BINGOOOOOO!! Then him asking her for a ride home.. why can’t he take a Lyft if he got so much money.. then she went in his house without even properly knowing him!!! I was done after hearing that part!
He said he had options and that he’s not pressed. I’m still trying to figure out how either one of those statements could have been true or what he thinks being pressed means cuz buddy had wayyy too much time on his psychotic hands!
That's all they ever do is project. They're insecurity. And they really are the ones that need us. I see how lonely man act when they don't have a woman. Even god said man should not be alone. We can handle being alone.
He’s definitely the type that would unalive a BW for rejecting him. And why hasn’t he found a wife in Columbia if they’re so great? They don’t want him either. They just want their $40 and for you to leave.
He’s dealing with h🍊🍊kers not real Columbian women and the towns where the passport dudes are traveling to are watching their behavior and warning everyone around them to steer clear of these guys. They will really end up not finding wives if they are halfway decent even. Sleeping with 20 h🍊🍊kers? Imagine being a Columbian beach or hotel worker and witnessing this / they will tell their families this is BM are doing.
The craziest part to me is that he was literally in another country SLEEPING WITH random women and has the audacity to be insulted by HER actions saying he needs "stability". Sick.
Those were obviously women of the night whom he paid. That’s the reason he’s mad at the Black woman. He’s used to paying women for sex and since he allegedly took her on an ‘expensive’ date but didn’t get to sleep with her he feels cheated.
She has no standards if she argued with him at the first insult. She’s feeding a narcissist everytime she responds. Block immediately. And then when he bypasses the block that’s when you start filing police reports. NEVER FEED A NARC.
@@jakestroll6518 She should have blocked him and threatened to call the police if he kept contacting her. I wish more women would cut off their attention once they are disrespected. It is good that she didn't sleep with him though.
I swear, y'all find fault in anything we do. She does has standards. Instead of saying she doesn't have standars( don't know how in the world u came to that conclusion by hearing what he said after all the blocking) u should say how wrong he was and that's it. @@jakestroll6518
@@jakestroll6518Also, are u not looking in the screen that she blocked him 11 times? It's so irritating always reading comments from some of u when we can do everything rite, a person gives a compliment about them and one of u find fault anyways.
I mean she tried that lol. Even blocked him. He kept making new numbers. I honestly get why maybe she said something bc sometimes being silent can make these men even more mad and come looking for you. So maybe saying anything she thought she could get him to stop. v idk just speculating tho@jazzthomas9474
😂 They really have a sore spot about being rejected by blackW. That's why it's so much different from when we date out as opposed to when they do. They date out because they resent us and our rejection.
Lol. I had a black man at my job approach me and i said “sorry, i don’t date people from work” and he was 40 something (im 22) so he wasn’t my type. He was like “see this is why us black men leaving yall. Always playing hard to get unlike women who aren’t black “ . I said “okay! Enjoy that” with a smile. And he went clean off into a rant about black women. I guess my kind nature made his blood boil even more. I walked off and told the supervisor about his disturbance.
These Fresh and fit types are going to help a lot of men remain single. Also didn’t these types of guys say they wanted a traditional women, news flash traditional women do not kiss or have sex on the first date. These men are not well.
Girl, they don’t know what a traditional woman is and they’re definitely not providing traditional men. Eww and he thinks someone would want him after a whole weekend of smashing heaux? She was favored by The Most High that he let his mask slip off😂
This woman is incredibly smart. She peeped an intro to a love bomb that she didn’t want anything to do with and it uncovered a master narcissist. She dodge a whole machine gun. Wow.
The moment he told her he was "vacationing" in Colombia, she should have blocked him. All this guy knows how to do is pay for sex. I doubt he has ever had a stable, healthy relationship with a woman.
This guy is unhinged and I believe he was stalking her for manyyyyyy months before he went out with her. For him to be THIS bent out of shape is beyond this first date. He had plans for this girl. He had devious plans all mapped out for months, possibly a year or more. 💥
He proved that BM are transactional when it comes to dating. If they spend a little money on you, they expect something in return. If they dont get it, you're a gold digger. Dude, just say your'e broke and keep it moving.
I personally know black men that will never date black women only sleep with them. Then called them whores when they’re done. I think because they’re the most subjugated men on the planet the only way they feel any power is by disrespecting women of their own race while elevating non-black women. I’ve seen this in person. Those women are getting the same black men black women get though.
