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You, the New Supply and the Narcissist's Karma... Oh My! 

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Are you part of the narcissist's karma? You might be surprised to learn that you are.
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@soulfulsara_
@soulfulsara_ 8 месяцев назад
When you healed so much you dont even care about the narcissist getting their karma that is when your truely free 🎉
@jcsrst
@jcsrst 4 года назад
Their Karma is never being satisfied, never knowing true intimacy, never being truly happy and never understanding why.
@hannahscott6604
@hannahscott6604 4 года назад
My second ex ended up dating a girl who treated him as badly as he treated me Perfection
@roshawngreene7069
@roshawngreene7069 4 года назад
The VERY same thing that was going on with my recent covert-narc ex-gf, for her new supply happens to turn out to be an bigger covert-narc than she is!
@nd612
@nd612 4 года назад
Hannah Schaffer: I bet it didn't come to him fast enough. If I were in your shoes when with him and I knew that was going to happen, I would have let him go sooner. These Narcs are non stop with all kinds of head games. They are all about the bullsh-t. They can make a person crazy. They try to take your self worth out of you and what ever else they can get.
@hannahscott6604
@hannahscott6604 4 года назад
N D I know this and that’s why I kicked him out of my apartment
@hannahscott6604
@hannahscott6604 4 года назад
N D eventually I got to a point where I can detect a narc within a month and let them go. So it’s much improved
@aquarius9481
@aquarius9481 4 года назад
Awesome!!!!
@givegodthanks
@givegodthanks 4 года назад
I will be honest meeting the narcissist was my own karma, I was in a long-term marriage needed some excitement cheated and fell in the arms of a narcissist. I got what I deserved.
@CristianaCatólica
@CristianaCatólica 3 года назад
HEAL....ASK FOR FORGIVENESS.....AND GET CLOSER TO GOD.....IM CATHOLIC AND JESUSCHRIST HAS SAVED AND TRANSFORMED MY LIFE IN EVERY SINGLE WAY.....BLESSINGS!
@OlivetSmellie
@OlivetSmellie 3 года назад
True
@OlivetSmellie
@OlivetSmellie 3 года назад
Yes yes
@OlivetSmellie
@OlivetSmellie 3 года назад
He run away. Talk off lite me an cat in dark they not human 👿 at the best
@mikewood4242
@mikewood4242 3 года назад
Me also,my first wife truly loved me and I left her for a narcissist who left when I refused her endless money demands
@wanderingfree149
@wanderingfree149 4 года назад
Narcs get karma everyday. Can u imagine not being able to fill up and sustain your own energy? Can u imagine being an empty shell 27/7? They can never escape themselves. Everywhere they go, there they are. Being a lying, manipulator every second of the day, has to be exhausting.
@xoxo-vp7ww
@xoxo-vp7ww 2 года назад
It’s not. It’s just their way of life. I study these people and they’re just fine. It’s only us projecting believing that somehow they must hate being like that. Tuh! Quite the contrary.
@Kris_is_a_Ten
@Kris_is_a_Ten 2 года назад
@@xoxo-vp7ww lol actually they just want people to believe they’re just fine… they’re deeply unfulfilled, hence the narcissistic personality. What OP is saying isn’t wrong, it’s the trigger for their defense- a false persona triggered by reaction formation
@nicselectronics81
@nicselectronics81 Год назад
@@Kris_is_a_Ten definitely not fine, that's the mask that has everyone fooled 😒
@tanamo4632
@tanamo4632 4 года назад
A narcissists karma, is that they are a narcissist - imagine living in a constant state of survival. Consider yourself lucky to have escaped, work on why you where sucked in by this type of character and move on. Don’t waste your time wishing bad karma on them.
@Ripcurler97
@Ripcurler97 3 года назад
what if ive become a narcissist after being abused by one i feel like i am
@cazzalov
@cazzalov 3 года назад
Well said!
@dantemagliari1073
@dantemagliari1073 3 года назад
Love it
@dantemagliari1073
@dantemagliari1073 3 года назад
@@Ripcurler97 you’re better than that you care about people bro, do not stoop to their level I don’t think you could if you wanted to because you have a heart bro remember that. There’s other people that love and care like we do bro and you’re going to find her. Don’t let her ruin the great qualities about you, then she wins man. Hmu if u wanna talk man I just got discarded last month and I feel amazing bro but you have to live yourself!!
@marybarlow3628
@marybarlow3628 3 года назад
Don’t wish but if it happens I won’t lose sleep over it.
@andreamelless2822
@andreamelless2822 2 года назад
The new supply tried to tell me all the horrible things he said about me. Well, I politely cut her off. Telling her "Other people's opinions about me are none of my business. "
@divinadivina2017
@divinadivina2017 4 года назад
This is true. They will get old too. And a lot of people are waking up too. Pray on that. People change deeply after spiritual awakening
@prometheuspredator7971
@prometheuspredator7971 4 года назад
Since they treat people like crap and when they are in a bad circumstance of being ill or dieing, karma bits them on the ass. They will be left all alone by their family and friends, because no one wants to be around them. They continue to be abusive and belligerent, and their abuse tactics is directed toward nurses and doctors.
@marleengevers
@marleengevers 4 года назад
For my most recent CN time is the worst enemy. At 61 he's fit and healthy, he has been "lifted" from head to knee, does sports, eats reasonably healthy, has all his hair, ... But all of this can't take the advancing of time away. One day after I drove off for good, I realised he must be on a particular dating website since checking in over his internet decoder I received endless publicity from it. I checked it out and presto ! There he was, taking 5 years off his actual age ! Long live time !!!
@Melbester9
@Melbester9 4 года назад
Yup. I changed drastically after my Spiritual Awakening. More spiritual and full of life. Dealt with a False Twin Narc.
@carriedillmann4455
@carriedillmann4455 4 года назад
Prim & Proper I TOTALLY AGREE!
@kimmy3d896
@kimmy3d896 4 года назад
More than likely it will be the victims that will wake up. It will take a miracle for those evil people to wake up. Theys all 'sound' asleep.
@Lil-Be
@Lil-Be 4 года назад
I think they do experience their karma every day when they are alone. How someone who wears masks nonstop to survive, can stand his real self when he is alone? It must be unbearable. Therefore many narcissists are addicted to drugs, alcohol, hazard, sex, etc. They have to numb themselves.
@selenem3384
@selenem3384 3 года назад
they have to numb/distract themselves from themselves... I think I prefer the numb saying now. They truly hate themselves, and have zero self-love or compassion with themselves, that is why they treat others like shit
@Tara-id3rk
@Tara-id3rk 3 года назад
My narc cannot sit still to save his life. He works 18 hours days then would come home and work some more. He doesn’t take vacations and when we have, cannot relax. A therapist once told him because he cannot handle sitting with his emotions. Imagine not being able just to sit with yourself. Weak weak people
@zechariyahgodschild7258
@zechariyahgodschild7258 2 года назад
Yep they gotta numb themselves constantly
@roberywilliams8472
@roberywilliams8472 2 года назад
That's exactly what happened to me. I was married for 20 years to a narcissist and when I left her she got married exactly 90 days later . He he was a psychopath who destroyed her for the next 4.5 years until she got divorced again . A few years later she reached out to me to get together again and I told her never to contact me again
@raindog8802
@raindog8802 5 лет назад
This was a good video. The best "revenge" you can take on a narcissist is simply to let them go on and be who they are - outside the boundaries of your own life, of course. They are their own worst enemies, and in the end will make themselves more miserable than anyone else ever could hope to do. If they truly had the insight and desire to change the course of their destiny, they could make the same effort to grow that the rest of us have had to on our hopeful journeys to fulfillment.
