What Loneliness Does to Your Brain

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“The most terrible poverty is loneliness, the feeling of being unloved” ~ Mother Teresa
“Loneliness is a growing health epidemic. We live in the most technologically connected age in the history of civilization, yet rates of loneliness have doubled since the 1980s.” ~ Vivek H. Murthy, MD | 19th U.S. Surgeon General
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@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

Hey friends :) May I ask a question? I'd love to know what other topics you'd like to see from me! I want to make videos about things that matter in your life, so hearing from you would be so helpful. You can DM me on IG @theKevinShen if it's easier. Thanks so much 😊

@AngelBerniz 4 года назад

You are a great video creator. My previous note should be here answering your question: Hi Kevin, you should create a video explaining how you create these great videos. Do you create a script in advance? How many shots has as a mean your videos? How long it takes to you create one of these amazing videos? Do you manage each video as a project (done along weeks)? I see you are more or less delivery one or two videos per month.

@ellikhosousi8648 6 месяцев назад

I would greatly appreciate a video from you on how to comfort a psychotherapy client who always cries and does not want to break their cycle of crying. I know this may be too much to ask. Thanks very much again for allowing us to share our opinion. I value your videos because they are very user-friendly and evidence-based, and you are an amazingly talented speaker which makes it very easy to grasp your concepts. thank you

@Critical_Stinking 4 года назад

Captain Sinbad recommended this. Good stuff man.

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

Haha yesss! Captain Sinbad is such a good dude and one of my favorites 😎 Appreciate you taking the time to check out the video! :)

@daysandwords 4 года назад

@@TheKevinShen I was also recommended this by Captain Sinbad, great job. This has inspired me to set up the hang outs and get togethers that I've been meaning to.

@catsreading 4 года назад

Beautiful video

@Pezerinno 4 года назад

Same!

@byebyemediocrity5508 3 года назад

Very good video. The quality of the video & audio is super awesome

@thelords936 2 года назад

Loneliness caused me to lose my self esteem. I wanted to have friends and to have a romantic relationship with someone but I never managed to find anything It also caused me to go into a deep depression and it caused me to do self harm. I'm still trying to make connections.

@artlover4997 Год назад

Please try to seek professional help. Some things need professional guidance because they understand the brain better than an average individual. I truly hope you can get better.

@konyvnyelv. Год назад

You should ground your self esteem on yourself not others

@sarahconte1179 11 месяцев назад

same here, I hope u're doing better

@Luke_Rowlands 7 месяцев назад

Let this sink in “theres nothing wrong with feeling lonely” if u need a chat im always here

@spidey1789 5 месяцев назад

Same here bro , you're not alone.

@catarinaassuncao157 4 года назад

I can honestly say I feel more lonely when I'm with friends that have kids and partners, because I feel excluded from their reality. By checking myself I come to realise, I never feel alone when I'm alone. I'm confortable enought with who I am. I loved the video, but I also think that loneliness comes with a lot of low self esteam. A lot!

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

Well said my friend 🙏 low self esteem can really hurt... sending you the biggest hugs!

@tervinmwangi2877 4 года назад

Well said, there's huge difference between aloneness and loneliness,the latter comes from a place of not being comfortable being by yourself. If it's time for me to socialize am really good at it but I really much prefer my own company, but I never have problems even saying hi to people on the streets.

@GUITARTIME2024 4 года назад

You're lonely because of what modern feminism, a formerly good cause hijacked by radical leftists over the last 20 years, has taught you women, with casual hookups, Tinder Chad Chasing, easy contraception and "terminations", little accountability, little regard for good men, putting career first. I'm not saying a spouse and kids is for everyone, but biologically its kind of why people exist, and most women dont realize feminism has tricked them until they are mid 30s and one cat turns into three, then four, and so on.

@marry1321 4 года назад

Maybe because you don't have common interests with your friends. Go out and meet amazing people, they exist and are out your comfort zone

@SeanLei 4 года назад

I related to this so much.

@folatooreal8582 4 года назад

Just because your alone doesn’t mean you have to feel lonely. Something I’ve come to realize

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

Well said, my friend.

@nile7999 4 года назад

@@TheKevinShen I disagree, I've been going through this loneliness journey as well, and I think there's a physical/chemical benefit from being around others. Maybe you don't have to be lonely while you're alone, but you're fighting an uphill battle most people won't succeed in

@trs_4612 4 года назад

fols adetola feeling lonely when u r are not alone is way worse . Right ?

