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Its not hard to let them go, when you think about this fact. I gave pure love to this person with no ill intent. They repaid that love with evil and hatred!
That's exactly where I got to and though it still takes a lot of work to heal from it, once you realize that hard truth, it makes going no contact much easier and makes the healing work more effective.
I feel you I did the same thing I was there for him I took care of him I gave him almost every penny that I made and almost lost myself in the process he was in jail at the time he came out and went to his mom's bosses house now he's doing her the same way he did me now she's calling thinking he's here but he's with somebody else and he's had many somebody else's in between that apparently he didn't care a whole lot about didn't stay that long or possibly he goes around multiple people's houses he's also a sex maniac he is also gay I found out so it doesn't matter girl or guy I think he's more of a girl's guy but he'll take either way it's really sad he was cheerful and happy loving kind said all the right things that I've never heard in my life that's why it hurts so bad because none of it was true it was all the game he got a car off of this woman that let him stay when he got home she was a manager at a store he she made him a assistant manager he had it going on he may still have it going on I really never try to find out for sure but these people just seems like they have so much going on how could they ever be at peace with anyone
I smile everyday knowing that I was the one who got away... And, I love the fact that he knows that I figured his game out. He knows that I know that he is a phony fake narcissist...
@@meplus3117 They're so full of hate that it eats them alive inside. They rot from the inside out. I don't know if you have ever noticed their nasty stench or not. But, the one that I was married to smelled like a moldy, mildewy, musky, damp basement. And, their breath is pungent 🤢🤮🤢🤮...
When I walked away my narc husband just moved on to the next whom he had in the wing. Act as if I never really exist after 35 years. I am healing and trusting God to restore years wasted.
Thats what mine did. He married one month after the divorce. She took him to the cleaners and took all his money that I refused to fight for. Hes on his 3rd wife now. 😆
@@robbieogle8622 I was married 31yrs. When I appeared in court for the divorce he told his attorney to put me out the house immediately. He remarried 2 wks after our divorce was final. He filed for divorce with his 2nd wife and now living with his daughter not helping with mortgage nor utilities only grocery. The Lord blessed me with my own brand new home last yr and it been almost 11 yrs being free from that evil man. Thank God!
The NARC made it easy for me he walked out saying how he found new Supply Heard it Through the Grapevine🍇 he started having all kind of health issues I call it the domino effect I have to say I'm doing great don't you just love it when the trash takes itself out 🤗
I'm so glad he left. I didn't understand what was happening until I got informed about narcissism. It's textbook! He is spiraling now that his main supply (me) went no contact completely. Eight months and counting. He tried every which way to get my attention through his family, friends, emails, texts, anything. It's crickets over here, and he's starving. I thought the worst thing that happened to me was his discarding me. It turns out it was the best thing I didn't know I needed.
@@TheCurlyBeauty I know all about it!! It really is a fascinating phenomenon. Only those who’ve walked it can even begin to comprehend what we’ve been through. To be abuse like this and not even realize it until you’re out of it. AMAZING!! And when you see how, while unique, all of our stories are identical. We’ve all been through the same abuse. And when we wake up!!! When we get educated….,BABBBYYYYY!! They are in trouble!! Ya hear me?!!! Congrats to you! I know exactly where you are. I’m 8 months free as well. Keep going and glowing, Sis!💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
Narc don’t have enough come back sauce to get back in with me!! He slipped up and left a real one that’s connected to The Real One 👉🏾JESUS!! Left the green grass for artificial turf 🤷🏽♀️😏 God is so good!! Keep spreading them nuggets of truth MamiSoTrue❤❤
It doesn’t go well, because I was so much more to him than he was ever to me. The script is flipped, I went no contact/silent treatment 17 months in. I don’t miss anything about him..the manipulation, gaslighting and lying every time he opened his mouth, he is a bad person.
