7 Signs Someone is Obsessed With You, Not Love 

What if two obsessed people fall in love? They are both obsessed with each other but it's a no good relationship and they both know it? How would you say one of them break up with the other one?

Thank you Psych2go, you get me 😊😊😊😊😊

@@MuffinlyJaimes Honesty is the BEST Policy. Only the ones in the relationship know the extent of the obsession & possible consequences of breaking up. There are help from Professional Counsellors who can guide you

418,000th View!!😁

I absolutely dodged a bullet by not marrying the person I was engaged to. This can be a very dangerous relationship to be in.

Ghost Ant how can you tell the difference?

Sunny Doodle It kinda just goes along with this video. Like, if you don’t text back quickly they freak out. They might be super clingy sometimes. They talk about marriage way too soon. They put you on this pedestal like you’re a trophy not a significant other.

Had an extremely obsessive ex and it was so suffocating, glad I got out of it but seriously it took me over a year to figure out why I felt so bad with them

come into my van I’m glad for you! I know that same suffocating feeling and it’s not fun at all

same, at least i realized it soon enough to leave them with no further harm

Pls explain. I dont understand if he... yk 😓

yikes. here i am thinking he could love me for me

@@farrzana1121 well, they like you in a specific way, meaning, they like you when you do what pleases them, and that's basically their idea of who you are, but in reality we all are humans and have downfalls and imperfections too. People who love you would accept your imperfections but ppl who don't would only like you when you're at your best :)

@@malt4249 well, depends, obviously. But loving someone is a huge thing, you have to accept and love their best and worst. People usually give up during the worst phase tho lol

@@okibye4863 well, how do you show love to the person who is at the worst phase? like we know how to show love during their best phase like complimenting them. But how to show love during the worst phase?

Saaaame!

Same also I feel like I did something wrong if I’m unanswered

glad im not alone

Same

Same girl

@@SaotomeMary do you have anxiety my boyfriend is exactly the same and always worrying about me leaving him I’m doing my research idk if he’s crazy and obsessed and I should leave now or something

Ty that was what I needed to know ( ˘ ³˘)♥

Kitsumu And, r/niceguys.

@@glenv9511 I thought Nice Guys would give everything just to have sex? It wouldn't check the 3rd point.

3. They take or give too much*

@@Cipher_Paul nah that's fuckboys

I can relate but I’ve come to realize you’ve got to love yourself as well and just as much. You’re also worthy of love. Too much attachment to another can only bring about too many expectations and in the long run, disappointments and major let down. I suggest you try to keep yourself occupied by finding something you like to do. Possibly as a hobby, or an extra skill. Focus on yourself for a change. And try a little emotional ‘spacing’ from your loved one. If he does notice the change and bothers to ask, openly tell him how you feel. No pretense, whatsoever. Say it as you feel. If he really loves you he’ll try to be there for you, otherwise he won’t. And that’s perfectly okay. Genuine Friendships I believe aren’t meant to make us feel so drained and unhappy. But whoever is meant to be yours, won’t ever make you feel unloved or inadequate. Love yourself! It’s really important. Only then can you realize and know what it is exactly YOU WANT. Good luck!

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Fr I’m disappointed in myself that’s why my last relationship didn’t last long and even now I’m doing this to someone I’m talking to. I can see that I’m the problem I need to chill

@@dicksonyurmouf5477 Ya I also did that. But then I've realised that life isn't about fighting the world, but myself. It's Me vs Me. It has always been that way. So whenever I lost control, I'd take a pause and rethink of what am I doing, and what am I supposed to. I have accepted that I'm toxic and now trying to overcome this.

