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Things That Make Guys Instantly Hot, How to get out of the Friend Zone 

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@KimJunia209
@KimJunia209 9 лет назад
Dan is uhm. .. kinda my Internet crush but i also love Mike's personality too. Yall are also very funny :)
@TheChenDynasty
@TheChenDynasty 9 лет назад
KimJunia209 awwww Thanks :-)
@tugcekabakci6745
@tugcekabakci6745 9 лет назад
+KimJunia209 Dude same thing here. Dan's cheeks are so beautiful and i dunno why but I actually like the yeshape and the freaking accent. To me Asian men> Others Is something wrong with me? Anyway Im cool with it.
@tugcekabakci6745
@tugcekabakci6745 9 лет назад
+C Zel meh it might be true. Goddamn kpop stars. they brainwashed me. still, no regrets. /\ /\ ฅ( ̳• ·̫ • ̳ฅ) \\ \\
@kortneymenikos8517
@kortneymenikos8517 8 лет назад
Same!! ugh, it's crazy. We can pine together lol jk
@dontcallmelil8619
@dontcallmelil8619 8 лет назад
I'd date a guy who is his height, even shorter, as long as he is in proportion, weight wise.
@ggideonsilva
@ggideonsilva 9 лет назад
I find men EXTREMELY attractive if they can play classical music on a violin or piano. I don't like hot guys, but I like cute guys.....
@ihategoogle2382
@ihategoogle2382 9 лет назад
Gabriella Gideon-silva YES!! The cello is my instrument of choice
@bluerose9201
@bluerose9201 9 лет назад
i agree
@SeonTheNeon
@SeonTheNeon 8 лет назад
Everyone seems to think that Pianists are sexy... Why am I not sexy?! ;-; Lol.
@navin4984
@navin4984 7 лет назад
Give me an example of what a cute guy is versus what a hot guy is
@jlin592
@jlin592 7 лет назад
I like cool guys, not hot guys....
@NTDOffTheGreatWall
@NTDOffTheGreatWall 10 лет назад
THIS CHANNEL IS AWESOME!!!! EVERYONE SHOULD SUBSCRIBE!
@IcyShard1001
@IcyShard1001 10 лет назад
Already have...
@TheChenDynasty
@TheChenDynasty 10 лет назад
Thanks :-)
@DanaWang
@DanaWang 10 лет назад
i am from australian and i love the american accent!! i like strong guys with six packs not only for the aesthetics but because it shows they take care of themselves, have a goal and also are interested in fitness. haha mike's escaping friendzone story and how he purposely puts himself in the friendzone! but i agree with how being in a relationship with your best friend is the best thing since you already share similar interests and know so much about each other. i enjoy 3D movies! i'm going to be cautious around asian horror movies from now on! that movie mike saw sounds scary already to me! anyway i love the doublechen segments, i watch it for a good laugh :D keep it up!!
@Puppyjans
@Puppyjans 10 лет назад
wow just seen your you tube channel its great :))
@DanaWang
@DanaWang 10 лет назад
thank you! :D
@Puppyjans
@Puppyjans 10 лет назад
YourBeautyPig Love your videos shows that you spent loads of time making them im watching the airplane food ones made me hungry
@DanaWang
@DanaWang 10 лет назад
i appreciate it :) although airplane food is only so so xP
@Puppyjans
@Puppyjans 10 лет назад
its great love it seeing new stuff and your camera works great i love airplane food the whole flying thing is so much fun
@aurelialucinus744
@aurelialucinus744 8 лет назад
"has a six pack" *starts thinking about Taeyang*
@faadumocabdulahi3935
@faadumocabdulahi3935 8 лет назад
omg yes he's short but hlbuffffffff
@awqs34
@awqs34 7 лет назад
KarKar MuddaPuckar lol yep tho!😂😂
@KawaiiBear17
@KawaiiBear17 9 лет назад
I'm a short girl, and I started noticing that every time one of my friends likes someone, my other friends ask "is he tall?" EVERY TIME. it kinda annoyed me cause as a short girl (not that I don't like tall guys but) I know what it feels like to be constantly reminded about my short stature so I feel empathy for short guys. I have a crush on someone who is short (about my height) but I don't think girls should judge based on height cause TALLER IS NOT HOTTER #ShortPeoplePride 😂😂
@Simonthecat88
@Simonthecat88 9 лет назад
KawaiiLizetti17 I don't get it too. I'm not even a short guy but... like.... the guy can be UGLY AS F**CK, but if he is tall it's okay, he's fine. Like what ?!?! Facial features or personality don't count ?!?! I don't get why it's so important for some girls, like if they want to feel protected or some bullshit like that, why don't they date Slenderman ? But don't feel insecure about your height girls, most guys LOVE short women (myself included). I only had crush on petite women (around 5'2). I don't really know why... it's the small hands, feet, "doll" appearance, I just like it. And wherever you're curvy or thin you'll look good, while a tall girl would look like a horse or a skeleton so really... be proud of yourself and how you look. #shortgirlsaredabomb
@lizettedayana
@lizettedayana 9 лет назад
+Simonthecat88 Haha a short girl (Me) and tall guy don't understand the topic that supposedly "affects us" LOL I don't find tall guys unattractive but that doesn't make them attractive. I don't know why girls feel "protected with a tall person" like if anything a short person would be great to hide with :D haha but if you're a great guy it doesn't matter what's your height. I do know that NOT ALL tall guys are cocky and take advantage of this, in fact most probably don't. But I wish some girls weren't so oblivious ;-;
@maggiebuchanan9369
@maggiebuchanan9369 8 лет назад
I think what makes a guy loveable is if he's funny.......someone who makes me laugh is very attractive to me.
