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‘Female Loneliness’ (& How To Fix It) 

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Men not approaching women study:
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TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 Happy International Women’s Day
02:27 All the single ladies
06:03 Why Aren’t Men Approaching Women anymore?!
08:51 129 Ways To Get a Husband
23:54 What have we learned?
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Комментарии : 17 тыс.   
@Shoe0nHead
@Shoe0nHead 3 месяца назад
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@deathcrunch9020
@deathcrunch9020 3 месяца назад
Mommy.
@feralwarden4873
@feralwarden4873 3 месяца назад
Hello! I am one of the 7.3! Happy women’s day!
@OrthoJason
@OrthoJason 3 месяца назад
@@deathcrunch9020 Brother?
@Depressed_until_dead
@Depressed_until_dead 3 месяца назад
@@deathcrunch9020 you ok? 😐
@DS3Enjoyer
@DS3Enjoyer 3 месяца назад
I'm okay
@williansnobre
@williansnobre 3 месяца назад
If men approach women they think men are creepy If women approach men they think it is a prank or a set up
@thefart
@thefart 3 месяца назад
Unironically thought I was getting scammed when a girl was chatting with me today. Still unsure
@slewdry8233
@slewdry8233 3 месяца назад
bet social media has nothing to do with the latter
@pvdg3515
@pvdg3515 3 месяца назад
@@thefart hahhahaa
@nexusgiga
@nexusgiga 3 месяца назад
If a woman approaches a man it's a fed
@Cryodrone
@Cryodrone 3 месяца назад
When men approach men...its cute and i hope the best for both of them
@regiluthfi
@regiluthfi 3 месяца назад
if women approach me usually i just wake up
@bettastudios7078
@bettastudios7078 3 месяца назад
amen to that brother
@columbiakidd1624
@columbiakidd1624 3 месяца назад
100%
@rake483
@rake483 3 месяца назад
same
@devx-1272
@devx-1272 3 месяца назад
I want to laugh and cry myself to sleep after reading this😂😭
@_Irrelevant
@_Irrelevant 3 месяца назад
Damn, bro. You didn't have to hit me like that.
@AquaAriaSachou
@AquaAriaSachou 27 дней назад
Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaand they just removed the "Women must make the first move" part of Bumble because and I quote: "Women do not want the burden and responsibility of making the first move."
@neilt6480
@neilt6480 25 дней назад
Saw that. I'd say that pretty much ends the last hope for the younger generations. I really thought that Bumble was the start of a new paradigm.
@Fr3k3
@Fr3k3 16 дней назад
of the few matches I got, most never made the first move even when I extended. and those few who did, would just say hi or hey. yknow, the thing they make fun of men for on tinder or instagram? and of that tiny percentage that said hey, only one actually amounted to anything. and she wasn't even interested in a relationship, just fwb. it was really amusing all things considered. it's not like I expected them to have "game" or "rizz me up". they just.. didn't even try to start a conversation about hobbies or prompts or even a simple compliment lmao.
@mr.mayhem7402
@mr.mayhem7402 14 дней назад
LOL. Welcome to our world.
@AvesZephyros
@AvesZephyros 14 дней назад
@@neilt6480 You must be sarcastic? You thought a dating app was a start of a new paradigm?
@neilt6480
@neilt6480 14 дней назад
@@AvesZephyros Not the dating app. The acknowledgement that women will have to make the first move in this post me-too era.
@shrk128
@shrk128 Месяц назад
Two pieces of advice, as a man: Don't be afraid to give men honest complements - that shit burns into permanent memory that not even brain damage can expunge. Do not, under any circumstances, assume he'll "get the hint" - if he did, he would've done something about it. Either he doesn't know, isn't interested, or unsure you're interested. To paraphrase - Keep it simple with the stupid. Jokes aside - being straightforward is likely the best thing you can do; it might be a bit awkward, but straight up telling a guy you like his looks and want his number will give him an ego boost which he will associate with you. YMMV, but that's my take on it, for better or worse.
@Faliard
@Faliard Месяц назад
A guy also might get the hint but won't act so as not to come off as awkward or creepy. Moreover, he might not even believe the girl's straightforward confession, instead thinking it's a prank or a joke. I think the guys aren't as stupid as they are afraid now. I personally always assume that all the girls I meet and know are my friends or acquintances and nothing more. Even if I have feelings, I will not confess them and try to get rid of them instead.
@Fr3k3
@Fr3k3 16 дней назад
I had a woman one time make zero romantic gestures to me and then tell me a few months later she liked me and was surprised I didn't know. all she did was be nice to me and strike up basic conversation. no playful teasing, no touching, no flirting, nothing. just a smile and a wave. like the same I get from a woman whose shopping cart I accidentally bumped into. it's stuff like that, that makes men second guess every nice interaction they have with women. had she just been direct with me, I would have at least never had to ask myself if every pretty lady that said nice things to me was shooting her shot or just being nice. im not saying women are dumb or are to blame or whatever. just that when it comes to men, it's much more helpful to be direct. we got a decade or more of built up interactions and assumptions that are preventing us from "picking up on your hint"
@comradeurod9805
@comradeurod9805 11 дней назад
I will attach to OPs comment, women, please dont be upset or misunderstand when, after you confessed your feeling to us, we ask you if you're fucking with us, it is not a rejection, just genuine confusion.
@tatiblack6087
@tatiblack6087 10 дней назад
I complimented a man's figure because he was built like he could kill a bear. He had to take off his shades and wipe tears. My heart broke! I asked him if he needed a hug and he said no 😢 just nodded and thanked me before fucking off (he was working by pushing carts) I hope he's okay...
@tatiblack6087
@tatiblack6087 10 дней назад
​@@comradeurod9805 I'll take this to heart, thanks
@bigvideosfordumdums3264
@bigvideosfordumdums3264 3 месяца назад
"So how did you meet your husband?" "I illegally trespassed on the USS Ronald reagan"
@NotEveryoneCanRead
@NotEveryoneCanRead 3 месяца назад
And I brought my easel, and "accidently" spilt the contents of my purse which was baked goods.
@forsociopoliticalstuff2629
@forsociopoliticalstuff2629 3 месяца назад
“So how did you meet your husband” “I crashed his first wife’s funeral”
@stevenkraft8070
@stevenkraft8070 3 месяца назад
Shoe approves of you trespassing on the Ronald Reagan though.
@GoDaveGo
@GoDaveGo 3 месяца назад
Isn’t that the plot of the Steven Seagal classic, Under Siege?
@thomashowell7445
@thomashowell7445 3 месяца назад
Is that what the kids are calling it these days.
@Peter-fq2rq
@Peter-fq2rq 3 месяца назад
“Nevada has 125 females for every 100 females.” - Shoe
@linstar9172
@linstar9172 3 месяца назад
I can do math too!
@tylerd.5694
@tylerd.5694 3 месяца назад
Bi vibes
@SpiralSine6
@SpiralSine6 3 месяца назад
That’s a lot of women per women, highest rate in the world possibly
@BrozvilleRealm
@BrozvilleRealm 3 месяца назад
Nevada "now with 25% more girl!"
@OfficerHotpants
@OfficerHotpants 3 месяца назад
I think I saw a video with that premise once...
@Symphogi
@Symphogi Месяц назад
Honestly the best advice to approaching a man is to just show genuine interest, sometimes guys like me in particular are dense and need your intentions up front so we can open up a little. I find that I'm very straightforward so I'm afraid of scaring women so it's hard to approach them.
@devinwarren5862
@devinwarren5862 Месяц назад
Same.
@devinup3981
@devinup3981 27 дней назад
Right? Just be nice, care about what he says and does (hopefully he reciprocates this back), and you should be on the right track. And honestly, slip in a compliment every now and then. Do something nice for him. The amount of men who have anyone say or do something nice for them is way too low.
@aquarioresetter8828
@aquarioresetter8828 19 дней назад
Dude same. I am normally a very blunt man, and I do not speak the language of "Hints". In fact, the one time I did date a girl, I never initially made a move because I had no idea. Yeah she seemed to join my friend group, and she seemingly did stand near me in conversations, but it never crossed my mind that she was approaching me. She had to get the help of other friends to get my attention. A male friend of mine said "You know she has a massive liking to you." "Well, that makes sense, I normally am wei-" "In a relationship-like way chief." "Oh." Then cut to next month and I eventually sent a 6 haiku poem. We are not dating anymore, but we're still close friends. She is the homie
@nameunknown5106
@nameunknown5106 14 дней назад
I don't even know if that will work, we never get approached so we think its a setup
@3ternalHours
@3ternalHours 13 дней назад
Exactly. Show genuine interest and be persistent if he appears confused around you at first. He likely has never had this form of attention before.
@solvamstudio
@solvamstudio Месяц назад
I think about the one girl who said I smelled nice 12 years ago and have used the same soap, shampoo, deodorant, and cologne ever since.
