Emily wants her baby! The child has been living with dad for the past 5 years but Emily wants the child back living with her so she can get child support from him. Will she get what she wants?
You can tell by the change on his demeanor from start to finish he’s been used to foolishness from her for too long. He went from “here we go again” to “Finally, someone with some sense”. You could especially tell when she asked him about the health insurance, his body language screamed “Let me help you help me”, lmbo 😂… this Judge is a blessing, she brings people back to reality real quick.
THISSSSS! Like what do you mean you just left him 10 months ago he BEAT YOUR CHILD so bad that you lost him over 5 years ago and now that he finally left you you want your child back… Ummmm girl what?
This judge has the patience of a saint. I would have had some harsh words for this woman. Her attitude was like that of a disgruntled and spoiled teenager rather than a grown woman and parent.
She is in need of money now that she has another with the abuser of her 1st child. So she is requesting the 1st child to help her support the 2nd one. Wow.....till she broke up with the abuser she thought of her other child.
I hear you. I worked for family court for 32 years and we had a judge that was no nonsense and hilarious at the same time. I loved that judge although every once and awhile I would walk to the bench and say we need a 5 min recess so we could go in chambers and tell him what he did wrong. He had a dv case and the mom refused to come to court for hearing. She was the abuser. Judge told his law court to send a message via facebook. 🤦🏽♀️ told him he couldn't do that. Eventually he listened to me and his court officer. Man I miss working with him
Abusive relationships are sooo complex tho, they’re like their own addiction, unfortunately it’s not about character and more about the psychological impact of abuse
This is one of the most satisfying episodes I’ve seen. This woman was just totally insane. I’m so glad Judge Vonda made her pay dad child support. Thank you, Judge.
Can I just say this man barely had to say anything!!! He just sat there and let her hang herself. He knew that she wouldn't win and that the case was ridiculous. He was respectful and was quiet and didn't speak unless spoken too. He's one of the most well behaved litigant in these cases. I love it.
Maybe its all the years of Judge Judy drilling it into my head listening to her show but the only issue I had with the dad was his "yup" and "nope" answers. If he had answered yes and no, it would've been the utmost respect in my eyes.
@@Kazeshini11 thats because Judge Judy is an actual judge and those cases are real, this show is just an act. I absolutely love Judge Vonda B, but it’s literally just for show u can look it up. So Judge Vonda B doesn’t hold these people to reality standards like Judge Judy does
@@steventaylor6881 Yeah after watching a few more of her vids I realized it was all for show when I saw a guy light a cigarette in her "court room" that nothing in it was factual.
@@Kazeshini11 it is all for show, but that doesn’t mean it’s not based on facts. Everything Judge Vonda B tells these people could be accurate, she just doesn’t hold them to the same verbal standards a real judge would
To her , her child means money gain only with zero emotional love involved in her actions. She had shown where her priorities to her child was five years ago when she had kept abusing boyfriend and she had second child with him instead of putting her older child first. Judge had definitely done right by older child and the dad. I do fully worry about her second child in her custody with potential of abused dad or future romance partners being involved in this child’s future since Mom is definitely not all there in her head nor she had shown any emotional concerns for her older child in five years by choosing to stay with her boyfriend over her child after he had hit her child.
To be fair some people just call the things they love in the third person or this manner. With her she is trash, however, it took me years to break the habit of "the kids". Glad I did but really thought nothing of it.
The dad has the whole demeanor that he knows how this is gonna end the whole time. He seems "whatever" about it all and I believe it's because he knew from the get go that mom had no chance in hell. Gotta compliment him for his confidence.
She was trying to get paid. She unfit mother. Better have CPS take a look at her newborn baby . Maybe that child needs to be taken away too. Good job Houston staying kool. He knew what was going to be the outcome. Got no worries
She just want money that’s why she want her child back. Cause she really wanted her child back she would broke up with the abusive ex 5 years ago when she first lost the baby
So many things she said were red flags but her saying “I want IT back” had me over the edge not to mention when exactly was the child taken because if the baby has been with the father for 5 years and she has an 8month old that means she stayed for several years with the man who abused her son and got pregnant by him. Praying for the 8months old.
