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What Women Actually Find Interesting In Men 

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@30803080308030803081
@30803080308030803081 3 года назад
So, a woman doesn’t care how interesting a man is, she just wants a man who makes her feel good.
@Steak0815
@Steak0815 3 года назад
No, they want a man who checks her out properly. That is the reason you ask deep questions.
@bencepandi3568
@bencepandi3568 3 года назад
Yes, it's usually always about them. When "she cares about you", the important part for her is not YOUR wellbeing but it's the fact that SHE cares. That she feels good about that. "YOU" could be any guy. When she says she loves you, she actually loves how you make her feel. How you press to right buttons in the right order. It also could be any other guy who figures it out, just like you did.
@damcism
@damcism 3 года назад
Yes. But same is true for man. Do you care about her interesting passions? Probably you don't, you probably care more about the fact that she looks nice and have a nice voice because a girl like that can make you feel good.
@bencepandi3568
@bencepandi3568 3 года назад
@@damcism Nope, if I care, I truly care.
@davorebo5790
@davorebo5790 3 года назад
Women care about sex just as much as men and security.. $$$
@nicolaabbate4704
@nicolaabbate4704 3 года назад
You are actually giving better advice than most dating coaches out there
@Rassiize
@Rassiize 3 года назад
I thought the same
@AriadorStudios
@AriadorStudios 3 года назад
Most dating coaches are the descendants of prostitutes
@seraphthegatekeeper
@seraphthegatekeeper 3 года назад
I would definitely say yes. Meaningful advice with some depth. The PUA techniques are useful, but they are worthless without understanding why. It’s like imitating Bruce Lee blindly. You might land a punch or two, but in the end, you’re going to get your ass kicked out there.
@uropedala1927
@uropedala1927 3 года назад
*all dating coaches
@user-nz7mv2iy6d
@user-nz7mv2iy6d 3 года назад
Dating coaches teach you “how”, were as Alexander teaches “why”.
@shayan_ecksdee
@shayan_ecksdee 3 года назад
Am I the only person who absolutely hates talking about himself
@fatneckbeard3415
@fatneckbeard3415 3 года назад
No, I am the same way.
@louisgianfrancesco
@louisgianfrancesco 3 года назад
Much prefer to ask the chick about what she’s all about to see if I actually think she’s what I’m after.
@DamianSzajnowski
@DamianSzajnowski 3 года назад
Very common. Especially if your self-worth is low.
@imestia7911
@imestia7911 3 года назад
I hate even more when someone talk about me in my presence friends or parents
@andrewrobertson3894
@andrewrobertson3894 3 года назад
It's ok to proud of yourself, dude.
@bazyl3357
@bazyl3357 3 года назад
The mistake is trying to convince a woman that you are interesting.
@obliqueparalells429
@obliqueparalells429 3 года назад
Why even try in the first place? Women only want to talk about themselves.
@realtalkz3930
@realtalkz3930 3 года назад
​@@obliqueparalells429 Because you don't want to be single forever, I think the point of doing this is to stop acting like the average guy coming across nervous or panicking and trying so hard you end up looking undesireable and desperate you intiate the conversation by putting pressure on the woman to prove herself to you and not you proving yourself to her in other words your keeping the ball on your side of the court, keeping the upperhand.
@magicseventh9746
@magicseventh9746 3 года назад
i know, right? thats thirsty af
@corporaterobotslave400
@corporaterobotslave400 3 года назад
Men ignore petitions; only weak ppl care about the opinion of others.
@mreverybody1150
@mreverybody1150 3 года назад
I tried to convince one that I wasn't....it just confused her.
@thelonevaultwanderer673
@thelonevaultwanderer673 3 года назад
“Dating for women is like shopping, dating for men is like a job interview.”
@RobertWinkler25
@RobertWinkler25 3 года назад
Also, they're shopping using someone else's credit card and he had to pay to get the job interview.
@CrossingTheStreetArt
@CrossingTheStreetArt 3 года назад
While being the interviewer but without the ability to hire. Hiring is always her job but if she feels like she holds that power, she will see him as beneath her.
