You Have Been Lied To About Women 

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In the age where everything is about mysogeny it always amazes me how many women have never heard the word misandry.

So in most cases, they don't love us the way we love them... That's sobering..MEN are in Love, Women are in Business..

"We'd be calling 90% of women sexist." That sounds about right :D

Romance was always a male thing. We did the courting and romance and women just experienced it. A lot of women feel entitled to romance, and feel they deserve the best. Where men are taught to be the best and work for everything …one reason why stoicism is so attractive to men (full accountability) and astrology and other things are attractive to women (going with the flow, having things come to you)

It was 8th grade, and Vanessa a friend told me "women are evil and men are stupid for not seeing it." I was stupid and I didn't believe her. That moment in time haunts me for some reason.

Recently I came across article titled "British mother reveals how she left her partner of 29 years and lost £80,000 to a catfish con artist on Facebook who made her 'feel loved' using photos of Latvia's silver fox defence minister'' and this is what it takes... Still emotions over practicality no matter how many years it lasted it can be thrown away because feelings.

The first flowers that a man receives is at his funeral.

Women are still heavily depended on man. We have merely created a form of society that disguises this fact. No one notices anymore that lonely men cross-subsidize women's mistakes through their taxes.

100% agree with this. I’m 50 going through a divorce after 20 years with 2 kids. Wife has been say full time stay at home mother for last 8 years. Because I was working 50-60 hour weeks and exhausted I have much less relationship with the kids and will owe alimony since she doesn’t work. So I get to continue working to provide a lifestyle for her that I don’t even get to be a part of.

The worst is the rotten women you meet on dating apps. They are like 35+ and still dreamy and thinking they are the top of the top and expect the moon to fall on their lap. It makes women so delusional. They have 0 sense of reality on there.

As a 45 yr old man, best advice hands down. I highly encourage young men to heed this advice when dating women. You don't want to end up with a woman that will divorce you, take your children & have them raised by another man or lesbian, take your money, take your assets and leave you pennyless and possibly homeless. One guy i know in particular his wife divorced him, the court ruled in favor of her even though she was found guilty of adultery. The ex-wife is now married to a lesbian while he's forced by the court to pay alimony & childsupport. The poor guy was considering suicide. The divorce laws in the US and in England are not designed for justice, but rather to incentivise wives to divorce their husbands. Sad to say that getting married in such countries is like signing a bad contract.

Any man who subjects himself to sitting through a "date" while some sexual-market expiring chick checks off a list of questions, deserves the divorce he's gonna get 7 years later.

Believe nothing a woman says. Solely go off their actions. They typically don’t match up.

- _"The great female con"_ (online, easy read - required for boys from 12 yr - and yearly re-read) - _"The manipulated man"_ - Esther Vilar

Sex requires a higher level Netflix subscription.

Romantic love as a concept, people marrying for "love" came about in the middle ages. I remember studying this a bit in college (university), and I'm much older than I was then, so details are a little fuzzy now. The point is, modern marriage is a relatively new concept, and like most things, it was brought about by men. Don't believe me? Listen to the vast majority of rock songs since, say, the '60s, and they're centered around women. Most of them are written by men, and performed by men. Start really paying attention to the words, the themes, and you'll be surprised. Here's a hint for you: most of the songs sound as though, and are performed by simps.

The problem comes when a woman have morals UNTIL chad comes around.

This is why (long before the internet was available) I realized that, whereas men were commonly recognized - and denounced - for viewing women primarily as "Sex Objects", women were seldom recognized - much less denounced - for viewing men primarily as "Success Objects".

The problem with the way women take dating seriously is that as they get older and less desirable, their check list gets longer. Having a date with one of these women is about as much fun as having your teeth drilled. And, if they meet a guy who gives them the tingles, they throw their checklist in the trash, anyway. And, then, of course, he dumps her, and she adds a few more items to her checklist. A guy who has been with the same woman for years and they started together in their twenties really only imagines this dating experience. When women get to this state, they are insufferable and not worth spending time with, unless you are the guy who gives them the tingles so they drop the checklist. And if you are that guy, and know how to push those buttons, you likely will dump her and leave more of a mess for the next guy.

