What Women Fear Most (This TERRIFIES Them!)

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@vladkostin7557 3 года назад

This is the fact that completely escaped me. When I hear it I know this is true, makes sense, and explains everything. But looking back I see myself thinking and acting as if women and men have the same hierarchy of priorities in that regard. Damn, this is a good one, Alexander!

@christianlafontant1180 3 года назад

I feel like i already knew all that but i did the mistake of voicing my opinion many times.

@KolyaNickD 3 года назад

There's obvious evolutionary reasons why women depend on group approval/protection. Being ostracized is absolute kryptonite to women. Completely ignoring them is a powerful tool men should get used to deploying in certain situations.

@lamalien2276 3 года назад

I think the best way to sum it up is thus: privilege has a price. (As in you have to keep people happy)

@PszemoI 3 года назад

Alexander is wrong thinking it is feminine behavior. Guys are also afraid of being judged. It is quite obvious in their conversations. All intelligent people understand the consequences of expressing unpopular opinions in a group which is not tolerant to other voices. The truth will be avoided or disguised until the treat of ostracism is diminished. Gays, atheists - they all do this regardless of their sex. It is a smart thing to do.

@vladkostin7557 3 года назад

@@PszemoI you seem to be missing the point. It's about the magnitude of this fear, it is significantly higher in women.

@annatar6453 3 года назад

This is why single women over 35 are so depressed. Society is judging them for their life choices and they can’t lie their way out of it.

@Skeetopunk01 3 года назад

Stiffled Instincts.

@youngmarriage5717 3 года назад

Over 30*

@bicitaja 3 года назад

@@youngmarriage5717 Over 18

@jcdenton6577 3 года назад

@@bicitaja Over 0

@buckaroobonzai2909 3 года назад

I think it's more that they are avoiding/denying a judgment that they know is true. They are only judged when they are 35+ and come out as being "fluent in sarcasm, mother of 2 angels who come first, tired of fuckboys and looking for a real man" and realize that only low quality men pursue her. At first she gets smug and says "where haz the good men gone? >:0" and then she realizes that she is either going to have to continue to lie to herself and say things like "I AM THE TABLE!!!" or "WHERE HAVE THE GOOD MEN GONE!!!" like it's men's problem... or she will look inside herself and accept her reality, in which case she can start to work towards happiness. She might even come to realize that by the time she is past 30, she might not want a relationship anymore anyway since the cute, magical phase of building a life and a nest is completely over.

@tigersandown8883 3 года назад

You know when cardi b is considered a role model & gets awarded "woman of the year",women have lost their moral compass....

@fjparasite1172 3 года назад

Songs about being independent while being married.

@odelinbindjouli1071 3 года назад

They never had it, society forced them to pretend they did. Now they are unhinged

@dh-mb9gx 3 года назад

Dont forget about AOC getting elected a 2nd time. THAT was the clincher for me

@barbarataylor5068 3 года назад

Woman of the Year? Who handed out that award? Did they see W.A.P. from the grammies?

@oooooooooooo2332 3 года назад

Females in this times are purple robots, funny because they have never been more controlled than ever before. For each their own I guess.

@goldybolt2402 3 года назад

Well that explains feminism wanting to normalize shitty and shady behaviours and label them as "free" "independent" or "strong women".

@ianerickson2210 3 года назад

This comment makes me feel like a social contract that has been engrained in me is unraveling. Thank you

@vklnew9824 3 года назад

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@unlimited971 3 года назад

"When everyone became shitty, nobody are"

@lookupthereupinthetrees9860 3 года назад

This video would be the logical follow up to the- 'the real reason women travel' video. These sorts of discussions are not a recipe for happiness. You sense that the wholesome vision of the small warmth and happiness a family could provide, was simply just that, - a vision in your head. And nothing else.

@HaoPieldeoso 3 года назад

Thanks for putting into words what we are all thinking. Im gonna take a screenshot if you don't mind

@roberthelm87 3 года назад

I had 3 years of my life stolen and a criminal record gifted to me at the expense of this aspect of women. Not to mention anxiety and depression. Character assassination is not below them....

@Anxmaly666 3 года назад

*F*

@GaryPotocki82 3 года назад

Truth!

@breakingthemasks 3 года назад

Damn... That's horrible man.

@antoniolima1068 3 года назад

just watch the news, that is the main tactic in the struggle for power.

@ccoodd26 3 года назад

Stay strong brotha

@floridamankyle5461 3 года назад

Girls don't want to be judged while judging every single little detail of everyone elses life while ignoring their mistakes and prolonging the incoming judgement, I grew up learning never judge anyone if you dont want to be judged and treat everyone the same, every new person is a blank slate, but I have never met a women that didn't judge me before even talking to me, that's why I stopped dating entirely.

