3 INFJ Personality Traits That Build Confidence 

What is your favorite INFJ trait?

One of my favorite traits is our 6th-sense ability to read someone just by looking into their eyes. I can read someone without ever interacting with them, and have a 95% accuracy rate. I've tried to use that ability to help friends over the years, but they never listen... It's also a bit of a curse, because it leads to a VERY lonely life, because you KNOW if the people you're around are someone that you do, or don't want to be around or associate with again. Most of the time, they're people you don't want to be around again.

“Short-term harmony” hit hard 😭

16:04 “We don’t see it as something that makes us nice people.. We see it as a valuable trait for the world and for society that deserves to be valued. And we must value it first.” Amen! Much love Wenzes - thank you

This was so awesome! First weakness took me abt 30 yrs to figure out. Last two im just now figuring out in late 40s sheesh. It's been a rough road yall! So much forgiveness work only to see i was my own enemy! Such a beautiful life bc i chose to keep living and thriving.

We commit we succeed in everything in life. It’s all ❤️

The incredibly vivacious and wild imagination we have is a trait I love most. I swear we create worlds and characters that are so...different? I can’t think of a word I want but honestly our inner worlds and our creative capacity never ceases to amaze me. I surprise myself all the time. I love how I can also get lost in my inner world, it’s a safe space for me and I get nourished and then return to reality (when properly taking care of real world things and keeping them in line-it allows me the freedom to jump into my fantasy world as much I like and still have everything sorted in the real world). Also, can I just say you are about one of the most uplifting people in the INFJ community. A lot of people I’ve encountered focus a lot on the negative things about being an INFJ and stay there (maybe cuz they haven’t realized the potential there is with a different mindset but also I get it’s hard to jump into new mindsets when stuck in hopelessness and exhaustion in ones situation...but with time hopefully) However, you address the “negative” things about INFJhood and rather paint them into characteristics of ours that we can work with and not something that defines our entire life in a bad light. All while showing us ways to navigate our life and help us realize strengths we may not even realize we have to create our life into the happy reality it can be. I know I comment it a lot, but seriously thank you Wenzes. I’ve learned a lot from you. 😌❤️

Lol...... I love how you bring out the covert ways we seek love (altruism, martyrdom, co-dependent relationships) without even being aware of it. This was a chilling wake up call. Thanks Wenzes

This was extremely helpful and insightful!!!!! Thank you!!❤❤❤

LOVE IT! I took a lot of notes on this . By emphasizi g FE and SE, you've put into words what I have learned to do and need to keep doing it. Super video

We never put expectations on ourselves, that way we never resent ourselves or choices we make.

I love how you have a practical outlook for our functions, esp. weak functions. Ofcourse I daydream a lot, but listening to the way you see it makes me want to take action towards it. Thankyou Wenzes. Best wishes 😊🌸

Always inspiring. I appreciate you 🙏

Wenzes you’re amazing. I love your content. The level of confident positive energy you bring is both motherly and sisterly. Very friendly too. Thank you for sharing your ideas and energy and helping to push me (and others) to actualize my potential. There are not enough thank yous in the world for what you’re doing.

Love my infj family

Thank you for your inspiring words specifically on the harmony trait of INFJs.

Best video ever, Wenzes! ❤️

This was so good. Thanks Wenzes!

Thank you wenzy! I am a singer songwriter and i am using your tips to be more.confident 😊😊😊... correct one step at a time!

Love this. I gained alot about smaller increments of say packing each day, rather then procrastinating

Thank you for sharing your great videos and fantastic insights and advice. ❤️ from Denmark 😊

Thank you for reminding me I AM able to achieve nice things! :)

We know what we need to do, god tells us everyday lol

Thank you.

i was able to determine the directional flow from this video. and these 3 phases occur in the first part of act II of my movie-the main part of the action leading to the climax.

I am so guilty of the first trait... god, how have i never realized that? It has been a constant struggle in my life so far. I love how you explain things so well. Thank you* although i'm a bit in shock, i feel hopeful now that i know what i'm fighting against.

Watching for 2nd time

Wenzes, thank you so much for all this quality content 🔥🔥♥️.

Why we have most toxic people gravitating towards us?

I'm a pusher at work. I make things happen, but it's like I use all of myself up there so my life outside of work is pretty boring. I don't want my job to be what I'm all about. The guy I am there is a means to an end. E.g. paying the bills. The real me is a good guy who wants to take care of people, not that I'm a jerk at work, but I hate being a chameleon.

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My favorite INFJ trait is the introverted trait. I get quite a bit accomplished when I am by myself and have plenty of space, time, resources, etc. to get it done. By the way, this is just an observation. After listening to you speak, you definitely have a Northeastern US accent and dialect. Are you from New York ?

Hello how can I be coached by you for a goal I have for myself but need someone to be accountable to please let me know how much just to be able to call you for encourage ment thankyou my name is David thankyou