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Why You're NOT Here to Belong. 

Christina Lopes, DPT, MPH
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Discover why you’re not on the planet to belong and what you’re really meant to do here, as a Lightworker.
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Here’s what you’ll learn in this video:
💥 What belonging is.
💥 The top myth we learn about belonging that is not true for everyone.
💥 The one key feature that makes you different and not meant to belong.
💥 The 3 phases of your life as a Lightworker on planet Earth.

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@ChristinaLopes
@ChristinaLopes 16 дней назад
NEXT UP: 6 Body Parts Most Affected By a Spiritual Awakening bit.ly/4cwFEqY
@lucieledoux6789
@lucieledoux6789 13 дней назад
I don't understand at 64 still don't know why I so keep trying to feel loved and belonging somewhere in this world.
@lillimol
@lillimol 13 дней назад
It's so difficult, especially if you were raised to be a "good girl*, like I did. I am 32. I know I think differently from most people and there is absolutely no group I can feel I belong. Yet I still try to constantly fit any group's I end up in energy so that I can please them or avoid confrontation.. not sure if that helps, just felt to share it!
@angelagoodwin5758
@angelagoodwin5758 11 дней назад
​@lillimol I can attest to the unhealthy effects of being a "good girl".
@colleen2b
@colleen2b 8 дней назад
I can relate. I'm in my 50s. I believe I am worthy of love but no one can see that
@websurfer5772
@websurfer5772 3 дня назад
@@lillimol You're really right to link being a "good girl" to a feeling of belonging. Society's been telling us this all our lives. Even "bad boys" say they want to marry "good girls."
@chrissybilleiter
@chrissybilleiter 13 дней назад
I just quit my job of 10 years last week to start living authenticly. Going to raise my children with a strong connection to the earth, her energy, and spirit. Not an easy road, and people I know may think I'm crazy, but as Maya said, the rewards are worth it. I'm also learning to activate my merkaba through Drunvalo's writings. I want to remember everything and be a guiding light for those also standing alone. 💜✨
@chrissybilleiter
@chrissybilleiter 12 дней назад
@@LimitlessMagic777 I would definitely say you're the lucky one. Take the opportunity to figure how to make money doing something you enjoy. I don't have anything financed, have low monthly bills, and have a years worth of expenses saved in preparation. I don't know exactly what I'm going to do, but I'll be trying different ways of making money off my land (herbs and tinctures are where I'm starting). It's a little scary as I've never not worked a typical job before, but I'm trusting my intuition that tells me I am on the right path.
@theoriginal7727
@theoriginal7727 7 дней назад
HECK YEAH!! so much love to you. It’s the right choice.
@taylorfruge5633
@taylorfruge5633 День назад
Sending you so much love and support!❤️
@fezbork
@fezbork 9 дней назад
I think the first song I ever heard in my life was Pat Benatar "We belong to the light...."
@lsisak7651
@lsisak7651 14 дней назад
Yes it seems as if I am an alien at times. I was not meant to fit in that is for sure.
@lauriewhitlow5506
@lauriewhitlow5506 14 дней назад
That's crazy! I woke up around 3am. I had this dream/ vision that I was not of this world. I wrote about 6 pages. Then you are on my feed and have this message. Thank you. I really appreciate all you do ❣️
@joannmoorebreathtolifecoaching
@joannmoorebreathtolifecoaching 14 дней назад
I am in the sixth decade of life on this planet, and, honestly, have never felt like I belong here, have never "fit in" (particularly with most of my own family) and have been doing my best just to carry on, not absorb other people's energies while still serving and aiding where possible (because it feels good, not because of other people's opinions of what we "should" be doing). It's been an interesting ride! Thanks for the video! It's something to watch again. Blessings! 🙏
@stacyr6573
@stacyr6573 13 дней назад
Same here
@sagebay2803
@sagebay2803 4 дня назад
same!
@leroidelanuit
@leroidelanuit 9 дней назад
Hi Christina, I must confess something: I went through a very painful dark night of the soul that changed me completely. During this transformation, your videos kept popping up out of nowhere, as if they could read my thoughts. As usual, I questioned them just like I question everything else, especially that they used to match each state i am in. But when I got exhausted from seeing all these painful transformations combined with nothing but disappointments and more struggles on the actual ground, I decided to close the door on spirituality and started calling it the "la la land." I began working on myself emotionally and mentally, not believing in spirituality anymore. Yet, I cannot deny the cycles I see. I cannot trust or believe in them anymore, but they are there. Also, I cannot deny that i miss a core part of my energy that i am eager to have it back, my radiant spirit. This has lasted for more than a year now, and your videos stopped popping up until a couple of days ago. This video appeared, and I tried to ignore it many times, but in the end, I surrendered and decided to watch it. Guess what? Again, Every single word you said matches my current state. Even the books you mentioned, I have read them. Honestly, I am not looking for belonging anymore, despite feeling a loneliness I have never felt before. I am seeking stability. I need to feel some security in order to shine. We cannot thrive in survival mode. I hope that soon all the obstacles will be resolved, and I can spread my wings wide to the wind again.