@CommonEgo
@CommonEgo 5 лет назад
Thanks, Rain Dog! I was worried people wouldn't get how a narcissist could be hurt this way, but I've known narcs who were driven to therapy from it (how they found out they were narcs themselves). And you're so right. They will always self-destruct! Thanks for your comment!
@gilmourishgilmourish6205
@gilmourishgilmourish6205 4 года назад
I left the narc 11 months ago and she is right. The ex he had lined up moved in a week later, buying her a Mercedes, she sold her car. Going on weekends which he refused me for two and half years. I saw him twice two weeks ago and he looked drained even grey. And again last night when I was walking with my daughter. It was dark but I saw his car and he gave extra gas to get away hahaha... I didn’t even look at him, walking tall.
@letgo1064
@letgo1064 4 года назад
Rain Dog Best comment I’ve read today. Kudos 🌹
@gilmourishgilmourish6205
@gilmourishgilmourish6205 4 года назад
Common Ego funny you would say that cause I said those words exactly when I left “ you self destruct “...
@kj_______
@kj_______ 4 года назад
@djdianawat wat what ??
@annharrison4774
@annharrison4774 4 года назад
It's a case of mind over matter - they don't mind, and we don't matter!
@giovannilevoci941
@giovannilevoci941 4 года назад
It should be, they don't matter and I don't mind...
@valerieriggins3184
@valerieriggins3184 4 года назад
It Depends How U Cherish Yourself! Cause I SURE MATTER To ME!!!!! Regardless How Another Thinking 💯
@LaLoona83
@LaLoona83 3 года назад
He discarded the new supply within 6 months; she followed her intuition and contacted me online. We had some really interesting talks that revealed exactly who he was, that was fun. Becoming friends with her and him finding out about that was even more fun. It ended the stalking right away 😄
@lannal4626
@lannal4626 2 года назад
I have a feeling this will happen to me hahah
@zechariyahgodschild7258
@zechariyahgodschild7258 2 года назад
🤣
@sandramichelle5700
@sandramichelle5700 4 года назад
They definitely get their karma - even though you don't actively look for info on them, Spirit has a wonderful way of letting you know about their failures. They keep failing because they treat new people the same way they treated you. You stayed 28 years because you had a family and were financially dependent on them. New people don't have the same hook so they clear off as soon as the fool shows his true unattractive colours. The fun bit is that they don't understand why and obviously will blame the new person every time. My ex tried to leave me destitute when we divorced - instead my life is the same as before - I kept the home, the dog, half his money and pension - and the only thing missing is him - hurray!
@valerieriggins3184
@valerieriggins3184 4 года назад
👀🤣👌
@kresivarivkah612
@kresivarivkah612 4 года назад
I WAS the new supply. Old supply came in one day. I peeped the interaction, saw it as a red flag, kept on until he started to abuse me, then discarded him. I gave him a full reading before I went NC. I did leave. I blocked him in every way. I'm healing. Yes. I'm in pain. But. ..I will get there. 💮
@karaokequeen8514
@karaokequeen8514 3 года назад
We are all their new supplies. Every gf they ever had were supplies. I know he bashed his ex gf to the max saying she was a liar and a slut. And I found out the hard way that she wasn't the problem. Then he set it up so he could accuse me of the same. And he accused me hard core. Turned out that he was the one. And there was so much proof I could ignore it. So I finally left and never went back.
@Tara-id3rk
@Tara-id3rk 3 года назад
If the old supply would have told you about him from the beginning, would you have believed her?? My husband’s “new supply”- who he is of course head over heels for- was a friend of mine. I know he’s convinced her I’m the unstable, crazy one but he’s truly dangerous and I care about her kids not getting hurt. He’s already done a number on our children.
@Tara-id3rk
@Tara-id3rk 3 года назад
@@karaokequeen8514 they always accuse you of what they’re doing. It happens to me every single day. It’s insanity
@sharilyon5983
@sharilyon5983 3 года назад
@@Tara-id3rk I wish someone had warned me. An ex girlfriend of his was so upset that I was with him that she came to the house and told me what she had endured. But she was convinced he truly loved me because he acted different with me. But then he started treating me just like she had described, it just took longer. I sure don't think that's a sign he loved me more, but that he was able to hide it longer.
@CristianaCatólica
@CristianaCatólica 3 года назад
@@sharilyon5983 TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU.....HOPE U CAN HEAL.SOON.....WITH THERAPY AND GOD.....IM CATHOLIC AND JESUSCHRIST HAS SAVED AND TRANSFORMED MY LIFE IN EVERY SINGLE WAY.....BLESSINGS!
@zp4450
@zp4450 4 года назад
Wow! This video is my closure!! I was with the narc for 14+ years. He used to always threaten to walk out no matter how many years we had been together. The last time he threatened to leave I without emotion told him I that if he wanted to leave he should leave. He should do whatever makes him happy as it is his life. He went into a rage and called me pompous and arrogant and walked out never to speak to me again. He went directly to someone who works in the same building we both work. That was over two years ago. My gut instinct dictated my behaviour on that fateful day. I had know idea why I said and did the things I did that day because they were out of my norm. Today I know that the day he walked out was the best day of my life. His karma came the day he walked out because I am irreplaceable. Thank you❤️
@theSpiritofTamzin
@theSpiritofTamzin 4 года назад
Pathetic how they go right from us into another "relationship"... they can never, ever be alone. And, you KNOW he was messing with her before he left you to go be with her. He had his exit lined up long before you told him to leave...
@annisabisnath9933
@annisabisnath9933 3 года назад
Similar situation..abused the night..asked him to talk about the downward spiral of things..he immediately told me the meanest things and I finally got the strength to say if you want me to be the bad one and ask you to leave...pls go...i faced many years of continued threats...i wont be here for long..i wont be here forever...how can you expect someone to connect with you when you show you dont care
@selenem3384
@selenem3384 3 года назад
@@theSpiritofTamzin unless he kept a main supply, they would never compromise their main supply, by planning an exit plan with a side supply
@Nikki-en6kd
@Nikki-en6kd 3 года назад
❤💯🎯
@minkyteku1100
@minkyteku1100 Год назад
Irreplaceable ,that is the power about you 🤗🇿🇦.
@mc2332
@mc2332 4 года назад
My covert narc died, he did awful awful things to me, Drugged and sexual assault being right at the top of the list. His death not only helped rebalance the scales, it spiritually awoken me. im doing well better than i ever thought i would. i wake up now happy and excited to see what i can do or achieve in my life.
@melodyrodriguez3155
@melodyrodriguez3155 4 года назад
I had the same experience, mine died this year in March. So sad.
@mc2332
@mc2332 4 года назад
@@melodyrodriguez3155 I don't know if I'm as sad about it as you are. I'd never wish death on anyone but if I'd ever broken up with him when alive he never would have left me alone. He would have stalked and caused such aggravation I'd have just left defeated and I'd be wanting to be in the place he is now. Life really handles itself when it's the right time. Hope you are doing OK now ❤️
@savetrump1088
@savetrump1088 4 года назад
My ex narcissistic son got murdered. I would never wish that on anybody but karma is karma.
@theSpiritofTamzin
@theSpiritofTamzin 4 года назад
@@melodyrodriguez3155 so sad?
@theSpiritofTamzin
@theSpiritofTamzin 4 года назад
@@savetrump1088 do you know who murdered him, and why?
