8 things I wish I knew in my 20s: being single, questioning everything, timing 

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I want this pain and suffering to be forever in my life because it's in pain and loneliness that I am more close to my self.

Appreciate your wisdom 💜

I totally resonate with this ...kudos to you girl 😊

@@renumartolia1493 thank you 🙏

Same age here and same situation. I have some friends, but we've gone our separate ways and only keep in touch with online messages. Most of them seem to have things "figured out"--or at least have more stability compared to me (partners, good jobs).

@@corylcreates same. It feels like everyone around me has so much going for them. Including my roommates. Good jobs, good friend connections, money to throw at whatever they want. In a way it feels like I've been left behind. But at the same time, I try reminding myself that everyone goes at life at their own pace and I need to stop comparing.

I'm 27 and right there with you and what sucks most is I was SO CLOSE to a happy adventurous life but my ex fucked it all up because of ego and greed. He invested into bitcoin with shared household funds without telling me and lost the secure key for 4 years, then when he found it and regained access in 2021 it was $600k. I found us a house with a renovated basement suite we could rent out and we'd still have enough to pay our student debt. We could have traveled, we could have been really quite carefree. But he reinvested all of it into HEX which is even more volatile than Bitcoin it went up to 2.5 million and he wouldn't / couldn't take it out so now it's basically worth nothing. I let him fill up my credit cards, I'm living with my narcissistic mom, and caretaking for my morbidly obese and schizophrenic aunt. (which is scary and entails me cleaning up a lot of human feces) My student loans have gone to collections, I got diagnosed with autism and ADHD, my kitten got run over, and I have no career. I moved away from all my friends and back home to be near my ex's terminally ill mom ... thinking he'd use some of the money to help her but he was too selfish. I lost everything because I trusted him after nearly 8 years. Now we're in a common-law divorce over whatever scraps he has left. OH, and my eating disorder came back! I guess at least I have nothing else to lose except my physical health. I'm literally planning on marrying for money at this point. My ex's financial abuse set me back so far in life and the Canadian economy is so bad, especially for young people, that my best chance of escaping poverty is my looks. Which is a shitty way to feel, but it's reality. I have been poor my whole life and my degree, like you said, isn't helping me reach the dwindling middle class. I still want to marry for love ... but I don't feel like I can be so relaxed about my partner's financial status anymore. My ex's broke and irresponsible mindset around money ruined my life likely for years to come. I always want to make my own money but at this point, I'm only dating wealthy people (any gender as I'm bi), so that when I do fall in love all the possible people I could fall for are wealthy anyway. It's helping me form connections to start building myself a career too. I talked to a dating and life coach and she was really honest and blunt which I needed. She said you must use what you do have to get ahead in this world and for me, it's my face. I want to adopt one day and if I do raise children it's sure as hell not going to be in poverty!! The cycle ends with me. No matter what. The worst part is patience for me too. I want out of this daily hell and humiliation at having been abused by my ex NOW. Meditation helps but honestly I'm going to try micro-dosing mushrooms. I just want to heal and rebuild and live a life worth waking up for.

Almost 30. Same.

Also same age and situation, the time scarcity anxiety is real and I cry about it a lot :(. Logically I know that I will eventually land the job I want and find romance but as of now I'm working as a freaking nanny, while working every other hour on my career (portfolio) and networking. No partner, working pay check to paycheck. I'm so exhausted of it and I just want to rest.

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Thank u I needed this 🥺

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Thanks for saying that, really needed that.

Exactly the feeling that you've done nothing.

Thanks

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Wow.. you summarised journey of failure so beautifully.. i totally agree with you... Resilience is what you develop after facing failure multiple times... Standing back again after every fall.

same

Thank you for this excellent wisdom. At 47, I completely agree.

sameeee thing for meee✨🌼

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Isn't it quarter life crisis with 25?

@@purilaw. oh yeah! Got ahead of myself haha. Thank you for the correction.

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You're not alone! Im the same. Let's take this day by day and enjoy the twenties that we're in! Let's focus, grind, and relax step by step we're only getting closer!

I definitely resonated with what you'd said.

I myself think healing is supposed to be somewhat of a lonely process. Remind yourself that you trauma has (unfortunately) set you back from other people, while they were able to live and strive, you were probably focusing on surviving. So take it easy on yourself, you’ve been through a lot❤

wow very insightful. i relate to this a alot.

Ok to be 21 again, and I’m only 24. Enjoy it, time flies whether you’re having fun or not when you’re older

@@lexxie225 yeah but the problem is.. i don't have the motivation to do things at home.. i'm too lazy and i dont know why

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I hope you heal and find peace❤

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Thanks for sharing. I feel I went through the same thing. Studied so much and I currently have a high paying job. However, I had to move far from from family for my job so it's kinda lonely. So I wonder if my high paying job is worth the price of living far from family.

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@KemiKnowTravel I'm the same!! I'm gonna give you a follow :)

I can relate to wishing to be in the next stage, not enjoying the present and wishing to go back to the past...

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