well, if u equate not having a partner with not having a social life.... can totally see where fear could creep in. idk where that thought process came from but it's a total lie
@@jusletursoulglobaby I did not make any equation of ”not having a partner with not having a social life." Also, it is not just "fear" as u mentioned, but generally people crave the comfort of closer companionship at home to face any emergencies together. It seems like she was robbed or attacked at home. What if she has a heart attack or stroke at home, and needs timely assistance ? She has an active social life, and apparently many friends, who might or might not check up on her often enough. However, not everyone is like her.
@@exas4791 social life = varying degrees of intimacy. afraid of not living alone amended to fear of lack of intimacy. gotcha. u essentially repeated ur original statement and with that, be clear what you're describing is a fear (regardless of how you classify it) of not having intimacy garnered through a social life (social life does not mean going to a club. it means connecting with people).
@@jusletursoulglobaby U can be social yet superficial, but however intimate she was with anybody, she still lives alone at home. I do NOT understand at all what u meant by "afraid of not living alone amended to fear of lack of intimacy." I know of people who r not afraid of living alone, and r at peace with themselves about lacking intimacy with others.
@@exas4791 fair question- being social is a quest for intimacy (connection, oneness, understanding). people can be shallow in any kind of relationship (platonic, romantic). what u r describing is a level of acceptance via romantic relationships. I am pointing out that same level is sought in platonic. there is no difference in this quest, only boundaries people set up for themselves. idk why you had to cap not. what was that supposed to emphasize? u said afraid to live alone. then u expounded the statement by saying people want intimacy = people are afraid of not having intimacy. this isnt about u know ppl who are cool with living alone. it's about you misunderstanding what intimacy is and the fear you described in your original comment. everything you wrote seems to see them as different concepts, but I'm explaining they're not different.
Who goes around robbing our elders?!!! How sick of a person can you be?! No one deserves to be robbed. Bless her heart and that was nice of her neighbors to put on this birthday celebration for her. She seems like a sweet woman.
My mother's mother's mother lived til 119years she lived because of the love she had for her children..... Well she said to us 'love for everyone is the best medicine'
My dad moms lives for really long time she is close to 100 and she will be 99 this year and she is has a really happy life with her children and with her grandchildrens
But societies narrative on women is very strongly "get married". If a woman at the age of thirty says "don't get married" it is still not accepted at all, almost a taboo. Women still have to be defined as wifes and mothers. This is a huge problem.
Google User I agree. I'm a female in my 30s and have never had the desire to be married but society tries to condition people that we need to be married without recognising that every individual has their own goals and life visions for themselves. Not every person out there wants to be tied to somebody and also I think marriage is a 50/50 chance of it succeeding in the long term. People need to live and let live and stop pushing their needs onto you.
The secret is never getting married!!!!!! I wish I knew this before two marriages that failed! I gotta admit I'm happier than ever before and unmarried!
You have to choose the right person! There are positives and negatives that you should have weighed out, before the 1st marriage! It takes more than a big but and a smile! They are manufacturing those! Look at the person she is and how she feels about you! If you feel the same and think of her and no one else; then she is the one for you!
@@Chutney1luv But I'm not gay, Cecilie! I had No interest in a big butt, but his smile lit up my ❤️! My eyes lit up his! But that's young love for you! 🤷🏾♀️ Plus I married the first one when I was only 20 years old. Neither one of us knew who we were.
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When I heard that it shocked and upset me. How low can someone get to do that to an elderly person. But she's a tough cookie as she is still going strong, and mega respect to her.
Recovering from Coronavirus all alone with no help and thoughts of suicide, you won't believe how much this video changed my mood. God bless her, regards from Tehran.
I too am still recovering (I got sick in January) all alone and had thoughts of suicide, you are not alone my love, if you ever need a friend I am here :-) I just said a prayer for you!!! Talk to God about all of this, cast your fears, doubts and concerns to Him, He is our deliverer, we are survivors and and we will keep on surviving Amen! Stay encouraged beloved, you are not alone in this battle.
Stress causes inflammation. Inflammation causes disease. Eat healthy and exercise.. even walking an hour a day will help. You don't need to work out. And hydrate !!
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She's beautiful and well spoken! If I'd live to be 107, no one that I knew would be around! I'd have to make new friends! Hopefully, only those with good hearts and good vibes! God, love her! She's lived a good life and she was probably a very kind person with a good heart! The blessing to us is, her story!💕🙏💕
I eat healthy and exercise but I stress a whole lot because of a variety of family problems and that my mom is forcing me to get married. It is extremely stressful but I look very young for my age.