Ahhh making me hate myself even more now 😫

But if their love is genuine, it will give them a needed point of you to improve their self esteem while giving them lessons about what love is like so that they can apply a similar method to themselves (this is hope more than opinion)

that's me, but im slowly learning to be better and give my partner the genuine love he deserves because i DO really really love him, but self problems bring me down I think being both obsessed AND genienly in love with someone is possible, but what counts the most is if the person is willing to change their obsessive behaviour for their partner and themselves

And thats me, i have ASPD, repressed anger and had childhood trauma made me like this

@@Peanuts76 I’m sorry to hear that love 💔.. But things WILL get better, I promise you 💖 Ik a lot of ppl say that but things really DO get better. I just hope u can hang in there ❤️❤️ Meditate or seeing a professional helps, but professionals usually only help when the person themselves is willing to 💖

@@Ispalalo yeah, im the scapegoat in my family, my old brother a doctor, he's the goldenchild, had psychopaths traits, now he's more forgiving, was lil different when he were young, he even throw a kitten from second floor, when he was like mid 20 year, he gave me violent trauma, punch me right in stomach when i was like in the high school, just because i went home late, with no talking, like i didn't have old brother..... And then my older sister, a 100 persen classic NPD, manipultive, abusive, even use all my siblings to smear campaign me, flying monkeys, manipulator, gaslighting, so sensitive towards a lil critics, sometimes so arrogant, incapable of saying i'm sorry, have no emphty at all, so sensitive towards money, Always stingy for a coins and lil cents, basically, enemy disguised as angel, she's the most toxic one eventho she hold a good job, that's why she could had any boyfriends, even when she's on late of her age (35 years old), she's so triggering to me, being highly empathetic was always enabling her toxic behaviour, i hate it why i become a highly senstive man, i easily cry when i see people hurt, been depressed alot, witnessing people suffering always made me sad..... My already passed dad was also violent eventho he's a succesful businessman, my mom a neglectful narcissist, she had mental ilness when she was young, not abusive, but certainly still make all her child like a trophy, and supply..... So toxic, only my lil brother thatt dont ever witness all the fear and violent things when my dad was still around (now he's dead) all the neglect, all the high expectations, all the manipulation made me like this..... I guess i had bipolar too, i have manic episodes and severe depression, all the CPTSD symptomps was there, it's so hard to stand up for your self and make boundaries, because how damaging all the trauma and all intermittent love fear and manipulation i suffer....

Lol

yes and most of the comments freak me out

Might be limerence

Vid is bad because they first had to define 'love', then 'obsession' and subsequently explain why the 2 concepts are mutually exclusive. They don't defend the premise of the vid title, so that's just sloppy.

​@@dekippiesip i don't think replying to my comment is the right place to discuss your opinion. but anyways, it's here, and _wow_ i never saw it that way. it's been a while since i've seen this video so I cannot say if i agree or not, unfortunately.

@Jennessa Sample Big oof. I felt that.

you can change for being a better person ^^

@@atlassample4313 Admitting to your faults is a good first step. When you do get close to someone, its worth mentioning your concerns to them, so that they can point out when you start veering into bad habits... if you don't tell them, they may not want to warn you in case you take it badly.

Yeah same

yeah me too... I've known this for a long time though and I'm really trying to fix this defect...and I think I have, at least to an extent. My partner seems much happier and relaxed (in comparison to before, not that he used completely miserable) and I'm glad I decided to confront my fault.

Bea._. Kpoptrash Same

Same here!

Same

Me too😂😂😂

same what a mood we all have hoping someone would be obsessed with us

same here

Same

Hey, it's good that you are changing for the better. I wish you good luck in it ^^

This is me too, I tend to make a joke that I am obsessed with him, which I am, but it’s only recently that I’ve noticed it as it has become an issue in our relationship. I am working on it though, and he’s working on his issues (he can be emotionally detached sometimes), but I’m just glad we’ve brought our faults to light and are now trying to manage them ☺️🙌🏻

Good for you, i still haven't found the right one yet, but realizing that you're one and trying to change is the very answer. Hope you and you're partner is doing good now!

Some 3 or 4 years from now(just in case...) let him apologise to move on if u can ...

same :(

Same.

Same 😂

Same

Same but I have a friend who is a teacher at my school.

love is patient, love is generous, love is kind and love is working on it.

