1. Girls have a leaderboard with the guys they have dated. You will always be compared to the first one. 2. You need to not care about her past and bodycount. 3. Do not believe everything she says about her type or about what she has o hasnt done or what she would or not do in hypothetical situations. 4. When women say something it is usually true for them in the moment but it can change as fast as her feelings do. A girl that wants to go put with you in monday may not want to go out with you in friday. 5. If a girl doesnt respond fast or says she needs time for herself, she is just not interested in you. But they are not confrontational so they wont say it straight up.
This view regarding women telling the truth of the moment only is a prcious one. Orion Taraban says soemthing pretty similar. He says that whatever a woman says to you, you should always add "I feel that.. " before and then "..right now" at the end. So if a girl says "You don't care about me" you should rephrase: "I feel that you don't care about me, right now". And this applies to negative as positive statements. So if she says "I want to stay with you forever" you should understand "I feel that I want to stay with you forever right now". After many years of missunderstand this does actually make much more sense to me.
I could care less about her body count tbh. I had my slut phase, for sure. Still kinda in it. If we're at a level of connection where I'm seriously considering you for a partnership, I'm not gonna let decisions you made before you knew I existed stop me. If we aren't that close, then it still doesn't matter because I'm not keeping you lol
Pure facts, I met a girl and had 2 dates with her, she clearly showed interest in me and even texted me before the second date saying how eager she was to see me again, fast forward to the next week and she messaged me saying how great I was but lets leave it at that. Women are always keeping their options open.... Its built into them.
@user-jv4xt5sp5o the secret is to have options dude, women sense neediness and as soon as that happens they disappear, she probably has 20 conversations on her tinder especially if she is a 6/10 or more
I was an ex girlfriend's first once, and she still dumped me for some other dude 😂😂 sadly being the first doesn't mean you'll be the only one, let alone the best one...
Danny, I don't kiss ass or just give meaningless props to people. Your information is nuanced and excellent. You clearly articulate real thoughts that real men have and put them into perspective. Much respect to you and I wish you the very best. I hope your message continues to reach a wider audience.
i am in my mid 20s right now and i've learned all these hard truths pretty much the hard way. I would say that dating today is about enjoying it as long as it lasts. Don't have high hopes and expect everything from everyone
Such a well-done video - #subbed. Gen-X here. There wasn't social media back then so had to learn the hard way. Take heed younger dudes, this is 100% fact. Also, take your time to make sure she's grounded so "never, ever stick it in crazy"...they may be fun off the jump, but it'll only bring you major headaches.
@pinnacle1717 tbh she didn't even set the bar that high. I already dated some girls more attractive then her hahaha... it's true though about just getting lean and aesthetic I get way more attention now went from over weight to fit and I don't think she was expecting that hahaha
The reality is, most people quit before even starting. Bc we know how full of shit we are once we get in our head, especially with social media. It does not help as its not realistic and a majority of the time, negatively bias if you dont know how to optimistically take out what to implement and experiment into your life. What happens happens to everyone, what you decide to do about it is up to you. Accept the fact that in life we cant have the perfect utopia we want, we can only control what we can, so focus on that.
I discovered you a few days ago Danny and subscribed immediately! More people need to hear what you’re saying. You truly are a breath of fresh air. And I love the whole “leaderboard” idea. Reminds me of Dancing with the Stars, but with much truth behind it.
What you say is so true, i learned that few months ago. i dated for 3 months a girl who's boyfriend was studying in canada, she told me that it was the first time she did that etc etc. After i showed some weakness and things became colder, she slowly lost interest and told me she needed to have a break, to focus on family, to be clean for her BF return 1month later, blah blah. 1 week later i discovered that she actually was seeing another guy we had a 3some with 2weeks before. So i took my car, drove for 1hour, brought back all her stuff i had home and told her i knew she lied to me, that i wasn't surprised and that it was the last time we were seeing each other. i told her i could easily destroy her life by telling everything to her family, her BF and his family, and i told that i chosed not to because i was a better person than her. She was mad and also sad, told me to work on my ego aha. (She also told me to delete her on social media, delete the pictures of us etc etc but i didn't, and she didn't either.) i guess i earned more respect thay day than for everything else. Now i'm red pilled, and i show her on social media i'm far better without her, while she is still with her 5years younger BF. greetings from france guys stay strong !
