16 Personalities Look Through Their Opposite Type's Phone 

Great video, Frank. Here’s an idea for you. All 16 types as serial killers. How they kill and how they dispose of the bodies would be to die for. pun intended.

Hey, FJ! There's another scammer using your name and requesting personal contact... I've made my report to YT, but I think you'll like to know... 🧡

Have one ESTP at home. Our conversations have rarely been as civilized as you are showing them here. We are actually getting better now, but our previous communication has gone from him exploding and being domineering to me being sassy and doing whatever it is I wanted to do in the first place. 😅 He has often said life is not like the books you read. And I have told him to stop thinking and go sleep. I know, I know. A disaster.

Brilliant..as enfp. I am always on rent etc...I write lists..maybe not one hahahaha😂

I love yours vids man, there awesome and always make my day 😂❤

😂😂 My phone is always on silence. Always. I rarely pick up my phone, I prefer call back when I am ready A random INFJ

Meanwhile, my husband is an ESTP and he'll literally live with the notifications going upwards of 50+ and apps opened that have never been closed from his last usage months ago. Part of the reason he won't use the smart watch I got him is because it'll vibrate for every notification. On his phone though, it didn't phase him at all. I literally cannot touch his phone because it irks me to no end to have so many notifications just there and "unresolved." 😅 And yes this means that although I love your channel FJ, I'll never turn on notifications for it. I love you, but not that much. 😅🤷‍♀️ - an INFJ

@@jahayrac8636Oh this is me w/my ENFP wife. I will grab her phone & get so mad at all the apps she has open. Notifications turned on for every app (of which there must be dozens) and she never reads them. Anytime she’s around, she’s constantly vibrating and it makes me angry. When she’s asleep, I close her open apps & turn off at least 1 notification. She thinks I’m insane. At this point, it’s self-preservation cuz she’s like a human squeaky toy & I can’t take it!

I'm INTJ and that's my reaction to phone calls too. The worst thing you can do is have me leave a voicemail and the just wait for a callback. I'm supposed to just sit and stare at my phone or what? Because the second I walk away from it or start to eat, that's when it will ring and I won't recognize the number so I won't answer it. Then it's like voicemail tag. And I hated tag since I was a kid.

@@XSemperIdem5 Um, so below this is what I cut out from my original comment because I thought it was superfluous. But I'm adding it now because I totally relate! 😅 *** original removed response*** Fwiw, I use the Stay Focused app to block anything where people can contact me during certain hours. I don't take phone calls or call [unless it's absolutely necessary], only text. I only allow notifications during certain hours for certain apps but otherwise my phone stays silent and only my watch let's me know of important messages. Which I typically ignore till after lunch lol. **** 😅 **** So, Nice to meet you! 😄 🤝😁 Also, the nice thing about Stay Focused is that every notification that's blocked goes to one place. I can speed read pretty fast so it's easier. My voice-mail actually mentions that it's better to text too. My phone bill is literally for just data. I rarely call anyone. 😅

I thought about calling mine after I saw the video, but then I remembered that she picks up my calls in a panic thinking something bad happened to me or that I might be dying.

INFJ, but same.

That sounds legit like something I would do… god I love MBTI

Who told you that both of you will make it until then? Ok that was dark. But really. Ok i'm gonna go call my parents now 👋😅 - INFJ

i'm an INFP, but literally same lol.

as an ISTJ and fellow introvert I still find that relatable. I have my phone on silent constantly.

As an INFJ, I keep a lot of my notifications off and have individual ringtones for certain contacts so if they call, I'll know who it is and am more likely to answer, whereas if it's just my normal ringtone, then caller can probably wait

​@@user-qt2we1np1z Fellow INFJ here with apparently the exact same phone settings. If I can just hear it from a distance and know whether or not to bother, I'm golden. "Do not disturb" with few exceptions is on - a lot. 😊

I relate. 🙌🏼 Moreover, I think it's not only calls (which are rare these days), but muted apps or other input channels. The few services I use, I pay for "no ads" option because a blinking pop-up on a screen is a disturbance too. I'm strangely not disturbed by natural sounds such as baby's cry, of course when I can influence it's outcome )

@@SandraSamUA likewise. I recommend Brave browser. It helps with the annoying ads and pop ups and it's free