@joostietoost4220 Год назад

@@nile7999 You still agree with his opinion, namely that you aren't necessarily lonely when you're alone

@NotYoutube-cp3qg 6 месяцев назад

Being alone for long term can cause loneliness

@monseramirez1974 4 года назад

You gotta be careful who you hang out when you're lonely though. Stay safe guys.

@MuhammadNurbasit 4 года назад

Imagine if you poor and lonely, Me:

@JamesAlexanderTheGreat 4 года назад

Same bro

@jama7538 4 месяца назад

same

@crimson3sky 4 года назад

I feel ok being by myself but I feel really agitated, lonely and irritated when I have people or relationships that aren’t at the level of closeness that I need so I usually start feeling resentful and when I feel that happening, I usually let most of them go because it feels more awful to be with people that don’t want to be connected. I’m not sure if I’m doing things wrong, but I feel like sometimes I’m on constant alert.

@Jessica-ld4bs 3 года назад

Wow, this encapsulated a huge problem for me I could never quite define. Thanks.

@amrayabaptiste2933 3 года назад

I understand where you're coming from. It's important to find ppl you connect with and who connects with you.

@aNgElandPaRaMoReRoX 3 года назад

I'm the same way. I've been told that I have high standards for friends....well theres reasons why I do.

@McRemmyBaby 3 года назад

I’m at two decades no relationship, it’s so hard, it’s been hard for awhile

@ario6819 4 месяца назад

You are not alone buddy, ❤

@EricWen 4 года назад

Your storytelling skills are genius dude - being able to capture a mood and help people feel it in a real raw way but also giving them a constant feeling of comfort and hope. these videos make people think differently about their feelings in a really healthy - you’re such a worthy leader of this movement on and off camera! Thankful for you. Great video!

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

Eric!!! Ahh thank you my dude! This really means a lot coming from you as the master of storytelling - thanks for all your help!!

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

And if anyone else is reading this who makes youtube videos or communicates for a living- you HAVE to check out Eric’s channel! You won’t regret it :))

@HelloImAlexa 4 года назад

This though

@HelloImAlexa 4 года назад

@@TheKevinShen and also this.

@CaptainSinbad 4 года назад

amazing video my friend!

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

Thanks bro! :) Seriously appreciate you and the shoutout! You've impacted a lot of people, and it shows in the comments. Keep up the good work - I know I say it a lot but you are ridiculously inspiring. Cheers mate!

@sj-ui5ox 4 года назад

There is a difference between loneliness and solitude. For loneliness is a mere cage whereas solitude is a diamond mine! As Albert Einstein once said “Solitude is painful when one is young but delightful in the years of Maturity.”

@shawnsh 4 года назад

Our "I'm better than you" culture is significant contributor to the loneliness epidemic. This following social FAQ everyone is expected ace does not help: - The "I drive a Tesla, how about you?" - The "how long have you been here in the US?" - The "What do you do?" - The "Where do you live,?" - "What school?" - All in all, attempting to gauge one's status... These questions/conversations, sometimes direct, often probing creates a sense of insecurity, being put on the spot / not fitting with others. And as a result, people feel it's best to avoid meeting people, opening up, and they end up going deeper into their loneliness.

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

Incredibly good point and well said... it's sad that we end up doing things that make each other feel more and more alone. Do you have any thoughts on how we can do things differently to be more embracing of other people?

@zayidm3218 3 года назад

And don’t forget prejudice. People don’t want to interact with others outside their skin tone or culture.

@isid902 2 года назад

@@TheKevinShen i feel more lonely with my "friends" they like never talk to me

@melancholymartialarts7095 2 года назад

I often ask someone how long they've been here in the u.s, as a way to gage how comfortable they feel with the culture.

@wholefoodplantbasedcookingshow 4 года назад

I can so relate to this video Kevin👍 Sometimes I feel this way and I end up isolating myself more. These things are so important to talk about and I am so glad you shared this video. My 18 & 20 year old daughters struggle with it too so I’ll share it with them. Thank you again and keep up the great work. Fantastic video quality as always 👏👏👏👏👏👏❤️🤗

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

Aww thank you so much, Jill! This comment means a lot. You and the rest of our youtuber community have done so much to make me feel less isolated too, and I can't even put to words how thankful I am for you all. Sending you and the fam the biggest hugs ❤️

@qutiepiedesigns2879 4 года назад

What you say in the video is true. I’m lonely but I’m scared to reach out to people because of the past pain I’ve experienced from trying to be social, so I keep myself safe by avoiding deep connections or hanging out. I want friends but I’m scared of being hurt again and again.

