14 Reasons Why People Ignore You 

I bet you're the life of the party. We're all just walking semen if you look at it.

@@jujylato7841 they are

@@isidorodaviddoro1920 oh ok thanks for letting me know, I didn't know that

The thing that I found is that honestly just taking the small moments to honor your own self as the solution of the hardest times has definitely served me and also though poker face can serve... my goal now is to take my time every conversation I have to be as much of my fullness as I can

I've found that when I see that in my space I have a choice to how much I can give so I make mutual wins as much as possible. Win win ya know

Maybe this is true for me, I guess I’ll just never know

@drolgh8 😍

People blame everything on god

@@christianchappell4193 blame?

@drolgh8 Help me understand this please. I noticed you saying that you love 'everyone in the world', however you also 'find most people unworthy of my attention and friendship'. I'm a bit confused yet I'm in a similar place myself. Can you explain a little more? TY

Why they did that

Sometimes for some people it's hard to stay in a friendship not because of them, it's because they don't know how to interact with others and when they do they prefer not to ruin it . And i think that's the case of you but i don't really know.

this happened to me, I talked to guy for days and we facetimed until he started leaving me on read and delivered and then he blocked and I was like wtf. It juist means I have more time to focus on myself and not others opinion, not like I`ll be friends with them in college.

Probably the person has insecurities and feels you will betray or treat him/her really bad like others in the past. I say this because it's happening to me, I want to trust in people but my insecurities don't help me and I loose opportunities. I feel people will treat me bad like others in the past. In the past it was hard for me to identify what person had good intentions and what person was being fake nice with bad intentions. I met a person in social media and I ghosted him, because I'm afraid of being hurt. I feel so lonely to the point I entered in a WhatsApp group of self-care and an Instagram account of a fandom of a band I listen, I erased the self care chat group and I just stay in the fandom group. My sister has less friends than me, just 3 or 4 and she interacts with people online in a community of a videogame she loves, she is doing it very well.

Morsum Roy My profile pic speaks for itself.

I did this now I have no one no friends 😂😭

They were never true friends if they avoided you. Better alone than with the wrong people.

My only true friends is my mom and my dad. Im very grateful to have them.

It's hard to do when you care about people.. But you are right.. Should show them the same respect they show you. :(

Then that means I should avoid everyone :’(

Simple as that

I appreciate your comment alot. Thank you. People at work always ignore me just because I am quiet and I always thought it was my fault

Yup.. Truly.. wen u r too available.. ppl view it as an annoyance.. they don't c ur Love.. 4 dem

@wickedcat true.

Elaine Anderson Yes .

setuju

Yes exactly fuck em'.

True but I always get people that ignored me getting upset when I do it back, I’m like you don’t like me I’m giving you what you want so what’s the problem in this life you can’t win sometimes...

Ignorance is Bliss ✔

Perfect solution

TRUE..TRUE..TRUE..

On what basis u saying it ?

True. We an approval seeking society. If someone doesn't one can try to hard to be approved and affect their self esteem. Don't seek anyones approval. Just be yourself, focus on your own goals and don't care what other people think. You'll be criticized anyway no matter what by some. This is the mature adult way of life.

Now that's great advice too!!! @Rick Creighton

I guess you are right and sadly , often we don't even know who are the ones who truly appreciate us! Any insight how to pick out the ones who are potentially worth investing our time on ?

Ugh I agree. I just wish everyone would keep their opinions to themselves. It gets distracting.

Exactly , the most usual reason to avoid you , is that they are so extremely 🎭 arrogant they do not really care

thanks for the advice

Same thing i say everyday. People just love to force things.

this

I feel the same way

At least a horse puts their ears back before they bite or kick

Yes

Agreed. However many lose patience and have knee-jerk reactions. Phones do get lost, stolen, broken and run out of juice.

Well, who (does) not (hate it)? But once I learned that everybody has the right to configure its own "time autonomy" I think differently about it. - And I, myself, am relieved from the pressure to answer/react immediately.

@@jegodard1 Yeah, although I have a few friends who the whole day if not until the next day to reply, which I think is a bit too long

Lava Yuki I feel you

Agree! Especially, when it's summer, only those ones will talk to you who really likes your personality, not only what you can give to them. So you can easily decide in this period, how many fake friends do you have...and I've just realised I had too much. 😒

THEY ARE 💩💩💩💩

Or if they’re entertaining and every minute is happy and appears relatable and stuff... :T

I had friend who I did a lot to support, but she never listened to my advice. Then she would say her a new friend gave her this great advice and it was the same thing I'd said to her in the past. This happened often. She needed me but still ignored me.