👀 we can't be telepathic due to intrusive thoughts. Unless I have to go through multiple steps to "connect" with someone else- like , am I sure? Am I surety sure sure sure? Nope. 😮‍💨 (Infj)

INFJ 🤚you nailed it! 🤛🏻

God no, telepathy would be the WORST. I don't want anyone else hearing my thoughts. And not being a mindreader is one of the only ways I can set up healthy boundries, I refuse to take responsibility for thoughts and feelings that are not clearly communicated to me. (Also INFJ)

So anyone can intrude IN YOUR MIND NO LESS at any time without forewarning so you can’t ignore and get back to them when, if ever, you have braced yourself for the encounter? NOOOOOOOOOO - INTP

Seconded, INFJ@@Persewna4

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I never dawned me until this that son#2 and I are opposites. Maybe that explains why I couldn't wait for him to move out?

Lmao the it’s the INFJ accuracy for me. I literally have all my apps on do not disturb if I want to see if someone got back to me I have to manually go and check my messages, it wasn’t always like that but I would literally get anxiety from notifications sounds and buzzes

@@Classwork-uk8muI just delete all the apps. And turn off my phone. I don’t even know why I own one, frankly. I spend much more time playing around on my iPad mini. -INFJ

INFP…?

@steffisiebe595 Probable INFP? Besides that you don't need to be an INFP to call out an INFP, people although being able to be separated into 16 personalities, are still pretty unique by themselves. Not every INFP is like every INFP. And as an INFP(it is probable on the slim chance I am mistyped) I do relate to that. Not 17 hours and not sad music(only sometimes it is sad) but I do relate to listening to songs on repeat.

As an INFP with diagnosed depression: Definitely feel called out 😬

The Smiths on repeat for 17 hours was so spot on 😂

hey spotify wrapped said i listened to mother mother the most so i'm in the same concerning boat -enfp

Maybe I want to listen to The Smiths for that long, Spotify.

Yass...😂😂

Literally 😂

Ikr my phone is always on silent mode 😅

Is it a bad thing to have phones on do not disturb in the middle of the day? 😅

Yes I feel called out

You can just turn off notification and play some videogames. It works so great I even lose the sense of time and ghosted for the whole day.

I'm an ENTP with a little brother who's an INTJ and my mom and I need to check up on him now and then to make sure he's alive. 😂 he's wicked smart, and is working on a competitive computer science degree, but he's awful about getting a one track mind and neglecting his health while overworking himself. As one of the least extroverted extrovert types, I'm totally okay going weeks or months not talking, but I try to get him out of the house to at least hang out with me every so often, which he appreciates in small quantities. 😂

@@OGAngie Wow... I'm too relatable to your brother I guess... That basically explains how the others think of me-

The use of emojis to reply

@@OGAngie I am a female INTJ. The best thing I ever did was marry my ENTP husband. He will always answer the phone and handle all phone necessities for me, liking scheduling appoints. He will call to order pizza. I could go days, no weeks of not speaking to anyone, that's just fine with me. Yet he presents me with daily rundowns of all events including the plot of the book he is reading. I want to shoot daggers at him but I know deep down this is something I must be exposed to, like going to the gym. He likes that I am quiet and has no competition to monologue with me. Your brother is lucky to have you. Keep it up, I promise you somewhere deep down, he appreciates it all.

Sounds about right, except I'm the INFJ wife and he's the ENFP husband! 😂

You guys match so well 🥹 someone who doesn't like phone calls and someone who loves phone calls. Wish I could have someone like that too, I'm an INFJ btw

Well, we don't really love long phone calls even with our favorite people cause it's nothing like meeting them in person and we can have to go through long sessions of small talk that are honestly exhausting when we prefer talking about deep stuff to better our lives. But we love meeting our friends in person when it's planned and we can prepare correctly to receive them in the best conditions they deserve. We don't need to call our friends every day so we have more chances to talk about something interesting or meaningful when we'll meet them lol. Also we don't ignore text messages when we are the initiators not because of ego but because we started the conversation so we have the obligation to take responsibility for having engaged in the conversation. We schedule when to call people to give them full attention and care. We prepare talking points to not lose time in small talk and not make others lose their time. We just hate phone calls and empty talking.

