Why Your Baby Mama/Baby Daddy Is Still Bitter & Toxic 

Do not entertain them. If they moved on and they’re not happy, especially if they’re in a relationship. Then that’s on them. Keep grinding king and queens

Block them problem solved mine been blocked for years now. She did it all and tried it all she gets no attention from me

Yeah I didn’t want too, but I’m going the court route so I don’t have to deal with my child’s mother. Bitter BM can’t a have civil conversation without it becoming a argument

Wow! You said it, very very TRUE! It really is "Pitiful and Pathetic ", and truly toxic...they exist...and like you said, DONT ALLOW IT! It is a control thing, and VERY common. I feel bad for all those dealing with 'these people'....thank you for this video. I happen to know A LOT(TOO MUCH) about the NARCISSIST ex, it's very disturbing to say the least...

Thank you so much for making a video that I can relate to, my child’s father is exactly how you explained but it’s crazy because we never been in a relationship and when I did want a relationship he wasn’t interested or would say “you never know what may happen in the future with us”.. so when I found out I was pregnant I cut ties emotionally and relationship wise and wanted to co parent successfully and effectively but he has been making simple things super difficult, he always has and attitude and idgaf type attitude and it’s stressful I just want to be able to be in the same room and not argue and be able to have a decent conversation... he is a wonderful father to a extent that I feel I was used for a baby.. but as you said he “picks” at little things pertaining to our child and makes everything difficult 😒

Omg this is my babys father. He abandoned our daughter for 8 years. Went on to have 4 more kids in 4 years while living in the same state, town, and nearby areas as our child and still neglected her in every way possible. When he returned 8 years later I was stupid and I became apart of his circus. I tried to be with him and it was a huge mistake. When I realized I couldn't get comfortable with the relationship he became extremely spiteful while using our daughter to get under my skin. I would allow her to spend time with him and his 4 kids and he would block me from calling her, hover over her when I was able to call, and refuse to communicate with me on when she was coming back or anything. I tried and it didnt work but the spiteful jerk hates me and wants to hurt me far more than he cares about our daughter. She has to suffer for it and that's not fair. This situation has been so stressful. So much so that he was my first "baby daddy" but he taught me not to have another man like him in my nor my daughter's life. Shout out to the mature and reasonable fathers. The bitterness isn't reserved for the mother's because I have a 100% bitter baby daddy. Please make more videos pertaining to this because while there are bitter baby mamas there are equally as many bitter deadbeat baby fathers.

Its been almost a month since we broke up and I did avoid talking to him for weeks and right now I was texting him telling him about our child's health but he shifted the blame on me and started making everything about himself and not about our son now I decided to keep quiet for good and be silent

100% true Man U need more views bro and thumbs up it’s dead on.

I needed to hear this today. My BD called me asking about how many weeks pregnant I am and a lot of other questions I was so happy that it seemed like he wanted to get involved until he called me the next day asking me to sleep with him. then he disappeared after I told him no. He is Bitter and he has no life just sad. I will be blocking him or just ignoring him until the baby arrives.

Me and my baby mama cannot get along whatsoever it's always fighting and arguing it's always her way it's no way it's always something man need some kind of bodies advice on this one been dealing with this for 2 years now my son will be too December 30th please hit me back

Going thru this right now and gave 3 kids with her 🤦🏽‍♂️I need help

Thank you so much for this 🙏 I really needed it.

Would yo agree, that in some form (sick), the are bitter because they want you bakc, of curse they wont say it, but this is a way to push you to kinda come back?. Thats what I think. My bbm, is in another relasionship, she still mess with my visitation, after 1 year apart, she kepps meesing all about it. All I can come UP with is that. Im single living good. Working on my self. She keeps doing all this.

My kids dad hate me he abandoned me , he just don’t want peace even married he still talk abt me

Thank you for this video❤Gratitude

Appreciate the wisdom brotha 🙏 💯

At this point I just don’t know what to do. My sons father makes thing difficult for absolutely no reason. He refuses to communicate about things like childcare, where my son is, and insurance. For instance, it was his weekend to get my son & he was supposed to drop my son off to my mom. He refused to answer my call/text when I asked what time he would drop him off. I literally had to call his mom yo find out that she had my son. He keeps me in the dark about everything and just does what he wants. I’m exhausted. When I mention it to him, he gets verbally aggressive. Every single time we exchange our son there’s an issue & he won’t answer his phone.

I appreciate you I wish I would have watched this video a year and a half ago I was gaslighted intimidated assaulted and just straight disrespected and my baby father use my son as a weapon against me until I put a stop to it now we finally smooth but because he knows where I live he pops up from time to time and he got a girl too that he brings over to my house to fight me hopefully I'll be able to move soon thank you again for your words and encouragement

Fantastic video and facts

Thank you

Chille my dude bby mama wanna stay connected so bad lol.. my dude have told her that his kid and me is his priority… she dripping in envy.. my dude have excluded her big time… no small talk.. nothing

86 is the way

Yes I agree!

My son father call his own child bastard an mistake an say he not during shit now he mad 9 years later on child support

I don’t agree with that because coparenting is the best way for Child talking problems out is better to the child .. All the use to fight all the time and I don’t like talking to neither... i don’t think cutting out Conversation is not the best. Somethings to one parent another parent step in

I’m going through it right now and she kicking me out

U didn't link it, weak @4:40

Your thinking is soft dog not gonna lie

86 is the way