Crazy chick just played herself. Houston would have never asked her for a dime even with him having full custody and this girl got the nerve to try to take the child back just as justification to reach into his pockets. I hope Houston gets every dime in support he and the kid is owed from this woman.
Sorry, for the down vote, but she does not seem like a figher (or that brilliant) and abusive people pick up on that. She seems like the kind of person those with those tendancies are drawn to and can take control of for a time. She has some mental and emotional maturing to do. So, I don't think she tolerates the abuse, I think she does not have the self-esteem, mental capacity, or emotional maturity to not only avoid such people and situations, but how to get out quick enough.
@@he-mememan359: Because I have an understanding on how abuse works. It's more insidious than calling someone names or beating on them. Abuse is designed to affect one's inner person. To either break down the strong or to further weaken the vulnerable. And to answer your question more directly...If you are a human being, you would want to have feelings for someone that someone else is chosing to take advantage of.
@@MLIrons Yes, sadly this is also objectively made her unsuitable to be the caretaker of a child. I don't see having a role model that is easily abused as mentally healthy for the child, no? She needs to resolve whatever issues she had first, followed by peace talk to the father into allowing more times with the child after she's cleared, and yes, paid her child support.
@@MrWillypanda88: It does not. It shows that she has taken steps to show she is improving her life. Granted I know these are actors and this is a L&O program (meaning the episodes have some connection to an actual cases, but a reenactments with some liberties thrown in). She may actually have a right to get her child back. ALL role models have flaws, fails, personal demons, etc. that people will see. So, she may be seen as a role model. A woman who was in an abusive situation for a time, but have fought to free herself from it. Parents, ALL of them, can for the most part resolve mental issues on their own OR learn how to handle it and still be their for their children. There are billions of children who have grown to be healthy, well adjusted, stable kids, even if growing up in the care of a parent with mental issues. So, she doesn't have to resolve anything, but ensure she is dealing with whatever issues in a way that reduces the risks to children. Question...Lets take your idea that mental ill people, unless they have resolved their mental illness should not have children (and I do agree in some cases this would be right), how can we not say the same for the physically handicapped who have kids?
I had to pay my ex over $1100/mo for support and it just funded her drug habit, 9, yes..... NINE CPS cases later they finally give me full custody. She is 6months behind on her support, hasn't seen the child and called ONE TIME for 3 minutes on the phone. Point is it shouldn't have taken all those 2nd chances the court gave her to see the ongoing problem.
@@visiblefrequency7005 Thats Horrible. I’m 14 and live with my father now. He pay my mom $700 a month and she still doesn’t know that I know he’s paying her. It really makes me upset that I can’t really do anything and makes me feel bad for always asking him for stuff when the money is probably going to my brothers on my moms side
@@jaymarie3737 yeah it's a rough situation for the kids like you I know. Here's an update, she is still ghosted, almost 3 years behind on support and has talked to him maybe 30 min total, really nothing has changed but I hope your situation improves.
I am so glad the courts are finding on the side of the father when it is in the best interest of the child. For far too many years, the mother always won the case no matter how bad a mother they were and how much the better off the child would be with the father.
Exactly I believe the child should go to who ever can provide the the best fir him/her and tbh most good dads would not keep the mother from the there kids sometimes it's not always about being a bad parent it could be other things like having a child friendly home or a parent lives close to there school it doesn't always have to be for bad reasons IMO anyways
Keep in mind that this is a tv show and isn't real. Read the disclaimer at the end, She isn't a real Judge but she is doing a good job with showing different situations and how they should be handled but as they are fictional situations we can't say if it will play out the same in real court.