@M0urfeen
@M0urfeen Месяц назад
that's cute
@kamifuujin
@kamifuujin 2 дня назад
Same happened to me been using the same shampoo fot a decade now women tend of like it.
@bartudundar3193
@bartudundar3193 3 месяца назад
Virgin "Stay single and be a girlboss" vs Chad "STOWAWAY ON A BATTLESHIP AND GIVE MEN DEATH STATISTICS"
@Archflip
@Archflip 3 месяца назад
The stow away on a battleship line immediately made me think about don't ask don't tell policies among sailors in the navy.
@jamesdillonmccracken
@jamesdillonmccracken 3 месяца назад
Yeah that stow away on a boat one was definitely a psyop to try and get the sailors to stop butt fuckin each other.
@MHKing03
@MHKing03 3 месяца назад
Female version of Chad = Stacey
@MichalisG1821
@MichalisG1821 3 месяца назад
As a lad, this would absolutely work on me.
@FleshWizard69420
@FleshWizard69420 3 месяца назад
​@@jamesdillonmccrackenhot seamen within 5 km from your location
@florianizer
@florianizer 3 месяца назад
Last date I went on with a girl had a really awkward moment while we were being seated at a restaurant. I took my fedora off and started to panic when I realized I didn't have any place to set it. When I looked up, she was sat there smiling and holding out the most beautiful hat box I had ever seen. It was an absolutely perfect date... and then I woke up.
@alexusman
@alexusman 3 месяца назад
You got me in the first half, not gonna lie!
@rocky-my5ck
@rocky-my5ck 3 месяца назад
Dammit i wanted to believe it so hard!
@KA-pe6sv
@KA-pe6sv 3 месяца назад
I knew something was off the moment I read “took my fedora off”
@bigfunko1957
@bigfunko1957 3 месяца назад
Hamlet if it was good
@benia1908
@benia1908 3 месяца назад
lol I hope that was reality
@mariothane8754
@mariothane8754 Месяц назад
That hat box is a guaranteed hit. It raises the mystery when men realize they have no idea what a hat box is.
@archiestills
@archiestills 2 месяца назад
It was your advice shoe. "Tell them you feel safe around them, they are locked in" the most true statement ever
@hk-4714
@hk-4714 Месяц назад
Observation: Yeah it's a funny thing, men like being valued for who they are and what they do. Maybe that's why the persistent "men are garbage" narrative has caused a lot of men to just simply walk away. Like I did. Why should I invest in a relationship where I am not appreciated, where in fact it's very likely it will be parasitic and predatory *and* where I have lots of responsibility but no authority? Yeah, no thanks. It's almost like there are deep-seated things which exist which have worked well in mate pairing for *the entirety of meatbag history* which are NOT being done now, to disastrous result. Now a logical thinker might come to the conclusion that would mean you should change course back to what is proven to work....but here we are. Doubling down is fun isn't it?
@SIRDIXON-SD9223
@SIRDIXON-SD9223 Месяц назад
😂
@sanya5981
@sanya5981 17 дней назад
Honestly yeah, at that point couldn't get out if I wanted to, monkey brains kicked in.
@edyknight9218
@edyknight9218 16 дней назад
Okay I'm trans so maybe I don't understand this but if a woman did that to me it would immediately ring alarm bells. Do men really melt over that? Like for me it would just come across as needy and creepy.
@N1ght2098
@N1ght2098 16 дней назад
Id be straight up confused by it. That said, im about as dense as a black hole so...
@dragonturtle2703
@dragonturtle2703 3 месяца назад
I like how the author note wasn't even "don't sit with the men, sit with the women", or even "sit alone", it's "aggressively take the entire seat when you don't need to, like an asshole."
@shinigami891
@shinigami891 3 месяца назад
Thats why all her other article were about being single... Don't take advice from a fish on how to catch a fish.
@Jonas_M_M
@Jonas_M_M 3 месяца назад
"Man spreading" on the other hand
@young-salt
@young-salt 3 месяца назад
Literal anti social behavior. She has a mental disorder
@projectdeveloper9311
@projectdeveloper9311 3 месяца назад
That's the thing, she IS an asshole
@jazzyjswift
@jazzyjswift 3 месяца назад
@@StackSnackies when the bathroom sink gets too crowded, expand into the bus seats.
@canadadry5449
@canadadry5449 3 месяца назад
"You'll die young if you remain single." I'm sorry, is that a threat?
@anirvankm
@anirvankm 3 месяца назад
Don't threaten me with a good time!
@ScottRadkeMusic
@ScottRadkeMusic 3 месяца назад
No kidding…. Sign me up ✍🏼
@1Grainer1
@1Grainer1 3 месяца назад
it's the promise of good tomorrow
@catscanhavelittleasalami
@catscanhavelittleasalami 3 месяца назад
i don't see any downsides tbh
@XiaoyuuuYT
@XiaoyuuuYT 3 месяца назад
Modern women thought that too and look what happened 😂
@SamBourgeois-mr4hq
@SamBourgeois-mr4hq Месяц назад
"Sit next to him" works. Well, it works if the guy has spent a few late evenings thinking "wait, was she interested?" Just go easy on the perfume, some of us are allergic 🤧
@devinup3981
@devinup3981 27 дней назад
Legit perfect advice. You like someone? Sit next to them. Say hi. Make it easy for them to notice you and think about you. Even if they didn't already like you, repeated encounters with you make it more likely that they may come around. Don't overdo it, but if you just lurk around in the background without approaching the person, things probably aren't gonna happen.
@reaganharder1480
@reaganharder1480 День назад
easy on the perfume, but don't ignore it entirely. You don't want someone to be able to smell that you've entered the room, but smells have a way of getting stuck in a brain (or at least mine), so smelling nice when you get close is a pretty solid way to keep them thinking about you.
@colby1398
@colby1398 Месяц назад
Imagine being the sort of bitter, sad individual that literally says not to even compliment someone you're interested in. Holy crap the bar to be a "journalist" is on the floor.
@sneauxday7002
@sneauxday7002 3 дня назад
These "journalists" get zero bitches or himbos, theyre talking out of their ass 1000000% of the time
@afterhourscinema782
@afterhourscinema782 3 месяца назад
"I always thought being alone was the worst thing there is. It's not. It's being around people that make you feel alone." *- Robin Williams*
@bobjohnson5557
@bobjohnson5557 3 месяца назад
Considering he removed himself, this speaks volumes.
@AirShark95
@AirShark95 3 месяца назад
It's like one of my all-time favorite movie quotes (from Thin Red Line): "Don't you ever get lonely?" "Only around people"
@CaptainShovelHead
@CaptainShovelHead 3 месяца назад
You can't yearn for something that you don't know exists. There's thousands of things I could be feeling isolated from right now, but I'm not since I don't know that they're happening.
@Johnnysmithy24
@Johnnysmithy24 3 месяца назад
Trueeeee
@theghostofmaximumvolume3414
@theghostofmaximumvolume3414 3 месяца назад
I feel that way around my sister. She won't go anywhere without her little dog. All she does is talk about her dog. I sit there thinking, I haven't seen you in years, and all you care about is a dog you see every day...
@TheSeriousSoul
@TheSeriousSoul 2 месяца назад
I've played too much Left 4 Dead to approach a crying woman.
@bluehotsaiyan5955
@bluehotsaiyan5955 2 месяца назад
You clever bastard 👌😂 I see what you did there.
@YouKnowMeDuh
@YouKnowMeDuh 2 месяца назад
LOL! I see you xD
@NamanYadav2911
@NamanYadav2911 2 месяца назад
Fr
@lucianjaeger4893
@lucianjaeger4893 2 месяца назад
😂 perfect!
@Rytonic69
@Rytonic69 2 месяца назад
Based
@brownzerg
@brownzerg 29 дней назад
The only time I was ever approached it was a joke and she and her friends had a big laugh at my expense. All my attempts at approaching end in the worst possible way. I'm like a 4, maybe, so despite my best efforts to change what I wear or get as fit as I can before I want to die, it just hasn't helped any. No amount of ketchup will help this turd. It's been 22 years since I've even been kissed and I'm honestly just tired at this point. Even my Grandmother who was my staunchest supporter said eventually "well some people just don't end up finding anyone". Now I just try to find ways to stay numb and it works for a while but the loneliness comes and goes.
@anotherfriendlyshikikan6960
@anotherfriendlyshikikan6960 14 дней назад
Shit man 22 years?! By the first 10 you should’ve just gave up and started looking for bros instead of hoes
@richardjohnson7379
@richardjohnson7379 11 дней назад
Are you alright mate?
