why you suck at creating your dream life and how to START 

In a nutshell, manifestation isn’t just dreaming and “focusing” on what you want. Unless what you’re manifesting isn’t MOTIVATING you to get up and work toward it, it’s not working. Manifestations only work if you’re willing to change yourself and your environment for the better while staying positive. Manifesting is believing in yourself that YOU CAN do it and YOU WILL. Awesome video ♥️

I found your channel last week and I have to say, girl, you spit wisdom. I just turned 24. I'm going through so much, working on myself to be a happy, trying out new things, practicing being present, healing, and doing things the healthy way. This video is a godsend, because I know I spend hours on Pinterest. Thank you for helping the girlies out here.

“Faith without works is dead” James 2 👏🏾👏🏾This woman is just amazing 😻

I'm not even saying this lightly but this video has been one of the most eye opening and helpful videos i have seen in ages. The point about using compassion and acceptance on your darker/unhelpful sides is something that will stick with me forever. It could also be applied externally, if someone/something treats you horribly, give back love and kindness even if it's painful

As someone 20 years older than you I'm so grateful I stumbled on your channel. I just listened to your whole podcast in a couple weeks and I never listen to self help podcasts. Now watching your videos. I wish I knew this 20 years ago. You articulate so well, relatable and to the point. I'm trying now to glow up at 47 only now realising I have to heal my inner child 🤷🏻‍♀️ telling myself it's never too late . Also got your inner child prompt. Another thing I don't do; download materials from RU-vidrs. You really are making an impact. Congratulations keep going.

It’s crazy because 4+ years ago I was such a quick manifestor (idk if that’s a word 😂) and was so positive (not that I’m not anymore) and this one is big I was SO FULL OF LIFE AND CONFIDENT. But after I became a mommy it’s been so hard. I’ve been in my masculine for a while playing dad too and hustling and on go mode. I sometimes wish I can be the way I was before but I know the person I am now has grown so much internally. I just wanna be full of life and confident again

You know, it’s kinda scary how you make a video about a certain topic as soon as I start thinking about it. 💀 Upd.: just watched the video. GIRL, YES! I, too, can sometimes find myself dreaming about the life I want without further actions. It’s almost like people-watching and dreaming is my hobby, and somehow I feel good with that (my mind is being like ‘Well, striving towards that is too hard, but we can live this life through watching other people living it). Gonna work on that. Thanks for this video! They’re always helpful and informative.

this is about to be good!

It wasn’t until I got up to 300lbs that I realized the whole time I was drinking & eating my emotions. I wasn’t self aware I was eating to feel voids I just knew it gave me comfort. That was my thing as a child. My mom was distant & my dad wasn’t in the home. I’d entertain & comfort myself with snacks & a movie. I was literally wearing my struggles on my weight. I started working out consistently & then boom my awakening happened that was the beginning of everything. I’ve gotten down 80lbs Now I have the awareness of when I need comfort & the more healthy thing to do for it like journaling or nature. I still comfort eat sometimes but in moderation if it’s something that not the healthiest. Just being self aware changes everything!

EMDR therapy is great for reversing those negative subconscious beliefs!! I’ve been to 3 sessions and it’s already been so life changing

I couldn’t have picked a better day to watch this video. I’ve really been struggling with supporting and being gentle with myself when I feel like I should be past a certain mindset, behavior, trauma, or triggered response. I know that being the best version of myself will continue to be a journey, but I’m so grateful for your wisdom and the reminder that my goal isn’t perfection. I’m finishing this video so proud of the growth that I’ve had over this past year, instead of feeling discouraged that the journey isn’t over yet. 💕

i needed this video so much!! this holiday season sent me into a spiral. i was guilted into going back to family that i know doesn’t make me feel safe, thinking things would be different. the silence was sooo loud. i was beating myself up so much and questioned my growth, bc ultimately i made the choice to open that door again after putting boundaries up. choosing me w/o a second thought from now on ✨ i was really debating on posting a comment, but as I kept reading im seeing how loving this community is 💗💗💗

Firstly hi beauty, i love your videos💕 so for a month ago like you said in the video i was just scrolling through my instagram, youtube and pinterest and thinking about the life i want but continuing the same routine after that day. Two weeks ago i started doing the things i saw on social media like exercising more often, eating more healthy just being more productive and can you believe that i'm actually feeling better now than i was a month ago and even though it's only two weeks since i started doing this i feel so proud of myself. Your videos helped me so much when i made this decision thank you so much💖

This woman is a GIFT ! I keep replaying your podcasts cause every word you say are GOLD

This was the wake up call and in depth explanation I've been looking for. Been looking to start shadow work and improve my self concept. Thank you THANK YOU!!!!

