Young DAD reacts to Dax - To Be A Man (Reaction!) 

Stay strong brother. That’s why we are men…it’s our duty to fall on any sword needed to display what is good and pure.

Congratulations on getting your daughters-tenfold for getting them away from Society Rot. YES! You Are the Head of your Family!!! I would like to share My experience with My Dad, who divorced my Mother when I was 3, for cheating on him, plus a blossoming alcohol addiction that rattled us more years than she eventually was sober. She would easily say she Despised My father,& went to her grave loving the divorced 2nd husband, she was cheating with,& he cheated on her through Most of their years together. Bad mouthing my father only drew me closer to him,& further away from her. That night, after all of our dinners went into his face, I went into the bedroom as he was packing and crying,& it had a profound & lasting effect on me, especially since my Mother Wasn’t crying!!! My father remarried which included 2 more girls with the package,& he was The Man of the house, no Ifs, Ands,or Buts, & we were All treated Equally-none of you deal with Yours,& I’ll deal with mine Ever, & even my stepsisters came to respect & go to him with problems, rather than Their father! He Never laid a Hand on us, but we Still didn’t want to be caught screwing up!!! Many long nights at our table with Very Long Conversations, but when we had done something sooo bad, that it put Him in tears, or even Choked him up(the 70’s were My teen years!😬)We All would’ve preferred getting our butts beaten raw!!! There’s a Huge difference in Fearing your Father,& Knowing that if you do things “inappropriate”, you’ll be Hurting your Father & All he stands for!!! There’s also a Choice Fathers have, of making themselves someone who lashes out in anger & beats their child, or be one who is able to rein that anger in,& be able to talk the issue out,& punishes with “Grounding”their child,& using that time to better understand the issues. He was really tall & had a Really deep voice, which scared many a friend, but at the Same time, they wished their fathers cared enough to sit & talk about stuff, which I realized when I became a Mother & Grandmother, it was/is The Greatest Tool for parents!!! You gotta start young, for it to be your Best tool come the teenage years!!! He Also broke the mold on the Man Crying thing, even though he Thankfully Didn’t do it often, he explained he had just as many feelings as anyone else,& it’s a Stupid move for Anyone to act like stuff Doesn’t hurt them,& just bottle it up, bc it turns to poison eventually. He said it takes More of a Man to Show his feelings, than to Not show their feelings, which Did take a while to totally grasp, but Thankfully my Brother got it early!!! And he actually warned me Against men that were to afraid to show emotions & talk about them, as they were just ticking time bombs that Would explode one day with all that poison built up. He was the Greatest & Strongest Man I’ve ever known,& he touched Many lives with the huge amount of people of All ages, who showed up for his funeral!!! I hope you’ll consider the options that one man took, who raised 4 Incredible human beings, all successful in our own right, all with kids who came out right, bc We did what He did, & who miss him dearly everyday of the 26years he’s been gone.🙏

​@@cynthiamgrooms8195a slight spank is okay. But telling a child what they did wrong 8s the way to go 99.9 percent of the time. I got spanked once. When i didn't come home until 11.30. I was 5😅

​@@de4ds1ghtcsgo94 NO. A slight spank is not OK. It doesn't teach the child anything but fear. And what's a "slight spank"? To you it may be a gentle smack on a diaper, but to someone else it may mean a slap across the face. Physical violence does not work. Period.

@@abelis644 a little fear makes you rethink. You're just the type that thinks humans are more evolved than chimpansees

I feel you bro god bless you man

Keep digging and keep climbing, brother! You can do it! You got this! Been there, myself, so I can confirm that it can be done. Peace and love to you and yours

Then they find another man to confide in...... Like they are simply replacing a family pet.

Veterans should be the first people our government should be helping! There is NO excuse! I'm female and I was homeless for quite awhile. People who knew me would walk right past me all the time and look the other way. I pray for you sir! Thank you for your service! People nowadays are very self centered, but there are still many of us who care.

Have you used any of your gi bill yet bro? Look into getting your CDL lot of good programs where you can get bah while working for the company and getting the regular pay as well. Id be down to show you in the right direction if you are interested. Just thought I’d throw the option out there.

I appreciate your service for our freedom, don't feel like you've done no justice.

Then line where he says we have to pull ourselves out of hell and nobody is going to help or do it for us, HIT. And that's the truth. We gotta push everything aside and start climbing out on our own or else we are going to stay where we are... Good luck brother. ,

so understand. Only a veteran can understand where you are coming from. And only a war veteran can really understand PAIN