@kamilkarnale3585
@kamilkarnale3585 4 года назад
U cannot fool all the people all the time!! Million r awakened, thanks to such videos!!👍👍
@vanessaalvarado8048
@vanessaalvarado8048 4 года назад
I saw him get his karma. Discarded me for new supply. Went all about town showing off supply. Being uber affectionate in public....then WHAM! New supply up and left him a few months later. Heard he was in a depression spiral. Became angry and bitter to whom ever he encountered. Was in that state for months. Then tried to reconnect w/supply only to be told supply didn’t want to see him again. BAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!
@theSpiritofTamzin
@theSpiritofTamzin 4 года назад
Supply should not have even told him she didn't want to see him again. No response is the best response...
@valerieriggins3184
@valerieriggins3184 4 года назад
In This Case It Was....Big Time Payback...Now Have Time To Think I Drop One Who Care for One Who Didn't. Now Neither Will Take Him Back.
@selenem3384
@selenem3384 3 года назад
@@theSpiritofTamzin but it rubbed salt into his wounds... well done to that chick!
@djshazza3145
@djshazza3145 2 года назад
this is exactly what I want to happen
@dawnshively6731
@dawnshively6731 2 года назад
I was discarded 3 months ago. And went no contact
@loulou9978
@loulou9978 2 года назад
His new supply is extremely co-dependent with zero self esteem. A stage five clinger. She couldn’t see a red flag if you stuck her in the eye with it.
@myrahouse2368
@myrahouse2368 4 года назад
I’m done it’s like he can feel I’m moving free of him, he’s suddenly come back deep and interested again 😳 He doesn’t know I know what he is... He loved and adored me for many months, then randomly he began devaluing me, then I was disregarded, he broke me, he honestly distressed me so much during this stage. I’m recovering and feel like I’m gaining peace of mind again 🤗☀️
@theSpiritofTamzin
@theSpiritofTamzin 4 года назад
He never loved you. Narcs don't love...
@Mare-mi2jf
@Mare-mi2jf 4 года назад
Myra House I almost did 2 years, good for you figuring it out sooner.
@gilmourishgilmourish6205
@gilmourishgilmourish6205 4 года назад
They don’t love . You’re supply. They need something from you. They see something in you that they need.
@theSpiritofTamzin
@theSpiritofTamzin 4 года назад
@@ladyfay7777 exactly
@theSpiritofTamzin
@theSpiritofTamzin 4 года назад
He never loved you. Narcs don't love. They pretend, to get what they want...
@mexicanbeautyqueen7988
@mexicanbeautyqueen7988 4 года назад
You are absolutely right the first time my ex narc cheated on me it was with a 19-year-old bipolar type 1 girl. He chose her over me and in less than a month he was out of that relationship terrified of how crazy she was.
@selenem3384
@selenem3384 3 года назад
good, this is the funniest comment I read so far.
@jakponijadono7580
@jakponijadono7580 3 года назад
Lol
@timdavenport4405
@timdavenport4405 3 года назад
Ha ha!
@icalotdonthide2646
@icalotdonthide2646 2 года назад
Don't fk with a Bipolar Christian...they love hard and once they confirm the Narc is demonic they are only seeking a reason to end them. 🥰
@nissmone9598
@nissmone9598 6 месяцев назад
😂😂😂
@yigrace777
@yigrace777 4 года назад
I just got out of a 6/7 month “complicated” relationship with a narcissist and I can’t feel even more relieved but in pain. I just hope one day he realizes what he lost and will never get me back. I may have been easy to manipulate, but never again will I fall for it from him or anyone else. He has super high pride and I just hope that he will learn his lesson. I deserve SO much love from myself and someone else. Praying to stay strong!!
@mattblom3990
@mattblom3990 3 года назад
I just got out of a 5 month relationship with a narc I'd sized up for a ring. Yes, it's their loss. But they were our loss to begin with.
@suzannedibuono5778
@suzannedibuono5778 4 года назад
Yes he’s miserable enough said and he always will be. They’re insatiable nothing and no one makes them happy well except money
@deborahrichardson3731
@deborahrichardson3731 4 года назад
Yes, the money.... It's ridiculous
@quanda8459
@quanda8459 3 года назад
So true only thing 😞no matter how hard you try to make them happy and please them
@selenem3384
@selenem3384 3 года назад
money doesn't really make them happy ... it is only a temporary distraction from the darkness or empty hole where their soul is supposed to be
@selenem3384
@selenem3384 3 года назад
@@quanda8459 narcs don't know what makes them happy because they really lack complete self-understanding
@kiraalialeeonfairythegreenone
@kiraalialeeonfairythegreenone 2 года назад
This is called ruminating...let go.
@timrex4583
@timrex4583 4 года назад
Narcissist was saying a bunch of manipulative shit behind my back, making himself look innocent and like a saint. Then I realized he was pretending to be my friend but doing everything to disrespect me. So I exposed him to everyone who though he was a saint and left the theatre I was at. Now onw of the giirls is sad and keeps messaging and knows I'm free from that shii and glad o get to do creative ventures more worth my time and energy.
@selenem3384
@selenem3384 3 года назад
textbook narc behaviour for sure, mine did the same shit
@jackgoodings
@jackgoodings 4 года назад
My feelings and thoughts are that God allowed them to deceive their way into our lives to give them a chance to redeem themselves and hopefully reach out to Him
@Manu-od8du
@Manu-od8du 4 года назад
😂 😂 😂 😂
@cyrilliakayy
@cyrilliakayy 4 года назад
I believe they are broken and have a form of possession. The law of duality is tit for tat. I believe your statement to a point. We may lead...but they dont always follow. Prayer and gods conviction on their heart will change them. But being there to wait could take a lifetime.
@melodyrodriguez3155
@melodyrodriguez3155 4 года назад
AMEN, that's what happened to me!!!
@theSpiritofTamzin
@theSpiritofTamzin 4 года назад
Why should we have to suffer so greatly for them to possibly redeem themselves?
@csfetsos7
@csfetsos7 4 года назад
I believe the test is on us as the non narcissist component in the relationship, and if we do what's true for our own self, then it creates a chain reaction or not in the narcissist towards facing truths, and their mask coming off. But, we wouldn't ne doing it for their growth or spiritual growth directly. Its got to be the non narcissist, who achieves the goal of making the move to cut ties and begin healing and to grow spiritually. The narcissist is forced or not, to look at their self. Or they may go ballistic on new supply in a desperate effort, like a wounded animal
@topsi91
@topsi91 4 года назад
That didnt apply to covert narcs who hide and deny they ever cheated... My potentially covert ex narc keep his privacy levels high. I have no way to know he is cheating, its my gut that tells me so..
@CommonEgo
@CommonEgo 4 года назад
I've dealt with the same kind of narc, and it definitely could apply in his case. You may not see it, but karma will work her way into his life one way or another. Just keep focusing on your happiness ❤🙏
@seharsarahsikander
@seharsarahsikander 4 года назад
Yeah, you might never see it or have any proof but the cheating/new supply will be happening. But that is karmic too - imagine the suffering of a soul who cannot really love anyone truly, not even themselves.
@juliapurdy3950
@juliapurdy3950 4 года назад
Ask him. Hit him with it (but sweetly, so if he goes on the defensive it won't be you who sent him there). Or, as tarot reader Waterbaby said, play along, play dumb and eventually the truth will out... I wasn't sure he was seeing someone else but I live across the hall from him and there were some mysterious, super-quiet comings and goings... This was after he told me he "cared for" me, that we would "do a lot of things together," invited me into his apt on a regular basis and we seemed to be getting along famously. But he cut off our sex life abruptly (after sharing story after story about his "conquests" in his younger years) so one night I asked him: Are you seeing someone else in the building? He just sort of shrugged, gave me a crooked smile like, Why would I do that? or Who would I be interested in? But anything less than a straight answer to a direct question is a lie. I played along because I really loved him and enjoyed his company on his good days, and hoped we could become lovers again. Then he panicked because he was afraid of exposure and that was the end of me. Now he represents that I left him!
