No they need to do this some women don’t have moms or family to help guide them . This is a good thing not a bad thing and this happens in every race btw!
Right? I’m supposed to believe I’m more selfish than these people blowing up families and cheating and lying and doing this all in front of their children? Spare me 🤦♀️
Exactly. Saying "there was no cheating she was just always there to take him back every time we broke up".... girl because she was always there just like you were. This man going back and forth between you and a chick from backpage and you keep having his babies, at least the other girl decided not to bring a child into this mess. 🤦🏾♀️
Yea. That’s why they said baby momma culture. She has no dignity, no self-worth ,no self-esteem, no value for herself, or morals. She has no boundaries whatsoever. Just sad.
They do because why tf would these women have baby’s with ain’t SHT men. They do it on purpose and play victim. I’m starting to realize the bs as well as
To men that don’t even have wives at that! That’s the crazy part! These men aren’t even making any legal decisions with any of these women- these women are dubbing themselves as “mains” and “wives” to men THEY ARENT MARRIED TO.
@LoveK1 Being a longtime girlfriend doesn’t make a woman any better either. When the live in idiot becomes pregnant FINALLY- he will play her and her kids by him too. Like who the hell would want to be with a dude that keeps having babies with some other idiot- while yall are “together”..? Come on now
Don't just blame the women. ALL parties involved, except the kids, like the dysfunction. No one is leaving. The only person benefitting is him. He's living the soft life "drizzle, drizzle". Both these women take care of him.
@@shanellem6310I’m not just blaming the woman. I’m speaking on women like her, but that doesn’t mean that I’m taking the accountability from the men. That’s clear as day, I’ve decentered them because I already know how it goes so why say the obvious? That’s clear the man is trash lol.
I really, really, really wish women would stop bringing children into these toxic situations. Like, it's one thing if you don't respect yourself, but why put your kids through that? And three of them at that.
Women don’t care. They only care about themselves and their feelings. They don’t care what the children go through but play this game like they do. “I do for my kid” bs
@Sunny-tc3ul And what exactly is the other woman winning..? I hope she doesn’t end up having his kids too, because…he’s going to do her the same exact way.
Neither of them actually WANT the man. Both women are in competition with each other. They're playing a game that has no winners, but deep down inside, they know that. A lot of women hate other women, and this situation proves that.
As someone who hates both men AND women, this is why I keep my distance from BOTH of them! I'm an asexual loner and an introvert at its finest! 🌈 This was some nasty, sick, vile, repulsive mess! All I imagine is bodily fluids being swapped back and forth! 🤮🤮🤮🤮 I agree with Destiny WHOLEHEARTEDLY! This sounds like bragging! Like, "ooh, look at me, I had ALL my kids by ONE man! I only have ONE baby daddy, NOT multiple." That's what I got from this!
As someone who despises both men AND women, this is why I keep my distance from BOTH of them! I'm an asexual loner and an introvert at its finest! 🌈 This was some nasty, sick, vile mess! All I imagine is bodily fluids being swapped back and forth! 🤮🤮🤮🤮 I agree with Destiny WHOLEHEARTEDLY! This sounds like bragging! Like, "ooh, look at me, I had ALL my kids by ONE man! I only have ONE baby daddy, NOT multiple." That's what I got from this!
Believe it or not, some men wives (or in this case girlfriends) give them permission to have sex with other women. I have seen and heard a woman do it in person. Side chick shows up with a new baby, and my friend wife looks him dead in the face and said " your need to stop being so kind to these bitches. " I am there looking at them like "WTF is this situation." They are still married and the side chick has to play her position.
I think it was for proof that he'll keep coming back and she'll always let him. It was more for the other girl to get mad/jealous. I used to know idiots like this. Went on for years because.... Stupidity 😅😅😅
Delulu culture has been in full effect for decades, its a sad case too see, bcuz some women really think having a nixxa baby will change them..wen thats the best repellent to keep him away.
@attitudeproblem6462 exactly! That's precisely what it is. Men have a problem with happy, care free women. Until that is addressed, they need to stop asking women anything
Wait, girlfriend sits outside in the car for 45 minutes while he inside “playing with his kids” I feel sorry for the kids, the adults in they lives is all crazy 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
It's the respectful thing to do but unfortunately ppl like these 2 get off on stuff like that..Playing in the girlfriend face and calling it coparenting turns them on..
sometimes i feel like my life is sad, i litetally spend my sunday prepping for the week ahead and i feel like my life is boring, after watching this, I think i'm happy being bored
Inner Peace only seems boring because you’re seeing other people’s chaos which feels exciting watching by the sidelines. You are doing well and as long as you’re doing no harm to self and others long may it continue.
I WFH with my Fiance and sometimes life is actually boring but my sister said a good thing, 'its not boredom its peace'. I think things like trauma and social media de-regulate us that we take it as boring as we need some type of stimulus and im trying to train my mind to get back regulated with peace and softness as i have anxiety sometimes.