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

😢 I'm sorry to hear that... Yeah, it can be really scary sometimes... I feel you. Loneliness is no fun... Sending you the best wishes and biggest hugs, my friend!

@am33x 4 года назад

RU-vid keeps recommending amazing channels. Gonna learn a lot in 2020

@ruchitathakur8653 4 года назад

Life doesn't make any sense without interdependence. We need each other, and the sooner we learn that the better for us all. - Eric Erickson Amazing video Kevin. Your voice has a soothing effect.

@SharonTseung 4 года назад

So good!!

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

Thanks Sharon!! :)

@yesidalzate6036 4 года назад

This video is relatable. It definitely puts into perspective.The fact that we definitely need to start stepping out of our confort zone, make connections and to evaluate how deep we are allowing people to be in our lives.

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

Well said, my friend :)

@Fearless-ex4iv 4 года назад

Agree 👍👊

@Sportside311 Год назад

This was really well done. Thanks Kevin. My mind is being blown because I haven't finished and paused it at 8:20 to write this.... because that was exactly what I was feeling... ahhh!!! The desire to connect.

@dededenis6639 3 года назад

I really enjoyed this video, I myself have been alone and feeling lonely for years and never had a chance to fix it but instead had been hiding and pretending not to be lonely. After watching this video makes me feel much better. Thank you for sharing Kevin!

@ChannelRob 4 года назад

Brilliant, eye opening video. Thank you.

@Corporis 4 года назад

Kevin! This is such a step up in filmmaking quality and such a good message. Well done my friend!

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

Patrick! Thanks bro!! :) appreciate the support!

@federalreserve5573 4 года назад

Well done, great video

@heylookjoey 4 года назад

Feeling inspired by this! Thank you!

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

Thank YOU for being here man! :)

@yoyol3307 4 года назад

I definitely felt I went through exactly same path of loneliness two years ago. I was sensitive to the surrounding environment and even had anxiety panic sometimes... scared being alone, but don’t how and who I can reach out and share the feelings... But thanks to my husband and my church friends who encourages me to step out and feel safe to share. I hope more people will be able to find the right way to not be be lonely.

@JBRODUCTION 4 года назад

awesome content! this channel definitely need more views:)

@benvail6395 4 года назад

This is your best video yet, Kevin! Keep it up!

@GulinozJavodova 4 года назад

Kevin, my heart is smiling! Your care, love and knowledge you share is beyond! I gotta come out to Bay to connect! Much love

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

Gulinoz! "my heart is smiling" I love how you phrased that :)) much love my friend!

@landonmiller209 4 года назад

Great video Kevin!

@KevinFremon 4 года назад

Kevin.... this is SOOOO good. I honestly didn’t know that loneliness could have such an impact. Wow! Also, tour story telling and film making skills are 🔥🔥🔥. Happy new year my friend.

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

KEVIN!!! Yeah it's crazy huh?! Thank you so much man! 🙏 Happy New Year!! 😃

@KevinFremon 4 года назад

Kevin Shen ohhhh and CONNECTIONISM.ORG - love this concept. Can’t wait to take a look.

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

@@KevinFremon That means a lot coming from you dude! Thanks!! :D

@nelsonleung9886 4 года назад

Great video Kevin! Keep it up!

@theellenpham 4 года назад

I appreciate the message that feeling loneliness is just your brain’s way of signaling that you need more social connection - it’s simply trying to give you more of what you need. Also, the video looks great! 🙂

@justinfleagle 3 года назад

Kevin, your videos are so informative. Thank you for the gifts that re your videos.

@UDoIt2 4 года назад

Great video brother!

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

Thanks dude!! :D

@humanityandme 4 года назад

Your interpretation focuses more on loneliness as a feeling existing in a vacuum but the first proffessional stated that we feel lonely when we can tangibly see and feel we aren't receiving enough support and feeling the right connection rather than our feeling of loneliness exacerbating what is objectively playing out for us.

@tnt01 4 года назад

Yes,.I agree

@extremeconsciousness Месяц назад

thats why im fcken annoyed by people sending you to a therapist...like its not my brain thats the problem, its the kinda situation im put in whilst respecting my values instead of following the herd

@humanityandme Месяц назад

@@extremeconsciousness real. And actually my therapist did validate my situation for me as being the problem. So at that point it became about having someone to lean on throughout it all. Finding ways to simply cope or change the circumstances within reason and capacity.