@fannybindeki7686
@fannybindeki7686 4 года назад
Same Herr though he is not at all covert. He just keeps me away. N this alone is a proof.
@truefriend1128
@truefriend1128 4 года назад
I can't neither prove it but my gut also tells me this she would deny to the end
@awakeandalive3020
@awakeandalive3020 4 года назад
I heard a quote once (words to the effect) "We have all been the villain in someone else's story - to deny this is narcissistic in itself". I agree with this. I would say that the Narcie has been my karma as much as I have been his. The difference is that through much self-work, I have acknowledged and integrated my Shadow. Narcissists deny their Shadow and therefore, cannot ever be a True and authentic self. What you deny makes it more powerful and uncontrollable. I feel truly heartbroken for these fractured souls. But I have learned my lesson the *hard* way. Their karma is their business.
@KatherynInc.
@KatherynInc. 4 года назад
I applaud this comment.
@awakeandalive3020
@awakeandalive3020 4 года назад
@@gstrathmore194 Firstly, I am so sorry that you have been so hurt by this person, by others, and by your self. I am so sorry that there are still matters to be finalized. I want you to know, they will be, and you are going to be stronger and better than ever. :) Secondly, I am so very glad to hear that you are healing your wounds. 💕 We all have our own karma to deal with, but I think that when you truly become aware, you don't add to it. Everyone has a "Hall of Shame", and it is that, I think, that changes us for the better. I vividly remember the times that I ill-treated people in my past, and I decided that I did not ever want to impact on anyone else like that again. Ever. I recognised where my ego failed others, and where my ego failed myself. I have a daughter who is a classic borderline and I did not think that anyone had the power to hurt me as much as she - until I met my Narcie... Until I realized that I was participating in my own pain. I went grey-rock'ish with my daughter, and no contact with my Narcie. And I am free. I wish this for you, too. Take your lessons learned and be free to be the authentic version of you. Always and forever, with much love and much light.
@valerieriggins3184
@valerieriggins3184 4 года назад
That's The Difference with A Narc They NEVER Can Admit or Desire To Change. And Most Children Are Raised By Narc Parents or Trained Brainwashed By Crafty Pastors, Teachers n EVIL Leaders. So ANYONE Survive n Change Is NOT A TRUE NARC If They Were Tricked n Didn't Know Better. I ONLY Feel Sorry for Thoses Killed n And Losted Their Mind n Can't Recover from Being Gaslighted Viciously! No Mercy to Who Gives NO MERCY... PERIOD.
@stardustsparkles22
@stardustsparkles22 Год назад
So true! I'm working on my shadow side, and I'll get there,but it's true when you say,what you deny becomes stronger, because they're not fighting their shadow side but giving into it ,then denying it's there. So insightful.
@LesinConAirants
@LesinConAirants 8 месяцев назад
I was like a fish slipping through her hands. She made me suffer once too often, she paid the consequences. indifference has set in the relationship and what could be more effective against this type of person than ignorance. I had become a mirror, a version of her that she used against me to destroy me. I was her karma for sure
@ShemaGoodness
@ShemaGoodness 4 года назад
He discarded me then died. And I still cant break free from his hold, I was the only one he discarded. He treated other people like gold.
@KobiWithAnEye
@KobiWithAnEye 4 года назад
Just Unpopular you must!! You’re beautiful and amazing and strong! You were saved from a lifetime of misery. Please try. Look up trauma bonding, that’s what I think you’re facing. He said things that still play out in your mind. He only treated other people in contrast to you to affect you, it was not real. If you dig deeper you will find that he did this to other people throughout his life. Happy Healing 🌸💕
@whoKnew1621
@whoKnew1621 4 года назад
Girl you are gorgeous. God did you a huge favor. Maybe that was God way of protecting you. Imagine if he was still here. He would still be mistreating you. You don't need anybody like that in your life. I wish God could remove and protect me from all my enemies. But then again, it could be a test for me, to learn something from these situations. Hey, Idk, but please keep your head up. Don't feel guilty for that bastard!!! He did you dirty. POINT, BLANK PERIOD!!!! PEACE, LOVE, AND BLESSINGS 😊❤🧡💛💚💙💜
@antoniocaffey6532
@antoniocaffey6532 22 дня назад
@@ShemaGoodness he is dead and you still can't break free this is the key u wrestle not with flesh and blood but evil spirits and spirits don't die .U can only fight spirits with spirits go to the boss of all spirits which is God Almighty and cry out to him and he will deliver u
@karaokequeen8514
@karaokequeen8514 3 года назад
She is so right. My ex discarded me 2 years ago and abandoned me in a large city with nothing but my 115 lb dog. I discarded him after a year and a half of him Hoovering. He was trying to get me back and was seeing other woman behind my back. So I finally made the decision to stop torturing myself with this guy. Not even a month later he has a new gf. I was with him for 8 years. He had a high paying job in the oil. He also has a very expensive habit. 👃 And so does she. I told my mom when he first left me that he made me lose everything. I had a good job I loved and my friends and my life all gone. I thought it would only be fair if he lost everything too. Well last month he got fired and the house is up for sale. They don't leave the house and the curtains are always closed. I know all too well what that means. I was a good wife and I'm a good chef. My job was running the bakery dept in a small town grocery store by myself. I loved it. And he left me 5 hrs away from home. I was stranded Thank God for my mom and dad. This was at Christmas time and dad was dying of cancer. He accused me all the time of seeing someone here. Like I could be with anyone after that and the fact that I truly loved him and wanted to go home. But he kept pulling me in them pushing me away. 2 days before my birthday I found out why. Her name was Tanya. And I'm sure his new gf now started talking to my ex when he tried to get me to believe what his version of what happened with Tanya. He didn't count on her being a loose canyon on her very public fb page. And in July he came to my house crying to getme back and that when I had enough. Now his life is falling hard. And I'm thriving God blesses those who deserve it and punishes those who deserve it. Just a matter of time. Best thing is that he did it all to himself and I didn't even have to lift a finger. He's realizing now that we had it all and now he's losing it all and picked a lowlife junkie from back home to go down with him.
@aestheticsilence
@aestheticsilence 4 года назад
So glad I found another great narc awareness channel...literally saving souls. Thank you, from Dallas, TX.
@rainpooper7088
@rainpooper7088 4 года назад
My mother had a narc colleague and he got the most disturbing case of karma that I have ever seen. They worked in the medical field, among the typical narc games of lying and devaluation, he would always grimace at the deathly sick patients, always saying that if he ever sank this low, he‘d end it with sleeping pills and a bottle of vodka. He didn’t come down with just any deadly disease, it was none other than the dreaded ALS, and not just any ALS, the type that starts at the throat and takes away the voice as well as the ability to swallow. Not only did it seem like a direct punishment for all his ill-speaking, it also specifically made him unable to follow through with the „emergency suicide plan“ he had so proudly proclaimed on many occasions to be better than whatever life his dying patients were leading. Not that he would have followed through with it anyway, quite the opposite, he insisted on every possible measure to prolong the inevitable, but that disease just seemed like such a specific response to his misdeeds, it’s scary.
