6 Things A NARCISSIST Will NEVER Get Over! 

So true!

Learning that lesson right now💪🏽

@@MamiTasha9263me too ❤

They stop talking to you and start talking about you to the ones that are close to your family,job or social circles

Yup 💪💚✞

❤ just u are paranoid, does not mean *they* are not out to get you. 😮

Very true...

She was 60

You r so right, ouch!

My EX acted like she was 17 but was 46. It was like dealing with a teenager.

The ones I know act like 5 yr olds

Say. It. For. The. Folks. In. The. BACK!!!!!! I wish us all the best

God bless you for aaying that and taking your right!

Yep. If you wait around long enough they tell on them selves.

😂😅😂👍

Wow. Sounds just like my soon-to-be ex-wife. She would start a relationship, move for them, get bored not long after moving in together, start an affair with someone else before ending her current relationship, and wash/rinse/repeat. I wasn't her first, I was unknowingly the other guy before she ended her first marriage but was already trauma bonded before finding out, and her current relationship won't be her last. The only difference was that I moved for her. She's going back to her told ways and moving for her current romantic victim as soon as our divorce is final. . .

@@nonbinarypickle - Damn. Well, good riddence. Its best to be Narc free. I wish you all the best. Trauma bonds are tough to break. Oh, and don't give an inch in your divorce. Explain to the court her NPD.

Not a clue 🤦🏾

Great point! The new supply has no clue what they are getting into, though feel it is a valuable lesson for the new party, if they make it though the cycles of abuse, they could pay it forward like you are with your well put comment. Stay alert. ‼️

You just can't I married to a covert narcissist and I walked away. It's awful

It's sad. I didn't realize how me talking positively about my son made her mad because her son is in jail

Was the same for me with narc ex husband, it was as if he was competing with me all the time and anything I did he always had an altera motive for me doing what I was doing, making it look bad. I definitely felt like his enemy…he made me out to be something I wasn’t, bad mouthed me to our daughters if we fell out…. They are evil, nasty people that will never change… problem is though, they are so good at acting, people who don’t really know them think they are wonderful.

Jesus!!! That is messed up!

Wow.. I'm not surprised! My narcissistic mom is divorcing my dad after nearly 40yrs of marriage. She has been laying bread crumbs to manipulate us into thinking our dad abuses her. He said she has been antagonizing him and breaking his things.. throwing plates at him.. to get him to freak out and hurt her... he's too smart for that but it's so gross of her to do that. I cut her out of my life. Prayers for you and your family ❤

@@justyeeeeeetit That's the best thing you can do. Life is too short to associate with miserable people

@@justyeeeeeetitoh man, i have had that "pearl clutching" so many times. They bait you into a situation then act surprised that you reacted to it

I recommend RU-vid channel DSD 💪🫂

I totally get that. I do tend to same and if I’m home I use ear buds. 😊

Man, I'm the same way . Sat in the DQ parking lot with a blizzard listening to a podcast on narcissists abuse lol.

@@NCrdwlf I feel so stressed. I hate being in the same room with him

Nope. You do what's good for you? Don't have the habit to second guess yourself? You come first

I’m kinda doing the same thing as I type this. It just recently came to me that im not as much the problem as I once thought I was and it’s hard to accept it. It’s freeing yet terrifying. I’m thinking you are in a very similiar spot as me. I wish the best for you.

