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Hi my loves! In today's video I give you my best tips and advice for moving through a healing journey and how to get out of a low point in your life. I hope this helps 💗
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@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

I felt that it was needed to post this video ASAP. No fancy editing needed today. Sending you all love 💗

@trulyzaynah 9 месяцев назад

girl… this video is RIGHT on time! Thank you 🤍

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

@@trulyzaynah you are so welcome 🥰

@hannahGE_443 9 месяцев назад

Thank you so much for this video! I greatly needed it. You the best, Elicia ❤

@survivalsilk2101 9 месяцев назад

youre the bestttttt@@eliciagoguen

@zrinkasesar2847 9 месяцев назад

Currently I am in psych ward struggling with bpd and I have spent all morning watching this, and this made me think alot. In a positive way! I love you

@taurus_7 9 месяцев назад

Her timing is so perfect it’s like she can read our minds😭💀✨

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

😭😭😭😭

@taurus_7 9 месяцев назад

@@eliciagoguen yess💅🏻

@wolfiesasha887 9 месяцев назад

True 🤣

@Uwua-yn2le 9 месяцев назад

Frrr

@ebonythomas3111 9 месяцев назад

Crazy yesssss

@LaydyDivine 9 месяцев назад

I’m going THROUGH it. Life is definitely lonely and overwhelming. This video is so spot on. I also feel like I need to make friends in my area that are a sisterhood too. Love life no existent and low key panicking, not everyone wants to be alone. Work is stressful, rent is so high, I also have SO many goals, depression, anxiety coming out of no where, not feeling heard, need to exercise. Soooo much most of all I feel really sad, lonely and disappointed.

@RashmiKamath1201 9 месяцев назад

you spoke my mind

@esmeroxy2468 9 месяцев назад

girl this was SO needed. we all really have been going thru it 😭😭😭😭

@Tmxnet 9 месяцев назад

Hey there I’m so glad I found this page really been hurting

@ainoluo 9 месяцев назад

Love that you mentioned being careful with over consuming content. Guilty! I read this quote couple days ago: “Asking for advice is holding you back” and today I went to a “main character tapping” event and I got it - there comes a time where you need to affirm yourself and not give out the ball on others, such as your favourite creator.

@lechantdesmots97 9 месяцев назад

me : i hate long videos because with my adhd i can't focus also me watching elicia's videos and liking them being long because her advices are so good

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

You are the best I appreciate you so much 🥺🥺

@TanyaMord 9 месяцев назад

I used to think that "a little bit of time" was a few months when it comes to "learning lessons", but it's actually YEARS sometimes before I see "the reason" that something happened. But everything propels us forward, if we take the time to heal. Thanks for the video. Very needed right now

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

Yessss!!!!!

@midnightradioforlostmortal9071 9 месяцев назад

Just broke up with my bf and moved out. Lost my old job and looking for new one. Yup. Definitely going through it so need NEED this video

@Dairieswithleasha 9 месяцев назад

literally struggling to get out of this lump of mine been consistent for 2 days and just felt unmotivated the next 2 days really wanna be the greatest version of me but I am struggling ❤

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

I hope this video helps my love 🤍

@makenzieward9147 9 месяцев назад

girl….. going through my first real breakup, I was with him for four years. you really showed up for me today, this is crazy.

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

Sending you so much love 🥺🤍

@MeditationWithAmber 9 месяцев назад

Just started the video and already had to pause it to comment 💗. I love that your tips start with acknowledging our current state without jumping straight to trying to fix the situation. I find that really sitting with my present reality and accepting what is always helps me make the right next move. Love your content and can't wait to see more!

@tiffbaby222 8 месяцев назад

love this video definitely saving it for times in need😩💕

@alyssamedina4352 6 месяцев назад

First video I am seeing by you, and I love it! You are so well-spoken and bring up fantastic points. THANK YOU!

@keepingupwithkourtney7405 9 месяцев назад

I just love my free therapy sessions with you. Thank you for your advice, Elicia.

@artiem8580 6 месяцев назад

this found me exactly when i needed it

@rachelrandolph2579 9 месяцев назад

the way i was compelled to go grab my journal and take notes on how i can apply this to my life... it's all the thoughts i've been having about what I should be doing and not realizing that i can take action and apply it. today changes that, i'm so glad i found this video and your channel!!