I’m an ENFP and I love long phone calls with friends. I do prefer meeting up in person but that’s not always an option. If there’s one thing I absolutely hate it’s being alone and deprived of social interaction lol

@@kyurei4478 Thanks for the explanation. I personally find small talk a great way to find out what's going on in someone's life before delving deeper into whatever topic interests me. Sometimes (especially with one of my brothers) I have to ask a few key questions to get him to open up, then he happily chatters away on that subject. He reliably calls me weekly or if there's something he wants to share.

I am INFJ and the hubby is ENFP. This was perfect for us both😂

INFJ too, and agreed, the sketch nailed it. I actually set up custom ringtones and notifications and yet I never hear them because I never let my phone go higher than vibrate. And I don't even keep my phone on me at work, if someone wants to reach me, they can call my work phone, I get disturbed enough as it is without also having to attend to my personal phone.

@@Persewna4 🤣🙌 I love it!

As an ENFP... this is certainly true. Although, I do somehow manage to keep track of paying my bills on time. Lol. My ISTJ mom made sure I was raised understanding how important that is. So... I have the flights of fancy AND still take care of what matters. Although, medium importance level tasks are often forgotten about. Whoops! 💃🏻🪅🌈🦄🧜‍♀️💗💕

then my work here is done

I sent the video to my INTP friend because I know I'm the only one who texts them. I may or may not reply during do not disturb 😂 - INFJ

@@jamielaw4749 That reminds me, I have not looked at my phone all day. It is after 7pm. Wonder if I got my weekly text that is not spam... there is no real point in texting an INTP unless it is to tell them something was cancelled a week in the future. They weren't going anyway so do not need to tell them it was cancelled.

As an INTP I do have a friend group a singular friend group. It's not completely empty but I sure ain't popular nor do I want to be

your feelings are not rational

I'm sorry I want to share a story that's sort of related. I've recently won a whole month of singing lessons in a vocal school. It turned out that the lessons were of karaoke-style type. The teacher (a very lovely girl, honestly!) asked what 'we' were going to sing. 'We can sing anything, just open your playlist and choose!' My playlist: Chinese drama OST, Mexican rock with no vocals, scores from my favorite drama, instrumental versions of songs, Turkish psychedelic folk, meditations and affirmations. And a bit of kpop boybands songs, the lyrics to which I'll never be able to read, not to mention singing.

@@tiantian6956 Nice! Just sing your own things! A friend of mine plays heavy metal and that honestly not my genre at all. But it’s still fun to talk about and listen to music and such. I’ve sung in a pop and rock band a while ago, when I was a little younger. That was part of the music school I attended. I was in the band with my brother. I mostly play the piano but I’ve also sung a few times. Quite scary, doing that for the first time in front of a crowd, but it’s really quite fun. I still play music on occasion (mostly Ludovico Einaudi) but I listen a lot. Especially when I’m writing. Great combination, honestly.

Same (orchestral music from games, movies, etc.) But it's not usually sad.

@@QueenMonny In my case, it doesn’t have do be sad, but some tracks can definitely be quite somber.

@jarmoliebrand2005 Yes, that's true for me also. It's hard to explain. Sometimes things sound sad or sombre, but they don't cause or evoke that feeling. A lot of the time the music that people would usually define as sad, feels to me more peaceful or reflective. Anything with a cello or hardanger fiddle usually has that kind of tone, but those are typically my favourites. 🤷🏻‍♀️😅😊

As an INTP me too.

I finally realised I’m the only one that doesn’t have my phone on do not disturb mode😅, I guess that checks out since I’m an ESTP

I’m also INFP and mute my phone. The ringtone is always an invasive reminder that this world is overly demanding. The buzzing of mute is as well, but at least a bit toned down.

Me too and it frustrates my family so much!

i relate to both ngl 😂

My phone doesn't have a SIM card. I have another phone for calls which is also almost always on mute or vibrate.

And yes, my INFJ mom likes to 'forget' her phone when she goes outside or just puts it on charge before leaving

It seems I'm an INTJ as well but quite peculiar (Fi rate is high and I'm 4w5 enneagram),.I found that even if I try to act as a 'nice' person teams in general resent me just because I exist. Do you have the same experience, and what is that? To be honest I can't be bothered less, but the problem is that because of this feeling-like bias, goals are not achieved and they make my life impossible. I love working by myself, creating my own long-life learning development road map, preferably by following online digital courses with no interactions with incompetent others. You are right we are not completely antisocial, but I would preferably avoid any human interaction that brings nothing to the table. I have compassion only for people who have serious struggles, not for manipulative attention seekers.