@cherhop1
@cherhop1 3 года назад
My ex N is with his latest supply. I’ve watched him cycle through them. I understand that I was just one of many now - but not before I moved in with him, got married and had two children together. What a confusing and crazy time - I grew up with these dynamics so it felt sort of comfortable to me to walk on eggshells! Today, when my children were with him, my daughter messaged me that he and his GF were arguing and yelling in the car.. she was upset. Then she said it got silent and they weren’t taking. Ohhh the memories came flooding back.. .. to many instances I begged him to stop the car and let me out.. (to end the maddening yelling. I feel for this woman, I know what she’s going through. And will go through if she sticks around. My kids like her, sadly they already made comments that they know it won’t last. On a funny side note, he invited me to go to hibachi dinner with them tomorrow. I would normally say no to this, but I said yes.... this should be very very interesting to say the least. I will get to see my stepson and meet his girlfriend. I missed him so much when my N left for his next supply. Plus I can better know the new supply in case she ever needs it wishes to reach out. My children are 9 and 10 so I feel a bit uneasy knowing that the love bombing phase is already showing signs of being over.. it’s all so hard to witness - but I AM SO THANKFUL to be alone and FREE!!!
@carriedillmann4455
@carriedillmann4455 3 года назад
I just found out the new supply kicked him out!! KARMA!!
@kd9419
@kd9419 2 года назад
There’s no fake it till you make it for a narc. They never make it. And that’s karma. Whether they’re happy or hurt they’re faking what people see. When all fails, they find a whole new group (move, change jobs, etc) and start over. Nothing feels better than letting them go.
@kristinatk7553
@kristinatk7553 4 года назад
Oh YES...he went way over the top with the love bombing to a point is was embarrassing to me. I hadn't had a relationship in 4-5 years and he completly "filled in the gaps", got to know my likes & dislikes through intense questioning as if he cared about getting to know me over the first month or so...6 months felt like 6 years...and he went to jail for embellishing hundreds of thousands of dollars from his former employers. At least I can have comfort in knowing he will leave me alone for the next few years.
@jmschroeder5302
@jmschroeder5302 3 года назад
This made me laugh and laugh. For reasons I won’t go into but I hope you still have your peace!
@lashaunawarren
@lashaunawarren 4 года назад
Can I just say that out of the many videos that I have watched concerning Karma....this has been the most fulfilling. Thank you. Your insight on the depths of how this happens is actually a relief. I wanted to seek revenge in the worst way....but now I can stay in the road to recovery with a clear conscience. It just makes sense now. Moving forward to gain self not to prove self. Peace and Blessings.
@brendaleverick3655
@brendaleverick3655 Год назад
The narc's groupies are ALL worse than the narcissist, in my opinion. I can't STAND them.
@captlanc
@captlanc 4 года назад
I used to dwell on this a lot, then I come to the conclusion that being the person they are is their karma. They harm others and they think others would do the same to them. They are not having a good life no matter how it seems to be. They may have their flying monkeys and supply but they will never be able to feel true love because they don't have that inside them. Tons of defense mechanisms to prevent them from developing a capacity for love. It must be very lonely for them, no matter how many people they surround themselves with. They would never get the joy of gaining epiphanies. Everything has to be so shallow for them. They don't have inner strength to face the struggles of life, especially aging. They can't care for their own wellbeing beyond their all important ego and superficial impulsive pleasures. It is tiring to be them. They are confused broken people, perpetually insecure. It is rather sad and when you think about their string of victims, it just becomes sadder.
@selenem3384
@selenem3384 3 года назад
narcs are addicted to being sad assholes, if they ever had the chance to become a decent human being, they would reject it, since it is too much work to work on themselves and be the "man" or "woman" they claim to be
@beatrixbrennan1545
@beatrixbrennan1545 2 года назад
Well said
@aknightofcamelot
@aknightofcamelot 4 года назад
This video is a relief to me. She found a new supply after 3-4 weeks, put it in Facebook, and I felt like crap. But...this makes me feel better because it has nothing to do with me!
@brittanyb5942
@brittanyb5942 3 года назад
My ex narc got a new supply within 6 days and posted about how happy he was on Facebook. He got alot of likes and congratulatory comments. It was purely the devil and very cruel!
@selenem3384
@selenem3384 3 года назад
@@brittanyb5942 when a narc posts about their happiness on social media, they are telling the world they are actually very unhappy and got another one sucked into their make belief world
@hissyfitz7890
@hissyfitz7890 3 года назад
1st ex-N married a woman 8 yrs his senior from an ‘upper crust’ type of family. She is RAGE-AHOLIC & he’s too enmeshed in the lifestyle to leave. Wish her many healthy years! 🤭🤭🤭 2nd ex-N called threatening suicide after I left. I called the cops; he was admitted to a psychiatric unit. Shortly after discharge HIS ex moved in with him & they were married. HE was always accusing ME of cheating. 🤔🤔🤔
@anchoredlotustarot3039
@anchoredlotustarot3039 4 года назад
My ex narc just killed his new supply. I have been no contact for 2 months and got the call this morning from his kid's mom. She had to go get her kid's from a homicide scene.
@CommonEgo
@CommonEgo 4 года назад
That's tragic... I'm so sorry to hear that 😔
@beautifullove2394
@beautifullove2394 4 года назад
Wow how long was he with her before killing her?
@selenem3384
@selenem3384 3 года назад
spread awareness, these creeps are dangerous, their lack of self-awareness and ignorance regarding life, others and self, is a dangerous concoction for murder and rape in different forms.
@ladykay4506
@ladykay4506 3 года назад
😲😲
@wilfridjoseph6172
@wilfridjoseph6172 2 года назад
Wow that is sad
@kathiewippel7551
@kathiewippel7551 2 года назад
Karma is the one person who they cannot manipulate and control. The one who looks at the narc and says Oh hell no.
@savannahnalls2099
@savannahnalls2099 2 года назад
When I finally got out of the love triangle and moved to another state, he immediately married the new supply in a few months.
@desertflowerz89
@desertflowerz89 2 года назад
I dumped the narc and moved out but stayed involved because my things were still there while I looked for a new apartment. In the meantime he devalued the hell out of me. I didn’t get it at the time but he was punishing me. Eventually I ent no contact after grabbing my things. DO NOT STAY THEIR FRIENDS.
@kimmy3d896
@kimmy3d896 4 года назад
18 years of marriage. Discarded for young girl She mysteriously died of a seizure one year later. He was with someone else within three months. And I was just feeling jealous of them being in my house that I bought and he ended up with when I looked up being jealous of a new Supply and there you were. So Thank God n thank you for puttingme back in perspective. . Forgot about the logical love bombing and stages n was letting emotions over ride. Crazy fn abuse n cycles. 3 1/2 yr. NC. Blessed beyond belief.
@xobeautybytori140
@xobeautybytori140 4 года назад
After being with my ex for seven years I lost two pregnancies recently with him and immediately he started seeing a new girl who he constantly lied to me about and today I finally got my answers because he left his phone out and I saw a number unsaved and I called it and she told me that she doesn’t care that I lost my pregnancies she knew about it he lives with her she was perfectly aware of everything meanwhile I was begging him for the truth and he lied and made me feel like he was so done with her and she was nothing to her but a regret and he was begging for my attention and love and acting like he needed me so much. I am so lucky I got this information today because every time I would catch him in a lie he would make his way back and try to swear he was sorry and so done. It’s a hard journey but no one deserves this treatment. I need to love myself more because knowing the truth once and for all opened my eyes so much!