Her BF had a gap year She was having a gap in her penetrationnal rotation programm So you just happen to fill that gap when it was your turn. Then her penetrationnal programm needed to rotate for more supply until the BF is back to stack the slot again after a full roll!
@@Yeah0bviously Interesting way to say it aha. but it was actually kinda more, she made allusions about a potential future, about her having my kids etc, she surely felt some doubt about her relationships but anyways, its past now.
@@damienur2869 it makes sense. Actually she was right, she was having your kids. Just that they were sticking dried on over her body parts and swimming inside of her...probably growing up along the kids from the other dude you mentioned. They are now starting a kindergarten with the kids of the BF into her V
good video. If you want to date the 9s and 10s then get used to the idea that the 9s and 10s have been with many many men, like the 9s and 10s men have been with many many women. that’s how attractive people live life….with options
Don't think so. Imagine being married with a woman and find out that she thinks everyday about her first love and this for many years. Just imagine how heartbreaking it is. She would never really choose you, ur just Plan B
@@thomass07. We shouldn't give the same advice to another guy, femals tend to give to theirs. Life is not about avoiding, we are here for the experience. Failures need to be done to understand in the long run. But yeah, it's better when you skip that marriage thing. Work on yourself, walk your path.
I wouldn't get too discouraged, man. I think Danny gives very solid advice, but I will say THIS: I've been around women my entire life whether that's girlfriends, siblings, good friends, etc. I've been played, treated like shit, treated exceptionally well, and everything in between. I've walked away from BS countless times. Some of my best friends are females, and some of them tell me EVERYTHING..Sometimes things I don't wanna know even. You just can't say or believe ALL women are like this. Also, it's good to mention that Danny isn't even saying, "All women are like this." He even says something to that effect in this video. He's just saying be aware of these things and don't be naive. Of course this stuff can be true, absolutely no doubt. Be positive/keep your chin up, know your worth, create boundaries, and vet women as best as you can. Someone will probably try to bash me here and tell me I'm blind or clueless or some BS lol. I REALLY couldn't care less. Take your shot. Stay strong, bro! Get out there.
I must be rare then ...Coz I can't deal with more than one at a rime...and if I like someone I wouldn't jeopardise it by talking to someone else ....and I got no one in the background
The woman is still lying to you, when she says stuff like not doing something until the 5th date. She knows exactly what she is saying and how the guy will interpret it. It is a form of manipulation by playing semantics to the point of gaslighting.
I am still virgin and used to be care about the body count. Like even one dude was a NO for me. But now I understand that I should focus on her personality. Is she a respectful woman towards me and others? Does she show me real interest and consistancy? If yes, so I don't dig into her past.
What can i say, i was away, found videos on some guys TikTok that he and my girlfriend got engaged on her birthday, after me sending her present and money for celebration....later i also found out she was pregnant while dating me.
You’re young. Don’t take the advice to sleep around! -There are lots of women who are virgins into their late 30’s. Seek God, purity… and you’ll find someone amazing.
@@photographyenthusiast9941 I know, I came to see if there was anything new I haven't heard already. And sure enough he had a couple things I didn't know. I'm already seeking such and I don't sleep around as is. But I appreciate the thought
That's why striving to be the best is not a bad thing, some healthy narcissism puts you in the way. ... I started to hate videos that criticize the idea of permanent development. Most women love to have a relationship with a person with narcissism and high self-love ... For example, when I started to take great care of my appearance, women began to act nervously, with exaggerated respect, and shyness in front of me, and when you raise your level of life, your feeling about yourself changes. The arrogant side comes out easily, and you become an attention whore in your role, not relying on attracting the attention of one female. ... Most fears come from lack of experience and lack of work on oneself. Once you consider both, you become strong from within. ... These spiritual people show you, uh, uh, that you accept yourself as you are, no, sometimes things need to be done and entered into the competitive market.