@strategic1710
@strategic1710 2 года назад
Even the relationship is like this, not just the dating. The man is always the one doing the work and the woman is always just shopping. Women divorce men who stop working and making them feel good.
@daniel-qh4zq
@daniel-qh4zq 2 года назад
@@strategic1710 My last girlfriend was like that. My daily task take care of the chickens, milk and care for the 4 goats and 2 sheep(1hour), work 8 hours, stop in the garden before I got home and weed, feed 2 acres of plants then take care of the animals, shower and cook dinner for us. The things she did was to sit on her a$$ and thumb through facebook and post thing on pinterest. It took a average of 11-12 hour a day mon-fri to complete. Then there was all the PROJECTS she would push on me. Most of the time when I was doing the daily things she had people over for drinks and wonder why I wasn't hang out and always working. By the way she didn't work for 3 fook'n years. So to sum it up I am done with relationships and I am only 41. Reason, either my picker is wrong or all the woman that I had I'm my life just suck. It would of been easier for me to be gay because guys are just easier to be around...yes I tried that and was not what I was looking for. Single and happier for it :p.
@adrianred236
@adrianred236 Год назад
​@@daniel-qh4zq I bet she incessantly went on about how busy she was and how she had "no time to do anything" today?
@naturalbornkiller361
@naturalbornkiller361 3 года назад
Remember this guys, forget about what women might think of you, this and all that. Just be comfortable of your own skin and what you are, and make yourself your top priority then you'll be fine.
@Garudan0804
@Garudan0804 3 года назад
True I'm really struggling with that
@Tormalima
@Tormalima 3 года назад
Agreed. Alex here gives great advice. But I don't 100% with the idea that one should adjust behavior to seem more appealing to women. We shouldn't worry so much about making sure women like us. We should like ourselves and then women should be so lucky to win our attention.
@ndnrb_
@ndnrb_ 3 года назад
@@Tormalima cope
@gabrielguzman6018
@gabrielguzman6018 3 года назад
@@Tormalima exactly and sadly it doesn't help these days with people saying you need to change your behavior to suit their needs
@Kyle_00
@Kyle_00 3 года назад
@@Tormalima couldn't have said it better myself. Focusing on self is better.
@GutenAfterNoon
@GutenAfterNoon 3 года назад
This is one of those "change her mood not her mind" thing
@alexandergrace5350
@alexandergrace5350 3 года назад
Stealing that for a future video title :)
@Ultimate-Revolt
@Ultimate-Revolt 3 года назад
Remember guys, be tall and attractive
@ChainsawGutsFuck
@ChainsawGutsFuck 3 года назад
It really is that easy. Not tall and/or attractive? Just put on some height and change your face!
@nettraveller81
@nettraveller81 3 года назад
@Hispanic American now it's too late for you
@ChainsawGutsFuck
@ChainsawGutsFuck 3 года назад
@Hispanic American Just get lots of money, my man. Women love fat stacks more than genetics, they'll come flocking
@Enzoxvx
@Enzoxvx 3 года назад
Get those inlets for wrong foot position. You'll 'grow' 5cm and do something great for your feet. After that stop giving a sh*t about anything and you'll be good for life.
@yourlandladysson6395
@yourlandladysson6395 3 года назад
I need 5inches
@cosmickangaroo4719
@cosmickangaroo4719 3 года назад
'It is obvious that the only interesting people are interested people' - Alan Watts
@sabretooth7819
@sabretooth7819 14 дней назад
Yep
@EmperorsNewWardrobe
@EmperorsNewWardrobe 3 года назад
A book called ‘the charisma myth’ says that charisma = power + warmth. Power without warmth? Arrogant. Warmth without power? Needy. The book starts with an anecdote that makes the exact point you make here, Alex, about focusing the conversation on her. The writer met 2 very powerful people. She left the first feeling very impressed by him. She left the second feeling impressed by herself. It was the latter that she felt had charisma, in large part because he had made it about her
@Viewable11
@Viewable11 Год назад
Charisma is the effect extroverted people have on others, especially if they deviate from the norm in humor or confidence, ideally in both.