@divaren9467
@divaren9467 9 дней назад
Hahhahahahahaha it feels like reading my own story, sorry I have to laugh, cause now I know I'm on the right path. Her Vids found me and once I was fed up with spirituality believing the universe isn't there for me anymore her Vids sort of disappeared. Now that I'm gaining back trust in the Universe and in myself, my growth, her vids are back on my "sight"
@CHARLENE_WYATT
@CHARLENE_WYATT 14 дней назад
I totally agree with you. This is true for me too, I am not made to belong and it brought me so much unnecessary suffering to try to. Thank goodness I woke up and realised who I am! Xxx
@justmai5078
@justmai5078 12 дней назад
You just described me 2:49: Being told I need to belong caused me a lot of suffering. Thank you 🌸
@danimurnani
@danimurnani 12 дней назад
this has been big lesson for me... the more I understand mySelf, the more I feel I don't belong to anything or anyone in society. My guides told me recently "you're not meant to fit in... stop trying"
@callyoop1186
@callyoop1186 14 дней назад
I so agree! I have never really felt the need to belong, in fact i feel way more at ease and happy alone, with nature and beauty and amazing things, i get my love. When I'm driving alone I'm at peace enjoying all the wonderful beauty of the day and i get joy seeing things like horses running in a field etc. Thank you!
@LeandaPringle
@LeandaPringle 12 дней назад
Thank you for this video! I am entering stage 3 and I can physically feel what you are describing here. I shifted one day when I walked into the elevator at work with 4 men all dressed similarly and I clearly stood out. Usually I would cower to the back and feel uncomfortable but I didn’t this time. I was completely amused and I realized that my purpose was to be a ‘glitch in the matrix.’ It was so liberating!
@Els-ku9np
@Els-ku9np 13 дней назад
It's all about authenticity. This gives others permission to be themselves, and so little by little changing the world. The internet connects all of us so we don't feel like we are alone. Thank you for creating this!
@DebbieB2023
@DebbieB2023 13 дней назад
I've felt that way my entire 66 years. Over the decades I've sought out groups that seemed to have people I thought I might "fit in" with. I've always pondered things that it seemed, no one else did, even as a child. I had a hard time even bringing myself to attend group gatherings of any sort, even if it was something I was really interested in, be it of a spiritual nature or a passion, like trail running or hiking. If I'm even able to get out of the car to attend, (many times I just can't and I attributed it to being a loner)...but I've gone to places I thought might hold some key and I'd belong....I don't. I simply find it very hard to fit in. I never do feel any sense I could fit in or belong and sometimes I might feel sad, but mostly I don't. The only thing that's changed now days is I don't necessarily feel like the outcast or misfit ...I rather like who I am and the fact I don't need any group, people, club to make me happy or give me a sense of purpose and I don't do social media at all, it's just not me and that's good too and better even, I believe. It took a lot for me to go through Reiki and becoming a so called reiki master but I only use it on myself and distance reiki to people. I mostly use reiki on animals and on people crossing over. I could never use it as a 'business' and take money for it. The word, Tribe, ...I thought oh now I'm supposed to have a tribe? I don't..and I don't really think any one needs to belong in a tribe either. It's okay to just be who I am, even if I just do my own thing...
@blueturquoisett8448
@blueturquoisett8448 13 дней назад
Been in hermit mode for a while now, stopped trying to fit, I am learning to accept my role/purpose ❤
@FractalSoul1111
@FractalSoul1111 13 дней назад
If you feel like you belong here, then you are still heavily immersed in the human experience and persona. To not only feel, but to know this is not your true state of being; nor is it your true place of being. Many people have this detachment in today's world because, whether they realize it yet or not, they are here to awaken and remember.
