The TOXIC Dating Strategies Women Use [Reaction]

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Reacting to the toxic dating advice and strategies women use from TikTok
0:00 Context / Intro
1:40 Hot & cold
3:17 Acting repulsive
5:30 Hot & cold again
10:08 Setting traps
12:11 Car trap
13:25 Friendly fire
14:07 Toxicity
15:20 Faking photos
18:08 Flexing options
19:07 Sneaky links
19:42 Trying to get commitment
21:10 Making guys chase
22:01 Uhhhh...wut
25:20 Flaking first dates
26:45 Faking the location
29:15 Mad about no commitment
33:27 More ignoring tactics
34:55 Lying about being out
36:12 Trying to get commitment #2
37:01 Reverse psychology attempt lol
41:04 Jealousy warfare

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@itsdannyvera 4 месяца назад

scroll back up and hit that like button or forever be cursed with a wife who makes toxic tips videos on tiktok

@saltnsauce607 4 месяца назад

Say less

@JCoyk 4 месяца назад

I def don't want that. I am liking the video.

@jameshunt3504 3 месяца назад

Non reactive is excellent 👌 advice, but even better is learning to be Indifferent to these ratchet bitches 😂

@helloDobson3259 Месяц назад

Well done Danny. The maturity you display here is light years ahead of some red meat manosphere channels that refuse to evolve.

@AliBhai-sl8gc 20 дней назад

This video effectively shows why the west was destroyed and the ppl of it.... Preace

@timmorisma4800 4 месяца назад

As a man in his 40's, I feel sorry for all the young men in their 20's and 30's that have to deal with this bullshit from women in their 20's. It's sad when all the women nowadays are immature little girls that play games. Remember fellas, only little girls make things complicated for you. (Mature) women are a lot easier to deal with. I'm speaking from experience.

@SnowmanSantana 4 месяца назад

Social media ruined dating for us, the amount of “options” they think they have because the amount of guys that follow them and dm’s they get, they can’t tell its just guys wanting to sleep with them not wife them

@ContrarianExpatriate 3 месяца назад

It was around back when you were young too. Ever heard of the book The Rules? Look it up.

@Aviator_Walker 3 месяца назад

My generation is cooked.

@johnevans836 16 дней назад

💯 Agree!!!

@atilla.cengizuyanik8164 4 дня назад

totally agree....

@Rpgmaniac 4 месяца назад

A man with high confidence ain't falling for non Of this

@itsdannyvera 4 месяца назад

💯

@Rpgmaniac 4 месяца назад

@@itsdannyvera these women are crazy but i know for a fact if you are a man with options and multiple women this will not have any effect good video bro 💪🏽

@angelic3450 4 месяца назад

A woman with confidence won't engage in any of this.

@epictubegamer 4 месяца назад

@@angelic3450For some reason I doubt that. Many confident women are usually just very entitled and expect the world to bend to their will

@scottjolland7086 4 дня назад

Absolutely 👁 straight up. All a fake act that comes from deep rooted problems.

@lessons8708 3 месяца назад

I like that women who use 1,000 of filters over all the make-up they are wearing are poking fun at men for being "insecure".

@stellar_cartographer 4 месяца назад

TikTok exposed a side of people that most never expected

@stellar_cartographer 3 месяца назад

In my 30's. But to be fair I haven't felt the need to pay more attention until I started taking personal responsibility for the company I keep@user-om1jv6cb2p

@zaijnt381 Месяц назад

True evil

@faster6329 4 дня назад

It took away the last barriers and shame from all these women :)

@georgemuhoro 4 месяца назад

It's crazy how most of these "strategies" are not accounting for the fact that I can just leave. Literally any sign of resistance or low interested and I'm literally 5 feet from the door with it closing behind me.

@krampus3901 4 месяца назад

But they think guys are desperate...and you have to admit many are. Once you a guy that have options or have other women to talk to, these things don't happen. That is why these women HATE (I MEAN HATE) men who are confident, attractive, and can pull women.

@nathanu.6931 4 месяца назад

@@krampus3901They do hate yet want at the same time. They want the dude that does not need them. Ironically, the girl that has to play these silly manipulative games wouldn’t have to play them if she was a good catch for a confident, good dude (not a nice guy, but a genuine and honest, assertive and confident man with standards).