Anyone that can create an illusion of pure love and devotion the way the covert can,can be the same one to pretend to be joyously happy without you.An illusionist is an illusionist all day. No contact is my closure.Let them continue to fake the funk.Circus clowns
The narc knew I needed to go to the laundry bc I mentioned the washers are not working in my building. He called me and said he was at the laundry washing clothes. That's when I called it quits. He always seemed it hurted him to help me. I was always there for him; I must go no contact. Thanks for the video.
I remember my ex saying to me that her mother raised her believing that she could do no wrong. That it was always someone else's fault not hers. So of course she deflected and became defensive when confronted on issues. The lies, manipulation, ghosting, fabrication and cheating (emotional and physical). Then being discarded. I'm really trying to learn to forgive myself for being so desperate and staying so long.
Sometimes I don’t think it’s desperation. We love who we love and we stay for our own heart. We have to leave for our heart too. So appreciate yourself for the ability to love deeply… This way you will show yourself the same love you had for her.
Sometimes I get so mad at myself for dealing with so much BS from her….she don’t even love our kids the same since we not together that’s what be pissin me off but I’m learning to give it to god…..
One of the times I left the very next day he was begging me to come back! He had done the silent treatment longer than I can remember. Carrying a darkness all around the house! He was acting exactly like he hated my guts, so why are you begging me to come back? Now I understand it's because I wasn't dead yet. Sheesh!!
The covert left - with a new “yes girl.” Didn’t last long - she passed of an overdose 1 year later. Then, covid & long covid . Relationship destroyed, family broken, business closed. No money. Not able to work -- He was under my umbrella ☂️ of Gods protection on my life & my family’s life. He stepped out from under that protection. His choice. “He chose poorly.” (To quote an old Indiana Jones movie 🎦).
They need to sell out to Jesus Christ! Only the Spirit of Christ. Can fill their empty Souls! Need a Spiritual support. Those trained in Spiritual Warfare.
11 years of abuse, 2 children the youngest with autism since birth now 8 years old. She don't care and with your videos....I'm thankful for the knowledge and strength. Keep on keeping on Sister, I'll be watching!
4 decades I've known my narc, never knew for 2 decades he was one, let him bk 2nd time around. So I know I was the Major Supply. Grade 1 and I shall applaud myself for I know he is in profound pain.
Amen that's why you let them go they already think they have control and power of you but you show them a woman is very powerful and nothing to play with they like the ones who will just go for anything they don't care for a woman who will not go for anything that's why it's called strong and weak prayers for them
I always pray for and for others and myself and I thank God for being by my side always here on earth and me only want any Narcissists to just leave me alone and stop Hoovering back to me and do Righteous and I know God and my angels warned them 🙏🙏🙏
1:28 Lord have Mercy,,,I didn't understand why my wife divorced me just because we argue, then she kept coming to my new apartment the next day,now we kept together like we were still married, then one day she told me she's interested in this other guy,,well the 4th July this year 2024 she came with me to a party,,she left the party with one of my friends of 16 years 😢now all I'm learning is she actually a narcissistic person all these traits, I now see,,had been in her all this time, thanks for this knowledge I will continue to follow,,my heart is broke 💔 no contact I will continue doing
Also wanted someone to lie to lie on call the law lying trying to get me arrested for nothing. Accused me of rape domestic violence burning her with cigarettes. The officers saw right through her lies though and knew I didn't do none of it.
Tell you what,I,did: it's a secret,no, I'm, kidding,I,when to my best-friend,G D,.What you,I,been through,call on him,FROM THE HEART ❤️,mean what you say with pure honesty, don't play.
Hang in there baby,This should give you inspiration to do better,no matter what the situation is,if,you got to go,and,hide in a homeless shelter,going back will be worse, believe me,been there,and, ain't going backwards.
