When should you tell him? 

I don’t understand this obsession with telling men your business....smh I know one thing men sure ain’t gonna tell you theirs.

"He is falling in love because he is working." Make him work ladies.

When a man is doing more, more & more and you don’t get on your back, he’s falling in love-Tony Gaskins

It's none of his business. He shouldn't even assume that he was getting it in the first place.

I believe the woman’s actions should show that man that she is waiting until marriage. Ladies remember tony said we talk too much 😂 let your actions show that man how you moving, not your mouth.

If you been doing it the WRONG way this long and your still single. What do you have to lose doing it God's way🤷. I'm willing to take my chances with God's way he's the one man that has never failed me.

Be blessed I made it! One of my besties did this. she got married as a virgin. didn't tell her husband that she was waiting till marriage throughout dating/courtship. he only found out that she had never been with anyone on their wedding night; imagine his surprise? she has an amazing husband and family.

So basically: 1. DON'T TELL HIM that you're waiting until marriage (or about things in your past that he is not entitled to know). Don't SAY what your standards are, just LIVE them. He'll figure it out without your saying it. 2. When he tries anything, say nicely "I'M NOT READY FOR THAT." 3. MAKE HIM WORK FOR IT. In the process, he will get to know your heart and spirit and possibly fall in love with you. 4. A man has done NOTHING for you and doesn't deserve you until he has walked you down that aisle and continues to treat you like a queen after the wedding. A real man knows this. Thank you, Tony.

I noticed that when we tell them we are not ready they are more motivated to test us.

"Love is a job you can't retire from..." "A man has done nothing for you until he walks you down the isle." Be Blessed!

“He is a distraction that looks like destiny”🔥👈🏾✍🏾

I know a male virgin, he is in his 30's, handsome, educated, very respectful, and he is a preacher who is completely dedicated to God and is a holy man. He never been inside a club, never drank, never smoked. He says all the time that God can keep a man if they want to be kept. It can be done but the mind must be renewed by God first🙏

A man doesn’t know what’s best for him. A man don’t know what’s good for him. A man just simply does not know. A woman has to show him what’s best for him-Tony Gaskins

And ladies, don't let the dudes you have history with come back and trick you. Been there done that.

Tony preach'n. I was dating a self proclaimed pastor, I was abstinent, didn't announce it...he announced that he was. I prayed for discernment when we became "exclusive", and he said he wanted to marry me. Everything went great but I watched and prayed. I made note of numbers that weren't assigned names, how many times they called...when he answered known calls and didn't answer unknown calls. He even had his mother lie for him. I prayed for a sign and it finally came. I busted him with 2 other women, he was sleeping with both of them. I confronted him over one of their houses and walked out of his life, never looked back. I said all of that to say....never let a man make you compromise your values. It wasn't me, that I was holding out, if that was the case only one other woman would've been enough. There is nothing that I could've done to break a stray dog, that was between him and God. Tony is on point with his videos, that is why I follow and support him. God will eventually place someone in my life when the both of us are ready. In the meantime I'll continue to refine the 3 Bs...brain, brand and body, that way when the right man comes along he'll recognize his wife❤🙌🏽🤗

“Lust can’t be quenched” 🎯 🎯 💯 💯

Take some vitamin C, drink your water, get some rest and refrain from alcohol. Watch your temperature. Prayers up!

At 58yrs old, I’ve been truly amazed at the “Christian” men and PASTORS that have tried to get with me for under false pretense just to get in the drawls. SAD...😒🤨

I just had to pause the video at Dont walk around introducing yourself as "Hi, Im a reformed loose booty, Screenname loosebooty 901!"😂🤣😂 Don't revisit your past with a renewed mind and spirit!!

I don’t think Tony knows he’s low key hilarious in his videos 😭😭😭but he’s not even trying to be .... every time he says that 19 😭😭 or when he does woman’s voices I’m weak.....

