You're Doing TOO MUCH For A Man You're Dating When You See THESE 7 Signs

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You're Doing TOO MUCH For A Man You're Dating When You See THESE 7 Signs... In this dating advice video, I'll answer the question of what is doing too much in dating. It is very easier to find yourself doing too much for a man who doesn't yet deserve it. So take heed to these dating tips and be sure to watch the entire video so that you can experience an amazing relationship.
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@MeetStephanSpeaks 8 дней назад

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@pamelawilliams9574 13 дней назад

This is extremely helpful. I always give way too much to others. Now I am enjoying the single life because I'm exhausted of taking care of a man who didn't deserve it. LOL!

@MeetStephanSpeaks 13 дней назад

Thank you🙏

@jayc5756 13 дней назад

Yeah, you gotta learn how to vet men good when hollerin...and early on, so you avoid the ones that's not that interested in you....but just interested in using you.

@photographyenthusiast9941 11 дней назад

Same. I now have zero desire to invest in a man at all.

@Dremer11t 9 дней назад

Me too 🙌🏽

@passionwilliamson1182 9 дней назад

SAME HERE!!!

@elizabethlane2057 12 дней назад

Men are perfectly ok standing by and letting you do things for them. They'll never say anything. A woman will never find the love she's looking for like this. He needs to see you put on your jacket, put on your shoes and head for the door. He needs to see that his good thing is not afraid to lose him.

@passionwilliamson1182 9 дней назад

Yesss!!!!

@kiasunray 8 дней назад

The “good thing” isn’t losing anything by walking away from a user. The user is missing out✨

@godsplan2873 12 дней назад

This hit home! After 10 years of marriage i realized my husband had molded me into another person. My children and i were EXTREMELY unhappy, so we left and found ourselves happiness.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 12 дней назад

🙏

@osolvholts 10 дней назад

🔥

@Sunlightsam24 12 дней назад

We over function because we want to prove our worth to him and show why would he want to be without us? In reality, we take away the biggest attraction factor for him-him winning us! If a woman wants to cheat-proof her relationship as much as possible, wants to be confident that she knows where her man stands in the relationship and enjoy dating, she needs to let him win her! When the impulse comes up to act like a mother, practice awareness and hold back.

@Keke-vs7gm 12 дней назад

Which is where the pick me term deceived from.

@Potterhead8384 12 дней назад

Thank you for articulating this perfectly, as I haven't been able to lol! Tried to a while back and it was word salad.

@JackieS812 12 дней назад

I’m NOT playing wife to a man that has no intentions on marrying me!

@passionwilliamson1182 9 дней назад

Amen 🙏 Very well said!!!

@joyricherson4570 12 дней назад

He can know you can clean without cleaning HIS house

@MeetStephanSpeaks 12 дней назад

Absolutely

@cytinachavis9157 11 дней назад

Yes! When he comes over have a clean, orderly home and he'll know.

@puddin1243 13 дней назад

I didn't start cooking, cleaning or doing laundry 🎉regularly for my ex's until we were in a committed relationship. They didn't even get a regular sexual relationship until we established where we were going in our relationships. Unfortunately once they got comfortable and unappreciated what I was doing, I had to let them go .

@pthesmith 12 дней назад

Don’t do any of that for someone you’re not married to; whether you’re a man or a woman.

@cheekytitaable 12 дней назад

@@pthesmitheven when you’re married, some, perhaps many men take things for granted. I agree that you should reserve those duties until after marriage or an agreed upon commitment. But there’s other things that need to be in place in order for couples not to take each other for granted.. it all depends on who you select.

@donnatownsendp 12 дней назад

We’re supposed to consult God in everything. His word says “in all thy ways acknowledge God & He shall direct thy path”

@passionwilliamson1182 9 дней назад

Amen 🙏

@passionwilliamson1182 9 дней назад

Amen 🙏

@donnatownsendp 12 дней назад

If he’s not asking, I’m not volunteering

@LifewithBawseNancy 10 дней назад

This so reallll because they always say a closed mouth doesn’t get fed when you don’t ask them for certain things lol

@osolvholts 10 дней назад

🔥

@sassykat2000 12 дней назад

I inform men from the very beginning that I'm not domesticated. Men have never had a problem with this. Somehow I seem to find men who are used to being self sufficient and love it. They enjoy cooking and I'm the good company watching them create great meals with a glass of wine. 😂

@karanharris3497 10 дней назад

I’m domesticated but he usually cooks when I visit him

@CrystalJacobson-kj1ye 12 дней назад

Man, this right here!!! Sums up my life perfectly at the moment…and when a person shows you there true colors, believe them…don’t keep brushing it under the rug…listen to your intuition

@passionwilliamson1182 9 дней назад

Right! Don't try to repaint the man once he shows his true colors!!!