I hear you Adrienne. I have sensed that over the years. There are too many people like that. I look for genuine people who are hard to find these days not users or people who have money, etc. In NY, most people are not even friendly these days. If anyone is, it's people over 60 (seniors).

That's the way to do it if someone dont like u why should u give a fk about them uk what I mean

stupid ass people.

@Suzanne Bonner Yes! I completely understand you. The same thing happens to me

I don't know, but most people don't like me because I'm a Christian.

Yet those people who hate me also have good vibes but also brag about on social media about how they don't have friends or they don't have many. Its so ridiculous. Then there's me who has few friends, doesn't fucking brag about my social status, and doesn't guilt trip about how everyone is fake, who just is a laid back person who's open to friendships. Idk, people are just strange.

@@akkros707 not guilt tripping if someone's fake. If someone is getting called out for being fake they need to get help not the other way around. Only a narcissist person would call that guilt tripping. If you're hiding something and pretending to be something you're not that's fake doesn't mean it's a guilt trip man accept being called out and fix yourself don't flip it back on the person that's petty.

@@natexOG I'm not trying to be something I'm not. I used Guilt-trip as a verb for when someone's best friend leaves them for another person or gets backstabbed by someone, they guilt trip into other people's groups about never having friends or that everyone is fake but then you look at them on their social media and they have all these photos of them hanging out with all sorts of different people.

@@akkros707 sometimes people have problems or maybe that person isn't friends with those people anymore? That sounds shitty glad I can't relate.

I absolutely agree!!

So true

That last sentence, described my idiot ex, to a tee

AGREE

Agree, also people are just dickhead because thats funny. Like i do have interests, alot in fact. But everyone in my year doesn't even want to try or even pretend to have a slight interest in my hobbies. I've kinda gotten used to being ignored since it's been happening since I was 5

: )

That is what I’m saying making me feel good

😂😂😂👍❤

Yes🥰

So true

100 rite here

Same here

Hi-fi. They are merely dose for anxiety, I stop investing my heart to friendship a long times ago.

That is such a negative mind set

The haters see you like bigger than LIFE cause the y lack that which is abundant in you😝

HIGHLY AGREED

True they just jealous cause you either smart or even to happy

My family ignore me most of the time

jajajajajajajaj..too good for them jajaja

@@valeriej4881 yeah

Same

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@@iiCounted-op5jx - did you forget to complete the sentence? or do you abbreviate verbally in real life, too ??

@@warriormanmaxx8991 nigga I can't abbreviate my words now?

It's over for constantlyignoredcels

THANK YOU!!! For example, coworkers. They will ignore you even if you're being a sweetheart to them and not annoying. Remember if you're annoying someone it's a completly different thing than just trying to speak to someone like and adult. So if you're not annoying and you just simply want to speak to someone but they're ignoring you, most likely they're jealous.

@@candyrox2023 Or they are rude

Doov, U refer to yourself as "disappointment, and believe there's nothing to envy about you, -That's- why you're ignored ...

They haven't learned anything in 2000 years since Jesus and never will. I see destruction of the (possible) earth in the future or another civil war and or ww3. The war will come from the East. Mankind will never learn to live in peace. Amen.

@@candyrox2023 jealousy-one of the worst innate characteristics of the homo sapien. Also violence. Never understood it.

Hahaha you sound like me it's kind of arrogant but that's the way it goes

@@ursulamullikin4723 Haha, yeah these people think we have time to chase them or figure out "why they ignore us". Please🙄, If they don't wanna be in our lives then there's the door...thank you, next.

Exactly. I'm starting to do the same, only to the arrogant ones who think they are so much better than the loners, the single people, even the poor & semi educated people who had reason why they couldn't finish their schooling. These arrogant people are spoiled by parents who do too much for them & and think "oh its ok, my mum does my ironing, oh mum im broke at the moment, can I borrow some money etc. They are a disgrace to the human race. I have never been an arrogant person, only given my opinion sharply on serious matters on human nature & how others conduct themselves. a few of my friends are genuine. I had others in the past but I was to blind & naïve to see them for what they were, lying, two faced ignoramuses!

@@vernonpetersen6280 I like the way you think

Vernon Petersen Ahhh. Right..

Very, very wise statement...I often times TRY to hard 2 have people like me..Guess that must come from the simple fact that I was not really wanted when born..I interfered with my parents goals & achievement..YICKS..Get on with it & accept it..