@MrAndreygrigoras
@MrAndreygrigoras 9 лет назад
you guys are awesome...keep up the good work and stay cool....btw i am gonna tell about your chanel to everyone ..you deserve more atention and publicity (sorry for the bad english,,not a native speaker)
@TheChenDynasty
@TheChenDynasty 9 лет назад
Andrey Grigoras thanks :-)
@SaranghaeJess
@SaranghaeJess 10 лет назад
I used to be really attracted to tall guys but a few years ago my taste in men completely changed because I became interested Korean pop culture. I found myself starting to be attracted to Asian guys when I had never been attracted to them before! Some of the Asian guys that I was attracted to weren't tall; eventually height no longer was a physical attribute that mattered (it helps that I am only about 5'2). Also, I think playing the piano is extremely attractive, I would say it's in the top three instruments I consider "hot"...guitar, piano and drums. P.S. Just stumbled upon your channel today; subscribed ;)
@TheChenDynasty
@TheChenDynasty 10 лет назад
SaranghaeJess thanks for subscribing to this craziness :-)
@aronk001
@aronk001 8 лет назад
what? i'm korean and i love nigerian/kenyan accents. i also like east asians accents, especially when they speak engrish. it's so cute and adorable.
@LeviAckerman-ou4sm
@LeviAckerman-ou4sm 9 лет назад
Tall guys are handsome? Have you *seen* Levi? *cough cough* AttackonTitan *cough cough*
@SasukeUchiha-vb2vy
@SasukeUchiha-vb2vy 9 лет назад
Edward Elric
@LeviAckerman-ou4sm
@LeviAckerman-ou4sm 9 лет назад
*distant crying*
@valentina1227
@valentina1227 9 лет назад
lol yeah but we are anime fans. no real humans are attractive enough for us we only study physics to find a way to get sucked into the anime world.
@LumerasLight1201
@LumerasLight1201 9 лет назад
Yep Levi's hot!
@annettechu71
@annettechu71 9 лет назад
Levi Ackerman YES
@bluezero8557
@bluezero8557 8 лет назад
the only way i'd appear hot to a girl is if i was set on fire
@heic1971
@heic1971 8 лет назад
+Tj Chapman good luck.
@joec.743
@joec.743 8 лет назад
+Tj Chapman you're a funny guy!
@bluezero8557
@bluezero8557 8 лет назад
Joe Chan thanks :D. but being set on fire would't be romantic at all
@juliettemilz1406
@juliettemilz1406 8 лет назад
Bultareunae! (?)
@RONANAWAY
@RONANAWAY 8 лет назад
+Joe Chan Yea. Being a funny guy on fire won't help much in the romance department
@JoshLathamTutorials
@JoshLathamTutorials 9 лет назад
When it comes to accents, it really depends on where you are and personal experience/preference. For example, I live in Britain and when asked I don't think anyone here would say that the most attractive accent for them is the British accent. I personally like any accent that is different, something that's a change from what I have to listen to everyday.
@TheMuschenna
@TheMuschenna 9 лет назад
I am 5'8, blond ,blue eyed, German girl. I travel all over the world and found Asian man to be the sexiest of all man. I can care less if your short or tall, pardon my rudeness, but laying down we are all the same height. LOL
@heic1971
@heic1971 8 лет назад
ummm... you pick and choose girls, girls pick and choose you, you mad a tall, hot blonde doesn't go out with you, but you chose her because was tall, blonde and looks to the standard of beauty.
@roselily9036
@roselily9036 8 лет назад
+Hei C yeah he was being a hypocrite
@RONANAWAY
@RONANAWAY 8 лет назад
But then again, we all do that. We are all hypocrites
@devine4501
@devine4501 8 лет назад
Hei C
@chubbychicana
@chubbychicana 10 лет назад
You guys are so much fun to watch and listen to! I am so glad you made a channel just for you two! I especially love Mike omg he just seems like such an amusing guy and someone I see myself getting along with and laughing all the time. I've been watching your otgw videos ever since like last year and I watched all the other members channels. You two are my favorite though. Mike too funny lol
@TheChenDynasty
@TheChenDynasty 10 лет назад
haha yea come hang out with us in NYC, especially if you like food, Mike is the BEST person to hang out with :-)
@KawaiiWeebTrashDesu
@KawaiiWeebTrashDesu 8 лет назад
I have to say piano or a string instrument is THE MOST sexiest instruments in my opinion Like DAMN those fast fingers, mM
@mariematthews7571
@mariematthews7571 8 лет назад
I like people who play the classic piano
@kortneymenikos8517
@kortneymenikos8517 8 лет назад
A cute cultured Asian man playing classical piano? Sorry fellas but....datz hawt. If I were a little braver I'D ask him out!
@Saya_562
@Saya_562 8 лет назад
+Marie Matthews I feel the exact same way!!
@kortneymenikos8517
@kortneymenikos8517 8 лет назад
Right!?!
@taylormarie8612
@taylormarie8612 8 лет назад
me2⃣
@CamillaChu
@CamillaChu 10 лет назад
I simply love watching these two guys. Educational and entertaining. Perfect combo!