@Kit Cat You're very welcome :)

@@robertzsombok7661 exactly!

Most people don't know how to love, they should teach it in schools because parents aren't always the best teachers

You encapsulated love so perfectly. I’m still learning to love, heal and accept myself completely before I go on to claim I love someone else. Pray for me yall!

Zodiacs arent even real just focus on improving yourself.

What do zoadic signs have to do with this-

@@animesimp6610 Fr imagine rejecting a good person just because of a zodiac

Don't let space racism control your life

@@SeudXe FACTS FACTS

This is so true! Many of us hate to admit the truth. What are your thoughts after watching this video?

It made me think about how many of us can misunderstand if we truly love a person, we can misjudge these feelings as obsession, lust, fondness or even a simple crush. We should take the time to really tell if what we feel really is aimed at a particular person, as a whole. Not aimed at your idea of them, their body, their reputation, money and etc. Love is love, and you'll know it, when you feel it:) Thank you for this amazing video! I love Psychology and getting the chance to explore it in this channel is wonderful

So true! I for one am fine being alone... it’s better! In my case anyway

All my life I feel I've been alone..and now that I have a relationship it is like I like her company so much that I have become obsessed over her..now we are having troubles in the relationship but I'm scared to break up!! Because I think that I'll again end up being lonely and she will find someone in no time.

Sumit Shaw Aw that’s sad. Are there (other) reasons for the break up...is it you that wants to break up?..If the answers are yes then I think you have to think real hard at life before her... were you ok with being alone? Bc, I know the hardest part is losing that person but you can’t think about her finding someone “fast”. Bc, you CAN too ;) You just really have to do what is best for *(your well-being)*

according to who 🤣🤣

Ѕhaðow Hυητεг you can’t just make up a random percentage and claim it as fact tho, this isn’t an estimate this is deadass a random ass number.

Ѕhaðow Hυητεг im a teen yeah, and someone with the username “Ѕhaðow Hυητεг” is definitely a kid too, or a weirdo, either way no judgment. and you cannot base a estimate on where u live or what you think, unless ur in them relationships, or know every single kid in the world then you cannot base this on something with no evidence

@@radsubs1808 Come on man. Look around while growing up. You'll see what I mean.

Ѕhaðow Hυητεг why are both of you acting as if i’m a 11 year old who doesn’t know shit. like bruh i know what relationship are like, i’m not saying they all prefect but you’re completely stupid if you think that this person who made up a completely random number has thought abt the estimates and facts n shuts behind it, stop bs this is just a random estimate which is 100% undeniably wrong. you literally have no reason to argue with me for asking him where he’s getting this statistic from, it didn’t involve you, or you telling me i’m a kid, or as you said “ur kid”

Same

How(sorry I never had a lover before please don't get offended)

@@lavender_milk312 do you really think people will get offended by the word "how"?

@@nenidetic because everytime I say how in the comments they attack me

I get it, its because you found someone you love and they "love" you, and now your hearing this so now you know she/he might just be obsessed. Am I right? Sorry if I'm not.

I’m very glad you did :)

I'm very proud of you!

@Sabrina Magri obsession/addiction

I can relate to that and feel the same way as you. 😅😁

YES!!!!!!

Hope you will find the right one someday

Mood

I'm single lol

felttt

Same I'm single but one thing she said i can relate that i want a romantic relationship like in movies but i don't believe in love at first sight

I am lol

Yup I am

I do some of these things ToT

Only 2 of them tho

I was relieved when the video said crushes resemble obsession at first! lol

you seem confident in your answer. if you know what you said is the truth, i think you should leave them because that aint good sis 😐

😂😂😂😂 i thought so too

dwof She actually referenced a meme, but okay.

꧁NataliaIsA_ Newb꧂ i know, i just took it more seriously

hahahahahaa "oh..youuuuuu.."

Yesss, this is so true cuz im facing this rn urghh!

