Will Men Choose Woman Based On Looks Or Personality? 

​@@mariasol1545true shxt

​@@mariasol1545 I'm a man and I'd argue the same thing, I've never heard a woman saying "The crazy d*ck is worth it" or "The d*ck is worth his craziness" but I've definitely heard it the other way around from other men lol

​@@mariasol1545Both genders do this in equal measure. Chad and Tyrone wouldn't be a meme if women didn't do it often.

@@mariasol1545nah both men and women lol

cope

Woman do to. Lol

😂 I'd say "Looks" with a "are they an asshole" scan to their behavior in public

​@@mikethepokemaster2012women be like: His personality is tall. 😂😂

​@@markstriker925😂😂 this cancels the idea that women like what we hear. I do like what I see and the truth is many men aren't even saying what we want to hear, we just go along with who we like even if aliens on Mars can see he's a douche

​@@markstriker925 😂😂😂

I'm Cancer and I second that

that actually made me vomit.

everything about him tbh 🤣

I thought he said he was the autistic type.

made me mad cus it hit

oh i thought he said depth 😂

@@niallharrison8180 In this case they are related and both apply.

@@barongerhardt fair point i suppose just didn’t think it was so grim lol

Yup! Couldn't relate more! 😅 I hate over the top bubbly and optimistic people with a passion 😂

​@@iulia.bianca.b Hating happy people is insane 💀

Those are the normal people. I have never met anyone in the past 37 years of my life that chose me based on my personality.

Exactly, nobody normal would go on these shows XD

Not people*. 😂😂

@@OneximusVerseAIPp

Of course they're not normal they're americans

That line should be on a shirt, with some zodiac sign drawing haha

😂😂😂he came in aggressive w that comment! Preach is hilarious

I don't understand retrograde in this comment

I lost weight too since making sweets just made me see how much sugar I'm putting in there. Rather than swiping my card and feasting...

@@natemorts8907 yes! And i feel like they put something extra in the premade goods lol like it would make my cravings worse

I used to own a vegan restaurant & bakery that specialised in allergy friendly and healthier options, but I don’t bake at home for myself because then I end up eating the entire thing 😅

@@artbygilik 😂😂😂 i try to ration my treats over the course of a week. Which is easier for heavier sweets like cheesecake or pie’s but harder for cookies.

@@WarmSun_MGM right?! I once made a flourless black bean brownie so I convinced myself that it's high protein healthy, and the thing was gone within a day 😆

If u ain't energetic or don't have many plans going on I could see her leaving right away.

LMAO nah facts

Omg I hate ppl like that

Avoid her like a loose rottweiler.

Who hurt you

Third eye man

You see their blue hair, tattoos, piercings, crazy eyes and makeup, bull ring, RBF, etc etc

If you're a mbikudi...you actually do.

Buddhists and Yogis can train the mind to see personality first. Decade of training hard. At least. Start with Alan Watts , then Ram Dass

People that say they're interested in personalty first are lying, period. At the end of the day, a romantic relationship will involve sex, so you HAVE to be attracted physically to the other person. While it's true that you could fall in love with someone you wouldn't "normally" find physically attractive, it's definitely not the norm/human nature.

Already on it.

What about respecting Pussy-cats?

@ilovecats7626It's contextual

Come on man Youlovecats so you gotta love this joke on pussynality😂 @ilovecats

"Underdog....put it on a T-shirt"

Plot Twist! I’m screaming. 😂

why, she was probably turned on by it. 💊

Shit now I got to be not as good but still better than her. Girls don't want a guy they're better than

Unless she gets really competetive, then all bets are off

Axe throwing is a really good date idea I never thought of. Do you think a guy would be turned off if a woman suggested this for a date?

Unless you are a surgeon, then i call liar.

Most women care ab both but if a hot dude has a shy personality they won’t stay ong

@@bbailey3055 and thus why both go hand in hand. Personality without looks is like looking at a book. And looks without personality is like reading a magazine. That is why people like movies. I think of M in casino royale. “Any thug can kill. I want you to take your ego out of the equation. And to judge the situation dispassionately.” Anyone can be pretty but to have a good personality is less common.

I'd say there's a ratio for everyone. I personally value appearance like anyone else (who would want to have sex with someone you don't find attractive at all?) but I truly think (at least for me) personality definitely weighs more. Looks only take you so far long term.

I'm not picky. Weight is the only thing that trumps personality for me. Call me out. Say I'm a liar. Whatever. I'll ride or die with an ugly woman who gets it over a pretty one who doesn't any day.

Oh, that's a nice way to say that. Now I'm hating her less 😂😂

Her personality is so bubbly.. she met that blonde hair type stereotype

@Dakyta252 what did she do that is worth being hated for apart from being happy?? I swear yall are some bitter and miserable people

Holy shit I hate when you people say golden retriever energy.