Men are romantic, and it is reflected in how difficult it is for men after a break-up. Men invest a lot emotionally in their women. Women move on to their next prospect with a good income.

Juliet just walks out on her balcony for Romeo. Who are the people that just walk out on to their "balconies"?: Women. Who are the people that perform like circus dogs in the street?: Men. Ask yourself who the romantic ones are. And who probably built and paid for the balcony? 🤣

I have planned and executed romantic dates with my romantic partners. I can count on one hand how many times they planned a romantic occasion for me.

They are out there! I was dating this woman, we were in our late 40’s. And we were playfully texting back and forth while at our respective jobs. I texted “I love you”, she replied “I love you more”, so I sent back “Prove it!” I had to go into a meeting and afterwards a bunch of us rolled out for lunch. A couple hours later I got back to my cube and there were a half dozen balloons attached to a mug with “I love you!” painted on it. She must have paid a fortune to have that delivered the same day! It really touched me. Talk about a romantic gesture💘. She was putting herself out there saying “You’ve got me. I’m yours. If you asked, I’d drive the getaway car!” Talk about sexy!

Listen to this man, guys; he's spot on (says an old bloke now out of a bad marriage).

Oh, my God! Everything this man is saying is so true! Men are the romantics. They write the most beautiful poems and spend thousands on the women they love in their lifetimes. It is more likely a man will prepare a nice meal for a woman than the other way around. Hell, women nowadays can't even cook! Another thing I have noticed. To a woman, what she earns is hers. What her boyfriend or husband earns is theirs.

Girl in the first 30 seconds - I mean it’s a decent way to go through life in any of its capacities. If people aren’t taking you seriously, don’t take them seriously in return.

Thank you, Alexander. This is the type of advice I wish I had when I was younger. But it is timeless wisdom in its own truth.

This is exactly the stuff they should have been teaching us in 'sex-Ed' 40 years ago in middle school

Dude, the only pair bonding is what she can get out of the relationship and you get flicked in an instant - worse they will just divorce you, take the kids away and blame you as being unavailable, uncommunicative, etc

At 10:50, you mentioned the “sperm donor and a wallet”, that hit home. When a buddy of mine got divorced, his ex used the exact words “you were nothing but a sperm donor and a paycheque”. His situation was not unique, and his divorce attorney said his ex set him up like a bowling pin and he didn’t see the ball coming. She was basically trailer trash and saw my buddy as an easy mark (Pilot with a traditional upbringing, idealistic morals). She claimed to be on the pill and “oopsie”, got pregnant by “accident”, he did the “honourable thing” and married her. She was the victimized stay-at-home wife while he worked one full-time and two part-time jobs. False assault charges (which he fought and was found not guilt as evidence was obviously fabricated), with her never having to answer for her false allegations. Then came the generous divorce settlement, alimony and child support. After the money was in her hands, she coldly admitted to my buddy her motives. She was a real piece of work, but women like her are way more common that most feminists care to admit.

I once had a 40yr old single mom .tell me she needs 30k to move in with me..and I had to provide her a monthly allowance and pay for her 2 kids as my own..it was so shameful and disgusting...needless to say she never made it to the good life 😂....

Alexander constantly asks us to empethasize with women, yet women do not empathasize with us at all.

I tought women pooped rainbows and were angelic creatures! Oh darn was I wrong I didn't see a horn on her head like the unicorns in fairytales

Fellas...never forget who women are talking about when they refer to men. They are talking about the 5% or less that meet the vibe threshold (height, fitness, affluence, style, charisma) all of which have options. If you aren't chad you're invisible. Women only discuss their issues with chad, the rest are invisible basic's who never had any sort of chance, literally invisible.

