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@PoweredByRainbows 9 месяцев назад
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@confusedstrangedot2811
@confusedstrangedot2811 3 года назад
I feel sad for people who can genuinely be transphobic/homophobic. I don’t know how anyone could be that hateful of someone based off of their gender or sexual orientation
@confusedstrangedot2811
@confusedstrangedot2811 3 года назад
@ Becky Baggins I agree, whatever don’t date trans people, but I do think it’s transphobia to make a whole new sexuality just to declare that you aren’t attracted to trans people. You could just live your life not dating trans people but superstraights also hate trans people usually. It’s just not a sexuality. It’s a preference that people can just keep to themselves.
@confusedstrangedot2811
@confusedstrangedot2811 3 года назад
@ Becky Baggins I understand what you mean, I am currently working a job while attending school just to support myself because my parents won’t because I’m gay. I really wish I could be myself without all this struggle. But I don’t think that having a preference for cis people is oppressing anyone. In fact, I sort of have this preference. But I’m not being rude to trans people or saying I’m anything other then just gay. everyone has the right to love who they want, but I think making a new way to declare your non attraction (super straight) feels kind of exclusionary. It’s not transphobic to not date trans people, although discriminating against them would be.
@mix3k818
@mix3k818 3 года назад
The worst part is an entire of even just half a country being homophobic against you. I live in Poland and they tried to make "LGBT Ideology-free" zones (and yes, they call LGBT an "ideology") and now they're aiming to ban LGBT-friendly media and sex transitioning.
@davidperry4013
@davidperry4013 2 года назад
@@mix3k818 Russia tried to ban trans recognition and the backlash was so high that the government finally listened and repealed it. Russia is on the path to becoming a better place for the LGBTQ+. Once Russia repeals the gay propaganda law, LGBT people around the world will want to support the Russian economy.
@NathanBB2005
@NathanBB2005 2 года назад
@@confusedstrangedot2811 What defines a sexuality over a preference?
@justanobody8010
@justanobody8010 2 года назад
I'm dating a trans man and I often forget hes even trans and just see a man. That actually happens with most trans people I know.
@ben_dover97
@ben_dover97 2 года назад
That's really nice to hear. A old friend of mine has a trans sister when she met her now husband she felt comfortable about a year into their relationship to tell him that she was trans he didn't care he still loved her all the same... 6 months later he proposed to her. He saw her as a woman from day one and actually forgot she was trans until one day they went to visit her grandma for the holidays and she called her by her dead name and incorrect pronouns. This way a year or two into their marriage and they had already adopted a child who was confused on who their great grandmother was referring to. He stood up to her and told her that she is (insert name here) and that she was a beautiful woman and she had to either accept that or leave their lives forever. That was the first time anyone stood up for her and she knew that she married the right person. I don't know how things ended with her grandma but it amazes me that from the moment they met he saw her he saw her as a woman and didn't question anything. Going as far as not allowing his father to attend the wedding.
@kainuipenaloza9395
@kainuipenaloza9395 Год назад
Still a woman though. Like their DNA doesn't change even with cosmetic surgery, so even if you wish to see them as masculine or as comparable to man--That's up to you and it's not inherently wrong--but they're still a biological woman.
@morrezra
@morrezra Год назад
Same
@filthism1659
@filthism1659 11 месяцев назад
There's no trans men just women wearing a costume
@m.s6832
@m.s6832 14 дней назад
@@kainuipenaloza9395 Haven't heard such a biologicaly false statement in my entire life. Do some research before speaking because that isn't even remotely how it works.
@noobyartist6136
@noobyartist6136 3 года назад
IDK if I’m the only one who sees this but there’s like 66 views even tho you have 24.1K subs and like 25 mins pasted-
@noobyartist6136
@noobyartist6136 3 года назад
I just realized normal people don’t be up at 5:33 AM 🧍🏽‍♀️
@andreacstar4236
@andreacstar4236 3 года назад
@@noobyartist6136 true 👁️👄👁️
@Rebellious_Pastry
@Rebellious_Pastry 3 года назад
@@noobyartist6136 he posted this with way more things attached to it yesterday
@fimy3268
@fimy3268 3 года назад
If I had to label, I'd currently label myself as Heteroflexible, as there are a couple guys id be into, but anyway to the point... I am 100% an ally, I believe everyone to be equal and to have the right to identify as what they want, and no matter what gender you believe you are, ill happily respect you as that gender. However, I struggle to find Trans Female (specifically their private area) attractive, I'd happily be in a relationship with anyone who is one, but rarely would I say I'd be interested In anything more then a romantic relationship, possibly even after their surgery. Am I transphobic, I've never really thought about this until now, I dont think I am but im not sure...
@sparkierss3189
@sparkierss3189 3 года назад
i wouldn't say that you are since genitalia preference isn't the same as hating people for being transgender. on that same note people that are super straight also could not be transphobic because they have a preference
@kaiyodei
@kaiyodei 2 года назад
"but you are missing out on soooooooooooo muchhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh"
@kaiyodei
@kaiyodei 2 года назад
@@sparkierss3189 no, find yourself the right/wrong people and they will nag you into saying it is
@therealchaosguy
@therealchaosguy 2 года назад
"I'm heteroflexible" -Me, before realizing I was actually bi the whole time (Not OP, just someone with a history of thinking I was heteroflexible, but instead I was bi)
@raze4885
@raze4885 2 года назад
No, genital preference is a real thing, and it doesn’t mean you are transphobic
@Mgfur
@Mgfur 3 года назад
I fell sad for people who truly believe that they are super straight Also new cameras are great
@Rebellious_Pastry
@Rebellious_Pastry 3 года назад
Most "Super streights" are LGBTQIA+ members in denial or trolls
@Alexa0795
@Alexa0795 3 года назад
I met a girl who was straight then i kiss her that straight go away. We hang out together and i think she's bisexual now. I'm not sure...
@nabbzx6569
@nabbzx6569 3 года назад
@@Alexa0795 CAP
@spiritual9574
@spiritual9574 3 года назад
@@Rebellious_Pastry Superphobes are Super straights in denial
@kuukanz
@kuukanz 3 года назад
@@spiritual9574 I am? I wasn't aware I liked men?
@vwolf5
@vwolf5 2 года назад
So, I think that if you find out someone you are dating is trans and haven't had bottom surgery is not transphobic if you're not interested in the genitalia. Like, everyone has preferences, and if you are into smth you need a certain type of genitals ir just feel uncomfortable then it's fine. There are so many different ways of having intercourse... And having preffered genitalia is a thing. I know a friend who is bi, but it's not really into 🍆, and It's okay. It's different to saying "if you are trans I'm not attracted to you"
@user-ui5ql9nn9l
@user-ui5ql9nn9l 2 года назад
Love how super straights are painting them selves to be victims usually. Often superstraight comics are something along the line of LGBTQ person: talking “down” a kid Superstraight kid: 😢 Superstraight adult: stands up for kid LGBTQ person: 😡 Interesting how they think their the victim when 1. We have to transition 2. Deal with our parents (if their transphobic) 3. Probably loose friends 4. Dysphoria 5. And more ❤️ Often this leads to suicide , as it’s 3.5x more likely to happen than that of a cis person But yeah I’m such a terrible person, sorry. I’ll stay away from your “super straight” kid that was probably bullying me like all the other ones, Karen
@currently_In_stealth_behind_u
@currently_In_stealth_behind_u 2 года назад
i have seen that play out in real life several times
@anthonyswedyk9832
@anthonyswedyk9832 2 года назад
Ok but all trans people have what used to be a legal mental health condition that we probably could treat know if we wanted to that leads to disliking the body you are in as well as developing suicidal thoughts. With or without the transition they still have a high if not higher chance of committing suicide. With society ignoring the medical dangers of this they let loads of innocent people not gain treatment to keep them alive. Transphobic people are terrible but the idea of transgender is just as bad to the people themselves. Gender is used as a synonym for sex as well and it also states in science that there is no spectrum where a born male can claim he is female and visa versa and gender neutrality doesn't exist unless one was born as such other than that it is impossible to achieve.
@user-ui5ql9nn9l
@user-ui5ql9nn9l 2 года назад
@@currently_In_stealth_behind_u seen which part play out?
@alphaghoul
@alphaghoul 2 года назад
Uh dude, you’re projecting, they’re not trying to “paint themselves as victims” they’re calling out the hypocrites who latch onto anything considered progressive so that they can make stuff up and control people, case in point “if you don’t date trans then you’re transphobic”. And I say projecting obviously not to refer to trans people but to wokeheads like yourself that I’ve already described.