@TheChenDynasty
@TheChenDynasty 10 лет назад
CamillaChu thanks :-)
@flamequeen6
@flamequeen6 8 лет назад
I love classical music and don't look at height as much as I'm short. I don't see how no one is dating either of you because you both are good looking =)
@flamequeen6
@flamequeen6 8 лет назад
forgot to say different asian accents are amazing
@shoganflamemasta3975
@shoganflamemasta3975 8 лет назад
I didn't knew you had a food channel, i'm subscribing right now, i'm really interested in learning asian cooking, well not only asian, i love a lot of different foods. Also, why do i see mostly Mike in the thumbnails of the channel? Does he runs the channel alone? Guess i'll find out now
@Forever_is_a_long_time
@Forever_is_a_long_time 10 лет назад
One could totally win me over with playing classical piano! And both you guys are taller than me sooo ;) My chinese boyfriend, who was born and raised in china before he came to norway to study, has the most awesome chinese accent ever!
@TheChenDynasty
@TheChenDynasty 10 лет назад
Finally we are taller than someone :-)
@Julia-yx6cn
@Julia-yx6cn 10 лет назад
Wow you guys are amazing... I'm from NY ... and I am a huge fan! I can't wait to see more videos!
@CarlosAlbertoRotyBR
@CarlosAlbertoRotyBR 9 лет назад
I searched for Double Chen on my podcast app, but I didn't find anything related to your channel. How is the podcast channel called? Is it Double Chen? Because I can`t find it. I love your videos! Regards from Brazil :)
@Orthanderis
@Orthanderis 8 лет назад
Classical piano is super attractive to me, guitar not so much. Guitar is only popular because you can show it off around campus, hard to haul a piano around with you.
@claudia_chang
@claudia_chang 10 лет назад
I love these!~ So excited for the new channel!
@TheChenDynasty
@TheChenDynasty 10 лет назад
yay!!!
@BAdventures
@BAdventures 8 лет назад
Haha good discussion. I'm in Australia, glad girls liked your accent. People often like what is different. Also we watch a lot of American TV, movies, and music. So kind of like subconscious thinking: American accent = Hollywood movie star. Thumbs up =)
@BenSandersSaysHello
@BenSandersSaysHello 8 лет назад
Hey guys, this is a great topic! One thing that a lot of the guys I know talk about in relationship talks is "how do I find the right woman?" And it's kind of funny to hear these bad "one size fits all" relationship advice. The only response I can ever think of for the "right woman" question is to not focus on finding the right woman, but being yourself and being the right man, because then the "right woman" will gravitate to you. Sorry about the rant just wanted to put my two cents ties to your "be yourself" comments. Great video guys!
@deanavang
@deanavang 7 лет назад
This video is so hilarious! Obsessed with you guys and your channel!! ❤️❤️❤️
@marlstarl8791
@marlstarl8791 8 лет назад
AAAAAH THE URGE TO FIX THAT HAIR STREAK THAT POPS UP WHENEVER MARK TURNS HIS HEAD IS KILLIIIIIIING ME!!!!
@GothMsFrizzle
@GothMsFrizzle 9 лет назад
Height doesn't bother me, I do think talent is sexy (particularly singing, or playing piano or guitar), I like almost any accent (all Asian accents included, but specifically Korean, Chinese, and Thai)...but, honestly, does ANY girl care about this stuff if their personality is crap? I mean, that's what matters, right? I think the stuff like being good with kids, being open minded, kind, sensitive, caring, and respectful is so much more important.
@Mogamishu
@Mogamishu 9 лет назад
Amanda Howard: Lie. "Height does not bother me" is code for, "I have a preference for tall guys and I have only ever dated tall guys, but I am going to pretend not caring about height, to avoid seeming superficial and shallow". You have probably only dated tall guys your whole life. Girls who only date tall guys always say they do not care about height, to avoid seeming superficial and shallow. If height really does not bother you, you would have backed up your claim by giving examples of the short guys you have dated. A girl who only dates tall guys, obviously cares about height and prefers guys to be tall. You did not say anything about dating short guys, because you have never dated a short guy and you never will. You can come up with all sorts of excuses, that the short guys you had crushes on, never liked you back, but naturally all the tall guys you liked, all liked you back, which is the reason you dated them. There is no credibility behind your claim that you do not care about height, and you are just yet another superficial, shallow, heartless, narrow-minded, dishonest girl who only dates tall guys, and pretends not being care about height. Oh yes, you once had a crush on a short guy in high-school.
@GothMsFrizzle
@GothMsFrizzle 9 лет назад
Someone Else ....I've actually never dated anyone. Why are you being so mean and rude? You judged me without knowing anything about me. I've been attracted to lots of short guys, as I'm extremely attracted to Asian guys and I'm almost five foot nine inches tall. Many of them are around my height or shorter. I honestly don't think that height is a big deal. It says nothing about who a person is. Thank you for insulting me and making me feel like shit. I'm sorry if you're a short guy who has been rejected by girls because of that, that's a pretty crappy reason. But, based on how you just treated me, it may have been more because of your judgmental personality.
@seralee883
@seralee883 9 лет назад
Mike made me laugh till tears I really enjoy them togheter Dan is everyone's internet crush, tehehehe!