@Joseph-C 3 года назад

To be fair, MANY dudes are shitty people and can be dangerous to be around so they have to judge to some extent to protect themselves. You can thank the agro beta males with super fragile egos for that.

@mickcameron821 3 года назад

No. He stopped dating cos he knows he deserves better and chooses to walk away from a steaming pile of shits. It’s called having self worth.

@ccoodd26 3 года назад

Do not judge by appearances, but judge with right judgment. When a hypocrite cleans up their own life then he/she will be fit to judge another. Of course, it is always wrong to make judgments about a person's motives or thoughts because we don't know their mind.

@ilyasabi8920 3 года назад

@@ccoodd26 Why though; why can't we know for surely what they have in mind? Did they come from another planet or are they messengers of the god? Anyone and everyone can be understood and predicted with enough observation. As long as people not actively trying to trick or hide their motives you can predict them to near 60%-70% accuracy. Above 85 IQ and sharp eye is enough. Stop romanticising people we are not that unique nor hard to analyze.

@ccoodd26 3 года назад

@@ilyasabi8920 Your predictions would mean jumping to conclusions. This means you're believing instead of seeking. This is where conflict is inevitable. You may think you can accurately predict, but it comes with error. This is how evil is done, which most people aren't aware of when they do it. Beliefs have caused the most conflict. Seeking with evidence, experiments, and experience is the way.

@julianblackycaesar7472 3 года назад

Always maintain a non judgement zone when dealing with women. Get her comfortable, and you'll be shocked at what she'll reveal

@jeffb.140 3 года назад

It's judgement day, baby!

@SFbayArea94121 3 года назад

Haha 😂 . “Hasta La Vista, Baby” “I won’t be back”

@Adrian101882 3 года назад

“Yum!!!”, says The Wall...

@Pastor_Sempa 3 года назад

T2 - ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-1XblVVbqIHU.html

@vklnew9824 3 года назад

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@thebondvillain4920 3 года назад

😂😂

@EmperorsNewWardrobe 3 года назад

I sometimes come across girl groups who take the piss out of each other while staying tightly bonded. It’s so refreshing to see, it’s highly attractive (partly because these playful rapport-breaks will make them more independent thinking and less prone to groupthink), and demonstrates their feeling of security around each other

@josephzsoka874 Год назад

Sounds like you're talking about...men.

@EmperorsNewWardrobe Год назад

@@josephzsoka874 I mean sure, it’s a typically a male value system

@josephzsoka874 Год назад

@@EmperorsNewWardrobe ...but, your applying the analogy of male bonding to a group of women ? Or, are you saying that, women have become so masculine, that they now hang out in groups and take the piss out of each other ?

@samyakhp4353 3 года назад

I don't understand why women think that "Number of men a women has been with in the past shouldn't make any difference (" it's in the past, don't judge her by her past")", I don't understand how they think they can do whatever they want and escape without any consequences.

@timotahowhitehawk3756 3 года назад

Very good insight! Yes, they don't want to be judged for being "loose", but that is exactly what they are....Loose & Immoral! Looseness in women & (men) will hinder their ability to settle down later and be true to one partner in a cohabitation environment.

@buckleymordecai9605 3 года назад

Women excel at denying reality.

@timothyn4699 3 года назад

it's an excuse. Run far away from a woman who won't take responsibility for her actions. Which seem to be most of them (well, tbf men and ppl in general can have a default of not taking responsibility and shifting blame. Women tend to have that more as default since...female nature and the feminine is less about being direct and responsible as opposed to men, which is to take charge and risk invoking conflict. The real question is whether ppl show potential to grow out of it...those since it's more of a nature thing for women...meh it may be much rarer to see/find/expect)

@vladkostin7557 3 года назад

Hey, we should start judging them for not prioritising honesty and integrity! XD

@inconnu4961 3 года назад

LMAO You are so cruel! and I like it!

@NightKnight252 3 года назад

Then they will tell you they are honest and integrate, which of course, is another lie😆

@Mike2894 3 года назад

@@NightKnight252 then just counter with no one says that. honesty and integrity are shown not stated

@vklnew9824 3 года назад

ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-SLDQVLuBbiw.html

@GameplayzOfficial 3 года назад

It's called "psychological violence" or another bullshit, she will false acuse you of physical violence, not worth it to even engage

@Los_Wolves 3 года назад

I told a woman you're 33 not 23 so please act properly, oh man she was mad.

@civismesecret 3 года назад

Savage

@Arhats_Corner 3 года назад

Legend!

@mefik 3 года назад

Love it lol 😂

@nutmaster9541 3 года назад

she erupted like Krakatau mountain

@redpilldownunder4845 3 года назад

Hold them accountable and expose their cheating/deception. Time for equality women, you asked for it. Ps. victim card has been revoked.