@Thatgurlkikii 9 месяцев назад

Definitely needed to hear this. I recently lost my mother she passed away last month 08-25-23. It has really took a toll on me and my emotions. Not only that I am currently pregnant with my 1st child and still dealing with my boyfriend. Things haven’t been easy with that as well. I just feel like everything just been like a rollercoaster. I’m going through so much emotional and verbal stress.

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

I’m so sorry for your loss my love. I’m sending you so much love and compassion during this time. Please take care of yourself and your baby, 🥺🤍 I’m really proud of you for staying strong, watching videos, like this to try and get through hard times. You are STRONG 🤍

@selahhh6671 9 месяцев назад

I needed this so bad today.. thank you❤️ this reminded me of who I am & that I am not my negative thoughts.

@uselessweirdo 9 месяцев назад

Elicia, i'm ten minutes in and i'm in tears because i feel so seen. It's like you can see right through me. You are truly a healer and i'm so thankful i found your content and that we get to share a lifetime in this earth. You deserve every good thing this life has to offer. Bless you!!!! ✨

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

sending you so much love 🥹

@montytv1196 8 месяцев назад

NEW SUB😩 you don’t even know how much this was needed🥺❤️‍🩹

@comfyube808 8 месяцев назад

Girl Thank You so much my friend and I are both going through it and your video helped so much! Keep doing what your doing! And Have a blessed day💜😌🙏

@sungexpression9093 9 месяцев назад

Omg this video was so powerful! Came at the perfect time❤!

@heyemichu 9 месяцев назад

I love your advice, videos and podcasts SO much. I'm scared of commenting too much. However, because you allow us to reflect that feeling when we are feeling is okay, and also moving on is okay. Finding the balance that works for ourselves. Acknowledging that what happened, happened, and the stories that we tell ourselves hold so much power, but it's okay to let the experience be. Thank you, you teach me something new with every video 🤍

@niyathitakes 9 месяцев назад

This was brilliant, I 100% resonate with what you're saying. 🥰

@queen4396 9 месяцев назад

This video was so on cue ! I needed it so much. Thank you !

@annigel1 9 месяцев назад

Dear Elicia, thank you for your videos from the bottom of my heart❤ I am currently going through not the easiest period in my life. You are like a best friend who will always console and cheer you up, thank you and wishing you all the best🙏🫶

@janiewilder4720 9 месяцев назад

im literally 13 minutes in and im already bamboozled 😭 YOU ARE SO GREAT THANK YOU

@juliarosep 9 месяцев назад

time to re-emerge from my sadness cocoon after a bad week, and i needed everything you said in this video as encouragement! feeling inspired & determined. love how you stress it's important to learn to trust YOURSELF & listen to yourself, because sometimes we can use others' advice as a crutch. seems contradictory that i'm saying that after an advice video where i'm taking your advice but i hope you know what i mean. there is a balance there. thank you🧡

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

I know exactly what you mean my love!!!! 🥹🥰

@gracenguyen8467 9 месяцев назад

thank you so much for this. i really needed to hear all your inspiring words today! you are amazing

@survivalsilk2101 9 месяцев назад

girl i just appreciate you so much

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

Love you babe 🥰

@Monssterslips66 8 месяцев назад

Saw this video pop up one time a month ago when was in my now recently ended relationship. I never actually watched it but now I am.

@teaharris 9 месяцев назад

This is right on time between Mental health and finances I needed this

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

🥺🤍

@aerin6513 9 месяцев назад

i genuinely love how you always give examples bc i feel like a lot of inspirational/motivational videos just kind of talk about an issue or solution but you actually help me apply the things you say into my life

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

I appreciate you so much for saying that, thank you 🤍🫶🏼

@EstrellaAgesta 7 месяцев назад

I am just getting to know your content and I must say that the way you explain is soo good. I am learning English and at the same time I am learning to love myself a little bit more. 💚

@survivalsilk2101 9 месяцев назад

so true, we are all going thru it

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

Love you 😘

@gabriellagulyas3778 9 месяцев назад

hey girl🤍 new subscriber here and i just wanted to let you know i found your channel in a hard period recently and your videos already helped me so much in feeling better 🤍 thanks so much for your work! sending all the love 🤍

@blairwaldorf8526 8 месяцев назад

first and only video i watched from you so far and i love you and thank you!