@BitchCanCook_Official
@BitchCanCook_Official 7 лет назад
I recently found your show and have been binge watching episodes out of order for a few days now, You guys are so funny. This is the first video I've decided to comment on because so many things you said in the beginning are just so against my preferences.. First one, Tall guys being handsome?? I'm only 5' tall so pretty much anyone is taller than me, but I have always preferred guys under 5'10.. You have no idea how happy I am that the guy I'm currently dating is my same height! I love being able to hug him and look directly in to his eyes, rather than breaking my neck. I do have to agree that being talented does help but that's not based on someones height, That's no matter what. Being well trained in anything from a musical instrument to woodworking skills, I consider sexy because it shows a creative mind. Dan, just because general society doesn't consider piano a sexy instrument, isn't a bad thing. That simply means part of what makes you attractive weeds out the girls who likely wouldn't have much in common with you. Accents, They happen to be a weakness for me and yes it's pretty much any accent, Including Asian ones! I have a friend with a very thick Chinese accent and my knees get weak when I hear him talk. I believe that stems from my childhood crush on Bruce Lee,lol. So Dan, I'm sorry you're wrong it is absolutely not only two accents that are sexy, Most of them are. You are both very handsome men, Keep being awesome!
@PajYolanda
@PajYolanda 10 лет назад
OMG!!!! You guys are so cute & silly, yet at the same time...most of the things you guys mention here in this video are so true..btw i enjoy watching the video...looking forward next video lol :D
@maxwellproctor1095
@maxwellproctor1095 9 лет назад
I'm the girl in the situation, and I have the biggest crush on a guy, but we're close friends, and I don't want to ruin it. I also don't know if they like me, and society states that I can't ask him! It sucks!!!
@SamanthaChinAYS
@SamanthaChinAYS 9 лет назад
poor Crimson
@chuggaa100
@chuggaa100 9 лет назад
Just ask him. Who cares about society?
@JoyofSatanTestimonial-nm4hu
@JoyofSatanTestimonial-nm4hu 9 лет назад
I agree with TheAsianPlaysGames, ask him... who cares? If he doesn't, he doesn't. Most guys though go after looks, not personality, most guys anyways. I would say about more than 80%, so if you have the looks (if you're hot), then they will like you, REGARDLESS, but you don't sound very confident... I don't think you're a hottie... lol. You got to be CONFIDENT and KNOW you're good enough, if you don't. You won't have a chance... I think girls though, on the other hand, go after PERSONALITY, this is where guys and girls differ... How many times have I seen a fat ugly looking dude hook up with a hottie, but the hot girl totally DOGGED out the man with the beautiful face, "sigh" I've seen this happen too many times (trust me, I know, I'm bisexual)... Just look at Elliot Rodger for example (if you don't know who he is, type his name in the youtube search bar), VERY GOOD LOOKING GUY, more so than 90% of the guys out there, but couldn't get laid worth of shit and went on a killing spree because of it. My point is, girls go for personality, guys go for looks. Although, I have encountered a few butterfaces (everything is hot, BUT the face Lmao!) that were pretty damn hot, they had the personality, so over all... I really think it's the way you carry yourself that will win over a guy... If you have a cute face hot body, or a hot body ugly face (but with a attractive personality), then you're good to go... or both, even better, but if you don't have neither of these, good fucking luck, because you're going to need it, best advice I have for you is start working out, JOG, EXERCISE, ect. ect. And if all of that fails, then move onto Plan C, put a roofie in the mother fucker's drink while he's at a party or alone, then he's allllllllll yours, LMAO!!!!!!! (Jokes! Joking... don't take that last piece of advice, it was a joke, lmao)
@chuggaa100
@chuggaa100 9 лет назад
Crimson Graphite So what happened? Id like an update
@euphievalentine5827
@euphievalentine5827 9 лет назад
Crimson Graphite im a guy so you know that first. i dont know anything about your situation 1. some guys might not want to date. that was me. i didnt feel i had enough time and i just avoided flirting. i even knew a girl liked me and i liked her and didnt do anything. (so has he dated before?, do u think he'd date a girl at the current place he's in? 2. you can try to be flirty with him if you want to hint. just be happy, nice, smily, idk. just be happy around him 3. and if you dont know about his dating life, you could ask him what he thinks of dating? like idk, somehow try to hint to him and lastly i feel bad i didnt date said girls in my time in school. like i feel bad for them specifically cuz i feel they were let down. but i just wasnt ready to date, way too busy and i didnt feel mature emotionally either. wasnt ready for it and i was a coward
@danielm1729
@danielm1729 10 лет назад
Guys, just to let you know your link from OTGW goes to A non-existant channel called "doubonchenshow" so you need to manually type in the correct spelling to get here!
@NTDOffTheGreatWall
@NTDOffTheGreatWall 10 лет назад
yea saw that :-( we can't spell
@Thatsprettiemuchit
@Thatsprettiemuchit 9 лет назад
I have negative associations with British/Australiany accents and find them annoying. One the other hand, I think a subtle Asian accent is quite charming and gives me confidence when approaching a person with such an accent. Even if someone's accent is so bad that they are struggling to speak English, I find it endearing because it calls attention to the effort they are putting in to communicate with you. I used to be close friends with a Korean guy and one of the most charming things about him to me was his accent.
@pinkrubato
@pinkrubato 10 лет назад
I just got to know your channel! And i'm so glad i did cuz YOU GUYS ARE HILARIOUS HAHAHAHA. Yall made my day and i look forward to more videos from yall! Thanks for the awesome videos! :)
@TheChenDynasty
@TheChenDynasty 10 лет назад
pinkrubato awesome! thanks for the kind words :-)
@Samantha9001
@Samantha9001 10 лет назад
In NZ people fawn over American accents too. It's interesting to hear that the Australian accent is so popular in the U.S. Since NZ and Australia are so close in proximity both sides don't get excited over the other's accent at all.
@TheChenDynasty
@TheChenDynasty 10 лет назад
NICE!!! we should def move to aus or NZ!