@db302003 8 месяцев назад

I love videos like this. I wish there was more of these types of videos by subject than seeking a specific title.

@teal1010 3 года назад

"...If you want to know what she REALLY thinks, then keep your thoughts to yourself!" I encourage my daughters and sons to be honest! I told my eldest daughter, when you want to know who a man truly is, mention a topic and let him speak! Nod and say "hmm" in order to show him that you "are" interested in knowing what he thinks and feel. This is the same for women or men! Let people tell/show you who they are! Because: You'll never know a person if "you're" always "telling them" and "thinking" men are this way and women are that way!

@timothyn4699 3 года назад

that's the rational/logical way to go about it. Just do the golden rule. Treat others how you want to be treated. You want the other person to be honest and speak truly. If both sides can just do that, then you can make an honest evaluation on whether or not compatibility exists, rather than being scared and delaying it for weeks/months down the line, THEN finding out you don't match in core beliefs. Saves time and then you aren't playing games.

@andreaspatsalides1914 3 года назад

I am a straight male and I prefer a woman who accepts judgement rather than avoiding it. Who will explore new ideas, even though you said males are not attracted to those types of women. I prefer honestly and transparency over any other trait. With that said, your videos are truly game changing. I love this channel! Keep it going!

@Nebelung13 3 года назад

By the Gods, i had this dating experience with a woman that confirms what you said. Whether it is a man or a woman i always let them talk and avoid being judgemental and even encourage it with small inquiries, this works both with men and women mind you, you'd be surprise the stories you hear when people feel comfortable, keeping secrets is very hard for your average human. Back to the story, She just talked on end about her drug filled life, going to fetish parties (aka orgies), unable to hold a job for more then 3 months, saying all the men of my ethnicity were mysoginists saying that monogamy is not good and then proceed to complain that she couldn't find any men only gay friends (what a shock right?). At the end of the date, it was good bye and cya laters! (well more like never). And that is how I uninstalled Tinder for good.

@MrStarTraveler 3 года назад

I like how this video starts. Straight to the F-ing point!

@katharsisevan 3 года назад

It's funny how every time a woman cannot take the truth, cannot be honest or speak their mind, the man needs to anticipate things or change completly the scenario in order to avoid conflict and stabilise the situation. Why not the way around? If you are capable of doing this anticipation then you win ,but your relationship with that woman is not in a state of flow, means that you will need constantlly to have 2-3 moves in advance just to avoid conflict. This is exhausting, my opinion.

@thomasthedankengine4197 3 года назад

Sure, judgement is scary but I’m way more scared of walking in a dark alley in the hood at night lol.

@josetheman239 3 года назад

Great advice. So gents if a woman is still hiding stuff from you, you still have a shot. The minute she starts telling you about her gross period blood and makes you smell her farts - you're in the friendzone!

@mjf1036 3 года назад

“Keep your opinions to yourself...if you want to get some honesty” You nailed it Alexander.

@zazugee 3 года назад

i swear, most women will tell you stories that just fit the common culture if they are eastern women, they tell you you're their 1st, and they never fell in love before (or never had sex before) while if they are western, they might just gloss over the past, or say they dont want to talk about it, bc they fear being judged lying about their past is kinda normal, i saw it happen often

@matt-g-recovers 2 года назад

I called my ex on her cheating on me with hookups throughout the marriage and she said, " I wasn't trying that hard to deceive you" What? So, I should have been more suspicious?

@footsteps247 5 месяцев назад

Impossible to not register your own thoughts and feelings and integrity, unless you’re mindless

@Shadow91507 11 дней назад

Judgment.

@1thim1 3 года назад

If you ever make a book about all your discoveries, research and personal thoughs on how to improve, I would buy it in an instant. I find your content incredible valuable!

@scampifrity 3 года назад

In fact, they are scared to be judged bad.

@yuanyao3963 3 года назад

This is gold!

@Nunak91 3 года назад

So maybe that whole trend of encouraging to promiscuous behaviors, etc. is a good thing. It creates the save bubble.

@JeffreyCC 3 года назад

Silence is golden. Know when to stfu.

@yeetusfeetus3059 2 года назад

that explains a lot of things about my conversations with my girlfriend

@eulercastro1680 3 года назад

Not only judgment, fear and oath. They never want handle the consequences of their actions.

@bibliothequedesfanfics3027 3 года назад

I'm a woman, felt judged during this, and wrongly so. Seriously, wanting children is feminine ? Hell nah. I don't like children thank you very much. Not every person is cut to be a parent, and I'm one of them. And worst, that means that men that wants children are feminine, what the hell ?! Fathers aren't second class parents ! And don't get me started on abusive mother ! As for debating and all, guess what, women like that too ! It's not masculine, wtf. Seriously, you never encountered a man that don't like debating and all ? Because I certainly did.