@EmperorsNewWardrobe
@EmperorsNewWardrobe Год назад
@@Viewable11 what about an extraverted person who’s extremely shy while confident in their videogame skill, but has a childish sense of humour? That meets your criteria, but I think you actually mean a socially confident person with a good sense of humour
@soggmeisterlasagnagarfield
@soggmeisterlasagnagarfield 10 месяцев назад
Oh the humanity
@peaceduke1
@peaceduke1 3 года назад
if your 5 out of 10 and have no money it doesn't matter what are you talking about. Girls never asked me about my interests but they asked me 100 times about my job and what I own
@simonlancaster4320
@simonlancaster4320 3 года назад
If you're creative with your reply, to raise a laugh, rather than playing it straight with what you actually do for work, you'll have more success :)
@Lmfaorofl17
@Lmfaorofl17 3 года назад
@@FleetAdmiral833 Idk man, asking What your job is seems like a ‘get to know you’ kind of question. I guess some women will probably ask you that with just your financials in mind, but it is a good question. If you’re in the same field then it opens up a whole new conversation. 🤷🏽‍♂️
@p_serdiuk
@p_serdiuk 3 года назад
@@FleetAdmiral833 >you spend 8 out of 16 of your waking hours at your job (if you're full-time) >but knowing where you spend half your life is not a "get to know you" question Seriously.
@Ash_Wen-li
@Ash_Wen-li 3 года назад
@@Lmfaorofl17 It's a weird first question though. There's other things you'd want to know first
@Lmfaorofl17
@Lmfaorofl17 3 года назад
@@Ash_Wen-li I guess if he approached without any introduction then yeah asking for name or What he want are more fitting questions. I dont think it’s weird question tho. What other questions are there that are as important as knowing ones profession? 🤨
@CanISpeakToTheManager23
@CanISpeakToTheManager23 3 года назад
This video is pure gold. Kinda reminded me of the essence of "How to win friend's and influence people".
@ChainsawGutsFuck
@ChainsawGutsFuck 3 года назад
And do you have lots of friends and influence over people these days?
@cisium1184
@cisium1184 3 года назад
I met a girl at a party once who worked for a frozen fish distribution company. I asked her endless questions about her work, the frozen seafood industry, what kinds of seafood they dealt in. She told me later that I was the only person other than her parents who had ever asked her questions about her job, and she thought I was nuts. The thing is, I'm from coastal New England and I really do love seafood.
@Aetherguy-cb9bu
@Aetherguy-cb9bu 3 года назад
So you're a seafood appreciator? Name every seafood.
@apurvanair2056
@apurvanair2056 2 года назад
@@Aetherguy-cb9bu 😂😂😂
@kvotheosem-sangue
@kvotheosem-sangue Год назад
@@Aetherguy-cb9bu No worries now, I'm sure hes still typing
@thedetective9522
@thedetective9522 Год назад
@@Aetherguy-cb9bu Give him time to google it..
@1Mutton1
@1Mutton1 11 месяцев назад
. Often if it's a boring job people don't like questions about it.
@dlbattle100
@dlbattle100 Год назад
At 57 this is less me learning new techniques and more learning the reasons behind why things I've done in the past actually wound up working. It's really solidifying things for me, well done for such a young guy to have this much insight.
@badkarma3713
@badkarma3713 3 года назад
If you don't try to impress her, she gets impressed by everything you do/say.
@nicholaslucas5183
@nicholaslucas5183 3 года назад
If she's interested in you she'll find a subject to talk about that you like.
@MenMovement
@MenMovement 3 года назад
@@nicholaslucas5183 that's a fact👏🏻
@nicholaslucas5183
@nicholaslucas5183 3 года назад
@@MenMovement thanks, I like your, why women don't respect orbiters, channel.
@MenMovement
@MenMovement 3 года назад
Thank you so much Nicholas. I do appreciate 🙂👊
@edoardo69yearsago88
@edoardo69yearsago88 3 года назад
Wtf no???