"How ya doin, I'm waiting till marriage...loose booty 901, I'm waiting till marriage." 🤣🤣🤣 I'm here at work, and at my job coronavirus gets collected and tested. About 500 tests a day are done and it just hits hard, you know? So I'm walking around with my headphones on listening to you, and I'm rollin'.🤣 My co-workers don't know what's my problem is, but laughter feels good during this stressful time. Thanks, Tony ☺️

I celebrated a year in March..talk about the clarity, peace and not even have the desire....my focus is on crushing my goals unapologetically and relentlessly! Thanks Tony for Godly and wise counsel!

Don't tell a man that u r waiting that way u will get to see what he is all about. Good one Tony👍👍👍👍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️. I agree totally..

Father God, I pray for young Tony and his family ‼️Father, I pray that NO SICKNESS shall touch him or his family. Cover him and family Lord from the top of his head to soles of his feet. He is yours Father God‼️💯🙏🏾 In Jesus name, Amen and Amen 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💯 Love you and your family in the Lord young Tony. Be blessed❤️

When you know better you Move Better...All they need to see is the way that you move to get the answer they need. Your character should speak for itself...Be BLESSED I made it❤

“Love is a job you can’t retire from.” ❤️

Who else repeats "A-A its me Tony Gaskins "along with Tony at the beginning of every intro 😂😂

It’s older women who give bad advice!!!💯 I felt that!🙌🏾

😂😂😂😂Those hand signals though! Lesson of today : DON'T TELL THEM NOTHING!!! Just play along n keep declining sexual advances

A man is testing you to know if you really know you 🙏🏽🙌🏽

🗣️"He is a distraction that looks like destiny" 🗣️ That's a word tight there!!! 🙆🏾🙆🏾🙆🏾

You know I used to wonder what I was doing wrong and why the men were acting like they did not want a good woman turns out that I just had a big mouth!!! Thanks for this

OH MY GOD I felt this ...he’s a decoy, don’t let you right hand know what your left hand is doing🙌🏽.

It's none of his business! That's between you and god! Preach Tony!

Wish I had this knowledge in my teenage years, but better late than never. Thanks Tony. Be Blessed I made it.❤

Yes indeed Tony.... age don’t make u wise🧐

Such real talk. I went on a date with a guy a few months ago and thought I should be transparent about some of my vaules. He ghosted me and I haven't heard from him since. I recognize now that, even though I'm living by what I believe, I was trying to impress and appear special to him. Man if I could turn back time and know what I know now. It's hurts to have been a fool and to know that I'll be remembered that way to that man and every other that I've made mistakes with. But, I will never be that woman again!!

24:25 “the Bible say in Spread Eagle 69:9” I fell OUT!!!!!!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Tony!!!!!! You’re a trip!!

I'm here and about to learn!

I hate that phrase “what you won’t do another woman will do”. How many women bend over backwards for their man and are pleasing them sexually and that man still cheats or leaves you for another woman. I think the key is knowing your value..period. If I’m good enough to lay down with then I’m good enough to be your wife.

Listen to Tony. I told a man I'm saving myself and the next day he went and told his friends.. ladies just keep your business to yourself

"That breezy hit your scalp the right way" 😂😂😂 the accuracy!!! 😩 babyyy! I was almost ✌🏾*turn that peace sign upside down* spread eagle!!! Help Lordt ✋🏾😩

Lust can't be quenched!... Wow - thank you for this truth.

Truth Tony....but u still got me cracking up 😂 😂

Sex shouldn’t even be a topic on a first date, me personally I make that clear when my date brings it up. At the end of the date I had his respect and he got to know me better.

You make the hard facts easy to hear..... super glue on top, lol

Young Tony you are a straight silly person 🤣🤣🤣” yes, my name is loose booty” 🤣🤣🤣Be blessed ‼️💯❤️🙏🏾

Ive learned so much about dating and being able to now look at things from a mans perspective..i truly appreciate how you have turned your mess into your message!!