@jendavis9374
@jendavis9374 4 года назад
Sorry you feel that way. I too have been discarded horribly during quarantine. His new girlfriend tried to friend me. He ghosted me for two months while I am pregnant with his baby.
@southernbelle223
@southernbelle223 4 года назад
My second narcissist hated paying child support. At the end, I told him that he was going to get some young girl pregnant and he would have another 18 years of child support. I blocked him from my life after that. About two years later, a girl called me and told me that she had a baby with him. What he did to her was unbelievable and I felt so sorry for her. At that time she was in a bitter custody battle over her infant son. She wanted to know what he did to me. I told her everything and we validated each other. Even though he is paying more child support, I do hate that she has to share her son with this monster.
@selenem3384
@selenem3384 3 года назад
if a narc makes jokes about getting you pregnant out of wedlock - run for the hills!!! it is a major redflag.
@m.o.s.h.1836
@m.o.s.h.1836 Год назад
If the narcissists don't change their nasty behavior, their life is like a never ending chaotic cycles because they're always reaping their wrong deeds.
@flyprincess69
@flyprincess69 4 года назад
Through all this I could see my own narcissistic traits and Ive been able to stop them. Its been a wonderful time in my life now that I look back on it
@CommonEgo
@CommonEgo 4 года назад
Same. I had them too! So much growth in and after this experience, and I swear, I can't imagine a more effective way for me to have seen and healed what was needed. It was a rough ride, but I'm thankful for it! ❤🙏
@teetrustyah1849
@teetrustyah1849 4 года назад
Wow that is so true I just saw my ex this weekend and I had dinner with him but he was not in control of nothing and I can just see pain in his face the emptiness and unfulfilling my boundaries was up my walls was up and I was so happy and smiling and content and free eating my food that spirit couldn't control me anymore I felt so free you are right I wish no harm on nobody but it does come back around
@jenniferbalogh1361
@jenniferbalogh1361 7 месяцев назад
THANK YOU!!! This video has enlightened me and eased my pain of the last 2 1/2 years. What you are doing is IMPORTANT. I never, ever thought of the new supply like this. Wow. Sharing your knowledge and difficult experience is soooo appreicated.
@anthonymorales842
@anthonymorales842 3 года назад
I don't wish ill anymore. I did say I hope you feel the same pain your causing me; now I regret it nobody should go through that kind of pain.
@seameology
@seameology Месяц назад
It was both. He was my karma but I also taught him a lesson. Now he's getting his karma because he treated me so badly.
@StariYTube1
@StariYTube1 3 года назад
When a superempath marries another superempath and the narcisist's knows it.... 🤔 💕🙏
@QW-wq5zu
@QW-wq5zu 3 года назад
Would you please talk about this topic again in? It gives me hope and peace. I watch this vlog daily!!
@MsLuvmusic81
@MsLuvmusic81 4 года назад
I just put up with the narc because it's a family member but I saw exactly what was going on and knew what they were capable of and finally a clear reason to drop them once and for all...family or not, forget these people!!!
@valerieriggins3184
@valerieriggins3184 4 года назад
SAVE Yourself.... ONLY If U Think U Important ENOUGH! Or U Can Stay And Lose Yourself As A Living Sacrifice to Please Others. ONLY The Strong Refuse To Be Doormat Forever.
@MsLuvmusic81
@MsLuvmusic81 4 года назад
@@valerieriggins3184 exactly!
@MsLuvmusic81
@MsLuvmusic81 4 года назад
@Angela Vescio its tough but at the end of the day, you have to be first. The most important relationship is the one with yourself, not anybody else. Lvie your best life, find great friends who support and care about you and vice versa and you'll find you dont really need much else. Dont get addicted to abusive, toxic people. They are miserable and misery loves company.
@JerseyGirl0911
@JerseyGirl0911 4 года назад
WOW! My ex fiancé, discarded me. Our wedding was booked, dress & rings on order. And 2 months later he married someone else using our wedding plans. Not ours, but the ideas and married her the same the week he was to marry me. And he blasted it all over social media. The woman is 17 years younger than him with 3 young children, 2 baby Daddy’s. He’s 50, WTF. Who marries into that much in 2 months. I feel he made his karma marrying her.
@Unlike230
@Unlike230 3 года назад
Wow....The shamelessness of some people. He did you a favor.
@missminti
@missminti 3 года назад
Shameless is right. I swear they are missing parts of their brains in order to think this type of behaviour would be even remotely acceptable. I actually think they are all just complete trash. 🗑
@slavicabeauty9352
@slavicabeauty9352 4 года назад
And this karma can be extremely helpful. Maybe I wasnt fully narcissist but still. I remember having some empathy and self reflection but it was far too low. And then I discard my ex, get married after few months, get pregnant because of the all narcissistic reasons, and... I have realized that here I am in the relationship with someone who has narcissistic personality disorder. I know I shouldnt label him but he is totally, no any chance to change, no any empathy for anyone or self reflection. Manipulation, lies, invalidation, control... like from some kind of scary movie. He showed me who I was by having all my past behaviours just 10 times stronger. On one side I am destroyed. I get my karma, I will try to finish it and get myself together but it changed me forever. On the other hand... exactly, it changed me forever. When I have started to work on myself I knew I dont want to be that monster, like I open my eyes and see how ridiclous my behaviour was. And now after few months of work I start to be really interested in other people as a people, I start to understand my feelings. I cant belive in some things I have done before. I have apologized my ex and try to be "normal" now, except new problems. And thats why now it is so hard for me to finish with this person I am now with, because I know who he is and how much he hurt me and kids but I wish to help him and I am so grateful because I feel like he helped me.
@Sun_Henry_Connie
@Sun_Henry_Connie 5 лет назад
Great content with a soft delivery. I'm surprised you don't have more viewers. I'm sure it will come in time.
@CommonEgo
@CommonEgo 5 лет назад
Thanks! I hope so! The channel is almost exactly 2 months old now, so I guess we have some time to go. Thank you for your support! ❤🙏
@luvchimchim6265
@luvchimchim6265 4 года назад
the funny thing is that they are always complaining and moaning about everything in their lives and how people are so bad to them they are too busy with playing the "biggest victim in the world " rule they don't even know what they're doing to themselves they are the one bringing all that shit they are complaining about to their lives. When you think about it that way they are really pathetic and stupid I feel bad to talk like this, but it is true they are receiving what they gave to people wich was nothing but pain so much pain in every way possible.
@kj_______
@kj_______ 4 года назад
I am now always wary when I date someonevand they describe being a victim of their exes. Narcissists attract empaths and either destroy them or when they get wise to the game and step away, the narcissist just reels in a new compassionate shoulder to cry on and the cycle of using up others continues.. You will eventually become the ‘bad guy’ in their story. They will literally accuse you of the of the very thing that they are actually doing to you. So, if you are someone who is overly responsible, empathic and used to taking care of others, just remember, to always take care of yourself first and don’t let every sob story you hear touch your heart.
@amannamesolo
@amannamesolo 2 года назад
He was a “friend” before I cut him off, he told me he had diabetes 1 and thyroid issues. However, he was very healthy and young. I guess it came from his mistreatment of people
@deantaylor1512
@deantaylor1512 2 года назад
Never wish harm on anyone….. just move on and don’t look back …..
@charlesmunroe7081
@charlesmunroe7081 3 года назад
Christina... Thank you for your sweet, soft, soulful content...You exhibit a beautiful energy & sharp intellect... I love watching you...
