8 Unique LGBTQ Dating Problems 

yES PLEASE

Psych2Go Yes! Please do more! I’m bisexual and found this video so interesting, thanks so much for making it😁

Psych2Go Yesss this was great. Sometimes I watch your videos on straight relationship stuff and I wonder if it even applies to 2 guys/girls

Alrighty guys! We will have more videos made!

thank you so much as a lesbian i feel like i'm not alone my thank you from the bottom of my heart.

dont forget the lesbian women who think its gross that bi women had a dick in them before

Dont worry, i feel you. Well all be bi and happy together

I get you, im also bi.

Ugh this is so true.

My friend came out as a lesbian because she was scared people would think she was a bad person if she came out as bi and I never realized that biphobia was a thing till she told me this

syd ! Agree with that - I probably am subconsciously looking for a relationship, mostly with a girl, but most girls are straight or I don't know or can't ask about their sexuality - but otherwise I don't mind being single right now

syd ! but goddamn have I seen some fine gay men before

TOO TRUE THO

When it comes girls, a lot of the hot ones will pretend to like girls to get the attention of some guy. I’ve been burned by girls like that before.

+syd ! That sounds creepy...

Oh I know this one! It sucks!

yesss 😂

I just went right in that direction you presented lol mostly cause she's straight

This is what my problems is

@@yellownotsus7538 same

WickedEmmi HONESTLY! sometimes it feels like you are being played with

HAHAHAGA

Oh no, that hurts sooo much i feel you

Oh my god I feel you. Like I'm trans and bi and when I wasn't out yet I was, well, friends with a girl. And we did exactly this, playfully acting out a marriage and hold hands and stuff but.. she was straight and didn't know I was a guy and hell that was exhausting developing feelings for her

@@Jasmine-vn1no Sometimes we are just being played with. Sometimes the other person is confused but it isn't fair to hurt someone else in the process.

But they are

@@danielfuxcx no they aren't. Casual racism can happen to anyone, fat shaming can happen to anyone, and hook up culture is everywhere.

@@fababababaababababbabalele7958 But they ARE TOO. Wtf.

@@danielfuxcx please explain how casual racism, fat shaming, and hook up culture are exclusively lgbt problems. PLEASE explain.

@@fababababaababababbabalele7958 They ain't exclusive of the lgbt but they are here too. I don't get why you get so pressed about if they are or not.

I'm like, "Do they not know what the B stands for in LGBTQ+????? ಠ_ಠ "

Same for pan

Yeah there's people literally telling them they're not a real thing, like what???

Darth Vader we're in the freaking acronym.

Pieguy 91 -pat pat- it’s okay. I’m pan and we’re almost the same. My friend is bi. And she’s one of the best friends I’ve ever had

or the moment you are dating someone amd they say "i thought you are asexual" 😑 like there's a difference Tiffany

No its not. Its people that are trans or are romantically/sexually attracted to the same sex. If your a cis heteroromantic asexual you arent LGBT

​@@funandcooljokes Maybe not, but you would still be LGBT+... That said, most people mean LGBT+ when they say LGBT, so there's no need to gatekeep cis straight asexuals out, is there?

@@ITR there is a need to gatekeep cause they arent LGBT. Also there is no need for a plus

@@funandcooljokes Why do you not want them as part of LGBT? Straight Asexual people might experience discrimination and problems similar to transgender people or other non-straight people. Why exactly do you not want them as part of the community?

Bts made me straight everytime I lay my eyes on them lol

Zerø : like NO THE FREAK YOU CANT THIS IS MY SEXUALITY AND ITS VAILD

Not gonna be immature not gonna be immature notgonnabeimmature-69 ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

Imagine a gay dude going up to a straight dude and saying that he can turn him gay, they'll be disgusted for sure.

men who say that make me straight, they might not have made a lesbian straight but hey, they got one gay to go straight

Hello random person of the internet! Just wanted to let you know that this made my day! Thank you, and have a good day. ^^

I love how you didn’t say this like, “THIS IS ENTIRELY UNTRUE!! GET SOME FACTS!!” I am a bisexual and I think you are a good person

I'm a lesbian with a bisexual girlfriend and i love her and all my bi friends and family! I've seen so much hate from my sexuality to theirs and it really needs to stop. Everyone who may read this and identifies as bi(or pan, etc), no matter your gender identity, no matter your 'percentage preference', are all valid! And i will continue to be your ally

Phantastic Yeah, as a pan individual, I appreciate you reaching out. xD Lesbians Have... an interesting attitude toward me, most of the time. I’m transmale pansexual, but haven’t made alterations to my body and prefer to dress gender neutral, as I’m not a super macho guy, so. Some women into women have been like, “oh, you’re a pretty girl,” and... explaining “well, back at you, but I’m actually only one of those things” is awkward. Straight guys want me to stay the way I am, and lesbian women seem to feel the same, and gay men / straight women are disappointed because apparently even if I do change my body, not being cismale means I’ll never be masculine enough for them. I’m basically limited to dating other pansexual trans people, with maybe a rare genderqueer bisexual or asexual panromantic woman thrown in there. I will say that lesbians are always more respectful of my gender identity than ... any cismen, though.