@donnatownsendp 13 дней назад

I’ve been here a few times before & kept getting the same results until I realized that I was the common denominator that was drawn to “POTENTIAL” & building my hopes up on letdowns. Not no more…. Tapped into myself & realized that I was trying to fill a void in my life by doing for them& I wasn’t getting what I was putting out. Nope 👎…. He’s going to have to prove himself to me & whatsoever I do for him, it’s without reservations….ijs

@jayc5756 13 дней назад

Exactly. Salute sis! 👍

@nannettebailey8768 12 дней назад

Amen to this

@staejaye1910 6 дней назад

Same

@helenward77 12 дней назад

Intuition / gut feelings are always The Holy Spirit. Spiritual discernment is so important. We are finite human beings. We couldn't possibly know if someone is the one without God's guidance.

@joyricherson4570 12 дней назад

It's not always the Holy Spirit. Feelings are tricky that's why God tells us not to trust them. Feelings should be objective but are SUBJECTIVE. We can feel something based on our past experiences/trauma.

@Yada.yada.washington 12 дней назад

I needed this a year ago. It's taken me that long to start separating myself from him. He's noticing but I'm realizing he's not worth it. I shouldn't have to ask for things like spending time together. Watching these videos have helped me get to this point. Ty

@staejaye1910 6 дней назад

Same

@donnatownsendp 13 дней назад

Baby…. I’m not trying to be his mom & lover

@StephanSpeaksforMen 13 дней назад

💯

@MeetStephanSpeaks 13 дней назад

💯

@user-bl6xg8mb6c 12 дней назад

💯

@FrancesHernandez-hf5ys 12 дней назад

💯

@staejaye1910 6 дней назад

Eeeel same.

@moonchild66 12 дней назад

I always give too much ..too soon...and dnt get the same energy back....im single and working on myself❤thanks so my for the advice Stephen..stay blessed 🙏🙏✨

@MeetStephanSpeaks 12 дней назад

I pray things work out for you 🙏

@donnatownsendp 12 дней назад

What you will continue to allow will eventually try to destroy you

@StacieEllen-tc6qe 12 дней назад

That's what it did to me In May and June 2023

@gladcherie1146 10 дней назад

I’m in my pricesss treatment era💅, if u ain’t ready to spoil me then pls don’t come close to me❤

@nadia_hopePs23 12 дней назад

Investments that turn into unhealthy attachments. 😔 I heard that. I sank and then jump shipped

@MeetStephanSpeaks 12 дней назад

It unfortunately happens to a lot of women

@Sunlightsam24 12 дней назад

Married people in a solid relationship generally act as a partnership , not one doing all the errands, ironing, laundry, etc.

@hiannahgus574 12 дней назад

🎯

@cindyvazquez4333 12 дней назад

God is most important in a relationship. He will lead you and guide you if you allow the Holy Spirit to really work in your life.

@alexakearney 13 дней назад

I feel attacked with the cooking example 😂.. I needed this though

@MeetStephanSpeaks 13 дней назад

😅 Glad you enjoyed the video 🙏

@vodkavuitton 12 дней назад

I don't 🤷🏾‍♀️ I'll cook if I want to

@alexakearney 12 дней назад

@@vodkavuitton I hear you , I gladly cooked so many meals lol

@user-fh1tr9zp3l 12 дней назад

We all know what coach Stephan is famous for FACTS FACTS and more FACTS

@MeetStephanSpeaks 12 дней назад

😊 thank you very much

@kourtney101 12 дней назад

Such a good message. Spend time fixing the broken parts of your heart/emotions/ memory so you don't attach yourself to what you're not ready for. Healing for the win 🏆

@passionwilliamson1182 9 дней назад

Amen 🙏

@beautifulblessedandbeloved659 13 дней назад

Good stuff, Stephan as always but the bonus point is what really hit with me. We can't forget about ourselves or we won't be good for him or for anyone.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 13 дней назад

Nice one 🙏

@Sharon-jg9ls 12 дней назад

Even in a committed relationship, I’m not cleaning his house. I have my own house to clean. I can promise you this…A man that truly values you, doesn’t want you to. It’s a turn off because he doesn’t want to f his mother. We are nurturers so it comes naturally. I learned this firsthand when I surprised my ex bf but cleaning up his apartment while he was golfing. He was less than thrilled.