@RCodyWanner 4 года назад

KEVIN. WHAAT? this is such an important video, and so freaking well done!

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

CODY! Haha thank you so much dude! Means a lot coming from you! :) 🙏🙌

@tanmaysharma3869 3 года назад

Good stuff man!

@steverd 7 месяцев назад

thanks for this video, EXTREMELY well-made. subbed

@improvementchannel6902 4 года назад

this is a really great video! love the abstract backgrounds. keep it up!!

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

Thank you, my friend! :)

@tmmaeda 4 года назад

Just discovered your channel! This video spoke to my mind. Keep up the great work Kevin

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

Thanks so much, Tak! :)

@irenelieuser 4 года назад

👏🏼 this was refreshing and helpful to watch having just got back to the cold wintry basin that is med school in Michigan. You’re awesome at this!

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

Thank you! Stay warm my friend! 😊🙏 So much respect to you for putting so much work and time into learning how to help people - the world needs you! :)

@Super21Nash 4 года назад

Moving to new city made me feel really isolated and lonely for the past one year. I wasn't able to adjust to the culture or make friends like I used to . I kept thinking what is exactly wrong with me. And often when my old friends would call, I would not pick up , thinking they too must hate me and my life up till now has been a lie. I had stopped talking to my parents too. But recently I had decided to put some distance between myself and the people around me. I have decided that I don't want to chase after people, but I will approach when I need help. It's only been a few weeks but I'm seeing some improvement. The most important realisation that helped me was - I'm not alone. Maybe others are just as lonely. And videos like yours, really helped. Thanks !

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

I feel you, my friend. Being in a new city can be really hard. Community is so important, but really hard sometimes. Sending you hugs. You’re not alone out here :)

@GUITARTIME2024 4 года назад

You sound depressed. You should seek help.

@Super21Nash 4 года назад

@@GUITARTIME2024 Really ? Does it sound that grave ?

@creepyblues 4 года назад

another great video that makes me feel less lonely. 2020 will be the year of connectionism, my friend!

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

Thanks man! Cheers! :)

@JohnDoe-oq4zs 4 года назад

Great video and production :)

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

Thanks dude! :)

@zayidm3218 3 года назад

I will never understand people who have friends and family but are still lonely. Here I am struggling with loneliness. I have no family. Had to get away due to drugs and abuse. I have never experience a healthy intimate relationship. Yet people in comments say they so lonely that they avoid people. No you nor lonely you just mean.

@jovannaolmedo4839 4 года назад

This is important to human health thank you for this video! ❤️

@zabiullahMONTAGES 4 года назад

Good video!!

@chirag_khurana 4 года назад

The effort you have put in this video is too amazing , quality content at it's finest!

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

Appreciate the kind words! Thank you my friend :)

@dilbaghsingh6480 3 года назад

Thank you for this video, it is so helpful for me at this time.

@dewpapsi 4 года назад

I am here before this channel get 1M sub

@kkkkkkkkk198 2 года назад

The cinematography in this video is so professional! Very helpful information delivered in a clear and engaging way. Earned a subscriber :)

@fionamantovan2424 4 года назад

Thank you. Just thank you♥

@autumngreenleaf3390 4 года назад

Thanks. Interesting study on your part. I think sometimes we are lonely for so long we don't even recognize it anymore. It's similar to an irritation, to give it a word to identify with, that the feeling of loneliness has been felt too many times that we start to ignore it and our feelings progress to other maladies. We might feel depressed or another feeling more even though loneliness continues to be present even if we don't think about it.

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

Very well said, my friend. Thanks for the kind words :)

@tombuck 4 года назад

The depth of field may be shallow, but the depth of this video is deep 💡 Truly exceptional exploration of a topic!

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

What a masterpiece of a comment that you wrote thanks here's a haiku 🤪 Haha thanks, appreciate you bro!

@heatherjustcreate 4 года назад

Wow this is an amazing video!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I was super lonely in 2019. I trapped myself in my home office because I felt like the priority was to work on my business. Of course I could go hang out but it didn’t seem like the logical business decision. In 2020, I’ve made it a goal to meet someone new every single day. ☀️ You are an amazing and inspiring creator!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼 Also, OH SNAP CAMEO!! 😆😆 Also, connectionism? How crazy. My word of the year is CONNECT!