I love the entire lgbt+ community

Every boy I sorround myself with becomes gay and I don't even know why

What do you expect ? You have a vagina lol

Chrysobubulle but he has a male brain

@@gae6495 yeah but attraction has a lot to do with genitals

It’s like dating for a non binary person. At some point your partner is probably going to tell you they prefer a more feminine or masculine side of you. She probably saw you as a women and was disappointed. Happened to a few ppl I know

Wth is she alright

@@safiyahauttree9533 🤷🏻‍♀️

@Thefangirl 0110 😂😂

If they say this once again say: -"Then why don't you go and buy a rainbow frappuchino, you will turn into a rainbow."

@Thefangirl 0110 Ahahahahaha you are awesome

Same

Same

I'm female and nobody dates me because 1. I'm average in beauty 2. I'm flat chested 3. I'm masculine 4. My trust issues

Reasons no one likes me: 1: I'm ugly 2: Im ugly 3: oh, and most importantly, im ugly

I like all of you though! I think you’re all amazing!

The idea that most of the world is against them helps them cope. None of them can live with the fact that they need to mold around their surroundings, and not the other way around

@@Devin_Smile oh good lord a anti-gay

@@fairymia4486 More of an "anti-entitled" :) but think what you want. it's your right.

@@Devin_Smile not accusing it just comes off like that

@@fairymia4486 I understand. But I am not an anti-gay. No one has the right to be entitled to acceptance is my point. The world will never work that way, but I do wish it would because all should be treated fairly. I will try to pick my words more carefully in the future.

and Panphobia

You know what? You’re right actually, that’s true

Yeah, I agree, it's a lil' bit difficult for one of us to find someone from the LGBT+ comunity who won't judge it or accept it, but luckily not all of them think like that. Still, there's a lot of work to do, not only about bi people but with all these prejudices we hear day after day. But we can do it ✊😉

I'm sorry, I've heard a lot about the bi discrimination issue and it's really horrible. I'm not bi myself, but I am poly romantic which a lot of people don't believe is real, so I understand what it feels like. I'm here for ya'

Dude same, im ridiculed because "You are pan, why don't you have a girlfriend or a boyfriend??" or "Dude he asked you out! Say yes, you are pan! You can date anyone!" I said no because I didn't like him.

Nuuuuuuu

Luma Eclipse i feel bad cause I’m actually this girl who flirts with my friends and then have to hurt them :(

Luma Eclipse straight guys too, and a lot. Cry

LMAO I FELT THIS

OUCH!! Don't you know that straight girls LOVE FLIRTING?? (- A girl who fell in love with her bestie just after talking Japanese and being very shocked cuz she understood and she ansewred XD, but I feel your pain been there so many times too )

@@CedroEscarlate No, just no, we all know that's women stuff, if you try to do this you "will be gay"

drawing nerd oml XD

R/thathappened

drawing nerd Well hey girls can still say that without being gay 😁 even if You are gay

TRUTH

To be fair, this can also be a nice way to assess whether or not they're into you without being blatantly rejected.

I don't see myself in the community despite being bi, because my person views as a whole combined differs greatly than most in the community. Plus I usually pick men first and I have crushes on men more than women.

nouredits Not to mention in relationships, the other person being wary that we'd supposedly leave them for the other gender. A ton of bi people get rejected because of this irrational fear :/

It's because a ton of people think that bi means that you don't know your sexuality and believe that once you are in a relationship that you have decided. But the truth is that a bi person is always bi. If a bi person leaves a heterosexual relationship, they could still enter a homosexual relationship.

Yeah. That’s a really huge problem that should be addressed

I’m not bi, I consider myself to be panromantic, and I get constant flack from my bf and his parents about the fear I’ll leave him for a girl and I’m like ???

UPDATE: It's been 3 years , I'm pan ! ๑>◡

Me

I’m bi-curious does that count?

@@avycdefg why not 😉 Btw Hi stay! I made an Instrumental of stray kid's sunshine if you wanna check that out 😉

Melancholy Garden OMG SURE I’LL CHECK IT OUT

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Aww this is precious, I'm so happy for you!!! It's great that you're also voicing this story out too, you never know if someone's gonna come across this comment who desperately needed to hear this. Keep going and Love Yourself!!!

Thank you so much for sharing this here, I just want you to know that you are a fighter, you are amazing and I'm very impressed that you came up to a point where you just were focusing on self-love ... Happiness is always found deep inside us, not what social media pretending to be good for us, SO Stay healthy please and if you need ANYTHING I will be happy to hear from you (of course if you want) ENJOY YOUR LIFE AND STAY HAPPY!

I don’t understand transgender, is it just gender stereotyping? It doesn’t matter what body part you were born with, your passions, behavior, and choice of clothing has nothing to do with gender. You can do any of those without changing your gender

@@kerronh2060 no, it is a very, VERY strong feeling of not being the right gender. Some may choose to transition with surgery, or with hormones. And some may just dress up (like you were saying) in clothes typically for another gender. It isn’t not wanting to conform to gender stereotypes (if I sound harsh I do not mean to, reading this makes me sound harsh idk)

Or when you are a useless lesbian and when some girls try to flirt with you you'll think they're just nice to you XDD Yes. This happened to me. But now I'm the happiest person on this planet with my lovely little gf

Almost every lgbtq girl in my school has dated each other at some point. We have a limited selection

I'm dating Tara my friends xgirlfriend. I think my friend still likes her tho she's really clingy towards her and not her own girlfriend.

as a useless bisexual crushing on my lesbian friend I can confirm

nails_onaboard 0215 ooo my straight best friend is named Tarah 😳

Been a year...how’s it going?