@ackbuilder8262 4 месяца назад

Good point. I have walked away from around 300 girls like these in the last 26 years. No headaches. The problem is that weak men raised by single women cannot do it, they are not capable because they are desperate, don’t have balls or just have left vision of the world. They delute picture offering women too much because they are not masculine and have no integrity. So for guys who are strong it takes years and multiple break ups to establish frame and stop reacting to this. We make mistakes as well along the way while learning as women take advantage of any opening as they have competitive advantages in communication, manipulation. Stay strong. The only way to win is not to play those games.

@Aviator_Walker 3 месяца назад

I’ve had women openly admit they were trying to run these games on me after I left. Tik Tok is poisoning their minds.

@cranford69 2 месяца назад

Modern women today live in Disneyland with their delusions. They think they’re the prize and always deserve more until their ego gets checked. Then they don’t know what to do except throw tantrums.

@Liisjak 2 месяца назад

Basically how to lose a quality man 101.

@infinitedurr 4 месяца назад

The ugly reality is that: 1- People doing this en masse / at scale destroys collective trust, ie, the social fabric 2- All of this type of 'game' is predicated on exploiting people's attachment wounds and making them worse. This type of game predicated on the assumption that being honest and open will only get you rejected. And yet, the more time you spend with someone, the more likely it is that eventually the truth of their actual personality will show through. Damaging people's attachment systems will increase the overall amount of mental health issues in society. This behavior is accelerating social decline.

@jameshunt3504 3 месяца назад

Perfectly Explained. Impressive!

@mrnice7570 2 месяца назад

Nailed it 💯

@daktari3055 Месяц назад

Man, Content like this when I was growing up in the 80s would’ve been priceless. Would’ve saved so much pain.

@NsIX3 4 месяца назад

Stay single fellas, save yourself from all this BS.

@therealjaycentury69 4 месяца назад

Sitting here smoking a cigar. Just discovered your channel. This video just shows me why valuing peace of mind is more important than chasing toxic women like this. Despite this, there are good women out there, men just need to have self-respect and zero patience for toxic behavior like these women in the video show.

@tensevo 2 месяца назад

ignoring does work, but the person doing the ignoring is actually more invested in the outcome.

@johncracker5217 4 месяца назад

The advice they’re giving to each other is pure insanity every single time

@SnowmanSantana 4 месяца назад

They are just sabotaging one another to lower the competition, women are very fake to one another

@rogermartin4361 4 месяца назад

I am out of the dating scene now, but in all my years of dating, I’ve never seen this kind of woman. I am glad that you are pointing this out for the younger generation. I wouldn’t spend one second with these type of women and I hope man wise up.

@soydansogukcesme470 4 месяца назад

i saw a lot of those woman.. and i dated as a man for a dekate just for fun and i made it clear from the beginning.. their are more crazy once their. i wish i could say most woman are normal.. but sadly .. its like 50/50.. half is normal half is mentaly asylum. sadly.

@jasec2252 3 месяца назад

these women are just competing amongst themselves here. Once a confident masculine male enters the scene, they submit in 5 seconds.

@jagosevatarion8822 2 месяца назад

I havent dated many women and i recognized several tactics

@wiohrwqihr1329 Месяц назад

Hi Danny! Dating here in Asia is much different. Women throw little to no test. It's about being nice to each other, and getting to know each other like decent human beings. No tests, no banter, no games. I'm glad I left the west many years ago.

@Ihsan-vo6uc 13 дней назад

I live in Asia & what you're saying is totally untrue, you probably don't realise they are playing games or you meet a rare breed, women are generally manipulative & emotional being regardless of race

@BlackLion76 4 месяца назад

Hope the gov't bans tiktok

@dannyledesma_ 4 месяца назад

Great stuff dude I completely agree with you, it’s too bad there aren’t more Men who carry themselves like us, Women would have to naturally fall back into their Femininity if so and this toxic garbage would not be a trend.

@Rizzler-lp1re 3 месяца назад

Straight up they only going to be getting the guys they don’t want from this 😂

@doyourbest7655 4 месяца назад

Dated and lived with a gal who periodically would do random stuff pulling back from the relationship. Like we weren’t a couple. Made me feel like she would in the future just walk away. Destroyed my perception that we could have a life long relationship. You want a guy? Don’t do this rejection see if he will chase B/S, it will end the relationship. The next gal who tried this, got the boot immediately, and no amount of “oh I was just testing you, because I really want you”. NO! You are out.

@davidyoung5897 Месяц назад

She was testing you bc you failed the test in the first place.

@CalmEyeglassFrames-bg6cg 4 месяца назад

Did you guys notice they all average at best ?

