WHY ARE MEN POLYGAMOUS BY NATURE ? SPEAKERS CORNER 

It is important to mention that Allah recommended us to only marry one because it is very hard to equally treat the other wives fairly in all aspects. Also, A wife can place a rule before marriage that he can't marry other than her if she wants. This means if the man accepts the marriage (which comes with that rule) he can't marry a second wife while he is married to his current wife. Also, if he wants to act smart and just divorce her when she is older and marry again, do not forget that Allah is watching, and he knows his intentions and he will be judged. Note: some scholars say that it is not permissable to place this rule.

The desire (of most men) to have multiple sexual partners is NOT polygamy, it is NOT the same as wanting to be married to multiple women. Marriage entails much more than sex, and I would argue most men wouldn’t want to have multiple wives (Islamic ally) because of the financial, emotional and spiritual burden of raising multiple families. I would also argue that these men who are obsessed with polygamous marriages always ask the women to forgo (some of) their rights since they cannot fully observe the financial, emotional and spiritual burden. This is a shame. Of course there are many circumstances where polygamy works well and doesn’t involve any issues.

Let us point out what the Qur'anic verses on polygamy actually say: "If you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with the orphans, marry women of your choice, two or three, or four; but if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly (with them) then only one." (Al-Nisa', 4:3) A subsequent verse states: "You are never able to be fair and just between women even if that were your ardent desire." (Al-Nisa', 4:129) It is clear from this verse that: First, the Qur'an does not give men the blanket right to have more than one wife. Polygamy is not a right, but a responsibility to ensure social justice for orphans. What Allah has granted is in fact a restriction on an existing practice of that time when men could marry as many wives as they wanted. Second, because polygamy is not a right, Allah placed conditions on its practice. There is an overriding concern for justice in this short verse, and conditions are set to ensure that justice is done. Condition A: Polygyny is permitted within the context of war and orphans. It is permitted only if the men fear they would not be able to deal justly with the orphans. Condition B: The man who wants to be polygynous must have the capacity to be fair and just to all his wives. The verse is a call for just conduct towards women, not a right for men to fulfill their alleged lustful desires or their egos. And just treatment here means more than a man's financial capacity to support more than one wife: He must be fair in all ways, including in the time, support, and companionship he provides to his wives and children. Condition C: If the man fears he cannot deal justly with all his wives, then Allah advocates that he should marry only one as this will ensure equality. This is explicitly stated in the verse. Third, it is often forgotten that there was a socio-historical context within which the verse was revealed. That context was a period of tragedy in Islam after the battle of Uhud, when dozens of men from the still formative Muslim community in Medina were killed in one day. Numerous women and children were left without support. To deal with this problem, Allah revealed the verse permitting men to be polygamous. Given the tragedy of the battle of Uhud, Allah could have sanctioned the existing practice of unlimited polygyny; but instead, while allowing men to be polygynous, Allah restricted the number to four. We wish to emphasize that the clear intention in the Qur'an is to restrict polygyny. Unfortunately, in practice, the restrictions imposed in the Qur'an have often not been applied, and the context within which the verse was revealed has been completely overlooked. By stressing the need for just conduct toward women and the need for equal treatment of each wife and recognizing the difficulty, if not the impossibility, of doing so (4:129), this verse, in fact advocates monogamy as the original and ideal state of marriage in Islam. There may be other circumstances unrelated to war -- individual circumstances, where marriage to more than one wife may be preferable to other available alternatives -- for example where the first wife is chronically sick or disabled. There are of course some husbands who can manage this situation, but no one would deny its potential hazards. A second marriage in some cases could be a solution acceptable to all three parties. Again there are cases in which a wife is unable to have children, while the husband very much wants them. Under Western laws a man must either accept his wife's childlessness if he can, or if he cannot, he must find a means of divorce in order to marry again. This could be avoided in some cases if the parties agreed on a second marriage.

your DUA has been answered, brother ALI, ALLAH PAK did guided Tate too Islam

Brother Ali please for the sake of Allah bring Quran verses and Ahadith, we shouldn't talk from a societal logical point of view because to others it can be illogical that's why we stick to the Quran and Sunnah. May Allah guide you and reward you for your good intentions my brother. AMEEN

Woowwww I’m blown I just saw this and this brother Ali Masha Allah made a dha and Andrew gate accepted Islam !!!! Salam brother

Awesome explanation brother

The one question I have is where did this sister get her abaya from ?? Mashallah 😂

Great video, she's naturally beautiful. Well done brother.

don’t like how Ali made it seem like women need to agree on a polygamous marriage. he said “u sometimes need to do things u dont like” when in reality u nowhere in the quran does it say we need to accept polygamy from a man. it is in fact recommended that he marries one woman. felt like i was watching andrew tate speaking smh

I get that brother Ali is defending polygamy because it is sanctioned by the Quran - but he is speaking through his mind and not reality. He does that a lot in his debates. If polygamy is the solution to a man looking at other women, or being dissatisfied with his wife - what will keep him from being dissatisfied with the second or third wife that he gets? Instead, the better thing to do is for everyone to encourage faithfulness and help each other to become mature believers that control their whims... Most men in the Muslim world are hardly just to the only wife they have, forget about having multiple. And lastly, wanting multiple partners or wanting to be devoted to only a single partner has to do with certain personality types. It had nothing to do with being a man or a woman.