@@Equa11ysurl yo

Ah yes the straight crush. The saddest story ever told

I learned that I wasn’t straight when I had a crush on my friends...sorry... my *straight* friend

Relatable affff

@Rhiannon White oh no that hurts :(

@Rhiannon White are you guys still friends?

Which is why I dont have a crush (havent had a crush in 5 years lol, only sometimes liked someone for a few days and moved on)

My first platonic girl crush and first real crush were straight (idk if one of them is actully straight, cause she kissed a girl that is friend of mine). When I finally meet a girl that likes me, my parents find out and forbid me to talk to her.

@@juliavargas13 that's so sad

Hell no, this "gay men like masc men more than fem men" is fucking news to me. Every other man-liking-man I know loves that feminine style

Honestly I love both😍

Well I'm a bi girl and for me it depends. Mostly masc but maybe fem.

I hate dudes that dress up and act like girls... it shows that not beating your Kids is fatal and ruins their lives.

salamisandwich lets play are you being sarcastic or no

ha me

That's an honest mood

People aren't obligated to be attracted to you and you aren't entitled for them to be. You sound like a female incel.

@@RB-dc2mp lol chill it could come from perspectives on how they say it 😂

ouch.

That is such a beautiful privilege wish us men can say the same. At least you can be close to her.

My friend and I (we're both girls) are closer than my other friend and her boyfriend. I'm bi and people ship me with her, but she's straight.

@@bakes887 I feel you ._. It's quite hard to get out of that "super close friends" zone...

Hugin Incorrect. There are cultures, and civilizations, such as the Ancient Greeks, that idolized and almost worshipped gay men. Male affection was pretty common- hence wrestling in the nude during training for/during the Olympics.Could you imagine two male friends wrestling naked together today, lathered in olive oil? Of course not. Is male affection not hardwired in men? Of course not. It’s just not taught or found to be “normal”. Could men later on show physical and emotional affection like women do today? Yes. I don’t know how much you know about society and the effects of nature and nurture, but A LARGE, LARGE number of our societal preferences and normalities are learned. This is a fact. You can research more on this if you like.

"Share food with ur best girlfriend" Bish please, I share my food with Jack. He isnt even my brother. Nor my boyfriend. Try me. Im 10, he's about to be 12.

💀✌ so sad I can relate to this "You'll find the right person" "I dont think your aromatic" "Your prob just confused" "Don't get married before 30" "Don't have kids before you get a stable job" "Its a phase" "I ship you with the person" "I doubt your asexual your too young to know what it is" "You don't act like the stereotypical ace" "Ofcourse you need to get married, thats what normal people do" "Aromatic ppl aren't attracted to the same sex so it isn't LGTBQ+" "Aromatic isn't real" ""I'm not gonna have a partner" that's what all of us said before haha." Lol I remember pretending to have a crush to fit it before I knew what Aromatic was..

@@lalatitania6954 I'm pretty sure Aromatic are the molecules) I think you meant Aromantic)

Yeah i can relate to that

I'm bisexual but this is still frustrating even for me because I have been asked if I was dating a guy that I was talking to a lot. Everyone would see us walking and talking to each other and when we walked past someone, they would ask if we were dating. It wasn't the first time it happened but with him, it was the most frequent.

@@lalatitania6954 yeah, it's so anoying

It still hurts in a city of 15 million people. There is a lot of people that would defend me in a homophobic situation but they'd get attacked too. :/ Conservative people... P.S Conservative isn't just about politics, "Americans" ;)

Life hurts being a gay man in a small town and living with conservative, deeply religious, and homophobic parents that would absolutely hate when I find out I’m gay and dating a man. It’s gonna suck but I don’t care, I still love my boyfriend.

When you literally live in a village.....................am I a part of this?!...idk anymore............ 👁️💧👄💧👁️

Life hurts bring a gay man in an Islamic community. I have to live a double life just to fucking survive

Thank you for remembering the Pan people

Our world is doomed by these problems. Not our side, just the close minded people.

Kim Kardashian Un im gay 😘

+gracie he was talking about Trans Ace Aro Pan Non binary but not gay or lesbians or bi.

TheCatFace Kingdom sis all i said was that im gay

Ikr, my bf is Pan and it is only the two of us, Pan/Bi poly people exist, but that doesn't mean every bi/pan person is poly

I'm bi and I need to get out of the cycle. also, you never realize how hard it is to type when your dog is licking your face until your dog does it.

nothing oof

nothing the only Hook up culture I know is Netherlands and they are known for it. Doesn't mean I don't like it. I think it is pretty interesting how they deal with the topic sex so openly and free. Should be like this everywhere :)

nothing same

Raven Hill as long as it includes safe sex

Not LGBTQ UNIQUE tho

Huh

Having a crush on a homophobe is tragic. I personally haven't experienced that, but I know the feeling

@Kerosin Scott YES. I'm not even part of the community, nor do I necessarily hate it but we do see it in that way.