So many people who think happiness is found in marriages or single hood, but happiness is found within! If you ain't happy with yourself, you won't be happy whether you're married or single! You give what you've got! Period
" Stay Busy, Eat Well her long secret of living long ". What an amazing sweet lovely lady. She got to see so much History, Especially many of the President's. Bless her heart. ❤
My 88 year old mom loves her junk food - sugar and all. People say she looks younger than 88 and thinks we are sisters - I'm 64. Something in her genes makes her look young.
I just saw this. My mother is 106 y.o., lives alone in the house she has occupied for over 60 years, does light housework and cooking, and takes care of her personal needs (bathing, dressing,etc.).
Blessed her👏live without stress it’s hard but try,be kind with everyone even in your worst enemies,workout every day,eat healthy,pray and be happy with your life even you are in hard place
Actually, Louise was joshing the interviewer about not getting married. She was married, has five children, and many grandchildren and great-grands. She is an amazing woman who is a gift to all who know her.
@@skinnydee1886 Actually, I believe you're right. If that is the case, then there is another amazing lady who is also 107. This her video from RU-vid: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-YBCMcE3bPxU.html
Bless her!!!! That's amazing! "No marriage keep stress away that's the secret". Marriage is a lot stress and major commitment. A lot people stress themselves right in the grave young and in their prime as result of marriage and all the responsibility that comes with that. Just too much!! I can't do it. I can agree with that!!!! No cake and sodas too!
Successful people leave clues, and what Jessica did is more than leaving clues as she gives you what she did to reach 107 years old. We agree with her that a healthy diet is truly the key to long life. What's amazing is that even others recognize what she does, as well as other factors that contribute to living longer, such as keeping good relationships with your community and loved ones because it really helps one become happy and stay positive, lessening stress and anxiety. This is important and can be seen in the programs of Reviving Mind as we connect you to older adults so that we may help each other live longer stronger and happier.
I am very impressed and inspired by her mental and intellectual stamina. Also, that she seems to be in relatively good health. That would be the key to my enjoyment and fulfillment in life for a LONG LONG time like her.
I salute you my beautiful lovelie lady i got married once and that was awesone...now am widowed 13 yrs now and an loving every bit of it....Ilove when i can listen to ME lol ...god bless you always❤🙏🏿🇯🇲
100? My grandparents aren’t even that old. My paw paw is 87 my grandmother is 86. My other set of grandparents have died. One died in 1994 at 65 and my grandmother at 86 like 2 years ago my dad’s parents are still alive.
@@spion8340 Most, if not all of the time it’s genetics. I’d be very surprised if there wasn’t other people in her family that lived at least until their 90s. I still think we should eat healthy, eating junk and processed food makes me feel horrible, but I don’t think it makes a big difference in how long we live
What a wonderful story! She is beautiful! I will work on giving up the soda tomorrow. I love my husband and kids but the life of a mother and wife is very stressful---even with a good husband and nice kids. Imagine it being the reverse....it could be a complete nightmare.
What a beautiful human! The comment she made about staying young is not being married. I totally agree. Too much stress in marriages. God Bless this beautiful human!! 💖
It has to do with her lifestyle from the begining... healthy diets, excercise/active and less stress.This is not about gene its about environment and lifestyle which dictate how our gene's expression and longevity.( epigenetic)
It is way healthier than vegetable oil, which basically causes inflammation. They probably have a more traditional lifestyle too, since they seem proud of their background on average.
Nonnie died about the same time you made this comment, about 6 months ago.......By the way do you know if they actually used olive oil? Or are you just assuming since they're Italian?
she had bad marriage experiences, thats why shes saying that, but not everyone had bad experiences with marriage, like my grandparents who are happy for 50 years, theres always one side and another one, you need to find it out yourself if you like marriage or not by trying it out, but that can only work with the correct partner
I immediately went to the comments to see if she said she never got married...I already knew this was the case. I’ve been feeling like the life is literally being sucked out of me ever since I got married 11 yrs ago smh
Wonderfull lewise happy 107 birthday hope you have many more to come I love when elderly look health and active am a healthy care worker and I see elderly people not have your age in a wheelchair bed ridden etc so for lewise to be up and about it a blessing