Why Are Some People So Judgmental? 

Like Mom used to say: "If you're ugly inside you're going to be ugly outside."

OMG "when it comes to small talk and gossip I'd rather watch paint dry. Because at least I know at some point it's gonna stop drying." Oh wow I'm gonna need to remember that one Rick. I like that a lot.

This dude is genuinely just being my parent/grandparent rn, and it's really comforting ngl

"Why are people so unkind?" Good sir, you answer that question and you will achieve world peace.

LOVED this video 😁! Totally know a person that is like that, coming across as perfect & pointing fingers. Great insight that it's probably their OWN insecurity and guilt. Thanks, Rick👍!

We are ruled by our contradictions. Acutely aware of the terrible thing we can't resolve, they are scarcely ignored when we're confronted with them in other's behavior.

“That Rick Green guy is a lot like you.” - my friend “That’s an absolutely terrible thing to say about him.” - me #felloweirdos

I'm a very judgmental person. my dad and siblings are too. Only 2 of us are vocal about our it though. My dad (Who we learned this behavior from) and my oldest brother. I don't know how to stop being judgmental. I just judge first and then I have to force myself to ignore those judgements. I judge myself too and I haven't quite learned to ignore that. I'm scared to make a wrong move or look dumb in front of others. (Again, learned from my dad) I fear judgement because I judge. My social anxiety controls a lot of my life.

Great video. Watched the whole thing, i promise.

Thank you for posting :)

It's so true! Thank you for another great video!

I honestly just judge them back on the things they like. If they don’t like it I don’t mind throwing hands.

If someone is judging you, but clearly they are secretly talking about their own insecurities and shame, gently point this out to them by shouting "No, you!" Belief me, it will transform your relationship for the better.

After spending literally 6 hours working alongside a coworker and chattering away about every political notion that befell our bored mineds I can't help but look back and wonder what my views have to say about me.

Thank you, Good Sir! This message is sorely needed and impeccably well delivered

LOL!!! thanks for sharing! I love your stuff!

Enjoying the new branding. Well done!

Thank you for conveying such an important topic in an engaging and fun way!

ty Rick - helpful & funny at the same time :)

Like always, a fantastic video!! Thank you for making them! A great reminder we should think of more often, especially when we ourselves fall into the sticky trap of gossiping. Also, something I have been wondering for a while: is that dog on the shelf in the background the dog from "His Master's Voice"? And where can I find one for myself?

very helpful

Thanks for this, love your storytelling... assessing everything and funny

Great video!

Greetings from East Borgastania!

😄😄 You made it very interesting, very funny. Thanks for sharing.

😅 rather watch paint dry sooner or latter it will dry . so true

Funny enough, I just received a comment calling me dumb right before I see this video. N right before that I was reading a number of comments under the trailer video of that new Princess Diana film n a bunch of ppl was already judging Kristen Stewart (someone didn't like the way she shrugs =_=) even when the movie isn't even out yet. And someone even said Princess Diana doesn't deserve empathy (or feel bad for) because she was rich (and a princess). Honestly, people make me sad. Like, can't we all just cut others and ourselves some slack? Why are we like this?

I always enjoy watching your videos. You are informative while also providing many laughs! In the future please consider changing the term “real parents” to biological parents. It unintentionally gives the impression that only the biological parents are “real” when all four of the parents are her real parents. Thank you.

How do I legally get this man as my grandpa?

:025 this is right on the money!! To spot em young just listen to them talk. If they always have something negative to say in general or speak poorly of others...they are doing it to you too. So lose thier number....they will do nothing but be destructive to you, your pshyche, life etc If it means no talking to family, a divorce then so be it. Keep your standards high just dont forget to treat others as if they had the same stds too.

Oh. Oooh. OOOH! So, the things popping up in my mind making me judgemental are the ones hurting me? Oooohhh...

Where is your 10 signs you don't have ADHD video - did I imagine it? It was hilarious!

Dam East borgastania sounds so cool

This reminds me of 'anger' and the underlying reasons why you may be....

You’re funny Rick

😂 I'm losing my marbles over East and West Borgestania

"Full of piss & vinegar..." :D :D :D

I'm on eye level with everyone, I don't establish hierarchies nor will I ever bow to one (it's different at work were you have an assigned role, so that's a no-brainer). Judgemental people put themselves above others. It disgusts me and at the same time the notion strikes me as ridiculous. We are all human. We all struggle. We all suffer. We are all failures one way or another. Lets be kind to each other and lets try to understand each other. Don't judge. None of us is in a position to judge.

I wonder if you are a fellow INFJ with ADHD. Nice to have a brother.

Why did Dr. Jain have all of the ADHD videos taken off the channel?

I love you

I don't remember subscribing to this channel

to see a person able to reflect and observe the ego as an object to be dissected and discussed like this reminds me of how stupid the human race is, because i haven't seen this now for like ever

Did the channel changed? Can't find old videos

My ex boyfriend was a nightmare he also is violent. He describes people as crazy. I've severe ocd so not 100 percent but told him to get out of my flat. He never had a job who would listen to that. He got out a picture of a labrador yesterday when I got mauled by one. It might be funny! Really. Didn't take it very well.

the red stain story was definitely a gay kid or interracial marriage and not an adoption lol

I don't like the insecurity as an explain-all for criticism. I'm all for iron sharpens iron, and my friends being honest with me if I am exhibiting loser behavior. But yes, insecurities - and envy - do create some of the criticism. But your post reminds me of the Curb Your Enthusiasm bit about a kid who is "special needs". But Larry thinks he's just an asshole. 🤷‍♂️

Atm im losing my shit as we still have covid restrictions and i actually go above and byond the guidelines because i dont want to be part of the problem yet we keep getting thrown back in to full lockdown because everyone thinks its ok for them to bend the rules/ LAWS. Ive just had a rant on my FB page and a wee one now because just like everyone else , i want this over with but every time i have to leave my home to only access essential services, im met with hords of people thinking they are above the law and i run and retreat back to doing iso solo while idiots dance in parks with no masks on getting in strangers faces and all i want to do is pick up mu groceries and pick up my meds then head home unscathed by covid. Armed with my mask and hand sanitizer, fully vaxed. Tell me how my destress about this is about my guilt ? Strangely my black and white thinking of being on the spectum is working out to make me the most law abiding person in my stupid small town full of overprivileged city weekends that shifted up here full time to escape the cities when this hit and they think its bloody Disney land during this cluster F of 2021 and yeah im upset because no one out my way of all the idiot or selfish anti vaxer , home schoolers , covid deniers, anti masks and flat earthers belive this applies to them too. Yesterday really upset me having a un masked stranger get in my face singing about toxic positivity shit getting their hands all over me on the way back to me car. I burst out crying when i got in my car because i heal my shit together and tried like hell to not follow my first impulse to puch them in the face or scream at them. I actually ran away.

btw to make fun of you I want to say that I learned this whenever I made a person feel like an idiot he called me an idiot