Most guys think it's harder to attract hotter girls, and while this is marginally true, the difference is pretty small. If you're attractive, you're attractive. However, here are some small adjustments that make a big difference.
The phenomenon of being able to attract girls, but NOT the ones you're into, is all too real for most guys. Here are some solutions for this frustrating scenario. Enjoy!
don't understand the obsession with getting the hottest girl. Just get the girl that's the most compatible with you that you find attractive. Beauty fades
I will tell you from experience attractive girls DO NOT give the same amount of value as average girls would in a relationship. All comes down to their abundance at the end of the day.
The trick as I understand it is to find a purpose you chase that gives your life meaning and direction and not get distracted trying to chase love in a particular relationship with a hot girl ( we tend to do so by default with girls we are not into)
Exactly. All these gamey lines and manipulations are just that. Each time I check these videos out of curiosity, I get put off by this whole act. Better, to have your own life, goals and have genuine charisma, self worth, honest boundaries instead of all this scheming.
Be careful with that. If you give her too much comfort without enough excitement or unpredictability, she’s gonna friend zone you. Have your own goals, make your own plans, do your own stuff. Don’t make her your main focus.
Hey Todd, if I am not doing stuff like drinking or drugs because I am trying to live healthy lifestyle, should I bring topics like alcohol and drugs nonetheless?
A buddy of mine just aims for average looking girls or plain Janes. He says its much easier and they even make the first move sometimes. You recommend that?
Had a female walk down my alley the other day when I was parking my car. She said "I like your dog". I totally didn't respond with one word. Didn't even look at her or pay any attention to her. Told my dog to get in the house and kept it pushing.... I think she likes me now....lmfao
One thing that helped me a lot is write down everything you like about yourself, and what you bring to the table. Once you know your worth, you’ll get your confidence to talk to them. She’s pretty, but does she deserve you?
he is talking about inner game. There are several variations that dating coaches teach but if you want to dig deeper into it at the most fundamental level. Go check out JulienHimself. I find what Julien Blanc teaches helps you get right with your authentic self (your value as a human being) and after it's easier to apply Todd's game skills.
@@ethan.wroblewski well can you make an example? Lets say I like about myself: that I a travel a lot and I am a passionate DJ with a lot of love for music. I love meeting friends, having spontaenous adventures and breaking rules sometimes. Etc etc. What now? How can I make her chase me and qualify
There was this manager from HFC (food chain), she approached me, really pretty girl, but I looked at her legs, and I didn't like her legs, this ruined everything!
This isn't necessarily true. I've totally had a woman flip from not interested to interested. Funnily though, I was just talking to her as a friend and telling her some of my standup jokes I was working on and all of a sudden she said she was into me.
I once was playing this long game with a super cute chick, it was going well over weeks. I knew she was into me. I was so classy and cool. Anyway one night I was out with my mates and got freakin wasted. Didn’t know she was in the bar and so I went over to say hi. I played it super cool and my usual self but wondered why she walked out and wouldn’t talk to me for days after. Turns out I had gone over and asked if she “wanted a fuck” while slurring it. But because I was slurring I knew I had to repeat the question. She heard this question 3 times. So yeah guys, learn from my mistake. I mean she added me on Facebook a few months later but it was totally over!
if you put any people on a category and JUDGE them, not only you will make yourself difficult to face challenges, but you're also judging yourself in the process. The way i see it now is see every people or matter on GREY manner, once you do this, you will alleviate a lot of pressure from yourself and go, experience more genuinely
I've never gotten a girl through IG, not once. But I know a guy who routinely has girls he doesn't know DM HIM and ask him to come over and bang them. I didn't believe it until a female friend of ours confirmed it. He's not a particularly good looking guy either. Not bad looking, but not a Chad, average height, average shape, it's crazy. That's how it goes man, for some of us, girls will never DM us, and we can DM all day long and never get a reply. Other guys do nothing and have girls DM them for sex regularly.
@@fuzzypanda1684 man I think it definitely works if you have a decent profile - I have 2100 followers and I've met 8 girls in my life from Insta in like 4 years which is ok imo banged one (seeing her now), left one after being sexual, and been sexual with 2 but messed up rest cause of poor game. As I've been watching Todd since the past week and improving my game I've been making progress and recently like in the past week my interactions have improved a lot. Also playing with fire is also a really good RU-vid channel for Insta game