@tankthepitbull520
@tankthepitbull520 3 года назад
Make a person feel important and appreciated. That’s one of the most important lessons I learned from Dale Carnegie.
@ProtoIndoEuropean88
@ProtoIndoEuropean88 3 года назад
"the woman should be doing the majority of the speaking" and this is very correct. In my case, when a conversation with a girl is going well, she literally does not let me say almost anything! haha she basically talks about stuff about herself alot and I sometimes accidentally interrupt her to ask about something she talked about, and the conversation goes really well, I can feel this attraction from her as her body is turned towards me and head tilted forwards into my direction as if she is talking to my face literally haha This happens usually with a few words from me and then she is later claiming to be falling in love with me
@gabrielswayze4506
@gabrielswayze4506 3 года назад
I really enjoy reading others men stories like this one.
@1Mutton1
@1Mutton1 11 месяцев назад
Unfortunately it's also a red flag - sign of a narcissist.
@Earthtime3978
@Earthtime3978 4 месяца назад
Right. You have to light a fuse that burns through awkward silence. Not easy. Of course it depends on the woman’s personality. Think of Rocky and Adrienne. He had it tough.
@MindsetWithJosh
@MindsetWithJosh 3 года назад
Genuine curiosity is such a powerful thing. It makes you more attractive and it better helps you connect with people in general.
@poocumber7806
@poocumber7806 3 года назад
This is like the advise given on the book “how to win friends and influence people” it definitely works.
@terencejay8845
@terencejay8845 Год назад
It's decades old and still one of the most important books anyone can read. It was a breakthrough for me in my late teens.
@BWater-yq3jx
@BWater-yq3jx Год назад
First thing I thought of.
@gabrielchen178
@gabrielchen178 3 года назад
Am I the only person who feels that human interaction is a more difficult subject than rocket science?
@DeusEx2
@DeusEx2 3 года назад
Most women lack ambition and true interests,yet they want a successful goal-orientated man who can make her feel interesting. Good luck with that!
@musejames93
@musejames93 3 года назад
Hypergamy is built within every woman. It can’t be helped.
@Boysdont_cry
@Boysdont_cry 3 года назад
@Aaliyah Powell it's natural dw
@LucidOreo
@LucidOreo 3 года назад
Petition to have Alex grow out his beard anyone?
@Tim_Sviridov
@Tim_Sviridov 3 года назад
Oh, definitely.
@x97s
@x97s 3 года назад
And his hair
@feorge33
@feorge33 3 года назад
Yes. Hobo look, even.
@alexanderl9721
@alexanderl9721 3 года назад
Over time I found out that this advice works just as well for creating friendships.
@HassanPoyo
@HassanPoyo 3 года назад
Most women just eat sleep and watch netflix
@sixft2powerhouse129
@sixft2powerhouse129 3 года назад
And drink wine, snapthot, instathot, tikthot, complain about work, tell you how crappy you are..
@phaseless2653
@phaseless2653 3 года назад
@@sixft2powerhouse129 dont forget about onlyfans
@mefik
@mefik 3 года назад
I laughed hard but this is a very underrated comment.. Just add social media on top
@m_m2928
@m_m2928 3 года назад
my sister is 17, she eat, sleep, then attain couple of classes online, then laugh on her phone for the rest of the day, and everything she wants my dad provide for her, even if she asks for a new phone she gets it, but me my Dad doesn't give 2 shits about me. it's really sad he should treat me better and take care of me, she will grow up marry and leave him, but i will be with him always. but NVM
@orenoitchiro4744
@orenoitchiro4744 3 года назад
And what you expected from a passif energy
@nlytend1
@nlytend1 3 года назад
“Women like men that have high standards because it signifies that they are high quality.” My biggest take-away from this video...keep it coming Alex, I love your videos
@trenaceandblackmetal5621
@trenaceandblackmetal5621 3 года назад
non-chad = boring, creepy, tryhard etc. Chad = interesting, mysterious, intelligent, assertive etc.