A long time ago i started to treat relationships like business deals and don't care about feelings and all of that stuff. It works quite well.

Now that I'm turning 27; I've decided to stop chasing women and just focus on me. I'm always in debt and that's on me. I'm have some more success with my music; however I really got to built myself up for the woman I want to attract.

100% In all of my years of dating in my 30's it was totally a job interview atmosphere with a barrage of questions to quickly gauge my success / status and goals Right on the first date..

I watch these videos for, yes, the knowledge, but also to validate my decision to stay single for the rest of my life. It's VERY reinforcing. Thank you.

I am a 27y old from Sri Lanka and this is the absolute truth I have been experiencing for few years.. I thought it was only me experiencing that because everything and everyone always says otherwise and discouraged thinking me that way.. Usually this kind of opinions are severely rejected by modern ideologies.. I was laughing from the beginning of the video though I didn't know why.. Thanks for bringing this up..❤

I certainly noticed the shift in dating when I was in my early 30s. Women absolutely had a calendar and a timeline and they were interested in doing the career thing, then meet someone, get married, have children, etc. and whomever was their boyfriend at the time would be the one who would get the thumb screws to put a ring on her finger.

When I was in my 30's (in the 1980s) my buds and I used to laugh that women talked about having "careers"! We guys had "jobs" -- and I was a lawyer for a Fortune 500 Company! Hell, I wanted to be a full-time musician, but you can't get married and raise a family scrambling for gigs.

When you're thinking its about love shes sitting around with momma and friends planning you out as a business deal.i think we men should learn from this and do the same thing

I ALMOST feel sorry for many of these women & how dark their future is likely going to be because of their own actions & behaviours today...ALMOST...

I learned that women are not romantic when I was vacationing in Western Asia. I went out with a chick and I asked her if she was romantic. She said aren’t men suppose to be romantic? And it just made sense to me. Until then I was clueless.

Yeah, makes sense. The problem is that men have been saying that for ages, but no one cares. In fact, they yell "toxic masculinity". For instance, a couple where he provides and protects, and she does nothing, no work, no cooking, no cleaning, nothing (very common these days). The guy changes his behavior, obviously, but he is the baddy. At least men can admit they don't want a serious relationship, instead of the "open" relationship BS that women ask for (because it's always women who ask for that degenerate sht).

Men are romantics pretending to be realists, Women are realists pretending to be romantics.

Honor, romance, and values are manly traits

They want a contract but hate being in a contract. They want a contract that only benefits them and they can exit at any time, for any reason, has zero requirements, that they always leave with more than they entered it, and that they continue benefitting from even when it ends. They then consider anything less subjugation and oppression. TF? We need male birth control ASAP.

I am a guy and I approach dating just like women it seems. I want to know what I get out of this relationship and 99% of the time, when you look at it that way, you 'll find that women bring nothing to the table except for themselves.

I've said many times that love is all we need and the woman says love isn't always enough. I'm like if I love you of course I'm going to work to provide and show you respect. So therefore, love is enough. But, the woman allows her chaotic thoughts to believe what they're given is not enough. And you wonder why there aren't many female philosophers!

Unfortunately younger women are actually living their younger years like men, in promiscuity, without realising the clock is ticking... and when they realise what is going on it is often too late for them. Men quit the game, and the dating world is broken.

Random girls have bought me drinks at clubs, and was like in awe. I never seen them before.

You've outlined exactly why men are waking up and eschewing marriage and LTRs with Western women. Women don't love men, they see them as disposable utilities. Thankfully this message is going mainstream and indicative of the marriage rate decline or the recent Pew Research poll that over 50% of men have no interest in a relationship with women today.

For women absorbing the romance, does not make them romantic.

In my experience the times I told women up front that I wasn't ready for a relationship they would wind up at some point telling me that they had fallen for me. This could have been to persuade me into a relationship or they actually did fall in love. I'm thinking that it was probably both.

The plot thickens.