The self deletion on the male populace is high. The manosphere and redpill community has the upper hand in it. But those communities don't care because those podcasts were made by men who score easy on women in order to make money on views.
Him continuously calling her “easy/ loose/ just a f’ while he was out the country being easy, loose and just a f*** is baffling!!! I honestly believe he was projecting his worst qualities on her.
He is having a mental breakdown. This is a broken man with no purpose in life and everything in his life amounts to nothing. We are witnessing a mental breakdown. He is one day going to end up in the news after unaliving someone
It is more annoying because money is meant for spending- a date is rarely ever more than 200 bucks…my partner (just so happens to be white) never whined about how much he spends. We have been together for a while and he still rather pay for the date. Lol. It isn’t that big of a deal for him at all
@@Shay-rx4xu Exactly!! They are not mentally stable! It's even dangerous at this point, they are hypnotized and desensitized to violence from listening to drill rappers talking about murders like it's nothing.
@@lita-stylesthat's my thinking I would have changed my number; deactivated my social media as well. Yes it's a pain to give out your new number to family and friends but it's better than this..
I know y’all are not saying she should have blocked him, y’all stop responding blah blah! Did y’all not watch the video? She blocked all those numbers and he kept making new ones and harassing her and disrespecting her! Y’all may be part of the problem! He clearly gives unaliving vibes and unhinged behavior and weirdo vibes! I hope he gets what he deserves from his preferences
Agreed …why keep going back & forth when he clearly is mentally unstable. That’s my only feed back…just contact the police immediately. You can’t reason with crazy.
@@leekhototrot2258 Sadly, those are the last thoughts of Black women who thought that of the Black men who unalived them. Black women are unsafe with some Black men.
A black woman raised this man. So if there really is 'black femicide', black women are partially to blame - they had a hand in raising these people committing the femicide.
@@Prismatic9008 Did u really watch, b/c she actually was NOT going back & forth w/ him. He hit her # up from SEVERAL DIFFERENT #'s continuing his rant, THO SHE WASN'T RESOINDING TO HIM.
He is dangerous. For someone who has options, he should have moved on by now. 11 phone number changes just to vent and cry about the same stuff over and over again is psychotic. He has some serious mental issues. Getting this upset over someone you went on one date with not saying I miss you too is beyond scary.
My uncle is a certified psychopath and talks just like this. Started all this ish in our house and, now that we're moving on. He went crazy talking about how we don't care for him no one loves him and on and on playing victim. Crazy rages they love going back and forth with you they want need a reaction.
Red flag counter: 1. Said things she wasnt okay with during date 2. Said he wanted to give her(a stranger) three kids 3. Tries to kiss her on said first date. 4. Tries to kiss her multiple times after she said no. 5. Tries to commandeer her time with going to the bar, asking her to take him home, and asking her to come in. Not to mention she felt she had to give him a ride home because he paid for her valet. 6. Doesn't take NO for an answer when she doesnt want to come in. 7. He says "I miss you" after hanging out once (lovebombing) 8. Passive aggressive (answering "K" instead of communicating 9. Obsessive behaviour and harassment (incessant calling/messages and making new numbers to keep texting her) 10. Verbal abuse 11. Projecting 12. Delusional 13. Focusing on her assets and sexual prowess as a measure of her worth. 14. Racist and misogynistic 15. Lashes out in anger and has no EQ or emotional regulation. I'm confused, do these men really think insulting a woman and harassing her is going to make her change her mind and want to be them?
@@j.m.edwards1183 The way my mouth hung open when she didn't leave after he kept trying to kiss her. She said she just got out of a relationship and is trying to date for fun but I think she should be focusing on herself and going to therapy because she kept letting him walk all over her boundaries.
Honestly he thought it was working when she kept replying he started turning down the heat a little and then ramped back up. When he saw she wasn’t moving
The whole time... all I could say was: "HOW DOES HE HAVE MORE TO SAY?! He could've written a series of novels with all the words he wasted harassing her and trying to insult her. He's SO stuck on her saying she didn't know how to respond 😂.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 he really liked her. These dudes are so weird thinking that they will get a decent Black woman by being mean af. That's how low they see us. He would never do this to a White woman.
U know what's the saddest part.... more black women are treated like this than men know. This is a snap shot to explain why we say the dating pool is shitty.