@mysurfing3550 12 дней назад

When he needed a ride to work (he doesn't have a car) I waited 2 extra hours to start my errands and asked him if we could leave 10 minutes earlier than he wanted because I was just too hungry to wait anymore. He absolutely flipped his shhht (like usual) that I was selfish for making him leave early. He was always an entitled jerk but something in me snapped. I have absolutely refused to do anything for him since and I am just trying to get a job elsewhere to bail. I invested way too much time and effort into this relationship with the hope it would eventually get better. But, it won't. All of the signs were always there I just had lust goggles. I made a mistake and beat myself up a little but I learned an expensive time consuming lesson.

@joyricherson4570 12 дней назад

So you guys aren't together anymore?

@MeetStephanSpeaks 12 дней назад

🙏

@mysurfing3550 12 дней назад

@@joyricherson4570 If I had a 10 year old that acted like that I would ground him for a week. No video games, nothing fun and hours of chores to earn money to help fill the tank (I would even make him pump the gas and come in and pay.) With a child I would make it extremely clear that level of self absorbed and entitled will be met with lots of punishment. What am I supposed to do when a full grown dude is that ridiculous? The way he behaves is so unattractive to brutally unalived any desire for him I am not sure what else I can do. He insists on behaving like that and seems to have no idea why that's absolutely disgusting behavior. I am not his mom, Im sorry his parents never taught him but ew. How can I give my body and heart to someone like that? It's not the only thing it's just the thing that made me finally snap. I am grossed out by his behavior it would be like if a dude washed his toothbrush in a toilet or something just the ew reflex is so strong.

@Iwillsurvive95 12 дней назад

This sounds like the guy from TLC song "no scrubs"😂

@passionwilliamson1182 9 дней назад

YOU MUST BE MY TWIN!!! GLAD WE HAVE LEARNED FROM THESE EXPERIENCES!

@isabelpatton5567 11 дней назад

I have a beautiful man that is in my life and we have both been in horrible previous relationships! We have been together for over a year and we have chosen not to be intimate and we openly discuss when we have issues with any dynamic. I love the openness and honesty. We live in different states so our schedules conflict on times but we always communicate. So grateful that we both actively listen to each other and just love being in each other's presence ❤️!

@staejaye1910 6 дней назад

Awesome

@fantasiaroberts5157 12 дней назад

I know a lot of very young ladies that do these things for their men and its so not on..what I think is the most sadness part of all is, a lot of them doesn't even know any better and they been told by their parents it's what they have to do to keep a man..🥺😢thank you for your wonderful videos Stephan 🙏🏽💚

@LeFroge 12 часов назад

So true. I grew up seeing and being told nothing except how the woman/wife just naturally does every single thing inside the house as a slave, and the man/husband has fun outside drinking beer with his friends. This was the norm for many of us, and it's no wonder we have so much trouble navigating out of that mindset! Only with the help of coaches like this did I realize how unfair it truly was...

@wejoin 13 дней назад

I knew of a woman who didn’t deserve it, cooked, took his clothes to the cleaners, mow the lawn, etc…and gave nothing but grief and stole from her

@MeetStephanSpeaks 13 дней назад

Wow! I'm so sorry to hear that 🙏

@jayc5756 13 дней назад

That's a very low self esteem woman. Facts!

@runyararomtandi2237 11 дней назад

Kkkk mow the lawn had me rolling on the floor

@cindyvazquez4333 12 дней назад

A lot of men dont know how to communicate. Then they want to go 90MPH in dating or they think they are in a relationship with you. U never even committed too. I went to dinner with a few different guys over the years after my husband died and they thought we were in a relationship and I snapped right out of that. I broke off with daters bc im a 20mph cautious person and most men wants to jump in the sack. I am worth so much more than that and i will say Bye right away.