I'll bet 90% of married guys tell single guys "don't get married", but many don't listen because they are lost in love. But it seems to be sinking in finally. I had many chances to get married but didn't fall for the fantasy.

Women choose who they want to have sex with, while Men choose who he want to be with (the relation). Choose seriously.

I read your tagline and thought "When have I been told the truth, other than in manosphere videos?" Women are like religion, if you say anything negative, the world comes down on you hard. I've seen very handsome male co-workers and classmates get flowers, poems, love letters, ...

Relationships are an exchange of value or transactional. Men want physical intimacy, while women want financial security (i.e. marriage) and kids. Women don't really want the man, they want what the man can provide, e.g. financial security (i.e. marriage) and kids. This is why women want marriage but also want divorce after the husband has bought the house and provided her with kids. Once the husband has bought the house and given her kids, he is in a very vulnerable position as he is no longer needed and she is probably bored of him. This is why the average marriage length is 7 years.

Women are not romantic and do not *do* romance; they want to *be romanced* - to be the subject and object of romantic efforts - not to be the source of those intentions. It’s just the extension of how they want to *be pursued* and refuse to *do* the pursuing. All receive, no send.

Every time I've tried to be romantic, it was poorly received.

My girl gets me flowers, treats me to trips, dinner, gifts, and writes me beautiful poems. Women haven’t changed. Men have grown soft.

Lady in the intro is likely just another sloot in Chad's Harem... Chad doesn't want to upgrade you, lady. You are just #6 in his lineup.

Absolutely true. A woman in her twenties is not the same woman in her forties. Much less her fifties.

This concept of "Practical" might have made sense explaining the behavior of some women prior to online dating. Some statistics show approximately 80% of women in the online dating venue are competing for the top 10% to 20% of men in the same arena. That leaves about 80% of men in that environment "invisible". True that most younger women in the 18-29 age group pursue fun on the carousel before waking up (30+) to biological reality regarding having children before it's too late. The delusional expectations from this same group of women that they "deserve" a spouse earning income in the top 1% to 2% of wage earners is ultimately self defeating both for them and the majority of men that they choose to ignore. Wealth itself doesn't insulate any man from divorce either as we have witnessed recently with the Microsoft and Amazon founders. It won't be until society itself experiences something profound that any of these behaviors and social trends will change.

As a guy who has never married these types of videos give me such pleasure. On a serious note the glass is always half full whichever path you follow. The best thing to do is relax & go with the flow.

Thank you so much for talking about this. It has been on my brain for a while.

One of your best videos Alex! One of the most incredible misconceptions about Women is that they are inherently romantic - that they have this syrupy dreamy 'tears of joy' in eyes response to a Man trying to win her over with romantic gestures - this kind of 'because he first loved me' response - that she will reciprocate and respond with dreamy heartfelt affection to his romantic advances - that the Man who is most romantic towards her will be the one to win her over. So many Men - probably most Men - have this unfortunate misconception and society often implicitly peddles it. It could just be my experience, but in my experience Women are not particularly really all that moved by romantic gestures, sometimes not really even all that appreciative of such gestures, and in some cases perhaps even a little bit creeped out by a Man trying to woo her over with romance. I'm not saying you should never give Women any romantic gestures - it is fine in moderation - but be a bit careful that you don't overdo it - as well as being careful with the idea that you will often win a Woman over with romance.

Yep , nailed it Alexander , well played good Sir , well played ....

Yeah, don't confuse Emotional with Romantic.

Everyone has a plan until they get punched in the face.