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

Heather!!! Yes!! Wow, yeah I feel you... it's easy to forget to take care of our relationships when we're in the midst of work... I'm really curious to hear how your goal plays out - that sounds really ambitious! Sending hugs, my friend :))

@ellikhosousi8648 6 месяцев назад

You video about loneliness is incredibly helpful. i watch is with my psychotherapy clients and they all find the information very useful. i appreciate the hard work you have put into this to help people who are not aware that loneliness may be hidden and go unnoticed. Many thanks again.

@senpresolido 4 года назад

Sailor from Baghdad send me here.

@ranirathi3379 4 года назад

Hey Kevin! Got recommendation from Captain Sinbad, and I am so glad he did recommend all his subscribers this video. It helped me understand a few KEY points why someone I know and I am actually close to, feels the need to defend herself/emotional distance even from people she really likes. The more she feels the need to be REALLY SEEN, the more she seems to isolate herself. Amazing content Dude!!

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

Heya! Captain Sinbad is the best :)) Thanks so much for taking the time to share!

@TaraBodhi1 2 года назад

Thankyou, been alone for 2 years and counting with no-one to even call for a chat. Only have my dogs i wish they spoke back. Your video gives me hope that the medications that don't work and diagnosises and that dont even consider the prolonged isolation made me lose hope

@betts258 4 года назад

you're doing great !

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

Thank you so much! :)

@luketheorange 4 года назад

Kevin! Great topic to cover so we can all be more aware of how we interact with each other, to help bring us all closer together.

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

Luke! Thanks dude :D Can't wait to see more of your vids on the topic!

@luketheorange 4 года назад

Kevin Shen writing one right now about how minimalism and happiness are connected. 😁

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

Luke The Orange I wanna see! 😁

@JakeMyerz Год назад

Great vid

@sh1ft3rdotcom 4 года назад

Amazing how connected we are and yet so alone.

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

Well said, my friend

@SirMorak 3 года назад

Hey Kevin. Just wanted to say that your channel is underrated. You're publishing great content and with great quality. Good job and thank you for sharing ;)

@uft516 4 года назад

That’s is great man!

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

Thanks brother! 🙌😊

@MrAcrobot 4 года назад

This is one of the best videos ive seen on loneliness

@MrAcrobot 4 года назад

Helps me make better sense of the past several years

@Duke6598 4 года назад

Damn this is excellent content

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

Thanks brother! :)

@point-og3yc 4 года назад

I am at my best when I am alone I think this is a complete life.

@thaik56 4 года назад

You can be alone and not feel lonely when you're confident in who you are.

@GyatRizzler69-of3wl 3 месяца назад

Cope

@Amoghhooli 3 года назад

Same here.I too have been feeling lonely since long time.

@snakekingblues3017 3 года назад

Loneliness only matter when were not busy and have time to think

@icietla46 3 года назад

That's why a lot of us have addictions to mask the pain. I masked the pain with video games.

@tanmaysharma3869 3 года назад

Very well done! I subscribed :)

@TheKevinShen 3 года назад

thanks bro! :)

@rodolfomorenoiii135 6 месяцев назад

Im a loner im in my mid-30's. Joined the military last October hoping it would make me a better person, gained mental toughness, shape me into a better person, but my plan backfired couldn't handle the stress. Got an administrative discharge a month later and im back home had to talk to medical to allow me get a discharge. I felt intimidated by company commanders i would panic and blindout. My anxiety that i developed over the years for being lonely its all catching up on me over the years.

@thingschange9685 4 года назад

Wow.. such a great video .. i am really looking forward to such youtubers like you who are blending such good film making along with education. In my life.i felt that our brain keeps alarming us and find even the smallest thing that our friends does why is sort of not acceptable behaviour in our life ...but i thought it was because i was highly sensitive.....Hugs to you ☺️

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

Thank you so much for the kinds words, brother. Well said. Sending you the biggest hugs, my friend! :)

@KarmaChoedakAcharya 4 года назад

Nicely scripted, valuable thoughts!

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

Thanks so much, dude! :)

@ShubhamKumar-rb6ts 4 года назад

Thanks to captian Sinbad who recommended me this video your video Quality and Knowledge quality is really Amazing new subscriber!

@0farshad 4 года назад

Here from Captain Sinbad. Good video, well done!

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

Thank you so much, my friend! Thanks for stopping by :)

@Subilon 10 дней назад

This is great news. I’m chronically lonely and want to exit this world. Looking forward to going soon

@mojo_joju 23 дня назад

I've been lonely ever since covid. I was a quarantine worker and i spent 2 years doing 12 hour shifts all alone in empty, airless, windowless hotel hallways, with nobody around to talk to. The loneliness messed me up, and now 4 years later i still struggle with it

@bennguyen1325 4 года назад

I blame Steve Job for this.