Love it bro. I totally agree with everything you’ve ever said and can relate wholeheartedly. A lot of this comes natural to me but it would be dope if you put out more videos
a lifetime of experience bears out what you say. while fun to play with at a given moment, women are ultimately agents of chaos and deception. you can do everything right but she'll still cheat on you or dump you simply for a change to a new emotional experience that doesn't include you. I have one answer to this. **always** maintain an exit plan. no matter how loving she behaves right now, no matter any promises, you must be able to pick up and leave (better yet, kick her out) at any minute. the corollary to this is to never allow leverage over you. whatever secret you share or power you allow can and will eventually be weaponized to be used against you. a woman will sense that she's always on thin ice and motivate to behave better, no need to even make a secret of it. this is your best chance at a lasting relationship ..one you strive to enjoy now as this could be the last day 🏝😎🍸
Hey brother , just play same game , we will never know her past love /family/friendship etc. She will tell you bits here and there, plan B 💯 % ready always .
bro that transition to the ad break was wild 😂 I think you'd preserve the credibility of your arguments in the video much better if you have a separate ad segment in the video, not connected to what you're saying
Actually, body count is tremendously important when it comes to the leaderboard. The higher the body count, the more players you are competing with and the least likely youll be the leader on the leaderboard
To illustrate how a woman's words are subject to change, see if this hasn't happened to any of you. I've always generally hated compliments. I've always realized, even with men, it's here today, but very likely gone tomorrow, though a man's tomorrow may be months away. Imagine a girl told you, you were good looking. What are the odds she'll specifically remember that compliment, (while you probably forgot it) and then that ends up being the catalyst when she gets upset at you, to actually say you're ugly later? I don't believe the compliment, and I don't believe the insult, and why not, since there's always somebody who thinks the same way about either extreme. There's always people favoring you to some degree, and those disfavoring, why should one person not switch boats for added dramatic effect? I think that's how it is with some women, the compliments she gives you, are just there for when the two of you are getting along, but when things aren't so hot and she feels like insulting, it's the specific opposites of what she once complimented you on; if you're good looking, you're ugly, if you're smart, you're an idiot, if you're brave, you're a coward. None of which has any real bearing on you.
One thing to be careful and cognizant of... Videos like this can imply that men are 100% rational. This is not the case, and men are increasingly emotionally driven as well. It just looks different but mistaking your emotions for logic can put you in a world of pain.
We should create a community for handsome men that deal with all these problems. We could discuss problems that we face and not have lower caliber men come in a spread negativity or bad advice, but also help guys facing these problems but not really having any clear answers.
@@who_is_dis If a girl has been with 5 dudes it's less likely she's alpha widowed than if she's been with 20, that's the point. It's not a guarantee by any means, a girl might be alpha widowed with a body count of 1....but these are basic statistical probabilities. The higher the body count, the less likely any particular dude has of being no.1 Being no.2 is not good enough, even if you beat out another 18 guys.
How do you make the most impact emotionally? Would you say it’s different woman to woman? Is making a woman feel safe, heard, and understood a good emotional impact? Or is it just being the best sexually?
Moisturizing should be used at night. Only wash your face once a day and use sunscreen 3 times per day spf 60....good sunscreen. If you wash your face more than once per day you will dry your skin of its natural oils. This guy doesn't know shit about skin care.
What I do like about you people "coaches" is that you trying to decode human, in this case, female behaviour, which is impossible to do! Simple because each one of us is really different.. your sayings are full of gaps! And can never be "full".
Your advice is off and untrue. Body count matters because it's biologically based... So it's deeper than how it looks outwardly, women not suppose to be with multiple men for a scientific reason.
I sorta get what you’re saying but if our biology is designed for us to have a bunch of kids, wouldn’t that also apply for women? I get pair bonding as a mechanism of security for women. They want a suitable mate that will protect them and their kids. But doesn’t it also make sense for women to bear as many children as possible?
@@titoslounge1946 We were created by God to pro-create as much as possible. For a woman, it's to pro-create by her husband as many times as possible. Not sure what you are asking. A woman is not suppose to have 5 kids by five different men. A woman should not have a bunch of men in her ear, too many opinions, just listen to your husband. Kinda confused to what you are trying to ask....
@@titoslounge1946 Supposed to be with the same guy. Also, it takes a full year for woman to birth a child. A guy takes 5 mins to “do the deed” (and could go sleep with another woman in a few hours lol).
