Work Romance.. But he's taken? 

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Some guys feel like that too

Literally 😂😂

there back an then will b gone again for a year

time to share noooooooo 😭

Me tooooi

Right gurl trust me her videos can never get bored of there vidz

Yeah back to where they started - it is much better this way.

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Exactly

Yessss!

So true & 9/10 he WILL

That's so kind! I'm not Pakistani but my husband and his family is, we've been married for 6 years and still when I go round to the in laws house they all sit and talk in urdu and don't include me and I always feel very excluded, I understand quite a bit of urdu after sitting and listening for this many years, I can speak quite a bit of it is aswell but they all just laugh at me when the white girl speaks urdu bevause of my accent, kinda upsetting sometimes but anyhow 😂 That's so kind of you to translate it to her, I would love someone to do that for me at family gatherings x

I wish my husband's family would translate for me. I also can understand a bit since I lived in Pakistan for a year, but it does get difficult sometimes when everyone knows English but doesn't because they don't feel like it. I'm sure your sister-in-law loves you translating for her because it gives her someone to talk to

Tasnim Ahmed so bloody true, every year I look back and cant recognise myself due to the crazy growth that takes place such a short space of time

Exactly, I got married and had kids really young.. Which I would never ever regret and I love them with all my heart Alhamdulilah. But looking back now I know I would have done things differently and waited until I was alot older as your mind changes so much throughout these years

I completely agree. Sometimes it's wise to wait to get married too.

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@ Who knows. But after she found out he was in a relationship, she should have backed off. It's actually quite normal to lose interest and become unattracted towards someone once you realise they're taken. Normal people tend to back off once that happens and move on. A person with lesser morals however, will continue to pursue it - which she has. So the blame lies on her shoulders, regardless of what he did or didn't do.

Your fixation with "white" is weird

That dudes long distance gf cheated on him ages ago.......lol

@ well he is in the other relationship for a few years now so ofcourse it holds some value to him or else he wouldn't be in one sister. The other issue is...she herself has said his gf is white...had she been brit Pakistani she likey wouldn't pursue anything...she doesn't want to be "that" woman. That says alot.

@ You're making so many assumptions and creating these weird scenarios to defend her. The email was crystal clear, her intentions are obvious. She likes to think he'll leave his white girlfriend for her.. because? They have.. chemistry? Wtf does that even mean and how much is it worth. They both should stop this and NEVER even try to pursue such evil. Heard too many stories about women going around "all innocent" ruining relationships. And that goes for men too. But you know it's harder to get a woman to cheat than a man, because men are shallow and hormonal. That's why Muhammad (PBUH) commanded them to not even LOOK at a woman, it will lead to this evil. I know no man has the ability or the allure to get me to cheat in a MILLION years, and I wish to believe most women are like that.. because we don't have their levels of testosterone that causes them to think with their private part. So I KNOW most women who wreck relationships are intentional, we are not easily blinded by our animalistic instincts. You will not understand until some girl comes along and pursues your husband and perpetuates the stupid "chemistry", while daydreaming about someone leaving his wife for her or even thinking your husband is her "perfect guy".

@ His girlfriend has feelings too. The difference is this girl has the knowledge and the ability to not perpetuate this evil. The guy is disgusting, she should of not lowered herself to his level.

@@u-kneeque I agree the guy is disgusting. I pray for the girl's healing, she had weak boundaries ,most likely inexperienced.

sid is wrong about it though. He dont know how slick these guys are.

@ He is wrong. Most men at that age know how to manipulate. BUT he also doesn't realize how easy it is to lower the girl's self esteem at that age. By mocking her or being rude to her he has no idea how much negative impact he can have on her mental health at that age. SMH some people never understand shit even with age. I bet if it was their own daughter he wouldn't be "rude" to her but rather explain it more kindly. As parents we should apply that to every young adult....not just our own.

Unfortunately my opinion is that it just comes out naturally unless she was hitting on sid but only sid would now because dina does not understand the language guys your doing a good job helping your community all the best

Tell that to arabs cuz almost ALL arabs are like that!!!!!!!!! Funny how it was coming from DINA who is half arab herself.

May Allah Subhana Wa Talaa bless their marriage with so much more love and happiness together In Shaa Allah!

@@Lili00Miss Ameen Thank you so much!

Alhamdulilah that their marriage has lasted this long. My husband is Pakistani and I'm Italian American, I've heard a few people tell me my husband wouldn't stay with me because I'm white. I have a great relationship with his family and friends as well

@@Michelle_sal Ignore them! I hope you and your husband are blessed with a happy long marriage Ameen!!

@@Uuuh760 what

I honestly don't think it's about being a man or a woman if it was a guy in that situation I would have called him a home wrecker for pursuing someone in a relationship and what if they were both male or both female. It's not about her seducing him it's just them giving her advice so she doesn't end up doing something that makes her a bad person. They're not advising the guy so what the guy should do isn't brought up as much, if it was the guy who wrote the email they would've said why do you wanna be a cheater that's a shitty thing to do and that he shouldn't ruin the lives of two women for his benefit and I'm sure they would've been a lot ruder.