If you can't switch churches, I'm sorry. I know they never let a victim go even though they will try their damnedest to pretend they have, just like they will try their damnedest to turn everyone against you. Unfortunately my last legal guaedjan was a text book narcissist, even his father said so, and eventually disowned own son and told me I was his son now for how hardcore he abused and traumatise. D Me. Kicked me out qat 18 for now h gay when all of. my blood relatives were either murdered (two of my brother's in front of me, died in my. Arms) or died from how bad conditions are on the Rez. He told everyone I was that I was white though im very clearly not, only in 2022 was it finally made illegal ro take kids from their Reservations, especially against parent's and children's will. He would beat me if I ever tried to tell anynr otherwise or about the abuse. He's would beat me so often I that I developed severe and advanced osteoarthritis at 16;; he tried to force me to be christian, nearly sa'd me, extremely verbally abusive; until recently (I'm almost 25) had horrific night terrors from how bad it was. I have constant agony from my osteo arthritis, I had. To have 17 hours so far of reconstructibe spinsl cord surgery , the condition before almost killed me; I will have to have more surgery in my mid thirties, my last surgery couldn't be finished because it. Would have paralysed my entire left side. As of now, I'm significantly weaker (I went to junior Olympics for taekwondo, I have 3 black belts. He's an ardent trump supporter, young earth creationist ( he believes the earth is 6000 years old, doesn't believe in mental illness or neurodivergence,.he genuinely believes that it's demons and only exorcisms can help, is an extreme conspiracy theorist, extremely bigoted in ebrry way, racist, fascist, nro-nazi, homophobic, transphobic, sbleist, you nsmr it... And my gay, pagan,, Indigenous, activist, socialist Democrat ass was forced to live with him. I unfortunately married a Mexican man who turned out to be s narcissist, we got divorced in under 2 yrs.. in September of last year finally thought I found someone else, he also turned out to be another abusive narcissist. Luckily my spiritual advisor has said that cycle is over, and she's very claircongnizant/other Claire's, as am I. If not for her explaining I just finished a karmic cycle, if I hadn't had that knowledge I'd be much more depressed. All 3 started bad smear campaigns, this last ex the worst of all, telling everyone who will listen that I did the things he did to me, all of which go against my culture that is everything to me, and we run in the same circles. It's horrifying, and he's literally trying to ruin my reputation, and this my job. He literally drove me insane, by the time he left right before Yule, I genuinely felt like I didn't know which way was down and which was up. Only by coming across a narccist checklist and learning of covert narcissist, especially the smear campaign... It's so easy, even with a lot of experience, to miss that your.partner is a narcissist. I warn you because even after they and you completely cut each other off, narcissists.lever let go of a grudge, especially for what's called a narcissistic.wound, which is one of the things they will hold a grudge most against, and is what you did. I tell you all of this because she is absolutely and most definitely planning on retaliation if she hasn't started already, and.she cannot and this will not ever leave you alone. Best wishes to you and.yours,.Merry Met and Blessed Be 🧙🏾 Love, solidarity, and support from the Lakȟóta O'yaté (O'yaté - Nation, People) Mitáku'ye o'yásíŋ 🧡🫱🏿‍🫲🏾🏳️‍🌈💕 M???'

Yes

Ironically enough, calling yourself an "empath" sounds exactly like something a narcissist would do.

I used what she said against her and that tactic lit her on fire. It's funny how gorilla warfare works. When I complained about her son's behavior, she would say " he's seven, what do you want from him? When she complained about him, I'd say " he's seven, what do you want from him"??😅

I feel like a museum. Hahaha...

It's cruel to revel at someone else's misfortune and demise. Dementia/Alzheimer's don't just effect the individual. That affliction effects everyone associated with them. Every family member and close friend. I've been through narcissistic abuse and have also witnessed the ravages of the aforementioned illnesses. I would never find joy in this scenario. One reason being it would create an environment where the narcissistic person can forget the harm they've caused and have other people care for them 24/7.

@@FastChargeMango True but not all narcissists even realize they are narcissists. I've noticed this more with covert or vulnerable narcs that have no idea how narcissistic they really are.

The absurdities of legal systems are just soul crashing. When I realized she was a BPD/NPD with no sense of shame nor remorse I baby-stepped to divorce and managed to get a marital agreement signed where only the apartment that I had bought was to be shared (the net value of it, after loan etc...). And luckily we don't have kids. I came up with the strategy and I had to look for the right lawyer to help me. Many lawyers were just telling me "apply for divorce, then we'll negotiate". They were totally clueless of what I had to deal with.

Lol, all 6 of these questions are exactly the same, haha.

To your questions yes people can have affairs without having sex it could involved French kissing hooter squeezing ass grabbing, even if you're not in the persons presence an emotional affair could happen I find alot of times when that happens the 2 people are texting each other expressing their feelings sending kiss emojis telling each other "I love you" when you're with someone else, even if you don't say it your brain knows how you feel

I learned the hard way that yes, there is such a thing as an emotional affair. I had no idea what it was. But long story short, it sounds like you are also having an emotional affair that more or less is on the verge of becoming a physical affair. If you love the person you're with, cut all ties and block the other guy immediately. If you have any doubts, then just break up with the person you're currently in a relationship with. It will be easier for him that way.

Lol...the fact that you even have to ask is f....p

Yes, they are cheating.