These reasons are not ones to empathize more with women as they get older. When she was younger she was into having fun with the bad boys who gave her tingles not dating intentionally and living in the moment chasing excitement. Then the epiphany phase hits and she realize she no longer desires Alpha seed but has Beta need (for resources) and has the rules for providers that she is now settling for as she is on the fertility clock and it is approaching midnight. Now giving guys the time of day she previously ignored but the dates now feel like job interviews when she freely gave herself away to Chads and bad boys in her youth no strings attached. Don't be that guy with resources who was on his grind and was ignored by these women in your youth who now they see as a suitable life partner due to the clock ticking down. She is settling and she will resent you, see you as a wallet and make your life full of strife and bickering for as long as it lasts because you were never her first choice--if they had the same fertility clock as men they'd keep doing the same thing their entire lives. And given family law in the west she can take most of your resources once married especially with children and go chase her Chad with your funds after. These modern wahmens are not deserving of any empathy who behaved as such: when they were young they completely discounted the future as if tomorrow would never come. But tomorrow comes for all and their about face/180 is solely due to their inability to maintain what they had. And trying to build a life with them after is trying to build a life built on strife/a house with a foundation on quicksand.

But they hate it when men treat them as sex objects

So well articulated. Thank you

This is a very good advice. Now I know what to look for at least. Thank you.

I’m not dehumanized by knowing she wants my money. The issue is her saying I’m a sexiest pig when I want sex in exchange. People need to realize all relationships are transactional. Most are just in denial about this to not want to break down something like a relationship in factual terms. And yea love don’t exist in 99% of relationships ( that would me unconditionally loving someone regardless of their choice and not swaying them. Let’s see how well you love them when Becky comes home with 3 guys and tells you to leave the house as they are gonna bang all weekend around your house 😂 ) still have “love”

There's a big difference between being romantic and being romanced.

I've been subscribed to your channel for a long time but this is the first time you popped up on my feed in a long time 🤔 I have to say I love your insight on the very well thought-out

Great content as always Alex

I just did this same thing with a woman. Asked her out, she said no, then breadcrumbs me. I can only stay emotionally invested in that for so long….

Our grandparents did marry and if spoke to them more often than not you would hear how much our grandmothers loved our grandfathers. Despite their natural instincs society provided women with the guidance to both finding a man who would provide and grow her love for him. Now? That's gone, our society promotes absolute narcism and the worst natural tendencies in women with the absolute dehumanisation of men. This will go beyond women being alone, they won't have men to build and repair society either.

Thank you for your insights. A true eye opener 🙏

It's absolutely Dehumanizing.

😳 Very true. Modern women are not romantic at all. When you are done evaluating and sorting out yourself and your goals then you must just as carefully observe and evaluate your woman. And be in a position to walk as needed….

Wise words Mr. Alexander. Thank you for the content. 👍🏻

Great one, well done and thank you ❤

Calling women's approach to relationships "practical" is, in my opinion, an overly nice way of saying that they are cold, calculating, selfish, and heartless gold-diggers.

The goal most women have is to find a man who is going in the same direction as she is for a few years, then divorce him.

Dr Alexander Grace, you have no idea how much money and grief it would have saved me, if only I could have heard your words as a single young man. Well done. I hope your message is well and widely received.

Thank you Alexander, you are a gift that keeps on giving

Great content, excellent video. Great for younger men still looking to start a family. I think women love receiving gestures of romance from men they have loving feelings for, but you have to get her their with the practical first! Well done sir.

We are only ever romantic to ourselves in our brain. What men can do for us. I'm an exception, because I truly like to make a man feel good about himself in any way I can....being raised primarily by a woman? I wound up being slightly misinformed about how romantic men really are. If you ask my ma? Careless creatures in almost every romantic way. But remembering how I witnessed her treating my father? With the comprehension of an adult who's Been enlightened upon the subject? I get so angry just thinking about it. How many times she threatened dad with divorce just to get her way. Just....no. we are the worst

Brilliant, love it, thanks AG you rock buddy.

My friend had a list of requirements. She got it from Cosmo. I smiled and said "that's odd.... most men also have a list!"

I have 4 older sisters and an ex-wife, i know everything i need to know about women.

Ask a woman...what is romantic? All the answers revolve around the man spending money on her. But, it's all about her getting attention. Nothing more.

This is such a good video, right what I needed. Thanks.

Thank you for sharing this and remind me.