@thegoddamnkash 4 месяца назад

I was gonna comment this. Have to be honest, the girls that gave me zero push back were always the hottest

@SnowmanSantana 4 месяца назад

Yup because they’re insecure about themselves, scared they can’t keep a man so they do all these “tactics”

@41BOT 2 месяца назад

One was actually hot, but her advice also was logical/sane relatively to others. Taking my words back, she is obese and with tons of makeup, literally just appears good in that particular tiktok crap.

@intzeproduction99 11 дней назад

And emotionally damaged on top of that 😂

@medman6649 4 месяца назад

The f'd up part is (one of them anyway), is the men these women will draw with these "toxic tips", they won't respect or ultimately, won't want to be with.

@DevilsAdvocate93230 Месяц назад

Car tricks has been hurt. Probably more than once.

@joelt1002 4 месяца назад

What seems completely absent in the discussion on both sides is any mention of long term family or children. “Dating” has become synonymous with recreationally sport fucking.

@hengonghuat9876 3 месяца назад

Do not invest in woman who r not reciprocating..invest only in gd attitude

@jdee8407 2 месяца назад

I wonder if some of these women are actively trying to sabotage their competition, cos some of this advice is seriously really bad.

@arkantim828 4 месяца назад

Married girlfriends will never tell how they got husbands, especially to their girlfriends.Who the fuck needs competitors?

@SnowmanSantana 4 месяца назад

Women often give eachother the wrong advice all the time to sabotage one another out of jealousy, I used to work in a workplace was mostly girls and they were so fake to one another whilst bitching about one another to me, made me realise how fake female friendships are

@birdo623 2 месяца назад

Beware the woman measuring the distance between your tire and the parking space line

@schroederluck7984 4 месяца назад

These strats only work on low status men with no options, or good looking guys with below avg intelligence/experience. None of the guys they legit would want long term would tolerate these games.

@Goblin_Hands 16 дней назад

"You want what you can't get." That's true for children, and also women. Men come up with solutions and hate wasting their time on things they know are going to fail, because the only reason you are even pursuing at that point is because of your emotions, such as nostalgia, etc.

@Goblin_Hands 16 дней назад

9:30 Literally confirmed 1 minute later.

@ondgaku271 4 месяца назад

I just give up when this happens.

@jti107 4 месяца назад

she said this is to make fboys insecure? trust me I have couple of friends who are players and if they found you annoying or playing games they would block you and move on to another girl in a heartbeat.

@Junoj101 3 месяца назад

all this nonsense only works on simps, a man who has abundance simply does not care for drama.

@TH-mx5ek Месяц назад

It would be great if you exposed this advice more often. It would protect a lot of people's mental health. You are doing a fantastic job and service.

@EseShad0w316 4 месяца назад

Yeah... If they try pulling this shit on good, high value men then they're gonna get blocked and "next"ed immediately.

@j.danielmosquera721 4 месяца назад

I wish you a lot of success with this channel because I really enjoy the videos you put out there -

@overforTera 4 месяца назад

love these reaction type videos where you share your input Danny!💯

@nitrom8891 3 месяца назад

Just subbed man. This is what “Red Pill” was always intended to be. Keep growing and learning and showing humility. God bless your channel 🙏

@geminiblade 18 дней назад

There’s a difference between being loud in the sense of full of life and having a vibrant laugh and just being obnoxious which can apply to everyone

@cyanure1320 День назад

I would probably just think, "oh! she buy roses for herself, so she is into roses, i guess", so maybe some days i could buy some without even thinking there was all this idea behind

@rechj89 4 месяца назад

being from Europe, the shit I am seeing thats happening in the US is crazy

@user-ul2ss1ve2h 4 месяца назад

It’s even worst in Europe my guy. Women ranging 7-10 are all in UAE and High end clubs. Not in your town.

@denisrauch 4 месяца назад

Tiktok has infected our women aswell, dont get fooled by them. Greetings from germany

@rechj89 4 месяца назад

@@user-ul2ss1ve2h I wouldnt say its a bad thing if most redflags fly away :d

@user-ul2ss1ve2h 4 месяца назад

@@rechj89 red flags don’t fly they show off on their IG TikTok where they are how much money they made had so much fun. You think this won’t affect that hottie 18 year old? Social is the reason my guy

@SnowmanSantana 4 месяца назад

Bro same shits happening in europe, im from the UK and the UK girls look up to the US girls and their toxic behaviour

@MrToast-rz4rq 4 месяца назад

Per usual, Awesome quality content Dany, thank you for this. 💯

@Italian_Rican 3 месяца назад

As far as the last girl, what man with any self respect would stay with a girl who tells you she is still keeping contact with a guy who she’s slept with ? And bragging about it in your face 😂. The fact that there are actual men who deal with this shit is sad.

