sex at the most once a month when we were young, no sex anymore at all. Even when we were young, my kisses were unacceptable, no passionate kisses for 40 years now. Will not do sex with an unresponsive partner ever again. I have felt it was my duty to do my best and have never cursed at my wife, do many household chores, do all the outside and car chores, have never forgotten a birthday, anniversary or holiday for my wife. She gets random cards, flowers, and out to eat dates, and always has. I have done everything I could. I cannot confide in her, since when I did reveal my feelings, next opportunity they were used as a weapon and she calls me "wimp". She has killed my heart.

Women have manipulated by media, knight and shining armor movies etc. As a womam, I also came to the understanding that my own behaviors needed to change and when I became self aware then our marriage got so much better. I do feel sorry for men because the expectations portrayed by what I call female romance porn has caused so many problems.

I feel your pain and your deep empathy. Please, try to forgive yourself once and for all. Because that amount of self blame and suffering you express here is hurting you only. Specially 7 years later. Heal your pain by working on yourself and accepting your husband's forgiveness (in case he acrtually did). Everyone deserves a second oportunity, both wife and husband. Each one is responsible for their part and one is only victim of oneself, either hurting a good husband or the good husband allowing it. I wish you nothing but success in your healing❤😊

It is so pleasant to my soul hearing you talk

I feel the same calling from God to open a channel and speak this kind of things! You are an inspiration to me! I have been a mean wife and God is restoring my soul and I feel that I need to speak about these things to my Latino women community because I'm a Colombian woman married to a wonderful American man, but I was not loving myself therefore I cause a lot of pain in my marriage, but Jesus has helped me to change and he guided me to you! God bless you and thank you so much for your job, you are helping many women around the world 🤗💚😘!

Lady, I think you broke through the feminist matrix. I truly do. The level of courage, perseverance and determination you showed by changing around your marriage is truly impressive. And you continue to do so by making this channel. Kudos to you and I hope many women learn from you.

I stumbled upon this video by accident, and I presumed that this was another rant about men and how to cope in life with them. I am so moved by your confession, and I would like to congratulate you for getting the reins back on your marriage. Despite having the setbacks, your strength is amazing, and may you enjoy the rest of your life ahead. God keep you under his care. Amen.

I shared some of your videos on my fb page and the female reaction was vile, immediate and swift you my dear are a unicorn

Listening to your videos while morning the death of my marrage

Your message is one of the reasons I stay with my wife after 12 years of her doing those same things to me. It’s the Hope that she will eventually change and become the loving girlfriend I once had, that became my wife. I want that more than anything.

I have always heard that men go into a relationship thinking women won't change and women go in thinking men will change

i have so much respect for your truth and honesty and emotions … 32 years married, divorced now , but leading up to the final stages of divorce, she was always telling what i needed to do to improve… on and on it would go , one night i said kindly, you need to work on YOU and stop working on me … death ears for sure , latter i was so nice i said it’s always easier to see the others faults and that part of your addiction too ..

I recently unloaded on my wife. Having hit rock bottom, i related incident after incident from years of disrespectful and emasculating behavior. She was shocked. And here's the sad part... I actually thought i had made a breakthrough with her at first. But as the next few months played out, it demonstrated her shock was that I was unhappy with how she treats me in the marriage and how relating these things hurt her feelings. So... telling her how her treatment of me was painful was wrong because it hurt her feelings. I kid you not.

If my wife would only get this or at least be open to watch your channel. Everything is somehow always my fault and its always me that should change. I've tried to bring this up and it just starts a whole earthquake of issues in my household. I know its dumb to love my wife unconditionally and even worse is that i know that my wife wouldn't feel the same for me. We have done counseling and me hinting towards her getting help for her anxiety or depression and therapy about her own insecurities just start an argument of how im being dramatic and that its not how it is. So then i keep it to myself and then get crap for being distant and not showing emotion. At least that way i dont have to argue and can just keep the peace. Im starting to learn to block all the emasculation out so i can still teach my son on how to be a man and one that knows what he brings to the table so he can leave asap if hes in a similar situation before he has kids with the woman. Power to you for seeing this in yourself and be able to be humble about a difficult situation. Great channel!

Thank you for your vulnerability, Karyn. This is very healing for me. My marriage ended 3 years ago precisely for the reasons you describe in your own experience. There was literally nothing I could do to save it when she got to this point of denial. It's now been revealed that she was secretly having multiple secret affairs, and the more she did this the more she blamed me for her unhappiness. The unhappier she became the more she sought other men. Rinse, repeat.