@eliciagoguen 8 месяцев назад

Aww so glad you enjoyed it! Love you 🥰

@vekiii5115 9 месяцев назад

It's like you knew what I've been going through and came up to my home page with this video! I'll be completely honest, my life has been a living hell this year and it kept getting worse. It's even more discouraging when I know I continuously sabotage myself, thinking everything will be okay in the end because I keep waiting for a miracle like an idiot without doing anything to elevate my life. Your words opened my eyes and I think It's finally a perfect time to get out, face my fears and truly try my best because I can't wait any longer in my bed, running away from what could be a dream come true of a life if I just dedicate myself more. I'm also writing this in order to remind myself in couple of months about this journey. I hope it will be worth it!

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

It will be so worth it. So proud of you 🥺

@EmilyAlbojer 9 месяцев назад

I think I needed this 5 days ago when it came out (I’ve lost my youthful excitement and joy after abuse, trauma and isolation), but my mindset is already improving so hopefully this locks things in place. 🥰

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

Aww I’m hoping this video helped 🥹🤍

@HorrorStoriesFromThe40s 8 месяцев назад

I absolutely love and appreciate your videos. Thank you for always being on time 🫶🏽

@eliciagoguen 8 месяцев назад

Aww thank you girl 🥰

@cozyhobbies_ 9 месяцев назад

I love when I receive your videos in the morning ! I feel your your videos are the healthiest thing my brain could hear ! Instead of consuming other people’s morning routines and not trying to build my own self up ❤❤

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

Aww this makes me really happy! Thank you🤍

@EmilyHummingbird 9 месяцев назад

Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and who you are via your channel. I went through a hard time this summer, a health emergency, and I was close to death. On top of that my relationship of five years ended. Right now I’m waiting on hearing back about a move-in day for an adorable apartment which would be my first place and first time being on my own. I’m almost 26, single, and going to enjoy my era. 🥳❤️

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

Omg this is so exciting!!!! Everything will work out exactly the way it needs to 🥰🤍🤍🤍

@user-sg5wp8bz8h 8 месяцев назад

Wow this was needed

@wydjazzz 9 месяцев назад

It’s like the algorithm felt my pain!! I got in an accident recently and my car was totaled a day before a trip 😭 I’m completely carless now and very stressed and confused abt everything. It’s like ppl really don’t understand my frustration. so so needed

@AlleeBaba 7 месяцев назад

Thanks for the algorithm showing me your video. My bf just broke up with me. It was just 2months but I feel so empty and betrayed because I wasn't (and still am, unfortunately) in love with him but also with our potential as a couple. It feels so hard and almost impossible to step away from this mindset and move forward from this whole relationship. Plus I'm feeling the seasonal depression coming in.. thank you so much for this comfort video.❤

@Kiannanikole 9 месяцев назад

Thank you I definitely needed this video today 💕

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

You’re so welcome 🤍

@Sandyficslick 9 месяцев назад

Your videos are one of the things i look forward to on the weekends, i swear Elicia. Not me excitedly checking my notifications to see what sort of content you're releasing every week. Once, holy moly you know what we are going through huh? just going through a rough time and this was just perfect to listen to and remind myself of. This was the comforting yet realistic advice i needed. Thank you. Also the hour went by so fast. And as someone who found you on RU-vid , i love your long form content. It suits you perfectly.

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

Omg! Thank you babe!!! I always look forward to seeing YOU in the comment section 🫶🏼 you genuinely brighten my day 🤍

@Frankiestein_24 9 месяцев назад

This video really helped me I just came out of a really toxic relationship with my ex boyfriend we were always on and off I was always so upset I couldn’t make it work with him even though he was my first real relationship I still loved him and “needed” him but each time we broke up he always got a new girlfriend (some being my friends) he always made me feel like I wasn’t a good person with how toxic we were for each other I now realize that I was people pleasing seeing him in a relationship now makes me feel upset but no matter how much I miss him I will never go back again this video was so perfectly timed and I love seeing that I’m not the only one who struggles with this❤❤

@quyenche9161 9 месяцев назад

this video speaks to me! thanks so much my queen 👑

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

You’re welcome my move 🥰

@ilsathejoe 9 месяцев назад

I found you when I needed you most. Thank you for everything

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

You’re very welcome ☺️

@vanessaprincesssa 9 месяцев назад

Thank you Elicia ❤

@stephanyvaldez1698 8 месяцев назад

Loved it❤. Specially the part of taking the story that makes You feel better. Thank You.