@smilodon92
@smilodon92 3 года назад
Pretty much the bottom line. Whoever says otherwise, is delusional
@MajorKreissack88
@MajorKreissack88 3 года назад
What a ridiculous false dichotomy. Also a convenient cop-out to not put work into bettering yourself. Grow some balls please, loved ones and close friends will thank you for it. Having women will be a nice added benefit but certainly not the goal. Work on your own damned selves
@obliqueparalells429
@obliqueparalells429 3 года назад
@@MajorKreissack88 Is the truth to hard to accept?
@MajorKreissack88
@MajorKreissack88 3 года назад
@@obliqueparalells429 right back at you pal
@obliqueparalells429
@obliqueparalells429 3 года назад
@@MajorKreissack88 You forgot to change your tampons?
@marioordaz2383
@marioordaz2383 3 года назад
You're always coming the best precise resolutions. If everybody watched your content then they would see most of their social dating problems resolved.
@lanassokillerguy7310
@lanassokillerguy7310 3 года назад
This really helps me, a lot of times I tried to convince someone by talking about myself and trying to impress them like that. I got my first date in 3 days and I will definitely apply this knowledge from now on. Thank you!
@arsenalagent6675
@arsenalagent6675 3 года назад
Honestly, just making the interaction fun for your own amusement is so attractive to women and people in general, most of whom are too inauthentic and surface-level in how they socially interact to know how to make interactions like these fun or interesting. If you can make it fun for yourself, then you can talk to women and achieve some success with it without having to turn into a party clown. Then you can shift from "how do I talk to women?" to "how do I talk to more women of substance who can actually handle a one-to-one interaction?"
@Vmp775
@Vmp775 3 года назад
Kudos Alexander, thanks for sharing your insight. It was brilliant.
@ogrbell8297
@ogrbell8297 3 года назад
Perfect advise. This isn’t just for romance. It’s for every interpersonal relationship. People love it when you really listen and get involved.
@patnor7354
@patnor7354 4 месяца назад
Not really. People love the people who entertain them. Not the people who listen, ask questions and get involved.
@clinton4161
@clinton4161 3 года назад
This is a valuable social skill for getting anyone to want to talk with you. It's honestly selfish and arrogant to start talking just about yourself to someone you just met. Asking them a few questions first is a gift you give in exchange for talking about yourself later. Good conversations have a good balance of both people talking about themselves or what interests them.
@AndrewL31413
@AndrewL31413 3 года назад
This is so much better than the “never run out anything to say” advice out there.
@whiteknight9221
@whiteknight9221 3 года назад
You should write a book about all your knowledge one day. I would buy it immediately.
@watamutha
@watamutha 3 года назад
You're right, most people have no depth. This is from a person who's always seeking depth.
@mefik
@mefik 3 года назад
Lot of girls nowadays have no depth.. Everything is on the surface like their social media habit
@gabrielguzman6018
@gabrielguzman6018 3 года назад
@@mefik for real they focus soo much on the guys outter appearance rather than the inside
@mefik
@mefik 3 года назад
@@gabrielguzman6018 exactly because you can't match someone's depth when you have none to begin with 🤷
@differentlyabledmuslimjewi4475
@differentlyabledmuslimjewi4475 3 года назад
go on, tell us how deep you are then.
@gabrielguzman6018
@gabrielguzman6018 3 года назад
@@mefik why are you talking about me I was just adding
@Zoco101
@Zoco101 3 года назад
Thanks for another good video. I'm probably past all that dating stuff now, but some of this advice can be ported into existing friendships/relationships.
@yannk95
@yannk95 3 года назад
Thank you for this video. The reframe that you just helped me see made me laugh on how could I not see this sooner. You're a good man. Please keep sharing.