@kainuipenaloza9395
@kainuipenaloza9395 Год назад
Mental illness is hard to deal with in fact, you are correct. However you seem to be painting yourselves as the very victims of the situation. Your very words imply that you are not the victims or the perpetrator in the superstraight interactions because they are fabricated, but then you turn right back around and say that transitioning is victimizing those who transition. Not that I disagree but hypocrisy should be noted.
@kuukanz
@kuukanz 3 года назад
As a trans umbrella person, I'd like to share my insight Nobody gives a damn if you dont wanna date trans people, I dont care if you have a preference. I'm not offended. What I do mind is you making a sexuality just to prove that trans women aren't attractive. Preferences aren't orientations. And super straight people invalidate trans men and women just because they don't want to date one. Its immature and disrespectful. So please, if you're "super straight," leave this channel and think before you label yourself incorrectly.
@DinosaurNick
@DinosaurNick 2 года назад
exactly!
@crocodillianothecoolone4420
@crocodillianothecoolone4420 2 года назад
some sexualities like being gay or lesbian are based off of dating preferences so there shouldn't be a problem with super straight
@DinosaurNick
@DinosaurNick 2 года назад
@@crocodillianothecoolone4420 So what are super straight attracted to? Opposite sex super heros?
@twylenb
@twylenb 2 года назад
@@crocodillianothecoolone4420 Being gay or lesbian is Not a preference. It's a sexuality based on being attracted to the same gender. A gay person can have a preference for certain genitalia just as a straight person can a cis lesbian can have date and/or have sex with a trans lesbian without bottom surgery, and be just as much of a lesbian as anyone. Either you have not clue how sexualities work, or are a homophobic and transphobic troll.
@doginboat
@doginboat 2 года назад
Mad facts
@daring6983
@daring6983 2 года назад
There’s a difference between not wanting to date someone and not being ‘attracted’ to someone
@kainuipenaloza9395
@kainuipenaloza9395 Год назад
Is there?
@Artreo69
@Artreo69 Год назад
​@@kainuipenaloza9395 Yes,there 100% is one. And I say that as a AroAce person
@kainuipenaloza9395
@kainuipenaloza9395 Год назад
@@Artreo69 Well I suppose you don't have to be unattractive to quality in the "no-date" category, but I have no idea what an AroAce is or what that means. Nor do I know how it gives your claim any credibility. As far as I know it's just a made up word you put in there. Besides, in reference to the video I think it's completely fine to not want to date people you think are attractive or unattractive because IT'S YOUR CHOICE.
@Drud
@Drud 3 месяца назад
No?? Wtf?? No??
@barrianic4
@barrianic4 2 месяца назад
@@kainuipenaloza9395 an aroace person is a person that feels little to no romantic and sexual attraction
@toby-we3zj
@toby-we3zj 2 года назад
It'd be really funny if the person who designed the "Super Straight" flag supported lgbtq and was just trolling them and they actually started using it.
@austinhubbard96
@austinhubbard96 2 года назад
im not surprised but i am kinda shocked that it turned into an “SS” thing. mind blowing how someone can turn one bad thing into something worse.
@gyorgykolozsvari4730
@gyorgykolozsvari4730 2 года назад
I'm not suprised but pretty shocked that Mr. """Professor""" here decided to fabricate that or use someone else's fabrication. He doesn't even know what SS is for god's sake and is still claiming that the two have anything in between. It's much easier caling someone a n@zi than using actual debate it seems.
@pantzrat6273
@pantzrat6273 Год назад
Being straight is normal
@randomusername3873
@randomusername3873 10 месяцев назад
One bad thing? You really want to deny people bodily autonomy, don't you
@charl0tte_is_c00l9
@charl0tte_is_c00l9 3 года назад
Thank you for helping me come out to my friends and family 🏳️‍🌈😄
@Dianasaurthemelonlord7777
@Dianasaurthemelonlord7777 2 года назад
@@derekellis4170 preach Comrade, preach
@DemonDog444
@DemonDog444 2 года назад
​@@derekellis4170 This channel is for anyone who wants it.
@kainuipenaloza9395
@kainuipenaloza9395 Год назад
@@derekellis4170 Well that sucks I guess because I thought it was a welcoming and inclusive community that allowed diversity of thought but I guess since my opinion on what I think gender or sex are fly in the very face of what you seem to think defines your existence I am disqualified from being included or accepted.
@Olliemaxx1
@Olliemaxx1 2 года назад
Most of his videos he is formal but in this one he is acting more casual I love it
@jamesaaronslayton2463
@jamesaaronslayton2463 3 года назад
Idk how other people feel but before I play the video further, I want to give my take on if it is transphobic to not want to date someone who is transgender. Sexual orientation and romantic orientation are not the same. I am romantically attracted in a homoflexible way. Primarily to men but I do find some women attractive based on various factors I don't even fully understand myself. My sexual orientation is also homoflexible. For me, often if I am comfortable in a relationship and it feels right, I need a balance between my romantic attractions and my sexual one. I happen to be a bottom and so depending on factors that are fairly obvious here, sex may or may not work for me. I don't believe in these situations a person is necessarily transphobic. But if you make a blanket statement that you don't date a person just because they are transgender then, IMO it is transphobic. I have dated transgender people before and sometimes I felt comfortable with using toys or other times sex was normal bc of their situation in the bedroom. But this is not universally the case for me. I am open to giving anyone a chance but some transgender people I don't feel an attraction to or I might feel one but it is romantic only and not sexual. If I only wanted romance then I would just date women to fit in. For me I at least need to feel a spark sexually as well. Wanting that isn't transphobic so I just take it one step at a time and am open to dating transgender people but sometimes it does not work for me because if how I am oriented and that is not anyone's fault
@jamesaaronslayton2463
@jamesaaronslayton2463 3 года назад
Nothing I have said above is intended to defend super straight. It is offensive and should not be supported. I am against the notion of super straight. But the issue is not the idea of not being attracted to someone who is transgender. The issue is being transphobic as a movement and in you, as an individual, not wanting to date a transgender because of internalized transphobia. You have to ask yourself why you don't want to date someone who is transgender and if it is due to transphobia then that isn't okay.
@DrPo.
@DrPo. 2 года назад
Stfu nobody is reading this and it isnt transphobic to not want to date a transgender its simply not there cup of tea
@CamoGilly
@CamoGilly 2 года назад
I also paused the video to look at the comments, and I kinda wanna give my take too! (I'll give it in your style of writing, so it makes sense.) I agree with what you said about sexual/romantic orientations, they're both different. I'm still kinda figuring myself out. (It's like a 'sexuality' phase to a 'gender' phase and back to the 'sexuality' phase.) Because I'm genderfluid, AFAB (Assigned Female At Birth), and attracted to women romantically/sexually, it makes me trixic (woman-loving NB). However, I'm also attracted to men in some way. It's not really romantic or of the like, but it's more of, "Woah! I wanna be like you one day!", so I don't really know how to describe it. (I feel the same with women a bit less because of forced gender roles, pronouns, etc.) I haven't been in too many relationships, but I'd say that I would need a balance with my romantic/sexual attraction too. Even funnier, I think I'm a bottom too. If anything, I think wanting to not date a trans person isn't necessarily bad or having little to no attraction in general, so long as you respect them as their gender. Making a blanket statement, as you said, is what's transphobic. I'd say that I would date/romanticize with a trans girl, and perhaps go further if they're post-bottom surgery. It's purely the genitalia preference-- even if I don't date trans women, it's not transphobic until I do/say something that shows disrespect to trans women for being women. As you said, it's not anyone's fault someone is oriented a certain way. I've been meaning to get this out to someone out there, mainly because my friends don't really have the same feelings I do. If you or anyone else reads this, thank you!! If there's any advice anyone could give me, I'd appreciate it! :D (Edit: I fixed a small glitch with the enter spaces between the paragraphs)
@dont_know_my_name
@dont_know_my_name 2 года назад
As a trans person, I wanted to say that what you said is completely valid and imo true. I myself am not always attracted to the people that I see. Not because of my sexuality or anything, because they are just not my type, not physically appealing to me and that's fine. It's the same thing when you are not physically attracted to trans person because of their physic. But "super straight" is not a valid sexuality and will never be one.