@@carnation_hyacinth yh true.i wasnt really referring to sid and dinas approach but more of the majorities approach to situations like this in society

The woman wrote in for advice, not the man. Hence, they directed statements at her.

@@fizzybizzy3790 Yep. They were addressing the girl who wrote them. If the guy did I'm sure they'd focus on his role in this. I don't know why people miss the point..

SHe didnt seduce him. He seduced her while hiding the fact that he was in a relationship and revealed it when she was deep in her feelings

It doesnt seem like she is crossing boundaries. He is the one crossing boundaries She needs firmer boundaries.

Dina A. I know and I feel bad for her also this guy is a huge red flag

Dina A. I couldn’t have said it better myself, as I said I was in her place a couple of months ago and I totally understand the blame is on the guy all the way it’s so disgusting to think that man like this exist

exactly. He wouldnt put an obstacle in his way to her if he really wants her

Dina A. It’s so difficult to see it this way when you’re the one with the feelings for the guy though! Really hope the girl saves herself from heartbreak and see’s the situation from an outsiders prespective.

And Dina you being half white I knew you could understand it from both sides.

Very rude

Just disrespectful that

Exactly. And she should have some self respect and dignity to not pursue or "wait for" a man who is taken. Some girls actually go for it on purpose to ruin relationships and marriages. The guy must stop it, and the girl must stop it as well. Like can people fk off and not cheat or be a homewrecker? Is that too much to ask??

@@u-kneeque not to much to ask at all!! Heck as many men/woman there is in the world, she needs to find 1 thats not taken!! I couldn't live knowing I had cheated!! But as young as she is its still just a game to her!!

The Horsford Frimpongs I don't get it

Yes. Dina is referring to an incident she’s spoken about before in an older video where a few girls who watches their videos approached her and Sid in public and started talking to him in their language, completely ignoring Dina. I’m guessing it was kinda obvious that those girls with flirting with Sid too hence why she was annoyed, rightfully so

EXACTLY. you're probably the only few who understands this girl. Everyone is painting the girl as the bad guy. The point really went over SId's head. THe guy was sending mixed signal. Trying to build rapport and chemistry with the girl. She thought she still had a shot and did not know how serious he is about this other girl. She felt that she may have a more solid shot because they have a lot more in common culturally or that it would be easier for them to get together and be accepted by the other's family. But i guarantee had she known about their relationship from the start, she wouldnt have considered him, she is not a home-wrecker and he knows that. He was playing on her naive side. The guy is trying to make her look like she is crazy. He wants the girl to continue pining after him. He purposely hid the fact until she emotionally invested and then boom, he makes a weak attempt at sparing her passionate feelings which he knows wont do anything. Allah watches and he knows every person and their intentions.

I agree, I don’t think the comment had malicious intent. But the fact she felt it was necessary to specify his girlfriend’s race, is assuming that because she is the same race makes her superior, in terms of a long-term relationship? Almost belittling their relationship immediately. It is likely she has no idea about their relationship, so cannot assume there are culture differences or less potential for marriage etc. I’d say the fact they’re in a long distance relationship and have been together for several years, should automatically dismiss those views. Anyway this “potential” for marriage shouldn’t even be considered. He’s still in a relationship and it’s not for her to question it. It’s tough and she’s not the bad ‘guy’, especially if he’s showing an interest but wait until he’s ended the relationship (if he ever does) before getting more involved. ♥️

Yes! Exactly, you worded my thoughts perfectly 👍🏻

You're absolutely right. On top of that they would discover that they're both not "special" they're flawed humans that will argue and fight. But they totally deserve each other.

Exactly. Before I got married I was dating someone, he was very manipulative, said if I we had sex etc he would marry me, and oh its okay if we do it because we are going to get married ( I didn't do it) I didn't know at the time but he actually was married, but for a long time I kept falling for his lies that he was going to marry me, he never once took me home to his family though and told him them he wanted to marry me and make it halal , in the end I knew it was wrong so I left him. When I met my now husband of 6 years, he never asked me for anything, he took me home to his family and told them he wanted to marry me and spoke to my family no messing around. Their is definitely a difference in a man who wants you for one thing and a man who truly wants you in his life.

thats a really good suggestion! I would love to see that too

LOOOOL I wrote this half way through the video and Sid said exactly the same as I did about the guy doing the same to her lool

Definitely, it's harsh but it's true

Exactly!

The girl in the email has no idea about the relationship of that guy and his girlfriend. They have been together for years even doing a long distance relationship so it is most likely that they will get married wether she is white or not. Maybe the parents even know about her. If he drops his girlfriend whom he has been with for years to marry the email girl just for the fact that she is Pakistani to have an easier time with his parents, honestly he is not the character to be with.

But it's rude of the girl to make an assumption about what the guy feels for his girlfriend or how much he's willing to fight for her regardless of what his family thinks. It sounded like she was trying to imply that the relationship is less 'valid' like Dina was saying, or she was just holding onto hope that it might not last for that reason, either way it's not a healthy outlook. But to be fair she is 20 and she does sound a bit immature/doesnt realise that he isn't worth her time.

It's True you do stupid stuff when you're young

Don't be disgusting.