@dandee8753
@dandee8753 10 лет назад
Automatically "more" attractive at first glance or outer appearance? People who shower, clean, little to no cologne. Flat stomach is great, don't care for ripped stomach. Healthy and confident yet humble. Nerds, athletic are nice too. Casual and a good friend, yet would have enough courage to ask me out, eventually, but would actually take the time to get to know me first. A good friend would be someone who would turn into friends with "benefits" which turns into a long term relationship. If you guys want a long term relationship you have to be a solid friend first.
@morganflannery3681
@morganflannery3681 9 лет назад
The only reason I want a tall guy is because I'm fairly tall myself. ( 5'7" ) The shortest I would date is 5'9", so I'm not all " oh if you're under 6' goodbye " like, no. But I want them to be taller than me. Also, I find the piano 10x hotter than the guitar, so you keep rocking, Dan.
@lanbao2010
@lanbao2010 9 лет назад
As a girl, I do agree about playing sports being attractive, but as I grow older it's more because the guy is actually being physically active and will be healthier as a result rather than anything intrinsic to the sport itself. Yes, muscles are nice, but they represent that he's not going to keel over and die of inactivity. We want to live long lives with you - you're already behind on the average lifespan, so guys pick up your sports or physical activity please! I totally agree on how to get out of the friendzone though... You've got to risk it and it's true for both men and women. Sometimes they just don't know you're interested so you have to be super honest.
@AlitaRios
@AlitaRios 10 лет назад
Hi guys! I'm from Argentina and I can tell you I love when my boyfriend speaks chinese, but I love even more when he speaks this cute argentinian spanish :) Plus he's tall and plays the guitar. And bonus: he's got a sexy beard :) Love ya guys, always a pleasure watch your videos
@TheChenDynasty
@TheChenDynasty 10 лет назад
thanks :-)
@TheBunnyhyde
@TheBunnyhyde 10 лет назад
I'll admit having male friends can be a tricky thing but I've had many in the past (both successful and unsuccessful) and will continue to try foster the friendships as they rewarding and provide certain aspects that female friendships just don't have. Plus, yes to all those superficial things about making yourself more attractive. They would all work on me, I like arrogance and modesty and good looks and not-good looks and talent and the talentless... maybe it's just me but I can be attracted to people for the most mundane and un-obvious reasons. Such as the Double Chen, one Chen is better looking than the other, but the other one has endearing qualities the good looking one doesn't have. So if I were to try quantify the both of you, both would be equally appealing ;)
@Alana8480
@Alana8480 8 лет назад
"She didn't want to upset the short guy?" LMAO
@thegpshowtheshow
@thegpshowtheshow 6 лет назад
Love the show! PLEASE KEEP MAKING IT
@jynngr
@jynngr 9 лет назад
Honestly for me I would never date someone I just met... We would have to be friends or AT LEAST have had several good conversations! I mean for me personally, I think it is stupid (sorry) to date someone who just randomly asks you out with out knowing anything about you! Also if they are asking you out just because of superficial things i find it not even worth my time! It is fine if they like your looks or whatever, but that should NOT be the only reason why they want to date you. Also, only trying to be someones "friend" so you have a better shot at them (romantically speaking) is wrong. What they said should be the norm! When you are friends and maybe you try dating, it doesn't work out and you go back to being friends. That is real friendship. If you have all these other ulterior motives behind the facade of being friends then if you try dating and it doesn't work out then you have no more motivation for being their "friend." If they really appreciated you as a friend then they will probably feel hurt. --Sorry for my rant.
@elliechen9586
@elliechen9586 8 лет назад
Totally agree! Why do people just go on dates with potential serial killers?!
@edwardjoel1970
@edwardjoel1970 8 лет назад
+Gplv AJ Thank you. The only times I've gone on a date with someone, they ended up to be sexist or elitist or some kind of annoying bullcrap. I learned that it's a necessity to be friends with someone before I consider going out with them. And I also know that even if your friend is attracted to you, it's possible to stay friends. I actually had a friend who was drunk and kissed me. And I was completely fine. We didn't go out, but we continued to be friends because that's how I felt about him.
@nofybn7794
@nofybn7794 6 лет назад
Good conversations? I don't "need" to be friends. That would be worse, it would ruin the friendship but I agree. I need a few conversations or like see them at school or work. I won't date a total stranger like met in a bar or something.
@WillBurns
@WillBurns 7 лет назад
*Getting Out Of The Friend Zone 101* The things that define the friend zone are usually that you are a friend (obviously) but also - the emotional support. They depend entirely on the fact that you are always sitting on the bench waiting on them. Overly nice, eager to please, sensitive, nice, caring, and all those things their boyfriends can't seem to manage. But they'll be attracted to the assholes/jerks constantly for exactly the same reason outlined in the video here. Because they are basing their decisions on those superficial reasons, and think that a "bad boy" is just a fixer-upper and they can "fix them". So how to get out of the friend zone is simple: 1. They're attracted to the assholes with confidence. So learn to tell them no, and be a little bit of an asshole. Apathetic to their cause and uninterested in listening to their drama. Take control of the situation and act like they can step up or step out, because they aren't the center of your world. 2. Know when to be polite and treat them like a lady, and know when to treat a woman like an object. Every woman on earth will object to objectification and that "brute" primal thinking/acting, but the proof is in the pudding. Look who they're dating instead of you. Ladies, don't even try to deny it. Alpha male wins, even if you'll never openly admit it. Because when asked, you'll describe your ideal man as that guy you've friend-zoned, and then immediately date the opposite. Actions speak louder than words. 3. Don't be a total asshole/jerk. Just know when to wear the facade and give women the impression they have something to change/fix about you. 4. Take it or leave it. The bad boys act like women are a dime a dozen and are confident. If she isn't into you, it's her loss and she can/will be easily replaced. Again, ooze confidence. If you act insecure, she'll never give you a chance. see also: Alpha male mentality. If you learn to _emulate_ those asshole bad-boys and it still doesn't work - she's just not into you and you can move on.