@johnvanegmond1812 3 года назад

I love your blanket fort! That is awesome!

@basedlifeform5413 3 года назад

First off, really digging the pillow fort vibes, Alexander. Super cool. Ok, here we go... 00:11 This is why we see some of the problems in government policies that we do. Politicians prey on the feminine characteristic to avoid judgement, more specifically the characteristic to seek acceptance, not only for themselves but also for groups of people that are perceived to be less fortunate or oppressed. Just knowing this doesn’t solve the problem though, since it is “baked into” female voting habits. You can see this in historical voting patterns for the female demographic, they always vote very progressive/left, with the exception of married, Caucasian women.

@محمدالعمري-ز9و 3 года назад

Part of me even likes when I am considered a rebel, an outsider, an asshole... I must think how I can explain it better I guess...

@jaxthedisintegrator8096 3 года назад

Stumbled on this vid accidentally. I was going to close it and... I've seen many charlatans with that kind of subjects but, DAMN !!! That was INTERESTING and I remind myself some events that really works with those ideas. Are you a psychologist are something 💡? Enough said, good video 👍

@jiasenghe008 3 года назад

If being judged is first, vagi drying up is a close second.

@josevidal8457 3 года назад

hey men, i find your videos very interesting and useful, the spanish community doesnt have these knowledge due to the language barrier and no spanish youtubers like you , i would like to translate them to make them visible to spanish speakers, what do you think ?

@mefik 3 года назад

Even a quick glance can be interpreted as judgment.. But they're deceptive to begin with. There's a balance for us here

@lifetimesofamultiplemediam1003 3 года назад

Where were you 30 years ago when I need this info!!!… geeeeeeeezzzzzz! 🤨🤨🤨

@g4tnewnewg4t48 3 года назад

Only fear of accountability.

@ifeawosika966 3 года назад

He's right. Women want to be liked They like being included in things. That being said, let them earn it!

@Themilkmanmilkermilkingmilkmen 3 года назад

Tyler from real social dynamics the goat 🐐 learns a lot from those days

@AbyssalManta 3 года назад

"If she says something really worrying like "I don't like children"..." Lol wut... I don't like children either. I would regard that as a remarkable find.

@bananewane1402 3 года назад

I didn’t catch on quick enough in my teenage years and liked to openly disagree with the “queen bee” in my friend group, I felt strong and true when I stood up to her and said my true opinions, especially when everyone else bent to her will. I was horribly ostracised and excluded by everyone in the group, even those who I was previously close with. I didn’t understand what was going on as I have Aspergers and learned social skills late. All I knew was I was disliked and needed to find new friends. So I did, and I formed a romantic relationship with a male who had a real zest for debating. We sparred constantly as both of us refused to give in to the other. Well, I’m more intelligent than him and most of the time I was in fact correct. I left because I tired of the constant arguing and I wasn’t getting the physical intimacy I craved. I have three close friends and a few acquaintance type friends, and a boyfriend. My boyfriend doesn’t hold many strong opinions so I’m able to have discussions with him without them turning into flame wars.

@narutouzumakiuzumaki5953 3 года назад

I've heard my female coworkers trash talking to each other in a funny way and one called the other f'whore and she replied with thank you very much in a way that she was very proud about that.,that mean she doesn't care about people judging her. What kind of woman is this? I'd like to hear your opinion guys

@JoaoVitor-kg3cs 3 года назад

They are afraid to been judged by The People that has value to them.

@verbalkint1770 3 года назад

It's like men calling each other a bad mfr. Or women calling other women a bad b#%&h. Almost a compliment

@Sommers234 Год назад

Getting a guy to bed is about the easiest thing for most women to do. Yet, they are proud of the volume like it's some sort of accomplishment.

@farldarkbeard 3 года назад

Oh they all have this problem. I thought something was wrong with mine.

@Niveous23 3 года назад

I don't know why I picked up on this as a teenager, but I did. I would verbally dress down a shitty woman, and keep her FAR away from me by threatening to expose her to her social circle. Almost no toxic woman hounded me after I'd do that. Sometimes I'd call a stubborn one out in our shared friend circle just a little bit, and she'd back off like I was the law itself.

@2AFreeState 2 года назад

Me, a super judgemental person: Huh, no wonder women hate me.

@lawrencefox563 3 года назад

Samantha Fox, one hit title ,look it up, regarding promiscuous women just not taken her home to see mom ever.

@KL00100 3 года назад

True.

@sushantkarki2708 3 года назад

Thanks. This would be of help

@fwwaller 3 года назад

1:15 damn that probably explains the cult like allure of feminism.