@eliciagoguen 8 месяцев назад

You’re welcome 🥰

@Stefshortyyy_ 9 месяцев назад

You’re always so on time girl 🥹

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

🥹🤍🤍🤍

@apolloniacaridad96 8 месяцев назад

Thank you for this ❤

@Naerii_777 9 месяцев назад

I never seen a 1 hour self improvement video I feel blessed

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

🥹🥹

@fashiongoddezz3462 9 месяцев назад

❤❤❤right on time. I'm resetting today

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

Proud of you 🤍

@Pearlebaby 9 месяцев назад

18:50 omg thank you for saying this

@Skylerdubbels 9 месяцев назад

divine timing fr

@saloni6544 9 месяцев назад

You know everything 😭❤️

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

🥹🥹🥹🥹

@Kelly-lo4uj 9 месяцев назад

I needed this right now, thank you xx

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

Of course 🤍

@Yokevo99 9 месяцев назад

Needed this just had one yesterday ❤

@victoriakabilla9520 9 месяцев назад

Love this video, you are always on point😘

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

Thank youuuu 🤭

@danielaa060 9 месяцев назад

Love you queen💫💖💖

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

Love you more 😌

@nilushi614 9 месяцев назад

Love your videos ❤

@gavgavland 9 месяцев назад

girl I can't wait to watch that shower routine video 💓

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

Can’t wait for you to see it 🥰

@minatran3652 7 месяцев назад

Great video 👍 . I just subscribed to your channel . Thanks for the advice . I was really sad about my ex boyfriend. I’m over it now . I think I’ll just stay single for awhile until I find the right person . I used to see a psychiatrist about my problems . Now I don’t see one anymore .

@KaimaVixen 9 месяцев назад

I literally broke down crying 2 hours ago… the timing is in uncanny

@katerinageorgiadou9000 9 месяцев назад

I feel like you can read my mind. I needed this video, I am going through the worst 😢

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

I hope you feel better my love 🤍

@katerinageorgiadou9000 9 месяцев назад

@@eliciagoguen Thank you 💜

@mathildabtw 8 месяцев назад

i think if i let those emotions out, if i allow myself to cry, i wont get out of that void.

@fernandavaxcon 9 месяцев назад

Me trying to fulfil my life with positivity: Watch Elicia videos during cardio and listen to glow up podcast on my way to places…😂😂❤

@ioannadrakou5889 9 месяцев назад

I'm having eating disorder right now and I am the lowest in my life so thank you elicia❤️

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

Sending you SO much love 🥺

@zay8735 9 месяцев назад

Good timing

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

🥰

@edwardleecaliforniausa 9 месяцев назад

Good morning happy Saturday morning and happy weekend and I loved your vlogs and you are amazing

@tolanisimpson5360 9 месяцев назад

Perfect timing!!!

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

🥰🥰🥰

@Itssmehope 9 месяцев назад

It’s a scam watch out

@nikkihorvath3515 9 месяцев назад

Your the smartest ❤

@rxkcs4902 8 месяцев назад

you look so clean like the definition of clean girl aesthetic

@eliciagoguen 8 месяцев назад

Omg thank you 🥹

@itstricezi 9 месяцев назад

Elicia, what really resonated with me was how you talked about balancing healing with moving on, and to be aware of the content that you consume during this state. Do you think you could make a video expanding on this? What do you tend to consume, when do you know enough is enough with healing, and what do you do during those little moments where you're triggered by an intrusive thought, but don't have time to go sit down and meditate or do a full mindfulness routine such as journaling?

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

I can absolutely talk about this more 🥰

@tiedheart 9 месяцев назад

Thank you ❤

@TheLakeHouseTv 9 месяцев назад

OK< Gworl you are like the girl friend I never met!! 💖💖 Thank you for a reality check real quick! love love love!

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

You’re so welcome babe 🥰🥰🥰

@alexislamberson1901 9 месяцев назад

Oh Elicia my dear. I feel like it’s a constant battle. Constant cycles. Like why can’t I move forward? Mentally. Financially. I genuinely just wanna feel happy. I wanna wake up and just feel happy.