@HAVgiraffe
@HAVgiraffe 6 лет назад
So glad I discovered this channel
@americanfairy
@americanfairy 10 лет назад
Awesome video! I'm definitely going to subscribe.
@TheChenDynasty
@TheChenDynasty 10 лет назад
americanfairy thanks :-)
@midnightsantaful
@midnightsantaful 9 лет назад
Mike looks a bit like Jackie Chan :D
@maryhie7724
@maryhie7724 8 лет назад
Most of women love tall guys because we feel more protect and sicure. The instrument is just an another point to make him more hotter and for me it's just like cool. I found Asian accent more cute and hot ahaha. Love you x
@JoleneLin78
@JoleneLin78 9 лет назад
haha aww the Chinese accent is sooo cute! and guys who plays the piano well is attractive, and the guy on the left (Dan?) has cute dimples! but yes, height matters. not sure about the accent though. (I live in UK). Food junkies are attractive! Geography matters. :D
@aisukurimu
@aisukurimu 10 лет назад
I am from New York. I actually believe in being friends first before you move on to a relationship. I have to agree with Mike, nothing beats being in a relationship with your best friend! My current boyfriend is my best friend and we started as friends! I believe in getting to know the guy before you commit into a relationship. I think this prevents personality surprises and lets me know before hand what kind of person I am dating. I do not believe in love at first sight. (That only exist in movies!) Thanks for sharing this video with us!! Looking forward to more videos!
@TheChenDynasty
@TheChenDynasty 10 лет назад
Jenny H. awesome! happy for you!
@JariSatta
@JariSatta 10 лет назад
Easiest way out of the friend zone is to kick her out of my life
@debb0r
@debb0r 10 лет назад
For me as a girl, height is very important. Only because I'm 183, and quite big(boned, not just fat but also big). It wouldn't look weird if someone was only smaller in frame but taller than me, but when someone is both smaller in frame and shorter than me, it would look weird. Sure, when in love nothing matters, but still ..
@agathagrace109
@agathagrace109 10 лет назад
As an asian girl living in an asian country, I'm considered taller than the other girls and you know what? Asian guys here hated it! They find taller girls as not cute enough and kinda intimidating for them Also, no matter how slim you get, you're always considered big! Moreover, when you work out, you're considered more manly than the guys! And for the record, yeaaaa I hate all those short cute asian girls. Lol
@xulyurui2389
@xulyurui2389 10 лет назад
剛好我都很喜歡 不管高矮 健康建美好就好
@ariellee6766
@ariellee6766 10 лет назад
Your advice about the friend zone is SPOT. ON. SPOT ON. You guys are awesome. - From a girl
@metalsatsu
@metalsatsu 9 лет назад
That's really funny. When I was in the Philippines, you need to be in the friend zone before you can officially date a girl. Getting to know each other first before actually trying it's like the basic step. Asking a girl out without being friends first also work. But it usually just work for the attractive guys. So when I went to America when I was turning 20, I already mastered "The Art of Friendzone". Yeah.. It did not work out for me at all for my first year. I always wonder why my "Friend Girl" always have an excuse when I asked them out. And the worst part is they always talk to me about other guys. The fact that they never listen to my advice anyway is like the kick in the nuts. But ofcourse, once I figured out that you need to skip the friend zone in order to get a date, that's when things started getting better.
@Seiaeka
@Seiaeka 8 лет назад
Both of these men are beautiful, amazing, talented and intelligent. I wish I were even a fraction of a percent qualified to approach guys like them.
@jorgemartinez6456
@jorgemartinez6456 4 года назад
"You kno you shood go out with me" 😂😂 i love your videos
@xstaticxstatic
@xstaticxstatic 10 лет назад
Just found your channel you guys are very entertaining :) I prefer being friends with a guy before dating him, I just feel more comfortable that way.
@chanthasok7171
@chanthasok7171 10 лет назад
Both of you are awesome!!!! Love the talk!!!
@TheChenDynasty
@TheChenDynasty 10 лет назад
thanks!
@KennethLyVideography
@KennethLyVideography 8 лет назад
I'm one of those people that can't get emotionally invested in people unless I really get to know them first. So the "friend zone is always inevitable".
@nickelastic3026
@nickelastic3026 Год назад
i keep returning to these videos. miss these 2 together
@MrEmichan
@MrEmichan 8 лет назад
piano is sexy
@Roescoe
@Roescoe 7 лет назад
Yeah!