@taft7877
@taft7877 12 дней назад
I love this! 😘
@taygetawarriorsoul-fu6cn
@taygetawarriorsoul-fu6cn 12 дней назад
This video came at the perfect time for me. Turning 40 brought with it PTSD, emotional turmoil, and a victim mentality, stemming from experiences since childhood. These challenges have shaped my desire to educate and help others evolve.Recently, I've been experiencing heart chakra breakthroughs, non-medical irritations, ear pressure, and other sensations that have caught my attention. Since childhood, my persistent issue has been a strong desire not to belong anywhere. Growing up, I was confused by bullying and wondered why people treated each other this way. Now, as an adult undergoing healing, I've had to confront and experience all these past hurts before I can help others or advocate for change. I'm on the verge of a significant breakthrough and shedding all my limiting beliefs. I can say from experience that shedding these beliefs is, if not equally, even more painful than the actual experiences I've endured
@SideB1984
@SideB1984 12 дней назад
Ahh, are you me? 👀 40, really going through it, observing and analyzing. The bullying, trying to confront it now, the pain of shedding beliefs being worse. All of that yep. Nods head. I was working through in an illustrative journal but lost steam again recently. I too appreciated this video in this stage of life. Sending love. 💕
@theoriginal7727
@theoriginal7727 7 дней назад
@@SideB198445, are you (both) me?!! 😂😂🎉❤❤
@eve3056
@eve3056 10 дней назад
Wow, that explains a lot! One of my favorite Quotes: Why fit in, when you were born to stand out (Dr. Suess)
@websurfer5772
@websurfer5772 3 дня назад
Perfect avatar for this video. 😊
@jdeburen
@jdeburen 13 дней назад
At some point I stopped blaming myself for not fitting in and also stopped judging those who wanted to. I like many others have come to usher in a new reality that is a true paradigm shift, one rooted in love and authenticity.
@tina74166
@tina74166 9 дней назад
@jdeburen Totally feel the same~ It's ok to stand alone- anyway-if need be~😊
@user-xd2iq1ng6p
@user-xd2iq1ng6p Час назад
Just be the unique light that you came here to be and shine bright🌞.. Be you ❤ love yourself. You are magical and powerful ✨️ Enjoy! 🎉 Love you 😘
@tina74166
@tina74166 Час назад
@@user-xd2iq1ng6p 💞
@noora853
@noora853 12 дней назад
This video came to me when I needed it. Love you Christina I also truly believe that the topic of belonging often gets filtered through a human-centric perception, where society becomes fixated on the human experience and neglects the vast, miraculous, and magical natural world. We are surrounded by powerful living forces, such as the intricate communication system between trees through their roots, and the complex lives of ants, birds, whales, and other wonderful beings. Even the powerful weather changes and the energetic vibrations they carry are part of this natural wonder. There is so much divine intelligence in this lifetime and many teachers who do not embody human form, from whom we can all strive to learn and connect. Much love.
@lindatallon9217
@lindatallon9217 11 дней назад
I am unapologetically myself.....all day........every day of my life....
@tina74166
@tina74166 9 дней назад
Me too ~ @lindatallon9217 🙂
@Astral106
@Astral106 12 дней назад
That's me. Trying to belong and being like everyone else is what causes all my pain and suffering growing up.
@sebastianornowski333
@sebastianornowski333 12 дней назад
I've never felt like I fit in anywhere, also I've lately realized why I act a little silly and quirky around people, I'm doing it intuitively to raise the vibration in the room. Thank you 💕✨
@rebecca_stone
@rebecca_stone 13 дней назад
This brought me the peace I needed tonight. I tried out NOT shaming and pressuring myself over failing to 'fix' this perpetual outsider feeling. And it's been such a peaceful and nurturing few hours. Thank you!
@shreyateotia2404
@shreyateotia2404 13 дней назад
Yes just to accept that you don't belong to certain places and being with my authentic self. I don't want to fit anywhere where I don't belong.
@rockymtncampergirl641
@rockymtncampergirl641 13 дней назад
as RJ Spina said “quit trying to fit in, you weren’t meant to stay!”