I am blessed to have seen the power and effect of no contact with my brother. He treated his wife like crap. She FINALLY went no contact and his world fell apart. Anyone that will give him an ear he will cry about losing her. Now, she is like a God to him! Now, he can’t function without her. Smoking crack. He’s a straight up bum. We don’t usually get to see the full impact. I got to see it. It is the best revenge😈
It is two months since I left my narcissistic supervisor and he is calling my number every day and leaving me messages using different phone numbers, I know it is him and I refuse to respond, I think he is using other people in the voice messages but I really want him to feel the pain, at work he managed to build almost a perfect personality, everyone seems to like him, but he was always trying to make people have a negative look at me, I do graveyard shift and I was consistent, the company has always a problem with graveyard shift, so when I started to get attention, he didn't like that, he started to change the whole job description of the graveyard shift and he was after me all the times and when I come to work I found a memo that he put as if it's for everyone but in it always a hidden message to me, the story is long, and there are too many situations I caught him in a lie, he wouldn't answer my phone calls when I need him in emergencies, but he was quick to blame me, that man I realized he is not normal so I quit
I ❤ the shirt unbothered emphath. You're vibe is healing. I'm recovering from mental and emotional abuse. I could tell my ex is malignant narcicist and more. I blocked her tho I didn't want to, I guess that's the best decision I ever made. It's too much lying, denying and I am always being silent treated. Ghosted. She seems to be thinking all about her security. In the relationship I'm the serious one. I was put onto 3rd party situation cuz she has kids I dont. I'm poor shes rich. I am proudly to say I'm wiser in many terms but not money. I am younger. It hurts bad cuz I thought I had something real and to stick with me for too long with those promises and drama. But she didn't stand for me. She stand for her self and listening to bad advise. I was left for money. Instead of holding on and fixing the issue she said she's suffocated when I correct her attitude and behavior still she creates conflict with her own ego. I suffer in silent and short lived relationship. I got blame, bully and ignored devalue. While I'm all loving, genuine, caring and careful with my words with her. I didn't know how to response when she came back with I'm all her thingking of and her heart. After a month she ghosted me. I blocked her after right expose her. She so mad. I explained it is what it is. She's so disappointed but didn't even approach me professional personally and didn't give me closure. So I did to myself. It's so hard when I was searching for true love and I stumble in this kind of type of partner🥺🥺💔💔 she didn't want to let go but she needs to move on she said. But I cut the cord she even say pls block me cuz I couldn't. I didn't know why I was being push away why she still loves me., and why she can't face me. It's hard I always being left.
Thank you so much for this video. My narc left me and my two kids right when Covid hit in 2020 and I had no support. He left to the military and signed up for six years.
as an employee I talked to him about uniforms and he wrote it down and promised to get it to the main office and when he denied 😂 that conversation I looked at him and I knew right there I was dealing with a fraud
Heyy Queen 👸👸 How you i been busy Got 2 events Comeing up and i worked a Triple So i miss The last 2 Episodes...But I been Doing Good imTakeing it One Day at a Time...Im Tuned In At work...
There are more male narcissists than females. But Female narcissists are just as bad... especially when as female they play victim so well...a female narc push her husband to the wall, then call the police and say they are being violated. It's worse when men are victims of female narcissists because of society expections.
They never satisfied in their life but good pretend my his in fourth marriage now. Man getting married in women is home and forget previous marriage. 😅😅😅😅😅😅😮
What if they left you for someone else for a while I'll say everyone's for a while do they always come back or do they ever find someone that they'll go back and forth with because they can't make up their mind or what exactly this is just crazy good luck to everyone and God bless you all that's going through this
Nothing worse than a female covert narcissist. Especially if she’s got a few dollars and big breasts. My ex is now 57 years old lies about everything and I am so happy to be away from her. I just wanted to share on the video learning more about these people so that I don’tfumble when I come across them again
The covert left - with a new “yes girl.” Didn’t last long - she passed of an overdose 1 year later. Then, covid & long covid . Relationship destroyed, family broken, business closed. No money. Not able to work -- He was under my umbrella ☂️ of Gods protection on my life & my family’s life. He stepped out from under that protection. His choice. “He chose poorly.” (To quote an old Indiana Jones movie 🎦).