@Kerosin Scott Seriously its kind of sad at this point, I have a really close friend and she hasn't ever been in a relationship, so she started considering herself bi. Like wtf, you've never liked anybody in your life and now you like both genders. Plus I have another friend who decided to be bi because he couldn't find a girlfriend -_-.

believing in these "sjws" and distancing yourself from the community just because of that can be so harmful, honestly- the whole concept itself feels like it's perpetuating this subtle self-hate that restrains you from being you or acting too "special" or "flamboyant" because you're scared of being one of those "attention-whoring sjws". do yourself a favor and stop giving a shit, it did me a lot of good personally, tbh

Or anyone who lives in europe or canada. Free healthcare ftw!

Or Australia

and the more likely to cheat because we're attracted to everyone and everyone is attracted to us.

There are polyamorous and open relationships. But when you're not searching for in-exclusivity, that can be a problem.

lmao literally

It seems you can only be bi if in a polyamourus relationship with a boy and a girl... then they say that's wrong? People are so weird....

Or you could just tell them that you're not attracted to them and just move on

-Well, I'm bisexual -you serious? so have you ever thought of me... you know...in that way? -hahaha don't worry, dude. I have great taste =)

I mean they ask that because you’re telling them that it’s not that big of a deal god damn

Ruins Charizardsm They meant it's annoying that when coming out, straight people often assume you're into every guy if you're gay, every girl if you're lesbian, everyone if you're bi/pan, and especially into them. I've been through that, and I can tell you, it's pretty annoying when people assume you're into them when you're not - and worse, when your friendship is altered because they still think you secretly want to have sex with them when you explicitely told them otherwise.

Liberty_Belle i would just say "noooo you're more like a brother/sister to me"

NidgeDFX a gay café is an awesome concept tbh, it's for all ages, it's calm, seem good.

Rose 'n' Pink why do gays need a special cafe

NidgeDFX It closing had nothing to due with predjudice, you said that it was an overall shady buisness.

You really think it’s possible to end hate? Good luck with that lol

I wish that straight people and gay people can just be lumped together. It doesn't have to be called a "gay" bar, it can just be called a bar. It doesn't have to be called "gay" marriage, it can just be called marriage. Equally treated with straight people, a gay person can be with another gay person, and it doesn't have to be such a big deal. Straight couples can go to a gay cafe, no problem. Gay couples can go to a straight cafe, no problem on that either. It's really sad that we still have to hide.

Oop

Me, pansexual: Hello, Hello? I'm not where I'm supposed to be.

Same!!!! :D

@hayhay055 Ah the character I am, my user and pfp, happens to be aromantic and asexual too. The anime is called "The Disastrous Life of Saiki K"

Here for you, pal.

Yeah, it tends to bother me alot, then would ALOT of questions to someone that love most. :(

I don’t really love anyone straight... but I’ve had massive cruses on them

Or falling for someone that’s gay

ka thy Yes ;-;

Yep...that hurts BAD.

Vika Blaire Really though? If Christians yelling at you is your greatest problem, you’re living pretty high.

Just wait till you see Muslims.

@@grayblackhelm9761 This is the point generalised. Just think about it in more detail briefly. For starters, you could think about how one of the biggest problems would be family. Being raised in a religious family would not be easy when the religion in question condemns these type of people, which is them exemplified by a strong believing religious family who you wouldn't know whether or not they'd reject you. Another scenario is: What about personal beliefs? Say you've been raised in a particular religion and have come to wholeheartedly agree with it and follow it as you would. Then, all of a sudden, you get these feelings/urges growing up. This ends up causing conflict between the belief in your religion and who you are. Since most people 'find' themselves whilst growing up (around teenage years), it creates even more stress as theres the issue with changing personality, self discovery, hormones, etc. You'd feel like you're left with two decisions: 1) Restrain yourself but as a result live unhappy hiding who you are. 2) Embrace who you are but break the rules of your religion, for which you have so much faith in. Vika already said some detail about another scenario but yeah, just think about it in more detail. Saying a short point which *seems* not all that bad will make you think it's not a problem, when in reality it runs much deeper and is more difficult.

Joseph Mateo I was a Pagan raised in a Catholic home. I had an inherent belief in magic and the Fey, so- naturally- I was abused. Neglected. My father thought it more pertinent to “Kill the thing” than to actually raise me. People don’t change. Not in essence or personality. They evolve, yes- they grow more subtle or predatory- but they will never “change”.

Im a bi muslim.. and let me tell you if there's any chance you come out in a muslim country you might get disowned by your own family and made fun of and bullied by everyone on daily basis... sooo

Ikr QwQ

If you are a trans woman, yes they fetishize you. I am gay and even I don't understand males sometimes.

@@greategg7159 trans men face fetishization too

@@OatmealTheCrazy yep. i've had a few people say i'm "cute" or even "girly" when i told them i'm trans. it sucks.

Don't forget that Ace are discriminated against and has struggles yet some people THAT ARE LGBTQ+ think we are not part of the community. or were just forgotten. My entire school didn't know what Ace was until i told them... OH, and people making jokes about 'HUEH HUEH SO YOU CLONE YOURSELF?'

@Marcell The Shell Speedbuilds that's sad, sorry. Have you told your dad yet?

@Marcell The Shell Speedbuilds oh! Well happy birthday in 3 days! Anyway, I was also kinda confused at what I was first, too. That's totally normal for most people, don't worry too much.

