When a Man Loves a Woman Well 

May God bless your father

I relate! My daddy was the exact same - such a fantastic, loving, Godly example! We will get to see them again and because I believe we are in the end times, I think it will be soon! Glory to God for the gems of good men put on this earth!

God bless your father(s) I pray to be a man of that quality!

Lola Who you’re so ver lucky ❤️

That's nice my dad was a mean man always but I forgave him and still love him

xjellybeans x god bless you

God Bless you both that is a blessing to have

@@smokingcrab2290 Yeah…………

xjellybeans x it would be perfectly godly and biblical for you to protect, provide, and care for your household alongside your husband

Well walmart won't hire me and I can't get a job! It seems as though Nobody wants me. However if your a Rich n Powerful person, perhaps YOU could HELP ME OUT Wuth a Job??? Thank you and God bless

Fireproof the movie was garbage and shows how women are absolved of all responsibility. The wife had an emotional affair with another man in the movie and didnt respect or love her husband. If anything the movies encouraged wives to break their vows if the husband isn't being perfect. The movie was disgusting.

@@cubed0724 The same company that made Fireproof made another movie called "War Room" aimed ENTIRELY at women and their responsibility to God and their husband. It was beautiful. Fireproof was equally beautiful as it is aimed at men and their role. In the movie, when he apologizes, he says he is sorry for like 6 YEARS of TROMPING on her in every way. The movie begins AFTER his years of taking her for granted and emotionally abusing her, when she has given up and no longer cares about him and has lost all respect for him. So, yes, she's not perfect in the movie, just like the man in "war room" is not perfect. But it's about what a man can do to fix his marriage (even when he has done everything possible to destroy it before turning his heart to God.) Ideally...BOTH partners will do their part and walk humbly before the Lord. But realistically, usually one partner has to start the process alone and be committed to keeping THEIR OWN VOWS to God and their partner, whether the other person leaves them or not. I really appreciate both movies very much and I think both are very accurate about how men and women react and think very differently.

@@christianone6611 The reason she stayed is because he gave her everything she wanted. She didn't respect him because he wouldn't use their savings to pay for her mom's treatment which he wanted to use for buying a boat he wanted even though she made plenty of money as a full time nurse. She never respected him and denied herself to him. Also when she was involved with the affair with the doctor who was married himself mind you and she didn't care. No, apology for stepping out on her husband. Basically the premise I got from the movie is do everything your wife wants or she'll leave you for another man and it's all about her happiness. The real digusting part of the movie I found was when the he found the love letters by the doctor to his wife and when he confronted the doctor who was married by the way, said, "You're not the only one pursing her, you've got competition." There is no competition period, they were married. If anything this movie represents the mentality of Christian's today where the women dominate the men and can break their vows at whim because it's all about the wives happiness.

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@ jenna crawford No man should be "gentle" only. A man must be rough enough to be respected by his wife.

Is he still gentle and honors u ?

@@framboise595 could u elaborate. Do u mean he should be rough enough on her physically and emotionally so that she may fear him. There’s a difference between respecting somebody bc u love them, and respecting them bc u fear them.

Lincoln Deane praying for you brother

Lincoln Deane God bless you and your wife's marriage! :)

Lincoln Deane there is this young woman whom i love and i just keep asking God for her, His will be done though. God bless you brother.

God bless you brother! May the living God helps you in honoring and serving your helpmeet (wife) :) Depend on God's strength alone, he will sustain you that's the key :) Be blessed and multiply in Jesus Name Shalom

Lincoln Deane i hope your marriage flourishes it may not be easy all the time but love is beauty walk with god together

Gabrielle S. : it says more about God. Romans 7:18 For I know that nothing good dwells in me, that is, in my flesh. For I have the desire to do what is right, but not the ability to carry it out.

Gabrielle S. that is why, i dislike that man in wh, what a man, how can he be there.

Where did i or the scripture say God sins.

Chleo Harris : Amen. To God be the glory.

nmwbYwbd 2 years passed, does he still bring peace to your soul?

doreen taylor Praying this with ya sis.