​@@johnysharki5694 You're in RU-vid. Everyone's BEEN a hater here and there

Yes thats always my goal when baking, I want to indulge in desert but which also is good for the body. I love adding pumpkin seeds!

You master the oven. I mastered the grill and smoker. Meeting in that middle is culinary delight.

Watch your tongue

That would be me. I learned how to bake keto breads and cakes and pastries when my sis wants to lose weight. She had a sweet tooth and can't live without her pastries and breads. I run and rock climb so there's that😅

You know damn well that means Instagram and if it hasn't happened already, Only Fans is soon to follow.

​@@jackson102881.. only fools! that's exactly what I was thinking only fools

Yeah, it's a bit of a red flag

We need that story😂

Just the one?not in a batch?

I make batches of cookie dough, portion them out to cookie size, and freeze them lol. I will bake one cookie 😂

@@meechynailedit Maybe it was one of those BIG, BIG cookies.

@@EricaYE6 Pizza sized cookie?

Because people dont have any these days. Thats why everyones either clout chasing or has an only fans

Bro, looks get your attention first; personality keeps you interested long enough to see their character and substance. You cant get a sense of someone’s character without watching them long enough to really know them.

Well, character and substance are assumed when saying personality because they are often the building blocks for how ones personality turns out. But I get what you are saying. It's just that most people intrinsically assume that is apart of the "whole" for what is _unseen,_ when people say looks or personality.

@@JAMAICAN876Yes! Exactly.

Most people just think of character substance and personality as synonyms.

Did you even watch the original video, or just this one? Judging content based off of a reaction video is not legit.

Remember: Just don't be poor. And don't be sick while we are here.

He should become psychologist

​@@TyonKree😂😂🤣

Maybe take some initiative and join up with a nice stable benzene structure? Ester was so last weekend anyway, just get you some diels-alder and you will be good to go I reckon.

I mean... Someone seeming warm and open can help with being nervous to commicate with them. Being poor or sick does not fall into the same category.

Bro that 22 year old “omg everything is awesome“ energy is just too much for me.

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Indeed 😂😂

Yeah! This girl’s personality is annoying asf. I wouldn’t stand out it for even 10 minutes.

19 and have been tired of it for a couple of years now, but you know at my age most people are still somewhat like that, so I will just need to manage.

⚔️ Sword fight 😅

Pause. 🤣🤣

If you're forcing yourself to date someone you don't find attractive its just gonna be an unhealthy relationship. Honestly, do people really wanna date someone who doesn't find them attractive? I really wouldn't.

It's the same for women. Except they value things like income, height, and status as well. In both cases, personality and character come after

Girls are a lot more shallow then give off anyway so no need to explain yourself. Both genders are incredibly shallow in some areas

Lol, as a homely woman (I look like Dan Aykroyd and Rose O'Donnell's love child), personality and looks both matter, in my opinion. Especially when it comes to dating long-term. I've dated some nice-looking men, but they had the personalities of toy poodles on Crack. Needy neurotic bullies who were extremely shallow. Both personality and looks are the rare unicorn you should be looking for, hon.

​@@Ash_Wen-li if all women are like this then i want none, it be that way, value me for me, not my income, they can make their own income.

I wasn't that energetic at that age. Then again, I'm average looking so...

@@NotAdultingTodaysome women just be like that, its not necessarily an age thing, its more a general personality trait. i know women in their 60s who are still super energetic

She's like a ray of sunshine, but I heard her very clearly. She doesn't like negativity and probably isn't equipped for it. When things go bad she probably gets going.