@kaiyodei
@kaiyodei 2 года назад
to a lot of people they are. SAM is homophobic and gross
@ginathib
@ginathib 3 года назад
#StopSuperStraight
@DemonDog444
@DemonDog444 2 года назад
Superstraightphobe
@randomusername3873
@randomusername3873 10 месяцев назад
Rape apologist
@LawnMeower
@LawnMeower 2 года назад
The Super Straight color scheme reminds me of some gay dating app
@notoriouswhitemoth
@notoriouswhitemoth 2 года назад
I don't think it's transphobic for someone to have the attitude of 'I don't want to pursue a sexual/romantic relationship that I wouldn't have given informed consent to up front because it's counter to my romantic/sexual goals'. Specifically, if someone's goal is to have children, to pass on their DNA, to perpetuate their bloodline, dating someone who's trans works against that goal. You could argue that not engineering our own extinction is somehow transphobic, which I would argue implies the entire civil rights movement is hypocritical, since it's all about people having the right to live their own lives. All that said, if a heterosexual man who has homoromantic relationships, whose sexual goal is reproduction, refuses to date trans men solely because they're trans, that's transphobic. If the reason is "because they're trans", that's a problem. If the reason is "because it's incompatible south the person's life goals", that isn't. That's my opinion as an asexual who thinks gender as a concept is stupid.
@phacey4444
@phacey4444 3 года назад
As a trans person I don't actually consider it transphobic to not want want to date a trans person as it falls under personal preference I do consider it to be transphobic to call it a sexuality because that basically say to my face that I'm not a woman.
@hiimpeyton671
@hiimpeyton671 3 года назад
Well here’s the thing. A super straight male still feels attracted to trans woman. They just won’t date her because they would think to themselves “he’s not a woman”. Despite them truly being attracted to them. That is in fact the main idea of it.
@guilhermesavoya2366
@guilhermesavoya2366 3 года назад
@@hiimpeyton671 If a straight man goes to, dunno, a Halloween party and sees a woman dressed as a she-devil, with bikini-like costume and a hot body but a mask that covers the entire face, he may be attracted to her. Then they start making out and she takes the mask off and he realizes that, though he finds her body very attractive, her face is (in his opinion) ugly as hell. Is that not like with trans people? I could dress up as a woman and straight men could find me attractive, but that wouldn't make them gay ad they would lose all attraction the moment they learn that I'm a man. Now, I'm not saying trans women are man dressed up as women. I'm saying that attraction is based on what we can see. If a AFAB person who identifies as a man but has not come out or gone through any transition process (i.e. still looks like a girl) walks around and straight men find him attractive, that does not make them gay. People are not attracted to your internal sense of self. People are attracted to the elements of your appearance that they can perceive at the moment, if later on they find something they hadn't seen but that they find unattractive (e.g. a penis, a vagina, a big burnt mark, etc) the attraction will end right there and there is not easy way to tell the person that you are not attracted aymore without making them upset. It is not an easy issue.
@ashb712
@ashb712 2 года назад
@@guilhermesavoya2366 "people arent attracted to your internal sense of self" i mean this is absolutely not true, because romantic/emotional attraction exists and is a completely separate beast from physical/sexual attraction. Reducing the limits of human chemistry to nothing but physical appearance ignores a lot of nuance in human attraction.
@guilhermesavoya2366
@guilhermesavoya2366 2 года назад
@@ashb712 Maybe, but I'm talkinh about physical attraction.
@randomusername3873
@randomusername3873 10 месяцев назад
​@@hiimpeyton671so? Are you going to force him?
@TransDaughterOfWaterASMR
@TransDaughterOfWaterASMR 2 года назад
Ha super STUPID, love it! Good one Professor Pride!
@the_suicidal_one5699
@the_suicidal_one5699 2 года назад
I love you and your username
@TransDaughterOfWaterASMR
@TransDaughterOfWaterASMR 2 года назад
Thx! 😊 EDIT: YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEET
@the_suicidal_one5699
@the_suicidal_one5699 2 года назад
@@TransDaughterOfWaterASMR ur welcome
@joetheprogrammer0
@joetheprogrammer0 3 года назад
Kind of feels like a group of people who are insecure about their sexuality, so they're over compensating 🤷‍♂️
@TheRoyalDragonGyniereFiles
@TheRoyalDragonGyniereFiles 3 года назад
Thank you so much for informing me about this hate group towards us. They need to stop #StopSuperStraight
@derekellis4170
@derekellis4170 3 года назад
@Carbonite Superphobia is pogchamp
@TheRoyalDragonGyniereFiles
@TheRoyalDragonGyniereFiles 3 года назад
@Carbonite super straight is not a real sexuality dude. Do your research. Just because someone said it was a thing on the internet doesn’t make it true. Same thing for things like incest being a sexuality and anime sexual being a thing. It’s not real and will not be accepted as a part of us. Don’t like, suck it up and move on with your life.
@ilovewiener760
@ilovewiener760 3 года назад
Super straights are just transphobic and thats it
@kaiyodei
@kaiyodei 2 года назад
@@TheRoyalDragonGyniereFiles if catgender is real why can't "animesexual" be valid? it's just a Japanese animation flavor of "toonphilia" and some fictosexuality in it. some people only do get the hubbahubbas for 2d people and have been since young young ages
@TheRoyalDragonGyniereFiles
@TheRoyalDragonGyniereFiles 2 года назад
@@kaiyodei first of that’s not real either. Where the hell did you learn cat gender was a thing?
@hihi-gc3qi
@hihi-gc3qi 3 года назад
Ok so what if your generally not attracted to the male genetaili so if you don't want to have that kinda interaction but will still have a romantic relationship if keeping it that way is ok on both sides of the relationship ,is that trans phobic and also what orintation is that if your attracted to all genders but not certain genetaili ,if anyone has an answer or opion id love to hear it as long as your polite.(fyi I'm a trans ally )just looking for opions
@mermaid960
@mermaid960 3 года назад
Like he said in the video, there's two sides to the argument. If you just want to have a romantic but not sexual relationship with the other person and you are both okay with it, then that is fine. It is different for every person and it just depends on the individual on wether it is transphobic or not. If you do not want to be in a sexual relationship with a transgender person because you simply aren't attracted to that genetalia, then explain that. To some it comes off as transphobic, to others it is fine. It really isn't so black and white. You could also not be attracted to genetalia in general and are asexual, then that is fine too. I hope this helped. I personally understand both sides of the argument. I believe it is fine if you simply aren't attracted to that genetalia, but not dating someone just because they're transgender and don't have bottom surgery is transphobic in my opinion.
@turnip8749
@turnip8749 3 года назад
You might be on the asexual spectrum my friend
@kaiyodei
@kaiyodei 2 года назад
one is supposed to "get over that hangup"
@ashb712
@ashb712 2 года назад
I mean non sexual relationships exist everwhere. Romantic attraction can exist without any sexual attraction, so long as the arrangement is consensual. As a trans person myself, not being attracted to someone's genitalia boils down to personal preference. No one can fault you for it. Its inportant just that you explain its a matter of your preference in genitalia/sex traits to the person and not make the issue about their entire identity or something.
@kaiyodei
@kaiyodei 2 года назад
the same applies to everything then. don't want to date someone with ASPD? a Centrist? a non vegan? an age regressing furry?
@kurochi89
@kurochi89 Год назад
I've had issues with a friend on this same topic before. I would not say I got "persecuted" for it though. But it was clear he felt I was being "transphobic" when I said I was not looking to date someone who is trans. It never occurred to me that that would be an opinion of someone so now it make me concerned that less charitable people or simply aggressive people would react poorly to me saying that. So I struggle to say that in as delicate a way as possible. I think the guy who made this felt the same way and this was a sort of tongue in cheek method to try to distinguish his sexual orientation. Sadly it was hijacked by extremest and yet again hate groups destroy something that was never meant to be used in that way. I think its wrong to say someone is transphobic simply due to a sexual opinion. Yes the date was going well because they thought the other person was a certain gender, now that they know that isn't the case it DOES change everything. No they were not lied to but the expectations going forward will not be what they were hoping for. The fact it's brought up at all makes it clear both parties know its a deal breaker. If the other person gets angry and accuses them of lying to them and starts tossing slurs then YES THEY ARE transphobic. But if its a simple, "Oh... I'm sorry but I don't think we should go on another date." then it isn't. But that's just my two cents.
@anticraftycz8995
@anticraftycz8995 3 года назад
Nice vid. I am quite relieved that even public character is bit split by this too and that I finaly got some tips about this. I got really interested in that 7 spectrums of sexual orientation in 11:14. I tried to google that, but didn't found anything about that. Could I get some links to stuff I can learn about this and maybe to try make this or similar graph to this, please?