@Marcell The Shell Speedbuilds no problem :3

Thanks for including the pan thing. I'm constantly told I'm just bi, or that I don't deserve to be valid.

More lgbt+ videos should be like this.

agreed

I'm not a gay hater I actually had sex with a gay guy

Do you always need the "not every straight" tho?

I have yet to see ostracization of the straights on RU-vid ( unless for sarcastic and ironic purposes , such as referring to straight people as " the straights " ) but glad to see you liked this one :3 another really good RU-vid channel talking about lgbtq+ relationships and subjects would probably be Ash Hardell if you liked this video's vibe :3

don't go to pride parades please, spare yourself. the pride parades are a joke and not a good representation of our community (i am bi too btw)

Ramen Sense FELLOW BISEXUAL! I’m glad you got to realize your sexuality at such a young age. That’s gotta be an interesting experience.

that's amazing that your mom is so open and supports you! I'm so happy for you!

THAT IS SO CUTE!

Lo Gang lmao who hurt you?

Correct af

Guys tend to be more fetishized than shamed tho

for the girls thing, society only thinks it's cute because most of them think that the girls are roommates or really really good friends lol. Also if I dated a girl most of the people in the state I live in would not thing it's cute at all... (I'm a girl btw) so not true for all girl couples. (Also lots of people I live around would actually thing that a guy and another guy dating is cuter that two girls dating). So I guess the point of this reply is to just say, I wish I lived around the people your around in society, (of course only if they realized that a guy couple is just as cute as a girl couple)

Or society be like: * *two guys dating* * society: ewww,wtf go kys * *two girl dating* * society: owo,so hot,3some lesbians often get fetishized and gay men get hated on:'(

M.T.D. You shouldn’t have to give up, maybe just not listen to your mom?

Emily House I had the same issue. Just stick to your guns and continue on your path. If she loves you she’ll accept it. When my mom _finally_ realized that it wasn’t a phase or curiosity I was so relieved and happy. Have faith in her if she really loves you.

Its Muffin Time Thank you for this, I appreciate it😊 I plan to do so, and be myself 100%.

I can relate. I came out to my mom recently as bi and she just thought I was exploring and gave a bunch of dumb arguments as to why.

Mr_ me I’m sorry to hear that:( I hope she can one day acknowledge you and understand you💕

so happy for you!!!!!

Did you tell them?

I’m not dating but my future girlfriend will be bi because we just decided to wait a little bit before we date

Updates?

@Vebunkd pan means someone who is attracted to everyone reguardless of gender

I’m sorry that happened :( I’m not ace but I have a friend who recently came out to me as ace, neither me or her have dated yet so I can’t imagine how bad that feels but I hope it’s gotten better in the last 8 months

Eeeeeeeeee That sucks

i'm sorry it happened to you... no offense, i'm kinda confused myself about this topic, but i think it's more fair and right to date other aces if you're an ace (especially now, when the apps allow finding the others). sex is an important physical and emotional part of life of so many people, i guess, and they can't just get rid of the expectations of their relationship because you came out as an asexual to them... it's a pain for everyone if you're just "not a match" in this regard. i'd be interested what others think to that.

I'm so sorry that happened to you, that sucks so bad- Though luckily as an aroace I can't really relate

haha same, whenever they found out that I was bi (I hadn't come out to them yet) they flipped out and bought me a bible. they didn't disown me though, which shows that there's a bit of hope. :,D

Why would you want them to accept you? You have to accept you. That way, if they don't accept you, you don't have to force them to. Idk if this comes off the wrong way, but sometimes, you just gotta be the one to have your own back. Who cares if your parents don't accept you? You can't force them to, just accept what they contributed in shaping the person you became and just live on.

Dylan Wolfie thanks..that gave me a little hope

Angad Seeagra No prob dude. My situation is pretty easy to get off from tbh. I'm not the kind of guy that is too touchy or even attached to his family that much. Call it apathy, but I just don't mention it to my mom because she doesn't really need to know. And you parents probably don't need to know either, ya know?

Dylan Wolfie but i live in India,so u know.....

a p a t h e t i c Made even better because she changed it from the correct spelling to the wrong one

Iniria Kampf LMAO

a p a t h e t i c my favorite part is where she corrected the Aisian Men part but then she wrote South Asian Men

This shows you how much they care about their chaotic politics insthead of ACTUALLY informing people and putting care into their work... cmon Aisian??? AISIAN !?

When they fixed it but kept it there lol

Aeiasieyuyion men

You was dying, because of someone being straight? What is wrong with you, young teen?

@@hurtfameprussian1097 Bruh

@@hurtfameprussian1097 lmao. It was there crush, of course it was going to hurt. I once liked someone for 3+ years. We where childhood friends, i asked them if i could date them and she said "Sorry, i only date boys" and then purposely ignored me. She started to back away and act weird around me, even if i was doing nothing.. it kinda still hurts speaking that she was really my only friend i knew irl that was always there for me

@@SandyKayD You creeped her out. What do you expect?

Yes! People just presume your sexuality based on seemingly nothing. I've even had a fellow LGBT member presuming I was straight(they literally said 'I presume you're straight') I get why hetronormativity(?) is a thing, but it's kinda frustrating.