​@@NotAdultingTodayhmu

She moved too fast like techno. 539

Ps: you don't need somebody with a little hater, you want somebody who has lived life and actually been through shit, yet still works hard to be happy..somebody maintaining that _balance_ who also has wisdom and logic. They can have fun, but they don't always have to be out to have a good time. They have a comfortable, easy going attitude and can adjust as necessary. That's what I feel most men need. She also needs to motivate you to be a better man and to _want_ to do things you wouldn't otherwise do. If she doesn't make you feel that way, then either she isn't the one, or you aren't ready for a relationship and you need to work on yourself. _Or_ maybe you do want somebody with that beautiful, youthful happiness energy because to me it screams _I grew up in the perfect happy family... who happens to have LOTS of money and would never let their baby girl go without and would also help their future son inaw succeed in any way if they love him too._ 🤷🏼‍♀️ Just a thought! People who look THAT happy and have THAT MUCH ENERGY... they aren't hurting. BUT you gotta find the diffidence to be around that and make sure you don't bring her down at all in order to make it work. If you wanna step up to that, logically- you might wanna start therapy and work REALLY hard on yourself and if she truly likes you..don't fuck it up through self-deorication or self-sabotoge! This is how many people step up in life- and it's even rarer for it to be true love (whether it's a man or woman trying to emotionally connect to somebody on another level) Now something tells me he is already on her level 😂 but I'm speaking to the men who aren't (financially, and possibly in other ways) But just keep in mind that a young woman who is able to genuinely smile that hard, that often, and with that much energy- yeah they aren't hurting for 💵. And things probably just come to them easily, be it opportunity or just getting free shit and having lots of friends and a nice home etc..they have it goin in. Normal people don't smile and have that energy. 😂 Not like that. The only times I've EVER smiled like that are when I *didn't* have to worry about choosing rent/bills or food/toiletries/meds/etc! 😭😂 which is pathetic, but eyyy life's a bitch for those who don't have it easy! But you can still find an amazing woman who doesn't have money and have happiness without the struggle! I'm proof of that. I have a family and this July 8th it'll be 10yrs, and *knock on wood* we are starting to ret to a better place- but even when we've been struggling the most, we have always had unconditional love and two amazing son's and we laugh so much and hear I love you about a hundred times a day! When you find real love, you gotta hold onto it! And if it just _happens_ to come with those bonuses, then that is extra awesome and rare!

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you ok ?@@TheKatarinaGiselle

@@Riya-js1tc 😂 I'm great. Are _you_ okay? 😂 did you watch the entire video.. _and_ listen? I responded to what they said..

@@Graylord12 do you not find preach and aba to be funny? 😬 _Okayyyy_

Yeah that's actually what I thought they were going to do.

It would be more Hilarious it she was reveal to be fat and not good looking.

I actually liked this twist, it was an interesting video

Same, I would have been like “He wins 🏆 “

I was totally thinking that. I love key and peele it was such a missed opportunity for her to not say something like ‘nooooo I’m not coming back! Nooo!’

Facts

Yep. Men pay more attention to personality when they really want to settle down.

Well said, lovely. Sometimes, the more you get to know someone, the more beautiful they appear.

I’m a woman & same bro. Defs appearance noticed first. You need all ingredients for a good recipe tho so ofc have to have a good personality

​@@sababaratashvili8629 oh wow just like women?

Right!

It is a fake person, so you can at least see a silhouette and fool the viewers

@@user-jt4oy1tf3i Question is, between shots didn't the dudes notice anything weird? Like someone coming and leaving before and after the final reveal

@@jimbass2214 yes, i was wondering that too

Nah you know how many times ppl look past red flags because they’re gorgeous. Especially if they think they’ll never do better

​@@tony2trippy290 exactly

@@tony2trippy290 Emotional dependancy, fear of rejection and/or abandonment have nothing to do with looks.

@@tony2trippy290 That's their problem. Let em learn the hard way.

​@@tony2trippy290 That's true, but I think they mean the person with a great personality that enhances their looks is more likely to have a long lasting healthy relationship than a toxic gorgeous person. Amber Heard is a great example.

90% sure that's the corny, annoying button voice

Stop assuming others sexuality

Yeah, that high water wearing mofo! The whole episode he had me like where's the flood at.. 🚣

​@@Occ881wtf look at him😂

​@@Occ881why not? We make assumptions about other things

If a woman looks like Gorlock the Destroyer, you know that she has some personality problems too. A good attitude can turn any woman into at least a 7 if they have the mental strength to work out and stuff. I would definitely take the 7 that got there through self improvement than the 10 who thinks the world should bow to them just for existing.

I have never fenced cause there are no classes nearby where I live, but I would have loved that. I have always been into fencing

I like the escape rooms idea. I think it could be a decent indicator of compatibility if y'all can work together and make it out, rather than butt heads at every turn.

@@nigelbhebhe2805 true. just pick an easy escape room. most are designed for large groups, with only two people will be difficult to go through the whole thing. i do think interactive dates are a lot more interesting than just coffee or drinks

Are you still dating any of them? Did it work out long term.

@@patricialdv5220 still going out with escape room date. Other two went on a few dates but wasnt seeing it progressing anywhere

Oooohhh i like that!!

Here's a question: would you approach a woman if you thought she would reject you or take the risk anyways?

@@justacoginthefkery Yes. I have done this and been rejected before, twice. I can tell you that asking is better Choice. You might be a Little sad or embaressed for those few seconds of the day but it is better than spending nights overthinking someones feelings for you. I have done both and I know I'd take the first option again asking her out on the spot

Tell me you've never gone fishing without telling me you've never gone fishing. The line is just the opportunity that was cast in your direction. The lure is physical attraction. The hook is personality and shared values.