Me too sis

I pray you do too sweetie. God bless you.

@@sweetlove3391 thk u sis

@@Millyosodo God got us

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Well said!!

@@sskuk1095 What is "well said" ?

@ Jonathan Ewert Uniquely created by God FOR the man , for HIS needs first and foremost.

Truly, not all women deserve these special treatments in 21st century.

True. Women want and want...but don’t submit to their husbands. What man doesn’t want to love and protect his wife?

@@trevormutie5229Excuse me, but we are christians. We are not asked to love people if they “deserve it”. We all deserve death because of our sin. I know that you are talking of a hard-to-live-with person, but we are still slaves of Christ, if he loves us and is patient with us even with all our sins, shouldn't we do that with others that haven't sinned against us that much?

Tanya Dixon I’m alone because I will not settle for less

@@redheadedfreckles2 i was alone too ... But God gave me my Lady... Have patience you too will get the right person inshaAllaah

You are too old for an husband u can't even have kids anymore

@@Pantominas497 It is all about women nowadays. Most have no clue that God made the woman for the man and not the man for the woman. We are deceived by fallacious teachings like this one and so many others that focus like crazy on the "male love" . THE receipe for disaster.

@@framboise595 are u a woman or a man

Men have treated me poorly, especially when I was younger and I now realize they did me a favor. It toughened me up. I have ceased to be the "weaker vessel", as you put it. I live alone and when there's a noise downstairs I go down with a double barreled shotgun. You take this man/woman thing way too seriously. You do what you have to do. If I can't take care of myself it makes me feel weak and inadequate. What God has "designed", the world molds and shapes.

@@nightjar8898 Men and women are radically different from each other, if you find a godly man who loves you as he loves himself; you will see how regal and astonishing God created the opposite sex. God bless you dear.

@@nightjar8898 Those men that have treated you poorly, were not real men in the eyes of God. A real man would treated you with honour and love. I'm sorry that your experience has caused you to think this way. But I think you've met the wrong men. You'll find the right one eventually.

@@PrinceJes I don't care.

And yet... I respectfully disagree. I can see how in the natural that thinking works, but it's not biblical. Because men fail and they need Jesus just as much as the ladies do. When we curse or withhold love for the men because they are not "performing" up to a preferred standard. When we absolve women of sin and give a little grace to men, we are creating a church of emasculated men who are controlled, not loved. Not honored. A business relationship, not marriage. I don't expect many true, born again Christians to like my comment. But read the bible. Abuse is not sanctioned from Jesus to a woman or a man. Love unconditionally. Peace.

Hey! Interesting comment, would you be able to elaborate on this , I would love to understand what you mean

GOOD one!

Emmanuela Oduro Basically, your wife was on of your choices, when you criticize her, you are criticizing your own choice and therefore you’re criticism is about you.

Wow... Spot on

@@queenie_2_0_2_4 and you become one flesh.

Bible Munch Yes sure we can. God loves the church just like a husband loves his wife.

Thank you Bible Munch.

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Absolutely.

How do u love your husband if he dose not live for God dose not want nothing to do with God and want to get a divorce for his wife following God how do u love your husband if he was physical abusive and is still very verbal abusive towards the wife and kids how do u love a husband if he mocks u as a child of God and is always bring you down and your faith for loving God

My thoughts exactly and my arguement all the time to my then husband who didnt get the point why we couldnt be 50/50 all the time

Jesus bless you.

Yes. God please bless more men to be strong good men early in life and it not take 40 years to purify him. We shouldn't wait and work in vain.

Hi Natalia, praying for your heart right now. That the Lord's love and peace that surpasses all understanding may fill you up and joy may pour out. The love of Christ heal your heart and change it with a new, loving and forgiving heart. Amen. I've been in your place before Nat, and I know how horrible it feels to become like the person (s) who hurt you in the past. But good news! Transformation of the mind and healing of the broken heart is only as far as a fervent prayer longing for Jesus. He delights in the brokenhearted and those who are contrite in spirit. Don't lose heart, dear. There is a full and legitimate hope in our God!