@reverendo1776 26 дней назад

14:41 😂😂😂 I would add: "these are the ladies who end up living alone, with 37 cats in their houses!!!" So funny video and so wise feminine advices!!! 😂😂😂

@gameon2000 15 дней назад

6:14 - only because it works on immature girls like her, it does the opposite on mature men. we are not the same.

@gameon2000 15 дней назад

7:37 "do it to men, play games, just don't do it to the guy you want" - sums ut up! 🤣

@links1356 3 месяца назад

Ryan Renolds gives the best advice makes me so happy he went from mint mobile to dating advice 😊😊

@user-hq7yj1lh8o Месяц назад

These videos are hard to find; I treasure this video.

@BrotherJonathan444 Месяц назад

Just came across this page. Great content, and it's awesome to see someone implementing their gifts to help others.

@neeraj2878 Месяц назад

Great advice bro !! I really like your content.

@justinshore5566 Месяц назад

the woman in the car can ignore me for a month, no reaction from me.

@Ragazzo556 2 месяца назад

41:18 "this is like the toxic-starter kit" 🤣

@seekingfreedom9020 3 месяца назад

I just found your channel today man, I'm really enjoying your content. I subscribed

@Dreamy_Dawe 4 месяца назад

13:28 Some simps just want to watch the world burn.

@recoveringniceguy57 4 месяца назад

AVOID INSECURE WOMEN

@TheUnplugged1 22 дня назад

“Babe go get my phone” “Do it yourself”

@zaidendubbel7521 2 месяца назад

Never change bro

@SnowmanSantana 4 месяца назад

Is this danny from UK drill reaction videos? 😂 love the new content bro

@lwelz68 4 месяца назад

So glad I found your content: I had gone back to someone I had dated a year ago and she's been doing a lot of hot cold; just ended it and am going out the next few nights to work cold approach

@daiviamparikh2037 2 месяца назад

This guy is dope😂

@paulogorris18 4 месяца назад

If you find yourself in a relationship with the last chick, boy oh boy, you have bigger problems other than being manipulated. Go seek help right now.

@TH-mx5ek Месяц назад

Thanks for exposing this and showing the really bad advice women are getting. The stupidity of people continues to surprise me.

@MrKagiMoni 8 дней назад

Once a man feels disrespected - the relationship is over.

@apushman 25 дней назад

girl present day: How to be toxic same girl yrs later: Where are the good men at?

@muzzy_2 2 месяца назад

20:03 When a girl tells me she is not interested, I hold the L and move on. If a girl wants to play silly games to "test" if I will chase, she shall win silly prizes.

@beexcellent717 Месяц назад

"we gotta pray for that man, we got to ban together and support our brethren" 😂

@MoeYT. 4 месяца назад

Lol I'm just gonna focus on my self thank you

@zandig666 10 дней назад

Been single for 20+ yrs the 6 degrees of seperation is true...I meet a girl now and I'm thinkn oh here we go scenario #4 again 😂😂😂 The best tools we have in our work shed is do not marry or cement yourself in a particular relationship they will try and bond you by trauma bring a puppy home or threaten they will go to Chad's if you don't toe the line 😂😂😂

@edgartheslayer3 12 дней назад

3:45 I feel like this advice almost derives from a more wholesome dating advice, where the advice is to "just be yourself". This means you'll be a bit less tactful, the person will see you who you really are still into you then maybe "he's the one". There's a lot of problems to this too but, but this woman's advice is like taking a step further which I doubt is the play, unless the guy is really into loud women idk lol

@lukmanalghdamsi3189 16 дней назад

13:43 best answer for this kind of question is......"maybe"

@narutofan4545 Месяц назад

You can argue if you can make her feel emotions and put her down

@Benedictstcross 4 месяца назад

Danny posts. I cancel the next hour. A simple life. Also. INSANE video again 🤌🏼

@lucianom.5855 Месяц назад

Now I know why everyone is single or in a “situationship”

@Datsyj 4 дня назад

The location thing definitely works my girl would get mad at me and do it that way and I would wonder why it didn’t notify but she was using it wrong as in do it over an argument instead of actually leaving the house (call her slow idk but she pmo) so we decided not to do share location bc I wasn’t sure when she would use it for it’s purpose vs being mad n the fact she knew how to do that alerted me enough

@smartdog1015 21 день назад

Girl putting on a whole acting class

@AB-eg5nn 4 месяца назад

Toxic starter kit 😂

@thebeardada5663 Месяц назад

10:57 LMAOOOOOOOOOO

@kevincafiero2103 5 дней назад

Thanks , haven't been with a woman in a long time and it seems like I made the right choice .