@landonkam6727
@landonkam6727 8 дней назад
I know you didn't ask but my honest advice would be friends. They can fulfill a lot of that loneliness and while they won't be able to completely fill the void, they're gonna at the very least be there for you. It's hard to make real ones but even surface level friends will still help you find someone. A lot boils down to luck, but at the end of the day all a romantic partner is is a friend with extras. I'm not saying to give up or you'll never find love so just find friends, but friends can not only help you feel less lonely, but they can help you find love. Try to shine with your personality, and be a kind person, those things are what people looking for love and connection are looking out for in a partner and they never fade like looks do. I don't know you personally but I truly hope you find someone good for you and you're happy together.
@user-ex2he1bz1l
@user-ex2he1bz1l 3 дня назад
Women can be cruel that's for sure. They aren't all like that though and the cruel ones will eventually find themselves sad and lonely. She's a bitch and so is karma. Keep trying, start with casual conversation then work your way up..
@ianimations1656
@ianimations1656 Месяц назад
F's in chat for all my homies who are shy, quiet people and are attracted to other shy, quiet people
@tatiblack6087
@tatiblack6087 10 дней назад
F
@reaganharder1480
@reaganharder1480 День назад
F
@matthewdavis3421
@matthewdavis3421 3 месяца назад
That journo is the epitome of "single women keep women single".
@zeriel9148
@zeriel9148 3 месяца назад
"Today, advice from a vegan on how to prepare steak."
@PrionicProteins
@PrionicProteins 3 месяца назад
Yes, exactly that.
@stefanmuc2k
@stefanmuc2k 3 месяца назад
She doesn't just want them single, but to be an all-around unpleasant and miserable person.
@joinsideke
@joinsideke 3 месяца назад
I like how she's not even commenting on whether the advice is good or not, it's all just "Don't do it, be empowered by being insufferable instead!" Like bitch it's an article on how to get a husband, your commentary is irrelevant!
@thewholecircus2792
@thewholecircus2792 3 месяца назад
​@@stefanmuc2ksame shit
@CalebFrikkieBrooks
@CalebFrikkieBrooks 3 месяца назад
"Your whole family is gonna die unless you go to the gym" That's what got me into the gym
@DsiakMondala
@DsiakMondala 3 месяца назад
Based gym goer
@thebraveguy9808
@thebraveguy9808 3 месяца назад
I never went to the gym. That's why my whole family just straight up died one day.
@n4ughty_knight
@n4ughty_knight 3 месяца назад
The Gym Cult. Oldest trick in the book. Make people believe they have to change themselves in order to be accepted.
@Tespri
@Tespri 3 месяца назад
Dualingo now includes gym programs?
@Jake38nine
@Jake38nine 3 месяца назад
That's too much pressure.
@computername
@computername 2 месяца назад
This channel is the last pocket of balanced, common sense in this world. Whilst this doesn't help to change anything, it helps to not go crazy. Thank you
@neilt6480
@neilt6480 25 дней назад
There are a couple of others, but Shoe is right up there with the best of the best. Far far far too many are either devout misogynists or devout misandrists. Those folks can really do a number on your head.
@lordhanson476
@lordhanson476 24 дня назад
"Never let him believe your career is more important to you than marriage" I am genuinely amazed that the journalist didn't have something to say about rule 105.
@boazburger3846
@boazburger3846 3 месяца назад
as someone who got into a relationship just because I was lonely, for god's sake please don't
@bradensmith8682
@bradensmith8682 3 месяца назад
Desperate times create desperate times.
@DylanJo123
@DylanJo123 3 месяца назад
Ya. I think the best way to fix loneliness is to find people with common interests and hobbies to you. As soon as youre in a better mental state, then consider looking for a more intimate relationship. Getting into a relationship before fixing your loneliness is skipping a couple crucial steps. Gotta start with yourself..
@SnoopyReads
@SnoopyReads 3 месяца назад
Dating advice on both sides says, don't text too much, act like you don't care, pretend to be busy...Why are we lying to ourselves?
@mrblue7420
@mrblue7420 3 месяца назад
​@@DylanJo123I can honestly say I'm done with dating people with similar interests than me. I'm an asshole and if my partner is similar to me it's a red flag
@julianauston9001
@julianauston9001 3 месяца назад
As positive as I am that you’re right, no part of me will heed your advice. The likelihood of me being single, having never been in a relationship, at 35 is extremely high. If I get the option, I’m taking it, if not only to know that it’s possible.
@llejk
@llejk 2 месяца назад
Women advice: Don’t let them know. Men advice: No means no. Everyone: Confused and lonely.
@kylenyleen6143
@kylenyleen6143 2 месяца назад
This is perfect. No one wins based on what is fed to people.
@raddaradda3996
@raddaradda3996 19 дней назад
All in the psychological plot for depopulation. No bangin=less people. Or more migrants bringing in their new generations who then turn into devout democrat voters.
@robertrac5825
@robertrac5825 14 дней назад
@@kylenyleen6143 By design. Notice how it's all set up to make us work more, earn less, spend more, hang out less and have less kids.
@hariman7727
@hariman7727 13 дней назад
Best advice for women: Don't play the woman game with men. They're not women. Best advice for men: Don't tell them your secrets or your vulnerabilities. Society has trained EVERYONE to view weakness as blood in the water.
@wastelanddrifter7685
@wastelanddrifter7685 21 день назад
I think we're forgetting the most basic best way that never fails. The way the victorians did it. Wear a red flower somewhere it can be seen....this made men aware that you are single and willing to be approached.
@landonkam6727
@landonkam6727 8 дней назад
That's fucking genius, it's a sign saying "approach me" without looking like a giant paper taped on your back. Fashionable and functional.
@wastelanddrifter7685
@wastelanddrifter7685 8 дней назад
@@landonkam6727 yep, that's why it was so effective, just need the trend to spread and come back again.
@reaganharder1480
@reaganharder1480 День назад
You know, I kinda want to try something like this, but the skyrim version. The trouble is it'd probably take a bigger skyrim nerd than me to actually recognize an amulet of mara out in public, so the pool of women that would recognize that the little necklace means "single and looking for love" would be pretty small and my chances of actually encountering one brave enough to say anything about it is quite slim...
@lcomandante1197
@lcomandante1197 13 часов назад
@@reaganharder1480 But it does not equal zero. (also go to places, where this chance might be higher)
@reaganharder1480
@reaganharder1480 10 часов назад
@@lcomandante1197 this is true. I used to live near a book and game store that hosted DnD nights that I considered checking out. That would have been a good place to try something like that. Unfortunately I no longer live near that store and haven't found any similar places where I do live (though I also haven't really been looking)
@ThePeaceableKingdom
@ThePeaceableKingdom 2 месяца назад
Wow! ShoeOnHead! I haven't seen your vids in a long time. You take me back to early YT days. How wonderful. I don't know why YT's Igor-rithm put you in my side bar. Don't know why it thinks I need to know about Female Loneliness, being neither female or especially lonely... But I'm glad it did because it was nice to see you again and know your still on the 'tubes. Nice work, too. Very entertaining video, and wishing you the best till I stumble upon your art again.
@bradensmith8682
@bradensmith8682 3 месяца назад
You're "unavailable and mysterious"? Well I'm available and clueless.
@edarddragon
@edarddragon 3 месяца назад
she just doesnt wanna talk to you basically
@Kyle496
@Kyle496 3 месяца назад
I completely agree. If you don't show interest in me then I'll just cut my losses and move on, I'll eventually find someone who isn't playing games.
@hydraxon6940
@hydraxon6940 3 месяца назад
@@edarddragonIt's a modern dating strategy for women. "Play hard to get and men will chase you" which is just such idiotic advice.
@Pile_of_carbon
@Pile_of_carbon 3 месяца назад
Yeah, fuck the mind games. No one wants to risk getting Me Too'd.
@Josh-py9rq
@Josh-py9rq 3 месяца назад
lol
@fragileinfairyland
@fragileinfairyland 3 месяца назад
"no man is worth becoming a fed" real as fuck
@Molochors
@Molochors 3 месяца назад
Remember, any woman insterested in you is an agent of the state
@elocxv
@elocxv 3 месяца назад
Subbed for that
@LibrarianSankore
@LibrarianSankore 3 месяца назад
I'm worth it.
@tehlazypsycho5405
@tehlazypsycho5405 3 месяца назад
@@LibrarianSankore Is Anyone really?
@cabnbeeschurgr6440
@cabnbeeschurgr6440 3 месяца назад
Goes the other way around too. Those tight slacks on the cute atf agent lady ain't worth sawing off a shotgun barrel
@SachKaSaath772
@SachKaSaath772 Месяц назад
Oh wow this content is what is much much much needed right now. New Subscriber
@disturbedoldmaster9020
@disturbedoldmaster9020 25 дней назад
My ex literaly ruined our relationship because of her oversexual bi friends. She had mental problems to i wanted to have a stable relationship with this woman but she became abusive to me and i got the help i needed to stop her. I'm sick of all the b.s lgbtq vs incels ect i just wanted a stable relationship while others wanted worse. Its little vids like this that actual remind me i'm worth loving even when i been manipulated by others.
