The main advice I would give is to simply be direct and honest. Tell her you are attracted to her, and it's a date, and that's that. Don't make things complicated.
why cant people just be honest about their feelings, whether you're a guy or a girl? and i think of dating as "getting to know someone". when a guy asks me to go to the movies with him, i immediately ask "is this a date?" and he gets all defensive and shady like, "what do you think?" games in dating are so ridiculous and unnecessary.
you two are so cute sometimes! I laughed the whole way through this video. pro tip from a girl: touching means nothing, it's when they constantly try to sit near you, or sit in your direct line of sight. if your hanging out one on one, check to see if she's touching her hair more then normal, constant direct eye contact is also a clue. if she's intently focused on you, there is a good chance she's into you. also Mike, I would max your "get to know you" hangouts at 4. anymore then that, then the girl will be very confused about your intentions. It would probably be better if you just called her. when a guy calls to talk, after we get over our heart attack that a guy called to talk, we understand that he really wants to get to know us, and sees this possibly having a future.
One thing I do when i'm in a relationship is I don't hangout with a guy or group of guys alone, there has to be another girl in the mix. I find it disrespectful when someone hangs out with the opposite sex alone.
I'm so happy that I am married because I don't have to worry about finding a date or a boyfriend waiting for them to call me or text me. No have to worry about real things in my life like what are we going to eat tonight or if I wash his laundry on time.
Agree about the meet and greet. I met a guy at a bar. Spent several hours playing pool and dancing. Met up a few weeks later at the same place on a whim with texting between meet and whim. He asked me to drinks this friday (tomorrow) and dinner on saturday. He used the word date. 😀😀😀
Mike! Dan! I didn't get to see you guys for your meet and greet but I was able to take a selfie with you the day before and I sat in at your panel and I just wanted to say thank you so much for being so nice and for coming to Kcon!! You guys were #1 on my list to see and I'm so grateful I was able to! Love you guys!! ♡♡
i don't use touching as an indicator either, and for the same reason! Some people might even be more hesitant to get close when they like someone, it's hard to tell
I love the jacket idea. I know that, while not all gals are like this, I personally tend to get cold easily and, more often than not, I forget to bring a second layer...especially when it is warm as I walk out the door.
This hanging out and dating thing is confusing AF! Years ago there was this dude who always i,invited me to hang out, we became good friends, and he would also often give me love advice. Then when I told him I met this other dude (following his bees and birds advice), he went bonkers! Like really bonkers and then he started making moves on me (like trying physical stuff). It's all so cray coz all of a sudden he was acting as if he was my BF when the whole time we were 'hanging out' as he calls it, he would talk about his dates and told me I should date. Crazzzzzzyyyy! He then turned creepy...kinda stalked me, spreading lies to our common friends. I had to cut him off after that. Last time I've seen the dude he was outside my gate, scared me to death! I kinda miss our hanging out sometimes but boy, that guy is cray cray haha!
Now I feel really bad, a couple years back a guy asked me to watch a meteor shower with him... I just wanted to watch cause I had never seen one, I didn't know he liked me!
oops forgot to mention just subscribed.....ok long shot here i guess lol but what do Asians think of the British ? what prompts this question was your clip regarding China and Hong Kong (i remember the day when Hong Kong was handed back to China only saw news clips at the time but it was like there was quite a few folk leaving ((It looked like it was through fear))
You guys are so funny!~ I just recently started to watch your videos and you two reminds me of Finn the human and Seung-woo Kim. Anyone told you this before? ;P
A couple weekends ago one of my guy friends asked me if I wanted to go out for dinner. I was pretty broke until the next payday but he offered to pay to go out. He knew where we were going to. And after dinner he wanted to know If I wanted to go to another place to eat. We then went and had a lighter snack, and he wanted to go get dessert after that. By then I was too stuffed for dessert, so we walked back home. The walk was about an hour. I have a hard feeling it was a date, but obviously it wasn't really labeled as anything.