What courage! I can only imagine the push-back you have received. Please keep up the good work. Don't lose heart.

Thank you so much for all of your videos. My wife divorced me last year, and I always wondered, "What did I do wrong?" Some of the destructive things that women do that you described is exactly what my wife did to me. The criticism, the emasculating, the control, the nothing I ever do is right in spite of my best efforts, the its always my fault, the anytime I tried to address the situation, it was always turned on me as my problem. You have described my wife exactly. She eventually shut off sex and said, "I think we are done". I ended up going into depression and taking a lot of naps, dreaming of a better life. I gave up! Just like you said, by that time she was repulsed by me, and divorced me. I am so much happier to be free of her. Now I know what to look for in my next relationship. Thanks again.

A number of Men commit suicide after being kicked around mentally like this for years.

WOW... This hit me right in the "Feels". PLEASE don't EVER stop with these videos. Me and my ex-wife might still be married if she had your epiphany moment...

I am a man, but I find your video are really transparent and provide valuable knowledge. Thank you.

I'm glad I came across your channel. To have a woman saying the same exact things I've been telling my wife for decades is so refreshing. Now if only she would come across your channel herself...

I was shocked to hear what this post contained, but I think this is one of the most beautiful confessions I've ever heard. Not that it was a confession of faults, but a confession of love and desire to make one's marriage a loving relationship. We'll find Karyn. You are admired by many people who love truth.

Hope youre healthy happy in these times. 🤗🤗🤗much love and respect.

Kudos to showing your vulnerability and honestly. That is real strength.

Thank you for your vulnerability and honesty. Your work is truly needed in this increasingly insane world calling evil good and good evil. Thank you for loving the truth and shouting it from the mountaintop!

You are a very special person. I am divorced for over 8 years after 40 years of marriage. I have watched at least 10 of your videos. My ex used sex as a weapon. It was very degrading. I wish I had known this 50 years ago. It would have either straightened it out or we would have divorced within a year - not going through hell for 40 years.

Thank you for having the courage to discuss these topics and I hope you are able to help some men and women have more fulfilling relationships. Win:Win. Beautiful.

This is lovely to watch. I never thought of my lady as a "trad wife", we share housework, focusing on what each of us is good at, she speaks three languages, has worked as a classical soprano, therapist and translator, she's not working currently but I'd be glad to see her get another job (we have no children since she can't have them). Yet, so much of the attitude towards your husband that you've adopted, is very much what I see in my lady on a daily basis. she's kind, gentle, extremely supportive and most definitely female in all the important senses, indeed I didn't realise I was "a man", in any way that mattered until we were married. Really glad you've found this, and I hope more women realise that building men up is much better than tearing them down, and that being "feminine", doesn't mean being less.

I am so glad I found this channel. Thank you for your honesty.

i didn't know youtube had real talk content. very touching.

You said your marriage did a "360", which would mean it ended up right where it started, but we all know you meant 180! Thank you for the content. I really need to get my wife to watch this, or I don't think our marriage is going to last much longer.

Oh my gosh I wish my soon to be ex wife would watch this…this matches her to a tee. So sad that she would rather embrace divorce and destroy our family instead.

I’ve seen a couple videos and she is very straightforward, honest and humble. What a great woman!

Thank you so much for your work. For us it's too late (19y marriage, 6 kids) since my wife separated from me, but am sure you will help a lot of people out there. This postmodern feminism has to stop. I think women have to swallow the red-pill, as well as men (plus men must get rid of the nice-guy syndrome). Then there is a good chance of a successul relationship. I am still optimistic :-)

You are amazing. What an incredible story of empowerment! You are so wonderfully understanding and adaptable and your attitude is an inspiration, thank god you are still alive. I am so thankful that anyone is speaking this message at all! I think these should be normal feelings which guide us on our path to doing right for each other.

Thank you for sharing It is helpful for me to look deeper at myself.

Thank you for sharing your marriage struggles. It's so refreshing and a blessing to hear a totally unique message from this world. Thank you so much!

I wish you were my wife. The one I have is so incredibly walled off that the problems that we have in our relationship are completely my fault and only I need to change and fix myself in order to restore our marriage and have her return home to me. She is incapable of seeing how her words have affected my attitude toward her

Thanks for this. I will share this information. I remember reading the 5 Love languages, 3 months later arguing 😅that I'm pretty sure that you keep changing your dang language and it's driving me nuts. 10 years divorced. Not crazy anymore.