@Gyrfalcon312
@Gyrfalcon312 5 дней назад
Yes, man, you're absolutely worth it.
@ShadyDoorags
@ShadyDoorags 3 месяца назад
Her: "The death rate of single men is twice that of married men." Him: "Are you challenging me?"
@hentaidude666
@hentaidude666 3 месяца назад
Didn't expect to see you posting on here; dig the KOTH and Daria. Keep it up Shady
@Lusus-zj9pt
@Lusus-zj9pt 3 месяца назад
Damn didn't expect to see you here! Luv your vids, more justice league plz
@SuperDababy2
@SuperDababy2 3 месяца назад
Love the content, my guy.
@DarkVeghetta
@DarkVeghetta 3 месяца назад
Good to see you here, mate. Keep on keeping on.
@synisterintent
@synisterintent 3 месяца назад
Bill Maher had the best take on that: "yes- in the same way that *indoor* cats live longer than *outdoor* cats. Sure, they're shells of what they could be and can only look out the window with wonder at the life they could have, but do they *do* technically live longer!"
@panickysociety97
@panickysociety97 3 месяца назад
I honestly didn't know i was a minority in this community. 7%, that's wild.
@Sig509
@Sig509 3 месяца назад
There Are No Girls on the Internet
@greenLimeila
@greenLimeila 3 месяца назад
I knew we were but I expected maybe 60/40 or 70/30, not 93/7 wtf
@MsSayanna
@MsSayanna 3 месяца назад
yeah, I thought there's more of us
@bros4654
@bros4654 3 месяца назад
RU-vid followers seem to skew toward the men for some reason. Or so I've been told. I'm really curious why that is.
@NvdHvision
@NvdHvision 3 месяца назад
Girls wouldnt wanna See this, shoe 2 based
@sillymanblues
@sillymanblues 2 месяца назад
Love this channel! You're quick-witted and funny and I'm surprised I hadn't stumbled upon your cheekiness a lot sooner. 😎
@hanjuhbrightside5224
@hanjuhbrightside5224 18 дней назад
Hey Sh0e, the world needs you!
@MrNoob-xo5uz
@MrNoob-xo5uz 3 месяца назад
"I feel very protected when I'm with you" sounds better than the "could you walk me home, you're the scariest looking person I know" I got
@TheSergio1021
@TheSergio1021 3 месяца назад
I dont know, still sounds like a win
@Presidentofthepresident
@Presidentofthepresident 3 месяца назад
@@TheSergio1021would you like being called scary looking
@CatsAgainstCommunism
@CatsAgainstCommunism 3 месяца назад
@@Presidentofthepresident Yes
@Presidentofthepresident
@Presidentofthepresident 3 месяца назад
@@CatsAgainstCommunism I don’t know if I would like being called scary looking
@prima_ballerina
@prima_ballerina 3 месяца назад
@@TheSergio1021word.
@snakeeyes8777
@snakeeyes8777 2 месяца назад
Men do get locked in when a girl compliments them. I work in a grocery store and I was getting alcohol for a female customer. She actually looked me up and down, smiled at me, and said I was cute. That was back in November, and I still can't stop thinking about it
@bjordan429
@bjordan429 2 месяца назад
Yeah, I have that same issue. Its rare to be complimented, so I can still remember most of them, even from 20yrs ago.
@chesspunk489
@chesspunk489 2 месяца назад
​@@bjordan429me too
@kazuma7232
@kazuma7232 2 месяца назад
I got a hug from a random girl last April and I still think about it.
@SendU2Jesus
@SendU2Jesus 2 месяца назад
"What did it feel like?!"
@snakeeyes8777
@snakeeyes8777 2 месяца назад
@@SendU2Jesus I felt befuddled and then it felt good. No one has ever complimented me like that
@blues_demon5349
@blues_demon5349 14 дней назад
I actually saw my dad watching you and after seeing your latest video and checking more of your content out i can confidently say you are the most entertaining woman ive seen on youtube
@eyesack3606
@eyesack3606 2 месяца назад
That bit on women advice va men advice is so true, when we talk about it, we ponder in our empty minds a scenario like ‘bro what if a lion walks into your house and threatens to traffic your entire family to the black market, how will you be able to put it in a headlock and make him tap out?’ ‘Bro, you’re right! I need a gym membership now!’
@DN_123
@DN_123 3 месяца назад
As an engineer, the only thing that approaches me are project deadlines and management complaints.
@zeriel9148
@zeriel9148 3 месяца назад
When you put it like that, I'm approached by women all the time! They just happen to be managers.
@tiberius8390
@tiberius8390 3 месяца назад
@@zeriel9148 which circle of hell is that? 😁
@ennuied
@ennuied 3 месяца назад
What an apropos joke John, quite.
@HackersSun
@HackersSun 3 месяца назад
If I ever manage to get money to finish my engineering degree, I'd approach guys The problem is I'm not really demure or gentle 😅 Not other girls and nothing I can do about it 😫
@markdahshark3694
@markdahshark3694 3 месяца назад
@@tiberius8390 For real, I currently work for a "woman lead engineering firm" and the only women I interact with are the quarterly convo with the recruiter and the rare talk with HR about insurance and how I leave the company.
@pragmaticpundit7703
@pragmaticpundit7703 3 месяца назад
The journalist writing replies to the1950s article is a prime example of why so many women are single; last I checked this was supposed to GET men, not repulse them.
@Sasseater
@Sasseater 3 месяца назад
I getted men once
@easylemon2547
@easylemon2547 3 месяца назад
The journalist is probably just asexual and never understood that
@linkholder
@linkholder 3 месяца назад
​@@Sasseatergay
@HackersSun
@HackersSun 3 месяца назад
YES. People like her piss me off, leave your bitter agenda at the door. SOME of us want to be married :I
@Sasseater
@Sasseater 3 месяца назад
@@linkholder nuhuh. I was woman during those hours
@lightthehodgehog
@lightthehodgehog 15 дней назад
19:43 That is extremely true, telling a guy that you feel safe and protected with them is shockingly impactful in many cases. As you mentioned in your male loneliness vid, "men will crawl through broken glass for purpose". You have to be healthy about it of course, you shouldn't build a toxic relationship that's all about one sided devotion, but if you be a part of his purpose and vocalize it positively he'll take those words, and you, to heart.
@monkeyboy3219
@monkeyboy3219 10 дней назад
"How will i explain that to my future children" there were signs all along. We just failed to notice them.
@HirokiPlays
@HirokiPlays 3 месяца назад
One time I was grabbing a 6 pack from the liquor store in a shopping plaza, and in the parking lot next to my car, there was a girl in her car crying. I felt so bad for her... Every fiber of my being screamed at me to ask her if she was ok, needed something, or maybe wanted to share some beers and talk things out. I stopped in my tracks for literally a split second, and my counter thought to my instincts was "I have no business with this woman, I'm a stranger to her, and I'll definitely be considered a fucking creep" so I instead completely ignored her and drove off. This was years ago, I don't even drink anymore, and yet I still think about that. Ladies, want advice to get in a relationship with me? Ask me to. It's not guaranteed that I'll agree, but your chances are much higher than you think... I haven't approached a woman in years, and at this rate, I don't know if I ever will... I feel like I'm living in a bizarre world where it's elementary school rules. Girls are scary, boys are yucky, and no one wants cooties.
@swallace7447
@swallace7447 3 месяца назад
Ouch, been there. Your best bet is to go to large group activities doung something you like where people are expected to socialize so you won't feel like a creep if you appeoach a woman. Around here there is an organization called Events and Adventures where singke people do stiff like white water rafting or go to museums so the preasure is lower and you meet people interested in simular things at an event for singke mingling.
@ColbyAzimuth
@ColbyAzimuth 3 месяца назад
I've never heard a women say something nice about a man who approached her, but I've heard complaints more than 400 times. So, yeah. You are absolutely correct to ignore women everywhere. They are not mentally capable of saying something nice. The actual communication done by actual people consists of women putting men down, hundreds of times. So respect the reality and go build a nice life for yourself without the social violence. Women blame the creative active healthy people for being creative active and healthy. There are much friendlier relationships and genuine connections available at the animal shelter, just by taking a dog for a walk. Bring a frisbee and have a truly delightful afternoon getting great exercise exploring the world with a dog. A helluva lot more rewarding than hostile shallow insecure incapable women.
@Virjunior01
@Virjunior01 3 месяца назад
Yeah, I just gave up altogether. Sad thing is I actually would ask if she's okay, which is what I'd want to do... the bad part is there's no way I'd ever do that unless buzzed. Otherwise, I do go out of my way to check if people are alright at work, but.. yup. Workplace stuff is considered a no-go. Also, so many workplaces are shitty like high school, anyway.