@antoniapushparaj
@antoniapushparaj 13 дней назад
Na tato, na mata... Indian philosophy🌹 I am...Who I am! I was there, I am here and I will be🙏 I am one with the Cosmos... Great insights Lopes🙏🙏🙏
@ChildofGod98765
@ChildofGod98765 14 дней назад
Me too never fit in. Lord I come to you asking for your blessings as a single mom because I’m raising my children with courage, despite the challenges I face. Both of my sons are special needs and require so much from me. Lord give me strength as I struggle to pay my rent every month and as I struggle to buy groceries for my children I’m ashamed Lord help me. I ask that you bless me with your wisdom and guidance, as I navigate parenthood on my own.💕💕
@Leesie77
@Leesie77 13 дней назад
I hope one day you might be able to change the focus from speaking about struggles and giving them attention instead to accepting the lessons in those struggles and speaking your power and energy into more positive ways. Thanking God for Him guiding you and giving you those lessons to walk through so your spirit strengths as it becomes bigger. Speak as if it’s already happened, been provided and experienced. “Lord, I thank you for those lessons even the smallest of them while I’m on this beautiful journey on this earth with you always beside me. Thank you for always making sure my financial obligations are already fulfilled ahead of time. Thank you for reminding me that it’s always in Your timing and not mine. I’m humbled by your presence, kindness, grace and easy forgiveness. I ask you Lord that you continue to help me grow in your unconditional, pure, raw, easy, powerful and gentle love so that I may know you more everyday as I learn to know myself as well.” When we change the simplest way to simply speaking from having the focus switch from what we don’t have to what we do have just from a solid knowing it will happen in the future because we have belief and faith and living as if we already have what we are lacking and have experienced the experience of it already. It creates space to allow it to come into your life. Positive attracts positive, negative attracts negative. Be present in this moment, not the past or the future. The past is gone and we can’t change anything about it, the future isn’t in this very moment it hasn’t happened yet. Both past and future can cause stress that is unnecessary and keeps your attention stuck either way rather than focusing your attention in the here and now present moment. Keep going Momma, you got this. You ARE enough! You DO matter! You DO belong! You are ALWAYS exactly right where you’re supposed to be in this very moment! You ARE valued! You ARE worthy! You ARE beautiful inside and out! You ARE loved! You ARE perfectly created to be exactly who you are! You ARE already whole, never broken (our spirits (the truest self) is powerful, pure, perfect and whole). Have a beautiful and blessed day, week, month, year, decade, lifetime ❤❤❤
@lindatallon9217
@lindatallon9217 9 дней назад
I am an old soul....an indigo child....a queen....royalty...
@inadhara
@inadhara 7 дней назад
Thank you for sharing this. My father always says to me: “why can’t you just be normal like everybody else? You should’t try to be different at all times.” Well, I really tried being normal. But it just didn’t work out. I was just always different. I was bullied in school and my dad said it’s no wonder when I am this way. I have now realized that I was just forced to be around the wrong people and at the wrong place. I am now grateful to have a supportive community around me where I am valued the way I am. 💜🦁
@websurfer5772
@websurfer5772 3 дня назад
You're explaining why I was shut down my whole life.
@TrueSelf1111
@TrueSelf1111 10 дней назад
I am standing ALONE. All pieces of myself.
@minniemimi88
@minniemimi88 13 дней назад
Wow, I grew up fascinated by the beauty spots (or moles) on my body because, if I connect them with a pen, they form triangles.
@jbgoth
@jbgoth 12 дней назад
That happened to me. The merkaba. Everything about me shifted. I now live with a quiet mind, love for all and connected to the Universe. Blessed
@Loveruvthelight
@Loveruvthelight 12 дней назад
I’m struggling with the two bottom tiers because of 9 years of stalking and I don’t have that feeling of belonging, I never have and I have suffered a lot but now I’m accepting that fact that I don’t belong. I’m a Christian so I love Christ quote “I’m in this world but I am not of this world”. I’ve been a lone she-wolf for most of my life. I’ve grown to like it. Sometimes I get a little lonely but fit the most and art I prefer to be alone now.
@theoriginal7727
@theoriginal7727 7 дней назад
It is really tough, if you have trauma, PTSD, complex PTSD. Your Merkaba and Shakira system can get all whacked out. We need to have safety and when that is violated, when our trust is betrayed, especially by people close to us can damage our energetic and physical System terribly.
@AmeliaRomero-le7jf
@AmeliaRomero-le7jf 13 дней назад
You belong you helped save my life during my awakening with your videos in 2020-23
@deannamadrigal7503
@deannamadrigal7503 13 дней назад
Yes, I know I came to hold space for mother Giai as she has gone through her planetary transformation. I now live completely immersed in nature. I love how you talk about these things so understandably. Thank you Christina I'm 64, coming into this knowingness and my life is so easefull and beautiful these days. I'm blessed and super grateful for where I'm at in my life now. It's been a rough road to getting here for sure.
@nanasabia
@nanasabia 12 дней назад
Dear one, the kind of life you are describing is the one I am striving for..what are your advices from One woman to another? I lost the partner who would support this kind of life and don’t have one who would now. I tried alone but it is to hard. Any supportive ideas? 🙏
@ProZarobitok
@ProZarobitok 11 дней назад
Never thought I fitted in in my home country or family. Was abused probably because I unknowingly challenged the old templates as a child. I’ve spent many years trying to fit in, but the discomfort of NOT being authentically myself became greater than the discomfort of not fitting in. It’s a strange thing unless you’ve experienced this. It’s a feeling when you can’t pretend to fit in anymore and the only way to live is to be yourself. I learned to take care of myself, and feel comfortable being along. This all reminds me of when Jesus said “I am not of this world" in John 8:23, we are not supposed to belong because we are not of this world, we come here to challenge the old, and most people are uncomfortable with change. I’m looking forward to becoming stronger and learning what new templates I’m carrying into the world. Blessings to all of you on the same journey ❤
@DouradaBambina
@DouradaBambina 13 дней назад
❤Love this ❤ this is a temporary illusory home. We never gonna belong here, thank God! No one deserves to live in duality for eternity ❤
@deborahluikes6348
@deborahluikes6348 13 дней назад
Brené Brown is one of my most loved guides here on earth. Her work helped me so much, I do not even have the words to discribe it. Maslows hiearchy of needs also my top human need system. So, this is by far one of my favorite video's of yours that I have ever watched. I find this video to be 100 % spot on. I'm at my most true authentic self when I have no expectation or need for belonging and belonging becomes a byproduct or a "nice to have" while I'm fully being my authentic self. Through my spiritual awakening, I now know what Brené meant with, 'We are all inextricably connected'.