@frankG335 12 дней назад

Same. Two phone calls and he wants to move to a homestead and has already decided I'm his dream woman and he doesn't even know me!

@HalfSweetness 12 дней назад

You definitely gotta make sure that the last point you made is not where you find yourself a lot of times in a relationship. Neglecting you or your children to make the partner more important. There really does have to be a balance between the two. ❤💙💯

@18Momdukes 11 дней назад

This video just Blessed my life 😢. Amazingly, someone asked me if I would marry him today knowing he's not where he needs to be in his life I said no, BUT He said Yes in a heartbeat. I'm refusing to be miserable. This is a unhealthy attachment. Dang I Must Let Go because he's not worth it 😢

@Marie-vz2qp 12 дней назад

Teach us Stephan. Take heed ladies.

@allieanderson85 10 дней назад

Do not have sex with a man before you are boyfriend/girlfriend. I broke my cardinal rule the other day, and gave into temptation, and when I tell you, this man had me fooled, he had me FOOLED! Switched up on me right afterwards. Used me and discarded me like a piece of trash. I’m more disappointed in myself than anything. I let myself down and I really hate that so don’t do it no matter what they’re telling you, how they’re acting, the vibe you’re getting, etc. there are snakes out there, disguised as the sweetest guy who ever ever meet. I wrote all that way before Stephen said it at 22:18

@donnatownsendp 12 дней назад

Ladies….we have to learn how to read these guys. Trust and believe that they show and tells you all you needs to know in their behavior and what they says indirectly. Learn to read the words in between the words that’s not spoken!

@karmab.1253 12 дней назад

So true

@user-qb1qi5ly6s 12 дней назад

Perhaps that's what i have going against me. I just naturally do "all the things." For 25 years I've been the breadwinner and the homemaker. I enjoy cooking and value the love that goes into every meal, be they simple or elaborate. We were given life to LIVE IT. We all live it differantly. I mean to live it authentically; which means..."you come around my spot you're going to see art, smell the ocean, and enjoy a home cooked meal, because that's who i am, it's what I love to do, how i enjoy living. I've always truly found joy in domestic duties, the mundane... they're an unavoidable aspect of life, so i caught on young, making it fun, pouring love and passion into every moment. Our society has grown quite self serving. Loving God and having an understanding of the scriptures has led me to see things so differently. I'm not going to hide or hold back who i am to play some kind of game with a grown man. I like communication, transparency. When people cant "keep it real with me," i just distance myself. As quietly as possible, I'm too old to be getting out of character, scene causing is tacky...even in a party of two. Let's all just address the "REAL ELEPHANT IN THE ROOM," I'd guess most of us here are adults. Be genuinely you. It should be the simplest, most natural thing to be... we're not in high school, be open and honest about who you are from the begining. A lot of people run, but nobody can hide forever from who they really are. Everything done in the darkness eventually comes to the light.

@Sunlightsam24 12 дней назад

It’s not that he’s not worth it necessarily, but it’s a turnoff for him, even if he doesn’t consciously know it.

@vodkavuitton 12 дней назад

Stalking & harassment grossly turns me off too but it doesn't stop them 🤷🏾‍♀️

@fantasiaroberts5157 12 дней назад

Very well said! Brought tears to my eyes..🥺👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💚💚💚🙏🏽

@GabrielleHolt-nt7rm 12 дней назад

Thank you for sharing this! Stephan, such a great inspiration! ✨️

@darialevina8973 12 дней назад

Stephan is so much right as usual. I have molded myself for years into something I am not - none of us was happy as a result of that. Bless Stephan for all the wisdom he shares 🙏🙏🙏

@Lay_Lay208 12 дней назад

This video came right on time! I just blocked him Friday perfect timing lol!

@MeetStephanSpeaks 12 дней назад

I’m glad it was helpful to you 🙏

@angelnetworkascension2039 12 дней назад

I'm happy for you. ❤❤❤

@runyararomtandi2237 11 дней назад

Kkkkkkk😅 poor guy

@Lay_Lay208 11 дней назад

@@angelnetworkascension2039 Thank you 🥰

@maryjones3123 10 дней назад

So true. Preach Stephan, your sisters need it. U r doing a great job.