NABILAH RAHIM Yikes, sorry to hear that. I’d change my phone number. If the person starts to stalk you, get a restraining order ASAP.

Shit, I've been stalked by my friend who was crushing on me before quarantine happened

Me tooo 9th sign of obsession:- they'll always make you feel that you are wrong and making issue out of small things

Damn I can relate.... 😶😑😶

I was like you, but changing 'her' with 'him'. I'm here to see whether I'm loving or just obsessing. We're not together. He's not feeling the same. I let it be now. I'm still missing him but I think we're not right for each other.

@@skryvazena6548 yeah, same situation here but she left me for her ex from 4ish yrs ago. Was left more confused and hurt than being able to move on. Its a slow process but I see it as she lost someone that would have done their best for her cause I only wanted to make the both of us happy but she left the second we weren't super lovey dovey anymore and went to someone else. Looking back on it I realize I was more emotionally there for her than she was for me and it honestly hurts.

damn you're such a good boyfriend and she should know that

@@Lieblingsmensch-un1bv 💔💔💔💔 im so sorry to hear that, but you are so strong for going through that and mature to realize she really did someone who could have given her the world. just because you 2 were not lovey dovey for a bit and she gets back with her ex for that is so selfish, arrogant, attention seeking and immature of her. you deserve the world, and if she can't even give you a city, you gotta move on and find someone else. take your time

@@Ispalalo much appreciated chief, I'm just focusing in my job now instead and it helps

Same, I'm clingy but I guess it's obsession...

@@stefanny1938 There's a difference between clingy and obsessive -- it's the amount of control you try to place over your partner and a very deep sense of fear/anger/sadness when you don't get that level of control. Clingy is just needing more attention/love than maybe an "average" person, and that can be understood and play out in a healthy way in a relationship with the right boundaries set. Some people are fine with more clingy partners and are the type to want to give some extra love to satisfy them. Clinginess can turn into obsession if you have a partner that's distant and as a result you become obsessive trying to get them to love you back. I'm clingy myself and I've probably been obsessive in previous relationships, it's about finding a partner that balances your needs and desires well with their own. Sometimes people don't mix and can bring out the worst in each other, that's all.

@@realjennyrae1304 Yeah, I mean I feel like he doesn't love more enough and I get sad sometimes, I show him so much love but I'm the one who says" I love you" the most... I feel like I'm being selfish sometimes, when he talks about his ex's before, I did get sad but I didn't say anything and i feel like I'm getting used to it ( no he doesn't talk to them anymore except one) also, he has insomnia so he stays up late a lot and I'd stay up with him until like 5am just for him. But today he went to sleep early, and I couldn't sleep and I miss him so much like I wanna text him, it feels different when he's not texting me I know I should be glad that he's sleeping early but I just miss him and I can't sleep today ugjj

@@stefanny1938 I'm in a long distance relationship and one thing we do is go to sleep together in a phone call, and maybe that could help you sleep better knowing he's there. But if you feel like you "have" to do certain things for him to like you more then there's an issue -- trust issues that could be deserved or undeserved. If something he does upsets you, tell him and talk it out. I've been in relationships where they told me I said "I love you" too much, but now I'm in one where i can say it all the time and get a happy "I love you too" back. You need to figure out what you want and communicate that, and if it doesn't work out, it's better than being in a bad relationship.

I think there’s a very clear distinction between obsessive and clingy. To be obsessive you need many if not all of these factors. I don’t think that clingy partners would over-romanticize relationships and/or only date them for status. I dunno I’m not the one with a degree in psychology but I think obsession is more in depth than clingy.

Thank you!!

Thank you!

Go outside

Right!

@karley we are all the same a bit on this point , insecurity is something that take a while to work on but it can be changed...meditation is really good to help anxiety too

@karley you need to work on yourself and know your forces if you want to become more secure.

Think, Mark think!