How about a hanging out vs. date acid test: As yourself if you mind if your parents come. If you don't want your parents there then it's a date. If you don't care, it's hanging out.
I know some homegirls who expect the guy to pay even if it's just a hang out, espescially if its one on one, just because they're the dude. Maybe taht's why some guys always feel pressured to pay even if they don't want it to be a date :\ But for me, if I'm just hanging out with the dude I refuse to let him pay for me! I don't want him to get the wrong impression :P BUT if I do like the guy I let him pay.... kinda reversed I guess haha
A guy acquaintance asked me if he wanted to join some friends for a movie. I said who was coming. He wasn't sure but a few different people. I agreed. After we ended up at the theatre he was there alone with his friend. His friend said to me. Sorry I'm the 3rd wheel but my girlfriend couldn't come. I was like omg. this guy thinks it is a date.. so not what I wanted
So I never expect a guy to pay on a hangout. But for example I have a guy friend who always insists on paying like for everyone of his girl friends. So it's just the way he is and not Really a sign that it is a date or sth.
I'm so confused when guys ask to hang out and it's just us. Like does that mean date and I'm just supposed to know it's a date? Because I just randomly got asked to hang with a guy friend and I feel like when it's a date, they will do what you want to do, because they want you to be happy and enjoy yourself. But when we hung out it involved eating food and playing mini golf. So is that considered a date? Or? Like, what if I just want to hang? Like not a date? Why is this hard T.T
I'm from Sweden and I lived in the US for a year and a half and I ended up being on dates without knowing it was a date haha. In Sweden we don't really have a dating culture we just hang out so its very casual and its not perceived as a date so I was definately confused when I was in the US because it seemed like if you hung out with a guy alone they automatically saw it as a date
I can second that as a Swede, although there's a special problem which could creep up with hangouts and no dating culture - there's no definite start of a relationship unless you both clearly say you like each other; KK (friends with benefits) is therefore very popular as either a transition from friends to partners or just all out replacing a relationship with no-strings-attached sex.
Ok what do you guys think of this? So my friend and I hang out like every other month, and we message and text each other a good amount. So one day my phone rings and its my friend, he called to invites me to go with him to a Chinese New year party, his family was hosting. I agree and the next day I went. I was assuming that he had invited some of his other friends and it would be like a casual group thing, I was wrong. When I got there, it was all his family, and a very close family friend. I was nervous to begin with, having not been prepared in the slightest. I wondered why he invited me to a family party, when he had many other close friends that he had known longer than me that he could have invited. I wanted to ask, but I didn't ask ( probable should have asked :U) When it was nearing the end they were getting ready to take the family picture, then he and his mom told me to get in the picture with them. So yah, what do you guys think of that? Over all the party was super fun, lots of games n stuff, great time, 10/10 would recommend. If you read this comment on this 2 year old video, id love your feed back.
Hanging and dating is not much differences! Not for me " because hanging out is like taking things slow or going whit the flow " or is a " lets see what happens "! and the word " Dating is more committed and planning a future together ! So yeah ' .
Please elaborate over what it means when a guy wants to split a check! If a guy want to split the check then I'm assuming he just wants to hang out as friends. If he's romantically interested I would think he would pay the tab.
I imagine you would have more fun with your potential partner if you treated the "date" as a "hang out". It would be nicer to organise a dinner with the potential partner rather than alone, I would personally feel offended if someone else decided everything for me >.>. King of the Hill used this in one of its' episodes. It's more natural to just be with the person you want to be with, why would you want to control everything? Just let it happen.
Autumn Fink You can have friends but not hang out with them. Could be work friends or maybe they moved someplace or something. Close female friends though, probs not.
Wow...teddy bear stuff is they want a date?! ...:s I feel sick...Question: If its like "how did you know I like panda express?" Is that stalker? That's stalker right? Well...now I know for next time that happens.