Same here Christine..good for you

@@janiceearley8724 ,I was adopted..and that sense of abandonment runs deep,but as you say ,one must get over,and get on with it

I never have and never will . This is not a lie it's just my nature. So deal with it,!

Christine Kleinschmidt That's right...

Excellent response..Shows you have alot of self-respect, esteem, confidence..I don't like REJECTION!!! Had it ALL my life...BOO HOO

Likewise.

Lol. We do care if the people we care about ignores us.

Me too

@@janiceearley8724 me too not alone

@Tammy Powell or, see the truth in front of them.

I have a friend who doesn’t talked to me anymore because she was jealous of me and my personality. 😔

@@caribaez5711 same here

Cari I'm sorry

Irene Cvietkovich Maybe..

@@caribaez5711 how did you know though?

Same 😎

That’s me

me too

Story of my life. I enjoy being alone

I want though...

I'm the same. It's feels so liberating when I finally embraced this mindset. Whatever people say or judge me by did no longer affect me

Classic introvert characteristics 😁 me too!

Yes! 100% true... people don't want you to change, so when you follow your own path, choose for yourself... and making progress people can't stand it. It's a control thing.. when you stay the same it feels kinda safe for alot of people so they can have a platform for their own life and they don't have to feel intimidated 😏

Block them

I love ur advice, I will try to keep that in mind❤️

Indeed

omg girl sameeeee

Same

Curtistine Miller yup this one is good

@@playgroundofsound7683 yes,They told the truth...peace..

Curtistine Miller Ahhhh, your so sweet..We don't want to be liked by everyone!! Not everyone is good people!! Thank God im ignored if I am it mighty great..No time for fools .

@@e.theresebradley5966 Thank you .😉

Happened with me from childhood till now

Solo

Ilysm Bitch how he is solo?He has 2 friends “Me” and “Myself”

Yesss!!!!

Thank you need this

Thank you, this really talked to me.

Same here 😓

Maybe you appear needy.

We have the same feelings

Perhaps you care too much?

Screw them.Continue being the fair ,decent ,kind,honest ,respectful..most of all - Genuine - person you are...don't change that for anyone....they don't pay your rent or comfort you when you need a true real friend.Leave them to their surface crap.

All In Lol

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

All In or maybe they just don’t like you because of your personality or just the way you act.

Oof so true!👌

This is the reason, why bullies exist, so i absolutely agree

I agree jealousy is more damaging than not being liked or being avoided, in that order

Can you explain how jealousy is worse? I’ve never really been in a relationship before, just curious.

@@officiallydenise Don't listen to these morons. It depends on a persons actions, their level of jealousy and what makes them jealous. Sometimes a little jealousy in a relationship shows the person cares.

Same

same bro

Sameee

same here

Jessica Chandler I hear you, I know what it’s like to be lonely, and all alone. I found the one that offers peace that passes understanding, he knew me and met me in my darkest hour. He will do the same for you. He says seek me and you will find me. My prayer for you is that you will find Jesus, he is waiting for you. Start reading your bible, he will reveal himself to you. My prayers are for you.

I relate a lot to your situation. The anxiety depression disability isolation. What a life. Are you korean too?

@@bkarel368 Yes, that is so right! Jesus is the answer to all! I am praying for you too Jessica.

@@stickerlady1774 same here... I feel like no one loves me ..

Camille Warren that’s sad. What happened?

Same

This comment seems a bit sad.❤

@@vernaharris4700 how is it sad

Mee too

Same i Guess i Wanna Be left alone cause no 1 Give's a F bout me anyways..

I love God, Jesus, Buddha, Dalai Lama :)

How profound!! @Chetan Salve

4Shoooo bro

@Darren Hughes it all about you.... My friend what you think you will become......

@Darren Hughes yes.... If you... Thought and do your 100% you will become millioner..

Yes, its amazing you can't mind your own business now. Its like they try to take your freedom away and pidgeon hole you. It wasn't like this when I was growing up. If they can't they might start bullying you, which is rampant now at schools. Punks.

Emerald Genuine people do not need to be impressed. We just need Genuine people...Much love dear..

That's a good point; I think this often happens. Guilt and shame happen without an ability to openly apologize and work through it, so distance happens.

Yes, I agree with you 😘😘

Man that was beautiful

Your Favorite Lifecoach yeap you right dear

Your Favorite Lifecoach You didn’t notice that many of the attributes on this list were associated with people who have too much confidence?