I only got insecure after the trust was broken soooo😬🤷‍♀️

Same

Cooking with her a lot :)

Though I can't really express my love for her But I do really love my mom Be happy always ❤️

Psych2Go ...laundry, bike ride, contacting legal assistance for my daughter, and finishing an assignment that I submitted earlier. I hope others had a fun filled day ...filled with joy +love ❤.Happy Mother's Day...everyone !

My mom died so i celebrate with my grandma ❤💓❤💓💓

me and my two mothers watched films today! we did also cook lunch together!

Same sis🤣😂😂😂😂

Me too😂😂😂

Same

I never loved someone but people liked me for some reason? And that just made my self-esteem worst so, you're lucky.

Ssammmeee

Bruh, sorry to be rude but i can sense that something is wrong with her

@@ezrairene5503 A skewed expectation based on movies because her ex boyfriends always treated her like trash on the street and tossed her aside so she started dreaming of a relationship like the movies, and it never panned out that way when I started dating her, even though I did my best to be the best she'd ever had (I was the best, but also even I still made mistakes, and she made mistakes). In the end, she was too immature and not ready for a relationship. Where as I, knew exactly what I wanted and tried my best to change for the better and work on us and improve the relationship so it lasted a long time. But here I am, miles away from her now, and heart broken..

@@DaysofKnight oh my, i feel sorry for both of you. I hope my previous question doesn't stir up any unwanted feelings.

@@ezrairene5503 It's still very fresh, barely even a month yet.. I lost my "One" so.. You didn't bring any unwanted feelings up, they haven't even left yet..

@@DaysofKnight Hopefully, it gets better for you, whatever way possible...

Holy shit, it makes sense now, idk how to leave, we’re working on things and even made a list together on what to work on but rn i’m like wow, this is plain obsessive behaviour 😭 My gut feeling be right!

AwakenWith Samah111 always listen to ur gut! honestly girl it took me years to even realize it was going on. we eventually agreed that it wasn’t going to work out n afterwards i started putting the pieces together. i also went to therapy and it really helped

I'm struggling with guilt myself from my ex. I feel like I still have to tell him things that aren't even really important because he always made me feel like I had to explain everything i did in detail. Especially if I talked to a Male. He considered it flirting or cheating. How do I move on from this???💔💔💔

Levon Sanchez I’m so sorry that you’re going thru that, what I did was to try my best to focus on myself. I know it’s hard to deal with the guilt but you’re not responsible for someone else’s insecurities! Take time to heal and constantly remind yourself that you can only be responsible for yourself❤️

Oh my goodness, I had just read this and I'm way beyond shocked of how similar my situation with you guys here. I've thought how he manipulates me by making me feel guilty about things so I would instead listen to him. I'm crying, thank you for your words. I will be doing what I should have done from my the first red flag

I hope it gets better for u! And ur mom

@@lyosha3027 Thank you

@% Holy Garanja Probably..

@% Holy Garanja Please give me some And thank you I needed to hear this, I have bad thoughts sometimes(not only because of my mum)

Maybe show her the video?

You're ON POINT about this!

Aka toxic k pop fans

Deedee yeah unfortunately. I’m part of the K-pop fandom and it makes me sad for the artists to see fans who are way too obsessed. 😔

Deedee I’m a Kpop Stan myself and this is true. There are people that are very obsessed with Kpop Idols and even stalk them

@@ameeramela-kamara6669 Those are saesangs

Watching this video made me realize a lot about my past self. I've been trying really hard to improve and now I'm falling for my best friend but trying my best to not let her know.

same

THIS!! Good job on your part. It's so important to recognize our issues and learn how to become a better person. Happy and proud to see it

I agree with you and the replies. I was dating one of my close friends and we fell apart because of me being too obsessive, I’m really worried about him and how I treated him. He’s another person, it isn’t easy and I am recovering by trying my best to learn and move on.

agreed, forced is just bad and unnatural, you can feel if that is forced or not when you try to do something in the relaitonship. with the right ones, it will feel comfortable.

