Why Does Your Partner Put You Down or Devalue You? 

That's a keen observation! Our childhood sets up the blueprint for a relationship, and how our parents value us also seeds our self-valuation. It's why childhood abuse victims often become abuse victims in their adult relationships too. The good news is that we can heal and correct these distortions once we learn about the connection between our childhood and present-day. Thank you for sharing!

This is true for me too. It's affected me in every relationship I've been in since my childhood.

Me too my mother is narrsessist so I needed to cut off contackt many times

And she did like my whole famely cut me off last time I told here if you do this one more time you never see me and my children again

Me too !! Mean abusive mother and past spouse and current husband is not respectful I’m tired of it.

This happens to me as well...

I hope you gain the strength to leave him without having any big altercations.

🎉if u stay ur teaching ur child to accept self-abuse. run🏃‍♀️ . lean on God for strength to put urself & baby 1st 🙏 leave toxicity by any means necessary...love is NEVER pain.

So sorry, he sounds like a narcissist

Hey .. please don’t say that ..there’s so much to live for.. also know that no matter what God loves .. the best is yet to come .. be hopeful ❤

Hold on. Things WILL get better. Please hold on.

@@a.ja.j7807 🫶

@@pingoochee I’m trying 🫶 Thank you for your support

Yeah, things will get better. I'm cheering us all on. ❤

Yes you can.

Yes you can and should! First of all it'll be so wrong for you to live, and have others watch you be unhappy, no amount of money spent is worth that. Your parents love you and would not want you to live sad everyly after!! Don't do it!!

Please keep making videos- the word needs to understand what a toxic and healthy relationship is. So many people suffer in silence.

I wish the best for your delivery 🙏🏻 I hope you have a support system to get you through… 💜 never give up on yourself!

Yes focus on yourself, on your own well-being, on what makes you happy. Do the things you want to do. That's not selfish. Don't go looking for someone or wait for someone. It'll happen spontaneously 😊 Best of luck

Do you focus all your energy on work and neglect your relationship? Are you overly focussed on your image toward the outside world and giving to strangers and coworkers but treat him with less respect than other people (especially other males)? Do you subtly put him down with snide remarks at home or try to himiliate him infront of others? Do you love him or are you just hoping to check a box of having a man in your life so that you look like a "complete package"? (Career, looks, relationship and whatever else) Was he employed and more vibrant and healthy and driven before you both started the relationship? Im asking you these questions NOT to be accusatory. But your comment sounds vaguely like my last relationship. Ive never been a video games guy. Ive always wanted to be successful and have an entrepreneurial mindset but i also have cptsd,adhd and autism and although i have great idwas and am very creative i lack the knowledge of how to get things off the ground so to speak with any business ideas. I have confidence but also self doubt. I put in all this effort and burnout at the last minute stressing about how maybe it wont work and i have asked the wrong people for advice who seem to only find fault in my ideas therefore i feel unsupported.

No man wants to be in a relationship where his woman thinks she is wearing the pants. It breeds disrespect in her and she will start to subconsciously pick him apart in a futile attempt to motivate him to do better.

I understand. No I work from home. I'm home 24/7, we see each other every second and we are each other's closest friends presently. We are just struggling because I only bring in 150 USD per week... and it's hard for it to sustain both people. The situation is dire but it's not as bad as people in the Palestine so I'm greatful.

I love him, we are each other's cheerleaders. Meeting him I've gained more depth about myself as a person. Maybe it's this constant disconnecting from the outside world and other people is affecting us. This is the most social I've been all year.

@hillandgullyride-o have you looked into attachment styles. I am anxious avoidant and she is dismissive avoidant and rhat equates to her feeling trapped and smothered with even the minimum of closeness. I feel abandoned and unloved with the less than required quality time.

Mine joked with me all the time i started to feel like i worth nothing😢

Jokes? or making fun of the other person? Depends who is laughing and how it makes you feel ...

Me either 😢😢😢

They lie and fool you talk behind youre back to all. You loose EVERY THING IN LIFE

Everything

I tryed end my life before becouse of this but god want me to live

@@user-yd8ls7tj1m so sorry to hear that I know this horrible dark helpless lonely feeling. There big bullies.my boyfriend has been treating me like complete garbage lately after coming back and I feel like such a idiot.i have been considering moving into my tent but im terrified. I don't want to life like this anymore .I've done this with him wayyy too many times and I hate conflict. I'm exhausted!!!! He will never ever ever change.hes gotten so used to being disrespectful. I can't believe the man i see standing in front of me sometimes .it tears my heart out