@krystianjezyk5968 3 года назад

Love your pillow fort man!

@olafspetzki Год назад

Now I know why most girls I know don't like the Terminator franchise 😄

@minanoch7613 3 года назад

Just a question: why is it wrong for a woman to debate? Arent debates about metaphysics, politics, philosophy, etc. healthy topic conversations? What kind of debates were you talking about at 2:02? I'm so confused

@kenhoganson9481 3 года назад

Great analysis!

@nathanmountford7768 3 года назад

Brilliant

@whatfffd 3 года назад

Although this is primarily focused on a women's integrity I suspect this approach will yield objective results with males also.

@hopelove897 3 года назад

I think people are too quick to criticize and judge men. But oh, when we talk negatively about women they all go crazy, it's taboo, as if women were these angels that can do no wrong. That pampering is what will result in the fall of women, as it was prophesied.

@davidpeters8821 3 года назад

I judge everybody brutally. Even myself

@SeneekiKaant 3 года назад

**laughs judgingly**

@jaredvaughan1665 3 года назад

Enneagram 9s like to go along to get along. And more women than men happen to be Enneagram 9s. But an Enneagram 8 woman has no problem with conflict.

@truthimagination2997 3 года назад

ABSO-FVKN-LUTELY!!!

@angelstarfire 3 года назад

Man I really like when you answer the question immediately, I know the answer but now I want to know the reason behind it

@mattr.1804 3 года назад

Right? He’s the only RU-vidr I know of who does that

@channel-dj6dc 3 года назад

Yeah I like it aswel when he explains his claims instead of giving a blank statement like many do

@bullbou7003 3 года назад

It's a really good setup, grabs the attention immidiately and keep you hooked.

@americancapitalist9094 3 года назад

This is what makes a content producer good. Clickbait gets the clicks but not the fans.

@MenMovement 3 года назад

@@americancapitalist9094 indeed

@Arrian_YT 3 года назад

Clicked faster than a beta male replying to a woman flaking on him for weeks.

@JESUSISGREATEST 3 года назад

🤣🤣🤣🤣

@bartdegryse9345 3 года назад

'lol you sure did', for me the video was posted 46min ago, 'your comment' 50min ago seems like x)

@kelvinkibet5449 3 года назад

Broooo 😂😂😂

@armands7590 3 года назад

Beast comment

@inconnu4961 3 года назад

wow, now that's fast! I would have mentioned something slower, like a speeding bullet.

@km099 3 года назад

How can you disagree with a guy who sits in a fortune teller tent

@JSPagliacci 3 года назад

Later in the film you discover the same actor pretends to be the Wizard.

@rusk1963 3 года назад

LOL

@redpilldownunder4845 3 года назад

And tells the truth. Now thats strait up X-Files

@givemeyoursocks915 3 года назад

Hahahahaha

@mvnorsel6354 3 года назад

Brilliant, I laughed, thanks.

@druidicnorse9 3 года назад

"I hate people who judge" - every women dating profile ever

@gabrielguzman6018 3 года назад

Yet judges you 😂

@dappiduck 3 года назад

Translation 'i judge people who judge' 🤔

@bicitaja 3 года назад

I judge because I have a brain. That is what it is there for. To call them out on their BS.

@gabrielguzman6018 3 года назад

@@bicitaja eh, to be biased as well I mean be honest with yourself at least. You probably would be nice to a guy who is more attractive over someone whose not

@zazugee 3 года назад

i think there is a difference between how men and women define judgement for women, they fear the collective judgement, but it happens people confuse collective vs individual ones i think most men care less about being ostracized by society, and they can exhibit anti-social tendencies while for women, it's the other way around, they care less about individual judgement, and for them judging individual men is normal, while men, dont like their friends, pales and family judging them hence the conflict between how men and women deal wit judgement

@abstract0407 3 года назад

A man once said: _"Enough about womens rights what about womens wrongs"_

@vklnew9824 3 года назад

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@abstract0407 3 года назад

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@felipeiturreyes3385 3 года назад

Yep

@MartinZanichelli 3 года назад

Not very smart that man if he said "womens" as women is already plural. Must be a coward and an ignorant just like you.

@buckleymordecai9605 3 года назад

Women NEVER do anything wrong...just ask them.

@PrinceRevolver 3 года назад

I always find women like this to be hypocritical on all fronts.

@inconnu4961 3 года назад

True, but they come about it honestly . . . its in their nature! Never treat your cat like a dog, nor your dog like a person! A cat is always a cat and a dog is always a dog(and a woman is a woman, not a man)

@doomguy9049 3 года назад

they're all like this lol

@tobygathergood4990 3 года назад

There are however some great exceptions...albeit far and few between.