To sum up this video sisters....."Dont talk about it...be about it". If you not giving up the cookie keep the cookie dont talk about the cookie.

“Puerta Rica”.....I am done witchu Tony!!!!🤣 BE BLESSED

Tony get some allergy medicine. This pollen been getting me too. Claritin is good, benadryl will knock you out. BE BLESSED I MADE IT

🤣🤣 you are SO funny Tony. I know you are only telling the truth but the rawness of the truth is the best! Keep doing what you doing 👊🏽

I was talking to a guy and I never told him I was waiting, but he figured it out he wasn't gonna get it so soon. He was like, you not sexual. Im thinking, neeguh you don't even know me. Then he went on his way....

Just because you wait till marriage to have sex with a man doesn't mean it's a guarentee that you are going to have a perfect marriage or a man will never step out with another woman while y'all married. The only way you know your marriage will be sexualy pure is if you are both practicing celibacy before y'all marry. He needs to be practicing celibacy on his own while y'all are dating before marriage.

Thank you for sharing this, im 22 and still a virgin and be thinking about how im gonna tell someone I'm interested in that im waiting till marriage💯 now I know not to love watching your videos they're very informative and funny

Tony, you are RIGHT . I had my past thrown in my face every time when I was in a very toxic relationship.

Lord I know that this man is one of your Warriors that tells the truth. When he talks and I am listening I can feel your presents. Thank you Lord for Bro. Tony and all his experiences in his life that he uses his mistakes to tell us what we should be doing. Bless his wife and his children and all that he plans to do in the future my if be successful because I know it will be for your Glory. Be Blessed

Thank you so much Tony,I totally agree with you. We women usually arm these men with a lot of information that they use to destroy us,if only we just shut our mouths and listen more.I have learnt the hard way but I know with all your help I will definitely get it right this time and I will let you know that.Stay safe

Thank you Tony, I now have my daughter that is home from college (19yrs) listening to u. She’s amazed at ur insight. U and ur family have a blessed day! Be safe! ❤️🙏🏽

When he does that upside down flipped peace sign ✌ I just _______

Be blessed I made it! I encourage everyone to watch Tony’s videos at least twice or more if you have time. Tony will say something and it’ll tigger a past, present or general thought and my mind will go off reevaluating EVERYTHING.

Dawgggg Tony’s videos are so informative and be funny af at the same time.

You shouldn’t have to tell him at all., because I feel you tell him; he maybe the devil and just want to soil you. That’s my take.🤣

This is truly great info. Praying this helps women young and seasoned like myself❤️🙏🏽

Spread Eagle 69:9......TONY IM THRU🤣🤣🤣🤣

20:21 the hand gestures for "on yo' BYKE & spread eagle". 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

The sad thing about all of this is for every woman who respects herself there's a thousand more who don't and men of all ages know this. A man's ultimate goal is sex and he can get that so easy out here 😕. How can a woman compete in this kind of sexual marketplace?

Tony is cracking me up right now can’t stop laughing 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣!!!!!!

Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom. I’m finally learning the lessons that my dad didn’t teach 🙌🏾

I literally wait for you to post !!!! I get very excited 😆

Prayers, that no 19 enters your home/effects your family! I worry each time I cough, this is really a scary time, especially when you have children or anyone with comprised immune system. My son was 24 weeks 2 days so he had chronic lung disease. He sounds terrible, just when he has a cold. Typically it's not even in his chest, but he sounds like it. When you had a 1Lb 7.6oz baby who spent 4 months 1day in the NICU, its really scary. He is 11 now, but has cerebral palsy/many complications from prematurity. My daughter also has auto immune disorder/graves disease. I'm praying each day. She's had hours cut, had to change jobs, for still only 20 hours in health care and has a baby girl who's 2 and she's my world. I just hope this virus does not enter her home as well. Prayers for everyone, stay safe!! May God protect us all!