I've beaten myself up for nearly 50yr because of how bad my marriage is. No respect for myself. Cursing myself for being just like my runaround father. But this changes everything. My mother was emotionally unavailable. When as children we got sick, we took care of ourselves. And without knowing it, I ended up marrying my mother. My wife even wore one of my mother's night gowns for honeymoon night. And she wondered why I was so turned off. A weight has been lifted from my shoulders. But as mentioned in another video, very few women are cognizant that this is what they do. We humans are a tangled web. Thx for sharing and being honest. I'm not that honest with even myself.

Powerful content. I wish I could share this with my wife. I think she would be much happier seeing the world from this perspective. 20 year marriage, seven children, she is involved in the community, church, adored by many and she is deeply unhappy. I'm not perfect but it is crushing to live week after week with multiple reminders that she is not happy and somehow it is always my fault. The walls are definitely up and they lead her to the same conclusion--that the problem lies with me. Not wearing her wedding ring anymore--that's because she doesn't feel supported, validated and sufficiently loved in our marriage--so its my fault. It is me getting yelled at about not having enough grace. Me getting told that I have been ignoring her because I have not responded to her they way she hoped without first taking the time to find out what I may be preoccupied with. It is me getting told over and over, "I want to feel . . ." despite a therapist telling us both that we can't make the other person responsible for our feelings. I have become beyond exhausted with the covert and overt threats of separation and divorce. I am beyond exhausted with anger and yelling directed at me when she is telling me that she, "will not stop sharing her 'kind words" despite my inability to accept them. I've become numb to the accusation that I am more loyal to friends, extended family, or others with the suggestion that I should just go live with them or engage in intimate acts with them. It has become very tiresome to go through life without being able to talk about or plan for finances, yard work, household chores, vacations, vehicle maintenance, business decision,, children's activities, etc. without a very high risk that the conversation will become adversarial and the discussion terminated due to bad feelings prior to any meaningful concrete decisions being made. Almost every interaction feels like a relationship test that may get brought up days, weeks, moths, or even years latter to demonstrate how I have been a deficient partner in our relationship. Many times I have asked her what it is she wants to do in life, what she wants her thing to be. I have asked to let us know and let myself and the children support her in that. The response usually is some kind of indication that it is wrong of me to ask the question or a response regarding what type of feeling she wants to have in the marriage: "I want to feel like I matter." "I want to feel like I have a say." "I want to feel like we are on the same page." All with the implication that it is me that makes these feelings impossible. I would be happy to talk about ways to make these feelings more likely and more prevalent but the discussion seldom seems to get past a churning discussion regarding feelings with more accusations that those feelings are not possible because I don't validate her feelings, I'm not vulnerable, I don't have enough empathy, I don't show enough kindness, I don't show grace. It is an odd thing to be yelled at and complained to about not having enough empathy, or not showing any grace. Its like recognizing your own humility; once you have recognized it, you have lost it. If your shouting at someone when you ask/say, "Can't you ." the question/statement gets lost in the irony of it. I love her but at some point the yelling, swearing, accusations, and blaming starts to lose its impact. I think we may be able to pull out of this in the long run but it is difficult and the worst thing is that there are seven innocent children that have suffered and continue to suffer with the trauma of argument in the home and uncertainty. I'm not trying to force my wife to be anything that she doesn't want to be. I have my ideal of the best way to pursue life and work together as a couple but it doesn't have to be my way. I can be flexible; there are lots of ways to make it a success. What doesn't work for me is double standards that are evaluated based on the realization of a particular feeling or lack thereof. In retrospect, I feel like I have been auditioning for approval for twenty years and at this point I am not sure I am going to get the part. God, help me, and, God, help marriage. I'm okay living a mediocre life and dying sick, lonely, and broke, but there are innocent children involved and they don't deserve this.

Thank you for shearing your growth. It is refreshing to see women understating the things you present. Good luck in your family life and in your presentations.

You have been really helpful ... I've been so guilty of thinking the same way and this has been a wake up call❤

Lovely conversation, your a fantastic woman. Best wishes to both yourself and husband. ❤.

Over 20 years ago I told my wife "caution" I shall become what you make of me.

Incredible courage!! OMG. Inspiring. ❤ Tremendously helpful. Thank you.

Thank you for what you do. If ever our society needs women like you are it's today.

You are, truly, a blessed woman😇, you're doing God's work and you have my heartfelt admiration! It's just my humble opinion that you are asking a wife to do the man's job for him.