There are cases where the obsession can grow to be actual love, though. For me it took time away to really assess my behavior. Even though I was broken up about it at the time, it didn't take me long to understand. Now that the other person and I are talking again I've noticed that I still have similar feelings for them, but I handle them in a healthier way; I don't get jealous of their other friends anymore, I give them the space that they need, and I don't give more than I receive like I used to. It doesn't feel forced. Not every obsessive friend/partner gets a chance to do things differently, and not all of them are able to, but I'm grateful for the second chance I was given.

Yeah, I agree with you. The things said in this video are true and right until a certain point

I think the video is not saying that the only other option is to be completely ok with being unanswered or left unread. Of course it's not a pleasant feeling but sometimes it happens because people have things to deal with in their own lives. They're talking about people who, in the most obvious/extreme case, can't absolutely stand this or have little to no tolerance for it. And still, this is clearly in a general sense. Everyone has their own unique circumstances. A person who is not obsessive will likely better be able to deal with the occasional unread/unanswered message and move on (granted if there truly is no grounds to think that their partner is actually avoiding them).

@@aries2242 fax

It's sad that some people don't believe in movie-like real life love stories..

@@kaviasizach8490 No printer 😎

These people usually are narcissists

Oh give it a rest with these buzzwords guys

Narcissism is a desirable and rewarded trait in society.

@@natureandphysics403 not really you see everyone shaming narcissists

@@siletsahar I can confirm this. I think I might be one... Edit: I watched some videos on narcissists and I just have some narcissistic qualities sometimes.

This is so true. Thanks for saying that. I'm sure it isn't only me who's been bumming myself out bc of this video.

This is exactly how I feel about it. I do realize that I became obsessive but it resulted from things not being what they used to be and me chasing how it was. That and a slew of other things. Regardless though I do realize how obsessive I was and do feel like I was lacking severely in self love and self worth which made it very hard to leave but I honestly can say I see where we both went wrong.

Thanks a lot. I wouldn't find that connection without you. The fact that she just didn't love me back as much as I loved her makes sense. I didn't want to lose her so I just became more obsessed. I have a hard time recognizing obsession from love. For me it seems like obsession is just stronger love. How can you love someone so much that you never want to lose them but at the same time not be obsessed? I just don't get that.

Honestly- the first time I’ve ever even heard those words in that order of a sentence and started crying. Over the past 4 to 5 years I constantly blamed myself for the way I am, and wowww it makes so much sense. It all started when my ex fell out of love with me 9 months into the relationship, and never told me. But I could see it in their eyes, the way they would talk to me, the way they wouldn’t even look at me. Even the way that she would look to the side when we kissed. Ahhh thank you for helping me come to this realization- of course, part of it is on me, but I think that also contributed to my obsession

Man this is my case exactly. The hard part now is that while she lost feelings and is now doing well after the breakup, I can’t imagine not having her anymore. Hard times.

super uplifting

Good luck !!!!!!

finding myself in the same situation mate, good luck for us

The first step to change or stopping any addiction, is to admit: so you are already well on your way! Good job and keep it up!! :) ;)

Amy Self :)) thank you 💕

Hey. I have the same story! And I thought maybe real relationships have no arguments at all and I stopped telling anything to avoid arguments!

well relationships dont necessarily need arguments but they also dont have to never come with one as well. if your partner and u are happy and havent had an argument, it's not smth that indicates that something is wrong, but also it's ok to have occasional healthy arguments

@@vivt.9619 yeah my comment was about the halthy arguments, he doesnt like it. He wants no argument at all

@@LeniTjahjadi I don't think anybody likes arguments but that's part of a friendship or whatever.

What the hell, immature....

how did you correct it? i'm very obsessive and it's starting to hurt our relationship. i love him, i really do but im very obsessive

🙌

Same thoo omg..just that, still working on a 'trust'..

Good on you for correcting the behavior :)

@@mysticalkatie1847 well if He said he wanted to leave and you gult Trip him then yes but if not you have a phobia

Same🤧🤧

Me, i feel bad with him. I always want to be in touch with him because we are in long distance relationship but now i realise that i am toxic and obsessed with him.