@inconnu4961 3 года назад

@@tobygathergood4990 Sadly you are right! Thats why I celebrate the great ones!

@RoastLambShanks 3 года назад

@@inconnu4961 Being a woman is not an excuse for unacceptable behavior.

@rajunaidu7751 3 года назад

Dating for woman is like shopping vs. Dating for men is like a job interview

@inconnu4961 3 года назад

great analogy! and a job interview for a job we dont really want! We are just here for the bene's(benefits)

@rajunaidu7751 3 года назад

@@inconnu4961 yea, Men have to 'pass selection' by girls like soldiers trying out for the special forces. girls just have to be young and stay under 15% body fat that's all.

@inconnu4961 3 года назад

@@rajunaidu7751 dam not fair! you are right! interesting way to look at it.

@rajunaidu7751 3 года назад

@@inconnu4961 men have unlimited time though so it's not all that bad

@antonioliles5027 3 года назад

@@rajunaidu7751 not only more time, but better with age. I get far more attention from women now, with grey in my beard and slightly overweight, than I ever did as a young man in fine physical condition. Very easy to explain though. Hypergamy at it's most base level.

@HAPPYPANDA53 3 года назад

Makes sense. Like how one chick who hates rock music, she meets a guy she likes who loves rock music. Next thing you know, she suddenly also likes rock music.

@GameplayzOfficial 3 года назад

IF the guy has a higher status, if not, she could care less

@alexakent4352 3 года назад

That's a gemini

@viktormilojevic4700 3 года назад

Always

@DiscipleOfChristDV 3 года назад

I got an ex-girlfriend to start playing chess and actually convincing herself that she really enjoyed it. Ofc she quit after we split 😆😂

@verbalkint1770 3 года назад

@@GameplayzOfficial Could care less means you care. Couldn't care less means you don't give a f

@woulfhound 3 года назад

_I hate judgement but I love judging._ *Feminism*

@danballe 3 года назад

Your comment needs 9 more likes, there I added one!

@woulfhound 3 года назад

@@danballe Thank you!

@simonshaw4087 3 года назад

The problem with this is that if a girl sees you as high value, she'll know you'll have high standards. So, trying to make her feel comfortable (so she is honest you) will still only work against her in the end. She knows this. In other words, you'll still not get honesty from her no matter what you try.

@GottEddy 3 года назад

A real man doesn't care. Go get what you deserve mate, never settle for less.

@mikecarlson6416 3 года назад

if you don't show you preference they wouldn't know how exactly to cope with. you're much likely to get the true answer

@jorrellcoyote 3 года назад

Great point!

@mattr.1804 3 года назад

You’d be sadly surprised how naive young women are these days. Most I encounter think it’s absolutely normal to sleep with 2-3 different individuals in the same week.

@p_serdiuk 3 года назад

It's a double bind, because if she's dishonest and you accept her because of that, but later you spot the lies, the consequences can be more severe for her than if she were honest in the first place, and if you're a high value man, you have to be hard to deceive. There is no way out for her.

@friedrichschnobel4000 3 года назад

It also explains why women are very picky regarding men. They fear to be judged by others, if he is not tall, handsome, successfull...

@jotab3399 3 года назад

well, that actually explains the height obsession on the dating apps

@friedrichschnobel4000 3 года назад

@@jotab3399 It's only one of many reasons.

@mefik 3 года назад

I always found myself saying "shes not dating him but the status that comes along with it"

@neilmcdougall4927 3 года назад

feared 5obe judged, brave to act to a point where someone will judge. ouroborous...

@JJ-wi2uw 3 года назад

Women particularly fear being judged by people whom they value... their peers, higher status men and anyone whom they feel some accountability to (family/friends).

@Smartcom5 3 года назад

Did I missed something?! We're honestly mentioning the terms _Women_ and _accountability_ within a single sentence now? Wow … That's bold!

@fernendo4 3 года назад

They are also terrified of losing the alpha males attention. Because back in the tribal days, the whole tribe was following the alpha males. So if the alpha males didn’t like her, she was in trouble.

@Pastor_Sempa 3 года назад

the lizard brain is too strong, (cerebral cortex)

@nmestre2 3 года назад

We're all betas in their eyes. Don't fool yourself.

@haterzgonnahate8195 3 года назад

i m the only alpha left on this planet u beta guys

@haterzgonnahate8195 3 года назад

@thrudt Foy nah. u just dont know how alpha is sounding. poor beta. dont u see my silverneck?

@nangk2727 3 года назад

@@nmestre2 lol no. My wife's boyfriend is.