@andrearenee7845
@andrearenee7845 12 дней назад
The path of the Indigo. 😇🥰 Peace to you.
@darlashaw1061
@darlashaw1061 3 дня назад
OMG!! You've clarified the confusion of the past 72 years. Thank you!! I've learned just recently to accept myself, good, bad, dark light. Very freeing!
@unicorntears6514
@unicorntears6514 13 дней назад
Since my spiritual awakening in 2020 and feeling the love the exists beyond my human comprehension, I no longer feel that I don’t belong. I am one with the earth and everything that exists and there’s nowhere that I don’t belong. I no longer need to seek human love or acceptance, I’m exactly who I should be and I’ll allow the universe to continue to guide me ❤
@Joey-be8eh
@Joey-be8eh 11 дней назад
You’re right. The hierarchy of needs also isn’t a hierarchy because you can get all those needs met at any point in your development.
@Julieber1
@Julieber1 13 дней назад
Christina, I’ve tried to force myself to be normal, like everybody else belong part of the 3-D world. But when I realized that I couldn’t fight, and opress the feelings of the intense need to be an anime girl, I knew I didn’t go through this world. I also had noticed the hotter I tried to belong my true authentic feelings, inside of being and feeling liking anime girl the more painful it got inside. Nearly trying to fight it and run from it. You killed me a few times in this body. It’s not just an intense need to be an anime girl, but I also feel like one and feel the soul of an anime girl. So I figured that I must be a Starseed/Blue Ray that’s the only thing that makes sense.
@carolmonez4955
@carolmonez4955 14 дней назад
I also since childhood never felt like I belonged, or fitted in with anyone or anything! As I grew up I accepted who I was. A loner and friends were their only when we got together. My own parents seemed not to accept me as family as I became an adult! They are gone and so is my brother. Not accepted by my brother was a doing by my dad, making sure he could get a argument going between us, then sitting back and watching the separation happen between us. He did this with my Mom also. I love who I have become and love Mom and my brother. As for dad it still sparks a trigger in me at times and have been working on me to let go.
@larinlifecoach
@larinlifecoach 13 дней назад
So true, and for this we are many times cursed..not understood. But aas said...i belong to myself and God..inside me.
@sippingsun
@sippingsun 12 дней назад
YES 🙌🏼 Thank you for this teaching, @ChristinaLopes ! As I’ve been navigating my spiritual awakening, I’ve been acknowledging the People-Pleaser within me who has served the Belonging Committee for decades now. With love, compassion, and respect, I encourage her to retire so that I may perform the work for which I am intended. For about 3 years now, I have been distancing myself from family and narrowing my Friend Zone (not that I’ve ever been one for many “friends” because when they’re aligned, I pour my heart into them) so drastically that it’s pretty much just _me_ now staring into my own eyes, my own being, and truly finding the connection and “belonging” I’ve sought outside myself this entire lifetime. I SUN·SCRIBE to these words: “You don’t need a “community”, you just need to commune with your Higher Self.” ♥️ xxMeryn
@AB-ko9en
@AB-ko9en 14 дней назад
This lesson that you shared was so intense I had to watch little bits of it three times. I had a session with you five years ago after my daughter passed over and my divorce and you told me if I don’t follow through with my ascension my daughter would stay within this loop, and of course the open heart chakra. I did everything you said and today’s lesson is brilliant. I have a dream of coming out to Portugal and being with you and the group someday.❤❤❤❤
@melissasmuse
@melissasmuse 12 дней назад
A few days ago I legit was meditating and heard the word merkaba , then visualized it around my body. Insane synchronicity!
@taft7877
@taft7877 12 дней назад
Absolutely agree with this!! Since I was a child, I didn’t feel I belonged to my family, I was not emotionally attached to any of them and I was okay with that. I have friends but I don’t need to see them all the time. I’m perfectly content living my life and don’t need to belong anywhere. The one issue with this is that spiritual teachers tell us we need to find our community. Well, I haven’t needed community before so why do I now? I absolutely believe some of us are on the earth plane because of soul contracts but we originated from a place where community isn’t emotion based, but functional based. I can get along with anyone, but I don’t suffer fools or BS. Thanks for this video.