@shirleyjong9882
@shirleyjong9882 9 лет назад
I really love to listen to u guys! *Love from Singapore*
@emilypostma5395
@emilypostma5395 9 лет назад
As a fellow classical piano player...I would love that. As a girl who's 5'11"...yeeahh I like tall guys. But I love this episode, you guys crack me up. And as someone learning Chinese... I like your Chinese accent impressions..:')
@venuslove-i1v
@venuslove-i1v 8 лет назад
I'm particularly short myself...I hate guys that are too tall because I feel like I have to stand on my tip toes to kiss him. And then compared to him, people think I'm his little sister. lol To add, I think shorter guys are not as arrogant. I once was into a tall guy when I was young, but he was so arrogant and full of himself when I got to know him. And all the other ones I knew were this way too. BTW, piano is VERY sexy. Any man that can play an instrument is sexy...unless he plays the trombone... And I disagree that men and women can't be friends. If they are absolutely unattractive to each other, it is possible. I dress really boyish to the point most men think I'm butch. lol Most of my guy friends have told me they only see me as a friend. Only two have actually really liked me. It depends on how that person carries themselves. Also, women will make you a friend.
@juslitome
@juslitome 9 лет назад
Haha as a short girl, I'm very sensitive to height differences. I actually appreciate your shorter than ideal guys a lot more than really tall ones. 6 ft was my cut off. Anything above that is a shallow deal breaker for me cause I just don't like the disparity in height...makes us look mismatched. I actually would prefer guys in the 5'6 - 6' range. For that reason, tall guys don't make me go gaga.
@elteeteeyo4630
@elteeteeyo4630 10 лет назад
y'all are hilarious. I was thoroughly entertained
@bfranklin69
@bfranklin69 9 лет назад
Athlete one is definitely true. I'm a huge geek-loves gaming, anime, manga, poetry/classical music, where's harry potter glasses, barely 5'6, and band nerd to the fullest but when I joined sports...;D playing the saxophone definitely help though.
@cindyjimenez3258
@cindyjimenez3258 9 лет назад
Dan is physically attractive...but i love Mike's personality! You guys are funny! New fan for life lol
@daisyvision
@daisyvision 7 лет назад
I historically liked* shorter guys, particularly when I was younger. My biggest soul-shattering crush in high school was my height (about 5 feet). I think the preference may have come about because so many people did like tall guys, that it seemed like short guys spent more time developing their personalities to compensate for this superficial height requirement? (*I say liked, only because I'm married now to someone who happened to be tall. But I'd love him no matter what 'package' he came in because he's an incredible person)
@Th33UnsaltedNut
@Th33UnsaltedNut 9 лет назад
okay im an asian guy and i play piano and guitar and most women find that piano is just as attractive as guitar but most likely is due to i play alot of slow relaxing romance music because i just really love relaxing music.. and always compose a song for them on the spot.
@kunikopanda
@kunikopanda 10 лет назад
"Give us a chance." LOL!!!! Ridiculous. She probably said yes because you had a 6 pack. I mean, come on...it took you "2" years! LOL!!! That story made my evening XD
@catalinaacevedo8534
@catalinaacevedo8534 9 лет назад
but i don't like tall guys, my boyfriend is shorter than me by 4 cm lol
@TheChenDynasty
@TheChenDynasty 9 лет назад
Caitlin Glass nice!
@seraphiccandy21
@seraphiccandy21 8 лет назад
+Caitlin Glass well thats not very much to be fair
@joec.743
@joec.743 8 лет назад
+Josh Law lol Tom cruise was like that with Nicole Kidman!
@DanaTippe
@DanaTippe 10 лет назад
This may sound stupid, but how do I download the podcast? :) Can I download it to my phone?
@TheChenDynasty
@TheChenDynasty 10 лет назад
actually we don't know :-( we're trying to get it on iTunes to make it easier for ppl
@jadelightsword
@jadelightsword 9 лет назад
Ok. I hate these friend zone debates. I've ALWAYS thought it's better to date guys (and gals if you're a guy) with whom you were already friends. I would NEVER date guys who just came up to me, because I don't even know them! But I already know, trust and like my friends. When I was in high school watching those Asian dramas, I NEVER understood why the main girl didn't just date the guy who always supported her through her relationship. It's so WEIRD! And now, I'm married to my best friend!
@tazthemua
@tazthemua 10 лет назад
I just discovered this channel and I love it.
@TheChenDynasty
@TheChenDynasty 10 лет назад
Tyanna Derp awesome! Thanks :-)
@arelymejia4384
@arelymejia4384 9 лет назад
omg i love classical music i play piano and i just hear a guy play it my heart starts pumping like crazy haha
@yuweicai9576
@yuweicai9576 9 лет назад
My first RU-vid comment! MIke I'm soooo surprised when you said 高富帅 with such good pronunciation.
@Theveganlaowai
@Theveganlaowai 7 лет назад
Love short guys Love non muscular guys Love Chinese accents 👏🏻 Also guys tend to think they're in the friend zone when that's not always the case. You should always at least try asking, sometimes the girl is too shy or she wants you to be the one to say something. The best relationship I've ever had has come from friendship👍🏻
@Elegair
@Elegair 8 лет назад
I paused the video to say this. Piano is sexy and so is classical music like mozart. Atleast to me it depends on the girls preferences of course But Piano & Violin make a guy look more elegant and classy imo. Also Chinese, Japanese and Korean accents are really hot too. But so are British and Australian accents. When guys are good with pets or kids or are really good cooks it makes them seem so gentle and sweet and again Elegant.
@kittykat2tammi
@kittykat2tammi 8 лет назад
love how they think Mozart isn't attractive, I tell you a guy who plays excellent Mozart got me hooked, I don't wanna be serenaded by loud ass music, soft classics are so romantic!~
@Elegair
@Elegair 8 лет назад
Tammi Aneko Ikr? Ahh! I love a guy who can play classical music, or even a guy who can simply play a piano or violin well. I don't find rock music, rap, or metal or any music like that romantic, its fun to listen to just not... the way to my heart, its not romantic enough. But ooo a guy who can play a mozart piece or beethoven or chopin piece. Just WOW! just *sighs and melts*
@angiefuego
@angiefuego 10 лет назад
Love this video, so funny!! Dan, learn some contemporary pieces, then take the girl out on a date at a bar or some place with a piano, and play impromptu. Girls will be impressed and swooned. You guys should do a parody episode of "Friends", but with Chinese characters.