I understand this as I have/had harsh men in my life... I have no intent to bash men, ...as I have also known some beautiful ones. I understand there are a lot of I'll women out there who are hurting good men. Souring them against women all together. This makes me so sad... Because we all deserve to show Love, and be Loved, and to not be closed off from this great joyful gift God has given all of us. The gift of giving and receiving Love.🙂❤️

If you've had sex before marriage.... good luck. You aren't being a godly woman 🤷‍♂️ You getting tattoos and drinking all night? Not godly. But you want a good Christian man? Lmao. Good luck. 🤣 If by SOME miracle you DON'T do what I just said.... then you are the most sought after female ever. Unless you're hideous or have such extreme standards no man could meet them.... you'll get married basically at any point you want 🤷‍♂️ (with the exception of reaching into your 30s)

Very true Micaela. What do you think about this verse👉Titus 2:4-5 King James Version (KJV) 4 That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,

@@gailland8681 well Mrs. Land, do you believe in the power of principle?

@@gailland8681 The reason I ask you this is because you need to look at LOVE as a principle not a feeling. Although emotions enhance Love for sure. Principles are practiced to produce a desired result. So what results are you looking for?

@@Yahkeam I don't know about the principles. but the feeling of love and being loved is priceless. no principles can replace it.

@@Yahkeam I don't see it how it can be solved. but God sees it. I trust Him ..

Well hello there I am he

I know right where are all the cute conservative Christian guys!!??

@kirsten Young Why do they have to be cute? Looks fade away.

@@cynthiagalvan837 You have to find them cute for you to be attracted to them if you're like me. If you're not attracted why are you marrying? Ok, there may be good reasons, but I worry slightly that aspects of how society and even churches portray the relationship become idols for us. Is fear of being alone your motivation for interest in a guy you aren't attracted to? Questions like that are important imo, because a marriage might end up being a big distraction from and covering up of your need for community with sisters in christ and fearlessly serving God. Just my thoughts. I might be persuaded to change my mind.

@B10401 You are right. It’s your opinion, But I LIKE it. The reason I asked was I kinda tried to dissect her question. It wasn’t just an open general question. It was to the point type of question. (Exclamation marks and question mark) led me to 🤔 think. Aah cuteness first, christianity second. I have nothing against cuteness, good looking etc. etc. But could be missing out on a very very good Christian Man. I hope she finds what she is looking for. GOD BLESS YOU.

@ Joannah Ukpe Oh those poor women always victims .. As if modern day women were still valuable and deserving of honour and love ! Piper worships women and puts them on a pedestal and tells other men to do so . It is pure idolatry . He just fuels our narcissist part to its maximulm.

@ MegaBoomer1996 Putting the male love forward is such a vicious trick of the devil . Their fake teachings have almost turned "love" into something platonic that can NEVER be a fortress against sexual temptations . Nothing can be more devilish than telling married men that they have to "love "their wives and not telling them that they are entitled to sex as the Bible says.

@@framboise595 What do you mean by "male love" The husbands body belongs to the wife and the wifes body belongs to the husband.

@@MegaBoomer1996 You're right with the body belonging to the other spouse but this is not what is preached today. What I mean by "male love" is the focus on one verse " husbands , love your wives etc..".

What you're saying is interesting, because I heard a lot of times in church that men focus too much on the female love and argue women should submit to them whereas they are not submitted to Christ. The focus needs to be on the person of Jesus. If we seek his face, his presence, if we seek his word, then that will change us from the inside out and only in that way can we truly love our spouse and others.

@ Mai 3 Yes but do your best to look good and not gain too much weight though so that your husband always desires you .

Ahahaha exactly what I thought

Came here to post this

Same- and it's more than 3 years old😄

Literally thought it was him at first

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I pray in jesus name that u will find that man of God and i pray he prepares you for your husband in Jesus name amen!

@@kingcity2762 Amen Amen Amen. Thank you.

God will give him 2 u don't give up sis I want 1 as well 🙇🏽‍♀️

@ Be Andal " The women around me are all in unhappy marriages" Maybe their husbands worship them too much and is unable to have sex with them... Typical of the modern western simp so afraid to touch his own wife because you know , women are such "treasures" !!! But women hate those men who treat them like china dolls !!