@brynettamontgomery2581 13 дней назад

Love these ❤thanks for your insight on relationships

@MeetStephanSpeaks 13 дней назад

You're welcome 🙏

@Avamoneta 12 дней назад

Thank you so much for this topic!! The very best advice I had for long time!! Perfect timing too even though I ended it yesterday. Thank you for this!! God Bless!❤

@tristamarie7115 12 дней назад

Before you decide to do something for someone, ask yourself if it wasn’t reciprocated in some way (attention, love, admiration, commitment, him doing the same thing, etc) would I be upset? If so, then don’t do it. Also, ask yourself, did he ask you to do it?

@tristamarie7115 12 дней назад

A lot of women ‘do things for a man’ hoping he’ll do it for her/that’s what she wants from him. Ex: Him to take initiative, made the load lighter for her, etc.

@almahermana9577 12 дней назад

This is so validating for me.. thank you ❤

@LakaylaAnn 12 дней назад

Thank you Stephan, Great points! I needed to hear this and im sure many other women. At 29:09 almost took me out 🤯. I believe this is Gods extra confirmation to me thru your video. I had just moved into my new place. I was excited because the guy i was feeling and thought felt same for me. He had made effort to come out my area which was a pretty distance drive outside of city. Ive been to his area more just to note. We had a great evening but i felt he was being overly lovey dovey even to point mentioning things like we should get matching tattoos on fingers etc but i just went with flow tried to enjoy moment. The next morning, I wasnt sure if i should cook breakfast for him but i did. I felt God say just do it, dont stop being the good woman you are, and watch as the rest will be revealed. Well, it didn't take long, his actions (ghosting) right after up until the following weekend gave me all i needed to know...he was an ungrateful ba$tard.😂 Never again!

@Iwillsurvive95 12 дней назад

That's lovebombing hun. If a guys moving fast, predators move fast, not gentleman. You likely don't have a support system yet. They suss it out. Don't overshare on dates, so you don't "instantly connect" with a guy mirroring all the MANY intimate details you overshare ("me too!" Wow we are perfect...etc) don't expect a first date to lead to a marriage and fantasize a future. Go in with attitude you might never see this guy again but might have a good chat. Based off the date and his behavior/your gut around him, not your hope for a future/marriage, do YOU WANT another date? See the guy you wanna see again who doesn't propose permanent commitments early on, that's called future faking and it's fooled many women to keep investing REAl time effort money based on he never proposed. Thank Hod plans of commitment my ex wven pretebded he "lost" a ring that never exusted. 7 yrs kater

@LakaylaAnn 11 дней назад

Thank you! Yes, love bombing is the term. I definitely peeped it. We had been dealing off and on. I've learned my lesson. Don't ever walk backwards. It will keep you stuck possibly with some thing evil. Just block and move forward.

@trillyfly7805 10 дней назад

Preach it Stephan. I wish i could succinctly share my own position in relationship to men & that man to you & hear your feedback.

@MelindaBerney-eg5tb 11 дней назад

😂😂 Stephan, I am learning and laughing... mostly laughing because you are hilarious and Crack me up!

@anitamoses4071 12 дней назад

Interesting video stephan I love watching your videos ❤❤❤

@victoriaswift193 12 дней назад

Good points. This was me. Now I’m having trust issues 🤦🏽‍♀️

@MsLilac88 12 дней назад

Hello Stephan, I always feel enlightened by your amazing relationship advice videos, I made some mistakes in the past when I was giving too much to a man. 👍

@Nyyy777 12 дней назад

Yes! Don’t help men in the beginning, it ruins the natural order of things.

@FrancesHernandez-hf5ys 12 дней назад

Very well Said Stephan

@mcleo9935 12 дней назад

Hi Stephan I found your channel recently and are taking notes 😊

@Bonnie-fq4re 12 дней назад

Stephan Nailed it!!!!!!!

@joyricherson4570 12 дней назад

Been here done this ...done now Thank God

@MeetStephanSpeaks 12 дней назад

🙏

@donnatownsendp 12 дней назад

Ladies…..we’re not going to make these men our “PROJECTS” and have these “HYPOTHESES” of what the outcome of the relationship is going to be. Naw naw….who done made that up?