@ps4692
@ps4692 2 года назад
The guy in the video said that if you wouldn’t date a trans person purely because they are trans, then you’re transphobic. Idk why I can’t just show respect and keep my nose out of your lifestyle. Idk why I have to be ok with dating a trans person to not be considered transphobic. If that’s the general consensus with the trans community then your setting the bar of acceptance too high.
@anordinarygamer-vw7fo
@anordinarygamer-vw7fo 11 месяцев назад
look i think what they ment to say is "if you feel attracted to someone but you dont want to date them just because theyre trans then thats not ok"
@randomusername3873
@randomusername3873 10 месяцев назад
​@@anordinarygamer-vw7fowhich is basically advocating for rape, you don't want to date someone? Well, you have to
@anordinarygamer-vw7fo
@anordinarygamer-vw7fo 10 месяцев назад
@@randomusername3873 i never said anything about sex. but i agree you should only have sex with someone if the other person agrees to it, and of course, is an adult
@ytho1482
@ytho1482 3 года назад
Its just trans phobia but with extra steps
@miac4455
@miac4455 2 года назад
I disagree. I think that saying that you will only date cisgender people isn’t wrong necessarily, I moreso feel that the movement is transphobic than the idea
@Its_Besties
@Its_Besties Год назад
I don’t agree It’s just if my friend Sam is super straight then she just isn’t attracted to trans boys bc she is attracted to guys who where born guys And actually in some religions you have to be super straight to be in the religion Like you can’t be a gay Christian bc it goes against Gods Laws
@miac4455
@miac4455 Месяц назад
@@barrianic4 how. It is quite literally personal preference.
@sparkierss3189
@sparkierss3189 3 года назад
if you're going to state that homophobic and transphobic people have a lower iq provide the study. also what term are they using to define trans/homophobe? because people seem to use the word whenever they dont like someone. how does being a transphobe correlate to critical thinking and problem solving skills?
@sparkierss3189
@sparkierss3189 3 года назад
you mention that he has no evidence for being condemned right? well why would he make the joke in the first place if there wasn't already a prevalent issue of that happening? jokes are supposed to be relatable, so me making a joke about some random topic no one knows about isnt going to be funny, let alone start a thing where people are backing the idea
@sparkierss3189
@sparkierss3189 3 года назад
having a preference is not hateful, just because you only want to eat chocolate ice cream doesn't equate to you hating all the other flavors, and conflating that idea lets you condemn literally anyone (excuse the analogy)
@sparkierss3189
@sparkierss3189 3 года назад
where are the "neo nazis"? do they identify as that? because again you guys seem to call anyone that you don't like a nazi, so trying to find one without you explicitly pointing them out is rather difficult. also i fail to see where a similar acronym means you're a nazi.
@sparkierss3189
@sparkierss3189 2 года назад
i just found this string of replies again somehow, and now AS a trans person i can still say this shit aint transphobic lol
@jambobs875
@jambobs875 3 года назад
bruh that's stupid af
@ytho1482
@ytho1482 3 года назад
Ya
@smashbot500
@smashbot500 2 года назад
Imo, not wanting to date trans people is not transphobic. Making a new "orientation" specifically for not dating trans people, and calling it "super straight" as if it's the better version because it doesnt include trans people, is transphobic.
@richie9878
@richie9878 2 года назад
You are missing the point that it’s not straight people that are being the bigots in this scenario it’s trans activists types that are literally trying to change/invalidate heterosexuality. Heterosexuality is the sole sexual attraction to the opposite sex. A trans woman is the same sex as a man so no they are not straight if they knowing sleep with people that are they sane sex as them.
@MaddyIsSilly
@MaddyIsSilly 2 года назад
my thoughts exactly. The same as someone not wanting to date someone shorter than them or if they have a beard.
@richie9878
@richie9878 2 года назад
@@MaddyIsSilly not the same as that. Super straight is literally just heterosexuality as in they are only sexually attracted to the opposite sex. So within the opposite sex there are people with different hair color, fat, skinny etc that would be the preference but their sexuality as in only being sexually attracted to the opposite sex is not a preference.
@MxEickley
@MxEickley 2 года назад
First of all before I watch the video I saw you a little rant of the rambling about everything and it just reminded me myself that you're just so damn adorable when you're doing that. I just had to add that in there and also thank you for your videos that you've been doing and everything.
@HeartOfArt7
@HeartOfArt7 3 года назад
Yeah, that whole movement is just super dumb. Super straight? More like super transphobic. I don't think it's transphobic to not want to date transgender people, though. For me, it really depends on how exactly you express that and I think if you do that in a calm and polite manner, it's totally fine. Let's assume you went on a date with someone and it all went well, you really like that person and at the end of the date, they tell you that they're trans, but that they haven't gotten bottom surgery yet. If you'd say something like "Really? I didn't even notice. I think you're really brave for staying true to who you are, but I'm not attracted to your physical genetalia and they're not what I'm looking for in a romantic and physical relationship." I don't think that would be transphobic. I think it's fine, as long as you express it in a non-discriminative way. If you're just not physically attracted to those genetalia, there's nothing you can do about that. But if you'd instead say something like "Eww, you're transgender? What a waste! I only like real men/woman." then I'd say that's totally transphobic. But just like you said, everyone has a different view on this debate and this is just my opinion, of course 🤷🏻‍♀️ I wouldn't consider myself to be bi, pan or anything of that sort, but I think I really wouldn't mind being with a transgender person. If they haven't gotten bottom surgery yet, I probably wouldn't do anything in the intimate department, but that doesn't mean I wouldn't develop any romantic feelings for that person. We could still kiss and cuddle and all that good couple stuff ^^💕🏳️‍🌈
@actually_a_sign3954
@actually_a_sign3954 2 года назад
Exactly. I call myself straight, but I wouldn't mindbeing with someone trans
@kaiyodei
@kaiyodei 2 года назад
so brave to hide something pretty important from someone up untill you have sex. be it in 2 months or 2 dates.
@itwink_le
@itwink_le 2 года назад
@@kaiyodei That was implying it was the first date. No one has to disclose that information to you early on. It's creepy and invasive to expect someone to do that.
@itwink_le
@itwink_le 2 года назад
I'm trans and most of us don't actually like when people say "you don't look trans". It feeds into a dumb idea people have of what we should look like.
@CamoGilly
@CamoGilly 2 года назад
~For a bit of reference, I'm genderfluid and trixic, or a woman-loving enby.~ I agree with all of this, and I also haven't been with a trans person yet. However, I don't think you should go so "brief" with your statement, I feel like it could be sort of awkward for a person. Maybe in a kinder, calmer tone, maybe? For example, continuing from your skit, "Really? I didn't even notice. I'd say you're really brave for staying true to yourself, but I'm more so attracted to feminine genitalia. This doesn't mean that I'm not attracted to you at all, or that I don't see you as a woman, it's just that I wouldn't be comfortable developing a more intimate relationship." Like you said, just saying "eww" would just be rude and transphobic as a whole. I'd also get some romantic feelings for the person yk :] (I know this is about one little piece of your comment, but I feel that there's a more relaxed approach to what you're saying. I'm not trying to be mean in all this, just trying to give my thoughts on yours ^^)
@s0lar.ecl1pse83
@s0lar.ecl1pse83 3 года назад
this video could be done in 1 second
@Maggie66112
@Maggie66112 2 года назад
I don't think it's transphobic If someone doesn't want to date a trans person. The person might not want to have you know what with a person that has that genitalia. That's it I think.
@crunchyjuice6418
@crunchyjuice6418 2 года назад
my thought: i think u can have the choice of not dating trans people for whatever reason it is, but it shouldnt be a sexuality imo
@blesr9022
@blesr9022 2 года назад
I wonder if anyone heard the term “super ally” and, being unaware, think it meant they strongly supported the LGBTQIA+ instead of the…. I’m not saying it.
@jaquekod815
@jaquekod815 2 года назад
super straight movement?
@entropy-cat
@entropy-cat 2 года назад
What's super ally?
@blesr9022
@blesr9022 2 года назад
Yeah it’s meant for the super straight movement, it means you support the transphobic mess that is super straight. That’s what a super ally is.