Good explanation

If there is a fear that a guy might sleep around - well, he needs a girl to engage in the act with him... So men aren't the only ones hungry for sex, women are too. If a man is cheating, there's also a women there cheating with him. Lack of self-control is a character/faith issue. It doesn't have anything to do with being a man or a woman.

The thing is how much of what youre talking about is the upbringing of culture evolving from hunter gatherers to agricultural revolution to today and how much of it is in our nature, from God

السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ As-Salaamu `Alaykum wa Rahmatullaahi wa Barakaatuhu

According to my understanding, another marriage is only allowed in Islam to help a woman in need like a widow or someone who genuinely needs protection and needs someone to provide for her. You cannot go around marrying 4 women just because you cannot control your lust. There has to be a better and more genuine reason for a man to marry another woman. There was a legit reason why Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wasallam married other women after Hazrat Khadijah. I really like Ali but he does not have to force the concept that it is okay to marry another woman only because of lust.

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I think this verse of Quran is one of the most misunderstood verse by Muslim scholars and by general Muslims.while Allah said first ‘if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with orphans ‘then Allah said ‘marry women of your choice two or three or four ‘.this clearly indicates this is not to be practiced generally.

Ali must say « even in Alquran said that Muslim men can marry until 4 , many muslim men is monogamous, maybe not 1% of all of them is polygamous , because maybe we are afraid of our wife , our wife is our general at home 😅😅 «

Alhamdulillah, so glad I don't have to have any relationships with men out of the professional type. I thought I liked them and that I will find my soulmate, but the more I learn about their nature, the more I am happy that I can just stay single and not ever have anything to do with their nature, that disgusts me.

In this case I believe she would understood It better from another women. Well done for trying.

Lol at The dude at the end with the red shirt just stood there 😂😂😂

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It's not uncommon short men marry taller women. Short men also can be very responsible husbands.

Where in the Quran Allah says " Men are polygamarous by nature " ?? Is there even any hadith stating this ?

I hope Allah guide him 6o islam Tadaa

they always pickup 4 wives line in quran but don"t read the verse after that...... It clearly qoutes if you don"t do justice then marry only one.......... Surah 4 An-Nisa, Ayat 3-3 وَإِنْ خِفْتُمْ أَلَّا تُقْسِطُوا۟ فِى ٱلْيَتَـٰمَىٰ فَٱنكِحُوا۟ مَا طَابَ لَكُم مِّنَ ٱلنِّسَآءِ مَثْنَىٰ وَثُلَـٰثَ وَرُبَـٰعَ ۖ فَإِنْ خِفْتُمْ أَلَّا تَعْدِلُوا۟ فَوَٰحِدَةً أَوْ مَا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَـٰنُكُمْ ۚ ذَٰلِكَ أَدْنَىٰٓ أَلَّا تَعُولُوا۟ ٣ If you fear that you will not do justice to the orphans, then, marry the women you like, in twos, in threes and in fours. But, if you fear that you will not maintain equity, then (keep to) one woman, or bondwomen you own. It will be closer to abstaining from injustice.

I dont know if this was his intention but why is he comparing something that isn’t fardh (polygamy) to things that are fardh (going to war)??

Ah,video finsihed, whar happened

Ali tate 😎

Brother Ali don’t shame small men

They’re are more women then man factually for every person to be married some marriages must be polygamous. And no women can have more then one man. In every manner Allah swt has built us like this even in the numbers.

Her partner just keep quiet. 😄😄

So his explanation is that have more Muslim babies and women are incubators? Is that what his saying

NOT ALL MEN WANT MORE THAN ONE WIFE!!! IT'S ALREADY A JIHAD DEALING WITH ONE!! 😅🤐

So in islam the man is meant to be the protector but if he’s with his other wife’s how are any of them protected

Why should I care about another woman so much to hurt myself so badly by giving her my man just so she’s good? When that would hurt me and my family? I’m sure god would provide a nice man for her because that wouldn’t cause so much harm and resentment for everyone but the man Edit : please don’t attack me just someone interested in Islam that has a lot of questions and a lot of passion for my man It angers me to think of my man with another woman I feel like Islam is just making cheating halal and I’m not comfortable with that. I can’t imagine sending my man off to another woman and my kids miss out and I’m meant to be fine with that? I just feel like Muslim women sacrifice so much but may god bless them

😂 13:23

QUESTION: Polygamou is haram if the wife/wives does/do not agree - right?

He started talking about widows of war. He never finished example..

Polygamy is ruled by Allah. From human logic,there is several logic that we can come up to. Allah creates man with differents capacity. Man manufacturing cars with differents horsepower. There is a man with 3000 cc,there is also a man with 1500 cc and 660 cc. Polygamy maybe for some man with 3000 cc. Polygamy also maybe as a troubleshooting if there is less man than a woman.

Men are probably polygamous by nature, BUT when Islam allows men to marry 4 times that means to treat all wives equally! And marriage comes with responsibility and I’m not being funny a normal man these days can’t handle one so the concept of more than wife shouldn’t cross his mind , he needs to learn to lower his gaze and dedicate himself to his one wife and Allah swt.

You can see some modern spoiled woman who thinks she is the main part in the family

😆😆😆😆 it was soo funny but Alhamdulillah I give permission to my husband to marry another 3 wife not because I like it because I submit to Allah completely

This guy is just guessing things now and trying to tell a woman how she should feel about it he doesn’t know what he’s on about

Absolutely despicable. This guy is literally defending polygamy. Why any woman would want to be a Muslim is beyond me.