I soo agree.. I pray all the women here have a worthy man for them.and vice versa.... The men get women who deserve them. My marriage was nothing lile this i am still broken but i know God has purpose for Me and the right Man will come along and treat me as his treasure..

D Pagne Amen 🙏🏽 and yes my marriage was nothing like this either. The Holy Spirit revealed to me the things this guy is speaking of. I two was broken. but today I am totally healed Jesus set me free. and I speak life to you right now In the name of Jesus be heal be whole and be set free NOW from all brokenness IN JESUS NAME!!! 🙏🏽

Warrior Princess 4 Jesus I also pray that y’all won’t manipulate that man integrity and love catering to you because that’s what most modern western woman does today. It is a balance, you most give 110% and he must as well

Thank God for the preaching. :)

Justbe Yeah in heaven women and man is equal 50/50

You are so honest but yoy know he is learning as well JESUS CHRIST IS PURE LOVE AS YOU TALK TO HIM LIFE WILL CHANGE amen

Many are hurting because of generational trauma. The church could be more compassionate like God & condescend to the brokenness of this current generation rather than saying "they're getting what they deserve, they've brought it on themselves"

cathy zhang AMEN!!! So true!!! We need men with spines who are UNAFRAID to be MEN for GOD (NOT selves)... So much self-serving entitlement sissified men nowadays, they act more like little girls than women sometimes... I think it’s one of the ways Satan is destroying our society - by sissifying men and turning into girlish behaviors...

But many women have taken advantage of good men.

@@indakgalak ..... You are Correct Sir and I have Noticed this as well when I go out shopping with my wife (which is Rarely) but during this past Christmas season I see a ton of so called "men" that by their Actions alone they acted more like little sissy women without any Backbone than I seen real men by Farrrrr!! Sad to say but this Homosexuals thing is taking all these what would be men over......

[ only because women shave their hair from even the part from the nose below to the upper lip, does not make the fact that they are overly-masculine go away too, does it? This bad men, bad women bashing is not going to get us any where, and i can agree, being numb, selfish, calculating and self protecting after having been beaten while handcuffed and force-medicated with no consequences for the perpetrators. I should not have clicked on the video, because, it is clear a woman feels triggered, when a man brings up that she is the weaker sex, i donot do this, i think a woman is in a way the stronger sex, it is scientific fact, that she can endure more pain that she has when birthing a child, and the fact, that she has the capacity to bring a child to life is beyond my comprehension. However, the new age is dangerous and to let it not take over traditional gender roles would us do no harm. I believe that god is just and we get what we deserve in the end. I hope, that we can learn to love one another unconditionally, because we are all sinners in a way or another. I forgive those who beat me in Jesus name. and ps: perhaps so should you, forgive those, who are not the way, as you would want them to be. ]

Dear one, God gave you talents to multiply and have stewardship over, not to let be drained out by an ungodly man or wolf in sheep's clothing. Biblically, you are to take him to the elders and if he does not repent, you do it again, and of he does not repent, you take him before the church, and if he does not repent, you are to have nothing to do with him. By repent, I do not mean saying "sorry". I mean "fruits meet for repentance" aka his words and actions match up, he is sincerely sorry and he doesn't go back to sinning. So for an abusive person, that's basically 3 chances. For a godly person who makes "innocent" or ignorant mistakes and sins and they correct themselves, you are to forgive them 7times x70 (an infinite amount). But God is never asking a woman to submit to an evil, rebellious, unloving, cruel man. A wolf in sheep's clothing is to be avoided to protect thy very self. If he stresses you to the point that you are unable to do basic self care steps like tending to your relationship with God, growing in his love, reading the word, serving God Christian's etc...then he is preventing you from multiplying your God given talents and you'll be ashamed in front of God that you lost all he gave to your stewardship by enabling an ungodly, abusive man. Some preachers are narcissistic and imply you should support and enable any man with any behavior. That is not true. Our first love and loyalty is to God and keeping his commandments and certainly respecting and honoring a godly loving man. Take care of you. Maybe this guy is reflecting the relationship you have with yourself...aka he always blames you and you always blame you. So change that dear one. Not by now blaming him but by no longer attacking yourself as a precious child of God. Receive the LOVE God has for you and be filled to overflowing by it. God bless you in healing. Maybe a demonic deliverance ministry will help you break any generational curses or unholy soul ties or cast out any evil oppression or possession stopping you thus far. I pray that all the generous abundance you tried to shower your partner with will come back to you ten fold and that you will be wiser about where you invest it in future. Invest in the people who love, support, respect, and cooperate with you in God's will, purpose, and destiny for your life. God bless you!