This is what I've been praying for.... I recently found your channel and I swear I'm binging everything cause it's like all the things that have been bothering are covered in EACH of your videos!!!!! You're truly Godsend ...Just know you're helping someone today❤️

So glad RU-vid knows this channel is worth pushing, I really enjoy watching and being lifted up by you.

I was just searching for exactly this video and now here it comes...It's definitely a sign thank you because I needed this badly

This is truly great to hear. I just left a toxic work place and decided to follow a new path currently with my freelancing and trying to build towards a better & healthier life. Such a brilliant view point on how to look at life, I will be using this for new patterns I’m trying to set hopefully. Thanking you

Thank you, Jesus for allowing me to be blessed by such an AMAZING soul, as this beautiful woman! Wow, this sums up perfectly all the things I have been going through, healing from and learning these past few years. I know this is my confirmation that it is time for me to do it all. God Bless you love! ❤❤❤

This is a really great video! This kind of change can come in fits and starts and its okay that you aren't always going to feel like you're moving forward. When you feel like you're stuck at a point or that circumstances are dragging you backwards, that's just the old you fighting against the new you because its uncomfortable.

I literally meant to click on another video and accidentally clicked on this one. Since I was washing my dishes I thought “what the hell, I’ll listen”. This came right on time! The good old universal algorithm ❤ Thank you!

You are the first person who has made manifesting make sense to me! I love this! You explained it so well

the most valuable video I watched this year! I saw myself in pretty much alot of things you said. I thought I was alone! Thank you very much for this. I’m aiming for this year to be my best year yet!

This is the one video that didn’t confuse me on manifesting and why things aren’t going my way you cleared every single doubt I had in just one video! Thank you so so much :)

The Secret is the book I say started my self love journey

i love that you can talk about yourself adn your inner child and meeting your needs and theres so many people who are like "hey yeah me tooo!" like its crazy how far we have come as people like OUR MINDS ARE OUTSIDE AND EVERYTHING IS LOVE we are so cooooool thank you for this channel so beautiufl :) and im so glad that you have been able to pursue your content full-time! theres so much abundance on its way to you friend!

you can really tell you are experienced in what you are talking about! i love the parts work and i will definitely be trying that out :)

Hi. I'm 23, and just like you it feels like I've been doing this discovering, awareness mindfulness and healing forever. But I'm so glad I found you because I'm abit stuck and I've been needing something with substance to listen to. And I found it here thank you! Part 5 😊 learning to accept and recognized inner child and I feel the awareness opening up now with this therapist scenario. Looking forward to actually doing this and dealing with the parts

Girl it’s like everything you say is what I think and I feel so called out and I finally feel like I found someone I can really pay attention to and take things further in my own journey ❤

Watching your channel grow like crazy the past few months has been awesome

Listen, when you spoke about the subconscious belief with candy, I figured out for the first time in years why I haven't allowed myself to cut out sweets despite my attempts! I'm literally mind blown! "Eating candy make me feel safe around someone who doesn't make me feel safe." YES!! I NEVER thought of this. And it makes so much sense. It's amazing how you spoke about this because I want to go on a fruits and vegetables fast. "Go eat the fruit!" Thank you for this revelation! You spoke through me.

i love how you talk with your hands so much

Your videos always come in the right time when I need advice and a reality check

this video took me out of a years long freeze trauma response :) thank you so much. i was planning every part of my life and PERSONALITY because i didn't want anything to "go wrong" ever again.

Your like a sister to me 😭♥️ I really listen to everything you say and it effects me a lot… Thank you so much for being here for all of us

You’re so caring, you reach really deep within, but you’re also friendly. I don’t like to surround myself with people who are negative all the damn time, so that’s why I don’t really hang with anyone from my hood no more, they’re very toxic here really bad environment. I’ve given up on trying to find the best people. That’s why I only listen to people like you, and I swear, all my friends and role models exist only online now. When I go with you there actually is a brighter tomorrow. New belief: next year I’m going to leave my abusive parents and toxic neighborhood. Thank you for being the embodiment of progress 😊❤❤❤

Hi Elicia ✨ I’ve found your channel super helpful in my transformation journey, thank you! I was wondering if you could talk about making peace with pretty privilege if it was everything you were putting efforts on to feel accepted. I’ve found hard to not wanting to look certain way or I am invested in the physical sometimes too much. I feel that the pretty privilege fluctuates a lot but then it is clear society values it.

Love your videos😍 You are so direct and honest🙌🏽 Keep it up! Wishing you all the best for the new year🤍

IM SO EXCITED TO SEE A RU-vidR TALK ABOUT WORKING WITH THE PARTS!!! Internal family systems genuinely saved my life and has been insanely helpful for my loved ones too. Thank you for bringing it up!