Why is she taking down on the girlfriend when she’s the bigger fool for brining 3 innocent children into this mess?? And let’s not mention that she keeps going to jail!!
exactly ! because when the girlfriend finally finds some self worth she can leave with no baggage . meanwhile , the BM got three kids by a bum and she’s stuck with him for life
The gf was in the car when the baby was being made, so what's wrong with the gf being in the car when ya'll taking the baby home? Heck, at this point there is no reason to have her waiting in the car while he visits with the kids. Have her come in too, ya'll all family at this point. 🤣🤣🤣
People act like being a single mother is the worst thing in the world when in reality being in an abusive relationship with a toxic partner is the true and bigger nightmare.
It's indeed a concerning trend. When 65% of black children grow up in single-parent households, it undoubtedly has profound implications for their upbringing and development.
Acknowledging the prevalence of single-parent households, especially with 65% of births in 2020 resulting in such, is crucial. Normalizing the idea that single-parent households aren't inherently problematic may inadvertently overlook the challenges children face in these environments. 65% that's majority of the community. @@kemartini
@@MaryJaneJones. and being in an abusive household raised by both parents (oftentimes the father is abusive, an addict or straight up violent towards mother and children) has no negative effect on their upbringing? 😂 bffr
If you were to label her as a terrible mother, you'd likely face accusations of attacking Black women. Sadly, the primary defenders of such behavior often happen to be Black women, as unfortunate as it is, coming from another Black woman.
@@MaryJaneJones. Also as a black woman I don't agree. I've seen just as many videos and real life occurrences from white and Latino women. What you ARE right about is that stories like this about black women are definitely commented on and pushed the most. The only real difference I've seen is when I comment stuff like this on videos about a black woman I get tons of people agreeing with me (as y'all should). But when I make the same comments on videos of other races of women I get a flurry of comments defending them and what they might've been through to think this way.
The fact that some people make this mistake multiple times and don't learn from the first is insane. Get your tubes tied/Condoms/bc and also.....stop messing with your BD!!
This is the type of story where you just roll your eyes and move on. There’s absolutely nothing you can say to all parties in this story that they don’t already know or are willing to hear to change their behavior. 🤷🏾♀️
The fact that the girlfriend was sitting outside for 45 mins while the two of them were ducking is crazy !!!! The way these men move when they cheat…is actually terrifying.
Disrespecting yourself to this degree is nothing short of simply insane. She was good enough for him to volunteer her womb to but wasn’t good enough for a ring.. And what’s worse is how delusional she is about not being the side chick. She’s the side mother at this point.
What's crazy is she's trying to diss sister wife like she just not as stupid and delusional! Also how is he taking care of his kids if he is moving between her and sister wife! Also, the car probably belongs to sister wife which is why she came to pick you up in the hospital!
1. Shame has left the building smh. 2. This is nothing more than water doing what water does...seeking its own level. 3. The reason these people don't become a real polygamy couple is because they hate order and structure. They would do better living together and working together under 1 roof, but they lack the maturity smh.
@Sunny-tc3ul Dealing with a man with kids in any meaningful way, she's already stuck with them. Women just don't like to do things the right way because they don't want to be under structure or rules. She's already in a polygamy situation, she just gets none of the benefits
These preferences really thought they were better than black women for being chosen. Thought they were sitting on thrones, and then cry and throw tantrums when they get the same black man 😭
@SkySky999 Girl yes,I'm so glad black men are in "season" for these non black women. They eat them up and then look surprised when they turn out to be just like what black women have been saying they are.
There is a lady on RU-vid that has 8 kids by a married man with a girlfriend . She lives in poverty and the man isn’t in the picture really . She also thinks like this young lady but she 39.
If the devil and Cia and the Chinese communist party combined torture I will never tell this to a soul. Embarrassing. Ma'am keep this to yourself you are not a victim you are an enabler 😮
No but for real I would rather slide down them old school metal playground, in the middle of IGNORANT humid Texas 100° summer, with my freshly waxed cooter pop just nekkid before I EVEEEEEEEERRR naaaaaaahhhhhh...folks is weird 🫠🫠🫠
Can't NOBODY tell me that this story doesn't mirror Chrisean Rock, Jaiden and Blueface! Chiiile, this Chrisean and Blueface 2.0. at this point! No thanks! 🙅 Y'all can have it!
How embarrassing to literally pick this man's stuff up from the other woman's house AND BRING IT TO YOURS!? 😭 No part of her felt deeply humiliated? Cause she's retelling it like a victory
And if he's spending all the time he's telling her he's spending with his kids spending time and having sex with the babymama then I suspect these children are not getting any actual time.
She is better than me. I could never accept such a situation. This man is a dusty who is having his cake and eating it two. He has 2 women who are taking care of him. All he has to do is try to co-parent with both of them & blow their backs out. When he argues with one, he can move to the other girls' house and vice versa. Why doesn't this boy have his own house? I feel for the kids in this situation. The whole situation is toxic AF. This is what they mean when they say women would rather have a lil bit of man than no man. These girls aren't concerned about STD's or nothing. Nope. It could not be me.