K Hubbard exactly what I was thinking...I started crying because I saw the anger and disappointment in dads face. It truly is a sad situation because she is determined to be toxic about it. ☹️
I never imagined becoming a fan of a judge. Well, it happened 😂😂😂 I really wish there were some judges like you in Brazil - here, she should have the child back and the father would be obliged to pay for all the period HE took care of the child, probably. Thank you for being awesome, Judge, and love from Brazil 🙌
I was scratching my head at her DEMANDS. Like... he's cared for the child for 5 years, seems pretty content with how things are. And now you want him to give the child back and PAY YOU for it. When Dad seems to never have asked for payment in the years prior. Even if she DID get the child back, he shouldn't have to pay next to anything for those 5 years he had him
Yeah you say that but we all know the system screws the man. Kudos to the judge calling it out for what it was but if he gave the child back she'd demand 5 years of CS and probably get it.
I am so happy for your promotion and going up the ladder of the justice system. I am so sad that there will be more videos of true, blind justice being served. I wish that all judges in the nationwide judicial system, from federal all the way to magistrates were like you and had the same virtues, integrity, intelligence, honesty, non biased and everything else I haven’t listed were like you and Judge Caprio. May God bless you and keep up the great work. You should be the example for all judges.
This story made my day, she went there to only get money and that’s it. The look on her face when she had to pay child support and not him was priceless 😝 that’s the ultimate reserve uno card. This judge is a legend, I love it,.
@@wavewatcher_ The people in the video might not be the real people, but a lot of the cases on the channel are actually based off real cases, taken from court transcripts & I think cases that VB actually did.
I’m sorry but she had her nerve acting like she should have that child back smart mouth trifling gal I like the Dad yep nope that’s all he had to say nothing else yep nope good for him 👍🏾👍🏾👏🏾👏🏾
She stayed with the other man for 5 years AFTER he beat her newborn baby, then when they didn't work out she had the nerve to want her baby back smfh!!! She's straight trash!!!!
@@heathernichols7472 She sounds like my husband's ex wife. She wanted support after we got married because I made more money. Guess where the child lived?!?! With us.
That dad is the very definition of laconic. The fact that she thought she could get a five year old boy out of the dad’s house. The judge is stunned when she hears the age.
I feel so awful for both of these children to have a mother who clearly doesn’t care about them. I sincerely hope the younger child is taken from her and given to someone who is capable of actually protecting and caring for them, and the older kid stays with dad.
The sad part is that if the second baby gets taken away from the mother these children probably won't even have a healthy sibling relationship because they would be raised in different families.
I love this lady judge she does not discriminate she is fair and she sees equality from both sides . The lady in the court room clearly thinks she is intilted. We need more judges like this into to days society. Much love and respect for any man that fights and stands up for doing the right thing by their CHILD.
Her attitude says everything. She really thought she could have the child back despite all her negligence and get paid on top of that LOL some people are just some else
Honestly, I feel for her. It's not all sunshine and rainbows trying to leave an abuser, and a lot of times it takes longer than 5 years, no matter what happens. Hell a lot of the time it takes until the abuser actually tries killing the victim. It's completely understandable that the first thing she'd want to do is regain custody of her children as soon as she's out and stable. And then to be ordered to pay on a small salary when she's already trying to rebuild her life from the ground up? That's just cruel
@@user-fl2pt8vl3y She shouldn't have taken him to court to get the children back, since the children didn't live with her? Do you hear yourself? Like at all?
Hahahahah i absolutely love it how she was placed on her place and everything backfied right on her face you can see she only wanted the baby just because ofbthe child support not because she really want to get the baby back
My daddy raised me from the time I was two months old. My “mother” never paid one penny in support the entire 17 years and 10 months. Now as I am an adult she has the attitude that it’s wrong to say she never paid support.
I think Dad should not only get the child support but he should take her back to court for back child support and also to have the mother pay half of the after school extra curricular and stuff.
Cutting ties is all he wants. My father was like that. He didn't go after child support when my mom told the courts she didn't want me. He was tired of the abuse he was going thru. The courts asked if he wanted it but he said no.
Her child is "Like 8 months" 🤦🏾♀️ Most moms know down to the minute! Nobody: Good mom: My baby is 232 months 5 days, 6 hours, 3 minutes and 21,22,23 secs old 😜😜😅😅 OAN: I can't let this show rob me of my day off.. Just one more episode 😅😅
