Clay Andrews talks about what your ex is thinking when they say various things to you.
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If you want to know what your ex is thinking after a breakup and during the process of getting back together, you just have to understand a few basic emotions.
The first emotion is your ex's resistance to interacting with you. The higher this emotion is, the more they will shut down emotionally and the more difficult it will be to get them to talk to you or interact with you.
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The second emotion is the positive feelings your ex has toward you. This emotion drives your ex to want to stay close with you and connect with you.
Your ex will say different things to you based on their differing levels of emotional resistance to interacting with you (based on the history you share), and their positive feelings toward you (based on how good the interactions between the two of you feel).
And the balance between these two emotions will often control what your ex is thinking and how they are behaving.
For example, if your ex's resistance and their positive feelings are more or less equal, you may experience a lot of hot and cold behavior or mixed signals from your ex. This is incredibly common.
They aren't doing this to toy with your emotions.
This is actually due to the fact that they are severely confused, themselves and these two emotional forces are battling it out within them to determine what they think and what they do.
And understanding and influencing these emotional forces will be the key to getting back together with your ex, if that's what you would like to do.
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26 июл 2018