Akanni,there will come a time when the children become teenagers ,you will even be begging them to talk to you. They will stay in their rooms more .You better enjoy them them now.
Akanni should look for a bible believing church and start to attend, seriously my brother. If in your area you can find a Deeper life bible church, you can rest assured of enjoying the stuff that will assist you to make heaven. Read Hebrew 10v25, you will see the importance of attending the church. God bless your wife, I like her asking that question.
This Deeper Life thing is what I don't understand. Akanni, avoid African churches....they are there to mislead, instill fear and collect your money. People also go there to show off and be in other people's businesses. Go to an English Church (CoE) in your area. I stopped attending Nigerian churches in 2018. Bro!! I'm thankful to God for that decision. I now go to a Baptist Church with my family and I'm loving it big time!!