@HaoPieldeoso
@HaoPieldeoso 3 года назад
It is interesting that this goes against what some PUAs say which is "is ok to talk a lot as long as you are demonstrating high value", then again this mostly applied to groups
@dattrax7
@dattrax7 3 года назад
Killer advice!! Thank you! Watched tons of your vids but this one jumped out for me
@flowerofash4439
@flowerofash4439 3 года назад
This man is to the point and doesn't waste our time, you could say he is a high quality man! Grateful i found this chanel
@naedynot1
@naedynot1 3 года назад
I find with most women, all I have to say is, "Hi, how are you?" and they will just talk non stop for the next couple of hours. There is never any pressure on me to say anything because I can't get a word in anyway.
@tomasciganpal7897
@tomasciganpal7897 3 года назад
When I say this "Hi, how are you?" she replies "good" **end of the conversation**
@mefik
@mefik 3 года назад
@@tomasciganpal7897 it happens a lot. More often than not they want you to run after them and keep talking
@Phasma6969
@Phasma6969 3 года назад
Just talk over them, if they get pissed then end the babbling immediately and find something else more productive, don't be an emotional tampon...
@Ptah1130
@Ptah1130 3 года назад
Women fall in love with themselves, through your lens.
@hengineer
@hengineer 2 месяца назад
tbf, a lot of women suffer from insecurity syndrome, where their entire public personna is all about attempting to hide everything about themselves that they hate, so when they run across a man who makes them forget that and allows them to just open up, that invites the attraction. Its about how you make them feel. If you can make a woman feel good about themselves, despite all of the stuff she hates about herself, then yes.
@LABoyko
@LABoyko Год назад
"There are no boring answers, only boring questions." Could not disagree more. Here's where we do agree. It's up to you to make the convo interesting.
@61dodgelancer
@61dodgelancer 3 года назад
Alexander Grace, this is great! Excellent presentation of this material. It's right out of Dale Carnegie's, "How to Win Friends and Influence People". This strategy is time tested. Glad you're passing this information along to younger generations.
@sanelleric8875
@sanelleric8875 3 года назад
You got me there when you said in the video that most people are boring and dull. So true.
@lionprubbs701
@lionprubbs701 3 года назад
Isn't there a saying that goes something like "saying a person's name is the best sound of any language" or something like that, that comes to mind when I watch this video.
@Indieauguste
@Indieauguste 3 года назад
You are well spoken and qualified enough to speak on such subjects.
@rob_341
@rob_341 3 года назад
This is really good, I've been on so many dates were the talking was the problem. And they always seem to be closed off.
@kleeblattchen38
@kleeblattchen38 2 года назад
this trying to impress thing is so real... Even if the bragging is very suttle it's always apparent to women, I experienced this myself many times... You have plenty of time to go on about what you do or let her find out over time as you spend more and more time with her...
@MrFusselig
@MrFusselig 3 года назад
Very strong video. Thank you Alex
@Danjal987654321
@Danjal987654321 Год назад
This is really good. I need more. If there's one place I mess up, is during the conversations.
@j-star1
@j-star1 3 года назад
Quality advices! More of these please
@gsadventures678
@gsadventures678 3 года назад
You're a good man Alexander. You get it! Enjoyed your video.
@SK-zm8iu
@SK-zm8iu 3 года назад
Man, you and corey wayne are two of the best people i watch for videos about attraction, relationships, and dating.
@jinbaittai85
@jinbaittai85 3 года назад
Thank you. This was a great video. Intelligently informative. I have Asperger's and these videos are of the highest quality with regards to educational information.
@BruceLee-dp9sj
@BruceLee-dp9sj 3 года назад
Money, height, Social status, looks, women he slept with.
@VampyCrafts
@VampyCrafts Год назад
That's interesting.. I hate to talk about myself.. but I have noticed it's actually helping me in conversations.
@andrewrobertson3894
@andrewrobertson3894 3 года назад
On a consistent basis, I learn a hell of a lot from your videos. Thanks, man.
@leerollins7555
@leerollins7555 3 месяца назад
This is probably the best video Alex has ever made. He's spot-on about everything.
@coltukkor
@coltukkor 3 года назад
Meh ill just “accidentally” drop a wad of cash
@ronandheather3079
@ronandheather3079 3 года назад
This is actually one of your very best videos!
