Silence has always come natural to me. I find it quite stressful to be near someone who cannot stop talking. Iam amaze how people are able to engage in so much meaningless conversations nowadays.
Even a fool is thought wise if he keeps silent, and discerning if he holds his tongue. Proverbs 17:28 I don't like to talk because I stutter, I'm a good listener 🤠 Blessings and hugs 🤗💞🤗🙏!
Stuttering can be controlled by talking through your teeth and speaking slower. It keeps my tongue from having spasms called stuttering. I use this method for myself and my child. I works for us.
Everywhere is "mental war" war in the east war in the west...we have rules for physical war but no rules in mental war..the battle is open my dear friend endless...stay calm stay focus, observe know how to soft reply....
I've noticed that if I say BARELY ANYTHING and let my friends talk the ENTIRE time I'm with them or on the ph, they ALWAYS say they've had THE BEST TIME or CONVERSTATION.. It''s actually really nice to be able to hold the space for them to just say what they need to or get stuff off their chests.
Interesting, and there is definitely some truth in this video which resonates with a knowing within..... From a self enquiry perspective, a useful question is..... Who or what is looking at your phone right now? Can you find an "I" or a me that's looking? Looking and listening just happens by itself....There is no "I" or a me that's actually doing the looking or listening etc. Stillness is our natural state, and everything happens within this stillness". Realise this, and this video will make even more sense! 😊
The content and the animation were good , how ever , the music is what sets the whole mood ! This video could've been on a different level had the music been a little dark toned because , the content in this video excactly isn't complimented by the music ! Great choice of topic BTW ! 🙌✌💞
Talkative has a definition, talking ablot doesn't make you talkative,just like silence doesn't necessarily mean wisdom. When you say something relevant is when you are wise
I have to say I was disappointed to hear the reasons not to stay silent at the end. I think its fair to say they may not be good advice when dealing with certain people like narcissists
@@kylie-fayer6791 Men do not like women talking too much! Trust me it is a fact. I do not like it either. I mean we should be able to speak our peace say what we want but gender bias and gender roles double standards and dating when being with men is what males prefer and like. Try it with your husband's and boyfriends! I mean look at Kamala Harris vs. Mike Pence. The after math says it all. Critics alike. Women can not catch a break!
@@mstwelvedeadlycyns Fuk that! Men do what I tell them to do and trust me they like it. Men can shut up and listen and that’s why god gave us two ears and one mouth! Discipline those boys girls!!
@@kylie-fayer6791 Get mad all you want. Is that how it works when you begin dating them in the beginning as they meet you? Being aggressive and tell them what you want by being nasty towards them?
Yes staying silient in some cases is not good especially in a relationship. How can you start a relationship and you not talk? That stunts the growth of that relationship, and leaves that person who is unaware of your mate is practicing silence, and your thinking what is wrong with you! Here you are trying to figure out where did I go wrong! Then you start getting baffled in your mind because you done fell in love got caught up thinking all kind of thoughts wrongly to find out the person that you want this relationship with practicing silence how can you handle that? Don't get me wrong I like the sound thing make the person aware of what you're doing instead of them thinking something is wrong with them like I said I like the silence. I myself would love to learn it for various reasons but not relationship-wise. I am at awww!😄
I guess this is how weak minded people justify themselves. Makes sense. You believe those who speak don’t listen because you couldn’t speak. Hopefully you learn it’s a balance. Choose your words carefully and speak out but never stop listening. Pretending your lack of ability to engage meaningfully makes you some mysterious respectable person is an absolute fantasy.
I dont know if I entirely agree, I think directing your attention inwards rather than outwards is more advantageous, for what experience does not ultimately happen within?
Really tell me something that I don't already know. There's a reason why God gave human beings two ears 👂 and one mouth. You need to listen more than you speak. Think 🤔 about that
it's one thing to not talk about yourself but what is Bread crumbing or manipulating people through silence accomplishing? How does that grow you as a person?
Me too, If you don't have something educational or important to say, then on with the noise cancelation headsets because I'm not trying to hear it this blah blah all day...I would much rather listen 🎶 to my relaxing jazz music 🎷 🎺
I’m glad you included the sigma as a personality type 👌 but remember Sigma and gamma are outside of the hierarchy for the most part, sigmas dont stick to one atleast Btw, How should i prove myself? Like How should i not get pushed around?
Yes Sigmas are usually not included due to a number of reasons (they're always less than 1%, they don't play by the rules/system, etc.). But Gammas are always included.
@@titlespree Basically spending a long time in gamma at a certain environment, until you become familiar with the environment and the majority of the people that are in it. I'm guessing familiarity and security breeds alpha status viability. Just like in the animal system.
But, just to say... Nothing makes the women flawk like the behavior that Kanye West expresses. Alpha status while letting his nuts hang. Women are almost always attracted to that unless you truly fit the part of Beta or Gamma, like you are a secret agent or important in some sense. Otherwise when you stand at 5'5 you look like you are in Beta because you are insecure and need the excess attention span for your own safety in an environment that everyone is in some form of alpha states or another of the likeness.
I guess the only way is to play it off like you are mysterious or important. But that takes rehearsal. I say all this because I have been in every level. And only one seems to work ( Alpha )
Most dumb people be silent cause they don’t have the ability to speak or Articulate!!!! But Silence is golden!!!!!! When one has the wisdom to do so!!!!!