“When I was in prison he met her on backpage.” “I picked him up from her house 3 times.” “She was always lurking.” “We had an argument there ended up in DV, he went to jail, and she bailed him out.” 😑
Girrrl, yess!. And I bet any amount of money , this ninja 🥷🏾 is an #ALPHAPOOKIE and ain't got (No Job) !!!. It must be nice to be a freeloader, and have two women fight over a dusty. Imagine that 🤮😭🥱🤣
Notice how it’s BW going off about this. Let the preferences deal with this BS!! Clearly these two preferences don’t see an issue with how they are being treated.
@@Itiswhatitis638 OMG 😂I scrolled for 5 minutes for comments like this. I was smiling and LAUGHING I noticed the Girlfriend is a Non-Blk Woman, and the Baby Momma is a Light Skinned Preference. The Sister Wives are the Preferences and the Exotic Preferences. 😂🤭 Thank Goodness for that because I see DSBW engaging in STRUGGLE POLY enough times, sadly still embarrassing us online. But, I’ll take the WIN that this viral TikTok is not a DSBW. 💯🤷🏾♀️
OMG 😂I scrolled for 5 minutes for comments like this. I was smiling and LAUGHING I noticed the Girlfriend is different color, and the Baby Momma is a Light Skinned Preference. The Sister Wives are the Preferences and the Exotic Preferences. 😂🤭 Thank Goodness for that because I see DSBW engaging in STRUGGLE POLY enough times, sadly still embarrassing us online. But, I’ll take the WIN that this viral TikTok is not a DSBW. 💯🤷🏾♀️
Also, NOTICE that the Whyte Preference ACTIVELY CHOSE to NOT keep her baby. But it’s ONLY the BW who kept hers and had 3 babies 👶🏽😩😩 THE Whyte PREFERENCE WHO SEES HERSELF AS MORE WORTHY EXERCISES HER BOUNDARIES AND REFUSED TO BE IN A POLY RELATIONSHIP. Notice, the Preference has the MOST AUDACITY in Confidence, NO BABIES & NO POLY. You can’t make this up. I love this for the preference, she put her foot down on boundaries and Non-Chalant, De-Centers their feelings. I’m disappointed that the Preference Sister Wife bailed him out and paid his bond. 😂😂😂She should’ve showed her Karen side to both of them. 🤣
How you ended up with three kids by a man who lives with a girlfriend…. Because you wanted, you knew what u were getting into after child one… but you and the girlfriend know exactly what u doing…. Not sorry for you, but sorry for the children… when a woman does not loves herself this is what happens
Quiet as it’s kept both of these women are foolish. He is clearly triangulating between both of them and they are both so dense and want to win (because apparently he is the prize) that they can’t see he is is the one winning. He gets to have his cake, cupcakes and ice cream. Fighting over a man is very bottom of the barrel.
I was listening to this and thinking, "ya'll might as well be a thruple, save on moving costs and childcare" only for her to admit that did come up and the other girl wouldn't agree to it. 🤣🤣🤣
The gag is they are not the only two in the situation… men are greedy and rarely satisfied. When he gets ready he’s got another place to go when the girlfriend starts fussing and the babies cry too much. Smh…
Do these women with these baby daddies realize that their lives are very stressful and are not ideal? They sound like their lives are so exciting, when they should actually be embarrassed. If I want excitement, I book a trip.
Omg this sounds like an absolute living nightmare. I'm exhausted just listening to this story. I have too much going on in my life to just chase down some lying cheating male. Thank you to the 4b movement and the ladies participating in it!
This is messy, quite literally. All these babies are being born into this unfortunate circumstance and guess who's going to pay for these bad decisions... The kids! All this fluid swapping between the three of them and goodness knows how many others, shows a lack of self-respect and fear for STDs.
How do you say you don't love yourself without saying you don't love yourself? I can't and won't judge her because I've definitely had my dumb moments in life. I feel bad for the kids though. Hopefully she can't have more.
If her first 3 pregnancies were unplanned and unwanted, WTF makes you hope "she can't have more"? She's too stupid to take responsibility for birth control, much less her own sterilization, so what indicates to you that she won't crap out more of her offspring? 🤡
I don’t feel bad for anyone in the situation except for the children being born into this hot mess. Sis literally chose to come on the internet tell people she chose to have 3 children with a man that never claimed her as a girlfriend and continues to play you and his girlfriend like ping pong balls. Make it make sense!🤦🏾♀️
What does it matter at this point? He got both of y’all at the price of your respect and dignity. Only he comes out as winner in this scenario. Please have some dignity ladies. Don’t have these men have y’all looking like fools out here.
Well to me it sounds like you and “sisterwife” are cool with the shenanigans. After the first kid, it doesn’t make sense that you ended up here. Toxicity and desperation seems to be the drug of choice.
