Why You Need To Be Brutally Honest About Your Values | Relationship Theory

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Are you wondering what the most crucial core values are in establishing a healthy relationship or marriage? When it comes down to it, it’s about your ability to communicate your most important values with each other and establishing a way to honor them every day. On this episode of Relationship Theory, Lisa and Tom Bilyeu sit down to discuss such matters and more as they explore what the most important values you need to be aware of with your partner and how to communicate them in an open and honest way. They discuss why you have to be vulnerable and open up with your partner, why you have to hold onto your passions, why recognizing beauty and attractiveness should be normalized, what unconditional love really means, why you need to embrace commitment, how to overcome feelings of jealousy, and much more.
SHOW NOTES:
Core Values | Tom shares the important values you need to communicate. [0:30]
Insecurity | Tom and Lisa discuss why you have to be vulnerable in a relationship. [3:52]
Passion | Tom shares the importance of holding onto your passions. [4:30]
Powerful | Lisa discusses seeing attractive people and still choosing your partner. [4:55]
Unconditional | Tom and Lisa discuss the true important things that matter. [6:46]
Embrace It | Lisa and Tom share why you have to get committed. [7:40]
Jealousy | Lisa shares why you should never fear jealousy in your relationship. [10:45]
Secure | Tom shares why you have to make your partner feel safe and secure. [12:14]
QUOTES:
“…at the end of the day, there’s got to be things that you guys share, that you’re really clicking on, that you’re both passionate about, that you come alive when you talk about, that you’re going to be able to enjoy together…” [4:40]
“Being in a relationship should make you feel better about yourself. Period.” [9:15]
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7 янв 2021

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@AhmetKaan 3 года назад

*"In any given moment we have two options: to step forward into growth or to step back into safety."*

@shannonferguson4810 3 года назад

I love how Tom always introduces Lisa by pointing out her assets. :)

@officialcalvinwayman 2 года назад

This episode should have been titled: “What if my partner finds someone else attractive?”

@maiv991 3 года назад

So, this is how healthy couples look like and this is how they have conversations? Hmm... interesting.

@kfresh71812 3 года назад

Thank you both :) this is amazing. Cheers to growth

@lunetstassen4056 3 года назад

Loved this clip. Love the honesty ☺️🌻

@micaelaharris859 3 года назад

This was an amazing, truthful, honest, and right to the point clip!

@katelynmccorkle9902 3 года назад

This was oh so fairly helpful thank you

@lisaclarke2920 2 года назад

This, right here is Platinum!, forget Gold

@MyMyTyTy 3 года назад

When they talked about how she will ask him about other girls bodies in the gym (butt, arms) and pointing out two girls kissing in the hotel, it sounds to me more like she would rather point it out and be apart of it instead of him noticing or looking and her feeling hurt about it. I could be wrong. It’s just I’ve heard woman tell me that all the time, and they always say it’s because of wanting to protect their true feelings.

@MrsGirlyGotty 3 года назад

Would love more content :)

@lilamysticwoods 3 года назад

You made me laugh so hard 😂 you're both adorable!

@aishwaryasharma2448 3 года назад

Decent tushie 😂😂😂. Shes so sweet😂😘

@jn6538 2 года назад

I freakin love you guys!!!! ♥️♥️

@postagirl26 3 года назад

A part of being in a healthy relationship is accepting the inevitable. But, listening to Tom and Lisa it does appear to be a little forced. The flip side of being an intellectual is knowing what to say so that you don't "appear" to be a certain way. Women look at each others bodies and compare themselves, so when a woman points out assets on another woman, she likely does it because she knows you're going to look anyway. And that is her way of accepting the facts. It has little to do with having zero jealousy. Especially when you admitted its a feature you like and it's something she lacks. Just my opinion.

@silver2zilver 3 года назад

What i see here is Lisa head over heels over one guy. What tom says is what most men say when they are in a relationship. But how the woman receives that is the difference in Lisa. I want to know more about why she felt that way, what did she read growing up that made tom the one above all other men. I want to know whether she put herself out there before hand

@flavioptferreira 3 года назад

Mind you that Tom doesn't just say it. He does it. I don't know if that info helps...

@Bmoby1 3 года назад

Most men say it because Is the reality/facts of life. The fundamental human condition

@jasonhorning1949 3 года назад

You say at the end that your partner should make you feel secure. My wife doesn't think that's her job, what should I do?

@Clarity2222 3 года назад

💜💜💜💜💜

@Trentonsmommy2012 3 года назад

Where do you draw the line from noticing attractive people to purposely putting it in the other persons face, when the other partner has voiced it hurts them?

@ligiasommers 3 года назад

🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💖🌷

@kristinetank3959 3 года назад

Im sorry...but sometimes you two are trying so hard to have a good relationship , that ignoring normal feelings and trying to make everything "ok"....you both will hit a wall. A little bit of jealousy is normal...and is part of a healthy relationship. Without fear of losing someone, you will quit trying. I wish you both the best...love your program, don't get me wrong.....but sometimes try too hard to shove real emotions down.

@kristinetank3959 3 года назад

Shall I say...try to make everything too logical...instead of from the heart.

@Guddilove801 3 года назад

Wow! How could they have missed such an important point. A healthy relationship has all the elements of our emotions .nobody can chop and chisel them out of the equation to fit the narrative of the head.

@benjaminperez4570 3 года назад

Jealousy and fear of losing someone are two different things in my mind. Jealousy stems from insecurity, which is something that you should work to quell. The fear of losing someone stems from love. The things they're saying to work on (not ignore) are things that don't benefit you as a person. Then again, everything is subjective and there's no single right way to look at things.

@katiie7 3 года назад

I don’t think it’s true women’s desirability goes down with time. Honestly I know a lot more balding, beer belly, weak men than I do energetic, fit classy aging women. 🤷🏼‍♀️ sure they have a shorter window for kids but everything else... I meannn lol. Its an odd stereotype that I actually don’t see

@Ilovesushi123456 3 года назад

Same here. I keep hearing about it but all the older women in my life are still getting some so I don’t know what the issue is. 😂

@mdmmalou 3 года назад

I was just thinking, women get pregnant earlier than men lol. Its all a false belief that men are more beautiful in age. A certain type of young women is attractive to older men, but this is often for different reasons.$ Wrinkles are by the way beautiful due to the natural expression of reality. I'm going to cherish my wrinkles! Peace! 😍

@mariahwilliams9530 3 года назад

I get what he was referring to; when I met my husband I was HOT and could stop traffic. My hubby wasn’t HOT; he was average but had high value skills and I loved that he pursued his passion (it didn’t make him much money at the time). 16 years later; I don’t stop traffic like I used to but I have aged well …..and my hubby who was once average has really grown into his looks and owns his own business and is highly respected by his male peers……women half my age are always smiling and giggling at him now….where 16 years ago I was the only one smiling at him. I choose him when I was at my peak and now he chooses me while he is at his peak.

@Ak_11.22her 3 года назад

guys, spoiler alert... MEDBEDS are coming, so age reverse is a real thing!! no bag of wrinkles! nope!

@JUNIIOI2 3 года назад

Welp, seems I'm soloing...imma burned down everything in my way or imma die trying...fuck this game.....being told I'm a disorder is specail..fukcing phds ... i dont think I like another humanbieng tell me what the fuck I am..fuck them.

@velocitygirl8551 3 года назад

Wow is this even noteworthy lol?? This is something my husband and I have never ever felt this need to ... lie about!? I notice attractive women as much as he does lol. I ... didn’t think we were progressive in any way lololol!! I’d never date anyone who pretended ...