@@vickiraytivegames1040 long story short I don't have any sort of compassion for drama people coming from a wealthy background, I don't have any sort of compassion for covert narc, I don't have any sort of compassion towards people who went through the same mistakes over and over and over again, even though the issue was analysed in-depth and I was called day in the day out to give emotional support to those people. As for ingenuine Manipulative? How come? I distance myself from the nonce, I have better things to do , such as listening to obscure underground artists, now playing Paolo Macrì Behind the Beat...check it out and TC

@@vickiraytivegames1040 I don't fake being nice, I try to be nice especially in group setting that are brand new. For nice I mean being polite, generally kind and not argumentative from the get go. However, I got a lot of resentment just because I exist. Many people, especially during the current time, are more used to a polished manufactured version of human beings. In fact we'll be replaced by holograms on the metaverse, and this is enterly up to current state of the societal shifting. Most people want to look like their filtered version and act like they have been programmed by an algorithm. I do have an intensity about myself, and for some that it's intimidating. Back to your first comment, I can give you an example of hearth-felt compassion, yesterday after days of presentations for a course I'm on, I wanted to order a take-away and then I apoligised with the delivery person as it was raining. I felt guilty this person had to drive in such bad weather because of me wanting my 'reward' after days of pressure. Now playing Paolo Macrì check it out and TC.

@@vickiraytivegames1040 it's still up to debate if Elon is an INTJ but if you watch his interview you can notice he's intense and that intensity can be intimidating. It's not something we do on purpose, I think it's all about the gaze, then it also comes down to life experiences. Remember Te is our extraverted function surrounded by Ni and then Fi, on the surface we look all together, but deep down there is a lot of internal abstract pondering and struggle. Personally I'm a 4w5 and my Fi is well-developed, I'm more of a softy INTJ, bu the more I look at INFJs on the internet, the more I'm sure I'm not one of you. I don't have that idealistic approach when it comes to humans, and tbh it's getting worse the more I move on in life. My idea is to collect only people who deserve my undivided attention.

@@vickiraytivegames1040 did I proved I'm not the bad guy? you take care

this is so true💀

Pfftt so true💀💀

If only this method worked on the scammers too.

Yeah 😅

As an intp I haven't replied to my friend from 2 weeks, plus I didn't cared enough to read the text which was sent 5 days ago from my teacher that we r gonna have pre-mocks, I didn't know so I didn't study for it.. I have mock tmr (T-T) But got zoned out cuz of train of thoughts n still procastinating (Basically I m ranting)

They can see you're on do not disturb mode? Can you turn that setting off so they can't see? I'm suddenly appreciating my Android phone even more. I don't even let people see if I'm typing in a text.

Same! 😂

Yesss ... Bed time mode all night and do not disturb while working is my everyday routine.

INFJ- same. Answering any calls is a real nightmare for me. Silent mode is a true blessing .

I'm an INTJ and my preferred touch point is emails.

Exactly. I love sending messages, but I hate talking. And I always have my phone very low or on mute.

Same....I also hate video calls....

Wait till the calls end 😅

Always!

Thank you

lmfao im an istp, and i literally keep my phone awayy my friends beg me to call/text them

@@aemon9890 No but same, everyone keep telling me to bring my phone but I never do

Yeah, that was very cool and as ISFJ I've gotta say it felt very accurate to me, because I have one friend who I think is ENTP and I really don't get how she can be so interested in all those celebrities dramas etc😂

⁠@@ola14771i hate. Crlrbertiee but im an rnyp

ohhhhh

The Smiths. 100% accurate.

It’s funny because it is so true. Why listen to depressing stuff when you can listen to podcasts on how to make money 🤣🤣🤣

Exactly ... I just burst out laughing the moment he said do not disturb.

same right at moment when i was about to turn on the mode🤣🤣

That's funny. I'm an ENTP with an ENFP partner, and I feel like I'm an organized chaos if that makes sense, whereas my ENFP is even more go with the flow than I am. I have to convince myself that *logically* we will both forget to do X, so it needs to be written down somewhere or else Y. 😂

I am INFP married to INTP, and we are partners in crime, we don't remember things for each other. @@OGAngie

I’m an ENFP that writes down the important details and dates so I don’t forget them as I choose to do something on a whim. Definitely a trait that had to be learned

I am INFP and this is so amusing for me when my ISTJ love says things like: I decided to take a different way home today. Spontaneously! Do you hear me? I did something spontaneously! Aren't you proud of me? Me: I bet you planned to be spontaneous today. Him: well.. sort of... but it still counts! Me: stop being so dull for Heaven's sake! - and this is how it goes for us....