That is so true

Don't worry....u are awsm person.....🤗🤗

jetcoach join the club

Me too. Mid life but no social life

Lol same

Me too. Can't seem to fit in anywhere or do anything right. Learning to just keep on keeping on. 😊

Ann Harrison very true. i have struggled with this in my family. and now it is just a business like relationship with them.

EXACTLY @Farideh Behain

Farideh Behain Not the three 6's!!! That's the Mark of the Beast ..Word of much wisdom here. DO NOT TAKE THE RFID CHIP IT IS THE MARK OF THE BEAST SYSTEM... REVELATION'S 13:16-18.

E.Therese Bradley what?

are you reading this with socks on is that a future msg?

Aditya Pratap Singh how what?

Fake people have tell tell signs like to good to be true and when you really need them they are no where to be found. Plus fake friends gossip about you.

Then he/she leaves you on read for 2 months and you leave him/her on read for 2 years 🌝

yeah instant karma

@@CTKixCT-6116 🌚

Is their a reward for proving your point,then why make a comment,at the end of the day it's your word against theirs,is anyone gonna act on it in daily life,do you feel that you affected the outcome in any way✔💰

Sometimes people just rhetorically say they are going to do something to reap the emotion at the moment they are saying it. It's only an idea but they have no intention of actioning it. They lack respect, integrity and empathy when they involve someone else in the discussion and don't follow through or communicate changes. Plenty of people like this. They bump into like omg we MUST have a catch up, they feel good about themselves saying it like they are a good person and friend but they don't truly mean it in reality.

"It's not always your fault, they just don't like you"

🤣🤣

Ryan Dulaney agree... because they don’t like you... your needy... your negative lol 😂

_king_of_strange _ the word “May “ and “always “ are in the same ball park meaning the same So what your point

This is why I block her on Instagram

You don't count lol

I would too

I couldn't agree more.I am not here to prove anything to anybody.I would rather be content with my own company than surrounded by a hundred fair weather "friends".I am a mature, loving,rational and well balanced person with tons of interests and self respect and I'm just not willing to spend my life whining about about who does and doesn't "like me".I am fine with one or two deep meaningful and close people who can look a little deeper into the values of a genuine person other than what's frivolous or surface.Being there and appreciating someone for loyalty,things in common mutually and enjoying their personality just for that is the bigger picture.If you like me in your life then chances are I do the same.I just have no tolerance for gameplayers,users or manipulators in my life and at 58 there are finer things.Be real or go jerk somebody else's chain.This presentation is (to me) sophomoric and way to simplistic and quick to cause someone some undue needless feelings of being the majority of the "problem" as to why they "must " be defective in some way.Nurture and develope your good qualities,try your best to live a decent respectful life you can be proud of and the people who have heart to see and know the genuine "you" will find you.The creators of this channel could do with a bit more qualified research...and a dictionary for pronunciation of words like "lackadaisical"...it does nothing for your sense of credibility..

@@kimberlypatton1810 totally agree with you. I noticed that sophomoric or immature feeling since I read the title of the video, and wanted to see if people were really digging this. It makes me sad when others try to reduce human relationships (any kind) to a list of "do's and don'ts". This only makes people feel inadequate for being who they are. I think it's all about finding people who actually appreciate you and who you can really appreciate as well. It's hard work, maybe that's the reason why many fall into these type of videos trap.

These are mature comments. Thanks for posting them. 🙌

Same thing not anymore, well said👍

Hell yeah jewels you said it the right way I'm with you girl on that fuck u can please the whole world do you if people don't like you keep it moving who cares I like to meet people who are different from me because I learn something different I don't take everything as someone being arrogant it is nice to learn about different things in different people and if they don't shit i come with you you always got good people you can find good conversation with that have a good vibes with it's all good that's the life

Sorry but im gonna eat all the pizza tonight.

Trying to hard will attract the wrong kind of people. Its best to seek out ones who share common interests. So be it.

O-M-G... are we the same person?? I totally co-sign everything you said... I'm the exact same way,Wow!!!

@TraceyLennon @RickCreighton Be careful to whom you trust. not all people is trustworthy of your trust. don't trust words, some people have sugar on their lips but venom in there hearts. people pretend to be your best friend but the truth is they are an enemy ready to attack you behind your back. so many traytor people out there. be very careful to whom you trust!!! not all people are same kindhearted as you are. People can be your worst nightmare!!!

katy mcfine God had blessed you abundantly dear one..

Amen. I definitely agree