I wish I'd seen this video last week. I just told a potential that I was celibate and waiting for the right time. Love when brothers peep us on game. Thank you Mr. Gaskins.

A lot of “Old Fools” is what my mom called them when I was a young woman.

This was the mid week word much need , replayed the video and saw all the things that I didn't realize was red flags now I know ... I will be dating correct lesson learned this was the realest and rawest today! BE BLESSED I MADE IT !

I JUST LOVE how Tony gives the Game away this just BLESS my Soul everytime⚫

I just experienced this and my God...so happy for revelation. You love learn and grow. Thank you

My brother Tony on point and out here saving lives 😂❤️💯!

Praise God for you!! I LITERALLY was just praying about everything you talked about in this message. Thanks God for CONFIRMATION 🙌🏾. BE BLESSED I MADE IT!!!!

Tony you crack me up the way you say things in a humerous way. Thank you for your ministry.

Heyyy Blessed Tribe!! Ready for this good information.

Be blessed. I made it! Those last few minutes were golden. Thank you Mr. Gaskins

Enjoyed this video big time! Thank God for a christian male relationship coach that tells us women the truth with wisdom and love. Praise God! God bless you.

TONY I HAVE LEARNED SO MUCH FROM WATCHING YOUR VIDEOS. MAN LET ME TELL YOU THIS IS STRAIGHT FACTS GOD BLESS YOU MAN KEEP THE LESSONS COMING

This is great advice! We women been doing it backwards! We can set ourselves up as A BIG FISH to conquer by telling too much too soon! Thanks again Tony!

Be blessed I made it!

Blessed tribe! 🙌🏿🙌🏿

@42:18 "If you feelin' froggy, then jump" 🐸💃🏽🔋➡️🦸‍♂️💥

I appreciate your thoughts from a male perspective. Your advice has helped me end a toxic relationship that was destroying me in the inside, at times I thought I was not going to be able to make it. . Thank you for allowing God to use you and am thankful to god for giving me a mind to realize this was not healthy and I needed to make a choice between life and death. Your videos helped me come out of a very dark place and I believe God allowed me to go through this because there were some things I needed to learn about myself and learn how to resist my flesh. My hope is that maybe my testimony of being set free will help someone else one day.

This is my FAVORITE topic that you teach...can’t listen to this message enough! Thank you Tony...be blessed!

A curse wrapped as a gift!! A very accurate description! TG

Father....! This daughter is a child of the King 💙💙💙

Thank you Mr. Gaskins. I was approaching this topic all wrong. You are a true blessing.

Man!!! Be Blessed! You’re the most amazing RU-vid person out here. This content has blessed my socks off 😊

Distraction looking like Destiny 💯

One of the best videos I’ve ever seen advising on how to date while being abstinent! Everything was 💯% 🎯on point.

This is the absolute truth I witnessed it and I’m so glad to know what I need to do next time around.

Be Blessed I made it ..I always love listening from what God has imparted in you to share THIS WORD though WOMEN really need to hear this with there whole brain if we ever expect to get the best of a Husband this is immeasurable advice I thank God everyday I came across Brother Tony may God continue to speak to all of us through your ministry thank you for being a willing vessel to speak to us on this level Bless your family 🙏

Tony has been reading me for filth since I first found his channel . This man provided more clarity than my own mother & I’m 30 !?! Point blank Periooddtt 🎯👌🏾

I made it to the end. Tony, you made this video 3 years ago, but it was so relevant to me today. What a blessing! You have answered this question when so many have or could not. May God continue to bless you

Every video is like a huge revelation to me. I learned my lessons and the same mistakes will be made no more. Thank you Tony for this great video! May Lord Bless You and Your Family members!!! Knowledge is so deep and wise, i'm gonna listen 2 times more. I'm so blessed to be able to get all this knowledge from you Tony!! Million times THANK YOU!!!