I quit my job not to long ago and I've been working on myself and your channel has really REALLY been the best thing that I could of found on my YT. Thank you so much for creating this powerfull self growth content 💞

Thank you so much for this video. I’ve found your channel in my recommendations a month ago and it’s been sooo helpful. The topic of this video is the main reason why I feel dissatisfaction with life. When I was a teen and when I was in uni some good stuff happened in my life without saying, I feel like I got used to it, but now I’m almost 25, working 5/2 and always feel like "umm okay yes I know that something’s waiting for me, it just haven’t found me yet, just a few weeks/months and it will be over, I shall live my dream live soon" ect, and in actual fact do around 10% of what I need to do to reach my goals. Because I think that it will be done by itself by circumstances, other people or what or whoever as it used to before. But the time goes by sooo quickly, I’m so scared of watching me losing the opportunities. This video has given me an extra kick to do the actions…and to revise my view on some basic daily things. Thank you ❤️

thank you this vid hit hard cause i’m struggling with eating healthier so this helps

Just wanted to say I love your channel. Thanks for all those positive vibe

Omg consistency! I was listening to all your podcasts and binge watching your videos ! I didn’t even started I know I’m going to eat well ❤

was scrolling through youtube waiting for you to post not going to lie!!!

God i started crying watching this it really resonated with me

This is gold! You’re doing such a great job with your content. I love Dylan James as well. Your work is apart of a paradigm shift of consciousness and I am so grateful to have found you. Thank you ❤

So true! You have to change your mindset and change who you’re hanging around too. 🙌🏽

Hell yes!!! Amazing video. I've been on a journey over the last few years to reprogram my shitty negative beliefs so that I could start taking action in my life, and exercises like parts work and inner child work have been IMMENSELY helpful for me. I've also done some heavy shadow work - the RU-vid channel The Diamond Net has some INCREDIBLE shadow work exercises that seriously changed my life. I would like to add something though, which is the concept of *tolerating uncomfortable emotions*. Yes, work on finding new ways to regulate yourself when difficult emotions like anxiety, fear, doubt, etc come up. And also: learn to notice and feel those feelings, and take courageous, uncomfortable action anyway. This comes from the practice of exposure therapy, or ERP. It's commonly used for folks with OCD (I am one of those folks), and learning this has seriously overhauled my life. Procrastinating and indulging distractions (like bingeing self-help content on youtube) are, for me, compulsive actions to help me avoid feeling anxiety, resistance, doubt, etc. And it works in the short term... but the thing is, when I do these compulsions, I'm teaching my brain that it's correct to feel anxious about the task I'm supposed to be doing, which makes it even harder to do the next time I sit down to do the thing. There are lots of great resources out there on how to do ERP, so I'll leave that to the professionals. Whether you have OCD or not, if this video feels applicable to you, I'd hiiiiighly recommend trying it out in tandem with working on reprogramming your beliefs. It'll accelerate your progress because not only will you learn how to take action independently of your discomfort, but it'll also help create real-life positive evidence to reinforce those new beliefs you're working on. There will probably be MORE resistance at first, but if you can hang in there and realize that's kinda the point... Your self-confidence will skyrocket and you'll finally be able to get out of your own way.

Okay, this is a video I’m gonna need to take really seriously. This isn’t casual anymore I got a notebook and pen. This kind of knowledge isn’t something you just listen to and feel good about. These are instructions (well all her videos are instructions but you get what I mean) Thank you for this video

I appreciate you so much. Found your channel about a week ago and you’ve already helped me start changing my mindset on a lot of things and heal some wounds. Thank you beautiful💕

Wow I love your videos so much!! These are amazing. I’m obsessed with your channel.

This is literally one of the most helpful videos I've watched on this topic, thanks for sharing your wisdom ❤

i found ur channel last week and nowim obsessed already, amazing tips and really classy girl xxxx

Thank you so much! Your entire channel is so helpful and you make me believe in me, maybe I can actually accomplish my goals ✨

My problem is just that I want SO MUCH. I want to be good at violin I want to know how to play like 10+ instruments, I want to have all As in school, I want to learn Japanese and be a high school exchange student, I want to be amazing at soccer, go pro, and win the World Cup! I want to start a RU-vid channel, I want to learn how to figure skate, learn martial arts, be good at art. It’s just so much and I don’t know how to make a routine without getting overwhelmed and burning out :(

PS: Sorry if my english suck, i'm from Brazil so english isn't my main language. Hi, I discovered your channel and subscribed completely unpretentiously, and since then no video has spoken to me as much as this one. I'm 22 years old and 2022 was a year of many changes and very complicated situations that needed a lot of my energy and needed a lot from me, and many times I found myself trapped in a cycle of insecurity, anguish and not being able to give up the belief that I won't be able to accomplish anything, but this video was an eye opener in many ways, you said a lot of things that I needed to hear and didn't know I needed to, so thank you so much for sharing your thoughts, opinions and wisdom with us.