@asiad7175 That's absolutely frightening cause she may endure the behavior by trying to be supportive. The gaslighting in his rant is truly disgusting and disturbing
And crying about $500. Then has the nerve to say if Drake took her out would she have said I don't know how to respond, but the kicker is if Drake had taken her out and she said that Drake would not be pressed over a $500 dinner bill. 🤣🤣
Hi everyone, this is my video, I haven’t watched Yanie’s commentary yet, but I thank you all in advance for supporting messages. I know that I made unwise decisions during this first date, but I hope that you can view my situation with empathy and understanding. Thanks for spreading the message. I’d love to go live with you and explain/clarify things and also admit my mistakes.
That mf is crazy 😮, im glad you told your story. Please get you one of them thang thangs cuz he give me stalker vibes like he a be somewhere waiting in the bushes waiting for u to come outside so he can attack you. Please be careful cuz i honestly feel hes not done with the bs. I literally hate unhinged ppl, its like dude get help.
For the young ladies, please stop getting in the car or going to the home / inviting to your home men you just met. Stay in public settings. No need to rush. Give it time to see true colors. People can only pretend for so long. Going to his home could have resulted in her d3ath. People are out here with deep rooted problems.
Exactly. I noticed a lot of what she said didn't align with her actions. She said she wanted to take things slow but continued the date to a second location and ultimately his apartment despite it being the first time they met. She said her intuition eluded to her something was wrong and ignored some red flags she noticed initially at the restaurant, but still remained in contact with the man after the date. This begs me to ask why she continued to entertain this man at multiple locations on the date night and over text. It's sad she had to learn the lesson this way. I just hope she got what she need to from it to not go through that again.
@@peacejoylove8542 I hate that she went back in forth with him. He's a psychopath they love getting a reaction from you. The fact that she entertained this says something about her. Some people or drawn to trauma, red flags, and dysfunction. She did all this with him for free and he is verbally abusive this is abuse.
The "I want to give you three kids" on a first date, trying to kiss her multiple times after she said no, asking for a ride home, and inviting her over to the apartment on the first date are ALL red flags. This is WILD. The men out here in these streets have astronomical levels of audacity. This is frightening, to say the least.
Right! Especially trying to kiss after a firm no. That right there says he doesn't respect boundaries, ain't no way I would've shared acar ride or gone to his house after that.
Yeah, that was the scary part. There's no telling what he would have done. It's way too risky to go to anyone's home you don't know. Even if you know them, you have to be careful. I wish she had have went straight home after the date
A man who uses the phrase "golddigger" is almost always broke ! She overlooked so many 🚩🚩 its ridiculous. 1. Talking about impregnating you on the first date instead of his plans for marriage and kids. 2.Asking for a ride. 3. Asking you to come into his place. 4. Talking about the future too soon.
EXACTLYYYYY. Those were no-no's on both of their parts. As a woman, she has to be vigilant in regards to her safety. She has to be more careful. He, on the other hand, should NOT date. He's unhinged and dangerous.
He keeps saying she asked to go to Nikki Beach, but HE was the one who suggested that. He told her not to go without him and wait until he comes back to go together. Got to love how they twist conversations and situations to victimize themselves.
he calls you a B, calls you a silly goose, he calls you bro, he's psychooooooo. omg these men are competing with us, "Imagine if drake took you out" huh???? he thinks he's above youuuu. omg this is too much.the verbal abuse is too much.
Once he called her bro...that was one of the major red flags for me. Then mentioning the I want to give you three baby's (A ball and chain life sentencing of struggle love)..RED FLAG! He's talking about babies before getting to know her. Didn't even mention marriage. What's his sexual preference is (Whether he has engaged in an intimate relationship with another male etc... Listening to her... He sounds like he's a Manosphere passport blk male womanizer.
And never let anyone know you live alone too. My cousin used to tell dudes when they asked and she would say no I live with two others, Smith and Weston( her gun)
If I had a dollar for every time he said “Nikki Beach”. 😂😂😂 He’s definitely spiraling. He’s really unwell, and I don’t mean that pejoratively. He’s literally harassing this woman. Over less than 10 words.