@BohoWarriorYoga444
@BohoWarriorYoga444 13 дней назад
wow I can so relate. Always have felt like I don't fit in anywhere. Different in every way. going through the loneliest Time in my life right now. No family. I am getting restless in existing this way. Need to get that mercaba powered somehow!
@TarotWithDelilah
@TarotWithDelilah 10 дней назад
The ending of this video is priceless 😂 Such a timely message ❤
@rdhawke
@rdhawke 12 дней назад
I’m not a joiner…as an HSP I prefer to be alone or only with one other person at a time. This works for me extremely well. During the eclipse this past April 8th, I was blessed to be somewhere I could be completely alone. Not a cloud to be seen, horizon to horizon. I laid in the grass put on my eclipse specs and reveled in the experience…I wept w 0:03 ith the beauty, joy and magnificence of creation. Another click on my bucket list accomplished. 😎👍🏻 (I’m not unsociable though. I just don’t fit. Didn’t someone once say to be IN the world but be not OF it?)
@nathaliecordell2609
@nathaliecordell2609 12 дней назад
This resonates so deeply. I've always struggled with belonging for as long as I can remember. Even though it wasnt necessarily painful, I often feel like an outsider, even in my family. Before I watched the video, I was thinking to myself: "I do belong, I belong to myself and I belong in the world". Little did I know that Maya Angelou, whom I love, said it!! Thank you so much for this video and helping me reframe this natural feeling. ❤
@kwalla2429
@kwalla2429 13 дней назад
This is very freeing. Thank you.
@malunachow
@malunachow 11 дней назад
Exactly the same I discovered about belonging. And my experiences give me many proofs for that true.
@spiritofhonuguidanceforlife
@spiritofhonuguidanceforlife 14 дней назад
First of all, THANK YOU! I've been in a bit if a funk for a couple days and this message helped brighten my day. Secondly, for me, it's not so much a need to belong as it is I just feel lonely and isolated because I simply don't resonate with the people around me anymore. I can relate, as I remember what it was like before my awakening, but to live in a world that thinks they are awake when in reality they are still dreaming, is weird and lonely at times. My only comfort now comes from meeting others online going through the same thing. I share my journey on my own youtube channel hoping it helps others on their journey.❤
@tina74166
@tina74166 13 дней назад
@spiritofhonuguidanceforlife I just want you to know that your words on a few of your videos did help. I did subscribe, and I know it's very challenging and often frustrating too---having a small YT channel-I have one too. It was 3am here, when I woke and found Christina's wonderful video. I was feeling very alone in my thinking. I actually love being alone, and hardly ever feel a feeling of loneliness, but it sure is nice to see that so many here are so like-minded. So, I send a big THANK YOU, Big HUGS, and lots of love to both of you! Hope you can FEEL it! 💞🤗🤗💞Actually, this goes for everyone here, and I'm hoping to read each comment and hopefully connect with more! That would be amazing!!! 🙂
@spiritofhonuguidanceforlife
@spiritofhonuguidanceforlife 13 дней назад
@@tina74166 Thank you, it feels good to connect with like minded people. I will check out your channel too ❤️
@tina74166
@tina74166 13 дней назад
@@spiritofhonuguidanceforlife Thanks sweet soul. I was still very tired when I left that comment (I did get some sleep) and I realized I wanted to say more. For one, you & your channel are awesome! You speak with such clarity & insight and I know you will be reaching the right target audience, when timing is in divine order. So please, keep it going! It's all normal to feel as you do. My purpose is more through my 'Spirit Writing' (Automatic writing as they call it) so most insight & inspiration are in descriptions, under in Vlog.. 🙂Been taking some time in silence since my B-day, and hoping to feel inspired real soon to discover what's next. (I've had to reword my comment--hope it still makes sense. Hehehe)~ I hope we can stay connected. I would love that 💗
@tina74166
@tina74166 13 дней назад
@@spiritofhonuguidanceforlife Seems, I'm not able to say more to you in this comment- sweet soul. Thank you and I hope we can stay connected💞
@spiritofhonuguidanceforlife
@spiritofhonuguidanceforlife 13 дней назад
@@tina74166 Thank you for your lovely message of hope. I, like you, feel the most important thing we can do is stay true to ourselves and encourage others to be authentic. That is how change happens, within each person first. You can leave comments on my videos too, I just monitor them and approve them to keep the trolls at bay. I've had a problem in the past with internet bullies so I'm more strict now. Happy Belated Birthday my beautiful friend ❤️ Namaste 🌅
@sourabhabhat8145
@sourabhabhat8145 12 дней назад