I am totally amazing by your realness, and openness it’s absolutely necessary in these times. God bless you now and always.

If you think your behavior is negatively impacting your Husband - it’s absolutely destroying your young boys. S I G N language: Shame, Insults, Guilt, Need to be Right.

Thank you for your help. Peace be with you.

With no intention of distracting anyone from the good content, at 6:32 understand 180 when you hear 360

Thx for the honesty and vulnerability in your sharing your personal story. Was wondering if your husband tried to point these things out to you and if so how did you interpret what he was trying to express to you before your ah-hah moment so to speak?

Confession is good for the soul. Admitting that you have a problem is the first step. What you put your poor husband through!

Great lesson for married people today.

I thank you deeply for this video. I am not a woman - obviously 😅 - but I recognize a lot and I agree 💯 that women AND men can only find their happiness from within and only after that can they bring this spirit and energy into their relationship! I admire and respect you for your honesty your bravery your openness. I am curious to watch and learn. One thing I recently see in more and more podcasts and videos which I appreciate and am happy to see is that especially women stop chasing the idea of being (like) men. This was one of the bad side effects over over emancipation. I am not at all wanting to reduce women to their roles of a hundred years back. But I think both men and women should accept and celebrate their differences knowing that only a healthy combination of all our strengths together can form a strong and healthy and loving relationship and environment for a family and for children to grow up in. Have a wonderful day everyone. Be safe! Kiss you loved ones and let them know that you love them ❤️

Very enlightening talk thank you for taking the time to share.

Thank you

Thank you for your candor. I’ve read Dr Laura’s book and it was a real eye opener. I made my wife read the book. It helped, some, maybe more than I thought. We’re still married. Again, thank you for sharing your experience with us men. ❤️

My ex-fiance told me it was unreasonable that I should be allowed to have any input, even superficial, on the house we were going to live in together.

I've never subscribed so fast.

Thank you for your honesty and courage to be vulnerable.

New sub to your channel and beginning to watch your videos. Refreshing, enlightening and a bonus men have left positive comments. That in itself says something. It's like the greatest secret never told, until now. Thank you for getting the message out there. It's greatly needed for both men and women! If I may suggest a good channel geared towards men yet to me good for human kind is "Listen My Son", hosted by George Bruno. It was through his channel and one of guests that I found out about your channel.

Thank you.

Someone has a very lucky husband, maybe more now than before but still lucky to have you 😊 I appreciate the conversation, subscribed to hear more of your POV. PS, Daily self help articles sounds hilariously painful 😂

Its,mean everyone learn when he/she gone through i mean through the experience that's why you are here 💯

You are incredibly attractive in your humility and transparency. May God bless your marriage all the more.

HA! I'd send this to my wife except the bit at the beginning makes that impossible.

I think its personal introspection which both sexes fail at. You are taking stuff to another level.

Thanks for sharing so much personal stuff. Sounds a little like my ex marriage, I could not do much right. I had to do the work and since i was the man “ I was supposed to love her more” actual quote. I ain’t perfect but she loved self sabotage

Karyn! Wow! God bless you. Truth, hope. I hope your marriage and life continues to flourish. I don't have any more words🙏

What a gift from God, I wish I had found your channel earlier, my x wife divorced me, at that time I was a good husband sometimes, I started back to my church and became a man of God, I prayed for my x spoke occasionally she met a guy online, after a year she came back, not to me but I did get her to attend church, she saw the changes God had done , we remarried we were remarried about 6 years, long story short I gave in to her wishes for a high paying job in Austin Texas so we rented our house bought a RV she went on training in Minnesota she did the same stuff she lied to co workers about me and divorced me again, my x father in-law is a pastor he read the divorce papers and it angered him he wrote a letter to the judge and her attorney in it he stated " these are all lies! My son in-law treats my daughter better than I treat my wife 2 years later she started calling me and has up until a couple days ago. It may sound stupid but I still love her, she told me 5 or 6weeks ago she loves me but no commitment

There is a noticeable lack of comments from other women here. To any woman struggling to "get her figure back," work a full-time job, be responsible for childcare on both ends of the day, and deal with a traveling husband whose job turns your life upside down every 2-5 years--well, you aren't showing up here.

I have been watching your videos all day. I can relate to everything you say. In the beginning I felt like you were blaming me for the state of my marriage. The more I watched, the more it became even more clear that I was my own enemy in my marriage.