@Jukestarz
@Jukestarz 2 года назад
I just want to fact check 1 thing in this video.. not out of malice but to educate people about this horrible "movement" "Super straight" originally was a 4Chan "Meme" meant to be semi sarcastic. It spread like wildfire to other platforms unfortunately and is no longer a "joke" it's now people being genuinely spiteful
@cloudwalker9572
@cloudwalker9572 2 года назад
Ok yeah I had the feeling he didn't knew where it came from and was never going to talk about it being from 4 chan
@RedAngelSophia
@RedAngelSophia 2 года назад
It is one thing to be uninterested in dating a transgender people. It is another thing, entirely, to feel that transgender people owe it to you to live up to extremely onerous demands of when they must disclose their trans-status just to _shield_ you from _accidentally_ dating one of them. And what if you lose interest in dating someone when you find out that they are trans after a date or two? Well - that depends. Was your interest in them already so close to the cusp that learning one little thing was enough to cause you to lose interest? Or, upon finding out that they were trans did you judge them as being “dishonest” for not telling you earlier - and thereby causing them to lose a TON of points with you for supposed dishonesty - to the point of having no interest in dating someone that moments ago you were heads over heels for? If you are judging them as being supposedly dishonest for not having disclosed their trans-status to you before saying “hello” -then that is very MUCH transphobic - because it is based on the idea that trans-people owe it to others to wear a yellow star on their clothes. We don’t. Another question - if you are uninterested in dating someone who is trans -- are you going to treat them the same way you would treat a member of their gender who you are uninterested in dating for any _different_ reason?
@RedAngelSophia
@RedAngelSophia 2 года назад
@@doobiestudios1107 - By that token, there is nothing wrong with valuing all lives, yes, including white ones. The problem is, that is not what those who say “White lives matter” or “All lives matter” are about. Rather, they are just about finding ways to shout-down and belittle the Black Lives Matter movement. Likewise, there is nothing wrong with being a guy who is only attracted to cisgender women and just so happens to never ever be attracted to a trans-woman. But that is not what the “super-straight” movement is about. They are about either (a) asserting that they are never attracted to trans-woman and willing to wreak retribution on anyone who “dares” be a counter-example to their assertion or (b) demanding that trans-woman share private information on their first two-seconds of knowing someone in order to protect them from being “accidentally” attracted to a trans-woman.
@nothing-oy6rl
@nothing-oy6rl 2 года назад
Thanks you so much you helped me and my friends so much one of my friends was homophobic but you helped him to more understand the LGBTQA+ and now he support LGBTQA+ so really tanks you!
@user-xr1ml2oj9v
@user-xr1ml2oj9v 3 года назад
Thank you for helping me come out!
@JamesBrown-lp7xp
@JamesBrown-lp7xp 3 года назад
In me giving what I give in this message I am being quite mindful of and careful things outside of the context that is provided in the following part of the message. When I hear the words Super Straight my mind goes Into two directions one being that the kind of people leading a movement about that kind of thing are probably accurately described in the way you mentioned the other way that my mind goes is that it could possible be a young kid that is trying there best to comprehend what it means to be neurobiological heterosexual in that for example I have a condition for which official information on it has not been given to the public and with that condition my sexual attraction that being cisgender women with me being a cisgender men that is where the heterosexual part comes from directly leads to all the other spectrums of attraction for me being pushed in such ways that when come to the more romantic relationships the spectrums all line up to push my heterosexualness one of the things that that conditions causes is a significantly stronger relation between my brain and the rest of my body which plays a major part in the strength of my heterosexualness. When I first found out about that condition that I have I had to learn a lot very quickly and I was only a preteen at the time so I can just imagine what a younger kid my have handled trying to learn all of that Information and what mistakes in wording that they might end up making in this case it could’ve been calling neurobiological heterosexual super straight. I am quite young still so that aspect of the condition has yet to play a part in my relationships as I can still be friends with someone regardless of their sexual orientation or gender and I have yet to develop Romantic relationships with people. I am a person that tries my best to educates my self on the type of things that other people go though I find myself to be a major supporter of LGBTQ+ community and I find that powered by rainbows helps me understand what it is like for a person in that community. In regards to whether it is Transphobic to say you do not have that strong of a attraction toward a transperson I do not think that it is Transphobic to say it if it is true but if it is false then it would be transphobic similarly to saying that it is not racist to say that the only difference between a black person and a white person is the level of pigment in Black people there is a lot of pigment which leads to them being more protected against the sun than white people who do not have as much pigment.
@max_ishere
@max_ishere 2 года назад
I don't think that sexual attraction has anything to do with transphobia. If you don't want to date a trans women or nen its ok by me.
@chaoticrat7658
@chaoticrat7658 2 года назад
That's why transphobes and neo Nazis use super straight, it's a dog whistle that they hide behind and when you call them out on it they claim your just over reacting. Sexual attraction has nothing to do with transphobia like you said its just that after the alt right neo Nazis took the super straight label it became a transphobic dog whistle.
@songsofsusannah
@songsofsusannah 3 месяца назад
I personally don't know how I'd feel in a relationship if a man I was involved with came out to me that he was a trans man. I do know how I would feel if my husband came out to me that she was a trans woman, because that actually happened, and it was a non-issue for me, even though I think of myself as hetero-romantic. Sexual attraction didn't matter, because I'm asexual, and I think that my being demiromantic and recipromantic are more important aspects of my orientation than than my being hetero-romantic...in fact, I sort of think of it as, "I'm hetero-romantic, insofar as I can tell; falling in love with a woman isn't something that's necessarily impossible for me, only unprecedented." At the time, my then-husband wanted to be a cis man, and thought that I could somehow magically transform her into a cis straight man instead of a lesbian trans woman, which is, of course, impossible. Her lack of self-acceptance and her resentment of my acceptance of her as she was (even though she really should've told me that she was a trans woman before we got married, or even engaged) was the problem that lead her to become abusive and to me leaving the marriage. It was her lack of self-acceptance that was the problem (and her resentment of me, as she blamed my asexuality, which she saw as sexual dysfunction, on my inability to magic her into a straight cis man). I kept her gender identity a secret for over 20 years, then when she came out, I was so happy for her! Our romantic relationship may have been long over (in fact, she had married another woman who, once again, had no idea that she was a trans woman; apparently she thought that a cis woman who wasn't asexual would work the magic that I could not), but now she can finally be her best, most authentic self. What she put me through when she was in the closet, living as a man, and expecting that, "A nice girl like you can fix me," I suppose might've made some people hate trans people for what she put me through when I expected to be married to a straight cis man, but actually, her lack of self-acceptance made me see just how important self-acceptance is, and the ability to live as your true self and not have your gender and orientation defined by heteronormativity, amatonormativity, gender assigned at birth, etc. I still don't know how I'd feel if I were romantically involved with a man and I found out that he had been assigned female at birth. I imagine that it wouldn't make any difference to me, I just can't know that for sure because it is not my lived experience. For me, it's attachment that matters...once I'm attached to a romantic partner, that's it. It doesn't matter, presumably, if they're male or female, trans or cis or non-binary (in fact, I'm a demigirl so it would be really hypocritical if I cared if they were non-binary); the only thing that seems to matter is that (at least so far) they probably have to be male-presenting or biologically male to begin with (I'm not sure which, or if either is fine), they have to be someone that I already have a close friendship with, and they have to be romantically interested in me. I did not abandon my husband just because she was a trans woman, and I assume that it would probably be the same if I learned that I was involved with a trans man, and I am curious as to which applies to me, whether (or if) I can only become romantically interested in XY individuals or male-presenting individuals, but I am unlikely to find out, since I've been in a committed relationship with my second husband for over 20 years now. Still, it's a curiosity for me that I don't know. If it doesn't make a difference to me if my husband comes out as a trans woman, would it have made a difference to me if she had accepted being trans and had wanted to live as a woman while we were married? And, if my 2nd husband suddenly came out to me that he had been hiding it all these years that he was assigned female at birth, would it make a difference? I don't think that it would, other than the fact that it would be bizarre to have hidden it from me for so long, especially when my husband already knows that it didn't make any difference to me when my ex-husband came out to me as a trans woman. Before getting engaged or making another big commitment step, it's really important to disclose these things to your partner, even if it's scary and you're afraid of rejection. Just make sure you're in a safe place in case they turn violent, since I understand that this sometimes happens, though I am utterly confused as to why anyone would respond with violence. In any case, I am anything but super straight! Which is quite a switch from how thing were in the 1990s, when someone like me absolutely would've been considered straight just because I'm hetero-romantic.
@pluto545
@pluto545 2 года назад
Not trying to insult anyone, but why is if someone brands themselves super-straight I find myself questioning their possible sexuality more or see them trying to overcompensate for personal inadequacies.