@vladimerputin7911 3 года назад

I've learnt something over the years... Its much cheaper and peaceful to just rent it

@vklnew9824 3 года назад

ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-SsUXyWIK3Ao.html

@puttjattandhe 3 года назад

@Liam Connington Iv heard theyr changing all that in Amsterdam 😅

@mcpuffenstuff6213 3 года назад

Try Thailand or Indonesia 😉

@monkeybizniz2095 3 года назад

Vladimer Putin: very true. Guess the laydeez call you 'Vlad The Impaler'? 😆

@narvanamusic2656 3 года назад

Bruhhhhh😂😂😂

@HaoPieldeoso 3 года назад

This video made me remember how wildlife photographers take the pictures of animals in their natural habitat. The photographer needs to keep his cool, being undetectable so that the animal feels safe and can behave how it normally behaves in the wild. If the photographer keeps his cool and makes the animal feels safe, the animal will respond by acting honest and true.

@MACROPARTICLE 2 года назад

I love that analogy.

@interesting2491 2 года назад

That’s a pretty good analogy that can link in with other aspects of life

@IsaiahHollins 3 года назад

Ugh women don't like being judged but when they gossip, their words and snares rip through your flesh like a chainsaw

@yourlandladysson6395 3 года назад

Exactly, you'd assume people who dont like being judged won't judge others. Thats different in women's case.

@efthimis9219 3 года назад

Smile and wave boys, smile and wave

@Stradew 3 года назад

This is truly one of my biggest fears, and it multiplies with the number of people present. I even feel a rush of adrenalin, as if I am in survival mode (just shows how deeply ingrained this is). In my childhood my mother used this against me and blamed things on me when my friends were present. This won't help you, it just creates resentment or even fear/hate. As Alexander said, it is the safe environment that makes it possible for a woman to open up (but of course don't neglect your standards!). A woman, who just lies to avoid this kind of feeling is not worth it.

@schorpioen7466 3 года назад

I recognize that. But there are plenty of men who have social phobia too, it might my mostly women who suffer from it but not only

@inconnu4961 3 года назад

Thank you for sharing an willing to be vulnerable. it is difficult to do, because people like to trample on pearls, instead of cherish them. This is great insight for the man willing to listen.

@dousuketoby1731 3 года назад

Like he said you do it and dont realize it. I fear an idiot that doesnt believe they're idiots than one who has accepted that he is an idiot, which is why I trust myself with my own life over many others

@rogerm3708 3 года назад

I know many men that judge women but mostly because they can't have them and they don't feel good about their own status. I don't openly judge a woman but I do ghost and single out women that attempt to make me into one of their simps. I have no patience for a woman that wants attention, assistance and or financial gain from me without offering something in return

@dousuketoby1731 3 года назад

@@rogerm3708 EXACTLY we as men need to respect ourselves more

@Dave-oo1sp 3 года назад

How do you respect anyone who doesn't value honesty?

@lookupthereupinthetrees9860 3 года назад

And how can you possibly love someone if you don't respect them? Beyond my ability.

@najibzaoui4073 3 года назад

men are about respect, not women. don't project your masculine values onto them.

@buckleymordecai9605 3 года назад

You don't!

@kevinvandenoetelaar5880 3 года назад

Alexander, tell me honestly. You are being kept hostage in a north african sahara tent? Ill come rescue you bro.

@korydillon9131 3 года назад

💀😂

@apparently_sonam 3 года назад

He’s secretly that guy with mattress on the floor.....😎

@marcmays48 3 года назад

This comment seems very judge-y. If the man wants to live like a Bedouin, who are you to dish the Hate-r-ade on him? 🤣

@pumptruckjim 3 года назад

The sheet above him is covered in cats. He is being held by a lonely, post wall, 40 something cat lady. I think he is blinking a help message in Morse code.

@apparently_sonam 3 года назад

@@marcmays48 you must be fun at parties.... Smh

@janschneider8647 3 года назад

How can we let someone be in a position of power when this person's fear of being judged is stronger than the value of truth, honesty, integrity, etc.?

@mohandasjung 3 года назад

Our ancestors knew that. We have forsaken them.

@yourlandladysson6395 3 года назад

This reminds of the time Hillary Clinton changed her twitter bio because she was questioned by a popular feminist during an interview. The question was why she firstly described herself as a wife instead of a presidential aspirant?

@gernhard.reinholdsen 3 года назад

Big oof. This is an absolute knockout punch against feminism.

@paryanindoeur 3 года назад

you can make insecure women obsess on you by making her think you dislike her

@derekg5674 3 года назад

Or you’ll make them give up and start dating someone else.

@agussolikhin1383 3 года назад

I did that. She leave me. Cause she think i'm too hard to reach

@paryanindoeur 3 года назад

I was not talking about a woman you're dating. I _was_ talking about insecure women, perhaps _very_ insecure. I've only ever done it by accident; I did not even dislike her, she just thought I did because I did not talk to her.