I'm early ohhh and I love it how you go into depths of this video. Thank you.❤️

As soon as you mentioned Teal Swan I geeked, absolutely love her and would not be the version I am without her. Thank you for sharing your wisdom girl🥰❤️

I love you energy. I want be just like you when I grew up! although I almost thirty. You make me think about a lot of things and how I should be better for myself first not just for others. I hope the channel will only grow and more people hear you. The best wishes for next year!

Such good advice!!! Would love to see a video on confidence.

I needed to hear this so badly.

I’ve just binge watched your videos and I can relate to you soooooo much😭 we also have the same name and star sign God sent me your channel

I love the energy you have in this video! You have got your shit together. Congratulations! and thanks for making this video btw

This video is a GAME CHANGER. Thanks a lot.

Wow I needed this 100% gave me so much clarity

you are an angel❤

i love your videos. they’ve been so helpful to me. thank you ❤ you’re so great at what you do.

Found your channel and i love it

I appreciate your approach, your direct. Your examples support your point. Thank you for the video! Your content is a blessing 💙

Please make a video on body confident

Your videos help me so much Keel rocking girl more Power to you Love you ✨❤️

Finding your channel during cap season feels aligned 😂 Love this type inspiration 💪 Let’s get to work, we are capable 🌈

Watching dream life videos but this one felt different. Since I was a kid I would always think others were smarter n better than me n I can’t do it even tho my parents told me I can n teachers but I think it was bc there was 1 or 2 big tests every year that we would take in school but I never passed them so maybe that’s probably why I thought I was dumb but last year I took two big tests biology and history and if I failed them then I couldn’t go to the next grade so I told myself no matter what I need to pass theses tests and I did lol I was so happy and surprised so that really had a big impact on my mindset if I put my mind to it I can do it. Tbh I think I wasn’t working as hard as I should have when I was a kid so now I am always putting in the hard work so I can get what I can and should have. Thank you for this video I related to it a lot and still working on my self talk!💜 #wecandoanything

Wow really amazing video with so much value. So if I want to gain confidence I guess follow this advice and formula too?

I love your videos!!

Being on survival mode all the time really sucks, my inner child just always seem exposed. I want my inner child safe and protected deep within me, I just hate people who are always creating danger that you can’t protect yourself from.

Very powerful video. Thank you for sharing with us.

you're helping me sm! thank u sm. I hope your channel continues to grow more and more. kisses from Brazil 🇧🇷🤍

Thank you very much, i love that💖💖

this vid was so needed😭my goal is to socialised more and create new friendships. i'm quite a shy person naturally which has being preventing me for monthssss and i'm at my last year of school so i really want to make the most of it. i would like to know how the subconscious child plays into my situation, like what did you mean by that?

can you make more videos about taking the path of least resistance? I am so interested in this.

This video is exactly what I needed. When I heard you talk about manifesting and aligning all parts of yourself and creating a new world through your new beliefs, I knew this my entire life but never knew how to act on it! Constant turmoil because I discovered my inner self and it was hard for me to relate to people my age I didn’t connect 100% but at a young age I knew how I felt but it almost made it worse! And that’s because I never acted on any of it, I didn’t know how to move forward. I was in a multiple year situation were I was just thinking, researching, worrying, and being so negative. I didn’t know which path to take after getting my associates degree. And somehow I lost everything I worked on inside because I let myself freak out about making the correct choice. I wish I knew early how to ACT! But hey I’m here now and hearing you SAY all of this out loud if truely what I need I’m at a breaking point of just pure stagnation no action to the point of deferment to myself and my closest relationships. So Thank you. I really appreciate how clear you are, direct but empathetic and it just makes sense. You don’t over or under explain it’s f*cking great!!!! So hey I’m glad I discovered you and thank you for being the bad ass version of yourself so that your able to help other girls become women!!!

Oh My God this is me!! I read the law of attraction book when I was 13-14 then i started thinking and thinking, which didn't do anything for me cause when it was time to take action I am a very lazy person and a very big dreamer🙂

Thank you so much for this video :)

Thank you so so much for this 💓

loved your video! Do you maybe have a link to the video of the secret?

One thing about Alicia is with these kind of topics, I want to hear it from HER. I don’t want to hear it from some finance bro detached from humanity and engulfed by hustle culture. I want to hear it from Alicia Gogan. She has that mindset and vision to where she can actually see objective reality, she seeks truth, and she observes and responds to her environment then articulates knowledge regarding how to deal with and overcome circumstances, which are the things that prevent us from creating our own reality. Bruh

Happy Monday😁👋

I found your channel at the perfect time ❤

Thank you😢💖

thank you for this video, i needed it

Cn u make another video explaining step by step on how to take aligned action

Great content as always ❤

I love ur videos Elicia💝

Great video!

Girllll i just love this. Im reaching to start youtube.

oooohhhh 100K. .. any second babe 🎉🎉

hi lovie!