He’s super pressed because she didn’t say I miss you too. 😢 This is sad and scary, but I’m kinda giggling 🤭 at the fact that she sent him a link to betterhelp. He absolutely needs psychotherapy and probably medication. 😩🤦🏾♀️😮💨
That’s the craziest ish to me, cause when someone says they miss me when I know for a fuckn fact they have not tried to hit me up or make any contacts with me. Then I’ll automatically believe you are a liar, cause if I miss someone genuinely I will definitely contact them. I don’t lie if I miss someone
Explains everything, they tell men to use women, but don't teach them how to handle rejection, he clearly does not have many options and is genuinely unhinged!
If a man calls you a gold digger it’s because he can’t afford to date you, and he knows it. He’s trying to make you feel like you need to prove you’re not interested in money. When women fall for that, they will accept the man being cheap and putting in little effort. He needs to bring your standards down so you are accessible to him. It’s game. Do not allow a man to manipulate your perception like that. Keep your standards. If a man can’t meet them, he’ll improve his situation to get you, or he’ll leave you alone.
A man's insult towards a woman usually reveals a lot about his insecurity if the woman is paying attention rather than be easily offended. A broke useless man calling any woman a gold digger, should be taken as the compliment it is.
You only had one date with this guy. You didn't even know each other, but he's talking at you like his boot has been on your neck 5+ years. All this crap is why I stopped dating 100% 8 years ago. My only regret is I didn't stop 15 years ago.
@@raechelle1985yea but we are talking about him rn which is a man. I love how women hold everyone accountable but men need to be discussed sometimes by themselves
I hope BW develop the habit of not repeating themselves and stop 'splaining to men. Let your Yes be Yes, and your "No" means "No." The "do not engage," walk away and block game must be on point. Edit: according to the bible, anything more than a simple yes or no, you're conversing with a debbil spirit
He just wanted to hit it and quit it and she rejected him. So he’s throwing a tantrum because he didn’t get a chance to hurt her. He couldn’t do it physically so he’s trying to do it mentally smh. But he’s still failing miserably and he’s enraged 😂
This may be the most unhinged story I’ve ever heard. He is definitely dangerous, deranged and possibly homicidal. She should have stopped replying after the first disrespectful text. She needs to get some protection at this point.
Imma need women to start practicing the art of stopping talking.....one thing in common with these stories are women who keep engaging with unhinged men, I will dissappear on you like a CIA opp lol
She blocked him several times. I have been In This situation before. I block EVERY NUMBER. l eventually had to change my number. It’s like blocking robo calls. They are going to call you from another number.
I recently blocked a 40 year old alleged passport bro. He infantilized me and told me that I am innocent and "don't know how the world works" despite me being 27 years old. I like Kpop and this annoyed him and he messaged me videos of how "inferior" Asian men are. He said that black men are the most saught after and constantly bragged about his "assets". He also said he travels to Africa a lot and would be able to come see me (I am South African). Now that I think of it he often bragged about having a lot of female friends here in Africa which made me suspect that hes a passport bro. When he got angry at me he spoke just like this guy and I did not like it which is why I blocked him after he refused to stop.
I'm South African too, these American men are everywhere in Sandton subsidizing their dollar to live a soft life they can't afford in the USA. I can spot them from a mile away... They're pathetic.
Legion was a compulsive liar but I don’t think he was evil. Btw, I think Legion is truly mentally ill. This man in this video is just plain mean spirited.
Jerome doesn't like women at all. He was disgustingly rude and deplorable and only blamed her for things she didn't do, which displayed his disdainful and "delightful" behaviour. He sounds.... like he wasn't THAT interested in school or participating in education... and he certainly missed the critical thinking skills class required to communicate with other human beings.
Why do these dudes sound like 5 yr old boys when they dont get the fire truck they were promised in a class gift exchange? She was polite, calm and like any rational person, she took her time. Then these dudes say that women are loose. She respected herself and presented herself as an honourable woman who knows what she is about. This man is crazy all because he did not get the desired reaction, but we all know its mainly because he didn't get the pum pum.
All he had to say when she mentioned the not texting her the whole time while on his trip until recently is. "I'm sorry I got caught up and kept forgetting to shoot a text" that was his first mistake. But I'm glad he showed his ass before she really got involved. Irrational people can't help but be irrational and crazy.
It's amazing how us American women are both terrible sluts and horrible puritans. 😅 I need a bitter baby man to please tell me what I am before I have an identity crisis.