@davidbush9274
@davidbush9274 2 года назад
This man is giving you the straight dope on how to live your life in a social setting very effectively. "What speaks to you about X personally?" is just outright thoughtful.
@uberhaxen4400
@uberhaxen4400 3 года назад
Thank god for this video, this was the video I have been missing
@lordkent8143
@lordkent8143 3 года назад
It really is part of peacocking but in terms of how you handle your conversations and your reactions. The confidence and mystery that sets you apart that attracts her. Sure looks definitely help too but it's more about how you take her on that rollar coster high of emotions.
@realtalkz3930
@realtalkz3930 3 года назад
From what you described I've been naturally doing this all along, thanks for the reassurance that most of the women I've spoken too were boring and don't know how to spark my interests 😄
@kyussbrooker1774
@kyussbrooker1774 3 года назад
This is fantastic advice. Thankyou
@lunaticmickful
@lunaticmickful 3 года назад
For all the men with the question: "what do i say to her?" Here is your answer
@SilveeYT
@SilveeYT 3 года назад
Essentially Alex, have a genuine and authentic conversation about her, while not giving information about yourself/ not investing yourself in the relationship at first
@LeonMortgage
@LeonMortgage 3 года назад
This works in general. I was an introvert when I was younger because I felt like I was uninteresting and didn't want the spotlight on me. Once I figured this out I was able to engage other people without the pressure
@elijaheskin1
@elijaheskin1 3 года назад
"either take it higher or take it deeper" love it!
@yuniro85
@yuniro85 2 года назад
Thank you, I need a little bit more these videos, the other ones gives me anxiety 🤣
@RekzaFS
@RekzaFS 3 года назад
1:48 - 1:51 I've rarely seen a man so disgusted by his own words LMAO
@cantoprak7428
@cantoprak7428 3 года назад
When a man talks about women's emotions lol
@rafal5863
@rafal5863 3 года назад
@@cantoprak7428 women hedonism can be an ugly thing. Until you find a way to harness it.
@cantoprak7428
@cantoprak7428 3 года назад
@@rafal5863 agreed
@tzadiko
@tzadiko 3 года назад
At first I thought, oh I already know this stuff but I kept listening and he takes it next level
@y_s4021
@y_s4021 3 года назад
That's some great insight. But man, every time I'm like... SO.MANY.HOOPS.TO.JUMP.THROUGH...
@thundercho
@thundercho 3 года назад
3:20 Yes, it sounds dark, but sometimes the reality/truth ain't pretty. Keep on being your genuine self!!
@SCP-5000
@SCP-5000 3 года назад
Nonsense. Women wants to be told y = mx + c.
@starwarfan8342
@starwarfan8342 3 года назад
But what if you ask her if she can beat 682?
@dermanparriot
@dermanparriot 3 года назад
wow dude really support your stuff first time donating
@agpc0529
@agpc0529 3 года назад
This is great advice. I always ask about their family, it works great unless they had a bad upbringing and then you know that about them up front.
@mjcube1830
@mjcube1830 3 года назад
Nice breakdown
@1Mutton1
@1Mutton1 11 месяцев назад
One of the best pieces of advice I E had is, try to avoid asking questions, make statements. Not always possible but it stops it from becoming an interview.
@iducreyes
@iducreyes 3 года назад
Great video! Hey guys just curious how long are his patreons? 15 30 45 mins?
@alexandrusoare3256
@alexandrusoare3256 3 года назад
You’re looking a bit rough in this, remember to take care of yourself, great video
@adamclark1972uk
@adamclark1972uk 3 года назад
Yeah, he does look rough
@JD37
@JD37 3 года назад
Alexander is hip to the game.
@chronokoks
@chronokoks 3 года назад
First time after 30 years I agree with a dating tip video.
@MarvelousMusicmmusic
@MarvelousMusicmmusic 3 года назад
I would say to you, why would I need to approach her if I'm the one that's interesting?
