im really struggling with this, and with all these other dudes online saying "treat women badly" and trying to dehumanize them makes me so uncomfortable. i would really like to have a relationship where honesty is the #1 value. and a lot of this stuff feels so crafty and a lot of these dating advices online don't fit my morality and i wouldn't do them. A lot of what you're saying is good. its not disrespectful to women, its not dehumanizing. and i appreciate that you make these videos for men struggling to date
Kind of in the same boat. I really don’t want to think of women as “less than,” but the way most of them present and want to be treated would require that type of mindset. More like dealing with a child than an equal. I’m 28 years old and twice divorced so I’ve known two women extremely well and the truth is the game never ends. You can never fully let down your guard and treat them as your exact equal, they’ll inadvertently lose respect and thus lose attraction for you.
I really appreciate the fact that your advice is centered around sustainability. Each of these steps is actionable and can be incorporated fairly easily.
Author sounds logical, academic, theoretical rational. It looks good on the paper. But you don’t give real life examples and advice. It seems women have cart Blanche according to you due to their emotionality and neuroticism. Well, neuroticism - is mental health disorder. I am yet to hear that women need therapy so men don’t die 8 years younger after protecting and providing for women and children all of their lives.
This video is amazing!!! I at the beginning of my 3a relationship and is very good, so this video came at the best moment possible in my life. Somethings were about to became a trouble in my mind and u just helped me so much. I greatly thank you for the free wise words that remembered me how i should act from now on and how i can be a better men.
great video mate. I have experienced all of these in a long term relationship. Always work on yourself and your girl should be a compliment to your life.
It’s important for a couple to motivate each other to maintain healthy habits, keep the relationship interesting, and spend time together to strengthen the connection. But as the man, I understand that my partner looks to me to be a strong leader. She wants to feel safe and protected. And she also wants a confident/caring man.
Brilliant content that is explained well and objectively. I've already watched a lot of level up content as a man. Yours is qualitatively and factually proven and doesn't want to sell you any products so that you belong to the 1% of men.
Hi man, I think I follow your videos from the beginning. Now, i'm in a relationship since a few months, and your points and those of your other videos are amazing. I tend to be a "dictator" as I can't stand certain things she's doing wrong and I'm very demanding so sometimes I feel guilty of my "authority", maybe you could find a way to address this in a video. Cheers!
That's feminism propaganda making you feel guilty about being a man. Words like "dictator" and "controlling" are used to make us second-guess our nature. As long as you put forth the frame that she is free to leave if your standards are too high for her you aren't a dictator. It her choice to live by your standards or she can go find lowers ones that are more comfortable for her.
1. Attack the Problem not the Person 2. Speak clearly and don't lose your 💩 by raising your voice or getting hectic 3. Don't insult her but be clear with your needs and requests. She's a woman not a dog. 4. If she's making you mad excuse yourself and step outside of the room to cool off. Let her know you'll be back to continue the conversation when you cool off. 5. If she's blatantly disrespectful (insults you for example) end the conversation until she apologizes. Let her know that's not acceptable behavior. (Of course don't disrespect her or you don't have a leg to stand on.)
This constant grinding, anticipation of her unrealistic expectations, and oversight of things in not only your life but hers (aka her looking up to you) sounds okay but in practice it's hell and just shows you have to take the accountability for 2 and if you have kids with a woman like this you're actually just responsible for those kids plus one in her. This is not a remotely attractive proposition. It also to me demonstartes why as a society we're at the point where we need to disempower these girls entitlement not by supression but by giving men other options that take the validation and power away from women. Its been a relatively understood concept throughout history, but to support the deulsions of women mens needs have been sacrificed and thats an injustice.
@@rann1074 of course my original reply to you was deleted🙃. wow dude. anyways, i think i answered you before this dude decided to take it down for his own benefit. talk about engagement😂
This is the equivalent of covering yourself in shit and expecting people to want to stick around. If all she is getting is your worst she will most likely leave. That statement you made only applies to temporary situations. You lose your job and are struggling for a year, if she remains by you she is a good one. If she helps, even better. However if this goes on year after year and she isn't seeing you actually trying to get back on your feet, she wont remain loyal. You can't blame her. You are derailing your life, and by extension, hers. The idea in this video is to just always get better in life. Build a high market value and keep it. You shouldn't allow yourself to backslide whether you have a girl around or not. Self improvement is a never ending journey.