@2000hicup
@2000hicup 10 лет назад
hahahahahaa yasss dan and mike! you rule😂😄 im in highschool..... and omg NO GUYS find me attrative ... one tiny bit🙈 im a late bloomer aswell.. still growing.. i think. anyway thank YOU for making this awesomr video!! just what i needed to hear !! make more like this
@TheChenDynasty
@TheChenDynasty 10 лет назад
2000hicup thanks for watching :-)
@VampJapgirl231
@VampJapgirl231 10 лет назад
Dan dont dispair about being a pianist... the day i started crushing on my current boyfriend he was playing the piano... when i went over to him he tried to teach me to do a duet with him (which i failed at because i was a little drunk) Also i feel you about the 3D movies... glasses are so not fun when you also have to where 3D glasses...
@scarybatwingsXD
@scarybatwingsXD 8 лет назад
I like men who are either short, or a bit taller than me. Also, I fall for nerds with "nerd" glasses, kinda like how I am.
@dadaist5846
@dadaist5846 7 лет назад
u guys are super funny - keep up the good work - greetz from zürich
@LlamaLordofScience
@LlamaLordofScience 10 лет назад
Well I'm only 4'10" so almost everyone is taller then me. So since I'm already so short I would never date a guy shorter than me. I have to admit I am kind of shallow but that's how most relationships start, with an initial physical attraction. Once the person opens their mouth an starts talking to me thats when I start to pass judgement on whether I want to associate with them.
@emilyhuang56
@emilyhuang56 9 лет назад
Even though I grew up in Canada, I feel like I'm more attracted to the Asian ideals, e.g. classcal music, good in school. And a slight Chinese accent is actually pretty cute.
@homashu
@homashu 9 лет назад
The only things I know about the guy that I currently have the biggest crush on right now is that he is tall, plays the guitar, and dresses well... oh my god this list is so true. The guitar thing I only found out later but the tall part is definitely true for me.
@danielm1729
@danielm1729 10 лет назад
Oh and also, I'm 6'2" and have a British accent, and have largely no success with women (I'm in high school, and it's partly due to apathy). Sadly, the British accent isn't as appreciated in Britain where it's rather common, and I also feel like my height can sometimes seem intimidating because most girls I know are at least 6-8 inches shorter than me, with quite a few over a foot shorter :/
@jimmypham216
@jimmypham216 9 лет назад
Is 5'9 considered tall? Subscribing to this channel BTW :)
@TheChenDynasty
@TheChenDynasty 9 лет назад
Jimmy Pham for me yes! lol thanks!
@haso3616
@haso3616 9 лет назад
Jimmy Pham Around average mate
@icynok
@icynok 9 лет назад
Hasan Ucar no...he is asian. so thats tall for asians...
@uzernam303
@uzernam303 9 лет назад
Jimmy Pham It depends on where you are. Height varies depending on cultures.. so for example 5'9" might make you relatively tall in China.. but you'd be considered short in northern Europe. In the US that'd usually be "average."
@AkinaAdanashi
@AkinaAdanashi 10 лет назад
I actually find guys who can play the piano really attractive... I literally first noticed my first boyfriend because he was playing Liszt :) Really awesome and hilarious episode as usual though!
@sajrobyn
@sajrobyn 9 лет назад
OMG i was dying with laughter!! You guys are sooo funny!!!
@RachelFlyer
@RachelFlyer 9 лет назад
I know no one wants to be "stuck" in the friend zone, but honestly, that's how I got to know my best friend. Who I married. Oh, and the tall guy thing? My hubs is tall, but it wasn't a point in his favor. I married him in spite of it. ;) My eldest daughter married a shorter person, and my youngest probably will as well.
@anniepham4189
@anniepham4189 7 лет назад
Mike: I'll never treat you like that other guy. Give us a chance! Me: *instantly reminded of Shawn Mendes' Treat you Better.*
@ultradeepfieldstars
@ultradeepfieldstars 9 лет назад
Hey Dan! Could you please play us something on piano?? That would be awsome if we could hear what you're like :) i can play the piano a bit and my family loves the pianist Ludavico Einaudi (i'm not sure if that was spelt right) i especially love I Giorni
@honestytoafault
@honestytoafault 8 лет назад
my youngest son was very short until he hit 17. When he was a freshman in high school he had so many girls! He had seniors on the football team, hanging out with him. They were like DUDE, HOW COME YOU HAVE SO MANY CHICKS? He was such an outgoing person that the girls over looked his height.
@teaphee
@teaphee 10 лет назад
I like to categorize 'hot' as a different type of attractiveness-- one that's more superficial. I guess I'm unconventional since I look in my own group of friends for guys or guys that would fit in my group of friends. It gives me a good basis for what common interests and our compatibility would be. Note from a Canadian: Quebecois-French accents can be different from France-French accents, i.e., some Quebecois-French accents don't sound as hot.
@haoranzh
@haoranzh 9 лет назад
i think the scary movie he was talking about is called "July 13th". i thought it was really scary when i saw it as a child. when i saw it again a few years ago, it wasn't that scary anymore. but the story line remains intriguing.
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