Damn accurate.. I always adjusted, kept others as first priority now iam trying to come out of people pleasing or fit in phase❤.. It actually gave me peace
@katararose8724
@katararose8724 13 дней назад
Square peg in a round hole. Yep, that's me! Where was this explanation 60 years ago?😂 Well, now I don't feel so weird. So, that's what's wrong with me, or right with me. I'm dyslexic too so either one will work😂 Thanks for the explanation. I love when puzzle pieces fit together!❤😊
@lenaeliss
@lenaeliss 13 дней назад
its just semantics, it is really connection and relationship, could be with a person, an animal, nature, God , objects etc. When you say you don't belong here ,meaning this planet there is still longing that you are a part of/connected to somewhere else, bigger, omnipresent and eternal, so literally still belonging somewhere, even to this spiritual community😇
@user-kh9xj3hz3m
@user-kh9xj3hz3m 14 дней назад
Thank you Christina. Your gift for articulating this truth is very helpful. ❤
@dr.ada-adamichalweinsteinp6709
@dr.ada-adamichalweinsteinp6709 13 дней назад
One of your best videos for me.. As an Israeli Jew psychodramatist that works with Merkaba... and more, you gave a great explanation .. you gave me the chills 😂 thank you sooo much 🙏🏻
@kathleendrake6500
@kathleendrake6500 11 дней назад
Humor is healing at end of video it was funny when you sang video is over. Radiate love, detach or un-attach, shed or let go of old beliefs or programs, become FREE to love and belong to self, and awaken or ascend. Let your light shine or let your cleansed Merkaba light grow. I no longer want to hide my light. Yes. I want to be Template Changer or I call it just making a difference in the world. Yes. My identity, purpose, and path or journey are becoming clearer each day. Humor, light-heartedness, or becoming open rather than old ways were serious, dense, and ego or negative thought matrix driven. My whole being feels lighter and I am emanating or shining more light and Christ-Consciousness. Feeling excited, hopeful, and energetic for 1st time in a very long time. The light at the end of the tunnel is me finding my worth and belonging by finding my purpose and identity. The veil or covering is being removed. My authentic or true self was there all of the time. It was just hidden by the programs of family, false friends, culture, jobs, or the matrix. I am letting go of people, places, and things which no longer serve me. Interesting the mystery is resolving itself slowly, but surely for me. Thank you for your wisdom, mastery, and guidance to ascend. Gratitude, compassion, and connection is increasing. Love and light.
@dianegriffen2756
@dianegriffen2756 14 дней назад
Just... thank you.
@LittleThao
@LittleThao 13 дней назад
Thank you for this timely message. I always feel like a rebel at heart. I hope my merkaba activated soon so my blueprint can come online!
@yhys6793
@yhys6793 12 дней назад
I couldn’t agree with you more. What you said is absolutely my whole life experience.
@traveler7929
@traveler7929 12 дней назад
I lol’d because probably the most uncomfortable I’ve been in a group setting recently was at the Portugal retreat last year. Definitely felt like a misfit there, but it was very interesting and enlightening and difficult on many levels. I’m very comfortable where I live and with the work I’m doing and have a handful of my soul people here. I wish the same “home base” to all other misfits.
@tientruong2007
@tientruong2007 3 часа назад
What we need is acceptance. And first and foremost, self acceptance. If you betray yourself to belong to a group who accepts you conditionally and especially under conditions that benefit them, you are denying the need for acceptance.
@EShadowmystic
@EShadowmystic 9 дней назад
This video resonated with me, and I really needed to see this viewpoint. I have never “fit in” like you, though I kept trying. Now, I realize that I was never meant to. So freeing! Thank you! You, Christina, Michael Singer, and The Law of One have changed my life.
@melodymerritt8419
@melodymerritt8419 15 часов назад
belonging is also know as "fitting in". And we are not here to "fit in". We are here to expand our love and wisdom because we are particles of god, and that's what happens when we incarnate on earth. At least that's the aim. Love your channel.!
@tanii7813
@tanii7813 13 дней назад
Every word in your video gave me goosebumps. I am speechless ❤
@BeSimple2024
@BeSimple2024 10 дней назад
You are absolutely right. Belongingness is not a fundamental need. Today only I was pondering over beliefs of collective consciousness and how difficult it would be to change them. Thank you so much for guiding us and strengthening our faith in our power. 🙏🙏🙏❤
@websurfer5772
@websurfer5772 3 дня назад
My natal chart says I'm to go it alone, but it also says that this is rare. Thanks for this video. I have similar feelings as you do about this. "The price is high. The reward is great." ~ Maya Angelou - Whoa.