@richie9878
@richie9878 2 года назад
Super straight is literally just the definition of Heterosexuality. And the reason it became popular is there are many trans activists types that are trying to change/invalidate heterosexuality so people are like fine than I’m super straight
@breakingboardrooms1778
@breakingboardrooms1778 2 года назад
I think that super straight should be defined by Robin Tran's usage of the phrase.
@topnarutoc2111
@topnarutoc2111 2 года назад
we should change the definition to liking trans people along with cis people. example, i like girls AND trans girls, im super straight *sunglesses emojis*
@machinedramon3532
@machinedramon3532 2 года назад
I don't think not being attracted to transgender people is necessarily transphobic, but feeling the need to attach an identity to it definitely is. Suppose someone of the opposite gender were to propose to someone, and that person were to refuse because they were gay. They probably wouldn't be offended by that, because not liking people of that particular gender doesn't really have anything to do with them specifically. Now suppose that person were to refuse because they didn't like people with, say, brown hair. In that case, they would probably come across as rather petty, not because they aren't attracted to people with that particular hair color, but because they felt the need to call out one of the person's identifying characteristics as something they are not attracted to, when they could have just said something along the lines of "Sorry, I'm just not really attracted to you." Now suppose that person were to refuse because they aren't attracted to black people. There wouldn't necessarily be anything wrong with that per se, but in pointing it out, they would come across as both petty and racist, since they would be not only calling out one of the person's distinguishing characteristics, but one that is often discriminated against. This is the problem with super straight; you're essentially saying, "Not only am I not attracted to people with this particular distinguishing characteristic that they already face discrimination for, it is so important to me that I feel the need to make this a part of my identity," when you could just as easily just not date transgender people and no one would tell you otherwise.
@richie9878
@richie9878 2 года назад
Here is the problem, if I say I not attracted to trans people and prefer cisgender woman the same people that say that's ok will also say if you are attracted to women than you should be attracted to a trans woman because there is no difference from a trans woman and other women and if I don't hold that exact belief they will bully me and call me hateful and phobic. Hence why the super straight identity is needed.
@aliciaq9962
@aliciaq9962 2 года назад
@@richie9878 there is a difference, a biological difference and it doesn't matter how they put it Trans and cis persons where born differently.
@richie9878
@richie9878 2 года назад
@@aliciaq9962 what do you mean they were born differently?
@aliciaq9962
@aliciaq9962 2 года назад
@@richie9878 different genitals, sex organs, the brain develops differently in males and females, different growth of hormones and Trans women would never be avaliable to give birth. As long as you respect them as a human being not feeling attacked to them for being Trans it's not transfobic, if it is, then lesbians hate men and being gay should be misogynistic but it's not, you can refuse to date someone for any reason and that doesn't make you a bad person.
@richie9878
@richie9878 2 года назад
@@aliciaq9962 I agree and I think you have a logical position. I think you misread my original comment and or I didn't make it clear enough. Either way I get what you are saying.
@doceideer7993
@doceideer7993 2 года назад
This Super straight stuff is like a Mobius strip of dumb. It all just feeds into itself until it collapses. Addendum: let me just start by saying that I am a trans woman. For me, I find it kind of bad form to wait until the date is over to and drop the "I'm trans" line after a connection is formed. Even if you pass without issue, are post op, etc. I feel it is (at least to me) deception through omission. I want my partner or prospective partner to know me, respect me, and be accepting of me fully. To that end, I can't disrespect them like that and hide what is a very big aspect of my personal journey. They cant respect me if they do not know me. I understand that this can limit my dating options. I understand that not everyone is attracted to what I have to offer physically. Trust that I don't like that fact, but I am not going to hide who I am for a date. I am a woman. But I am a woman with "unwomanly parts" as some would say. Some folks won't gel with that and they are perfectly valid for liking what they like just as I am. If I may be so bold as to say that it seems like the reason people hide the truth about being a trans man/woman is because it comes from a place of fear. Fear that you will be rejected. And so what this dose is makes the rejection something that is in your control, not theirs. "I reject you because you are transphobic" and not "I'm just not attracted to you in that way". No one should feel emotionally blackmailed into a relationship and that's what I feel like such an act does. The point of being LGBTQ+ and pride is to not need to hide who you are. Sometimes this means dealing with the sad truth that the pickings are slimmer than for other folks, or that you may feel undesirable. Its not fair or fun but it happens. I will tell you my brothers, sisters, and binary resisters that there is someone who can and will love you for you. Don't hide who you are. Be proud and be open about your journey if it is safe to do so. Here too is a scary possibility. What if you do this and the person IS transphobic and becomes violent from what they perceive as "a trick"? I don't want to say you are doing something immoral or wrong. We get enough of that from outside the community. I just ask why you feel the need to hide or not tell your prospective partner about the wonderful news that you are in a better place than you once were? The fact that you feel whole and like your true self now is a wonderful thing. I want my partner to celebrate that with me and be happy for me. By not telling them until the end you lose a possible chance to bond with them and create a wonderful memory. Or at the very least its a fun conversation while waiting for your drinks. Like I said this is my opinion and you folks are free to do as you want. I am not your mom. But I do want what is best for the trans community. Be open, be proud, be straightforward, and be safe.
@losersGuide
@losersGuide 2 года назад
Can you be transgender and not want to date a trans person
@MaddyIsSilly
@MaddyIsSilly 2 года назад
Yes! Because you can not want to date anyone for any reason! Just don’t make an entire sexuality out of it and boom, you’re not an a**whole!
@gamerboimax6068
@gamerboimax6068 2 года назад
even though I'm not straight I don't really hate straight people Bing straight is a preference just like being gay bi or pan I think the solution to this problem is to allow and accept straight pride into the lgbtq community the term straight isn't really a homophobic statement it's a preference so it shouldn't be allowed to be taken as a homophobic statement
@slyar
@slyar 2 года назад
Straight pride is one of the dumbest concepts ever made. What struggles for rights did they go through? What suppresion have they gone under because of religion? Also, straight is a sexuality, not a preference, and no one said being straight is homophobic
@gyorgykolozsvari4730
@gyorgykolozsvari4730 2 года назад
One thing I don't understand is; what the difference between the limits and no's of super straight, and other sexualities. I can't really explain this in one sentence, so hear me out. An asexual will not have a sexual relationship with anyone, be it a woman, man, any other genders aside from those, any sexual orientation. There are even different sexualities like bisexual and pansexual, which to be fair, have very little difference, besides the latter being attracted to genders other than male and female, whereas bi is not. So what makes super straight so different? They simply don't want to date trans people, even if they transitioned to a gender of their preference. I don't think it's necesarry to make a whole new different sexuality just because you don't want to be labelled with a personal preference which might not be so popular, because then we would have millions of unecessary sexualities, but it's your own choice if you do not want to date trans women/men. Another thing I'd like to ask, which is the so called political party that invented this super straight movement? You always said 'this party", but I'd like to look up for them. It's interesting how they thought of the entire SS coincidence. Although the who logos don't seem so familiar to one and another, atleast to me. Also, the SS logo isn't the logo of the nazi party, but the militilary/police force unit. :) I guess I'm gonna apologize for being an odd-one-out in the comments for having some disagreements, but I couldn't hold it back. I am a straight ally, and this is one thing I cannot agree on with this community. I do recognize the fact that many transphobes will try to hide behind "super straight", but I don't think the idea of labeling yourself differently from another sexuality because you have different orientations is a bad thing. Sure, we shouldn't make a different sexuality for every different orientation, because again, too many sexualities would be coined, for tiny details like say liking chocolate and not liking it. And I think super straight is a movement which tries to make a sexuality with a tiny different orientation, which must realize it's difference is too small to make for a new different sexuality. *Homophobes musn't be tolerated, but people who aren't attracted to trans, should be!*
@vantagedriver6477
@vantagedriver6477 Год назад
What is the difference between a transphobic sentence and a hate-speech sentence?
@Drud
@Drud 3 месяца назад
I can tell you! The former is not a thing, but the latter does exist.
@basilallen1881
@basilallen1881 3 года назад
Super gay here! I can say without a shadow of a doubt i’m attracted to trans women for the same reasons I’m attracted to cis women. Y’all “super straights” need to stop acting goofy. The moment when you share opinions with literal nazis you may want to expand your horizons...