Same 😒

Sora Ryu It’s really good that you’re aware of that, kudos to you

@@fluidsings7870 Ikr? 😇

Same.. They just started matching pfps with someone. I'm dying.

@@haphephobia im so sorry bb

@@jja120 It's okie, I'm getting over it

Me too,

I feel that. Something that helps is turning off the phone and doing something YOU like to do. Take time to think about yourself, what you need to improve, how to love yourself, how to cope, etc. When the thoughts start invading, just say "whatever" or "okay Karen" (btw, for those with intrusive thoughts, this may help too).

Carton Riley literally such facts

Never had one.

i mean some people can be just very attached and insecure. you should talk with her and tell her how you feel, maybe they still love you and just have another problem.

A lot of these problems are also from previous trust issues. She may love you but is worried you dont love her back, therefore doing these things.

No

Truest comment ever

mallu🙄😜 I have seen u in mallu analyst comment box🤗

@@zeishaalex6374 പിന്നല്ലാ! Mallu analyst fan 💙

@@suushisoup so sad that obsession is marketed as true love

@@deepadcruz6483 and in recent malayalam it's potraying heavily. No I should say in Indian films. Crappy romantic drama😏

They're like rivals from Pokemon games... Red vs Blue. Ignore them and minimize contact if they keep annoying you... no other way to deal with them.

Nobody is better than anyone in look at the heart of a person that's what I love

@@keiron.4612 Well said. Everyone's important and unique

@@DarshD even abusive parents there not unique

@@keiron.4612 parents comparing children are the worst. Abusive are also bad especially drunk dads beating children for no reason

It’s me. I’m “people”

I get angry thinking about this stuff because I am always single. And everybody else never is it gets annoying. I just try to act like I don't see it.

@@ichoosemysanity6467 the trick is that most of em are unhappy too

Bpd sucks

no, some of us are women with biological clocks, dealing with an abundance of trash men who aren't mature and ready to start a family. when we see a gem, we try everything to scoop them up because they're so rare!

King of the Multiverse Forever Can relate

I mean me I just hate when they stop texting abruptly with no gtg or something

Yes, I understand too. But in the video, it tells someone obsessed becomes agressive like answer "Why don't you answer ? Am I important to you ?" in the few following minutes.

And I oop sorry bro

Can relate

That could just be anxiety. I always get super nervous when someone doesn't answer my texts...

I get you. I'm a love obsession, I don't know how that developed. But I just knew it right now, now I wanna cut offs with him. I don't know how:((

I'm also love obsessed and I ruined my relationship that way sadly

I think we've all been there......it's my first love. Then I realized that I didn't love him, I just went over to the feeling that my crush for a very long time finally noticed me(I didn't tried things to get noticed though, he went to me)..........I don't want to loose him, so I did everything(except for the texts or calls). I give everything to him, I am a one call away too.---and at the end, he ghosted me(leave without explanation).

Damn, i can't relate to you man but i really hope that you'll get the chance to apologize. I left my obsessive partner because the relationship was too suffocating, lost all of my friends and when we fought, i get upset and end up taking it out on my family. I wasn't happy and we were in an on and off relationship. (Just sharing this so that you can get an insight on the other side of things ^^)

U dont know how much i relate to this and its kind of sad. Hoping ur better!

when you realize you are not that obsessed one,that you really like him ❤️ now im more as sure

Bruh I’m too insecure to be obsessed with him and show it.

same. What helped to really assess my feelings towards my guy was too take a few days without communication. If you can do it longer, the better. I also had to re assess my behavior of neediness towards him. After U realized that I became needy, I quickly apologized. I took a few days off from communication with him as well. I was anxious all the time, though. But after a free days to a week, I realized I do love the man. All I want is his happiness, I'll give it to him freely without demanding for the same thing. Having him in my life in whichever form is enough for me. As long as I can put a smile on his face and heart