@bryandavid6302
@bryandavid6302 3 года назад
Your videos are a godsend and you have no idea how much this and your other videos have answered so many of my questions and gave me a fighting chance to really save myself from such an insidious disease! thank you, your truly an ANGEL!!!
@mercyrahma9501
@mercyrahma9501 2 года назад
Thank you so much❤️ This video resonated with me See I told my narcissistic husband whenever he was telling me that I am a bad wife, that I was a "witch", satanic that he was absolutely wrong and that this woman he was talking about Isn't me but for sure She was gonna come his way, that God would send Her his way... Well I think that that's what is happening... Some call It "karma", I as a Believer call It "God's justice" 😌☝️ Again, Thank you so much christina You help us so much with your videos God Bless you💖
@ladyvirgo013
@ladyvirgo013 Год назад
I'm thankful I found your channel. My husband of 12 years just ghosted me,my daughter, our home & pets, 3 weeks ago. He started devaluing me about 2 months ago. Left me for the secretary at his work. I'm NOT searching for what he's doing, I'm not on social media thankfully. I'm still trying to gather my guts up off the floor. I know he's slandering me,I can feel it. It's all very sad
@TheresFuckeryAfoot
@TheresFuckeryAfoot 4 года назад
When you do the deep healing from the abuses of a narc or any personality disordered or toxic person, you care less and less about them “getting it”, seeing the errors of their ways, or “getting their karma”. Once you’re really done in your mind and heart with this kind of pattern in your life, you simply don’t care what they are or what happens in their life. You are free, physically, emotionally, mentally, and energetically. They cannot feed off you when you have no attachments to them in your being. Even if for some reason you have to interact with them (sharing custody of children etc.), when you do the work to heal yourself, whether they get their ‘just desserts’ or they don’t, they are no longer a concern to you in any fashion. It’s true liberation. Best wishes to all those healing. 💗
@BooDotBoo
@BooDotBoo 4 года назад
I saw this video come up and watched out of curiosity. At this point I couldn't care less if my narc is getting karma or anything else, I'm just glad he's gone and am more worried about continued healing and focusing on myself. However, in the back of mind, I know my ex narc is probably having a tough time in different ways just because he always seems to and I doubt that changed after I left, but he won't admit to himself that a lot of the "bad" happening in his life is created by him and won't go away until he changes; I know he's not changing, though, so I just don't worry about what he's doing now.
@mayanacharles4204
@mayanacharles4204 4 года назад
How did you free yourself?
@selenem3384
@selenem3384 3 года назад
yes only a low life person like a narc would try to destroy somebody else's life, they hate their life, their whole existence is misery for them, hence all the distractions they use to avoid how they have done themselves in
@sharilyon5983
@sharilyon5983 3 года назад
@@mayanacharles4204 the only way to free yourself is to not love a fake person, nor hate them. Once you get to the point where you no longer care about anything, and have complete indifference towards them, you'll suddenly find yourself free!
@lanamare2474
@lanamare2474 5 лет назад
I needed to hear this! Thank you!!
@CommonEgo
@CommonEgo 5 лет назад
I'm so glad to hear this was helpful for you. I 100% believe that if we do the right thing and focus on healing, everything will work itself out. I've also seen it happen! Thank you for your comment!
@AF-yo5my
@AF-yo5my 4 года назад
I would say that the Narc gets their Karma every day of their lives. They live in their fear and self loathing for their entire lives - if that’s not Karma I don’t know what is. One you realise that they are just a fraud, see them for the nothing that they are, let them go, you’ll see it clear as.
@AnissaMadjer2359
@AnissaMadjer2359 4 года назад
So true👌
@bluedawning22
@bluedawning22 4 года назад
I currently still live with my ex narc. He lost his home while we were dating, then I let him move in to my home to be the good girlfriend but I had my doubts. Anyways, he moved in... treated me like crap, cheated multiple times and gaslit me like a kerosine lamp. I broke up with him over a year ago and started the gray rock method with him as a form of survival. He has hoovered me, begged me, tried to con me back by using sex... he then lost his job last June due to a narcissistic rage slip up at his job. I’m his last place of refuge. He’s burned almost all of his bridges. He is blocked on my social media. He knows I WANT him to start dating someone else. So now he is making every excuse to not move out in an attempt to prevent me from moving on. I’m trying hard to keep the law out of it but I might need to because my health and home are being affected.
@theSpiritofTamzin
@theSpiritofTamzin 4 года назад
Get him OUT of your home!!
@gilmourishgilmourish6205
@gilmourishgilmourish6205 4 года назад
Throw him out! Life is too short to be fooled . Bless you. Respect yourself!
@bluedawning22
@bluedawning22 4 года назад
Kay I’m at the attorneys office right now with a consultation.
@ginadiodati1965
@ginadiodati1965 4 года назад
I'm learned to feel compassion for the new supplies that fall like domino's after when the fairytale ends for them.
@sandrarthornton
@sandrarthornton 4 года назад
I’m pretty sure the narc i discarded is with another narc I was his last empath and she’s going to give him a run for his money, if they’re even still together
@charlieamabile1360
@charlieamabile1360 4 года назад
I don't think a real NARCISSIST is capable of learning any "life lessons".
@selenem3384
@selenem3384 3 года назад
same, at least not in this life... their life is a major fuck up because of the way they choose to be, and they can only learn the lessons when they pass over or reincarnate
@doughnuttouch6944
@doughnuttouch6944 4 года назад
I often think I so wanna protect the new victims from this injury, because I know he likes to pick women in their 20s, because they are a bit stupid (as he said) Then I have to remind myself- it's their Karma and their path. But I feel deeply sorry for them. 😐
@ddseir1443
@ddseir1443 4 года назад
Very good and thotough analysis. There`s no karma, just fate, not the same thing,The narcissist will have an emotionally fake and void life not because he/she is bad or was bad towards you, but because that’s what and how they are. No point feeling sorry for them, no point feeling vengeful either.
@nicolecarnevale1071
@nicolecarnevale1071 2 года назад
A Narcissist”s karma is his or her own lack of empathy, inability to truly love other people, and their vicious “ revenge” over perceived slights and never ending envy and jealousy. I really believe the best karma for a narcissist is truly letting go, healing and healthy development of yourself. Contentment, serenity in you and keeping your heart open to safe people is their karma. We no longer care. ❤️ Life is good, just without them in it.
@Ripcurler97
@Ripcurler97 3 года назад
i feel like i have the worst case possible of narcissistic abuse it feels like god gave me the hardest challenge possible and it just feels impossible
@brittanyb5942
@brittanyb5942 3 года назад
You WILL get thru it 🙏🏾
@sarthakshrivastava9542
@sarthakshrivastava9542 Год назад
It aint worst. When HIS stick hits, the sound might be quiet but the pain is exponentially greater than yours. Trust HIM! He took the devil out from your life
@lovelyjolie22
@lovelyjolie22 4 года назад
Yea the Karma is me leaving ! For Good n just don’t care!
@JG-cj6pc
@JG-cj6pc 4 года назад
It's normal to feel hurt, when the narcs get right into another relationship. With time, it can bring a sense of validation. A pattern emerges. You can see how desperate they are, for supply. The same thing happens, over and over again. Then you know it wasn't you. The XN went through at least a dozen NS, before the last one married him. Based on some things our children shared when they went for visits, it was obvious something is off with her too. I'm pretty sure she's also a narc. Her oldest son told our youngest son that she's bi-polar and refuses to take medicine for it. So, yes, he got his karma. The thing is, I can't bring myself to be happy about this. Her two youngest moved in with and live with them now. Her oldest and our two youngest have gone no contact. Our oldest is low contact. I hope that her two youngest are resilient and able to hold onto who they are, there's no telling what they're going through. 9 years out I'm thankful that our now adult children are doing so much better, me too. That's what comes with time and working to heal. Enjoying freedom and a better life.