@hiimpeyton671
@hiimpeyton671 3 года назад
Oof, you don’t know “super gay” is a real thing, do ya? Super gays only date cis men. I thought you were being transphobic until I saw the rest of your comment lmao
@basilallen1881
@basilallen1881 3 года назад
Oh my god! I probably should have looked into that first, eh? That’s really disappointing to hear but it doesn’t surprise me. I sometimes forget that cis gay people like myself can be just as ignorant as cis het people. I’d like to think that we as gay people would be more empathetic to the both binary and non binary trans members of our queer family. It’s disheartening to know that despite trans people’s staunch allyship and need for solidarity right now, there are still cis members of the community who chose to be ignorant and chose to other people knowing how it feels. Ugh I don’t know if it’s appropriated for me to extend an apology on their behalf but I want to send an apology from the cis gays. Sorry for being transphobic ass wipes!
@kaiyodei
@kaiyodei 2 года назад
@@hiimpeyton671 why is supergay allowed but superstraight not allowed?
@Psyware
@Psyware 3 года назад
I'm a "CIS" "male" (looks), 190cm, 120kg, past amateur bodybuilder(now 31yrs of age), wide shoulders/jaw, little overweight. I'm attracted to: Trans pre-op(likely feminine body), men(all sizes( smaller are funnier), females(likely hairy). So what am i according to you identity polics madness that divides people and create conflict ? This brave man showed you, that your inclusive id it's about you, and prejudiced against others. madness
@CocaKolaaaa
@CocaKolaaaa 2 года назад
Super straight meaning: it’s invalid
@cyl_genderfluid-furry
@cyl_genderfluid-furry 2 года назад
Someone who is smart could be unknowledgeable, and someone could be daft while being knowledgeable. Someone could have a certain amount of knowledge, and just be stubborn. It isn't that morons I mean homophobes I mean transphobes I mean sexists are daft because they have low reading material, they're just generally less of both.
@SirFae
@SirFae Год назад
It might be a little transphobic to not want to date trans people until you start flaunting it around. “I’m sorry, but I’m not interested in trans people” might feel transphobic. “I don’t wanna date trans people😎😎😎” feels very transphobic. But I guess it’s a matter of opinion.
@CitanulsPumpkin
@CitanulsPumpkin 2 года назад
Every time I try to wrap my head around the "Super Straight" identity I end up asking, "So a bunch of Cis Het weirdos made a gender identity that revolves around the paranoid fear of "But what if a "trans" tries to seduce me?"
@CitanulsPumpkin
@CitanulsPumpkin 2 года назад
Seriously, how many hours of "chicks with dicks" porn have to rot away the human interaction part of your brain before you get to the point where you think every trans person out there is gonna volunteer to make you question why you have a boner?
@Oltrya
@Oltrya 2 года назад
I've had the struggle of worrying people will think I'm transphobic cause i won't date a transwoman (I'm genderfluid and neptunic, which is attraction to everyone but men/masculinity) But for me it is entirely a trauma thing. I have had people send me *adult images* where there is *that* genitalia involved and it made me have a panic attack And for some reason i thought that was transphobic... to prioritize my mental stability And then i talked to my trans friends and they were like "???? that's not transphobic???? bitch ur traumatised sit down ur fine"
@smilfusii4191
@smilfusii4191 Год назад
Queer people designing pride flags: These colours represent XYZ and uses symbols from mythology, are clever and interesting to research Super straights designing the pride flag: Dur dur funny porn colours and Nazi symbols
@sneakyninjafroggy6466
@sneakyninjafroggy6466 3 года назад
How are there only 170 views?
@Rebellious_Pastry
@Rebellious_Pastry 3 года назад
He posted this yesterday.
@Harry78996
@Harry78996 3 года назад
@@Rebellious_Pastry no 6 hours ago
@derekellis4170
@derekellis4170 3 года назад
I feel like most of the subs to this channel are from people who watched the flag thing and thought the channel was wholesome, but then never actually watched the notifications. I could be wrong though, I'm also pretty new to the channel.
@Rebellious_Pastry
@Rebellious_Pastry 3 года назад
@@derekellis4170 I subbed because of the host. And how he took time to comfort me in time of pain even though the pain wasn't LGBTQ+ I'm a double A Aro Ace. But in my time of need it was another issue and Matt still took the time to help me
@derekellis4170
@derekellis4170 3 года назад
@@Rebellious_Pastry I came from the flag, stayed for the accepting LGBT vids that don't have hateful homophobes in the comments. Im an omnisexual. Also hope your doing great
@xethrion4758
@xethrion4758 3 года назад
Super straight is a choice because they claim they choose to be super straight lol
@pablolm1992
@pablolm1992 2 года назад
super straight is like the ancap of orientations
@girlpower263
@girlpower263 2 года назад
The gender, of a person is a trait. A lot of things are traits even if people don’t think of it as them. Is saying you want someone of the opposite gender who is sis-gender mean? Yes, but no more mean than when we say we only date guys over 6 ft. Should it be made illegal to say people cant be supper straight? No! Claiming that judging people on this trait is any worse than judging people based on there sexuality, race, or class is wrong. To be fair judging people on any physical traits is wrong, but necessary for people to have freedom to choose who they want to data.
@rosieg6989
@rosieg6989 2 года назад
This video came out when this topic was still new, other lgbt youtubers have gone over the topic in more detail. Basically if you politely decline a person because you don't like that kind of genitalia or you what bio kids in the future that is fine, but what the "super straights" are doing is demeaning trans people and often saying/implying that they are lesser then their cis counterparts or simply aren't the gender they claim to be. No one cares if you aren't comfortable dating a trans person, what we care about is if you go about it kindly with respect.
@9e05cherianpadipurackalvar6
@9e05cherianpadipurackalvar6 2 года назад
"sis-gender" lmao sister gender
@ajmod73
@ajmod73 2 года назад
This reminds me of how anti-vax and flat-earth started >:c
@eternal-z2h
@eternal-z2h 3 года назад
why is this even a debate cuz what trans person would want to date that person anyway
@Yevgen4000
@Yevgen4000 2 года назад
My opinion: Rejecting someone for the sole reason of them being transgender is not necessarily transphobic. It's the same as if someone cisgender said, "We can keep dating, but I will not have sex with you." That's a completely different debate, whether it is fair to leave someone just because they can't/don't want to have sex. It depends on your orientation and overall opinions on relationships, but most importantly, unless it becomes an open relationship, it prevents you from having sex with anyone without cheating. Which basically puts up the ultimatum that either you choose to date them, but you can't have (enjoyable) sex, or you turn them down, and you can have enjoyable sex in the future. I definitely see how this could be seen as transphobic, but still don't really agree that this should be a debate at all, because the one most important factor is your attraction, and how much significance that puts on sex.
@Lechgang
@Lechgang 2 года назад
It becomes transphobic if it stems from a predjudice, which the super-straight movement was founded on.
@slyar
@slyar 2 года назад
@@Lechgang The name itself is also transphobic, "super" straight. It implies that those not attracted to trans people are "better" than, or "more" straight than regular straight people. It also implies you can tell the difference between a trans and a cis person, which simply isn't true no matter how hard you believe [unless theyre out in the streets holding the trans flag out in a pride parade but, yknow]
@Lechgang
@Lechgang 2 года назад
@@slyar This
@kaiyodei
@kaiyodei 2 года назад
nobody owes you a date nobody owes you sex, unless you are transgender, then everyone is obliged to give them a chance. yet if I claim I am entitled to relationships because I am bipolar, I'm not allowed to do that. nobody owes me that kind of love. but oops. if I'm a man, the gay men need to give me a chance and if they say "no your body is wrong" I have every right to throw an incel tempertantrum.
@aidenj.t.4183
@aidenj.t.4183 2 года назад
No trans person has said that you owe them a date. Making a fake sexuality to try to invalidate trans people is incredibly transphobic. If you have a genital preference, then you don’t have to date trans people; nobody is making you do anything.
@kaiyodei
@kaiyodei 2 года назад
@@aidenj.t.4183 what about all the screen captures from other people? I stated once I don't want to date a trans man and was told I should because of how many transgender people get killed
@kaiyodei
@kaiyodei 2 года назад
@@aidenj.t.4183 there is making and then there is nagging. "gee I don't know, seems kind of shitty that you don't want a girlfriend that looks like a boyfriend at a nude beach, maybe think about why you are that way, maybe try not being such a biggot and learn about transgender issues"
@Sylvia_15
@Sylvia_15 3 года назад
I was just watching someone post (TikTok) (Hes against it)
@racenturtlez
@racenturtlez 3 месяца назад
It’s definitely your opinion that higher education automatically means you’re more intelligent. There very well may be crows or octopi that are more intelligent than you or me and I have yet to hear of either with a master’s degree.