Why did you marry him? What the hell attracted you to him?

I will definitely be praying for you dear

Cubed07 Good Question that many often ask with similar situations. Obviously he exhibited zero of this behavior prior to marriage or I would not have married him. First, I learned he is has NPD. I was unaware of this, as most are taken by surprise. I also believe this was an assignment from the Lord, however due to God’s gift to us of Freewill, he has chosen to take the route of his flesh rather than the Spirit of God in his behavior and responses to Life’s challenges. It’s very sad. I believ his prior behavior was not real fruit, but works..I seek to learn all I can out of the situation as I move forward and away. I lean on scripture God promises me years ago. Like all people, I have days I can’t handle the behavior as well I can as other days. I believe God is giving him many chances to repent before he dies.

Kia Ash Dear Kia Ash, thank you so much for your lovingkindness and taking the time to intercede on my behalf. I pray God restores your time 10 fold, and blesses you.

Yep,that or die single for me

@@hawk6143 This is how Piper and co maliciously keep women away from marriage by raising the bar for men in such an unscriptural way . Women made for and because of man kept away from marriage ! . So fornication can go full swing (to avoid sexual immorality , let every man have his wife (...) ) Good job Satan.

And......HERE I AM! 😇

@Puking Dino it's oh my gosh FYI

@Puking Dino I don't take the Lord's name in vain thank you!😇

@Puking Dino well I appreciate you correcting me. I've been under a rock for quite some year's I apologize

@Puking Dino well it's a good thing I pray for forgiveness of my sin & transgressions knowingly committed & unknowingly committed every night.

@ Susan Carter As their own bodies ? What for ? They don't even have sex with their wives ! How does this make sense ?

Isabelle M , You just came here to mock Gods Holy Words, sorry for you, the wicked ones have you blinded.

@ David Thompson You honour someone worthy of honour ! Not a disgraceful wife. Proverbs 31 man honours and even praises his wife because she is worth it. But you cannot honour a Vashti .

Christina N. pray about it gal. If you want some inspiration maybe check out the movie 'war room' it really blessed me. Pray for your husband. Pray for Jesus to change both of you to be better spouses to one another ❤️ I pray God blesses and anoints your marriage sis xxoo

@@katk8285 Oh, I love that movie. It helped me so much.

What about communication with your spouse, I may not be married, but as a college student I am learning that communication is super important in any relationship. And you don't really get what you want through lack of communication... I hope you and your husband have figured it out by know. But I will still be praying for you

@@jonathonnielsen4078 hunny sometimes you can communicate clearly and precisely and speak the same language if a person is determined to misunderstand you because they don't want to fix the situation then there is nothing you can do

@@jonathonnielsen4078 i disagree beliefs are the cause of conflicts communication is subjective my example would be if both fear God and want to abide by his rules to please him and show him love back they will both have a successful marriage they made disagree where the couch goes but it won't matter in the end there communication will become God which is the supreme moral law in this earth

@ Shofargirl1 You fear the Lord but you disobey his word ? How can you sleep with another bedroom when the LORD that you claim to fear tells you to be one flesh with your husband all the time 1 Corinthians 7:5 ?

@ Jason Lopez We don't exactly know what God means by weaker vessel but what we see for sure is that everything that gets feminized becomes weaker. Even faith. Man was made first as the image and glory of God. It is clear that when men are put forwards , when society is male-dominated , it is stronger , steadier and not as immoral.