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

Take it day by day babe, this feeling will not last forever 🥺 seriously 🤍 I’m proud of you for showing up even when you feel like nothing is working. It’s working. 🙏🏼

@kennhaley 9 месяцев назад

“Mercury is in the microwave” sent me 😭😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️ Right on time, per always 💐

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

😭😭😭😭😭

@janaesutton7406 9 месяцев назад

I swear you know my life 😅❤

@alanylizardo 8 месяцев назад

this is so good. like a girl sermon for us girls

@eliciagoguen 8 месяцев назад

this makes me so happy 🥰

@maddyyellowheart8191 9 месяцев назад

bestie, mommy, omg u have no idea T^T I love you I'm getting my period and things going on around me are a lot. You can do it too! and that's what I keep telling myself T^T and trying to push through

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

I LOVE YOUUU🥰🤍

@flowatress 9 месяцев назад

Hey lil mama🔥as always👍🏽 you know how people say “ work me, home me, mommy me and drunk me are all different people”? Well in this video I saw a different Elicia and I’m here for it! The vibe I got today was not RU-vid/Podcast Elicia…it was imma serve this straight no chaser raw real laid back catch these jewels you’re not alone you can do this, get it done vibe!! TFIG!!

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

haahahah you crack me UP 😭 I appreciate you so much 😍😍 sending you so much LOVEEE TODAY 🫶🏼🫶🏼 you’re the best 🙏🏼

@missgurl472 9 месяцев назад

can confirm i’m also going through it my brother died less than 2 months ago and ive been a shell of a human

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

Omg I’m so sorry for your loss. Genuinely, I’m sending you so much love and prayers to you 🤍🙏🏼 please take care of yourself 🤍

@UpliftedLivin 9 месяцев назад

Perfect timing 😝

@yuordreams 9 месяцев назад

Thanks, bestie.

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

Of course my love 🤍

@sugeidy_vlogs. 9 месяцев назад

Yes I’m here watching this because my stressed and my depression is getting worst 💔😔

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

I’m really sorry you’re struggling right now, I’m sending you so much love and I hope this video was able to help you through a tough time 🥺

@Itssmehope 9 месяцев назад

Bestieeee we need a skin care video. YOU’RE GLOWING

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

Thank YOU 😭 shower routine is coming and I’ll be filming a full skincare video ASAP babe🤍

@Itssmehope 9 месяцев назад

@@eliciagoguenhey elicia are you doing a give away ??

@user-rw4ef1ik5z 9 месяцев назад

Can you do a vlog? Love your videos. 💜💜💜

@bishophinojosa2051 8 месяцев назад

the way i needed this video is borderline biblical, this is the first video I've seen from you and oh my god thank you so much ⭐🤍

@cozyhobbies_ 9 месяцев назад

Elicia you’re so gorgeous and wise ! Thank you for this video ! I’m going through the opposite scenario of possible regret staying in a relationship! I was too afraid of heartbreak afew years ago, I was too attached so I stayed with my bf, we’ve been together 7 years now and also have a toddler who’s nearly two. I gues becoming a mother and all that change made me become more honest with myself : and I realised that maybe we should have broken up afew years ago. I know this sounds crazy, it made me see sides of my partner that aren’t compatible with me. He’s a good person but we can clash so much over choices , money , lifestyle etc. I wake up everyday thinking negatively and wondering how things could have been different. I don’t want to live in regret but I at least want to try start thinking more positively about my situation. I also think instagram makes me feel like I’m not in a perfect couple x

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

You are so wise and so self-aware! I wish you the best in your journey my love, you know what’s best for you🤍🔥

@cozyhobbies_ 9 месяцев назад

@@eliciagoguen thank you 🥰

@MOMO-YYDS 7 месяцев назад

Thanks

@bailarubin4048 9 месяцев назад

I already know this is uploaded FOR ME

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

FOR YOU ALWAYS 😍

@emolingling101 9 месяцев назад

Needed to see this… currently in a cycle of depression & addiction, that is hard to break 😢 God please heal me from this……💔

@eliciagoguen 9 месяцев назад

Sending you so, so so much love 🥺🤍

@emolingling101 9 месяцев назад

@@eliciagoguen thank you so much 💗💗💗

@_koraki 7 месяцев назад

When your going through it, remember you are going THROUGH it. Keyword through. This is not our destination, things will be better. Let yourself feel, mourn, and let it go. Don’t deny and invalidate your emotions and current reality, but know that you can make it better and that healing and growth is non linear. Every time you are knocked down you will grow back stronger ❤