@Chibblechabble
@Chibblechabble 3 месяца назад
The chicks ain’t here. They’re out there, stuck in some digital orb or cube like you have been trapped in. Go find a lady who smells good and looks appealing to you. Odds are, you are both attracted to one another. Be not discouraged, but empowered, brother!
@justinbell5421
@justinbell5421 3 месяца назад
I was at a beach with my family over the summer and not to toot my own horn or anything but my body looks good I'm past the 6 pack and have 8, anyway there were these 2 cute girls who kept looking back at me as we were behind them, all it would have took was a hi from one of them to break the ice or if I didn't have extremely low self confidence at the time I could also have done that but it is what it is. Don't take yourself out of the game man you can't win if you don't play as corny as that is its true I just recently started seeing someone it'll happen if your around for it too happen
@ObiJakobe
@ObiJakobe 3 месяца назад
If someone is crying, I'll just assume they're having a bad time and don't want to be bothered
@langletjean
@langletjean 3 месяца назад
I just say: " Don't cry, you are not a monster, just a prototype".
@helixxia9320
@helixxia9320 3 месяца назад
Yes this. i dont cry in public often exactly lol but the few times it has happened and people asking me if im ok is kind and all but i’d rather just be by myself until i can get home lol and not dump it on someone i dont know
@XChaoticX99
@XChaoticX99 3 месяца назад
I remember when I was in high school this girl in my gym class was crying and I went over to make sure she was ok. She got pissed and yelled at me that I wasn’t even her friend. We had spoke a few times before this and I thought we were on good terms but apparently not. All conversations in the gym stopped and everyone started staring at me. Some time after this I was walking with a group of friends and this girl was crying on the sidewalk. I wanted to go over but decided against it to avoid a repeat of the past situation.
@kevinb314
@kevinb314 3 месяца назад
Never have I seen a girl crying and thought “game time”. It just seems like predator behavior, at least the way I’m imagining it
@wikimon
@wikimon 3 месяца назад
"don't cry you little baby, lots of people have problems they aren't out here crying are they? little crybaby. disgusting"
@lmao7562
@lmao7562 2 месяца назад
Holy shit, shoeonhead. I haven't watched a video of yours in YEARS. glad to see you upgraded from the potato, although I miss it. Great video to come back to.
@FlanniganMedia
@FlanniganMedia Месяц назад
This content is the greatest social journalism and commentary there is.
@afterhourscinema782
@afterhourscinema782 3 месяца назад
HOW TO SOLVE FEMALE LONELINESS *Step 1:* Be in your 40s *Step 2:* Buy cat *Step 3:* Wait...I think I fucked this up
@evermoore66665
@evermoore66665 3 месяца назад
Women are never lonely. They will always have a support system. Women are always there to support other women while men are always left on their own. Plus there are too many desperate men who would want to marry a woman no matter what
@MobianBF
@MobianBF 3 месяца назад
Nah that's the best solution
@fryinghardhat5152
@fryinghardhat5152 3 месяца назад
​@@evermoore66665While I don't think female loneliness isn't as wide spread as male loneliness it is still a thing and shouldn't be taken with a grain of salt
@MobianBF
@MobianBF 3 месяца назад
​@@evermoore66665 Yeah true to an extent. Not all women are fine and able to get a man with ease but most of the women that are crying about it on TikTok are overreacting.
@anitasassassine
@anitasassassine 3 месяца назад
@@evermoore66665 This is so not true - the part about women always having a support system. It might LOOK like women are always there to support other women, but the reality is that many of them (or us, I should say) are either a) too caught up in their own problems to spend time on supporting others than their immediate family or b) just like to LOOK to people around as though they're caring and supportive when in fact they do nothing. Don't fall for the virtue signalling.
@cloudy_days2321
@cloudy_days2321 3 месяца назад
"Anita Sarkisian had a wedding themed birthday party." I didn't think it was possible for me to feel sorry for Anita, but you succeeded for a brief moment. Well done. That is pathetic in the extreme.
@IEatColdBurritos
@IEatColdBurritos 3 месяца назад
Don’t feel bad. She did that to herself. I’m sure she’s not sorry about it either.
@harsh3948
@harsh3948 3 месяца назад
Karma lmao, they called everyone who opposed them an incel during gamergate
@clvrswine
@clvrswine 3 месяца назад
I always felt bad for her. So homely.
@bushwacka5187
@bushwacka5187 3 месяца назад
@@harsh3948 Wait, she's about to make a comeback in the Gamergate sequel that seems to be brewing with the Sweet Baby inc stuff lol.
@odindarkll3706
@odindarkll3706 3 месяца назад
I don't feel bad at all for it's clearly self inflicted!
@mistermadness677
@mistermadness677 Месяц назад
Number 40 worked on me though. Just turned out she was actually crying.
@xXDopamineInbalanceXx
@xXDopamineInbalanceXx 27 дней назад
I really like the middle ground independent analysis, proves to be more accurate and no obvious bias
@screech3859
@screech3859 3 месяца назад
The authors notes were essentially "you lonely? Good! You want to be lonely because I am and I'm happy! Can't you tell I'm happy?! Don't go near people. Ever. Die alone so you know you achieved your true girl boss life!" How bitter can one person be?!
@SomeGuyAsWell
@SomeGuyAsWell 3 месяца назад
I figured some of that energy is due to some demographic that likes reading it or gets clicks. There does seem to be an awful lot of cope in that lady's articles but there are people like that.
@nyetzdyec3391
@nyetzdyec3391 3 месяца назад
Because misery loves company.
@clanghampton7158
@clanghampton7158 3 месяца назад
Based on all of her other articles, I can sense her jewishness from here.
@FleshWizard69420
@FleshWizard69420 3 месяца назад
She sounded about ready to explode lol Copium Triiodide
@IanM-id8or
@IanM-id8or 3 месяца назад
I'm sure her final article will be about the joys of dying alone and unloved
@agoosecalledxaro6679
@agoosecalledxaro6679 3 месяца назад
I still remember that day. June 8th, 2012 at 9:34 AM, a girl asked if I would like to sit next to her. And also that one time, October 14, 2017 at 12:47 PM, a girl told me that my hair looked nice.
@LunarEdge7
@LunarEdge7 3 месяца назад
I understand remembering the date.. but even the time, dayum
@jimmyjazz147
@jimmyjazz147 3 месяца назад
I still remember the time a homeless man told me I looked like Harrison Ford, I don't get many compliments (also I look nothing like Harrison Ford)
@user-tj2bz4bd7g
@user-tj2bz4bd7g 3 месяца назад
Twice, as in two times, look at you go
@Durmomo0
@Durmomo0 3 месяца назад
I had a married friend tell me I dressed nice once and this one lady at a drive thru told me she liked my sweater. Its true men remember all of these things because they happen so rarely.
@statikskynl
@statikskynl 3 месяца назад
holy shit, you stud! scoring twice! what is your secret???
@baconbones
@baconbones 9 дней назад
@shoeonhead your content is great, the fearless way you say things without worrying about the "PC implications" is admirable, this video stuck a cord with me as I met my wife the old fashioned way at a fancy dress party, I did not fancy dress cause I was lazy. 20 years later we are happily married with 2 amazing girls, keep up the good work, love your attitude to say what's on your mind and get people thinking. Much love bacon bones.
@eliabourezk2689
@eliabourezk2689 13 дней назад
Realism isn't often appreciated, your great and you do a very good job showing all sides impartially while keeping things light and it helps me get through my workday thank you
@metricmine
@metricmine 3 месяца назад
As a man, rule 18 worked for me. I straight out asked people if they knew someone good, and I was interested in marriage. It resulted in me getting set up with a girl who also had interests in marriage. There was no confusion on why we were dating and what our relationship goals were. I am currently married to her, have children, and the relationship is going strong.
@ffffarrrra
@ffffarrrra 3 месяца назад
Holy crap man that's a nice story. Wishing all the best to you
@QueenSydon
@QueenSydon 3 месяца назад
Only the Bold can claim victory together. Congratulations to you both.
@mikeoxlong3676
@mikeoxlong3676 3 месяца назад
I did this and nobody got back to me.
@gazelle_diamond9768
@gazelle_diamond9768 3 месяца назад
That seems like a horrible idea. Like... if your only common trait is that you want to get married, how is that a good basis for a relationship?
@ryuukatamura
@ryuukatamura 3 месяца назад
@@gazelle_diamond9768it's not like you're getting blind married, that's just the premise for meeting in the first place
@tonyfriendly4409
@tonyfriendly4409 3 месяца назад
"Say: "I feel very protected when I'm with you" is top tier advice
@rexuisus2802
@rexuisus2802 3 месяца назад
"What the fuck do you need protection from, HUH? Are you in the MOB?" idk is the mob still a thing:/
@GigglingStoners
@GigglingStoners 3 месяца назад
Unless it's clearly not true. Dont do fake compliments.