@coolunusual
@coolunusual 3 года назад
Wow that's pretty much what I do subconsciously and just noticed it like a year ago. I find it just works well in general with friends/relationships etc. People love talking about themselves and if they like to talk to you talking themselves then they'll need you to get that feeling. They usually feel really fulfilled from a self expression stand point. Now I understand why the friends that I have like to talk so much with me lol and why I'm seen that way amongst my peers
@TheBazino
@TheBazino 3 года назад
If she says "I like fashion", you responds "BORING! Try again."
@samyb2834
@samyb2834 3 года назад
"CHECK PLEASE!"
@vercingetorix3839
@vercingetorix3839 2 года назад
I tried that once. Some girl was talking about a TV show she was watching and I said "I like how you keep talking about this when I'm clearly not interested." Surprised she didn't even get pissed
@bb4306
@bb4306 3 года назад
Clicked faster than ignoring all onlyfans link
@ThePorschefan
@ThePorschefan 3 года назад
Funny how stuff in the dating world is transferable to business. The first half of this video might be as well sales training
@calebvanderbyl306
@calebvanderbyl306 3 года назад
Could you make a video on how to create and hold the proper frame in a conversation
@MartinGarden
@MartinGarden 3 года назад
3:30 hahahahah be careful alex XD remember to chill and enjoy your own vibes
@thecapone45
@thecapone45 3 года назад
Solid advice. Not to be a know it all, but before you even said to get her to talk about herself, I was telling myself that’s what it was. It’s a human thing. I was reading about president Calvin Coolidge and he was a very quiet president. But he said that people considered him a great conversationalist- because they would talk about themselves! Great thing to know. Don’t even get me started on how this can be immensely useful in a job interview.
@hamtramckchronicles
@hamtramckchronicles 3 года назад
Calvin Coolidge WAS a GREAT President. One of the best we ever had.
@gabrielguzman6018
@gabrielguzman6018 3 года назад
No one is self aware or emotionally available due to experiences and society
@ChrisLee-yr7tz
@ChrisLee-yr7tz 3 года назад
I'd run away as quickly as possible..
@cellyszn20
@cellyszn20 3 года назад
I set a timer to talk exactly for 2 minutes and the timer is silent when it's complete. If you wanna be smart you can set it to vibrate so that when it completes, it vibrates and you can keep ignoring, imo she may feel she would feel like she is special cos you are ignoring messages for her. It's what I do now.
@nevondiaz
@nevondiaz 3 года назад
hahahahaha
@SimoBruceBB87
@SimoBruceBB87 3 года назад
This actually work not only when interacting with women but with human interaction in general. In business This is very useful too
@silviosantapaola2825
@silviosantapaola2825 3 года назад
this is like the library of alexandria grace on understanding women
@alejandro6506
@alejandro6506 3 года назад
Cold approaching is only for Chad
@RideAcrossTheRiver
@RideAcrossTheRiver 3 года назад
There is no Chad
@maks886
@maks886 3 года назад
again and again these just make me wanna stay single....
@ReadThis_
@ReadThis_ 3 года назад
Not necessarily. Just play your cards right. And know what to expect from women and which of your needs they will cover (=not many). And for all the rest...you have your very much capable self ;)
@KingCalb
@KingCalb 3 года назад
@@ReadThis_ well, that helped lol
@ReadThis_
@ReadThis_ 3 года назад
@@KingCalb that's the reality man. Accepting it will make you stronger and then you will be able to make yourself feel and be better ..
@jimjamjimjam7700
@jimjamjimjam7700 3 года назад
Think of women like a supermarket - if you get the low quality stuff or novelty crap you'll suffer for it. Just choose decent quality and you'll be ok 🙂
@TD-zs2nc
@TD-zs2nc 3 года назад
I feel you bro. For an introvert like myself this video says "having a conversation with a woman is double the work. And the reward for being successful is you get to keep having similar conversations." How exhausting.
@CodyHazelleMusic
@CodyHazelleMusic 3 года назад
This is just a good lesson for being an attractive person period. Always be interested in your interlocutor and don't reveal too much about yourself. Don't try to show off. If they walk away from the conversation knowing less about you than you do about them they will realize it later and want to know more
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