@tom3nd288 4 года назад

I just love being alone

@Account7765 4 года назад

I love your videos

@larllarfleton 4 года назад

I think it goes beyond technology too. I'm in university and the cost of living is so high that a lot of my friends have to split their time between work and school. We all want to hang out but our schedules don't line up.

@sanostudies8734 6 месяцев назад

I think as time passes sooner people will realise and start focusing on socialising with their loved ones and start having lesser connection with technology. Because the increasing case of loneliness and other mental health problems will stand as a sign to people and the sooner they are to realise that through it.

@zussman_ 3 месяца назад

People who hate other people and has some years to leave to better place: -Me

@ChristiansKindnessKorner 21 день назад

I am 45 now, I have spent 20 years alone by myself, with myself I find my voice gets krackly after months of not talking, so I talk to my plants 🪴 , I don’t feel I’m missing very much. lol just wish I could live up on a mountain above the clouds. ☁ in a nice cabin . But I realize why bother, simply live in this moment and enjoy it.

@2frey84 Год назад

The struggle is real. I feel you … sometimes I feel so lonely I could cry and leave this world. Even when I have friends or people around me, even though I’m happy sometimes with my own company, I wish we could live in communal houses of 2 dozen communities sharing the financial load I’ve tried with relationships, but they never work. Every time it goes good, it falls apart. If I can’t live with myself sometimes how can I expect anyone to stay with me

@irrelevantideology9640 4 года назад

I once spent 5 months pretty much completely alone....about 90% of the time while trying to get into the army after a really bad break up....I think I grew alot from it in some ways but I'm also still recovering from it 3 years later.

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

irrelevant ideology sending you big hugs, my friend

@irrelevantideology9640 4 года назад

@@TheKevinShen thankyou Kevin. Right back at yuh.

@ajeesh3485 3 года назад

100% lonely

@kevinliu6011 4 года назад

great vid definitely agreeeeeeeeeeeeee with all

@v3g499 3 года назад

This makes me anxious

@JamesAlexanderTheGreat 4 года назад

Thanks now i have heighten anxiety being alone..

@HamzaKhan-jw5wc 4 года назад

Captain sinbad send me here :)

@TheKevinShen 4 года назад

Welcome! Thanks for taking the time to stop by :)

@AngelBerniz 4 года назад

Hi Kevin, you should create a video explaining how you create these great videos. Do you create a script in advance? How many shots has as a mean your videos? How long it takes to you create one of these amazing videos? Do you manage each video as a project (done along weeks)? I see you are more or less delivery one or two videos per month.

@Div-8739 Месяц назад

Loneliness is one of the most painful feelings you could ever experience especially as a man, you try to make friends,they drift away, you try to talk to girls and it's not the rejection but the manner in which they reject you.

@SueDamron 7 месяцев назад

First video on this topic that spoke the truth about loneliness!!! Tried to find the website you mentioned but kept getting a message that said it couldn’t find it? I looked at your lists but couldn’t see more videos on this topic either! 🤔 Not very computer savvy as an older adult?

@TheKevinShen 7 месяцев назад

Thanks for the kind words! 😊 I didn’t have the resources I needed at the time to take this vision where I wanted to, so I stopped. But maybe in the future! Sending big hugs

@SueDamron 7 месяцев назад

@@TheKevinShen Thanks for your reply and honesty about what happened! You had an amazing vision! Maybe someday, it could still happen, if it’s meant to be. It could be a huge service for many.

@peterpan31000 4 года назад

I only have 3 best friends and my immediate family everyone else are just people i know, what is being talked about is actually depression thats a state of mind, people equate things to happiness, thank the marketing of apple facebook instagram Amazon etc

@omegawolf9537 4 года назад

I must be some kind of alien. I absolutely love being alone. I feel like I can think clearly. Being in solitude I can see the stupidity of the crowd so easily.

@aliceinpayne6911 4 года назад

mr matic You're not alone, mate

@Hysmiran 2 года назад

Why did you feel the need to share this with us then?

@tiagofreitas7659 3 года назад

Very very good content. This is why I pay internet

@indridcold8433 Год назад

Loneliness is not half as bad as the cruelty humans can inflict on each other. I experienced the evil of others. I rather be alone than to socialize with the majority of people. I require no friends.