@n4ughty_knight
@n4ughty_knight 3 месяца назад
Good advice if you find a decent bodyguard.
@Talon3000
@Talon3000 3 месяца назад
Pushes the "protect female" button, most men have. Would work for me, that's for sure.
@jacobkomnath7961
@jacobkomnath7961 3 месяца назад
I’d simply fold
@Shedmaster-ng1ik
@Shedmaster-ng1ik Месяц назад
I hate social media so much so that I refuse to take part in it. I know I'm going against the grain here but that doesn't bother me because the people who are supposed to be in my life will come into my life in the real world in person and that is so much more meaningful to me than anything facebook could ever possibly do. This is the 2nd video of yours I've seen so far but I'm already subscribed, your content is entertaining and refreshing from most of the sh*t that people usually be posting. Thank you for being a good influence for the younger generation.
@maximumkorb
@maximumkorb 17 дней назад
The one that would work on me: getting a compliment. And not the "You're a handsome fella." kind of compliment. Something like "I love how frank and to-the-point you are. Makes it so easy to talk with you."
@murmur...murmur...9059
@murmur...murmur...9059 3 месяца назад
Hatbox would work for sure. I also recommend: - cool stick - oversized punching glove - handful of gold doubloons - Sword - Big leaf
@serialkiller504
@serialkiller504 3 месяца назад
Cosplay?
@Skelterbane69
@Skelterbane69 3 месяца назад
So in other words, be like Link from legend of Zelda
@jaydeejay4166
@jaydeejay4166 3 месяца назад
I want carrying around fake swords to be normal so that we can have spontaneous public duels like a twisted version of a disney musical
@joekenorer
@joekenorer 3 месяца назад
- clear box with unknown insect inside. - unusual rock - a joint - no hand, just a nub where your hand used to be - a tray of obviously free snacks - wads of unsecured cash while you're stumbling around incoherently
@tyrekegordon2492
@tyrekegordon2492 3 месяца назад
Nope not a sword I promise I will be more interested in the sword than in you
@beauson1983
@beauson1983 3 месяца назад
Your comment on telling a man you feel protected was absolutely spot on We generally don't care if people think we are handsome, we want to feel needed
@ApfelJohannisbeere
@ApfelJohannisbeere 3 месяца назад
Especially with men nowadys, with so many strong women around us don't know what role we have. And for me that I'm needed is hitting so many boxes.
@superjlk_9538
@superjlk_9538 3 месяца назад
Speak for yourself. I’d like both. I’ve gone through my entire life not knowing whether people consider me ugly or not.
@LordJackass
@LordJackass 3 месяца назад
I mean, I don't hear women telling men in person that they're hadsome. On the other hand, yeah, that's a much stronger motivator for men.
@stimpsonjcat67
@stimpsonjcat67 3 месяца назад
Give a man a purpose and he'll give you everything else.
@brianmeen2158
@brianmeen2158 3 месяца назад
@@LordJackassyeah women will very rarely tell men that they think they are handsome - even if they think a man is very handsome they won’t tell them That but they will show it to them by their behavior - getting closer to him and wanting to talk to him and touch him
@878Aligeri
@878Aligeri Месяц назад
Hi Shoe. I love your show, your prospective and your style. I am new to your show and hope that you keep generating content.
@JoshHenderson16
@JoshHenderson16 12 дней назад
Really glad you broached the hypocrisy between "approaching" advice for men vs women. I doesn't affect me per se, but I do get second hand frustration for those who are genuinely interested in trying their luck with people they are attracted to.
@ElMartilloBlanco
@ElMartilloBlanco 3 месяца назад
This article: "Men aren't asking women out, so just do literally everything _except_ ask a man out" At this point in my life I'm starting to feel like that's the only way I'd ever notice if someone was into me. Like if she asked me out, that's the only way I'd be able to tell because according to the weird journos I'm never supposed to assume anyone is into me.
@hehahehahehahehaheha
@hehahehahehahehaheha 3 месяца назад
giga relatable
@Naoto-kun1085
@Naoto-kun1085 3 месяца назад
I feel like the issue is that if a man thinks a woman is into him, he suddenly will go into full flirtatious casanova mode and views her only as a love interest, and that this approach is often encouraged by men on the internet. Meanwhile, it's much better to wait and allow things to progress naturally, because unless a woman is looking for a hook up, a lot of women prefer to take things slow and not rush into romance. And a second thing is that men often don't take rejection well, and not many men on the internet encourage healthy behavior in reaction to rejection. But this is all to say, I think the real root of issues is that men are too reliant on the advice of dating gurus and dating journals. If you obsess over what the internet tells you are the signs a woman is into you, or signs that a woman is uninterested, then you will close more doors than you open. What dating journals won't tell you is that women are as diverse and complex as men, and that no dating advice will ever be able to generalize all women. Instead, build connections and focus on improving yourself. If you want a woman to ask you out, then focus on building a beautiful garden and the butterflies will come to you. But if you want to be the one to make the first move, then stop overthinking it and worrying about what the dating gurus are telling you, do what you feel is natural and will make you happy! Dating isn't an algebra, it's about building a romantic connection that will affect your entire life!
@Nilithic
@Nilithic 3 месяца назад
@@Naoto-kun1085 Men don't take rejection well, because for men rejection often means death sentence. It is not easy to get rejected constantly.
@elseggs6504
@elseggs6504 3 месяца назад
​@@Naoto-kun1085 Nobody takes rejection well. Women can easily spread slander, have a few of your things go "missing", etc etc.
@007MrYang
@007MrYang 3 месяца назад
What???
@nerdemoji280
@nerdemoji280 3 месяца назад
Marrying someone that trolled you on Twitter is insane and yet somehow exactly what I expected of Shoe. Hope we get more solid proof that June is a furry soon 🙏.
@feralwarden4873
@feralwarden4873 3 месяца назад
My guesses are rabbit, deer, or a fish.
@Skippyxlxlxl
@Skippyxlxlxl 3 месяца назад
I mean it is Twitter. Shoe is Twitter reincarnated (ingame)
@connor1186
@connor1186 3 месяца назад
​@@feralwarden4873 100% bun
@jffry890
@jffry890 3 месяца назад
Her cat eyelashes or whatever they're called isn't proof enough?
@linstar9172
@linstar9172 3 месяца назад
SHE LIKED THE COMMENT IT IS PROOF
@Lord_Dillinger
@Lord_Dillinger 13 дней назад
Gotta say I love your blunt honesty! Your tact is much better than mine.
@leegrayson775
@leegrayson775 3 месяца назад
My favorite thing about this list is that preying on widowers is way higher up the list than being nice to ugly guys
@datensaft
@datensaft 3 месяца назад
It makes sense in a morbid way, any widower has a proven track record
@DinnerForkTongue
@DinnerForkTongue 3 месяца назад
Because the widower was married. That means he'd been vetted by another woman who deemed him acceptable and remained woth him until she died. Therefore, widower = catch.
@AliothAncalagon
@AliothAncalagon 3 месяца назад
I think the weird widower focus from back then comes from the fact that no "good man" would have not been married by their 30s back then. There was basically no chance of finding an unmarried man who was considered good husband material in certain age brackets. Then there were higher mortality rates and barely existing divorce rates as well. So widowers were basically the most common "good husband material who are just single due to bad luck" of the 50s.
@Akuma60
@Akuma60 3 месяца назад
That advice certainly got around. Every funeral for a wife I've ever been to had women circling the man like vultures
@mothbreeder641
@mothbreeder641 3 месяца назад
Women merely want what other women have.
@ajpersa
@ajpersa 3 месяца назад
Honestly, holds true a little bit today.
@aaoooaaa2
@aaoooaaa2 3 месяца назад
@@Akuma60 How many funerals for a wife have you been to?
@Akuma60
@Akuma60 3 месяца назад
@@aaoooaaa2 Too many. I'm in my mid 40s now so besides elderly, auto accidents, and pharmaceutical whoopsies, breast cancer is a scourge upon my in-laws
@pseudosilent
@pseudosilent Месяц назад
your videos are delightful 🖤
@sebastianrussso6958
@sebastianrussso6958 Месяц назад
I love how that editor is most likely a bitter, lonely person that copes with the fact that she is alone and is probably an horrible person so nobody wants to be with her romantically by saying "NO, actually, this is fine, as a matter a fact this is the best, ladies please be as single and miserable as me because if a get to live this, you too"
@robertjohnson5794
@robertjohnson5794 3 месяца назад
I have woman friends that get so in their heads about guys they like and create all these elaborate scenarios of ways they could get him to talk to them and the whole time I'm just thinking "if you just approached him first it would work 95% of the time"
@johndee2990
@johndee2990 3 месяца назад
Be a bro and tell any guys they're interested to GTFO before they get toyed with
@JohnSmith-nj9qo
@JohnSmith-nj9qo 3 месяца назад
But why do the simple thing that would actually get results when you can spend your life dropping vague little hints that no man will ever pick up on?