@alexstraz 13 дней назад

Being in my 30s I don't know that I am even dating women who have time to plan out being this petty.

@sethdyertv 4 месяца назад

It’s amazing the extents they’re going to when they’re the more invested one and they’re trying to get him more invested 😂. What a waste of brain calories.

@jrazenz 4 месяца назад

10:52 She got roses last night but didnt take them out of the plastic or put them in water?? And the vase doesnt have water in it? Lol Lying asf

@john22098 4 месяца назад

Chick looks like grandpa Phil from hey Arnold

@ChoompaLoompa1985-uw8lw 24 дня назад

40 year old loser here. Have a decent job and living on rent, can take care of myself but so afraid of failure and women i just choose to go back to my mom's place despite paying for the apt. Yeah..its bad. The feeling of home is something were all looking for in the end. The saddest thing is that if you dont engage with life and miss it, you never learn to recreate that feeling on your own, and you dont pass it on to your children even if your're lucky enough to have raised any. No feeling more wreched than being alone in an empty house. Nothing reminds you more of your own futility than lonely walls holding a lonely roof you dont even own or have built.

@jdc6954 Месяц назад

Just be geniune. And youll get rid of those who arent and attract those who are. Put God above all else put Him first in your heart and no girl cant steal yours.

@jonsnow911 3 месяца назад

6:45, 12:38, 13:50, 14:30, 18:50, 25:50, 35:50, 43:00, 22:50

@RadiantMantra 12 дней назад

This is easily in my Top 3 videos to NOT watch if you're scared about dating

@ThatCasualZach 14 дней назад

4:15 ....remember that when you're 38 and single ladies.

@kevinmurphy108 4 месяца назад

I think tik tok sped things up for sure but I noticed women changing drastically about 10 years ago

@MrIkOgNiTo 21 день назад

If these crazies were investing the energy into their relationships instead into playing games they all would be happily married. 😂

@thebeardada5663 Месяц назад

STOP THE CAP! LMAOOOOOO

@XYZ........ 17 дней назад

So am I just an idiot for thinking that she just likes flowers and buys herself flowers to enjoy?

@idaytrade2 3 месяца назад

I wonder if all this toxic advise is really to sabotage other women to reduce competition. Maybe the ones giving the advice don't even to this.

@Phantoms-tt1uq 4 месяца назад

Hurt people hurt people. That’s prolly why these women sayin all this bs tbh.

@AS-ok8hi 4 месяца назад

Why do they have access to another man’s phone unless they’re married? Ladies keep telling us how toxic yall are!

@ercoleborgiano Месяц назад

My sistas be conducting criminal investigations and thinking they are winning the power dynamic 💀

@pedrodelella7883 4 месяца назад

Honestly I prefer this reaction content just because you speak slower than the other videos. Generaly speaking your content are good af, but i got some dificult get the message on the other videos. (English isn't my first language) Idea: Maybe you could use some AI to subtitle the video.

@naamanmagnusanthony9035 2 месяца назад

Based on this video, a lot of women could make professional strides in forensics and investigating 😂

@gooddaygene8355 2 месяца назад

~8:10 Where the girl mentions wanting things that one cannot get. I think that is a good litmus test when dealing with people in general. If one works to attain something and they don't know what to do with it after they get it, well, we know the type of person we are dealing with. As Joker said, "“I’m like a dog chasing cars, I wouldn’t know what to do if I caught one, you know, I just do…things.” (Of course he was lying, he very much knew, but you get the idea.) But most of the female advice seems to be their own projection of what will work on them - shadow games.

@jamalbey93 4 месяца назад

Bro you gotta do a show with fresh and fit. 💯

@TheSnake636 4 месяца назад

I am praying that Congress actually does ban TikTok. I am sick of all of this bullshit on the app. And all of the lies that are said it’s poisoning lot of peoples’ brains and it needs to stop.

@narutofan4545 Месяц назад

One flake is okay a lot of women are anxious

@LiminalSpaces777 2 месяца назад

Their advice to each other is so ass backward. It’s like saying “I want to win this race, BUT FIRST, I will stab myself in the foot because it will make me run faster” lmfaoooo