@jalisam7383 12 дней назад

This is very helpful ❤. This helps me open up a healing journey

@Mamarachel78 10 дней назад

This is so good. So true

@aril7224 6 дней назад

You provided great tips and everything you said is so true. This would have been more helpful when I was younger but thank goodness I didn't make the same mistakes as far as "doing too much." I knew it wasn't right and didn't feel right at the time and unfortunately I still did it. But I also knew I wasn't being me and it couldn't continue. I refuse to put my self in that situation going forward. This was a reminder. Thank you for sharing and I hope it helps others.

@TanyaOden 12 дней назад

Another great video! Thank you SO much for sharing! I appreciate it! I'm not currently dating anyone yet but these points are duly noted. My takeaways/thoughts are as follows: 1. I think when people "do too much" is almost like people are "auditioning for a role" or "applying for a job". It shouldn't be like that. It's like they're trying to prove themselves. That sounds like WORK to me. I wish I would (sarcastically and jokingly-LOL) cook, clean, do a man's laundry, give him money, etc. for a dude that isn't MY man... NOT!! I ain't Florence (from The Jefferson's or Alice from The Brady Bunch! ) LOL. However, I do think it's okay to assist once in a blue moon if that's what a women wants to do. She just needs to make sure her motives are right. 2. I think what really matters is not what you to "for the person" (chores) but more so " how do they make you feel" (with a genuine/loving/sincere heart). 3. I'm a huge believer in just being myself! I'm definitely an expressive! I love sharing my thoughts and showing affection! That's one of my strengths! Not a fan of phoniness or pretending. SO I'm confident in that area. Again, another great video! In the meanwhile, I'm growing, learning, preparing, improving myself! I just want to be a better person, teammate, future wife, lover etc.

@NevertoomuchK4494 22 часа назад

Boom!!! That last added point!!! That hit it on the money for me! Yep, I let him go and that part was exactly why. Thank you for confirmation Stephan!!!

@denanikiawilliams 7 дней назад

Labossiere you are so good. You are most definitely walking worthy in your calling confidently and I love it. Us ladies appreciate it. Keep going. We need this🥰💜💪🙌

@l.lani.i 11 дней назад

This is so true Stephan. Thank you very much! That's why it's so important to focus on healing first... We act out of our trauma and wounds, instead of love. I've been there, done that... 🤷🏽‍♀️ at the end of the day you can't blame anyone but yourself. We need to take accountability for our own decisions. Don't blame a clown for acting like a clown 🤡 ask yourself why you keep going to the circus... God is so graceful!! he will use every situation to mold us, to heal us and to prepare us, for everything that he has for us. 🙏🏽

@DECODINGLOVE13 11 дней назад

yep thats sooooo true ladies i hape you are taking notes

@elisabethalicea4000 13 дней назад

Noted!!! He can get one meal 🤣🤣🤣

@MeetStephanSpeaks 13 дней назад

Lol 🙏

@kiasunray 12 дней назад

Meal? A taste test. A sample😂😂

@user-fh1tr9zp3l 11 дней назад

Be attentive if he doesn't t ask for more then be sure u cannot cook 🤣🤣

@kiasunray 8 дней назад

@@user-fh1tr9zp3l 😂😂😂 good point

@stella99dc 12 дней назад

This video is very helpful. Thank you.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 12 дней назад

I’m glad you found it helpful

@happilye.v.e.rafter3534 11 дней назад

This is on point

@princesstaranay 13 дней назад

Thank you for this video.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 13 дней назад

My pleasure ❤️

@01LadyNay 4 дня назад

Lawd knows had this info hit my heart 15 years ago I'd be much further ahead... thank God for restoring the time and allowing me to learn and live.

@LifewithBawseNancy 10 дней назад

Omg this was so good 😊

@emilys.goldbergacp5374 10 дней назад

You've just described the last 30 years of my life.

@user-tg9dc5so4v 11 дней назад

Thanks for teaching us

@donnatownsendp 12 дней назад

He valued the one that he’s separated and the ones he’s sleeping with, he’s using for sexual gratification. They’re doing exactly what he will not ask of her to do for him because he respects her!