@brianmeen2158
@brianmeen2158 3 месяца назад
Women have a stronger fear of rejection than men do
@mandaloretheultimate5832
@mandaloretheultimate5832 3 месяца назад
​@@brianmeen2158I am a man, and I am pretty sure I have a stronger fear of rejection than anyone alive.
@alongfortheride84
@alongfortheride84 3 месяца назад
@@brianmeen2158They seem to have stronger fears of everything, especially negative social outcomes. I remain convinced though that society isn't helping anyone by enhancing and normalizing women's insecurities.
@n1ghtdragon
@n1ghtdragon 3 месяца назад
when my gf said she felt safe i really was locked tf in
@Smitekk
@Smitekk 3 месяца назад
Good job
@cceerrs
@cceerrs 3 месяца назад
That is so sweet 😊
@tomgjgj
@tomgjgj 3 месяца назад
Yeah. I mean, what more do you need to hear?
@SmokinQuack
@SmokinQuack 3 месяца назад
I hate to say it but don't believe it 100%, I was told this by a woman I was dating for months, and she ended up saying she felt unsafe about me cause she learned someone had tried to murder me in my past (fuckin' wild logic)
@SmokinQuack
@SmokinQuack 3 месяца назад
I hate to say it but I wouldn't believe this 100%, a woman I dated for several months said this to me, yet ended up saying she felt unsafe with me and dumped me cause of the actions of someone else towards me (I don't understand the logic)
@skilz780
@skilz780 5 дней назад
the cuts between 16:9 and whatever other ratio you use always remind me of the imax release of The Dark Knight. very christopher nolan of you mr. 0nHead
@faisfaizal5194
@faisfaizal5194 Месяц назад
I speak on behalf of all the men I know(including me), a small playful/flirty gestures is enough to make you live rent-free in the guy's head. Do these, but don't overdo it: 1. Occasionally touching him on his arms/hands 2. Sitting/standing close to him that your shoulders touch 3. Small talks about his life or things that he likes 4. Give him small gifts/wish him happy birthdays or other special days(if he starts returning the favor, he's starting to be conscious of you, so just keep it up) 5. If yall is hanging around with friends/coworkers/other people and the chance arise, say things about how you don't hate the idea of going out with him 6. If you notice the guy starts interacting and joking around with you more, and you see him starts glancing at you more, that means he's totally interested in you. 7. Now, he'll be the one who'll ask you out, but for men who is slightly introverted, you're the one who should do it. Now, I am not representing all men out there, but it's more of the things I personally experienced, and things I observed from my male friends. Mileage may vary
@alexmuenster2102
@alexmuenster2102 Месяц назад
>>5. If yall is hanging around with friends/coworkers/other people and the chance arise, say things about how you don't hate the idea of going out with him
@alexjar3144
@alexjar3144 3 месяца назад
In all honesty, the thing that worked for me, was this girl handing to me a note in the bus stating : "hey, next week, I maybe can't ride the same bus, and I want to know you, so here is my number." Next step, I sat next to her right after reading, and we just chatted. After ups and downs, we're now in a strong , two years and growing relationship. I hope this little story will help, sometimes, it's just a leap of faith.
@Anonymous-uw4sr
@Anonymous-uw4sr 3 месяца назад
Aww
@Kitteh.B
@Kitteh.B 3 месяца назад
God, if only :[
@dio5393
@dio5393 3 месяца назад
cute. hope the best for both of you
@djcogdill9263
@djcogdill9263 3 месяца назад
Wholesome. I hope you continue to have a good relationship.
@barrott89
@barrott89 3 месяца назад
Uhhh get away with your ghay feelings 🧐, na well done bro hope it lasts 🙏
@medicineman152
@medicineman152 3 месяца назад
I'm a happily married millennial man, and I met my wife while working a Taco Bell drive-thru. One day, she came through specifically to casually give me her number on the sly and completely forgot to stop at the intercom to order something first. Approaching men works.
@nikoivan2580
@nikoivan2580 3 месяца назад
This never happened and this person is gay, average 4Chan lad
@kadinthomas2691
@kadinthomas2691 3 месяца назад
I once got free Taco Bell from the gay drive through worker cuz I went 3 nights in a row due to my terrible sleep schedule
@ryanmalin
@ryanmalin 3 месяца назад
wholesome af
@jayboy2kay7
@jayboy2kay7 3 месяца назад
Lol yeah mate. Approaching men WORKED. Not now. You nuts? Modern woman approaches you nowadays? Fed.
@genghischan69
@genghischan69 3 месяца назад
I've never heard anything like this before, wow
@ngraner421
@ngraner421 Месяц назад
I usually skip adds but I never skip yours because yours are entertaining.
@ryan4327
@ryan4327 Месяц назад
It only takes one false accusation. There are a myriad reasons why approaching and dating women is a bad idea.
@blackosprey2219
@blackosprey2219 14 дней назад
Got to witness it up close with two friends-of-friend. Dude's life is still on pause despite the chick admitting she falsely accused him out of petty spite. Granted, the chick was clear trouble. Compulsive liar, always accusing everyone in her life of abuse, just generally really off. But the dude was naive.
@secretname2670
@secretname2670 13 дней назад
it takes one stupid to divide a hundred good, into zeros and ones
@Jo-sx8yi
@Jo-sx8yi 5 дней назад
I think you greatly overestimate how many women just make false accusations.
@blackosprey2219
@blackosprey2219 5 дней назад
@@Jo-sx8yi Risk isn't just the probability of the harm. You need to factor in the severity of that harm, and you need to compare both to the cost of avoiding that harm altogether. Even if the chance of a false accusation is low, the harm is utterly catastrophic. It is completely fair for a man to decide that the cost of avoiding women is preferable to losing their careers, being expelled from school, receiving death threats, being jailed and prosecuted, being imprisoned for years, and being treated like a monster for something they didn't do. The majority of those things can happen even without a formal charge or conviction.
@Jo-sx8yi
@Jo-sx8yi 4 дня назад
@@blackosprey2219 I can get behind that in general, no one is forced to date anyone, it's just that this idea has been used so much in very openly misogynistic groups to pose the majority of women as some kind of manipulative evil snakes. Like some assume you definetly WILL be wrongly accused if you enter a relationship with a woman.
@yeighseph1976
@yeighseph1976 3 месяца назад
One of the biggest societal lies we men are told at a very young age. When we first start showing interest in girls we are told "Why don't you ask her out? The worst thing she can say is NO". In my experience, the best thing she can say is no. If you've ever been a guy asking out a girl, there is far worse to be said than a simple no.
@henryhunter9643
@henryhunter9643 3 месяца назад
I feel that pain. 'What, go out with YOU? EWWWWW!!!!!' Then for weeks afterwards, everyone in school is mocking you for it. I wonder why I have self esteem and self confidence issues.....
@IcE-_-Kidd
@IcE-_-Kidd 3 месяца назад
Her Agreeing To Go Out With You Only To Stand You Up And Hop In A Car Full Of Other Men And They're All Laughing At You Because They Knew You Were Waiting There And Hiding In The Bushes -Aba
@Anvilshock
@Anvilshock 3 месяца назад
@@IcE-_-KiddDude, isn't it super annoying to hit Shift for every new word and typing like this flood of eye cancer you expect everyone else to read?
@petedawg
@petedawg 3 месяца назад
Concur. My contribution: "That was the worst thing you could have possibly said." Glad I'm done with that nonsense.
@RusticRonnie
@RusticRonnie 3 месяца назад
The best thing she can say is definitely “yes, I would love to” That being said I had a friend who asked a girl out and she told him to go kill himself.
@w00tyd00d
@w00tyd00d 3 месяца назад
19:34 Calling men handsome definitely works too! They will remember that compliment for literal years.
@bradensmith8682
@bradensmith8682 3 месяца назад
Being called handsome by a non-family member is about equal to finding the perfect stick.
@edarddragon
@edarddragon 3 месяца назад
complimenting people make them more likely to like you big news
@_Lumiere_
@_Lumiere_ 3 месяца назад
Yeah, there arent really any "tricks" to men. Pretty much any positive attention will work. Whether or not he wants to date is almost entirely up to other factors, like if she is his type or if he likes her personality. If a woman takes the initiative and actually give him that positive attention, most men would be willing to try to get to know her even if he may not like her at first glance.