@jamesgannon2136
@jamesgannon2136 2 года назад
Well in all fairness it is easy not to know that SS is a Nazi symbol because you know they don't really cover that shit in school that's more something you would figure out to like cursory research or through like movie or pop culture references
@rorybaker5799
@rorybaker5799 2 года назад
Man your videos really give me a different perspective. The place I live I genuinely believe tjay people somehow form their personality around being non straight but of course that’s the minority. I have some wackjob opinions but I really appreciate that you respected my view, it allowed me to respect yours going in. And now I can better understand it
@Kramer-tt32
@Kramer-tt32 Год назад
Are there defined adjectives for all permutations of sexual preferences? Like here are a few examples Transmale->cismale attraction Transfemale->male attraction Cismale->transfemale attraction Just wondering if there are specific adjectives?
@Kacenits
@Kacenits 3 года назад
The "super stupid" is the first of many things that convinced me to watch this video to its full length
@anthonytye3488
@anthonytye3488 2 года назад
I don't comment on videos very often but, I don't think it is transphobic if you find out and you say genuinely and truthfully that you are not into that. we all have personal preferences. i think you are making this more complicated than it is with transphobia in this regard.
@aidenj.t.4183
@aidenj.t.4183 2 года назад
If you don’t want to date a trans person because you have a genital preference, that is just fine. But making a “sexuality” that’s meant to invalidate trans people is heavily transphobic.
@abigailgrady4865
@abigailgrady4865 3 года назад
#StopSuperStraight. How stupid is it!?
@derekellis4170
@derekellis4170 3 года назад
Very
@derekellis4170
@derekellis4170 3 года назад
@@graynotescartridgebox Leave the channel. We don't tolerate hate towards LGBT here. There is no gay agenda. Get out. PPBR bans people like you.
@derekellis4170
@derekellis4170 3 года назад
@@graynotescartridgebox I'm not arguing with someone who thinks there is a gay agenda, has left many other comments about how trans people aren't valid, and cannot use the word racist correctly in a sentence. Get out. You are here for nothing but to spread hate against our trans and gay friends. Please leave, it is so easy to just not be on PPBR. And because this channel doesn't have ads and RU-vid probably wouldn't recommend you this, you searched for this type of content just to hate. ✨Leave✨
@fake.plastic.tree.
@fake.plastic.tree. 3 года назад
#StopSuperStraight ✊
@eternal-z2h
@eternal-z2h 3 года назад
super
@haydenrasmussen6400
@haydenrasmussen6400 Год назад
This is so refreshing after r\arethestraightsokay
@noobyartist6136
@noobyartist6136 3 года назад
Early :> (Am I first???)
@kristoffernor897
@kristoffernor897 2 года назад
What the fuck did i just watch..
@Alexa0795
@Alexa0795 3 года назад
No one is a 100% straight that false and it's funny when they're start to freak out
@snarfels
@snarfels 3 года назад
“When they’re start to freak out” If you’d been paying attention you’d see the only people freaking out are the superphobes
@MangaBear
@MangaBear 3 года назад
So no is gay. So it's fluid
@retro430
@retro430 3 года назад
No one is 100% gay, that’s false.
@seto749
@seto749 3 года назад
I'm 100% gay (have probably dated a trans man or two) and can believe in some people's being 100% straight.
@MangaBear
@MangaBear 3 года назад
@@seto749 meh 😕 honestly sexuality is kinda fluid imo
@kaiyodei
@kaiyodei 2 года назад
how do I learn to like vulvas?do people really have an aversion to some due to how they were raised? why is it wrong for me to not want to date a amab catgender? why do I need to learn how to see the man inside one who looks like (i don't know, what's her name, Gal Gahot). so you Professor Pride would like a man who looks like a cis woman? you would want him as your boyfriend and get the hubbahubbas?
@DinosaurNick
@DinosaurNick 2 года назад
I don't even understand what you're trying to say or prove here? No one is telling you to like someone you're not attracted to Not all trans people look like a specific gender (I'm an Agender AFAB who's masc/andro) I don't claim Catgender people as those are not genders and are mockeries of actual gender identities
@cyruss6536
@cyruss6536 2 года назад
@@DinosaurNick I see Amab and Afab used a lot, what do they mean?
@twylenb
@twylenb 2 года назад
@@cyruss6536 Assigned Male at Birth(people born with penises). Assigned Female at Birth(people born with vaginas).
@elisamcgowan4774
@elisamcgowan4774 Год назад
This might sound simplistic, but in my opinion, if no one wants to date me because I am Trans, that is there loss!).
@chcolate_chip3020
@chcolate_chip3020 2 года назад
I think it’s just straight people trying to become part of the lgbt community. Like it’s ok if you don’t like trans people, you can have a preference.
@Gnmile
@Gnmile 2 года назад
Ok it’s not the best thing to do but I think that the way you go about it that’s what depends if it trans phobic or not I also don’t think they should call it super straight I just feel like the names unfair to trans people because to me it makes it sound like trans people aren’t actual boys or girls but it’s ok if your uncomfortable dating someone that is born the opposite gender and he makes a great point that people are denying what could be a great relationship because of the gender they were not supposed to be born as
@urlocalcatlover7977
@urlocalcatlover7977 2 года назад
you need a new background curtain, don’t get me wrong it’s nice but we need a change, maybe like a curtain with a bunch of different pride flags on it or the original queer flag, PLEASEEE you’ve had The same idea for about two years
@yuckyh
@yuckyh 2 года назад
Can someone summarize what this person is saying? Cos fuck I'm twisted around, i need explanation as i respect the LGBTQIA+ community voicing out what they think
@geta6863
@geta6863 2 года назад
you completely missed the point and brilliant joke about "super straight", all you cry is about homophobia...
@wadpaw
@wadpaw 3 года назад
10:35 you played your self
@DinosaurNick
@DinosaurNick 2 года назад
Huh?
@Areoxx
@Areoxx 2 года назад
My opinion on not dating trans people: if you don't wanna date someone because their transgender then thats fine. As long as you SUPPORT LGBTQ+.
@bridgetcooney5085
@bridgetcooney5085 3 года назад
The gray area is a complicated place. Like first of all super straights are super stupid. But now I'm playing mental gymnastics with myself, and I think I'm just finding the exceptions that prove the rule. Size Queens, for instance, are specifically attracted to the size of genitalia. They probably often have the moment of *date is going well, pants come off, noping out*. Though like all extreme preferences, you probably should put that info out there first. Just crossed my mind as an instance of a sexual preference that MIGHT exclude trans people of your preferred gender, but isn't necessarily transphobic.
@MaddyIsSilly
@MaddyIsSilly 2 года назад
Transphobes making their flag the same as grinder is very funny to me
@richie9878
@richie9878 2 года назад
I think you are just brainwashed to say things are transphobic lol. Go ahead tell me how trans activists trying to change and invalidate heterosexuality is transphobic 🤷🏾‍♂️
@salvia1896
@salvia1896 3 года назад
I'm trans and I agree
@elisamcgowan4774
@elisamcgowan4774 Год назад
Their......sorry, typo!).
@fimy3268
@fimy3268 3 года назад
:' (
@Homieslice
@Homieslice 2 года назад
jut would like to remined everyone hitler was part Jewish himself exempted a jewish doctor of saving his mother and knew the leader of the brown shirts the Nazi army before the offical army was gay...no hitler was not a good person he just used people and manipulated them he could not care if you were straight or gay or trans, you had to be useful you were a tool to him first and foremost the my perspective he was homophobic and anti-sematic but he could not follow his own rules racism and hate is flawed from either side
@iultimatecartoon
@iultimatecartoon 3 года назад
Super straight been stupid
@littlefish9825
@littlefish9825 2 года назад
You aren’t racist for not dating someone who isn’t a different race. You are racist if someone being a different race is a red flag for you. If you find that you aren’t attracted to those people, first of all see if it is an overall prejudice against that race, and if it is you need to change that. Secondly, don’t make it public. It isn’t seen really as too weird either way dating someone depending on their race. However, if you are finding groups of people who aren’t attracted to black people, ya might be racist, and you will be seen as racist either way. This works for trans people, too. If you are dating someone and they tell you that they are trans and that ruins everything for you, that’s transphobia. If you just have trouble getting it through your your head that they used to be seen as a different gender, not because you think that they’re not trans, but because it ruins your physical attraction for them, there might still be some transphobia there, but it isn’t necessarily.
@sjmhadsock4586
@sjmhadsock4586 2 года назад
Yeah people can be foolish sometimes
@Turtletalksaboutstuff
@Turtletalksaboutstuff 2 года назад
Short answer: transphobic
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