@Emily_Paris 3 дня назад

In my healing journey from my ex husband, I learned I’m a people pleaser always putting their needs and wants before mine. I give my all to others but not to myself. I also learned it’s ok to say “no.” I’m an empath and attract toxic men.

@jazminekyarre 12 дней назад

Thank you Stephan🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🌻

@MeetStephanSpeaks 12 дней назад

My pleasure 🙂

@sxymf96 11 дней назад

Ah your spoke a truth on energy

@imvivi3953 12 дней назад

Cuz we love genuinely, we don’t know when we doing to much. We feel like we can go above and beyond for the people we love specially our men. It’s in us . We do it naturally and some of us don’t expect anything in return. I feel like if a man like u he will love ur actions. It’s jus that in this generation when a woman shows real love and genuine mean take that as we are desperate. I wish men can understand where some of us are coming from. We are jus genuine lovers.

@maurataniaisrael9398 10 дней назад

How long until part 2? This is good advice!

@keleatrewilliams7998 12 дней назад

I understood everything perfectly and I really appreciate this message but the ungrateful bastard part hit home 😂😂😂

@MeetStephanSpeaks 12 дней назад

lol 😂

@user-gi6eu1sq9f 7 дней назад

Great video❤

@Iwillsurvive95 12 дней назад

When I was in my early 20s I really enjoyed the 50s housewife fantasy with my first live in boyfriend. It wasnt "sexy" after a month anymore it was giving wifey perks without the lifelong subscription. Playing house was cute. Then I graduated university, had years of therapy and realized "working" for love/approval is a sad response to performance-notice you parenting. You dont have to do squat to gain love. To make a marriage and relationship work yes you have to do stuff but not for the love, the trust the loyalty-that sh*t can't be bribed/bought. Dont audition for america's next top sucker. Be loved for who you ARE not what you do and im sorry anyone reading this that you had to jump through hoops to get a "proud of you" or acknowledgement of love from an emotionally immature parent(s).

@jacl1923 11 дней назад

This hit home hard. ❤️

@joyricherson4570 12 дней назад

Giving a man kids WIFEY DUTY!

@Keke-vs7gm 12 дней назад

Sure is!

@rebeccabivins4346 12 дней назад

Trying To Fit Into This Box!

@Widget96 12 дней назад

Oof, calling us out. Thank you ❤ I don't think I came across this video by mistake.

@RachelC.19 8 дней назад

I am so grateful what you said starting at 9:18. I have run circles around the man I love and married too for 27 years, raise 5 children. And then he became unhappy and ungrateful and taking me for granted and I can't ignore it anymore. Betraying self is the worst betrayal.

@user-dc1le2hq5f 12 дней назад

I’m dating a man first time I invited him to eat at my place , he Zelle me some money , then gifts less than 3 months vacation to the Caribbean. I got lucky this time maybe 😂, let see 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ he’s Haitian if you don’t cook to impress you might not get a Haitian men 😩😩😩

@suzannedouglas1068 8 дней назад

Good advice.

@Doohopper_Grandma 11 дней назад

I am dealing with this at 65 . Do a lot for the person and He keeps insisting we are only friends and says we are not in a relationship yet I am so charmed by him I keep putting tons of effort into trying to do things for him and with him, if he allows it . what I keep thinking it will turn into more.I get a Thank you here and there but keep being told we don’t have a relationship! I am going on 8 months in to this Relationship he labels as a non-relationship! 🤪I want more!

@jinaolen786 10 дней назад

He doesn't though... 8 months is past too long to wait 😢

@Fodbed 12 дней назад

Good to know.

@rebeccabivins4346 12 дней назад

Right!

@Mandy-ct5nv 11 дней назад

I really like the flowers ❤

@Peaches-i5c 6 дней назад

Thank you 🙏 Stephen from 🇨🇦

@passionwilliamson1182 9 дней назад

YESSS!!!!

@ondolofiyadingi1059 12 дней назад

That bonus hit hard.😞

@deesmith3164 12 дней назад

Came out swinging on the first one....I have learnt my last lesson this last time doing that...

@karincarozza381 9 дней назад

Yes, very important for woman to know who she is. Not only to know who her love interest is. Deal breakers exist. Know if there is a conflict before committing to a relationship or marriage . Thank you Stephan very important--