When You stop caring, YOUR EX Starts Chasing You 

80% of married couples end up having 3 some and may do swinging too. Never ever get married. All will end up divorcing you.

That's not sad. It is called self respect and self worth....

Exactly… what a paradox

@@dampnickers jus because you want someone to care about you doesnt mean you dont care about yourself

@@dampnickers wanted* i should say

@@TraeZoe that's exactly what I was getting at. The OP has clearly moved on, which was my point. :)

​@@beccf.s.8012the same reason you're here

@@beccf.s.8012 why were you apart from to troll?

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I'm intrigued.... what was the BS you had to deal with and how are you coping with not having to deal with it, tho you can't forget about it?

My ex was so pissed i didn't reach out, it does 😂

​@@marcuselliottsr How much time it took?

@@super_street_racer5094 like 3 days, i didnt do it to get her back.

What if he has gotten another girl will he come back

@@nenyeobetta9371 forget about them and crack on...never go back

I understand what you’re trying to say, but I dunno man; I think there is.

They can feel you start pulling away. And wonder “does he miss me, maybe I made a mistake, maybe he’s moved on” then they’ll fight for your approval

Go win him back then

He’s literally gave me such peace this past week! He’s incredible!❤

My man! It was great talking to you too. I wish you well with your situation and look forward to catching up again soon

@@danilaroche1156 Hi Dani, he’s definitely worth it! He completely changed my mindset about my breakup. I hope you have a chance to speak with him. Jack from Boston

@@danilaroche1156 Are you in ‘no contact’ currently? When did you break up?

@@danilaroche1156 wow that’s tough being neighbors. My ex lives about 25 miles from me so there’s almost no chance of running into her. I’m not far from BU, great school!

@@danilaroche1156 hi, no I’ve moved on from her. No-contact and Coach Blac helped me soooo much!

Lol me too. He's looking for greener grass on dating apps, good luck with that because dating apps are full of BS 😂

No children?

How can I miss you if you dont go away!?

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Same that’s why mine lied to my face to get back in

How is it going now ? Did you do no contact ?

Yes, no contact since I posted this last message. He dropped off flowers on Mother’s Day and tried to move in for a hug. I distanced myself and turned and walked away. So that’s where we left off. Haven’t heard from him.

@@judymcguire9363 after the breakup I was a mess. I expressed all my emotions. I wish I didn’t. But now I just do no contact We still have business to do. But I only talk and see him for couple mins. I don’t talk about the relationship. I don’t beg. He wants to be friends. I’m not doing it. Even tho I shed tears everyday. I will not let him know I’m hurt. I kno eventually I will get over it. Right now it hurts bad but I’m able to control my emotions and not contact him anymore about our relationship

I did the same exact thing. He’s a narcissist so he was feeding off my emotions. Wanted to be friends and also fuck and leave. You’re strong you’re a better person. And believe me.. you got this!!!

@@judymcguire9363 yes exactly !! I’m not doing friends with benefits with him like he wants. I’m just stopping everything with nc. And thank you. Plz update if anything happens. I’d like to kno how the no contact is going

Exactly! Just move on. I’m going through bullshit too right now. I literally never in my life cried my soul out so bad but now, I’m stronger than ever and will never let a human make me feel sad again. If your wife filed for a divorce , it wasn’t meant to be then. Your future is far brighter and better! Stay up!! God bless you !

@@evelina.gukasyan hope your good now!

Update?

@@basicinfo2022 it’s been going on almost 2 years still no contact. I’m at peace with it

Any updates???

I’m sorry to hear that.. trust me I know it’s hard, but you’re doing the right thing. It’s his loss not yours. Keep your head up and do not reach out to this guy. He doesn’t deserve you. You will find better. )

Mine I have done everything to forget him but no way at times I will see him in the dream but he's with another girl and I loved him with everything don't know I survived it

Mine I have done everything to forget him but no way at times I will see him in the dream but he's with another girl and I loved him with everything don't know I survive it

How you feeling now man?