@Jose.G_
@Jose.G_ 3 месяца назад
@@bradensmith8682 literally
@bodhisattva2348
@bodhisattva2348 3 месяца назад
That's not gonna get then married tho
@KONQUESTISRAGE
@KONQUESTISRAGE 17 дней назад
Man ShoeOnHead is so based, just love how she does content and she’s features in all my favorite RU-vidrs had to subscribe it’s amazing
@jaxkills4cash832
@jaxkills4cash832 Месяц назад
Hey shoe I popped over to see if you have covered “I choose bear” Can’t wait to see it
@doom-mantia
@doom-mantia 2 месяца назад
"Girlbossed a little too close to the sun" is a very good expression😂
@ancientslav4863
@ancientslav4863 2 месяца назад
It'saGundam uses it too
@TheRaiderman1
@TheRaiderman1 2 месяца назад
I would rather have a woman boss, My home is a perfect example of this, she has a very busy schedule, always looking to help others, has a college degree that is actually useful has 8 kids raised and lots of grandkids and the list goes on.
@Glorkish
@Glorkish 3 месяца назад
The "I feel very protected when I'm with you" line is the best advice ever.
@Karmasu_L
@Karmasu_L 3 месяца назад
I agree, I don't think any man wants a woman that's with him to feel like she's in the danger zone.
@sebaschan-uwu
@sebaschan-uwu 3 месяца назад
​@Karmasu_L why would a woman be with a man she felt unsafe around? Why would she spend more than 5 whole seconds in the same room as him?
@Pwnners
@Pwnners 3 месяца назад
​@@sebaschan-uwu Why do womens keep getting killed by random serial killers and violent mens you mean ? Who knows really
@kralexprofill4571
@kralexprofill4571 3 месяца назад
@@sebaschan-uwu It's called the "I can fix him"-attitude or the criminal "He is strong and has power but also abuses me"-kink (badboy level9000) that attracts women
@matthewhicks67
@matthewhicks67 3 месяца назад
“Locked in” indeed
@reddzarazua545
@reddzarazua545 13 дней назад
My wife of 8 years approached me, I admit it felt unorthodox at first especially with how direct she was, but now 8 years in im glad she did because I actually feel loved chosen and not like im gambling with a woman that I chose.
@guilhermemartins7373
@guilhermemartins7373 2 месяца назад
A yes Ms.Shoe, 2010 personified, even the expressions and timings are from that era
@Amorphous_Sand
@Amorphous_Sand 3 месяца назад
As a guy, if I was told that my presence makes someone feel safe, I will indeed be locked in on the spot. Also, if a girl made food and specifically encouraged me to try it, I'd find that super cute. If a girl is crying in the corner, I'm staying tf away unless if I know them at least somewhat personally. I don't need to have the cat claws come out because it was "none of my business." So ladies, try that one on your cute friends but not strangers.
@MrBiggles53
@MrBiggles53 3 месяца назад
Yessssss, you’re no threat at alllll…
@eggman6605
@eggman6605 3 месяца назад
I've played Left 4 Dead enough to know that approaching a crying woman is a bad idea.
@bpint695
@bpint695 3 месяца назад
a girlfriend I had years ago said that she felt safe around me, I was young and stupid and thought that was a lame compliment at the time and told her so. I had no idea
@JACQUEZJOHNSON23
@JACQUEZJOHNSON23 3 месяца назад
Blah blah blah u still not beating Goku tho
@AJadedLizard
@AJadedLizard 3 месяца назад
@@MrBiggles53 A girl I used to know told me I was "nonthreatening." I was a bit confused. "You've not given me a reason to *be* threatening."
@Revenant2010
@Revenant2010 2 месяца назад
That woman having a wedding themed birthday where she married herself is probably the most narcissistic thing I have ever seen or heard.
@mnomadvfx
@mnomadvfx 2 месяца назад
That's definitely Anita to a T.
@victorchen5663
@victorchen5663 2 месяца назад
I would say it's the saddest thing I've ever seen or heard. I feel bad for her. She's crying on the inside.
@Babezilla
@Babezilla 2 месяца назад
It’s her birthday?
@incognito7843
@incognito7843 2 месяца назад
@@victorchen5663 Yeah, but narcissists are sad, it is usually childhood trauma that causes narcissism, the most common is the feeling of abandonment from a parent as a child, second is bullying, third is loneliness. Narcissism is in 95% of the cases a coping mechanism of having no true self esteem. It is an unconscious form of self bosting.
@haroldkeil8582
@haroldkeil8582 2 месяца назад
6 yrs from now. She'll divorce herself from herself.
@marcforster4076
@marcforster4076 Месяц назад
Sensible and so very entertaining. A rare combination these days! 🙂.
@cokobware
@cokobware 2 месяца назад
More videos please! I miss your new fresh content!
@fllintvancleff2110
@fllintvancleff2110 3 месяца назад
´´I feel protected around you´´ that line alone will give men a testosterone boost
@elocxv
@elocxv 3 месяца назад
If you’re focusing on testosterone, it’s already over
@mysticpumpkin8520
@mysticpumpkin8520 3 месяца назад
Oh 100%. It will give a man the power to bent metal just to protect that special someone
@tgr5588
@tgr5588 3 месяца назад
Not when you know she just says this to get you to do something and she says it on purpose to manipulate you. My ex was like this. She admitted at some point she says these sweet things because it makes me do things for her
@LordVader1094
@LordVader1094 3 месяца назад
@@tgr5588 That's the sad part: women who really know how men tick can manipulate. But some are good, and won't use that power against you but instead to build you up and motivate you.
@cellyzs
@cellyzs 3 месяца назад
Says it to the scrawny weak unfit boyfriend They're just like "please don't get in a situation where I would have to protect you"
@AirShark95
@AirShark95 3 месяца назад
"Don't you ever get lonely?" "Only around people" - Thin Red Line
@patrickrobinson545
@patrickrobinson545 3 месяца назад
Thanks for a reminder about a cool movie!
@AirShark95
@AirShark95 3 месяца назад
@@patrickrobinson545 Hands down the best and most memorable war movie I have seen.
@AngryCasper
@AngryCasper 3 месяца назад
Give it 20 years. Men's loneliness is front loaded, female is back loaded.
@sboinkthelegday3892
@sboinkthelegday3892 3 месяца назад
Theres also Thin Blue Line with rowan atkinson.
@chaospoet
@chaospoet 3 месяца назад
"I don't hate people, but I feel a lot better when they're not around." - Charles Bukowski
@Quickstrike4521
@Quickstrike4521 4 дня назад
I love you shoe! You’re so funny! The part about women showing up at funerals GOT me 😂
@izaaksosebee528
@izaaksosebee528 Месяц назад
I love this. Reverse engineering some of these has helped me with my relationship with my partner.
@StEbbs-bb7jd
@StEbbs-bb7jd 3 месяца назад
"I'm constantly getting compliments on them" WHO LET SHOE OUTSIDE!?
@KarmasAB123
@KarmasAB123 3 месяца назад
She's not. She just has windows.
@xVibra
@xVibra 3 месяца назад
Her owner takes her on walks. I've seen her running around in my area's dog park trying to sniff the other dog's asses constantly. I know it's a greeting for dogs, but she's excessive with it.
@discipleofdagon8195
@discipleofdagon8195 3 месяца назад
​​@xVibra it's not petplay, sh0e just has that DAWG in her
@JeromeProductions
@JeromeProductions 3 месяца назад
😂
@EssK
@EssK 3 месяца назад
I’ve submitted the forms to increase Shoe Security. Can’t be having her running around in the wild with all those hopes and dreams!
@mordanthubris6516
@mordanthubris6516 3 месяца назад
"You know who never has in-law trouble? Single people!" You know who never drowns? People without lungs!
@Anvilshock
@Anvilshock 3 месяца назад
This. Though, ackchyually, what makes drowning fatal is (primarily) anoxia, the cessation of oxygenation of the blood as the dedicated organ (the lungs) becomes incompatible with the newly available medium (water). Which is still an oxygen carrier as every fish could confirm. Likewise, a fish has no lungs, yet switching the medium water for one is incompatible with the gills it has instead, blood oxygenation stops again. So, in the ackchyually sense, lungs aren't required for drowning.
@doomerius1300
@doomerius1300 3 месяца назад
Hi Stan, it's me, Stan
@lancewestveer8677
@lancewestveer8677 3 месяца назад
I don't have parents so some woman wouldn't have to deal with in-laws. Fortunately I've given up on dating.
@munirahmadahmadi2087
@munirahmadahmadi2087 3 месяца назад
​@@doomerius1300 Do you mean land in Arabic 🤨
@maxscott3349
@maxscott3349 3 месяца назад
​@@AnvilshockYou sound smart, can you remove my lungs for me so I can not drown?
@SIDisTHE
@SIDisTHE 14 дней назад
Beautiful video!
@Kimberly-gj8ho
@Kimberly-gj8ho 24 дня назад
Waiting patiently for a new SoH video. 😊
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