@monicamacie1807
@monicamacie1807 14 дней назад
You seem to be using "belonging" and "fitting in" interchangeably, in Brene Brown's work she is clear about the difference. Belonging isn't about being accepted by any certain group.
@ChristinaLopes
@ChristinaLopes 14 дней назад
@monicamacie1807 Fitting in and belonging are different, although we sometimes experience both in our lives. Belonging (according to Brene Brown and others) is being accepted by a group while being true to yourself. Fitting in means you mold yourself to be accepted, betraying your authenticity to do so. In this video, I'm talking about belonging mostly, although I do use the term fitting in also.
@MeganS1995
@MeganS1995 13 дней назад
Belonging is also a fundamental need on Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. It's important to find it in ourselves at least--giving a home to the parts that feel isolated and alone. May the inner child find the love within!
@MeganS1995
@MeganS1995 13 дней назад
Oh, hah! I read the comments before watching the video. Shout out to Humanistic Psychology and Brene Brown!
@cristinadoronzo9928
@cristinadoronzo9928 12 дней назад
This is just so relevant to me right now! Only a few days ago I felt that it was finally ok to not fit in and my sense of belonging is with nature. Thanks Christina!
@sulusu4812
@sulusu4812 12 дней назад
Brene is overused
@cmw3791
@cmw3791 12 дней назад
I also love Mission Impossible. Let's rotate this Merkaba. ✨✡
@Fromsoulcomesspirituality
@Fromsoulcomesspirituality 7 дней назад
As if your work didn't help me enough during my awakening and lost days... It just keeps getting better
@bee8740
@bee8740 22 часа назад
Wow this makes so much sense. I must be in phase 3 then because all I care about is living authentically.
@alexh8244
@alexh8244 2 часа назад
Christina, thank you so much for your RU-vid videos. I just now started learning and hearing about the Merkabah. I saw a picture of thoth carve in a pyramid. It was just a small clip of places to travel but it made an impact on me. I found out that there was a book called the Emerald tablets of Thoth the Alantean. I started reading the book and then I run into a series in Gaia about sacred geometry, I started watching the series. This all felt right and overwhelming at the same time. And now I watched your video it makes me feel I am on the right track. Thank you
@tarafaulkner
@tarafaulkner 13 дней назад
I just love the golden Buddha analogy. ❤❤
@jorgletchler1980
@jorgletchler1980 9 дней назад
I belong therefore I am
@SaggiesWorld
@SaggiesWorld 12 дней назад
Maya was a GREAT example...she will always be my girl and a bag of pearls!❤
@acharyaindu
@acharyaindu 13 дней назад
was waiting for this video 💜🖤💕
@boneymathews
@boneymathews 12 дней назад
I needed to hear that! Thank you ❤
@lotusflower1716
@lotusflower1716 14 дней назад
This touched my heart ♥
@jamieliddell
@jamieliddell 11 дней назад
Excellent video! ❤
@LisaTrunkenbolz
@LisaTrunkenbolz 13 дней назад
Yes!!! This is definitely true for me. I've become aware of this very directive for myself recently. I came here with a specific frequency that is meant to help redirect things for this planet. Its been so peaceful for me too. Thank you!
@lamusica1592
@lamusica1592 13 дней назад
Just been processing this the last year, its liberating 🙏❤️
@christinamarie1705
@christinamarie1705 13 дней назад
Thank you 🙏💗 this makes so much sense!
@ishita0496
@ishita0496 14 дней назад
Thank you so much! I feel seen, heard and validated.
@paulvanspanje8201
@paulvanspanje8201 14 дней назад
Thank you for guiding 😊❤
@dawnpace3711
@dawnpace3711 14 дней назад
Thank you very much! Looking forward to the download❤
@user-oi2zq5ke8i
@user-oi2zq5ke8i 10 дней назад
Thank you 🙏 much needed 👌🏼
@kokuru70
@kokuru70 13 дней назад
I needed very much to hear that today. Thank you!
@tammybrown4410
@tammybrown4410 13 дней назад
Thank you, Christina! 😊🩷 Have an amazing day!
@pattyberryman3037
@pattyberryman3037 12 дней назад
The Beautiful Beings of Gaia would like to thank Christina Lopes for her service. We are forever grateful.
@pura1
@pura1 13 дней назад
Thank you, I've been saying this. Keep spreading this and expand the minds.
@spiritualqueen2745
@spiritualqueen2745 14 дней назад
Wow powerful video!
@nataskialee6678
@nataskialee6678 8 дней назад
Thank you so much for this!❤
@r.p.1949
@r.p.1949 13 дней назад
this is very helpful! thank you
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