@@CrimsonWolf69 I see what you mean, then the fisherman would be the matchmaker

Even better😏😏 jk jk

Check out 2pac 1988 highschool interview. Your gaydar will overheat

@@Guus115 more like *blue pilled soyboy* back then. Then ♀nature *red pilled* the shit out of him. Nobody can *red pill* men faster than women. ♀

He was engaging, interesting, good conversationist. Come on now, don't be jealous.

@@dudeorduuude5211 You could say the same thing about many of the other guys

​@@cokemachine62590they didn't have the lightness and ease this guy did.

​@@cokemachine62590 Nah dude, if I was gay I woulda picked Horacio so easily, wouldn't even need the other interviews.

@@YodalemosYou don’t have to be gay to date a man. Don’t be phobic it’s 2024 bro

At some point you gotta do the deed, and it's sure to wear goggles so there you go

its not only about being "a good person" neither...a lot of good people can be boring, shallow or simply just not your match...

@@Threegreentails comparability is key, but often times people relate people being a “good person” to being good in a relationship so that’s why I said it like tht

women are mild, thereis no looks with them unless they are not fat.

I'm a woman and I don't care about looks, unless a man is attrocious looking or has a creepy vibe/ stare etc. I care about the character 99% of everything and how they treat me, can they cook or they're search a mommy to help them out with everything.

​​@@flyandshy00"unless they are atrocious" so he is right, you wouldn't date an ugly man.

@@flyandshy00we know what women think byt apearenceis not imprtant.the face is not symetric, the guy has to be tall, has to have good features, has to have money higher education.(Do u pay rent living in the others person house).YEah all the basic stuff, below that they are hidious.Good thing we dont use make up and filters

@@tristandimitrijev3195Not all women like the same things. For instance my ex was tall, made good money and was a sweet guy overall, but we didn’t have the same values. My current bf is “short,” has a lower paying job by comparison and sleeps in his car. I love him to death but by your logic, he wouldn’t be what women want. I care about looks, but I also care about their core being. My ex was shallow and we disagreed on a lot. My current bf has a heart of gold and we agree with each other on many things but challenge each other on some level as well. You think you know what women want, dude I don’t know what the woman next door to me wants. She has different opinions from me, and I have different opinions from the next lady over. Women are all different, men are all different. We ALL want DIFFERENT things.

Right 😂

I baked my husband snickerdoodles the other day😂

Exactly 😅 I just baked soft pretzels for my husband to snack on...

Facts, when you bake you just give it to other people lol, and I also make healthy desserts too

Used to be a professional pastry cook. Lmao felt personally attacked by their take. 😂

Lol I love to bake but I don't know about the others

Jeez... as if LA couldn't get any worse they had to drag LOTR into this too?

Been married a long time but pasta, hikes, and Mario cart sounds so dope

It's a pro sales tactic: get folks talking about themselves and talking about their needs. The worst salespeople come from the perspective of trying to sell you what they've got.

That’s a lot of money to spend on a first date

This first date is going to take all day!

It's a lot of money and sure it's gonna take all day but this is all stuff I ain't just doing to show off but all things I'd genuinely enjoy doing with someone and its pretty unique. Even if the date doesn't go super well, I'm still gonna be happy I ate out at nice places and did some cool things

You going to feed her twice in one day??! Yoooo,what you on??

Dude goes on a lot of first dates and the girls chalk it up as a free meal.

I don’t get people who say that, cuz I’ll randomly remember people I’m friends with aren’t white, and then I feel weird for forgetting about that, I am riddled with autism tho so that might be why

Comparing it to Riverdale was hilarious though even if she had nothing to go off of

@@vinsmoke_in_morioh I dont even know what Riverdale is haha

YES!!! I love finding healthy substitutions so that I can eat things I like often. Many things can be made without sugar and oil :)

Just realized my energy was young lol

It's still garbage. Fake sugars and glutenfree dough is still unhealthy

Na I seen that too

True, but it works.

@@rickyemiguel sadly yes

Anyone with experience would know he's a "smooth talker". Insufferable, yes

​@@elayne8258 i feel like hes trying too hard to be the stereotypical movie/tv show attractive latino dude

He's trying WAYYY too hard but I guess it works for him - another latino dude

Because they liked her personality? Different people like different things. Crazy concept

I found her personality exhausting

😂😂🤣

im 30 and wasent blessed with wife monet turned 18 and now im just fked becuase no good woman, they are all effing married or are not marrage material if over 18 and not.

@@NightmareRex6 bruh the married ones arent good lmao, they just captured their *simp* before they hit the ground. Theyll divorce them in 10 years and be back on the market in their 40s talking about "where all the good men" like these broads on tiktok 💀

Her sense of ASSets. Ok I'm done. I'm leaving.

birthday suit is cheaper and better.

@@markstriker925 no don't go 🙁

but its small-talk exoteric personality, not the atual esoteric personality, thats why should marry till like 4 or more years being togeather.