@@godsson2681 feeling so so blessed and happy to move on from her she wasn’t that special. Love from gh🇬🇭

Hello Jayla. Be kind to you and feel every bit of emotion. That is ok. After that, set goals for yourself. What do you like, where you like to go and concentrate on those things. Be around your close friends and family. I promise you everyday it will get better, my ex husband left 2 years ago and I'm divorced for 8 months now. He treated me cold & it hurts more because our children were ghosted too. Today, I accomplished transferring my property to my name, I got my maiden surname back, and I prosper at work. I started dancing, go watch rugby games, doing whatever I wants to do. The pain, the suffering the emotional, financial and physical abuse is not part of my life any longer. He kept me back whilst he enjoyed his life. I lost 20kg😊🎉, he gained 20kg😂. He was attractive and found every female attractive whilst being married to me. Today, he called to tell me he still got an emotional bond towards me that he struggle with. My response, "you need to deal with your issues" It's not my concern any longer" I said good bye and hang up. Before I was so weak, but now I'm stronger. You will be too, trust God and believe in you. You will get better. Stay blessed and take good care of you❤😊

STAY STRONG

@@RobertSmith-tu7rl thank you brothers. I can feel myself getting better, but then at times my mind won’t shut off. I miss her but I see the blessings in this.

@@derektaylor9225 I miss her too man .. she called me drunk one night saying she misses me while she was with another guy. Just keep moving forward

@@leejames9999 I’m sorry to hear that bro that is devastating. I am doing my best. She kept coming to me crying after she broke up with me telling me how she loves me etc and when she thinks she has me she switches up and is confused again so I had to really just drop her. I miss her but I can’t let her play with my sanity

We've been broken up since February and the last weeks I was perfectly ignoring, until I lost will power and replied to her I miss you message. I'm glad I have Coach to guide me along this emotionally and physically challenging journey. The energy it has taken me to not message her in these past weeks was a task and a half I can't stress this enough but I'm back to trying to be strong again. Wish me luck😊

What’s that?

Lol definitely. I had sonic before shooting. It’s been a cool day haha

@@blacademicMy ex broke up with me a few days before my birthday and she still said happy birthday. Should I tell her happy birthday or should I be cold and not do it? Her birthday is coming up soon.

What’s the update?

@@ena__we4205 Sadly…..3 full months and not a fucking word.😔

Lol

Fuck that

Same here, it's crazy with kids

You broke up for a reason sis. If other guys are interested it means they are seeing something that your ex wasn't mature or cared enough to notice and hold onto. You don't want the other guys that are interested to be saying to themselves that you like being hurt and don't really want happiness. Forget your ex. He's talking to other women. Probably having sex too. Your pain will only last for a time. You deserve to be with someone who is praying to God that you will be his wife not wasting time with someone who is unsure about you. He doesn't want you. Be with someone who does

He could have gotten upset, hurt, and jealous that you told him that other people are hitting on you. That may be why he blocked you. I do not know for sure. I was no contact with my ex, and she reached out. We talked a bit, and she told me that other people were hitting her up. I said OK, no problem then hung up, and went back to no contact. She is the one who broke up with me now. About 2 days later, she called me asking me to come over, that she missed me, loved me, wanted to see me, etc... I know for me, when she told me about other people hitting her up, I really became angry, and hurt, and never wanted to talk, or see her again. I did not like hearing that. I mean, people are hitting me up too, but I did not tell her that. I thought it would just aggravate the situation, and boomerang on me, and create more dissention. This no contact, and break up thing is a real major mess, and it is so hard. It is like anything you do is the wrong thing. I do not know if he has reached out to You since he blocked you. I know my ex also told me that she was not ready to get back together, but she still loved me, etc...Then she reaches out 2 days later, and wants to see me, and invites me over. I think that maybe they are going through a myriad of emotions, and fluctuate. I know I am. However, I am so Leary that she may be asking me over just to use me for validation, to build her morale, and to keep me on the back burner as a back up. Or, to check and see if she has me at her beckon call anytime she wants. It is so confusing to me. Well, I did go over to see her. It was nice, and I spent the night there. I am back to not contacting her until she contacts me first. I shall see where it goes. I know that these coaches say to respond back if they reach out, and want to see you. I just know I will not bring up to her, if people are hitting on me, or want to date me. You be careful, guard your emotions, and be aware that he may be just breadcrumbing you for validation purposes. Stay strong.

He will at first but later on he’ll move on