Mint Mochi I’m pansexual since I haven’t dated a boy in a while. My friend thought I was polysexual. So I had to explain

Haha, I get that 99.9% of the time. People always assume I'm lesbian. I'm not even in the LGBTQ+ community unless I ever figure out if I'm heterosexual or asexual.

Speaking Jacksonese OOF

@@ashtonhopkins7362 Oof indeed. xD

Either because trolling, the way it was presented, ignorance, or thinking that this was cashing in

• Roots • Finally someone said it!

• Roots • Trueeee!!!

How are these not deemed problems? Hook up culture, dating in the closet, racism ? Seems like legit issues

There's no need to insult people for not liking the video. People all have different problems, and if they didn't relate to this video that doesn't mean that they are being idiots.

Aww that's so cute. Hopefully that would happen to me too.😂😂😂

Not a dating problem

TheCatFace Kingdom but he's right. That pathetic

​@@thecatface8255 It is a dating problem, a big one at that. As an openly gay man, I've dated quite a few men who eventually decide to stay closeted and even lead double lives by marrying straight women and cheating on them with men.

@@mimimarcus Maybe its not homophobia? Honestly things like interlaized homophobia and more internalized shit is the biggest BS to ever exist. Maybe those people are BISEXUAL not homosexuals and they are unfaithful and cheat? Maybe its as simple as that? But internalized homophobia MOSTLY gets used against people who magically stop agreeing with LGBTQ+ Community

I used to be like that always told myself "I think women are cute but I will never marry or date a women" it took me years to realise that dating and marrying girls is okay.

Glad you like it! Yeah, we do a lot of white board speed drawings! But we're working on it!

Liked to see the old mixed this the new flowing animation

mgmn wait what are you doing here? owo

Living Flower I'm everywhere >:)

mgmn just curious, why you're here? U gay? KappaPride

Aw my dude, don't worry. You will find love. :)

I am gay and i think it isn't about genitals it is about brain and personality.

T_T

Sorry no, this is just giving people more of an excuse to shame someone that doesn’t date them because they don’t fit into the other persons preferences. Some people will be attracted to you and some won’t, some will want just sex, some want to date. Most of these are not just LGBT issues. Be honest in who you are and what you’re lookin’ for and you will encounter less hang ups.

TrueMenAreIslands 🤔😏

Yeah, totally! I can personally relate to most of the problems listed in the video and I really appreciate the inclusivity of this channel. There's no hesitation or awkwardness to their LGBTQ+ vids and it's really nice. Love the positivity!

@@Raynnie I think you've found a conservative 9 w 9

Lol thats a pretty gay comment

*cough* made up shit *cough*

@@MrSergayfgtxd That's not made up. Aromantic means you don't experience any romantic attraction to people and asexuality means you don't experience any sexual attraction to anyone. Aromantic and asexual people don't experience any attraction (By that i mean they don't experience any romantic and sexual attraction) to people.

OMG FINALLY!....but I am a asexual cupioromantic. close enough 😂

biromantic asexual here!! fully understand u!!

Cool but you guys arent LGBT

happy for you :)

Bro tf, just because you're bisexual doesn't mean you can date 2 ppl wtf

But overall this was a very informative and considerate video!

+Afonso Martins Yeah... that is not a real disorder. I mean, Autism IS a real disorder... Gender Disphoria is not.

Under the umbrella of transphobia, genderfluid people are told to pick a gender or that their gender isn’t real.

Afonso Martins - actually - back when parents used to send children in to have lobotomies if they suspected the child was gay or effeminate - in which a doctor would shove a hot poker violently into the skull of a child through their eye , mess up their brain permanently , and let them loose into a house and world that would still fear them forever - they DID diagnose people with something called Gender Disphoria . Well done ! Unfortunately , that diagnosis has been referred to as " incredibly harmful " by " qualified psychologists and doctors " in the modern era , as the people diagnosed with it - aren't actually suffering from anything . When people try to " cure " it , it usually involves teaching a child to hate themselves and become afraid of existing as a person . Often , the victims will spiral into depression among other wonderful things I'm sure you'd love for me to describe in detail . so as a bit of an expert on the matter - leave us alone u w o

Kerosin - it is almost by definition transphobic to cut anyone out because you don't understand them , genderfluid people included . That's the whole reason we're alienated in the first place : by being someone who someone else doesn't understand . We're in this together - period . Genderfluidity is caused by shifts in brain activity which in other individuals are often set in stone . It is just as valid as whatever gender you , I , or anyone else you know is feeling right now . Also , although I'm not genderfluid , I am nonbinary - and I happen to actually be a big fan of the democratic process . And because you dragged it out - I now have to mention : how we were born doesn't change what either of us say . :P

This is too true-

isnt this for anyone who isnt aromantic too? im gay and a gay boy had a crush on me and i didnt want to hurt him either bc i wasnt attracted to him

And asexual. Asexuals need to be more accepted. Pan-romantic Asexual ♠️

Dw. As a gay guy bi men are way better.

Surgery. And move to america

TIMOTHY YOUNG You know that stereotype of ‘guys ask first’, I’m pretty sure it’s something like that

Andrea The Loser this is litterlay me and my crush and what's even funnier is that we just hug each other like where friends but in the middle of the hug we just look at each other like I like u alot!!!!!!