Would like to see the revenge of Timmy

As an INTJ, he might have been in exam zombie mode. Hence the no. 😅

@@XSemperIdem5 or he was murdered and the murderer was the one who responded for him.

@@terig8974intj don’t get murdered, there ARE the murderers

😂 The “no” is so relatable. If someone asks how I’m doing, I say “I’m alive” and if they ask if I’m still alive I say “no”… -INTJ

I laughed so hard at this.

My mom used to do that too, she would call my landlady to check up on me when I disappeared for too long. I was mentally I'm a bad place then though, and I guess she knew it before I did (ISTP in South America)

Exactly! Each photo my cat has a sligthly different expression, and she looks beautiful in all of them, so why wouldn't i keep them all??

haha thanks

As an ENFP who is involved with way too many projects and responsibilities... SAME. I cringe at the sound of a phone or alarm going off. I hate it. Although, this is why my INTJ husband frequently checks my voice-mails for me... because he knows months will go by where I just haven't thought about checking my voice-mail or email. Lol.

As a fellow ENFP, having little tips and tricks like this make all the difference. My INTJ husband handles important things much better than I do, so thankfully he reminds me. 😂

It helps to have earplugs, I have special noise producing ones! I love quiet! And, I wish Frank would stop harping on how sad INFP's can be, yeah, that's true, but they can also be ecstatic over a color, painting, flower, etc. and stoic, contained, reserved, polite, truthful, honest, thinking out of the box! They can choose to do the unpopular thing. They can read your tarot cards or tea leaves, or anything, breadcrumbs. They are interesting.

Lollll

Relatable

Same here! and most of them pictures of my dog in the same pose 😂

I'd here a ping every minute if I didn't put it on silent. It drives me nuts!

I'm an INTJ, but this video make think: "There are people that don't let their phones on not disturbing the whole day? How can they live like that?"

I'm an INTJ and this is painfully relatable..

@@Lifetalk849 Totally with you! Also, being able to just MISS a call. Now, even if I miss a call (accidentally or on purpose) I feel this pressure to contact them back bcs I know who called me. Not that I do it... But the pressure is there. And the bliss of not being burdened with even knowing who wanted to contact you!

As a fellow ENFP who wanted a pet unicorn growing up and wished I was a mermaid... whose room was often a jumble of the various creative projects I was pursuing and clean clothing piled on the dresser rather than inside of it, I share your sentiment about ISTJ. My ISTJ mom's ability to keep her house looking like a page from Better Homes & Gardens while she also works full time as a nurse and picks up per diem shifts at a different hospital and still has time for church and hobbies and friends... amazes me. She also always has her email inbox and her voicemails and text messages fully checked and cleaned out. I think I have somewhere in the vicinity or 236,319 unread emails... something like that. 😂

@@m_n_a_b omg! See? Exactly! Your mom sounds amazing to me! Ask her if she's a wizard!!

@@madtheghost337 lol! She would then look at me like I have five heads. She doesn't understand personality types and doesn't get how I struggle to do what she does. One, her brain already sees the most important task to prioritize, and she just goes for it. Two, she is energized by bringing order and structure to chaos. I don't see the most efficient choice and being too structured drains me. I do feel happy sense of accomplishment after organizing, but it also leaves me completely spent. She and I have never understood each other... but I do occasionally get a laugh from her with my Ne antics. She admires that side of me, while also thinking it's frivolous. I admire her endless organizational capabilities while also thinking that a full day of organizing and structure sounds like torture. 🤣

That is so true. My INTJ husband answers only for his family (including me), and his close friends and business associates. On our days off, he doesn't answer anyone except my calls if I happen to be out with friends.

When I get a notification, there is a half second time frame wherein I decide if it is worth answering now or later or never. Later tends to become never though. I have an extremely short list of people I respond to immediately.