@dawrongwitch9036
@dawrongwitch9036 4 года назад
This describes my nex's behavior exactly. I see thru it. At first I bought the fake news, but it's all plain to see now. He got into a big sticky trap trying to make me look like the problem. I'm free and happy while he's trapped in a dysfunctiona ltoxic relationship with another narc and their 6 bratty kids from 5 previous marriages between them!!
@dinab7852
@dinab7852 10 месяцев назад
Time to watch your vides to stay sane and de-stress. 🙏
@charmaineneshanathan2101
@charmaineneshanathan2101 4 года назад
my covert narcissist ex, had another relationship while with me and didn’t even break up with me.. and he found another new girl and then only broke up with me. i exposes him on social media and let everyone know the truth who is really is. i was so angry , his cousins and friends all know me . they are shock he did this too . now he denies even dating me when everyone knew we were together lol
@charmaineneshanathan2101
@charmaineneshanathan2101 4 года назад
exposed * who he really is *
@whoKnew1621
@whoKnew1621 4 года назад
Omg what happened next? Did he become vindictive? And did the new supply dump him, when she realized he was full of shit and playing u both?
@fffffff6822
@fffffff6822 3 года назад
So he decided to gaslight all his friends ? Lol thats not a clever narc, what a dumbass
@selenem3384
@selenem3384 3 года назад
with narcs you always discover this things way later... you felt you were his only girl because of the intense love bombing while he been messing with many side pieces in his narc closet/harem. To a narc not one of his supplies are something special. They all get treated as objects and suffer the same fate with the narc.
@selenem3384
@selenem3384 3 года назад
@@whoKnew1621 the narc's old supply that returned as his new supply is probably waiting for him to die fast so she can inherit some money from him - like his male best friend. Ha ha ha... they must take him for all he got.
@Tara-id3rk
@Tara-id3rk 3 года назад
Fantastic video. I really enjoyed the point of us not knowing how hurt the narc actually is. My husband just moved in with his new supply and her kids. She was a friend of mine, so I know what an emotional mess she is & her kids have already faced so much trauma- their actions hurt me so much & the Love bombing IS intense, but I feel worried for the kids who have already been through enough. In the meantime, he is now trying to take our children, who he’s never parented a day in their lives, because he has an “extremely stable, perfect, beautiful” home and “family unit.” 😂 if you have to tell me this home, after living there for a week- after trying to sleep with me the week before- is “extremely stable,” sounds like you’re trying to convince yourself. 😂
@drlarrymitchell
@drlarrymitchell 4 года назад
I find myself in the position of siccing a malignant narcissist on another narcissist (they're both in denial) and I honestly cannot wait for the karma to harvest.
@selenem3384
@selenem3384 3 года назад
lmfao almost sounds like my situation... that bromance between the two narcs, gonna blow up in their faces, it is only a matter of time.
@wingardiumleviosa5514
@wingardiumleviosa5514 4 года назад
My ex’s new supply is love bombing him and he’s love bombing her. I’m not really sure if she is a narcissist also but she really tried to put me down and has fallen hard for his lies.
@linnybird9585
@linnybird9585 4 года назад
she will learn x
@Lacehairwigs
@Lacehairwigs 2 года назад
He's already left the new supply a few time and went back a few time because I won't talk to him at all. Blocked on all fronts 😂
@evamcinnis7992
@evamcinnis7992 4 года назад
I feel sorry for the next woman that jerk demon gets a hold of! Thank You! Blessings!💞💞💖🙏🙏👣🙋🙋😘😘🤗😊
@fffffff6822
@fffffff6822 3 года назад
Hey! Men and lesbians suffer too its not just men who are narcissists..
@selenem3384
@selenem3384 3 года назад
if the new supply is old supply, does the woman even have a brain or feel sorry for herself at all? No, that is their karma. The narc deserves a weak codependent for a partner, if they are both broken people, there would be nothing wholesome coming from that relationship - again, it is their karma to mess up each other's lives, you had to leave to make space for that shit to unravel
@jojobaba754
@jojobaba754 2 года назад
Attachment is all in the ego, which is why I choose to let it go!!!
@ahmedhawash9279
@ahmedhawash9279 2 года назад
OMG ... that new target thing is SOOOO TRUE !!! They chose someone that like extremely emotionally scared and codependent !!! That is on point 👌
@elainesmith5313
@elainesmith5313 Год назад
As a serial cheater, the Narc in my life did receive his Karma. He contracted the HPV VIRUS and developed Throat Cancer. Died almost 2 yrs. Ago. A SAD demise, but appropriate for the offense committed. God is good but more than that He is just. Thank you!!!
@DanielM799
@DanielM799 Год назад
1. Lack of self-awareness 2. Actively engaged in blame-shifting 3. They display grandiosity 4. They are manipulative 5. They have a fragile ego 6. They feel entitled 7. They lack empathy
@alikysdelahoztorne7388
@alikysdelahoztorne7388 4 года назад
We appreciate all this. Thanks for taking your time to share this video w us. It is really useful♥️
@Angela-us8zh
@Angela-us8zh 4 года назад
Thank you, moving forward, staying strong. Thank God and my guardian angels for looking out for me and my son. My heart warmed when you said Christina, that's my guardian angel name, (aunt) thank you again for your knowledge, soul sister❤
@101hamilton
@101hamilton 2 года назад
This is an excellent video with a viewpoint that I had never considered. You make very good points. Thank you for posting and all your other great content! You have helped me in my healing journey from being discarded. Also, now I am aware and smarter at recognizing and avoiding narcissists.
@RedButterfly-tk6vo
@RedButterfly-tk6vo 2 года назад
You know if you have caused the huge injury. Intuition is always your best friend 💯 continue to be kind to the right people in your life esp be kind to yourself. (Continue to walk away)
@kobiejohnson5165
@kobiejohnson5165 4 года назад
I'm just discovering your channel and I have a deep appreciation for the what and how you present the information on narcissism. I have been looking at tons of videos and read articles on narcissism to learn about it due to my own history with this kind of person. A lot of the information out is the same because the symptoms are the same. Now I'm looking for people with unique information on the disorder and you present some fresh information. Thank you for sharing your experiences and the work you have done to be able to give us your unique insights on dealing with narcissistic people. Godspeed!
@Communitychoud
@Communitychoud 4 года назад
My one is trying to contact me even though he a has a new supply and is engaged to her
@deborahrichardson3731
@deborahrichardson3731 4 года назад
Ask her to tell him to leave you alone
@symkoko1776
@symkoko1776 3 года назад
mine even asked me if I would be his affair after he has married his new supply 😂😂
@selenem3384
@selenem3384 3 года назад
@@symkoko1776 narcs are like dogs, they always return to their own barf, to see if old supply would still fall for the bait, my narc is currently with an old supply after I told him off. He is probably miserable as fuck, good...and he also takes pictures with celebrities and put it on his social media, as if a celebrity girl would fall for his lame ass. When they have no real supply, they name drop, to make people believe they are high up or famous being involved with people who have influence. Pffft such a farce.
@tbd5082
@tbd5082 4 года назад
So true! And trying to destroy you financially😡
@sonicfoxxmusic4281
@sonicfoxxmusic4281 4 года назад
Especially areas like wills.....destroys people's history and legacies.
@abcdefg208
@abcdefg208 4 года назад
That's what my kids father done he know
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