BlueLemon THANK YOU lesbians always get portrayed terribly in the media as abusive or predatory, finally some facts

Here's some statistical data from the CDC and UCLA Law along with LGBT groups promoting awareness of LBGT DV issues. This is not old outdated homophobic whatever the hell you're selling. This is from 2014. Why don't you care about this issue. Nobody should be committing DV acts against their partner regardless of their orientation. mainweb-v.musc.edu/vawprevention/lesbianrx/factsheet.shtml www.advocate.com/crime/2014/09/04/2-studies-prove-domestic-violence-lgbt-issue www.cdc.gov/media/releases/2013/p0125_NISVS.html williamsinstitute.law.ucla.edu/wp-content/uploads/Intimate-Partner-Violence-and-Sexual-Abuse-among-LGBT-People.pdf The CDC’s 2010 National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey, released again in 2013 with new analysis, reports in its first-ever study focusing on victimization by sexual orientation that the lifetime prevalence of rape, physical violence, or stalking by an intimate partner was 43.8 percent for lesbians, 61.1 percent for bisexual women, and 35 percent for heterosexual women, while it was 26 percent for gay men, 37.3 percent for bisexual men, and 29 percent for heterosexual men (this study did not include gender identity or expression). Intimate Partner Violence and Sexual Abuse among LGBT People 3 Table I. Prevalence of Lifetime Intimate Partner Violence and Intimate Partner Sexual Lifetime intimate partner violence table on page 3 of the PDF states that lesbians experience 40% lifetime intimate partner violence It's right there on the 3rd page of that report. I'd be more polite but, with all due respect, pull your head out of your ass. It's annoying to me that people that are supposedly pro LBGTIA ignore any problematic data that doesnt fit their perspective. Meanwhile real people suffer at their peril. Stuff like this makes me believe you are willfully ignorant rather than just plain uninformed.

NBGAF then you were lying, lesbians arent the most likely to be in an abusive relationship, so you're still wrong, by your own sources :T

Nirim Does Stuff literally same except around my family

Nirim Does Stuff DiSgUsTaNg

Nirim Does Stuff The first thing everyone knows about you is your sexual orientation?

Carlos S. *y e s*

omg yes 😂❤️

Samee

So don't.

Smh...

It’s been 8 months. I hope you came out and live a happy life with your girl

@@atomicactivity2379 Its not that easy.

You're welcome!

Princess Pentagram not me I knew dis

Sato el Gato This broke my heart reading it I've dated trans people before I hate the prejudice they face it's disgusting but I wish you all the best with your journey and hope you find someone who loves you for the amazing person you are ❤️

Kyrlics Forgive my ignorance then but I only very recently came out and I'm new to this and the dating scene as a whole

Sato el Gato You are more than welcome I feel your pain been single going on four years now I gave up hope long ago I wish I could have a cat where I live but sadly can't yet but if you ever want someone to talk to about anything my email is in my channel description

THIS! I've yet to find another asexual person where I live. It's almost impossible.

Allen Sickle omg yes, where i live its hardly possible too

Then have sex like everyone on planet

Corvo's Ignorant Videos That's not how asexuality works. But anyway, I feel you! Everyone wants sex and I'm just like?? ? I like dragons???

Feline Leijon you are just being a snowflake

Yes,sadly true

Okay 1st one Stay away from that guy And 2nd one That was a dumb play my dude

Same people use gay as an insult and i want to crush their eyes

going to hell for being gay is, how i see it, just a made up thing by some homophobe/transphobe/whateverphobe in reality, Galatians 3:28 is saying how everyone is equal to jesus no matter who you are

In my school they literally banned the word gay (when used as an insult).

There is no P+

Holy shit..... I can't think of something completely stupid to say about that. Help.

Stop pointing out people, they might eat your fingernails

@@fefelio8389 oh nooo

SparkyStarLPS You mean 4:22

It doesn’t matter

Of course. It's a sexuality after all. They suffer some similar problems.

Yeah a lot of these are also problems in heterosexual couples but some are exclusive to the LBGTQ+ community, and some are just more prevalent in that community.

Well yeah but heterosexuals are supposedly the majority so this video is putting the lgbt+ community at the centre which rarely happens (it is getting better but still rare)

yes but they aren't as bad as in lgbt couples

Yes, of course. Many of the problems can be universally true for all relationships. But we wanted this to be the context of LGBTQ

It comes to how much faith you have in your family. Since I don't know them I can't really say, but I will assume they are nice. If they are, then I don't think it would be much of a problem. The only thing that could happen is it being awkward while they figure out how to act.After that I could come back to normal or something better may even happen. I haven't yet been in a relationship and can't understand what you are feeling right now or ever be able to, but I would just try and see. From my experience from other situations, things could go worse for a bit and then come back better than ever before. This may take time, however, but it always sometime does and you would be able to go trough it.

Space Dragon , what's the big deal if your family already knows him and likes her anyway

Jesorei , hint to them and ask how they feel if you dated somebody that they already knew

How did it go? Did you end up dating? Are you still together?