@oscarchicalucena7980 3 года назад

@@agussolikhin1383 if she leaves you justifying this, you just let it go, as if you don't care. With this, you win,.

@TheTariqibnziyad 3 года назад

@@derekg5674 exactly, if you're not attractive why would she care ?

@praveenmishra430 3 года назад

I always ask this to myself if you don't judge then how will you identify the difference between good and bad but you do what society tells you to that is not to judge.

@RyuPatrol 3 года назад

You can judge quietly.

@fleetingfootnotes9133 3 года назад

Not judging, but _being_ judged. Most often people are judged by societal norms and traditions or laws. They're not often judged on the basis of logic. So don't drag that in. :P (Edit: also forgot to add: think about _being_ judged and being responsible or accountable. Just think.)

@RyuPatrol 3 года назад

@@fleetingfootnotes9133 I don't understand how that relates to what Sidharth asked at all, he says nothing about being judged.

@conorm2524 3 года назад

Absolutely everyone judges and gets judged. No exceptions.

@inconnu4961 3 года назад

@@conorm2524 I respectfully disagree, although it sure seems this way. People who love to judge are very vocal about it. There is some wisdom in FLEETING FOOTNOTES comment worth exploring. First job is: define judge. If you define judge as a synonym to condemn, then I strongly discourage you from judging. I believe judging , when used, should be used ala the scales of justice, that you attempt to balance(greek mythos). It becomes more a pro vs con scenario. I try to pretend like I am on safari or in a zoo. I let the animals be as they are in their natural state, when the being tries to come into MY real, then apply judgment: is this good or bad, good intentions or bad. But in all others I try to refrain( im not 100%, its a work in progress). The best thing about this is: you dont cloud your analytic side by HAVING to pronounce judgement on all things, thereby allowing you to see things clearly, as they really are. Then you can decide better how YOU will respond. its a lot of work initially and goes against the grain in a feminized world, but I think you will like the results!

@intravena 3 года назад

I like that you filmed this in your blanket fort.

@verbalkint1770 3 года назад

I hope thats not sarcasm. I build a fort out of the couch cushions and blankets all the time. Forts are wicked.

@spaceted3977 3 года назад

If you were to judge women, then they are useless !!! Women expect a man to be perfect but women can be right at the bottom of the scale !!!!! I am so glad that the young men of today are opening their eyes and doing the sensible thing, that is staying single !!! This video is absolutely vital for men to watch !!!! What it means is your woman will go crawling back to her friends, running you down all the time, and if her friends tell her to leave you, then that's exactly what she will do !!!! If you want a happy life, just go out with women and don't spend money on them, and never live with or marry them !!!!! However, some men love being married and all that comes with it !!! Well just let them get on with it, like they say, one man's meat is another man's poison !!!!!! Because I never got married I have been able to always work in pleasant jobs, although with less money, be free from stress, have as many female friends as I wanted, and be mentally free all the time !!! And all my married male friends in their sexless marriages say that they might as well be dead !!!!!!

@markaurelius61 3 года назад

Why are you in a fortune-teller's tent?

@Spacemuffin147 3 года назад

He's an oracle or a mage. We seek wisdom thus the presentation is of that aspect of a mage or oracle.

@loewen486 3 года назад

I’m agree. They’re afraid when the people discovered they’ve many secret men in their life. Because of the judgment about the other people. The men particularly

@hadiakmal9281 3 года назад

And thats for good reason

@loewen486 3 года назад

@@hadiakmal9281 of course. That’s why they’re more calculators than men

@Rustsamurai1 3 года назад

This makes sense. It's been my experience, at least. Back when I could be bothered to consider women at all.

@grayrock3964 3 года назад

The thing is, m3n like me value truth and honesty. So no surprise that most of them will end up alone.

@urbanphil0s0phy 3 года назад

That's why they are often promiscuous when they travel....there's no one familiar to judge them.

@fanofcodd 3 года назад

I have never seen a couple wich survives the girl going in a travel. It always end with the girl cheating on the guy. Sometimes , the truth come far after the fault , when kids are here , ans it's a disaster.

@KingRandor82 3 года назад

This is why I'm glad I'm single: I have no patience for this horseshit. I'm results-oriented, and this characteristic compromises morality and ingenuity.

@nailin18 3 года назад

You know I knew that ostensibly but now that you mentioned it explains a lot about the current state of affairs, we've becoming a increasingly feminine society and that's not a psychological healthy thing, how social media and IRL society become excessively obsessed with being judged and judging others, the damage to mental health and just living along with people has been huge. It's like Mean Girls but everywhere, that's no way of living.