Merp that's cause, as a trans bi dude, I can confirm those aren't real. Science proofs there's only 2 genders illimentating pan, and demi is just being choosy, and asexual is a hormone imbalance, it is not normal to not feel sexual attraction and those people need to see a doctor, or realize that they don't feel attraction yet because they are 12

axel m First of all, you can't confirm anything if you have not experienced it. Saying you're a trans bi dude literally confirms nothing. You are not asexual or demisexual and have probably never spoken to anyone that is about it. I'm a demi lesbian so allow me, someone that is demisexual, to explain. Aexuality, demisexuality, and so on are very real. You can tell because there are asexual and demisexual people. It is completely normal for someone to not feel sexual attraction, because a lot of people are asexual. Not all humans and animals feel the need to have sex. Being attracted to someone, being able to feel sexual pleasure, and wanting to have sex are three very different things. Sexual attraction is a scale. Asexuals just happen to be on the low end of it. You should understand that not everyone has the exact same way of balancing hormones. Maybe you should do more research besides biased aphobic science articles. Maybe talk to an actual asexual adult, there's quite a few of them. As a demisexual person, I can confirm that I am actually unable to feel attraction to people unless I feel close to them. Seriously. I've only felt attracted to my close friends and no one else. You're literally proving my point.

ArmpitSchmarmpit Well, they were just examples. Considering I am a lesbian, I don't have anything against them lol I mean not wanting to date them because "they won't pick a side" or "they don't want to date someone that's touched a guy" or whatever other stupid reason. And I meant in general people only wanting to date people of the same sexuality... And stereotyping them like "the gay best friend" or "you know fashion because you're gay", etc

Jack Willow I know, I don't have anything against that, I just mean for stupid reasons besides "I only want to date other gay guys". Like "I don't want to date bi guys because bi people are just bi for attention" or whatever... Jesus Christ why are people assuming I'm a bitch because of one thing that everyone's interpreting wrong

BlueLemon I wasn't ignoring it. I just used it as an example. I have nothing against people only wanting to date the same sexuality. But, I do if they refuse to date people of different sexualities, which I already said. God, maybe I should just delete my comment. People keep assuming things about me that are obviously wrong.

i am a cupioromantic but sameeeee

@@liltomboy2593 oh god theres more sexuality i can even. HOW IS THERE MORE. If hear anymore im gonna quit sexuality

@@enitsu393 I would have forgotten this comment existed lol if you hadn't replied. So update: I'm grey-aromantic, btw. A friend of mine is akoiromantic.

@@enitsu393 uhm-

Abby Cosgrove I am only wondering, ofcoure this might be frlm person to person, if as an asexual person you would kiss or not. Sorry if I am being personal :(

While I agree that it does vary person to person on how far they want to take the sensual/physical part of the relationship, being sex-positive, sex-neutral, or sex-repulsed is something that can be an occurrence in any sexuality (albeit its more prominently found within the Asexual Community since it is more accepted there than in the Allosexual Communities for numerous reasons). My biological mother is heterosexual and is massively sex-repulsed while I myself am asexual and sex-neutral.

You deserve to be invalidated if you choose to identify as a fake sexuality

@@sekiomoon2454 no there isn't

@@lemonlime9683 Yes there is, bi people can like 2 or more genders, Pan people don't really care about gender. Pan people are valid

@@bonthebunnycat667 I'm bi and I don't care about gender. Pan was literally just created because people were annoyed about how more and more people were bi so they made up pan.

@@lemonlime9683 Some people feel more comfortable with Pan because they don't care about gender, why don't let them vibe with that label?

I don't think it applies to whether you'd date a specific individual, but the fact that you think that absolutely *no one* in that entire group could possibly be attractive enough to you for a relationship to work. I mean, if you think the most conventionally attractive, nice person who's, let's say, black is still not as attractive as an ugly person of your preferred skin color, that's a bit worrying. I guess it all boils down to what is causing a person to have that preference.

Vite Seul that's reasonable. But I don't date black people, it's not like I will NEVER date one. It's just that i'm not that attracted to them. Black people have different features than white people, even hair and bodies. Just because I don't find them attractive does not mean I am racist.

Vite Seul Also there can be things that cause preference other than racism and transphobia. Each have their own reasons, and not all of them are bad things. This whole debate is biased as hell, no one would complain if a black person refused to date a white person and it happens more than the opposite. No one would complain if a trans person refused to date a cis person.

Yasmine H Aesthetic preferences are fine! They're normal, and not really racist. Fetishization isn't just liking or not liking a race, though. It's saying that dating a race is better because members of that race are better at sex, have larger genitals, are submissive, are fiesty... Racial fetishization is like thinking that Asian women are more submissive than other races. (This is an actual real life example that some people believe in) This has led to several rape cases where the perpetrator said they chose Asian women specifically because he thought they were submissive and would take it, and not report it. Basically, preferences in dating based on how a race looks is fine. Preferences based on sexual stereotyping is not. (That's what fetishization is)

Yasmine H That's fine. The way i see It, it's fine if you don't find people with ginger hair attractive for example, or brown eyes. So why would it matter the colour of their slin

Madison H I understand completely, even though my ex gf and I are no longer together. I’m very sorry about all of that with her parents, I know just how hard it can be

Tell her the fact, that girls fart by two sides, and they're worse than yours, ewww!... Then you should tell her the different body structures, features, like the genitals, and why you prefer yours! If they still dislike you, tell them you won't reproduce, and if they are young enough, to get a desired child!

espero que as coisas melhorem pra vc, ou que já tenham melhorado :3